Richard Cooper on the DANGERS of Dating Single Mothers

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[@antivictimblaming6851]

Yeah, you need the money, for a hair transplant, face lift, major plastic surgery, tummy tuck, AFTER you take a good bath in the Fountain of Youth and...oh, bah, just put your brain in a good-looking young man's body.

[@NobudeezDaughter]

21 Studios I would much rather prefer to contribute to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, their site has wonderful advocates who always validate and protect single mothers and other abused women from abusive losers like you while you are the one they always succeed in continuing to humiliate and expose. Lundy Bancroft, for example, is the handsome and charismatic hero that you will never be. You will more than likely end up making your own wife into a single mother because you sound a great deal like the men who abuse these women, being that you sadistically enjoy the abuse the fathers of their children gave them. It makes you feel better about the fact that you are so ugly and hideously aged that you ultimately are the one who will die unwanted and alone and deserve to. Everyone at the N.D.V. Hotline at 800-799-7233 agrees.

[@lolidoll1194]

@Richard Cooper Everyone I speak to at the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 including the men agrees with me that you are a loser and unattractive as well.

[@bravelyme1374]

@Richard Cooper This video further exposes you as the unwanted unattractive old loser you are: kzbin.info/www/bejne/e6LClp6up8-ErLs

[@HardcoreTomboy]

@@bravelyme1374 her newest video further proves gross old geezer Cooper wrong: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYTdYWNvZaumpM0

[@PrinceRevolver]

If you're a man with no kids, a single mom should never be an option to you.

[@danielbell6794]

Prince Revolver Preach!!

[@BilboTBaggins]

Someone knock me out, cause I'm a single male and I fell for a single mother...sh.t

[@stevewaddell3618]

Prince Revolver you know some single women with no kids?

[@PrinceRevolver]

Steve Waddell yes.

[@jfizz7911]

Single 32 year old male no kids... try finding a women at this age with no kids... they are unicorns.. and the ones without kids at 32 are fucking batshit crazy!

[@7s29]

I've dated a few single mothers. If you happen to meet one, run as far away as you can. Never take on another man's responsibly.

[@michaeldenave1615]

7s29 I wish I read this 8 years ago. It took me 47 years to wise up.

[@vincepurpura8905]

evnickols Exactly, not my kid. Not my problem.

[@demonvictim]

Love Dove nah its simple logic why would you join a party where you only know one person who you are mild friends woth and they habe all their attention on 3 other people.

[@faceious2006]

Love Dove I tell the single women I date with children to have a late late term abortion. Get what I’m sayin?

[@emohruo7996]

Yeap soon as they say I have 3 kids what job do you do then run as fast as you can don't look back

[@bobmarker6812]

She wanted the Bad Boy, now she wants someone to fix the train wreck.

[@miaouew]

And when the novelty of that wears off, she'll go off on the next fling that she has been setting up during your "relationship" and steal your kids.

[@nameavailable987]

I don’t understand why everyone thinks this. I thought I had a good man. He never partied or went out, he stayed in and loved to read loved spending time with me. Then one day he said I just wasn’t it for him anymore. He was a bad guy in disguise. Only wanted me until he got bored. And I was an idiot, emotionally dependent from narcissistic abuse. I will work on myself everyday until I’m healthy and not the stereotypical toxic single mother that expects a new man to take care of my child.

[@bobmarker6812]

Unfortunately, that happens sometimes. Take care of yourself and put yourself and your child first.

[@nameavailable987]

bob marker for sure, thanks

[@davidflash603]

All day long. The Train wreck they caused

[@hansblitz7770]

"Me and my 2 kids are a package deal" I'd rather open up a package from the unabomber.

[@Mr.Legend_Speaks]

😂😂😂 This made my night!

[@nh8965]

LMFAO

[@joshyjosh1990]

I’d rather open up a package of anthrax.

[@User-nu6km]

or a package from ISIS

[@KDB419]

Lol

[@javier77th]

This guy is absolutely correct! I dated a single mom and eventually moved her and her young daughter in with me. After awhile the daughter began doing things such as lying and stealing from me. I wasn’t allowed to reprimand her because I wasn’t her father. She then told one of her aunts that I hit her, which was completely untrue because Ive never hit my own son. She never told me that her daughter lied and I noticed the family change towards me because she was letting her family manipulate her and meddle in our relationship. When I did find out, I told her I could not accept that and told her that if her daughter can lie about me hitting her, the next thing she could lie about was about me touching her inappropriately and that I was not going to take a chance and having my life ruined over a lie so i told her they had to move to her mother’s house since they were meddling anyway. After she moved she told everyone I threw her out. As he said, I invested emotionally and financially and got ZERO return. She eventually broke up with me and left owing me almost $10 grand. Everything happens for a reason because that little girl could’ve ruined me. Lesson learned..... no more women have lived with me since.

[@katew.176]

Javier Aviles that sounds terrible. I'm happy for you that you were able to cut your losses before it was too late. I knew a girl who accused her stepdad of molesting her. You can imagine the drama. It caused her mom to divorce him. Eventually she admitted it was a lie. Poor man. She ruined his life. Be thankful you were smart about your situation. Good luck to you!

[@javier77th]

Kate W. Thank you 😊

[@macneoh7418]

Be thankful it was only 10K. You can always make more money. Imagine if you would've got her pregnant and paying on that for 18 years. In a lot of ways it was a cheap lesson.

[@justkeepitoriginal]

@Hicky Hicky exactly 10 grand is nothing compared to what others have lost

[@xTROLLINGx]

Or maybe you're lying just to make yourself feel good cuz you fucked up the relationship. you don't have to be a shame you're not a perfect man to hold a relationship anyways.

[@dabrazillionaire]

Dating a single mother is like starting someone else's saved game on story mode.

[@Sanjixoxo]

dabrazillionaire confusing and a waste of time

[@B-Man-69]

dabrazillionaire 😂 yes.

[@Skelstoolbox]

hahahahaha clever...

[@weworks7811]

🤣

[@micglobal]

@dabrazillionaire: Brilliant comment. Thank you.

[@rickazca774]

Never dated a single mother. Had a few ask me out. My response was always honest, I don’t date someone ‘s mom, work things out with the father.

[@redevous]

Haha! I bet some of them got pissed to hear that.

[@rickyw.2631]

Smart man, But what about the really hot ones? Lol, not even to just scratch the itch? Absolutely not, huh?

[@m.night_schlongislong]

ricky w. Temptation is a trick. Behind all the curves and pretty face there's still a crazy personality you have to deal with after sex.

[@PrimeInfinite]

Good one

[@mineduck3050]

Love it dude. Woman need a good excuse, but instead they produce excuses. Dont trust a womans love, it has an on off switch. Evidence is in divorce rates.

[@Grasshopper80s4ever]

I had a single mother working with me once on the cleaning crew and she used to bring her ten-year-old daughter to work. The girl's father was a worthless piece of crap in prison. The poor kid was shy and very quiet and I could definitely tell she was a very sad little girl. I spent the whole summer doing all I could for that kid even though she was not my responsibility. the mother was a worthless piece of crap and I could care less about her but I just wanted the best for that child no matter what. I would always buy lunch for the child because of mother was a worthless piece of s*** and would never feed her a proper healthy lunch. I gave her mother tickets to the carnival so that she could take her daughter only to find out that she's sold the tickets to buy flavored vodka. by the time the summer was over I loved that child like she was my own. Unfortunately her mother hooked up with some loser in another state and they moved away and her mother never even bothered to tell me. I just hope that kid is doing okay. the wrong type is women are breeding in this country and we need to stop this from happening

[@philmehrart]

Well, done to you for taking responsibility for that kid's wellbeing, someone had to. What a train wreck

[@ministryoftruth8588]

In the Philippines you would have been ARRESTED for doing that. Get this, I travel there for about 6 wks/every year, mostly to pick up young hot girls from 18-25 y/o. I'm 50 now so pretty much INVISIBLE to thw Hypergamous Bitches here in the US since I'm NOT a Millionaire (But am 6'3", an athletic 225 lbs., have all my hair and earn close to 6 figure income and have no kids), so my SMV in the Philippines is quite high. A few yrs. back, I think 2013, Hillary Clinton as Secretary of State arm twisted the Philippine Government to Pass a bunch of BS "Child Trafficking" Laws. Sounds GREAT doesn't it? How nice. WELL, NOW if you are a Foreign Man visiting or living in the Philippines and you date a Single Mom, or simply are Friends with one, and AT ANY TIME are alone with her minor children, it is LEGALLY ASSUMED you MOLESTED THEM. By PHILIPPINE LAW, You MUST have a FAMILY CHAPERONE, at minimum 1st Cousin be with you AT ALL TIMES with her child, RSPECIALLY in public. You CANNOT babysit the child when your GF isn't around. How about THAT!!!? DO NOT DATE SINGLE MOMS ... UNLESS you ENJOY getting Gang Raped in PRISON while getting your face slit wide open!!! Can you IMAGINE how MUCH$ you can be EXTORTED for with a BULLSHIT False Alligation like that hanging over yiur head!!!?

