RETIRING MY HORSE AT 9 YEARS OLD | HACKETT EQUINE VLOG

[@alymcgaw2758]

You have listened to your horse and done the right thing for her and yourself. A true horsewoman xxxxx

[@hackettequine2059]

Thanks Alyson for your kind comment xxx

[@Rebelgirl-kv6bd]

I agree with this comment, you definitely made the correct decision!! Good for you for listening to your horse and taking some action.

[@jillym5430]

Any old fool can ride a horse, brush one and say they are a horsemen. You did what hundreds of people haven’t. You put your horse first and looked at the best interest of her. That takes more to do then anything and you did the right thing, you should be proud

[@lynnemorris7516]

She is lucky she has you as her owner, a lot of people would have sold her on. You on the other hand will give her a good and productive life, well done, and don't beat yourself so much!!!

[@hackettequine2059]

Lynne Morris thanks Lynne, yes I couldn’t sell her that wouldn’t be fair on her. Xx

[@emilylipsitz]

@@hackettequine2059 how many horses do you own?

[@Lexi-hk3iv]

Lynne Morris most people couldn’t afford to retire a horse and get another one for riding . She probably own the stables so it’s easier to retire a horse. 9 is very young to retire she would be batter of putting her a sleep because of the Heath complications she risks lamintis and colic

[@hackettequine2059]

Aoife S I don’t ownyhe stables I rent. And she will become a brood mare.

[@lynnemorris7516]

@@Lexi-hk3iv This young lady has worked hard for what she has, or what she hasn't got. Instead of being critical focus on not being so jealous.

[@Unfancy_]

Maybe there is a restart after her timeout. Some horses benefit from just being in the pasture relaxing. Fingers crossed for your journey, no matter which way you go.

[@CowgirlGoneJumper]

Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach exactly and maybe look at different disciplines! Doing different stuff constantly especially ponies I’ve found (own one) they love different stimulation

[@watchgoose]

absolutely - turnout for a few weeks might help immensely.

[@candiceschultz8317]

I don't know what kind of comments you thought you were going to get. What you did is incredible, you listened to your horse and put her first. That's amazing period.

[@Tadpole0110]

Have I missed some vlogs? That foal is huge! I want to hug you and hit you at the same time. Retiring Kenco is not a failure. You are meeting her needs, even if they don't line up with your plans for her. She looks happy on the field, coming right up to you to get some lovin'. Don't be so hard on yourself and don't listen to any trolls.

[@the_angry_angora963]

Completely agree ❤️. She knows her horse, and doing it for the horse's sake

[@gudetamababygirl]

I feel like the retirement of Kenco has given you such relief and sooo many more opportunities. You said you wanted a breakthrough and I feel like this is it. Everything happens for a reason. You never know what will come from this! You got this. 💖

[@ncoppens]

Choosing what's best for your horse (and yourself) is never a failure.

[@watchgoose]

intra-articular injections of steroids, ONCE, can reduce inflammation. Repeatedly, they weaken the attachments of the tendons and ligaments to the bones and that's when you see horses joints exploding on the racetrack. As an equine PT, I always look at the supporting musculature above the offending joint, all the way back to the spine.

[@Velcro1997]

I had to retire my boy at age 8/9 as well. He remained with me until the end. I also have my other two retired boys, ages 21 and 22. Each of them earned their retirement and will be with me until the very end. After all they do for us, the least we can do is give them the retirement they deserve.

[@rawfedk9]

You have shown us all what a really caring, responsible and truly lovely person you are. Anyone who puts hate out on you needs to look hard at themselves. Your horses are just so lucky to have you. Xx

[@harrietniven9195]

I think it's mad that we live in a world where we are worried about being hated on for doing what we believe to be best for our animals. You know your horse best! I'm sure Kenco is going to be the best Mum - how exciting for you both! :)

[@billiecrew5238]

A main reason I started watching you is that we can tell how much you love and care for your horses. And the fact that you put her first proves that x

[@sorchakirby8904]

This is not admitting defeat or failure....It's being selfless, you're putting her happiness first and that is success in my eyes! Doing the right thing for her rather then trying to peruse something that is just not working just because you want to is so amzing and something we need to see more often! Enjoy spending time with her doing the stuff she likes and it will be much more rewarding for both of you! Supporting you all the way xoxo

[@Nina-md3tm]

I've subscribed because of your decision. Big big big respect to you. Not a failure..a massive example of compassion.

