Rich Family And Middle Class Bahu | Case Study

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@RX-Ani
@RX-Ani Жыл бұрын
Shaadi hamesha same level honi chahiye.. Sab ko respect rahega...
@shobhitanand945
@shobhitanand945 Жыл бұрын
Moral of the story :Tukdoo pe palna hai, aur inhe ijjat bhi chaiye 🤣🤣🤣. Every things comes with cost, if you want freedom, then work hard.... Sir amazing case study,very impressive.. And great learning.
@ajayaj7433
@ajayaj7433 Жыл бұрын
Well Said! Very well said!
@panktislifestyle2354
@panktislifestyle2354 Жыл бұрын
So true.
@purnimamisra8875
@purnimamisra8875 Жыл бұрын
Very true👌👌
@BANERJEE-w1x
@BANERJEE-w1x Жыл бұрын
आप जैसा दूसरा भारतीय व्यक्ति KZbin पर मिलना मुश्किल है। आपका बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद सर।
@rahulengineer8194
@rahulengineer8194 Жыл бұрын
Baap ka paisa Baap ka hota hai, apna paisa apna hota hai, isiliye kehte hai, na baap bada na bhaiya sabse bada Rupaiya! Value yourself, love yourself 🙂 Kick anyone out of your life who don't value you, chahe Naa Baap Kyu na ho, it doesn't mean you completely sever ties but you force your parents to respect you the right way and not cross boundaries, we are born alone and we are going to die alone, giving importance to self is the highest Idea Sabse bade toh Brahmand aur Bhagvan hai, Zinda raho unke dum par kyuki wahi time par rasta bana dete hai.
@digitaltrends9
@digitaltrends9 Жыл бұрын
Even in middle class families, if son and bahu are living with parents, parents always have the upper hand in decision making.....during a quarrel, father in law always say its my home and i am the ultimate authority....its your choice whether you have to be financially independent and live with self respect or become a doormat
@alishapandit7335
@alishapandit7335 Жыл бұрын
Same has happened with our family bahut ajeeb love marriage are not good according to their point of view. Ladke gulam ho jatai hai of arrange marriage lower middle class family se late hai taki control mai ho father in law narcissist hai jo sabse jayada wahi better hai judge kertai hai. Or apni tarife khud kertai hai 😂 log unse fir door bhi rehtai hai sare rishetadari ne sambandh se nahi rakhe hue hai.
@DivyaKumari-p5r
@DivyaKumari-p5r 7 ай бұрын
FUNFACT:- same kaam ladki ke parents bhi krte hai apni bahu ke sath pr ladki ko apne ghar same cheej shi lagti hai jo sasural me galat lagti hai
@Smileyyyyyy65679
@Smileyyyyyy65679 6 ай бұрын
Aisa hi hoga. Mere toh parents ke ghar mein bhi father and mother say that humara ghar hum bolenge kya karna. Ye saas sasur ka toh atleast different hota hai ghar.
@Hetal28
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
Sir excellent topic This is really happening in the upper strata of society in almost all states of India They use their son only cos they need heir to the family. They bring bahu from low or middle class so that they can keep them under control because money is the real power in almost all areas of life . I have met many such families
@Hetal28
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
@@Sample-Alok-KZbin Hahah 😂 New generation is next level They can outsmart most situations
@rojmun8032
@rojmun8032 Жыл бұрын
100 percent true
@babydoll8947
@babydoll8947 10 ай бұрын
What can someone do in ths situation
@sanchitgoel1602
@sanchitgoel1602 Жыл бұрын
Sir , one more issue that middle class families are facing today. Many Mothers in middle class family want their daughter to progress in their work/job but want a daughter-in-law who is a "Home Maker" who will do "Sewa". They want that their daughter should not do any house hold work , but want a son who is not less than "sravan kumar" . Also , they want their son to respect her sister like she is an avatar of "Maa Laxmi" and also expect same from her daughter-in-law . Many Boys in middle class families are suffering due to this. If daughter is more successful then her brother(i.e. earning more) then it is a shame for the brother, if daughter is not successful then also brother has to traet her like "Maa Laxmi" also bother's wife should treat her like "Maa Laxmi". Please create a video on this , if you find this topic worthy of your time.
