Long Distance Marriage : How It Is Straining Relationships? | Case Study 8

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Vrs

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[@Vikas-lu3wc]

Per capita 1 lakh monthly yavyearly??😮

[@PawanPatel-cc6zw]

VRS

[@arjunsworld205]

My In laws are from the village .. I am in Govt job . Since the time of birth of my child they have been forcing me and my husband to build them a house in the city so that they can bring their daughters children to live with them as schools are not good in villages . They want to create a khichri which I detest . My SIL doesn’t have in laws and hardly any relations with her husbands relatives. SIL husband interferes in our affairs a lot. My husband is posted in some remote hill location .

[@naina763]

I can sense u already r so much frustrated by ur in-laws... B them at village or in city near u.... 1. City life which ever it may b it is expensive..... In village ppl get whole month veggies for free or say half a rate than city.... In city only veggies will cost them 700 per month.... City life is overall expensive.... Doctors visit, education be it school,tution.... N overall lifestyle to maintain.... Who will take care of all this expenses???? Even u buy them a house??? Ask ur saas n saasur they can come at ur place but not ur sil... U can't afford... Straight away u can say...

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

Tell them there are good hostels and if SIL is really serious then send them to a good boarding school. 😂

[@worldtv2189]

Same situation meri😢

[@Staytruegoggins]

You indeed are most sorted clarity giver in your target segment. Respect

[@haiderali-xk4ti]

kindly make a video on urban girl marrying village boy..what problems she will face and solution

[@krishna_raj9331]

​@@aks7r right.

[@14ayushi]

Don't marry below your standard..!! That's it.

[@akashdobhal3054]

WhT😂😂

[@madhavraj1650]

Mt kr lyf hell ho jygi ladki ki

[@VIVEKKUMAR-fz3pi]

Han tum apne fantasy poori krlo 😂

[@Dr.dineshmeena]

Why long distance marriage fail reason (1) loyalty problem (2)job (3) emotion stability issue (4) lack of time spend with wife

[@SaiAbitathaDUCIC]

Loyalty is not a problem in this case, honestly. Dishonest people would cheat anyway.

[@wolfgang4429]

Society ka structure hi aisa hai ki jin gharo me ladies ko job karne ka allow hota hai. To wo paisa kamane ke liye job krne bahar jati hai ab us chakkar me sasural me ek se ek problem aa sakti hai.

[@amu808]

Point 4

[@LifeJoyAdventureVlogs]

I was in the middle east in the lates 80s and we had married men living away from the wives for years on end, they could not bring the families back then, it was not easy. I observed relationships were formed i.e. local wife (gf). I would not judge them, not everyone is strong. I would never recommend this kind of a situation, no money is worth it.

[@LifeJoyAdventureVlogs]

@izoldics those relationships were mostly hidden. from different countries.

[@dean_dinesh]

All this is absolutely true,i have seen it infront of my eyes many families breaking 😮sad reality

[@vpn741]

Mere family me bhi ek h jisne Government teacher girl se marriage ki after marriage boy bhi government teacher ho gaya Ab Wife Rajasthan me posted h and husband 600KM door UP me posted h, last 5 years se dono apne apne maa baap ke sath rahte h aur shayad till the age of 60 alag hi rahenge

[@foodtechbydr.namratasutar9227]

I wish i was 18 year younger .. Have done all mistakes no support .... still feel as if it was my past pending karmas. I wish you start a university of life beyond syllabus and that every one from 13 to 20.has to attend.

[@satyanderbhadouriya4728]

I am 18 Years Younger So I Hope You Won't make me regret😅😅

[@narinderkaur8403]

Exellent video. I knew that what will be your 2nd dialog after Sharvan kumar.Too real words.SHARVAN KUMAR WAS NOT MARRIED ❤

[@madhurani1441]

Nice topic sir ji, shravan kumar n khud sewa ki thi apne parents ki, apne kandho p baithaya tha unhe, aajkl k shravan kumar apni biwi se sewa karwaana chahte h apne parents ki

[@Equitylearners]

@nothanks0009 Propaganda running here.... Sharvan Kumar was married and his wife was 'Manthara' . Manthara was the chief dasi of Queen Kaikeyi.