[@josejonhson674]

@@ministryoftruth8588 come on, that's because some men from western countries like going to Asian countries to prey on children. I'm not surprised that law passed.

[@pain-killeryates5448]

Your a good man. Decent, considerate and kind. That child will remember your kindness..

[@DiDie43]

Omg that's horrible. I'm sorry. Ur awesome for loving a child like ur own

[@shaunpilkington4625]

I like reading the dating app profiles My favourite is.. “ I have two amazing children, and they will always come first”

[@badlilstang]

Why wouldnt they?

[@dakotawalker7117]

Not something I wanna read on a dating app... have fun staying single bitch!

[@chrispatterson1019]

😂😂😂

[@tommygun5038]

Exactly the same as being Married With Children.

[@darnylgaming4377]

I find it weird when the women is still pregnant and their already on dating sites looking for a man like at least give birth first 😂

[@kenmtb]

Dating profile: Single mom with 2 boys who are my world.....*NEXT*

[@ericbennett8356]

She will make you forget that part, until later on when she reminds she told you so

[@everydaynine_2282]

K V bro you hit it on the head!!!

[@cincyfan987]

"My kids come first." Cool. I'll be the first to see myself out...

[@alexandriacaton2054]

They’re always their “World” and they’re always “so BEAUTIFUL”

[@gijsbon8065]

Alexandria Caton lol it’s true. And they are SO talented and smart. Could all be possible doctors lol

[@Chrisx3k]

Dating a female with a child is like chewing someone else's gum.

[@cflo1386]

Christopher D 😂

[@Vdonald09]

😂😂😂😂😥

[@myownruin187]

Well put!

[@allgood4634]

Or playing another person's saved game with the controller on high sensitivity.

[@markjackson8442]

cum*

[@alexesquivel8566]

As a son of a single mother (widow) I can honestly say it’s been a rollercoaster of a life. She did excellent with my brother and I but she was at a loss on how to raise us. We basically raised ourselves because she would just wanna relax (understandable). We couldn’t ask her for any advice or help on things because she was overly drained. Women can NOT raise and teach boys to be men. Only fathers can do that.

[@epope98]

i dont count widows in that category. They didnt really have a say in those life choices that accrued.

[@alfredofloyd]

NoHappyEndings 96 so are you a good man or a bad man?

[@poppopartist3870]

Spot on just signed the permission slip rarely involved

[@marcusanark2541]

Widowed mothers and single mothers are different things in my book, I agree with the rest.

[@michaelsix9684]

I have said this for years, and so glad you shared your view

[@playere25]

I agree with every word he said. As a single 31 yr black man with no kids, my own place, car, etc don't drink nor smoke, I refuse to accept / lower my standards to settle. To be straight up 100% honest no bs. The main reasons why is cause the average woman wants to wait until they've been ran through with x amount of kids to find a good man, often pass over / ignore the good men until it's too late and always have drama and attitudes.

[@rajkotecha9476]

playere25 a

[@TheMissionOfSubmission]

Unfortunately, I know women like that in my family. I won't say who, but they married a single man, while having 4 kids. She's a disgrace to what women are supposed to represent.

[@playere25]

It doesn't matter on this video, however this exact topic though is way too common when trying to talk to black women. I've dated different races but it just is what it is.

[@80PercentAshamedOfU]

Gus Scott I think he’s just saying that he’s a rare commodity in the black community. Also, most black women have kids, which would shrink the dating pool drastically for him.

[@youarebetterthanme7629]

playere25 unless they're Hispanic, Asian or Indian by 30 virtually all women r single mothers

[@TheAMBULOCETUS]

Best line, Her: I’m looking for a “real” man. What she’s really saying is, she wants a real man (chump) to take care of her and all her kids by different bad boys, while accepting the fact that you will never come first in her life! Just make sure your wallet is always full.

[@ShaunHensley]

Lolol keep looking.

[@ericrobbins6418]

I cant stand when women act like you're somehow less of a man because you dont want to play daddy to their child who they probably shouldn't of had in the first place. No I'm good I dont need all that baggage.

[@kenhenrylynn5448]

Eric Robbins it’s just a shaming tactic. Be fearless and keep trucking lol!

[@ludacorleone8563]

who gives a fuck what they say keep running FOREST!!

[@Shyhalu]

@Where did I leave my shekels? Yup, and as soon as you start acting like a real man they start shaming you for that. Its just a trick to put a leash on your neck.

[@abvisuals7200]

In fact you're more of a man for not playing daddy. You know your self-worth

[@deaddropsd1972]

AVOID. THAT. SHIT.

[@jorge31415927]

When I was going through this .. my colleague at work told me .. “Jorge .. I went through this .. I raised another man’s daughter for 13 years since she was barely 1 year old. Now she has blocked me.” Here was his most eye-opening and sobering comment: “the only person that considers you that child’s father is .. YOU”. He was 💯 % bang on!

[@Godfather19704]

I worked with a chick who was 28 yrs old, and I got to know a little about her boyfriend from him coming in periodically to drop her lunch off. They just had a son together, and he was barely a year old. A couple months later my job hired this new guy, and this chick fell head over heals for him within a week. She was merely struck by his looks. They started hanging out in the corner table at work on break together. She flaunted this relationship at work, but hid it from her boyfriend. Most of us felt odd because her boyfriend came in a couple times since this affair began. Within a couple of weeks she decided to dump her boyfriend, and began making plans to move out. She had no compunction about just up and leaving one guy she just had a baby with, and go run off with this new guy from work. But what made me equally sick was that this new guy could have cared less that he was wrecking a family. She did this to her own family, I get it, but it never amazes me how easy it is for a guy to do that to another man's family. This chick is now pregnant with the new guys kid, and they rented a house together, she's all excited about her baby shower coming up and shit. It's really disgusting. Chicks can just up and leave so easily, it's really trippy. Most guys I know have all been through it at some point.

[@RoverEins]

Dudley Dawson sadly not all men or women for that matter are raised to have common decency. In a perfect world any man would have enough respect for his fellow brother and stay away from his mate and child. But we don't live in a perfect world, our world is fucked.

[@sol1120]

she knew the first guy had the balls to screw her but none to commit. So she goes to the next guy in spite of the first guy. The second guy won’t last long either so she’s deeper in trouble- on her own. It’s likely her family was broken too. There’s a very good reason the Bible talks about this and we see numerous examples it daily. The family has a big spike driven through it. Very sad

[@pxndxlunx5821]

Lol trust me dude, it won't end well for that bitch. Feel bad for home boi tho

[@grantpopplewell38]

Woman who don't have kids, that are in a relationship will stay with their man.. untill they have kids.. and then the male is not needed any longer, so they dump you

[@captaingenius-o1c]

Well it's RINSE, WASH, REPEAT......I know a girl at work who is fairly new....Has 3 kids, and is currently dating a guy that is now in jail for a while....she is only 23 years old........If she were a car, she would be a 1973 pinto from Maine.........

[@GeneralG1810]

Dating a single mother is like playing another mans save game

[@xo7499]

so date married mothers instead?

[@Kimoharoun]

@@wattlebough remind me how u knoe.

[@TrippyLiberty]

another man's saved game that can become corrupt & unplayable at any moment

[@ozzyozbornntv203]

Facto

[@LouSaydus]

when you put it that way, it just sounds wrong. Makes me feel wrong.

[@OneMansLoss]

Everything he said made me cringe a little because it sounds so harsh, while nodding in absolute agreement

[@QED_]

@rransomm: Exactly the healthy response to have . . .