[@marielamenchaca4090]

I’m so glad you are putting your horse first no matter how much you’ll miss riding him. Hopefully he will benefit from just some time in the pasture. You are a true horse lover. No matter what people say you still do what’s right for your horse and I applaud you for that.

[@emilyhope7468]

I’ve just started watching your vlogs. You seem like a very level headed young lady who has a lot of responsibility. You also did what I wish I would have at your age and that is listen to your intuition (or gut). You listened to your horse and are doing right by her. She’s very lucky to have you. Thanks for sharing.

[@TheSeamstress1]

I think you've made the very best decision Miri. You did everything you could but there was something not right with Kenco. When you said you would foal her instead it made me so happy and excited! I also noticed you look so much happier in this video like you've had a weight lifted from your shoulders. I'm so excited to see the future with all of your horses and foals to come. I think you're excellent at what you do! Good luck Miri!

[@carinrobinson7602]

I just wanted to say thank you for this video. I made the choice to retire my horse when he was only 11. He has mild early onset osteoarthritis and we could have kept him going with medication but the fact is, he hates being ridden. In 7 years with him I have never been able to get him to be a truly relaxed ride. He’s always so stressy and near the end he started bucking too. Neither of us enjoyed it. So now he is going to be turned out to retire and play uncle to my young ones.

[@CatDog612]

There's a lot of people below that have given you advice, told you to wait a few weeks, try different disciplines, etc - and knowing you, you've already done all that you can for her. You don't strike me as the type of person to give up - ever. So to come to this conclusion I know you've exhausted every option. I just want to thank you for sharing this with us. It is important to share the ups and the downs of being a horse trainer. Being a horse trainer, we train horses. We don't do magic. There WILL sometimes be a horse in your career that just does not want to be trained. She is good natured, and beautiful, and you are so lucky she is a mare, because you can still use her as an important part of your brand and business, and to carry on the legacy that is "Hackett Equine". Thank you.

[@KimParkerAdcock]

I retired my mare at six, (issues from birth), and have just retired my gelding at ten, (sidebone all four missed at vetting). They're both living in a retirement herd and enjoying being horses. No more pain. You have absolutely done the right thing! X

[@horses2850]

She is very lucky to have you as a mummy! So lovely to see someone doing what’s best for their horse rather than what’s best for them- very lucky pony who so obviously has a very intelligent and caring owner 💕

[@elizabethhamill5167]

Not many people listen to their horses. Good for you and a godsend for Kenko. Kenko is a lovely mare and will likely be a wonderful mother. All the best for a lovely foal.

[@away_withthefairies]

It’s refreshing to see a horse person actually listening to what their horse is telling them and not just forcing them and making the problem worse. Well done, not a hard decision but definitely the right one xxx

[@jaykneegarner2479]

I won’t pretend to know your or your horses story as I have only just come across your channel. Your story mirrors exactly that of a horse I briefly boarded for a friend. Very nice flashy 4 year old paint. Started under saddle properly after a not so great start in life! His groundwork was and still is impeccable. He is friendly and wants to try to please on the ground! Under saddle however he just never was quite right! He would go from super quiet to bucking with no warning. His owner tried to have him scoped. Turd wouldn’t swallow the scope but based on symptoms went ahead and treated for gastric ulcers. Within a couple of days he looked visibly more relaxed. Did his treatments. But still the unhappiness under saddle! And unpredictable behavior started again! He actually ripped a post out of the ground at one point! Just blew up, no rhyme or reason. Owner gave him away to a rescue with full disclosure of the health issue. They adopted him out to a woman who’s vet was able to scope him! From what I was told he had ulcers everywhere! All through his digestive track causing the reactivity. On the ground he was fine but being ridden caused him discomfort. He’s 4 coming 5 and is either going to be a pasture pet or will be PTS. I would suspect that your mare may be similar to this gelding. Your absolutely doing right by your mare. Heck I have a 12-13 year old who is semi retired and currently on stall rest as her legs heal from a nasty accident! I don’t ride her often as she has navicular in her Rt front ( crappy training related) but she is my go to when it comes to ground work demos! She can show what a true partnership can look like! She’s happy to do that work! Let’s just hope her legs heal soon and hopefully with minimal scaring!