@User6m7-112
@User6m7-112 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha..true.. jab bahu ka grahpravesh hota hai to use Laxmi mana jata hai .but humari middle class mein beti ki vidai ke baad bhi vahi Laxmi hai.. bahu ko respect nahi milti.. na use pucha jata na use kuch btaya jata
@mamtalele5674
@mamtalele5674 Жыл бұрын
In Marathi, we have this joke. Girl's life is like Rani LaxmiBai Rani at parent's house Laxmi for the first couple of days of marriage Then Bai n just Bai 😂
@Lakshmipriya-hc1wm
@Lakshmipriya-hc1wm Жыл бұрын
I think its ideology . I earn more than my bro . But we are seen as same .I don't mistreat him .he is ofcourse younger n has his own pace . I think its just that parents should understand
@aakasharya6918
@aakasharya6918 Жыл бұрын
But now it's slowly changing . I like Bengali womens status in their families . They have the guts to face anyone . Bengali and hindu Punjabi women are the most fearless women in India . Rest of the states women still have to improve on their condition in their families .
@komu799
@komu799 9 ай бұрын
Same in my home
@ravindragambhir6605
@ravindragambhir6605 Жыл бұрын
Couldn't stop myself from watching this video twice. One of the most intelligent counselors I've ever seen before. Your suggestions are eye opening. Hats off to you brother.
@ANIME_LITE_29
@ANIME_LITE_29 Жыл бұрын
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@ANIME_LITE_29
@ANIME_LITE_29 Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 clap krn ka Mann krta h ink videos k liy MAG MAG MAG jbrdast
@Sunshine-bk1ro
@Sunshine-bk1ro Жыл бұрын
Moral of the story - Be self dependent and financially independant
@ankurpratapsingh973
@ankurpratapsingh973 Жыл бұрын
Hii
@nishitsingh846
@nishitsingh846 Жыл бұрын
Mahila ko kaam naukri karne ki koi jarurat nahi hai
@VidyaOverseas
@VidyaOverseas Жыл бұрын
@@ankurpratapsingh973 ladki dekhi ni .. Line marna chalu kr diya😂😂
@pocketmeran2944
@pocketmeran2944 Жыл бұрын
@@VidyaOverseas raha nahi jata
@HSJ1030
@HSJ1030 Жыл бұрын
Aur shadi selfmade man se hi karni chahiye.
@arjoroychoudhury6952
@arjoroychoudhury6952 Жыл бұрын
Moral of the story - Shadi vivah karni hai toh apni barabariwalo mein hi karo varna mat karo. Factors to be taken into consideration while getting married - Caste, religion, social status, economic status, language, culture, food habits, city, state and origin.
@rahultriveditrivedi5451
@rahultriveditrivedi5451 9 ай бұрын
gotra also lol
@badliar6016
@badliar6016 4 ай бұрын
​@@rahultriveditrivedi5451 Gotra is bullshit
@kartikkumarjha9764
@kartikkumarjha9764 4 ай бұрын
@@badliar6016 जब बच्चे का immune system कमजोर होगा न तब पता चलेगा गोत्र का महत्व
@priyankasingh2614
@priyankasingh2614 Жыл бұрын
Me and my husband, we both are earning a good amount in Govt Sector... living with in laws ..we are contributing a good amount in household expenses..But still i am getting the same treatment from my in laws...
@Ninanani-4085
@Ninanani-4085 Жыл бұрын
Patriarchy is problem. It has done no good to society
@SSS-dn3uz
@SSS-dn3uz 9 ай бұрын
Why expect anything from in laws ?
@priyankasingh2614
@priyankasingh2614 9 ай бұрын
@@SSS-dn3uz just expecting a life full of respect and dignity and to be treated as living entity... Nothing more than that... Rest by the grace of God I myself am capable of manage on my own.
@SSS-dn3uz
@SSS-dn3uz 9 ай бұрын
@@priyankasingh2614 even ceo of big company will ready to marry owner daughter or son for just because of money
@jatinkumarshukla4472
@jatinkumarshukla4472 7 ай бұрын
​@@priyankasingh2614divorce lelo app kahanii hii khatam
@kk-wp7gj
@kk-wp7gj Жыл бұрын
Very true scenario ..in our own friend circle , one gal was married into a super rich delhi family..gal's parents were served tea in silverware ..all wedding expenses done by guy's side.Same bungalow , cars and chefs to cook food but the problem was loneliness the girl felt..they were not living like a middle class family who eat together sleep together.The guy ran a nightclub and was always out in the night and it was normal to sleep around for him .Finally they got separated
@User6m7-112
@User6m7-112 Жыл бұрын
​@@tiffgplu2590 luxury ka lalach ..