[@IntrestingandUnique_1]

Biwi ke nakhre bhi to hazar hain unko lagta hai ped lga ho paisa ka

[@sagarpandey456]

Haa plss dont marry

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

@@Equitylearnersthe point is even if he was married, He took it upon himself to do seva for his parents. He didn’t dump his wife on their parents to do seva

[@Practical_man70]

Guruji charanesparsh! 🙏🏻 Bahut kuch sikh keh apsey aab practical hone laga hoon!

[@matildamaher1505]

I know three families both rheir husband works in Dubai and only one could come home a month a year. And the other would come after 3 years One of my relative where the wife goes to work as a teacher and comes home when the school holidays start. I would call that a marriage

[@arjunsworld205]

Sir I will give you one true case study Husband posted in Small rural hilly town in Uttarakhand in Govt sector , Husband and wife from plain area of Uttarakhand. Wife recently delivered child and came to live with husband after recovery . Now wife is full of loneliness because can’t seem to adjust to culture of hills , relatives not there , no friends Evenings can get really boring in hills with long uphill distances to walk even for small amenities Wife adjusted for some. Time but now they keep fighting over petty issues 🙏

[@arithmeticislove]

Khaa posting h uttarakhand me?

[@yashkumar-ft8mg]

start learning things from internet. Read books. Follow some hobbies...

[@VivekSharma-zb1ek]

sir, I’m subscribing your channel because I find you most relevant and practical person.

[@vikasbhardwaj8743]

Sir outstanding. Clear ideas.

[@iamprishaaangelina7976]

Guruji You have a killer mischievous smile, when you are sarcastic.😂😂😂

[@TheChandanihm]

Time stamp?

[@bhumikayadav8458]

U r doing a great work for society.. Thank u so much sir🙏

[@BS.bhagati]

On this topic i leave my job HR professionals and now leaving with my family .nice topic you cover thanks

[@kapilc7760]

Very true girl should not stay. Back else loyalty issue will come

[@bubblessingh3510]

Uncleji my husband and I are both serving in the army and no matter how many letter we write , seniors officers we meet we don’t get postings together, after three yes of marriage this is the first time we are together and will be posted speeately again for another 6yrs with no respite from the govt . What do we do , we can’t leave our jobs. And we have two small kids

[@kaushikkantak8271]

Sir your every word is golden advice. God bless you sir. We need your teachings. Your are master. Respect

[@avneetyadav]

Well said sir, salute

[@WatchB4UBuy]

Thank you. I was in dilemma. Ki mujhe in laws ke sath rehna chahiye ya nhi. But u made it clear 😊

[@sahiladya8473]

What about the armed forces people who sacrifice their life for the nation? Their family, children all suffers

[@Raythelightlife]

They can take their family when in peace posting

[@rdj127]

Yeah they suffer its part of that job it requires scarifice

[@snehalawate7544]

बोहोत सही बात करी आपने...😊🙏

[@rajeshwarikumar7227]

What happens when there are no kids , but husband wife live in different cities, because wife wants to work

[@poojapursani2761]

The 48 laws of power, ( very famous book) aap apne hissab se ,in your style rewrite lijiye. Bahut Mazza aayega😅

[@swaatigautam111]

VRS... pls sir make a video on this topic... M a female n working in Govt. Sector.. want to quit job..n try to earn some other ways.. bt m clueless..how to initiate in this direction

[@tnin5634]

Me too

[@Equitylearners]

Not easy to quit Govt. job...... Mungeri Lal ke hasin Sapne.....

[@Beauty_Factory]

Me too....naikari ki wajah se shadi nahi ho pa rahi h. Remote location, but not that much.😢

[@Equitylearners]

@@Beauty_Factory Which post you hold and where

[@Equitylearners]

@@tnin5634 kaun si job h jo itna pareshan ho chhodne ke liye

[@salonimittal4001]