[@shaylakitgiles1710]

I think you are doing the right thing with Kenco. I retired my horse at 8 because she couldn't take the pressure of being ridden, she is so much more relaxed and happy now.

[@coraliesentch4515]

It’s an amazing thing you are doing food Kengko...it’s a huge sacrifice to make to keep and retire her for her own happiness !! You deserve only praise and credit for that, anyone with horses knows these decisions are far from easy, but they have to be made sometimes. The absolute best of luck on your search for your new unicorns...they will be very lucky to have you 😊🥰😍😘

[@wervelnando4290]

Respect for you! You are listening to your horse and that is the most important thing to do! She is lucky to have such an amazing and caring owner

[@smurfmonster]

Just watched this video and I really feel for you! Your horses are OBVIOUSLY your first priority, and retiring a horse so young with no obvious physical problem has to be extremely difficult for you mentally to process. As for kenko she’s happy as a pig in 💩 because of the decision you’ve made, please take comfort in this. You know her and it sounds like you’ve made the right decision for HER. Some people would sell her on and she’d go through the hell of endless dealers and people that tried to “fix” her, you’ve saved her that torture! Well done for doing the right thing, thank you, and Kenko will show you her thanks in her own way xx

[@andystpierre6086]

This is the video I needed in my life. I have owned my mare for almost 8 years (7yeard and 51weeks to be exact). And I had the same though process with Dydy this year. She’s not happy being a rinding horse and I put so much effort and money in the hoping that she would be a good horse someday, but I admitted defeat too in the beginning of the year. So thank you for allowing me to see that I’m not the only one living this. I may live across the big pond but it helps knowing that I am not alone.

[@joistevens6463]

I had a Morgan mare that just was not a riding horse. Never have I experienced such a thing, it broke my heart because on the ground she loved me, but it did not transfer under saddle. I totally get it. I’m glad you said this because I felt totally alone!

[@katelittlejohn2647]

Aww little Didi isn’t so little anymore 🤩Honestly I completely understand your reasons. I’m sure she will make a lovely mum if everything goes to plan. Besides there is o point in doing something that makes you feel anxious or worried and there is only so far you can push yourself. She is so blessed to have you and you have tried your heart out for her. One of the most inspirational people out there 🙌🏻❤️

[@Sparkylizzie]

Such a kind and selfless act to make the decision to retire Kenco. Now you can just enjoy eachothers company without the stress. She's so lovely and lucky to have you. To hold your hands up and say enough is enough must have been hard but I'm sure it will lead to wonderful things for you both.

[@lucasa1849]

She is one of the special ones that teach you the most valuable lessons.

[@beckyjones5722]

Hey, Charlotte DuJardin took Valegro out on the top of his game because she believed she owed it to him!!!! Never beat yourself up for being wonderful in horsemanship!!!! (Why is it called Horsemanship??? doesn't sit well these days??) But well done you and you are not defeated in any way!!!! Love your vlogs x

[@Bear_the_shepherd]

may I ask what doesn't sit well these days?

[@alannahmcsharry6314]

@@Bear_the_shepherd (horsemanship) because there is women in the world too that love horse and do horse riding so realy it should be (horseship)

[@beckyjones5722]

@@alannahmcsharry6314 Exactly thanks for putting it so nicely!!!! :)

[@jennalavoie4962]

Your listening to your horses and there needs and that's what makes you an amazing horse Woman! Any horse would be very lucky to have you and be with you! You made me happy just watching this! Hopefully she will have some good babies for you!

[@caseymcdaniel8549]

Absolutely amazing the fact that you know when enough is enough and that is the strongest thing a person could do!

[@beckyleath8304]

We are in the same situation. Sensitive horses are the hardest. We are just at the beginning so have some work to do but you should not feel bad about the decision. Your bond with the horse is so delicate and everyone appreciates your realist approach to everything. Your heart and soul know what’s best x

[@karapirie5835]

I find it so sad you feel you'll be hated on for doing right by your horse. The horse has stress or pain that comes from riding and you are doing the best thing by not forcing her through it until she shuts down and just does it because she has to or selling her on. She will appreciate it!!

[@allysmith2284]

I think you need a massive hug! Why people would have negative stuff to say about the hard decision you’ve had to make about your horses which ultimately needs to be made, I’ll never know!