@priyankapattanaik5414
@priyankapattanaik5414 Жыл бұрын
🤑🤑🤑
@anjusingh816
@anjusingh816 Жыл бұрын
The use of gal just put me off the table pffft 🤡
@rishabh7781
@rishabh7781 Жыл бұрын
Im 23yrs old and your content is gem for me🔥🔥🔥🔥 aap lambi video banaya kariye
@kaminitripathi7899
@kaminitripathi7899 Жыл бұрын
Satya hai bahut hi Satya hai aise hi video pure Desh mein Aaj ke generation mein jaani chahie pranam guruji
@sangamgoyal4301
@sangamgoyal4301 Жыл бұрын
Aap samaj ki bhut sahi aaina dikha rahe ho Very bold n beautifully explained Abhi bhut aage jana hi is journey me
@rajeshwarikumar7227
@rajeshwarikumar7227 Жыл бұрын
Even if the son is working with fathers business, the son also should have a separate pay and bank acct to have a feeling of independent earnings
@suravibehera2246
@suravibehera2246 Жыл бұрын
Wow...very interesting topic...the message of this case study is never marry a guy whose financial status or family status is much more than you..its better to Marry a guy who is equal to your financial staus.. otherwise compatibility issues may come..thank you for sharing this case study
@FunnyBollyywood
@FunnyBollyywood Жыл бұрын
Moral: Aukaat Sirf individual ki hoti hai, Family ki Aukaat bahut logo Mein bant jati hai
@Cuteanimationvideos
@Cuteanimationvideos Жыл бұрын
One million comment 👍
@namusaru4482
@namusaru4482 Жыл бұрын
Wow 🎉 commendable Sir 👏👏 In my life I saw two same cases with one of the woman very close to me. I am a married woman & we are living separately on our own expenses. You can’t expect from anyone to feed you. Be Independent. Marriage is a real thing not a fairy tale ❤
@arthvittiwari4855
@arthvittiwari4855 Жыл бұрын
Beta aur Bahu se luxury, Convenience aur perks ka laalach chhodte nahi banta.. Yahi sach hai.. Mehnat kuch karna nahi hai, par chahiye sab kuch hai.. Aisa thode hota hai..
@naveensinha6570
@naveensinha6570 Жыл бұрын
Khud ki Honda City > Pita ji ki Merc . . . great video.
@johngeorge8597
@johngeorge8597 Жыл бұрын
You have a delightful way of speaking- practical , great mix of Hindi and English , so humorous , creative ideas with lots of twists.. so interesting to listen to you..Well done sirji
@LyonsBarry.
@LyonsBarry. Жыл бұрын
6- Enjoy with your small family, whenever your parents are not in home. 7- Take sometime refreshment by outing with your small family in nearby places. 8- Be a lower class person with daily routine work and increase you wealth as much as possible.
@NA-vt6mz
@NA-vt6mz Жыл бұрын
No first step is move out wit wife to ur own place
@artikumari4618
@artikumari4618 Жыл бұрын
Ye rich family sath baith ker khana bhi nahi khane dete ye itna aasan nahi
@varunmittal3617
@varunmittal3617 Жыл бұрын
​@@NA-vt6mz joint work difficult to seperate
@satviksoni6427
@satviksoni6427 Жыл бұрын
Silent treatment is the biggest abuse. Not being accepted is the biggest abuse. Psychosomatic symptoms are going to be visible very soon, and level of suffocation is going to choke the entire relationship. Remedy- distance is the ONLY solution. Our life is a plain and simple mathematical calculation.
@LyonsBarry.
@LyonsBarry. Жыл бұрын
@@NA-vt6mz It will be cause serious social issue. I can't let go of responsibilities towards my parents either they consider me or not.
@rajeshwarikumar7227
@rajeshwarikumar7227 Жыл бұрын
The newly married should stay alone for 1 or 2 years on their own and then they should take a call if they need to stay with parents, how ever rich you may be
@rashmigarg5170
@rashmigarg5170 Жыл бұрын
Sab ki apni kismat and sabki apni kahani...but no one is satisfied with what they have. The video is excellent.