[@2410ec]

‘WOW - I WANT TO FIRST APOLOGIES TO WHATEVER YOUR MOTHER, MAY HAVE DONE TO YOU. I respect your viewpoints per your own experiences. I want to share a viewpoint in hope it will help you see the flip side of your message. How about this: 1. The numerous amount of heart break you’ve mentioned - could have been prevented if the guys entered the relationship with an Objectifying plan, and with the ability to communicate those plans in order to co-exists. The question, on this should be - what was really dude intention? 2. “The questionable judgment” pertains to whom - the father? The one whom lacked the capacity to manage a family or kid and decides to dump his responsibility to MOM? So now she’s forced to TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY TO FUFILL THE NECESSARY OBLIGATIONS FOR THE FAMILY UNIT - ARE YOU SAYING THAT MOM SHOULD TURN HER BACK JUST LIKE DAD DID? 3. “You will never be priority” “Thinks the world revolves around her & her kids” “Emotionally unavailable” These statements are almost laughable - you can tell you’ve NEVER BEEN MARRIED WITH KID(S) or PERHAPS YOU FORGET TO INTERVIEW YOUR OWN DAD, oh - wait, let me guess, you were raised by SINGLE MOTHER? 4. Wait did you shared your child’s age? Has your child been around strange male and willingly with no efforts from the stranger male she has cooperated? 5. The only distorted images I see here, is the one you portrayed. 6. Now, you’re a saying that by being a Single Mother who now will have to single handle every task to help her child grow healthy, capable, and happy, ie., school activities, doctors appointment, dance recitals, homework, cooking, laundering, cleaning, let’s not forget WORK TO PROVIDE FOOD, SHELTER, MEDICAL INSURANCE, CLOTHES, TRANSPORTATION, EDUCATION/DAYCARE/AFTER SCHOOL PROGRAM & MORE IS RARELY TAKING OWNERSHIP? Sweety, before you embark on the journey of Slandering ANY SINGLE MOTHER OR PARENTS. Please, forgive your own mother, for putting OTHER MALE IN HER LIFE BEFORE YOU! THE MESSAGE YOU REALLY OMITTED HERE WAS THIS: YOU THOUGHT YOU COULD MAKE THE SAME MOVES THOSE LOOSER MALE YOUR MOM PUT BEFORE YOU AND IT BITE YOU IN YOUR REAR BUMB, BECAUSE YOU’VE BEEN HOOKING UP WITH REAL ENGAGING, EDUCATED SINGLE MOTHERS THAT HAVE ZERO TOLERANCE WITH MALE WHO BRING ZERO CONTRIBUTIONS AND CAN’T MATCH HER GAME! BE A MAN AND RESPECT THE HARD, ENJOYABLE WORK THAT A SINGLE PARENT MUST DO IN ORDER TO MAKE THINGS GO RIGHT FOR THIER KID - WHILE THE OTHER PARENT DECIDES TO DROP HIS/HER DUTIES AS A PARENT. I hope that the male that are viewing your channel become wise and received the bitter hidden message. DUDE, YOU’RE HURT BY YOUR OWN CHILDHOOD LIFE! IF ANYTHING, the missing parent should be slandered! Signing off, The Married Lady with children!’

[@derekhowlett8520]

rransomm RIGHT

[@greatpyrenees559]

Be Responsible! All you did was find a way to blame men for not tolerating a situation they didn't create

[@jnoirj3124]

+Be Responsible! "IF ANYTHING, Single Mother's have more to offer and the missing parent should be slandered!" The biggest things single motherhood has contributed to our society is increased crime rate and government spending via welfare... Also, nice way to again place the blame on men.

[@BrockLanders]

No self respecting man without kids should be dating a single mother.

[@holdon2829]

Terrence Thomson , he has a child so he just seems bitter. He wasn’t important. Why is a guy paying child support a catch when he didn’t make it through the relationship with his ex? There’s complications on our end as well when dealing with single fathers.

[@redram5150]

He doesn’t deny that deadbeat dads exist. The foundation of his POV is engaging the commonly held misconception that society and individuals have that favor women while denigrating men. I’ve been present for conversations where women ganged up on a guy who clearly wasn’t interested dating a single mom before he even knew she had kids. Her friends almost immediately got on his case about it. Even if it was about kids, it’s a reasonable position to hold. His advice is geared specifically for the guy who wants to find a quality mate in a world with the real issues of male disposability, the “women are wonderful” phenomena, and feminists pushing to alleviate women of every responsibility they have had historically while demanding men continue with every responsibility they’ve had throughout time that’s benefitted women. Women will settle for the best financial option that’s present even if they don’t care about him in the slightest. They will then abandon him without a second thought when another male with better prospects and possessions shows interest.

[@EnzotheOutlawBiker15]

Terry Thomson at least they have proof they can get laid and you never will. All of you sound incredibly sexually deprived

[@5000NATE]

Indeed

[@mattwuxx3888]

@h Um, for the last *45+ years..* There is literally *NO* excuse for a woman getting pregnant outside of forcible rape(which makes up only 2-5% or unwanted pregnancies). So, whether or not the dad "abandoned" the kids, *ANY* woman in a relationship in *OR* outside of marriage, having sex with a man who's of questionable *OR* seemingly great character, it is *100 FUCKING PERCENT* on the *woman,* to make sure no kids happen from these unions. So *sick* of this *bullshit* argument from accountability-immune harlots defending their indefensible actions and *refusing* to put the blame where it belongs. Birth control is cheaper and more available than *EVER* before. If you want something more advanced like Depo, *stop* buying useless shit, properly allocate your extra income, and *BUY THAT SHIT!* As I said, there is literally *NO FUCKING REASON,* for a woman who isn't a mental patient or rape victim to be getting pregnant, unles they *want* to. SO please, drop the *BUILLSHIT,* Ma'am.

[@SWIFTzTrigger]

The comments have been interesting, women have zero empathy for men yet expect men to have empathy for them once they leave their ex and come with more responsibilities for the new guy.

[@spacelyman9482]

Exactly, It's crazy isn't it?

[@laszlokiss483]

Horrible

[@Jhihmoac]

SWIFT - I have absolutely no empathy, nor compassion for a "thot" (which is what most of them are to begin with) whatsoever... Instead, I treat them like thots, and leave them be..

[@darnylgaming4377]

No sir not me i tried that once never again

[@zacduke764]

@NightWolf fuck yeah that made me laugh because that's how I feel LOL

[@DoubleAgent25]

Ive dated one single mom. I got to know her and like her first before she ever told me she had a daughter. She eventually told me, and I was okay with it because I thought this girl was cool. Shoulda seen the red flag from a mile away. Once we got comfortable with each other the mind games commenced. One day she tells me, "Im pregnant". My 20 year old brain wasn't ready to hear those words, but I accepted my fate and braced myself for fatherhood. Months go by as I build my character, work ethic, and bank account. I was ready, but she wasn't. Her self destructive tendencies took over and irrationality consumed her. She told me she had been cheating on me for some time with some other mother fucker with one leg. She explained that this man she was seeing was a once in a lifetime opportunity and she had to take it. As a father, I was terrified. I was about to have a child with someone I now hated. A few more weeks go by and Im informed that she is not actually pregnant with my child. The minute I learned this, I broke up with her. She then moved to where this other guy lives, and within a year and 2 months after we split she was pregnant with this new guy. Needless to say, I learned my lesson. Im never getting with a single mom again. They are psychopaths and there's a reason they're single.

[@141johndo]

damn....

[@shaf1ke]

The other guy had one leg? Damn man

[@yautja2232]

Anthony one leg, once in a lifetime opportunity. Yeah to live off his disability and not work a day the rest of her life. Congratulations on dodging that one. I got lucky with mine I guess she's smart still good looking. We get along, our kids are amazing together. Horrible that so many are worthless. But what can you expect in a time when money is a reason to ignore vows. Where the generation is so stupid they need classes in schools to teach kids how to make a bed, simple foods, and not eat poisonous things like tidepods or having to tell teens in sex Ed that snorting condoms is not a good idea. Where loyalty, respect, and common sense are considered pointless. No shit read a post on here that said a woman cheating on her husband to find a man with more money was actually smart, intuitive, and morally ok. It was written by a very weak minded man, but still. There was a 25 yo that posted on line that she swallowed several condoms and could no longer get pregnant from swallowing. And yet people are still shocked.

[@TheMissionOfSubmission]

IvO09 It's easier said than done

[@TheMissionOfSubmission]

The Red-Eyed Baron Acting like it's always a man's fault is just as bad. Women make everything about them, but what about the kids? They get to emotionally attached to a guy, then realize after the fact that he's bad. I don't have any kids because I don't rush things. I want to birth them into the best household possible. That means I need to be married to a righteous man. I use my parents as spiritual eyes, so they can determine who's suitable and who isn't. Everybody wants to be independent so badly, that they don't discern their partners. No matter what, decisions always affects the children. If the guy is scum, why get pregnant by him... Maybe the same traits will be passed down his kids.

[@cesarrivera8626]

I have a step dad and he is one of the best things to have happened to my life. Just the other week I called him and asked him if he needed his grass cut since he has bad allergies I didn't want him to have to do it. I will always value what he did for me and my family and though I love my biological father I honor my step dad even more. It's not always a loss my dad (not biological) will always be taken care of I'll make sure of that.

[@Vibestr]

Cesar Rivera Goes to show you can't generalize

[@Wrathofkala]

Cesar Rivera You're a wise young man with great morals. Keep that mindset it will serve you well in life.

[@heidymurillo4001]

Cesar Rivera I was just thinking that this man is making so many generalizations. I've met people who after separating, there's still a tight knit bond with the child and once step parent that lasts a lifetime. I think this dude was seriously burned and is very butthurt about that previous relationship.

[@prestongarvey7244]

Cesar Rivera good job, you betrayed your family

[@tortellini1196]

Unfortunately ur in the minority on that 😕

[@M888KDH]

I'm a female and I think this guy is totally spot on.