[@laurenkeener4549]

Such an inspiration to watch, every decision you make is for the best life for your horses, which nobody could ever fault. If only there was more equestrians like yourself in the world. All the best in your new exiting venture x

[@hackettequine2059]

Lauren Keener thanks Lauren that’s really kind xxx

[@JG-mt3rp]

This is a great video, thank you for your candor. I'm sorry this happened but it's actually comforting to see others deal with those mystery, problem horses that seem to never quite come right and make you doubt yourself.

[@marydoherty9188]

make the desissions that are best for you! stay strong, stay beutiful! much love from lancashire xxx

[@FranDayko]

I very much understand where you're coming from with the whole Kenco situation. Last year I had to retire my 10 year old (which was my first horse I'd owned less than a year!) because of kissing spine. I still get questioned about why I didn't just get the surgery and carry on riding but it was simply because he didn't enjoy it. As far as I can tell I think he had the issue for the entirety of his ridden career which means his dislike to work was mostly because he associated it with the pain and it would've been incredibly difficult for him to disassociate. Sometimes it's kinder to just let them be horses and it's incredibly inspiring to see that you've tried so hard to figure out the cause of her behaviours rather than just continue training or sell her on like a lot of people would have done x

[@paigedempster2375]

You know your horse the best and really listened to your horse, well done for making a hard decision 💕

[@gillianlillis1984]

You’ve done so well coming to this decision! Not all horses are destined to be riding horses, and more people should realise that and find them another job 😊 I’m sure you’ll both be happier now xx

[@PurpleEquine1992]

You are an inspiration as you do everything you can possible for your horses and have their welfare are happiness in mind all the time. Anyone who says otherwise clearly don't understand horses!

[@everythingshiny]

What a hard decision to make but good on you for putting her first and recognising that sometimes dreams won't come true. And that's not because you've failed, but because you and Kenco were dreaming different dreams. I applaud you and wish you all the best with Obi. Fingers crossed it's nothing too complicated with him. I once rode a mare for a friend who was similar to Kenco in that she was very reactive and unhappy being ridden. I had limited time and wasn't able to solve anything much for her in he time that I had, and her owner wanted to move her on quickly, so I had to step back. She'd had nine owners in nine years and was put to sleep at a young age for being unmanageable. Sadly she didn't have anyone on her side - luckily for Kenco, she has you.

[@ellie-pm9hp]

haven’t watched it yet but i can already tell that you are 100% doing the right thing for your horse. recently a lady at my yard who has a lovely young horse who is so absolutely talented and has completed at amazing places, she had to retire him due to health issues. personally i’ve never gone through it but it must be so saddening when a horse has potential but just can’t work due to no fault of their own. i wish you so much luck in your journey!

[@chloebaxter6804]

I'm so sorry you had to make such a hard decision. I think you're doing the right thing. Remember you deserve to be happy and excited to ride every day especially with your own personal horse! all best in whats to come!

[@denisewebb]

Tough decision, really refreshing to hear someone being realistic about the situation. You are a true horsewoman.

[@abbieg3945]

Ahhhh watching this hits home . I have a mare I bought unbroken . Pretty expensive. Sent her to my trainer for her son to break her in for me : they did an ok job but they took about 4/5 months and would constantly give her weeks off instead of finishing the job .really annoyed me especially with how much they charged , so eventually they don’t have an indoor it’s the middle of winter here Australia and they were only riding her about once a week when it wasn’t raining so I thought right .. it’s time to take her . She’s good can walk trot canter both reins . They did experience some bucking under saddle when breaking her in. Within the first week she got a spook at something and bucked me off . I hurt my neck quite bad but ok got back on took it slow and back to working fine . Like most horses she has a bad side the left . Which has improved dramatically . Especially in the canter . But only this way does she spook . Now the bucking has stopped but she will ONLY spook on this rein and then take off in a bolt . It is VERY SCARY. I have fallen off once due to this as she also can spook and spin on the spot very well 😭😕 . I’ve also noticed she expects me to hold her on this rein , if I ride her loose rein and give her a lot of leg she uses this also as an excuse to try bolt . Now I’m not an amateur rider . I’ve ridden showjumpers all over the world , I’ve dealt with young horses many times . But this is a situation I’m not sure what to do . It really reminds me of the videos with you on kenco in the dressage ring . I am doing a lot to try de sensitise her . And soon she will be sent to a trainer . If all is not going well after that I will breed her but I am worried the bad traits may be passed on ? Anyway Miri I would absoutley love to hear from you on any advice on this . It keeps me up every night thinking and watching videos on how to fix this cause damn I’ve never had a bolter before . She’s such a sweet beautiful mare too I would never want to sell her, but it really perplexed me , and definitely tests my confidence . Hope to hear from you ☺️💕🙏🏼