Sir ab ek category aur hai…which is very common among millenials these days….lady with child is living abroad and husband in India. Wife wanted to get out of this joint family system because in covid things got stressfull. She worked hard and cracked a job in abroad. Husband was reluctant to go abroad but with a heavy heart and with the trauma of leaving parents came with her in abroad while he was still working for the firm in India. Firm was very accomodating and let him work from abroad .After spending almost 1 yr husband started getting comfortable and both decided that the husband should get a job in abroad. Husband cracked few jobs, but now wife’s job was getting shaky as she was not able to meet expectations at work so in her head she started thinking that they should go back to India and started making excuses and told husband to not take a job in abroad and sent him back saying that we should think about taking care of the family who is in India in a long run. Husband went and now lady again started getting comfortable in her job and now has also made ecosystem and does not want to go now because now she enjoys freedom because back in India they were living with in-laws. Husband keep visiting abroad in every 2 months. But now marriage is suffering

[@slowdown7276]

Ye appki story hai kya? Ye common problem nahi hai 😄

[@undiyos]

I request you to no repeat the earlier VRS webinar in case you wish to take a new webinar. Plus the GeMs idea is not working as the contractor again incurs under the table greasing costs. I would request you to touch more upon how the experience of job can be used to do professional consultancy after leaving the job. Also, discuss the framework to be established (saving/buffer etc.)in preparation of VRS /resignation in non pensionable service

[@Equitylearners]

Ye janab apka nahi apna bhala karne ke liye youtube par aye h....... Tabhi to hamesa webinar ke nam par pizza ka paisa mangte rahte h

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You are the best, Guruji❤

[@rameshwarprasadgurjar2378]

एकदम सही कहा गुरुजी

[@purpleflower2900]

One thing I would like to say is that long distance marriage is an ancient thing and not a new age problem according to me. In earlier times it was quite a common thing that after marriage the man used to keep his newly married wife in his home and leave for work to long distant places. The newly married wife used to wait and wait in hope of her husband alone with the new in laws. In certain cases loyal husbands used to remember their wives but in many cases the wives existence was completely forgotten by the husbands. In many year times after marriage the wife was not brought to her in laws house and was kept in her parents house. Many years used to be spent without each other just in hope and memories......

[@keshabroy6094]

We r not living in ancient prehistoric times.Those r outdated concepts no longer relevant

[@soulseeker4465]

Bhot dino baad itni bdiya video daali h guru ji

[@shilpasingh559]

Sir , aapki vdeos eye opener hain.

[@critikasharma2335]

Shravan Kumar bang on Sir!

[@ShalukaYadav-t4g]

Sir mere husband army mai hai meri saas ne mujhe bahut presan kiya tha mujhe ab sb achha hai 15 Saal ho gye shadi ko saas abhi bhi h pr halat badl gye h😅😅

[@abhaysoni926]

Sir mai abhi padhai kr rha hu mere dad kw business bhi hai bjt mai abhi bahar ghr se dur rhke padhai kr rha hu lekin mujhko aage dad ks business hi dekhna hai toh kya sir mai abhi ghr chla jau hmehsa ke liye ya apni padhai poori kru..

[@divyarajput884]

Sir I'm a lady ,,, लिविंग आउटसाइड for government job,,,, feeling stress

[@arjunsworld205]

I can understand you sister .. mere husband aur mein Govt job mein hain alag alag posted hain . Bahut problem hai In laws ke apne agenda chalte rehte hain .. I still think of leaving job so many times . But I know Govt job na nigali jati hai na ugali

[@nehasukanyasoni2000]

Guru ji please make video on second marriage quality.

[@akashkevin98]

Sir your videos are really good. 1. If possible, could you please make a video on loneliness and social isolation. 2. Also, could you please enable English subtitles in all of your videos.

[@asheen_199]

What about army people?? Shaadi hi nae karne chahiye????

[@HimanshuSharma-wp5uy]

Guruji weekdays me job pe or weekend pe ghar aane par bhi yehi lagu hota hai??

[@chayanikachakraborty7821]

You are right Sir

[@shivanianand6182]

Are the videos - case study 6 and 7 removed from the playlist???

[@umeshsingh-nf5ki]

If meeting in months for one or last week then

[@andaz-e-Kaamini]

Good advice sir

[@Odd342]

Women keep affairs when husbands move out 😢

[@bhaveshdarwani412]

Kya ye humari baat kari jaa rahi.... Naukri karno walo ka jivan bhot jhand hai ....ghar ka sara comfort chhod kar dusri jagah buri tarike se rehna...bekar khana khana...do ghar chalana...