[@theblackhammer1]

You are what we call a 🦄 they are rear but when you see one OMG.

[@forwarddiscipline]

VALIENTINE SVUNURAI actually, thats bait. this here is a chameleon.

[@IKENAK]

@@theblackhammer1 The reason why such people are called 🦄, it's because they don't exist. 😂 AWALT!

[@Christoff070]

How many single mothers have you met? I've met three, and they have all been the most amazing open people, known them for 6+months each

[@ArbitratorTemplar]

@@Christoff070 Try dating them, see if you change your mind.

[@derrickstreets6159]

Best to marry a woman without children.

[@carriea.2467]

Derrick Streets best to merry a men with no kids and child sopport.

[@derrickstreets6159]

Wilbur Wonka I tried to marry a woman who had raised her son and he was 2 6 years old. I agree it is hard to marry a man who has children and child support. At this point in my life I would just like a lady who come and visit couple of days a week we enjoy each other's company and she goes home. No attachments just good healthy friendship.

[@cflo1386]

Wilbur Wonka I second that

[@crammit6601]

Derrick Streets Yup, just don't wait too long. I'm 41, my wife is 39 and the possibility of us not being able to have any children is real.

[@MGTOWRising]

Best to not marry at all. Men gain NOTHING by getting married and stand to lose EVERYTHING when the divorce comes.

[@MrTakeshi763]

Having dated a single mother for 5 years i can honestly and from an informed opinion say that this guy is 100% accurate! Don’t do it guys she aint worth it

[@xlivalexander2111]

MrTakeshi763 5 years bro?......5

[@MrTakeshi763]

Eric its a few years to waste for sure

[@MrTakeshi763]

jaylove i was in love unfortunately. But in some ways ur right. Moved on and much happier now

[@diegoguzman8843]

MrTakeshi763 5 fucking years!?!? Fucking hell, that's a lot!!!!

[@MrTakeshi763]

Diego Guzman it was. Was planning on marrying her but she was type to break up for few months at time for literally anything. Was def made harder by fact me and her kid were so close. Literally like a proper father and son so that was also used as a weapon by her. Hard life lesson to learn but it was def learnt

[@desktopshorts7411]

I used to work with a girl who had a young kid & she ran through more dudes than hot meals. She had the kid with some drug dealer who wanted nothing to do with her. Now the kid's unruly, slaps people who try to talk to him, makes a scene wherever they go. Her friends treated it as if nothing was wrong. I nearly fell into the same trap - got with a Spanish girl who wanted nothing but babies (noble, but very flawed.) This caused me to break up with her after a year. I even had to make sure she took the damn pill, something that caused MAJOR friction. 2 months later she was pregnant & now her life seems hard as hell. I'm not sure of the moral of what I'm saying but God damn. If you're gonna bring a person into this world you need a plan.

[@soulcaliberlinkt1k832]

Conor Doyle my old lady wants kids really bad but i do not. Every time we fight its the same old thing, she wants em i don't, if i left her i bet she'd get knocked up quick and ruin her life. Sad but true

[@desktopshorts7411]

soulcaliberlink t1k Sorry to hear that, mate. From what I've learned in my 31 years (bear in mind I'm not a parent myself) it's that the most balanced & happy family units are the ones where both parents plan it all out carefully. Funnily enough, and I'm not attacking all women (just some of them), a lot of women today just want a child as they think it'll make their lives better and solve their current problems, and they won't stop until they meet a man who will do that. This is directly related to the rise in single parent households in 2017/2018. I couldn't imagine a less flawed plan of bringing someone into this world, especially these days. Anyways, I'm rambling. Hope things work out with you & your girl. It's always nice to see happy families about the place! (Edit: I live in London so there's not that many of them around here these days lol)

[@deshawndadon9237]

These bitches nowadays have no plans there all gas no brakes

[@desktopshorts7411]

A Person Hold on a minute. Did you just say sexual abuse? Where in the world did you get that from?!

[@funnymicepacman4457]

Conor Doyle co-dependents

[@itsjogirl]

I am a single mother. What he is saying is absolutely right. My advice for single moms, stay single, take care of yourself so that you can take good care of your children. And for the sake of your kids sanity, try your best to have a good relationship to your kids father. When your children are grown up you can date again,until that, be the best mom you can be.

[@Freedom4PalestineEndZioNazism]

If half of them were as sensible and sensitive to their kids, honestly they wouldn't be single mums.

[@painexotic3757]

I dated a 27 year old single mom with a 5 year old lol. At the time, I was extremely beta (I hate using this word but it fits me perfectly at that time in my life lol). She had alot of babydaddy issues because she was essentially still in love with her babydaddy so she would cause problems because he had a new chick around (she was jealous of her). Not only that, she never really had the ability to do stuff unless the kid was with his dad. She was essentially an emotional wreck who need confirmation and love 24/7 because she felt empty and lonely yet I stood by her like an idiot. It was a crazy 7 months I dated her and the only reason I don't regret it is because it was a life lesson to me: AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS! Never will I ever get into a situation like that again. I'm childfree and never want kids nor do I want marriage.

[@MisterH1992]

You should have left her ass the moment you saw she was jealous of her baby daddy's new girlfriend. The best place you could come up with is number 2, if the baby daddy was dead that is. Why would you settle for being number 3 to begin with? That is a shitty feeling.

[@rmjmoviereviews6876]

@Alexander Jenkins Extremely True!

[@johnnyson7474]

I was a beta too and a white knight that defends women. After witnessing men being abused and stressed from women. Especially experiencing it myself after dating a woman. I can honestly say. All the stories about men being abused by women are true. Feminist can no longer manipulate me into thinking women have it harder than men when in reality we men are being treated below society under women and children. If you see red flags, run!

[@SpritMatterMan]

I dated a single mother of two sons. I asked her what happened with her husband, she said he was controlling and left him with her two sons. Her ex didn't know where they were for something like six months. Once she told me that story I lost all respect for her: I do not date single mothers at all!!! No thanks!!!!

[@fredericpaquin1469]

kinda hard dating this days...either you have the single moms...or the career women type or the high maintenance woman..or the fat chick who think she s the hot stuff... and the good ones are married... so whats left..is left overs...

[@Swingman30]

This is 100% Facts

[@poppopartist3870]

Nice analysis

[@arthurbarrios888]

You said it beautifully

[@chanceklein]

🎯

[@God.sDaughter]

What’s wrong with a career woman? She’s just working hard.

[@kvs7876]

Currently dating a single mother for six months. I’m starting to see that she’s using her kids priority to stop doing things that she promises. She gives me excuses like I’ve been bamboozled by my kid. Last night she told me she was happy that I was her playmate while her son was growing up. Wish I’d seen this video before I met her. Probably gonna end our relationship soon.

[@craighenderson1131]

Oh men do it ASAP

[@ErtuğrulBeySon]

Why wait? END IT NOW AND RUN!

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

Just moved on don’t look back at all they are not responsible for anything

[@dahoomancentipee9461]

It's been 7 months. What's the update?

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

@@dahoomancentipee9461 i am doing the same thing health boundaries but I got to deal with her because she is my spiritual friend or spiritual sister from my spiritual class we are servant of god but dealing with as a woman perspective from a friend point view

[@mlkefisher5382]

Dated a single mother 20 years ago and this is spot on for advice.

[@deaddropsd1972]

Mlke Fisher me too pal. I avoided the LANDMINE in 1998. Whew!

[@MrPink2024]

Bet you are still single and lonely.

[@deaddropsd1972]

Mr Pink not me. Married in 2011 at 39. Got 2 beautiful healthy kids.

[@MrPink2024]

deaddropsd1972 Then send this video to your wife's new boyfriend.

[@deaddropsd1972]

Mr Pink sigh. I actually let my wife see some of this. We were talking about her friend who is a single Mom. It’s a bummer that there are so many divorces etc... my folks are divorced. It is a bomb I hope to avoid. I think deferring marriage until after 35 is a step in the right direction. Encourage birth control among the unfit. Oh well... fingers crossed.

[@bobmarker6812]

When I was single, I would never date a woman with kid's. Nothing against them, I'm just childfree and didn't want to mislead them.

[@lock514]

You’re not a priority until she needs help paying bills!!

[@poobuttass6662]

and when she asks say no :D

[@RJOH794449]

Heck yeah, double hockey sticks.

[@alivegas1012]

Aint that the truth

[@l.tmckeithen3696]

AMEN!!!!

[@eddykapasibu7899]

Still not the number 1 priority.

[@csbaca1]

Women act strong and independent until it's time to be strong and independent. In addition, if they have a son, he is the love of her life, not you! She will drop you before him in a heartbeat. Take your time and money elsewhere.