[@watcheronthewall9929]

You have done the right thing. Here's wishing you both the best for the future. Just to let you know, there are some horses that just don't do well under saddle not matter what.

[@nickidaggitt5879]

You are truly an inspiration. You have the best interest of your horses at the forefront and I applaud you for that. 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦👏👏❤️ Looking forward to watching future endeavours. Big Hug 🐴😁

[@graceygoode5537]

I am so sorry to hear about Kenco, that must've been so tough but you are just doing what you think is right. This not only shows how much of a great horse trainer you are, but shows how much love you have for your horses. I wouldn't blame yourself as a trainer, you have not failed at all, life is full of ups and downs (especially with horses). Don't let this bring you down or defeat you. I am so glad I found your channel and I am so excited to see more from you

[@ginnyferguson3772]

Great seeing your video, don't worry about Kenco anymore, she's happy in the field and will have a nice foal! Maybe she'd pull a carriage? But you r still taking care of her! Have a great week, totally support you! X

[@ashleygirvin1740]

you made a wise decision in your decision with Kenco. She looks perfectly content in the field, and looks like she's living the easy life. Do not be hard on yourself about this decision; you thought about what was best for Kenco, and that is awesome! You knew that she wasn't happy with being a riding horse, and did what was best for her! Good on you :)

[@AsharpJumper77]

i totally understand your feeling in this video - in regards to your mare. my paint gelding was/is like that. i got him from an auction, and he let me break him, and show a little bit but ultimately told me he didn't want to. i have retired him, he is now a "baby sitter" for my baby horses, and other outdoor herd.

[@KatherineS642]

At the end of the day you do what's right for you and your horse. There's no discussion or debate about it. Keep your head up and keep doing what's right!

[@CowgirlGoneJumper]

My horse was diagnosed with ringbone and went on joint meds. Told no jumping dressage was good though. 3 years later to check where he was at and no signs (he also was off meds for a bit and we were getting a new prescription) cleared for jumping and now 17 still jumping despite a fractured splint last year (vet cleared and always in splint boots) don’t give up yet with all the set backs

[@1942rita]

I’m sorry you are having these issues. I’m glad you are looking to the future.

[@mandyoliver5947]

I am so sorry to hear that you have retired such a young horse and you have listened to your horse and done all the right things but have you ever thought of using a animal communicator like Margrit Coates. I have a horse that had big problems when I had her and she had got a name as a very dangerous horse that nobody could ride but since using a animal communicator she is so different and so sweet and I am hoping to start to ride her again with the right saddle. She has had 12 months off from ridden work and I have owned her for just over 12months she is only 8yrs old. Love your vlogs. Mandy Cornwall

[@rebeccabawn2071]

I had the exact same experience you have had with one of my mates. Despite veterinary consultation and working with many different trainers, she just never was a super happy riding horse. Very reactive and spooky no matter what we did to make her feel better about life. Well, guess what? Now I have her baby (who just turned 4) and she is the BEST riding horse I have ever had. The mare is living out her best life hanging around as a companion for my older gelding. Not every horse is happy being a riding horse and I have realized that every horse comes into our lives for a reason. And in this case it was so I could have the opportunity to enjoy her amazing filly. Maybe that is the purpose for your little mare too? 😊 It will all work out the way it was meant to, even if it feels awful at the current moment. Good luck with everything!

[@karenzielke9387]

So happy you care for your horses enough to not force them to do something they don't want to do. And so happy you don't dispose of them like so many other sport horse folks. Be gentle with yourself.