@minita80
@minita80 Жыл бұрын
MAJ Your talk brought tears to my eyes, thank you for normalizing these emotions in a young daughter in law who does not understand what she is doing wrong. Sometimes when parents fall short, I find your videos very insightful. 🙏🏼
@RohitSaini-lv5rz
@RohitSaini-lv5rz Жыл бұрын
Really good insights shared. The case sounded like agar pareshani nahi ho to dhund lo. The things that they were seeking from the elders, agar vakae mey vo itna puchney lgtey betey bahu ko to vo chep horey hai bolengay ki they Don't leave us alone. Jaisey apney bataya ki 24-25 saal ka hai. Beta G is right now getting his skin in the game of his father's business, to jab tak he is actually not contributing in the business actively he will have to seek permissions. He will have to play the yes papa ok papa vala role. He is not leaving the family businessn for a reason, he wish to reign on that empire that his father built, so it's simple ki he will have to keep quiet and work till the business sustain due to his work ethics. Not a big deal. Jab risteydaar aye or bacho sey bolo ki dekhlo inko take care krlo, to vo ek alag pratadna bn jaati hai. I have seen same instances where the bahu got annoyed ki usko saas key risteydaro ko dekhna prd ra hai. Ye case to gajabey hai. Saari pratadna dimmag mey hai is case mey.
@geniusshubham4400
@geniusshubham4400 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@jashanbhatia
@jashanbhatia Жыл бұрын
So true sir.... i am that 'neha'.... esa case jo koi smjh hi nhi skta tha, k problem kya hai?! ....Thank you for addressing that issue....
@richasrivastav4432
@richasrivastav4432 Жыл бұрын
You need to make your own empire and show them your worth leave the house and prove it that you can lead a good life even without them that’s a reply u should give to them and this will turn the tables.
@hummingbird8103
@hummingbird8103 Жыл бұрын
Neha - you should enjoy urself .. use ur salary for ur betterment .. baad mein to te property tumko mil jayegi
@richasrivastav4432
@richasrivastav4432 Жыл бұрын
Every girl has an ideal in laws home in their head but reality is never ideal so after a point you cant cry over it either you accept and stay happy what ever you get in ur in laws house or if you can’t accept you have to move out build your own nest these are the only two options that you have. If you are a working girl you have the freedom to make a choice that suits you. Once you have a baby you call the shots as things might get worse during pregnancy for you.
@alpanapaul8210
@alpanapaul8210 Жыл бұрын
When son is rich and parents not having any assets then another problem arises. They want to keep the son under their control and not allow bahu to have any power. If live separately then also they will create mischief. They will call the son over and fill him with toxic ideas about his bahu and things come to a very bad realationship between husband and wife. So what is the solution?
@hummingbird8103
@hummingbird8103 Жыл бұрын
In this case - this couple should’ve made their own plans and enjoyed with 60k salary of the girl .. they don’t need to save a lot as they have enough property of parents. If let’s say some emergency comes like hospitalization etc - their family is there for support.. If they can’t have their friends over - they should go out for get togethers - in clubs etc. Husband will also have some say once they have a family and experience dining his dad’s business.. he can demand running salary.. this couple shd mind their own business .. honestly they are not paying rent, no expense of bills and taxes.. All they have to do is pay a credit card bill if theirs.. They should keep themselves happy by engaging in self care- gym and fun .. When parents will see that kids are in their own world - they will relax a little bit .. It takes some time and grind before they earn their value
@shweta703
@shweta703 Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@sumithhh9379
@sumithhh9379 Жыл бұрын
ये बहुत सही कही। अगर संयुक्त धनी परिवार हो तो और समस्या हो जाती है। परिवार ऊपर से धनी पर लड़के के पास न कोई काम, ना पैसे न घर में चलती। कई मां बाप लड़की ऐसे परिवार में देकर भुगत रहे हैं।
@simplelivingblissfulliving248
@simplelivingblissfulliving248 Жыл бұрын
Correct, in my relatives a new bahu from rich family has come paid lakhs of rupees as dowry but she does not interact with anyone and drives her own car doesn't allow his inlaw family or husband to drive it and doesn't greet anyone on birthday or anniversary. But still she is the apple of her mother in law eyes.
@neelamaggarwal4053
@neelamaggarwal4053 Жыл бұрын
It is possible in today's time but not possible ki parents bete bahu ke sath aisa kar sakey, vo bhi aaj ke zamane me. Itni shareef aajkal koi neha nahi hoti
@sarveshsrivastava8300
@sarveshsrivastava8300 Жыл бұрын
​@@neelamaggarwal4053 the problem in case study different I think. There sasuraal is not doing anything bad .... only problem is middle class thinking and living and enjoyments, which are altogether different from the rich class.