[@lavishzac6777]

You will never ever be a priority... only time you will be a priority when them bills and mouths to feed due

[@rspvarun]

Fax brother🙏

[@tungstencarbide7255]

Men should stay away from single moms as much as they should stay away from having baby mamas. Trust me I know.

[@GamerNRetro]

It's like putting gas in a car that's already been wrecked.

[@anthonyperkins5856]

hahahahahaha

[@drumrboi72]

As in TOTALLED!😉👍

[@limitlesswisdom9499]

Airbags already deployed

[@divineprovidence803]

A car that's been driven by a boy racer! It's worn out!

[@czos9239]

Where it might've started out as a lambo, but they filled it with crappy oil & gas, raced it around, fucked up the transmission, and the whole thing is now trashed out nastiness slobbing in the driveway as you're stuck out doing the lawn. "Yeah, she used to be a lambo." Leave that shit in the junkyard.

[@ohbejuankenobi663]

This is 100% legit. Believe me or not I don't care. I worked 65 hour work weeks in September, October and November. Spent around 2k on stuff for the mom and her 3 kids. On Christmas day I got to see smiles and reactions to all the cool stuff I got them which is nice. My GF of 4 years got me body wash... her mom at least got me some beer. Lesson to the story don't bother. It's not worth your time, effort and love.

[@Mannsy83]

Better off saving that money for holidays bruh.. Come to Australia

[@Janine466]

You're a perfect example for the word idiot.

[@israelbensimon41]

Buy a brain dude

[@crashfellow82]

Wow it's crazy for me watching this.. i dated a single mom, and exactly like you said... You always know you'll be number two in their lives, but you never realise how enormous the gap between 1 and 2 is. She cheated on me (i found out we broke up) which i got proof yet she denied, i look after (paid) for her and her daughter for 8 months and away she went.. and part of our troubles was me always holding her daughter somewhat at arms length from fear of being hurt, i went all in, and now she's gone, her daughters gone, and after spending 4/5 years raising her i feel very alone and left out in the cold... like you said, poor choices with no accountability, world revolving around them... so good to hear this happens to others too.. makes you feel less in the cold.

[@JeeGee114]

Well I feel you. Mine had two boys. If you take responsability and man up you are not Interesting anymore. She was not looking for a real man. She just wanted a bad boy. Just like when she got pregnant.

[@katew.176]

She should've broken up with you first if the issue was you keeping a distance from the kid. Sorry you were cheated on. Not right.

[@BagoPorkRinds]

Be very glad she didn't get you hooked to paying her child support. Or was too stupid to not think about doing it.

[@Petarosus]

Thats waht you get for not being good looking ;-).

[@jerimiahstephens8580]

@Tyrone jacobs jr that's debatable if they're already in their teens and their dad is a good guy then it would be hard to be anything more then mom's boyfriend or stepdad but if dude isn't in the picture and they're still young enough and u can fill that void you could have a real relationship. I get that they're not biologically yours but it does take more then just that to be a dad.

[@AImighty]

My cousin who’s a single mom is trying to convince my other cousin who’s 40, to hook up with this chick who’s a single mom of THREE kids. She got Mad at me for trying to intervene and telling him that he should never go for a single mom since he’s clean and has no kids. Most Single moms, especially these days are no good, they back each other up and want to set men up for failure because they’re unhappy. The only types of single moms who aren’t shitty people IMO are widows and older single moms who are legitimately good people and come from a marriage of an abusive scumbag husband, but those kinds of single moms are pretty Rare. Most of these single moms in their 20s are just shitty narcissistic people who were too stupid to use protection.

[@jimcrow7165]

You did the right thing.

[@saynotohookups]

My half-sister was a single Mom. She met the man who would be her husband when her son was five years old. They had a daughter together. To this day they are still together.

[@candice446]

You have a duty to your family to educate them. Whenever I see women and men getting played, I side-eye their family. You always put your family up on game. I hope you at least tried to teach her about men and herself.

[@DestructoDisk]

@@saynotohookups her now husband is an idiot who hasn't been fucked over yet.

[@marcadams3687]

Some single moms will tell you their ex was an abusive dead beat

[@christopherwarren7467]

"Don't make someone else's problems yours"... Learn it, know it, live it!!!

[@divineprovidence803]

They've got less options and most men aren't interested. These women and those over 30 experience what it's like for men who are rejected over and over throughout their lives. Men who aren't wealthy, tall, dark and handsome who have few options and don't have any interest from women. Before they became single mothers and over 30 they probably had many options and interest from men?

[@tonytoni1150]

divine providence good point, the roles definitely reverse. Let her know how it feels.

[@whodareswins486]

Why is this so bloody TRUE

[@70brine]

This was good. Men should stay away from single Mom”s 95 percent of the time. Most are single for a good reason. Women aren’t always the victims.

[@mclovinDC7]

For a bad reason you mean

[@70brine]

ITOHMANSKI DayChief that too.

[@ItsWillTalk]

Yeah....but there is that 5%. There are some really solid women out there that are beautiful in and out. Let's not shit on all single mothers

[@MrMalicious5]

Will Mitchell Are you going to go through the sea of shit to find the diamond in the rough? Better to avoid all together.

[@saynotohookups]

It's not always the woman it's the man who was just out to use her. He probably gave her an ear load of lies about how much he loves her and stuff just to get with her for one night.

[@kruno45]

This guy is so right it isn't even funny. I met my single mother while working with her, her ex was a bum period on welfare. Their daughter has severe behavioural issues and just as I was about to exit she told me she was pregnant. I did the right thing and stayed, her daughter has zero respect for me, her mom condones the bad behaviour and villifies me. I have worked hard and aged considerably to give things to people that have no love for me but just use me. I love my daughter and will not leave out of love for my biological daughter as long as I can. These women screw up then expect the knight in shining armor but want blood like a vampire. If you have no children use birth control and do not get caught in the trap otherwise consider a life of servitude.

[@warewolf626]

Amen

[@flatman3134]

Did you have a paternity test done on your daughter?

[@snowwalker9999]

@Oz OzOz experience tells me you are correct 100%!

[@macneoh7418]

Damn dude, you should go talk to young men at high schools and share your story.

[@nameavailable987]

I did screw up, I was wrong about who I believed I chose to be with. I’m not looking for anyone to save me, just someone to enjoy life with. Everyone deserves love and happiness. I’m not trying to convince you to date single mothers, I don’t even know what I’m doing by commenting. I guess I am just defensive because I am a single mom haha.

[@michaelkuntz7227]

Thank you for discussing this. I won't get into my life story with women. However honestly at age 45 for about 2 months now I have been single. I can date 2 women that want to go out. Honestly though I don't want too anymore. I think to myself nothing but draining my energy and looking to live off of me. I am starting to feel healthier mentally and physically again simply by being by myself. There's no more craziness and drama. No more of me paying for everything and then being bossed around. There's no more calling the police when she's mad (never ever hit anyone or do crazy irrational stuff). No more kids telling me off and saying that you are not my real father. Etc. Etc. Etc Sure I miss having sexual intimacy but it really truly doesn't matter anymore. I don't feel pussificated anymore. I have much more self confidence. I know what you are thinking. No. Im honestly not going back to craziness anymore. I am established professionally and make a decent salary. I have my dog, nice house, sports car, luxury car, great gym to go too. I no longer want to give everything that I spent 25 years working for to a woman and kids from another man It sounds so selfish but now I'm living for myself, my happiness. Thank you for reading. I sincerely wish everyone in here sincerely happiness.

[@CA-gy4qf]

I feel like a youthful version of you, I'm 21, spent a lot of time searching for "the one", was even seeing a 28 year old with three kids for a while. I found it so stressful, then I realised I have my dog, got the mortgage, have a decent stable job, have two cars. I'm doing alright for myself if I do say so myself. I've looked on dating sites and women always list what they want, but not what they can offer, whereas males always list what they can give, and not what they are after. Most women on dating sites have little to give other than an attitude problem and a body.

[@isisl8522]

Lol pussyficated lol. But I amhappy you found enlightment

[@justkeepitoriginal]

@@CA-gy4qf it's sad but true.

[@jdh1969]

Enjoy your peace and happiness brother!

[@christoalonzo]

Thanks for sharing your story, bro! I am currently in a relationship with a single mom with two kids and everytime we argue, she always say that I don't deserve her and her kids. I think it's hilarious. I should break up with her now, right?

[@bowilliam3865]

The vast majority of women are not worthy of any substantial investment.

[@ApartmentViews]

bo william What's ideal? What ideally makes women worthy of investment?

[@shirohilight1502]

you can never find a woman your equal, you need to find someone to compliment you

[@joshspiker]

Or any investment at all. I only invest in myself.

[@cool08player]

Exactly why MGTOW is growing.

[@Fluxey1]

her : i deserve a second chance me: I don't take chances 🙋

[@normanbates6649]

Shit. Back when she was a Sport Illustrated 10 she wouldn't give time of day. But now she broke AF, looking like Michelin Man and 3 kids,see you with good ass job,then she wanna holla.