[@FancySassy80]

The mare is lovely and you're doing what you deem is right by her and I respect that, I've done that many times also.. some horses just do better either as pasture puffs, or just trail horses who HATE arena work.. I retired my Mustang 3-4 years ago because she hated being ridden period.. she got to the point where she had done it all, been there done it, from Endurance racing to 3-day eventing and she was just DONE!... now she is a pasture puff, enjoying the life as a Mustang, she gets her spa day once a week, cause she hates being tied, and we go for hand walks every so often.. also the best horse on the ground, but under saddle anything besides bareback she is a terror!.. sometimes the best decisions are the hardest! You have my full respect for doing what you know is right cause you love her!!! Wish more would do so!

[@megconway3276]

You have made the right choice she’s seems very happy and i agree with why u did it

[@kerrymti1151]

There's a guy on youtube I have seen that does chiropractic adjustments to horses backs/necks and seems to have amazing success...hmmm, is that a possibility? Could the tack on her hurt?

[@elainecole6896]

Recently subscribed and am so glad I watched Kenco having her foal before I watched this vlog, hindsight is a wonderful thing, I wish I could have told you on this day that you've made absolutely the right decision and she's a wonderful mum!! 😁

[@kippen64]

My Thoroughbred retired before he was fifteen and he had been semi-retired for a few years before then. These things happen. Remembered pain can cause massive issues. That even if you take the pain away, some horses have an ongoing fear of the pain happening again. Even people suffer from this fear. It's why it's hard for injured athletes to get back to it.

[@Rising-g4q]

You put the welfare of your horses first that's admirable nowadays. The long term stress on her and you is not worth it regardless. She hated work for whatever reason and you did the best for her ! Well done x

[@mdee860]

Kenco didn't 'hate' it. Kenco was in pain.

[@margaretmetcalfe9380]

You have to do what you feel is best for both you and the horse, if she is miserable being ridden then you have made the right decision.

[@cameronscripps7584]

maybe try liberty training with her if she’s good with groundwork and hates riding 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@melhayley6738]

A hug is being sent to you because you need one, there is a time in everyone's life when we have to admit defeat, this doesn't mean you've failed it just means you have to chalk it down to experience. This decision won't have been easy but, for your own peace of mind and the love you hold for Kenco it is the right one for both of you. 🐴😦

[@jenniferlehman2464]

Then you've made the right decision for you both. Best Regards from Ottawa, Ontario, Canada, Jenn.

[@GroundUpMedia]

My heart absolutely goes out to you.It is one things to have a horse that you have to retire because of age or lameness/health issues. It is completely different when you have to make the decision like you have had to because the horse is super unhappy when being worked. I think you have absolutely made the right decision, because rather than just selling her on, you have given her the opportunity to have a good life. And who knows, maybe she will turn out to be the best mum in the whole wide world, and give you a whole string of competitive horses. Good on you!

[@hackettequine2059]

Glorious Horizons Equestrian Services thanks for your Kind supportive comment. What lovely followers I have xx

[@alicephillips5404]

So sorry to hear this but you made the best decision for both of you and i think she will be a good mummy xx

[@yanaelizaveta6167]

To be honest, when I first saw this I was really confused and almost scoffed at seeing a retired horse at 9 years old. But that was wrong of me, as now I see why you did what you did. Hope you know that we as a whole will support and continue to love and follow you and your horses! Truly a good owner, knowing what is best for your horses.

[@claretollerton9715]

Hi miri you mentioned before about kenco not getting on with the bit . Whether it is a sharp tooth problem I'm not sure she could have sensitive mouth . Kenco will still need some ride exercise as it is good for pregnant mares as it strengthen muscles and her abdomen will rebound to the normal tone few days after giving birth . Have you tried a bitless bridle on her like some of the race horse trainers use on the horses who don't like the bit. Hope the pregnancy goes well for kenco . Your doing a grand job !

[@donnamcrobert2037]

Really enjoy all your videos your down to earth funny caring an the horses all look stunning 🤗

[@claretollerton9715]

Hi new to your vlogs . I am like yourself and hard self critical probably because of peoples negative critic . Your more in tune with your horses than most are. You have done the right thing for kenco. Again you don't know how she was treated broken in , I strongly recommend that you do find an equine reiki and reflexology extocrainal treatment . For kenco and other horses that have muscle and joint conditions. All the best

[@olivia_equestrian9400]

She’s so lucky to have you your so sweet and considerate I had to retire my first pony not even a year in from riding her

[@lifeontherightbend6945]

I'm going through the same with my mare, endless vet visits and we get her right for something to go wrong again 😩. There all very very lucky to have you as an owner people woukd have jsut sold straight on, sending my love 💝

[@elizabetheventing3827]

And I’m just now starting mine at 9 😂💗 on a more serious note that’s amazing that you’re doing what’s best for her and not just selling her to the next person

[@mollihoran6876]

Such a respecful decision. Gives me faith in the equine community ❤️

[@N.A.alchemist]

Man I feel that! It's one thing after another with horses, I have two that are lame like 2/3rds of the time.