@RareSweety
@RareSweety 6 ай бұрын
She has bought herself a husband, what else can you expect. Take dowry in any form, new gen bahu is going to treat your son her dowry as her property.
@LyonsBarry.
@LyonsBarry. Жыл бұрын
100% Same as my case. But I left rice business not home. i did job in my friend factory and started my business in 2019. before that I was evicted by my family in 2010. I was in Siliguri did part time job of accounting and Tea selling business (2010-18) as a hawker cum retail exporter.
@hjag1019
@hjag1019 Жыл бұрын
Should have thought of all this before the wedding. You entered into a relationship with open eyes, now bear with it or break away.
@sarveshsrivastava8300
@sarveshsrivastava8300 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this real life case study Sir. It should be an eye-opener for the middle class parents of girls, who start drooling over dowry less proposals from rich parties, and think because their daughter is very beautiful and virtutous, she deserves a rich sasuraal and will be very happy there. Middle class people mostly forget that their is no happiness without self-respect.
@nerisalobo
@nerisalobo Жыл бұрын
Dowryless?? Are you saying dowry should be given?
@user-ex1dl3tx2p
@user-ex1dl3tx2p Жыл бұрын
@Nerisa Lobo I don't think he means that. I think by dowryless he wants to( I hope so🤔) conveys that middle class parents gt lured by such proposals from rich families where they feel its a win win situation as they wil not have to pay dowry yet their daughter will enjoy the luxuries in a wealthy family. However this is not always true and cannot guarantee a girl's happiness.i too am strictly against dowry.
@shweta703
@shweta703 Жыл бұрын
@Sarvesh Srivastava Dowry Dene me kya self-respect hai?
@mpl1234
@mpl1234 Жыл бұрын
@@shweta703 I really think he means to talk about dowry less proposals in the point of view of the girl's side who are looking for proposals without dowry which is a good thing. But more than that they are tempted by the wealth of the family. So.. as he explained they are looking for a win win situation. In a way they are wrong in seeking the wealth of the groom and not his virtues, sort of dowry situation again.
@temporayaccoun
@temporayaccoun Жыл бұрын
First of all self respect comes from being right and doing the right decisions, secondly why not to be self employed or independent enough so that even if you are living with your parents, you got some solid self respect cause you know how to put yourself up every single time when you have fallen. I’ve seen many young couples living with their parents happily who do side business as well as handles their family business. Lastly these those people are very rare and to mention, they haven’t taken any dowries, but have purchased or driving their OWN cars.
@rgiam8794
@rgiam8794 Жыл бұрын
Truly said !! Whether boy or girl ,one has to be independent always!!
@hemantbasera2920
@hemantbasera2920 Жыл бұрын
बहुत बरिया सर, बेहतरीन, प्रणाम।
@rushikeshshimpi7258
@rushikeshshimpi7258 12 күн бұрын
बहुत ही बढिया सर
@priyabharati5865
@priyabharati5865 Жыл бұрын
Lol i too want such in law jo mujhse baat bhi na kare😂😂😂...aur jo jyada involve bhi na ho...m a complete introvert Edit:-- i m living in a pg with two old ladies ! And they keep commenting on everything i do ....Puri zindagi me maa baap aur teachers se itni daant nahi padi jitni in dono se taunt aur comment sunne ko mil gaye mujhe ! I complained about this to my mom and she started teasing me that tumhari saas bhi aisi hi hogi!! And i am a complete introvert and i love keeping everything to myself! U can imagine my anxiety with these two ladies...that's the reason i want such Saas who is rich and keeps to herself ..i can take care of myself lol
@TheVarun08
@TheVarun08 Жыл бұрын
But rs100 sas se mangne pade.. it is about self-esteem.
@priyabharati5865
@priyabharati5865 Жыл бұрын
@@TheVarun08 Han obviously i will have my own job! Mujhe paise mummy se mangne me dikkat hoti hai , u think i will ask my saas?
@TheVarun08
@TheVarun08 Жыл бұрын
@priyabharati5865 what about the self-esteem and the humiliation your husband has to go through
@priyabharati5865
@priyabharati5865 Жыл бұрын
@@TheVarun08 yeah i will choose husband jo competent ho aur in laws par dependent na ho obviously
@green.frugal.minimalist1316
@green.frugal.minimalist1316 Жыл бұрын
Hi Priya why you listen nonsense of these two old ladies? Na tum unki khati ho ya unse koi lena dena hai ? Focus on making boundaries dear. Kabhi kabhar stern and battamij honi parti hai. Agar job kari ho to thora paisa jyada deke bhi single kamra/setup le lo jaha khud khana banake kha pao. Mai bhi introvert thi... ghar school me problem nahi huwe... but in college and first one two jobs bahut problem aye... thn ladai karna, muphat hona and apni liye stand lena job se sikh liya tabse kisiki himmat nahi hoti hai.