[@AnkitShah55]

Very butter words but True

[@kapilc7760]

Very true we are like atm machine

[@johnkhoff]

Guru ji aaj to Acharya Prashant jasi baat kar di 😊

[@Priya-rf7ov]

Thank you 🙏🏽

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Brilliant video

[@KanchanRupwate]

Mind-blowing

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You are 100% right sir

[@pradeepchandrashukla7657]

VRS need of hour.

[@UttamKumar-ui4gh]

sarkari naukri means defence ki jon jaha hard areas men family saath nahi rakh sakte

[@rajeshwarikumar7227]

Not convincing , may set wrong precedence.Not done well.your solution of boy leaving the job is incorrect. What if he also.has a govt job😊

[@workingMomlifeandpassion]

Soldiers kya kare sir?

[@shardulsony]

Very deep video

[@kulwinderkaurkhatra5307]

Very true sir

[@preetigarhwal5269]

I agree with you

[@aradhnasrivastava4471]

Sir single mother son marriage side effect pr video bnaye

[@niharikavarma4613]

Sir, Jo log dusre city me job kare ke liye jate hai vo?

[@jyotisinghbaghel1720]

Thankyou so much...

[@DReet1999]

What about 2 struggling doctors?

[@vipinkumar-dt3qf]

My age 28 I am working in police

[@BabanKhatke]

Kmao do no phir.

[@Demon-th5di]

Stop blaming men

[@gurudev6446]

Sir merchant navy wale kya kre..

[@snehalpatil1055]

I'm wife of mariner😅😅 muje bhi yahi sawal puchana tha

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

I really believe mariners should retire earlier. They earn a LOT. and it’s tax free money. So just put an aim ki itna paisa collect hone ke baad I will stop my work. That way your employment satisfaction is there as well as family enjoyment. I don’t think mariners should work beyond 45. At max. Otherwise then you would have missed your entire youth as well as your child’s childhood. My friends father is a gas ship captain. 6 months home 6 months on ship. Unko 4 bacche unke aas paas aise mehmaano ki tarah ghoomte hai it’s so awkward to see. Though he gets the girls lots of expensive gifts. Or takes them holiday whenever they halt. But they see him as just that. An ATM. It’s actually awkward to see their interaction with their father😅

[@anjaliguglani7155]

Make video in laws toxic behaviour after love marriage….living with unmarried sil….. parents hating the couple living happily

[@asheesh_arora_0019]

Make Video On Intercaste Marriages in Nortindia

[@BALVINDER-Singh]

Already made

[@vipinaggarwal51]

What about 14 days duty and 14 days at home

[@ssss-cl3tf]

I have this problem..female..send me link

[@_aditya.sawant_]

Make a video on sending kids to hostel

[@sakshigupta3086]

Relationship

[@Equitylearners]

Propaganda caught......😂😂Sharvan Kumar was married and his wife was 'Manthara' . Manthara was the chief dasi of Queen Kaikeyi.....

[@varshajogriya]

Bhavnaao ko samjo....baki sab rehen do

[@Equitylearners]

@@varshajogriya bhanna to ye hai ki wife ko sas sasur ki sewa karni chahiye

[@varshajogriya]

@@Equitylearners vice versa I would say....sewa krwani hai to pehle layak baniye sewa ke ..jhagde b lagwaane hai maar b khilwni hai beizat b krna hai to apni sewa fir khud kriye ....aur bete se kraaiye ....bahu ko bakshiye

[@Equitylearners]

@@varshajogriya koi v sas apne bahu se jhagda nahi chahti h....... Sas ki bat man jhagda kyo hoga

[@varshajogriya]

@@Equitylearners tumko agar husband wound and father wound k baare me pata hota to itna common sense wala sawal nhi krta tu! Jhagda hota hee faltu ki baato pe hai qk bete ka dhyan inko bardash nhi ko bahu pe jaaye ....pichwade me jalan machti hai inke....jaake search kr aur knowledge badha

[@VikasChahar1411]

Aap bahut Intellegent Aadmi hain sir, but ye श्रवण कुमार unmarried था ये बात गलत bol gye आप। This is factually incorrect

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

But can you name an instance where he made his wife do seva for his parents? He himself did seva. AAP bhi shravan Kumar ho toh aap khud seva karo. Ladki apne maa baap ki karegi

[@VikasChahar1411]

@@lakshmikrithika2521 can you expect the same from your brother's wife ?