[@solomonwise6508]

Me: Im not here to "rescue" you from your "choices" in life....FACTS!

[@Curling_Rack]

W

[@teamawesome2171]

Hahahaaaa

[@Joseph-cp6du]

As a guy that been heart broken over a single mom for quit a while I really needed to see this. Thank you, it cheered me up.😀

[@Narcos-wb4yq]

😂😂😂😂🇯🇲👌

[@2ReAL0317]

If you want to always come 2nd, date a single parent . If you want to spend money on kids that you didn’t even get to make, date a single parent. Single parents aren’t bad people. I’m just saying don’t settle. No one dreams of being a step parent

[@mikeheaton8424]

The worst deal in the universe ! Why would any guy walk into that hot mess !

[@carolinapirate2830]

Woman: I'm looking for a man to be a father to my kids. Me: Why? Don't you know who got you pregnant?

[@viviennepettigrew597]

Carol inaPirate because the actual biological father couldn't stand up and be a decent man, and love and take care of his children . . . That's why . . . Not every single mum is a thot!

[@josiahjones5293]

Vivienne Pettigrew yes they are.

[@omiorahman6283]

Vivienne Pettigrew hHahahaha

[@katew.176]

Josiah Jones so your mum is one. I see. Explains your bitterness.

[@josiahjones5293]

Kate W. I'm bitter in 3 words? Judge much.....

[@moneycultural102]

141 dislikes are single mothers.

[@MGTOWRising]

and cuckolds and simps

[@nanapearlpearl2696]

😂😂😂

[@LesA.R.6568]

And suckers who love them.

[@davidrodgers7704]

Donovan Fuller yup

[@hogantheredpill9231]

Donovan Fuller 405

[@AgentSmith911]

If you have a dating profile, just say "I hate kids" and you'll get the woman of your dreams.

[@jrv1326]

Hoss Cartwright I gotta try that

[@sambeezy007]

Lol that sounds about right

[@elizabethowens8548]

Carpet crawlers curtain climbers. I did have one he's a cool kid because i have an awesome husband but I didn't want to procreate mindlessly it was carelessness on my part. I lucked out. But i am saying if one is not maternal gird your loins ladies and gentlemen

[@elizabethowens8548]

The Red Eyed Baron. Exactly. Plus us ladies who have a compromised maternal instinct proceed only with caution. A healthy woman will express maternal life giving nature even if she doesn't want children in her people and her space

[@reachinghigher4259]

That’s ridiculous. A woman isn’t unhealthy if she happens to not have much of a maternal instinct. It just means she’s more self aware, and isn’t a slave to biology. The ones you have to watch out for are the ones with no interest in behaving like a parent but recklessly breed anyway.

[@djguy100]

When meeting women the minute she tells me she has a child I lose all interest. Truth is kids are expensive and need a lot of love, time and attention. Why would I give all of my money, time and attention to a kid that isn't mine? Sorry, it might sound harsh but nearly every guy I know thinks the same deep down. It's the equivalent of paying to maintain my next door neighbour's car. Although Richard you are a single dad, so you cant really shit on single moms, it's a 2-way street, women without kids can say the same thing when they look at you. As for the amount of white knight beta males in this comments section its hilarious.

[@alfredschnozzenstein1657]

I agree with you 100%. I believe that women in general get offended by this because this guy is one that actually took the risk of putting himself out there to show what a lot of men feel on this subject. Like you said, deep down inside a lot of guys feel the same way, but won't say anything because it's offensive (even though it's true).

[@PUBLICnoose]

Tldr you incel

[@MisterH1992]

Now that I think about it. I don't mind white knight beta males. They provide me entertainment. I have someone to laugh at. Not only that but when they decide to take all the single moms, it helps narrow down my choices to women I may have a desire to be with. Those single moms are already taken while it leaves me a bigger opening for childless women.

[@williamjames212]

@@MisterH1992 you can also date women who do not want to have kids.

[@predata252]

They think their a 10 when their a 6 on dating apps.. haha that's bang on the truth

[@keepyouright6157]

Pre data And I think he's being a bit generous in that assessment.

[@GabiN64]

most girls on dating apps are like this because they get so much attention from men. Even the fat ones.

[@Dennis0is0Mr1Swag]

dave4248 I would bet that a lot of the 6 women that think they are 10s. Talked themselves up on it and deep down know the truth. It's like a hard outside and and soft inside

[@j.deleos1412]

Dating apps are filled with these single mothers.

[@CharityDiary]

Data collected by OKCupid and Tinder shows that women find 80% of men to be "below average". They have severe ego issues.

[@maketheswitchton6779]

It's all a bait & switch. These girls want to play victims, instead of owning up to their choices.

[@PUBLICnoose]

More for me r/whoops

[@russkate88]

They're narcissists

[@Swingman30]

Exactly!!

[@sgtmuffinbadger6147]

Spot on

[@thegreatnessoftheraiders4948]

Yes...

[@tytantyphlosion2910]

I dated a girl with a kid for 3 months. Every moment felt like a blow to my pride. Like waking up to Socks on Christmas

[@frap9965]

@christianne1985 shut up

[@tytantyphlosion2910]

@A M facts

[@silverback4616]

awesome

[@terrancewright3358]

@A M despite this statement people will still find love regardless, including single parents lol🤣🤣

[@terrancewright3358]

@A M not everything is black and white, I know many single parents who found someone of extreme attractiveness or Chads and Tyrones as you call them, who became married and had more children, and all them being happy and successful in childhood and adulthood afterward. Its not settling if both man and woman have most of their expectation meet, and as a result, something more meaningful that can last the rest of their lives

[@Connect_with_Yourself]

As a woman (26) who was raised by a single mother, I'll give my somewhat unique perspective of why I fear becoming a single mother. It's different to the majority of the comments made by the men in this video. I fear becoming a single mother, hence, I have done everything within my power to stay single, virgin and avoid men all together. Men have become a full blown fear 😣😣 My lovely mother did not become a single mother by choice. She was the most traditional and devoted wife and mother. Yet, my father walked away from the marriage, his duties and responsibilities after 23 years of marriage. He left her for a younger woman, who is with him for his money. This crippled us financially, emotionally and psychologically. My mother who was a housewife, suddenly had to carry out a myriad of roles; work, raise us, attend our doc and school appointment etc. Witnessing the deterioration and burnout she felt was not a pretty sight to hold. I became traumatised as a child and I still carry residue of the trauma. She sworn off men all together and lived only for us; her children. So, I can never understand why some women recklessly choose to become single mothers by renting out their wombs to undeserving low quality men? Maybe it comes from a place of self sabotage? Maybe it comes from a place of arrogance ("I'll find a better man" so they jumb from one man to the next). Maybe it's because they are irresponsible and they lack accountability. Being a single mother is a mentally, financially and psychologically draining role. Therefore, I believe that no sane and mentally grounded woman should ever idolise to become a single mother. I also believe some women become single mothers, not by choice, but because life forces the role on them. Thanks for reading this comment

[@joewhitlow5799]

Just got left by a single mom of three. After 5 years together. I changed diapers, played video games, went to school concerts, got them up for school every morning. I felt like my family was murdered and I was roaming the wilderness alone.

[@djslowtunes]

Joseph Whitlow just focus on yourself . She’ll be back

[@leechristopher9307]

I’ve been there too bro. It was ripped from me years ago.

[@leechristopher9307]

I happily found a great woman with no children. We are married and have a family now.

[@d3r4g45]

You were dumb enough to do it. Your fault. She used you for the car ride, pick up kids, something like a personal slave. Now kids are bit older can go on their own, no need for the delivery man. Learn your lesson and move on.

[@mineduck3050]

Joseph Whitlow i just got left too bro. She was a single mom that i had three kids with. Crazy woman, dumb choice by me...learning a lot now.

[@Goorney]

The single mothers I know or have known have huge debts, rebellious kid(s) and are high maintenance (money). Its important to think about finances as we get older, meaning I do not wish to have very little in the bank when I retire. Don't choose the wrong lady or you could lose everything.

[@cessvelasquez9708]

Most of people in this world have debts trying to impress people they don't even like Single and/or in a relationship. I am proud to say that although I am a single mother (separated) I am debt free, have emergency funds and investments for retirement.

[@dariusdodd]

Get what you’re saying but our step father saved my mother my brother and myself from a single parent life and took us on a hell of a journey. We are still good friends with his much older biological sons, my brothers, and even though he has passed he still governs much of my actions as a man. He took a chance on us and we did the same with him, and it worked.

[@babyboy8597]

Some people won the lottery some times... Some smoke their whole lives and don't die from cancer.

[@tommygunrunner4656]

So your step dad was a "single dad" before he got with your single mom...