@mdimran4173
@mdimran4173 Жыл бұрын
Every word you said are true for upper middle class family in metro cities it is our Indian mentality money can't give you happiness but money is very essential to survive in the world
@sandipdattaroy1984
@sandipdattaroy1984 Жыл бұрын
Please make a video on a middle-class boy getting married to an upper middle-class girl. What are the issues in such marriages and how to handle them?
@ritumantrahirani7478
@ritumantrahirani7478 Жыл бұрын
This video I felt like my own story narrating as I have suffered with all the problems u detailed here This is really a big problem to think over it seriously for girls that marring in a big status family doesn’t mean that u will be happy
@maheshjoshi9669
@maheshjoshi9669 Ай бұрын
आदरणीय सर, ये सब पारिवारिक रिश्तों के सुख-दुख आपकी जन्मकुंडली में लिखे होते हैं किसी को भी नहीं बदला जा सकता।
@MiraDesai
@MiraDesai Жыл бұрын
We have a saying in Gujarati...lambe ke saath chota Insaan jata hai..tab marta hai nahi toh bimar hota hai. When I was young...bahut badey ghar se rishta aaya tha n my didi just didn't take it forward...what a wise decision....aaj samajh aya after 30 years...thank you Guruji
@pramodp1441
@pramodp1441 Жыл бұрын
he had opened my eyes ....bahot acha laga sunke .....best best bestest ...every person ..sepcially young generation should listen this carefully......thanks a lot sir❤
@nalinisolanky9286
@nalinisolanky9286 Жыл бұрын
Very nice. And important topics. And your way of explaining is soo good.
@sagittariustiger1366
@sagittariustiger1366 Жыл бұрын
At times the rich people have very middle class thinking. Sad but true
@kavya2531
@kavya2531 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree. As people make more money they sort of disrespect and humiliate everyone around them.
@LyonsBarry.
@LyonsBarry. Жыл бұрын
3- Earn money make asset of your own like home, shop, land etc. 4- Involve your partner in your business problem or job problem for batter solution and ideas. 5- Ignore every irritating talks, kalesh & gossips of partners and own family.
@madhursharma5049
@madhursharma5049 Жыл бұрын
Maza agaya need more stories like this
@amol9267
@amol9267 Жыл бұрын
Really interesting and unique topic 👌
@abhajadhav3798
@abhajadhav3798 Жыл бұрын
Great Video Sirji true insight of Marital problems
@AnuShrivathsa
@AnuShrivathsa Жыл бұрын
Sir, please do a session on girls getting married into a poor family with a golden boy raised by a narcissistic mother and sister and challenges faced by her. What should be the compatible financial standing between the two families.
@asadaziz6429
@asadaziz6429 Жыл бұрын
Intersting story with realistic massage about happiness of life.
@Sunnyninny15
@Sunnyninny15 Жыл бұрын
MAJ. NICE VIDEO SIR. PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO ON " RICH GIRL MARRIED IN KANJOOS MIDDLE CLASS FOR LOVE (DECENT BOY)"
@gujjewman96
@gujjewman96 Жыл бұрын
In my community, a rich girl - her father has business literally worth 1500-2000 crore married a guy earning around 1-1.5 lacs/month so it's not exactly a middle class but it was still a downgrade in lifestyle for her. They have a baby girl. Girl divorced him after 2 years because of lifestyle were not matching. Girl's father paid him 14 crore for smooth divorce proceedings lol.
@blackshadow3508
@blackshadow3508 Жыл бұрын
Honestly the guy doesn't have balls to go out and get a job something really common among privileged men today kyunki pehle toh mumma sab kar ke dein deti thi aur ab biwi. That's why a guy needs to be bold in his actions.
@BeAnEntrepreneur.
@BeAnEntrepreneur. Жыл бұрын
What do we do about the problem of having our parents left behind in their old age?