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

@@VikasChahar1411 obviously. And my brother kyu, My mother and Maasi take care of my nana Nani. My mama has been stuck in court cases in America. So he could come for 15 years now. But he sends ample money. And my mother and maasi take turns within themselves to care for them. Yes they used that money. But sometimes for months based on watch’s’ availability they would stay with my nana Nani. Even I did for them when I was studying in that city. My mothers got almost equal share in inheritance. Tum mere bhai ki kyu. Ye toh mere parents ke zamaane mai hi chal raha hai. Only you’re outdated. Even my prents are more progressive than you😂

[@VikasChahar1411]

@@lakshmikrithika2521 yup! shedding one's social and moral responsibility has become cool now a days and bearing with it is outdated. And yes, pls ask your mom that if your mama would not be staying abroad and would have stayed with your Nana Nani or in their neighbourhood only then also your Mom and Maasi would have done the same thing without having any grudge against your Mama ? Don't reply yourself, be genuine, ask your Mom and then rply

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

@@VikasChahar1411 not just my mausi and mother. Even my tauji and my own father has numerous times rushed to take care of them even when my mama was in India. You see we don’t have a concept of your parents vs my parents. Parents are parents. And if you think it’s shedding of whatever bulkshit culture you call it. Then we are very proud to say yes my parents have shed it long back. They have taken responsibilities of both sets of parents whenever and whoever needed it. There was no boys parents vs girls parents because till last year my mother was also catering to my dadi on her bedridden state. And yea I like being cool that way. Imagine calling yourself ‘cultured’ because you refuse to take responsibility of your wife’s parents. 😂 Bloody hypocrite. And you know what else. Since my mausaji is retired. My mausi mausaji bought a flat in next building to my grandparents. That way they can be close to them. My mausajis mother is a widow since last 30 years so she has no qualms living wherever her son lives. So she stays with mausaji too :) My dadi dadi are no more. My mamis parents had died in a car accident. But even if they were alive my mama had bought them a house in nearby area as retirement home so my mami won’t be running between maayka and sasural. Now tell me about your culture again🤣

[@bhagyashripatil6588]

Ye problem fouji couple ke liye jyada hota hai

[@gungun7248]

Husband sravan Kumar h.....😐

[@Clarityinlife335]

Kisi bhi divorcy ko fresh dulha nahi mil raha mere khaandaan mein 9 divorcy ladies ki shaadi divorcy se hee hui hai.

[@lakshmikrithika2521]

My own friend is a divorcee but she got married to a non married guy. There are a lot of factors that come into play. Like the age of girl. Prior years of marriage. Kids if any. Koi ek factor nahi hai😅

[@gungun7248]

Case studies

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Relatiinship

[@artikumari4618]

Aap 15year back chl rhe hain

[@Abhisheksharma-rf3qh]

thanks

[@bandna2085]

👌🏻🙏

[@sghosh22]

👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@parul264]

Sir, what if a woman is working away? And now her husband is saying that I married you so you can do seva of my parents .. what should that woman do?

[@parul264]

@izoldics husband is not willing to do that

[@jk-gz5hx]

Mt kr

[@sharksofsteel2080]

VRS..

[@Risk_Manager567]

VRS

[@vershatehlan9809]

Agar ladka ,ladki dono air force officers ho too

[@arpanmadrecha946]

@madhurani1441- the problem is the parents not passing away on time if they pass away early then all problems resolved

[@hemanyadav1303]

Aree🤐🤐

[@madhurani1441]

Parents should live happily in their own house away from their married children and not create nuisance and chaos in their children's married life.

[@ytubeyoutube-c6v]

9:53 Truth meri behen jija ji ke mu pe bolti hai ye line😂😂😂

[@natssinha]

Government should seek a policy for giving home postings to their employees

[@bikashsingh1180]

Brs

[@andaz-e-Kaamini]

Vrs

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G

[@harshrao2716]

vrs

[@MaheshRaokhande]

Very true sir this is my story VRS