[@poppopartist3870]

@@hanukkahp0rnoagent679 lol

[@FrYLocK41]

Doubt it.

[@ashlynmccarthy486]

@@babyboy8597 hey! shut up!

[@Isletfemme]

And these are all the great reasons I, as a woman with zero children, do not date single dads.

[@olegunnarsolskjaer337]

That’s smart too. Baby momma will always be around to stir up crap.

[@thecurrentmoment]

@Hicky Hicky obviously she is old, look at the photo - it is clearly from the early 20th Century. She must be nearly one hundred years old

[@alexesquivel8566]

Yasss single moms/dads should stick to dating each other. I would think they’d understand each other’s perspective more also

[@xTROLLINGx]

Wait till you have a kid with no dad and a wall to hit. Bet you would be triggered because you can't do anything about it vs a single man that can provide both emotional and financial support. Let that sink in snowflake.

[@MisterH1992]

I think that is fine. I would not date a single mom myself. Pretending to like the kid just to get close with their mom/dad is a shitty thing to do. It is very misleading and only hurts the kid. Not many single parents put any thought to this cause they only thought of themselves but aren't thinking of their children.

[@Ton-uy1xd]

I used go say "hit it and quit it" type of stuff. Really bad idea, fellas. You'll quickly realize that it wasn't all it was built up to be, anyway. A brother in law of mine used to be a bright, attractive and successful dude. He met a pretty cute chick at a party and nailed her then and there. Of course, she became pregnant. Because he was a good man and his family was very strongly opposed to abortion (which I agree with), him and the girl chose to give life to the child and be legit parents. The pregnancy turned the girls body into a complete wreck. I feel horrible saying it, but she's incredibly unattractive, and also doesn't have much of a personality. Every time they show up to a family event, both of them look really miserable, especially him. Neither of them ever say much to anyone else during the get-togethers. He's still a smart guy but with absolutely no motivation to do anything but work low end retail. Just obverving them has convinced me to stop hitting ass just for fun. At this point, I'll only do it if we're both really into each other, which doesn't happen often but the risk is waaay too big.

[@kwaad777]

ever heard of a condom? ...

[@Ton-uy1xd]

kwaad777 Yeah. Fapping is more fun than using one of those.

[@keepyouright6157]

How can a 'hit-quitter' be pro-life?

[@Ton-uy1xd]

KeepYouRight by growing the fuck up

[@Ton-uy1xd]

KeepYouRight or are you talking about my brother in law?

[@AD-kc1ju]

Being raised by a single mom has completely screwed my life.

[@MrMalicious5]

A D You and millions others.

[@IvanLendl87]

I've known many people who have told me that. Specifically, what is it they do (or don't do)?

[@LordZevv]

Ivan Lendl you were made by 2 parents so you need influence from both of them to enhance your life. It's as simple as that. Imagine walking around with one shoe your whole life...not only will that one foot without a shoe grow callous from harsh conditions, your whole balance of tour body will be altered and everything on that shoeless side will be damaged quickly, then the other side soon after. As a product of a single mother household I can testify that every other person I know who had both parents growing up are doing significantly better than me in life. SIGNIFICANTLY!

[@tharmir]

A D i think it was your father's fault. Single mothers do what they can with so little help

[@katew.176]

A D do you think being raised by a single dad would've been better? Just curious.

[@okc405sfinest]

Dating a woman with kids is like playing another mans saved game.

[@denoc817]

Well said...Trying to be Daddy to another man's kids. Good luck! Your time will come Grasshopper!

[@sgt.lincolnosiris5028]

It's like reheating McDonald's french fries

[@enriquebarbanera]

It's like using a sex doll that has already been used.

[@MrIzzyballin]

I dated 3 of them. Never again. I wish this video was around 20 years ago. Hes right in all the things he said.

[@tylergnosis2581]

Agreed

[@Rob-dg5ng]

1.7k In single mothers hate this video😂😂😂

[@isisl8522]

Not realy I actually laugh my ea though everyobe has there opinion. And everyone in this world will be judgmental on anything that is not perfect to them r gets them a lil off there oxrd heads and routines.... So is stand up comedy but I am taking the time to watch him a he is very handsome lol

[@hanukkahp0rnoagent679]

Isis L woo horny

[@benjaminwilson9706]

They hate this video because they can't stand that he is correct women absolutely hate men they can't control

[@anthonyperkins5856]

good, it the truth and thats why they hate it......

[@PUBLICnoose]

More for me

[@DM-uz7lf]

Give this man the Noble, never heard the truth like that.

[@DM-uz7lf]

GoodISnipr Thanks, damn iphone auto correct.

[@janosk8392]

I'm in two minds as to whether it is intended as a joke or not.

[@Gh0stRider00]

D M dude this was nice and smooth, no jokes needed and broke it down easily

[@portzblitz]

D M What's a noble?

[@MRLAGERO]

Greater truth has never been spoken. Spot on.

[@adamropp4757]

I tried dating a single mom once out of curiosity. Holy smokes was this stuff accurate. I stopped taking her calls after the third date.

[@tjgaydu82]

adam ropp there is you first mistake dude! U did it out of curiosity. No wonder why it failed miserably. Need I say more !

[@adamropp4757]

Tammy T Motive has nothing to do with acknowledging a bad situation. If I dated a heroin addict out of curiosity would the dangers of dating a heroin addict have gone away if I wasn’t there for curiosity? If you dated a man out of curiosity who ended up beating you would your motive of curiosity change him being a good catch?

[@youarebetterthanme7629]

It's like going to somewhere with a friend to meet up with other people u don't but ur friend knows everbody.

[@adamropp4757]

tlessmo That’s the only way they can get people to think they’re worth dating. Men need to Brainwash themselves into thinking it’s going to be a good thing before they even get there and regardless of what happens afterward.

[@adamropp4757]

Ichigo Red Again, by “game” you mean not going into the relationship with a preconceived brainwashing that a single mother is exactly what I want and will be awesome. If you have to prepare your mind in order handle dating a single mom it just goes to show how f’d up they are. Meanwhile, dating other women in order to find out their true character(curiosity) works just fine. Kind of like how you start and discover liking/disliking any other relationship in life. Dating a single mom was awful and no amount of mental conditioning was going to change that.

[@meta475]

Dad's always in the picture. No matter how well she means and no matter what you do, the child's dad will have more to say on what college the kid needs to go and you will have to pay for it.

[@meta475]

@@olegunnarsolskjaer337 Yep. Add to that the problems he may indirectly cause to your plans and goals. You just limit yourself for someone else's responsibility.

[@jjmirah819]

Unless he wants absolutely nothing to do with the child and told her to abort it.

[@mitch5387]

"I'm invested in my own lineage. You don't get something back by investing in another mans children." -- That is a truly powerful fuckin statement.

[@rubytate4806]

Women should avoid dating single fathers as well...they're going to have to deal with crazy baby mama's if they do...Single men without children should seek out single women without children and men with children should only look for women with children. Leave the singles without kids alone.

[@TheMissionOfSubmission]

Ruby Tate That's all women have to deal with, and that's an issue?? Men have to deal with child support, baby daddies, entitlement, etc.

[@stu7900]

You lack something... Idk what it is... Maybe empathy? Hm...

[@TheMissionOfSubmission]

Stu Long I love children. Thats why I don't have any yet. I'm considering their future before they get here. I want my babies to be raised in the best home I can a provide. That requires me to make enough money to support them, to marry a suitable and loving man, and to show my love true through actions, as my parents did. Guess what....my mother and father did all that for me and my brothers. My parents got married before they had me and my siblings, and we are very well behaved, educated, and responsible. My parents made sure they did what was best for us, and not the other way around. They aren't selfish in any way. If we just all apply that concept to our lives, there would hardly be any single parents, or foster kids. Nobody thinks like me..hardly. I'm old school, to be 23, and I don't give whorish bastard baby makers credit. They're only robbing their innocent children of better futures. Theyre only worried about themselves and how they are affected, and not how they're kids are affected. No child should have to be without both parents, or even one. That's Satanic. Women these days think it's ok to have sex with bums, then blame the bums for leaving. That's like blaming Satan for doing his job. Can't turn a street punk into a good father. It never works...I know. If we do it God's way, we'd never see failure, and thats what I believe.

[@stu7900]

Jireh A. Sorry, I should have added the OP name to my reply, what I said was not directed towards you. My sons mother decided to up and leave one day with my son, moving to a place where she could could be with a guy she had fallen for. I'd like to think a sizable portion of the female population is not off-limits to me because she was too childish to realize what long-term love and a family requires.

[@TheMissionOfSubmission]

Stu Long People don't care much about real love that much anymore. It's all about popularity and vanity.