@SSS-dn3uz
@SSS-dn3uz 9 ай бұрын
Everyone even girls
@vandanareddy5016
@vandanareddy5016 Жыл бұрын
Need more case studies like dis sir ji
@omswarup471
@omswarup471 Жыл бұрын
After 20 years from now, neha's in-laws will come to you for counselling with the prblm that our son and daughter- in-law has taken over family business and home. They will seek your advice. 😅
@devbhardwaj67
@devbhardwaj67 11 ай бұрын
How ??😊
@seeker7090
@seeker7090 11 ай бұрын
But main problem to ye hai ki 20 saal baad bhi in laws Zinda hai 😢..
@aamerakhan9541
@aamerakhan9541 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@wowser2153
@wowser2153 Ай бұрын
@@seeker7090 why is that a problem. Is it a problem if your parents live till 80 ?
@riyachoudhary8283
@riyachoudhary8283 4 ай бұрын
Maza aa gaya maza aa gya wahhh…👏🏻 seedhi baat no bakwas🎉
@stt5591
@stt5591 Жыл бұрын
All the Videos are with Unique Contents... full of takeaways 👌
@veenakarnam6459
@veenakarnam6459 Жыл бұрын
I am working lady, my FIL had taken my bank passbook saying he will get passbook entry every now and then as I was not able to go to the bank. Finally I realised that he had taken it for monitoring my transactions 😕
@MB-ux4bb
@MB-ux4bb Жыл бұрын
Give some excuses and take it back and never give back
@khyatimajmudar7157
@khyatimajmudar7157 Жыл бұрын
Instead keep that bank account but open somewhere else too where you maintain most of your transactions.
@amazing3954
@amazing3954 9 ай бұрын
😮😢 such a mindset
@LyonsBarry.
@LyonsBarry. Жыл бұрын
Take Away as per my real experience : 1- Do not be dependent on family business. 2- Do not left home in any situation.
@priyankapattanaik5414
@priyankapattanaik5414 Жыл бұрын
What about ambanis
@abhaysoni926
@abhaysoni926 Жыл бұрын
@@priyankapattanaik5414 you also know maximum Indian's are not Ambani.. ground level pe dekho .. tum Ambani Elonmusk adani Ratan Tata Mahindra......... Ensbko dekh ke kya kroge tum khud Ambani ke pair ki dhool nhi hoge 😂😂 aur naam le rhe ho uska..
@deepakkothiyal3621
@deepakkothiyal3621 Жыл бұрын
​@@TodaysG.K. ohh fuck... Kya kya chal rha h duniya me
@diuv531
@diuv531 8 ай бұрын
Ambani bahus are also from family of business tycoons
@jda7499
@jda7499 Жыл бұрын
Superb 🎉 - Gospel Truth
@muhammadtaha4725
@muhammadtaha4725 Жыл бұрын
As usual, excellent narrative. Wah Kia baat hay!
@saumyapunekar8625
@saumyapunekar8625 Жыл бұрын
Awesome 😃❤️👍. Self respect is more important than anything in life . A sensible responsible married man should make it a point that he should earn his bread and butter on his own terms and not depend on his father income for survival . 😊👍😃❤️
@PKumar-jb4bb
@PKumar-jb4bb Жыл бұрын
MAG... very true case, happening a lot in upper middle class. Isme sab Rohit ko kasurwar, lalchi aur lazy bata rahe , but thinking again agar koi ladka apne maa baap ka sukh bhog raha hain toh wat is wrong , just like nepotism. Rohit should establish a strong place in his father comapny, demand for equity or salary if not agreed by parents then leave the house. Considering him 27-28years he will automatically learn all duniyadari once away from ghar ka comfort.
@padmasrinivasan5410
@padmasrinivasan5410 Жыл бұрын
100% true. Always get married in equal status, and the reality is you should give importance to education, character and his/her talent to come up in life.
@dhanrajbabooram6
@dhanrajbabooram6 Жыл бұрын
Excellent topic with real life examples .But this is Indian culture status at its best .Happy you approach this topic thank you.
@rajeshwarikumar7227
@rajeshwarikumar7227 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes silence from bahu or MIL is also very frustrating
@kushaalrana
@kushaalrana Жыл бұрын
Maza aagaya, need more videos like this🔥🔥
@anjusingh816
@anjusingh816 Жыл бұрын
Bahut badhiya 👌🏼👍🏻♥️
@amitbhargava2969
@amitbhargava2969 Жыл бұрын
Sir these problems are very common surrounding my social and family.... But never have taken it's as problem before watching you video.. thank you
@sum999ant
@sum999ant Жыл бұрын
Hats off to your sateek selection of topic and practical analysis
@kavithaNM2023
@kavithaNM2023 Жыл бұрын
Very useful info. Practical current realities ..we dont get to know! Thankyou fir sharing
@RealRandomVideos
@RealRandomVideos Жыл бұрын
Please keep subtitles for easy understanding of non Hindu speakers.. these lessons needs to seen by everyone in india..