[@trinefj11]

you are doing what's best for her! thank you for listing to her, maybe a few years off and then starting from the bottom with training might help her or her just being a trail horse and enjoying relaxing trips

[@stefj6207]

Im really pleased for you and your decision to change direction horse wise and i dont think im in the minority . It takes alot guts to move on from a situation sometimes that isnt best for us . Roller coaster of a video , glad obi is once again on the mend and i dont envy wrestling not so little didi to her paddock

[@tammybaker8577]

Don't be so hard on yourself. I can imagine it's a hard decision. So do what is best for you and the horse, so you can be happy.

[@Hi-ng6sp]

1st! Love your channel! You are such an inspiration xx

[@hackettequine2059]

Thankyou for your kind comment xx

[@Hi-ng6sp]

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[@mollyrussell2516]

what a brave and admirable decision you have made for both yourself and the horse, she is lucky to have found someone like you to take care of her and good luck with everything :)

[@felixhushpup2545]

It seems like it was the best for the both of your well being both emotional and physical. Also its awesome that you kept her. People would have probably sold her and since she has issues being ridden she could have easily ended up in slaughter you are an awesome person.

[@denisemacdonald4649]

I had the same thing happen to me but horse was only 4 years old it was a navicular lucky enough he was a companion for an old race horse it’s hard breaking.

[@AyrshireAirsports]

Kenco is lucky to have you. Such a difficult decision. You've got such a good heart Mirri. x

[@beckyjones5722]

Hi, Miriam, I was watching Elphick event ponies today and she was showing Nikita Canot - ETT Therapist and I know you probably tried everything for Kenco but I have never come across this before so thought I would pass it on! x

[@jeniferrinehart1107]

Always harder to do the right thing. Good on you!

[@marynolan8337]

.again what a little trooper you are you have done everything for ure little pony .would you think of hunting her where she would forget herself and enjoy the chase.and the company of other horses ,just having fun think about it.being Welsh pony they have a wild streak like some connemara ponies. If you do go down the breeding route temperment, temperment is so important wish you were in ireland lde get you something really nice to ride. Lots of luck your a super super little lady god bless take care .mary nolan.

[@tropicaoptica]

I feel for you. Many people just don't know, because trainers they look up to and learn from normalize training methods that are actually destructive to a horses body, but if started correctly, using classical dressage foundation training, to really develop a proper top line, and not forced into frames (why so many horses are broken at the 3rd or 4th vertebrae) or put over jumps until full development and strong enough to carry itself properly (being bred for killer movement only lasts so long they still need the proper top line muscle development to sustain), a horses peak performance years can be at 12 years old WITHOUT steroid injections. Horses shouldn't even be ridden very much if at all for the first year, they should only be doing work in hand and lunging to get them carrying themselves stretching down down and lifting their backs before a riders weight is added, let alone jumping with one. SO many horses rushed through training and jumping huge jumps or advanced dressage tests before they are actually physically prepared then they are lame and spent before they hit the age of 10. Art2ride channel goes into this very well, if anyone is interested in how to start all performance horses so they can last many many years, check them out. Learning these methods saved my OTTB. I would give your horse a break and then maybe start some light work in hand like explained on art2ride channel. Many horses that were thought to be lost causes were rehabilitated with the methods (that have actually been around for many many years just not many people aware or patient enough for them). And at very least, it could make him much more comfortable for the remainder of his life.

[@katiemoore8421]

Maybe you should do in hand showing with her as she is the cutest pony ever and you have done amazing with her sending all the best wishes 💜💜☘️

[@shirleykennedy6653]

So respect and admire your decision.

[@Missadrianakordik]

My only question is, how the hell u only have 20k followers?so much value in every video!.. Much love, u re doing amazing x