@liifesurcchi
@liifesurcchi Жыл бұрын
Kafi kuchh sikhne ko mila. Thanks
@manuvyas4002
@manuvyas4002 Жыл бұрын
MAG! Well articulated Amitji
@jhimlidutta374
@jhimlidutta374 Жыл бұрын
WONDERFUL MESSAGE !
@prernakhajanchi2698
@prernakhajanchi2698 Жыл бұрын
Superb work 😊
@gauriduble3368
@gauriduble3368 Жыл бұрын
Very true. Nice topic. 👍🏻🙏🏻
@aakankshatiwari9422
@aakankshatiwari9422 Жыл бұрын
Awesome & relatable video.
@divineray7822
@divineray7822 Жыл бұрын
Any man who doesn't make his own money or make significant contributions in family business won't be respected and as a consequence his wife.
@aayushtanwar27
@aayushtanwar27 Жыл бұрын
Going through the same exact case study. 😮
@JavaSpringyFun
@JavaSpringyFun Жыл бұрын
Awesome.. Every line is equal to 10 gms of Gold..
@neerjapare696
@neerjapare696 Жыл бұрын
बहुत बहुत सुंदर विश्लेषण किया है।
@abhinav-966
@abhinav-966 Жыл бұрын
give more and more case studies.. nice analysis..
@anshukumariyadav7262
@anshukumariyadav7262 Жыл бұрын
Excellent explanation ❤
@shwetabaldawa8527
@shwetabaldawa8527 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful explanation
@vaibhavsinghrawat593
@vaibhavsinghrawat593 23 күн бұрын
Aap ki story right hai sir🙏🙏🙏
@abcxyz9783
@abcxyz9783 4 ай бұрын
Excellent case study sir.
@user-ex1dl3tx2p
@user-ex1dl3tx2p Жыл бұрын
Sir I abbbbbsolutely loveeeee and enjoy ur videos.respect ur understanding about our culture and what happens in indian families.this video reminded me of my colleague who also got married into a rich family but sadly threw her weight around before us although she had no importance at-home but flaunted her wealth and sudden change in status before us.
@sudeshkumari8734
@sudeshkumari8734 8 ай бұрын
Namaskar sar ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏 it's very interesting subject. I agree with you. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@anjaligarg2329
@anjaligarg2329 Жыл бұрын
So true...my very close relatives is in same situation..intially we all thought like he said but not having any freedom is really very worst thing...
@RX-Ani
@RX-Ani Жыл бұрын
Aap toh sab ka Guruji ho ❤🙏🙏
@dubeneeraj
@dubeneeraj Жыл бұрын
My personal take away - Money is store of efforts. The parents in this case have put in efforts and become rich. They are treating son as they have always done, even he didn’t mind asking for anything when he was single. Now with bahu in picture she is controlling son like all wives do. However her husband doesn’t own anything, so she can’t get what she wants. The parents were very wise to have their own life. It’s actually the ego of bahu. If she wants to enjoy in laws wealth she has to put in effort to get close to mother in law, because remember money is store of efforts.
@sushmathakur1313
@sushmathakur1313 Жыл бұрын
Even worse scenario, where son contented with his situation, why he would leave his comforts and बेलो पापङ in बाहर की दुनिया। only bahu suffers who has self esteem.
@sumitprajal88
@sumitprajal88 Жыл бұрын
Enlightenment ..good topic..
@hemantbasera2920
@hemantbasera2920 Жыл бұрын
MAG, Sir, each and every word is a lesson for society...प्रणाम ।
@green.frugal.minimalist1316
@green.frugal.minimalist1316 Жыл бұрын
Sir make a video on 40+ unmarried people who are unmarried not by choice but by family situations or financial issues etc
@IamRahul_369
@IamRahul_369 Жыл бұрын
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gaya, Amit Ji! 💥🔥💥 Thank you for bringing such a case study to us. Please keep bringing more of such interesting real life case studies and make a VIDEO SERIES about Marriage. 💫
@kalyanichatterjee1711
@kalyanichatterjee1711 Жыл бұрын
Great sir 👍❤
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