[@Hypocricy_rules_supreme]

I dated a single dad and it was pretty much similar to dating a majority of single women. He doesn't acknowledge that both are responsible adults that need to grow up and focus on the kids. Very possesive, insecure and narcissistic tendencies coupled with unresolved issues from the previous relationship. He even thought that his ex's daughter and I could be bffs 😨. Crazy ex/baby momma would show up at our house unannounced acting like she owns the place. Suddenly he yells, she yells, everybody yelling and all I can do is just observe the drama showdown. It's not worth it with single dads either.

[@goldennightingale5791]

Dang that crazy

[@lordlogic3190]

WHY YOU ARE AN IDIOT the Bible says don’t date PERIOD. marriage is the name of the game

[@jomomma8754]

Damn he sounds like every single mother you meet lmao

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

There's quite a few single dads out there in their 40's. By that age most women want to enjoy their lives and freedom and not get tied down with some middle aged guy with a young child

[@WhenTheyToldTheTruth]

It's in the bible for a reason...

[@mattie9481]

This is on point. I lived it for almost 5 years. Everything he said I experienced. Single mum with 2 boys. In the end I wasn’t in the back seat, I was walking far behind. We also had a daughter together but she suffered and I eventually suffered, from her postnatal depression. Ended it, though happy I have a daughter now, we will forever be connected. She moved on quick, within 3 months (possibly earlier) but the new guy has 3 kids. Will be interesting to see how that plays out. Be warned.

[@ChillOkayy]

My step dad is DAD, the key is to recognize the situation and the actions of the woman and there you will find your answer, actions actions actions, words are 50% lies and half truths from women and men; what ones actions are will "tell" you everything.

[@SAGEM1A4Me]

Your step dad is your DAD? That makes no sense. It doesn't matter how much you hate your father you can't change it. Accept it. MANY people have bad situations in life much better and much worse than you have.

[@mgomez9736]

Everything he said is spot on. I married a single mom with 2 kids from 2 other men like an idiot. I had no kids of my own and never been married. The most thankless and draining job possible.

[@OldSchoolJules]

I dated one single mom for about a month about 20 years ago. I liked her but she broke up with me presumably because she preferred bad boy types. That’s was the best thing that ever happened. Met my wife about a week after the breakup and couldn’t be happier with our two (damn near adult now) kids.

[@ck1425]

I divorced my wife and I got all four kids. Honestly, I love the freedom of singleness. Why would someone like me EVER need another woman. Just date...

[@ck1425]

@Amber sen hi Amber. My wife is a destructive person to say it kindly.The children knew this. I asked the children if they could choose mom or dad, who would it be and why. They all said me. So, I asked my lawyer what I could do to prove to my wife's attorney thst this was true. Note: You have to very very careful doing what I did. It can get you into big legal trouble. I had the kids sign a doc that says " if mom and dad live separately, we want to live with dad". Then they all signed it and my lawyer gace this letter to her lawyer. This is not an official doc bc the kids are under 18, but it was a uge wake up call for my wife

[@adebayocsilla582]

Hi....just a question because you are one of the comment section who is not full of hate and you sounds logic. You got devorced because of your wife was problematic..... Then: what about if a man is a complete horrible abuser and you dont get any other chance only to divorce? Then:is my fault that i got single???Or: i let this kind of partner to destroy my life+my kid life?-just because i am a women? Every coins have two side. As a single woman.....i got a new partner and for long time we are happy,he have his childrens also... Then? We are the one in the millions who find solution? Maybe is part of some cultural issue also cos in Europe we dont do a complete drama about to be single mom or dad😂😂😂

[@ck1425]

@@adebayocsilla582 hi. I had been wanting a divorce for 7 years prior to my finally doing so. I waited so long bc I didnt want the 4 kids to be mentally traumatised and I kept thinking to myself "it's not so bad or it'll get better". At the very end, my wife went crazy mean and evil on me and I knew it was over. I could NOT imagine myself being with this mental abuser another month, let alone 40 more years. I have never let the children question my love for them and I never play mind games. My children know I'd do anything for them whereas my wife was a constant mind game player (abusive one time and your best friend the next). I am happy you found a new partner. I cannot imagine I ever will. I did sign up on a dating service with my picture and got a lot of interest until I realized one thing. I need to be here 100% for my kids, so I deleted my account. My advice to anyone reading this is this: Ask yourself if you can stay with your abuser for the next 40+ years. But, know this, I have my freedom now and I will NEVER give that up ever again. We all live once. We deserve the best in life, not some asshole abusive fucking cocksucker who'll drain the living essence out of our lives.

[@adebayocsilla582]

@@ck1425 thank you for your answer.Now i understand well your point cos' i was in the same situation ....i was alone almost 9 year and i finally give up/i mean i was ok with that im single.I dosnt plan anything is just happend. I dont know how old's are your childrens but after sometimes they just dont need us at the same way.....like before(teeneger age ect.) Because they start their own life-friends,love..... So....i understand completly why did you divorced and also why you dont need a partner again. Nobody deserve that experience to living with abuser/skizo ect. I know your life is complete by the way so i can't wish u more then:good health,long life and lot of happiness with the kids and later with the grandchild's. God bless u👍🏼🥰

[@ck1425]

@@adebayocsilla582 God bless you to, fellow survivor

[@rodrig4784]

Just got rid of a single mother after 2 years. This is spot the fuck on. Guilt keeps you from doing it but if she cheats to try to better her life and her kids it was like a get out of jail free card. Be smart my dudes, be smart.

[@olegunnarsolskjaer337]

Congrats on freedom. I have a feeling with the kid in tow, her options aren’t going to be the greatest.

[@ryanjohnson6072]

Thanks for uploading. All the single moms I have ever dated are like this. I would wrather take myself out to eat to Olive Garden , shop for DVD s, CDs , go for a bike ride , take myself out to a movie or play fetch with my dog than to go out with a single mom. There is no investment in someone who is irresponsible, fickle, dis-honest and immature with their life and their children.

[@Omnitrix8]

I dated a single mum who had a 4 year old. The mother did not raise the child properly as he was spoilt and misbehaved. The childs dad was was so irresponsible that he had 6/7 children with different children. Anyway, back to the 4yr old. Sometimes they would come to mine and he would mess up my stuff but the mother would simply say "oh you no kids". Most recently, this kid has been showing bullying tendencies at school. Moral of the story. If it's not your kid, you have no say in the childs life.

[@thatonebeone]

My ex ex GF trying to get a hold of me after having a kid saying how much she miss me and told me yeah i have a kid get over it blah blah blah.. unblock me from FB I want to talk to you and I understand if not... HAHA!! BYE BYE GIRL take care of your kid! Aprenlty sometime gone wrong with the baby daddy and her profile says "MY SON IS THE WORLD TO ME" HAHA I'm not trying to be part of your world with that.. ITS A TRAP!! ain't falling for it and this video says the truth

[@eddykapasibu7899]

You are a smart man!

[@questionableidentity1]

It's like buying a game and playing someone else's saved game file halfway through the game

[@rayannaeem1130]

QuestionableIdentity wow truly hidden gem

[@holytrashify]

LMAO

[@ToughLogic]

QuestionableIdentity Most likely that saved file is corrupted...

[@cookinwitp0ppin331]

How many times am I gonna see this comment

[@timothyfarrand8407]

I married a single mother. Everything said is full true

[@ytlongbeach]

You don't know what to do?? Continue to spin plates. Do NOT get married to either.

[@insomthegreat]

NoPain NoGain Wrap it up and bang away.

[@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387]

Just have fun

[@gerardofernandez3632]

Dont marry ever

[@xanthromera]

All true, I've missed the kids more than the girlfriend at times.

[@enlightenedidiot9552]

Not at times, always...

[@devondevon2454]

xanthromera this notion came to my mind when I was ready to date again after a 20 year split. I have a huge heart for the little freaks.

[@fireandblood2919]

So true. My ex has a little five year old girl whom I terribly miss. Raised her for three years and loved her like she was my own daughter. My ex and I split a couple of years ago and she married another guy. I haven't seen her daughter since we split and I don't think I'll ever see her again. It's a fucking heart breaker for sure.

[@xanthromera]

Feel your pain brother.

[@mattjj72089]

At least I'm not the only asshole who misses the kids

[@chris78253]

Single moms shouldn’t be an option for any man. And I’m seeing younger single moms these days between ages 18-24. What man with ambition their age is going to look at them as serious dating prospects? No way I’d ever spend my youth looking after another man’s child.

[@olegunnarsolskjaer337]

Triple OGGG If they are in that age range and is still attractive, they can still land men. It’s the average and below who will run into trouble. The men they will most likely meet are the guys with zero game but have the chance to be with a hot woman or mr. sugar daddy who can manipulate her.

[@7lol2007]

what about single dads? should they never be an option for anyone as well? hopefully none of you guys will be single father

[@saynotohookups]

@@7lol2007 There's nothing wrong with single Dads as long as they are looking to get married rather than play around.

[@pisstakecentral]

@@7lol2007 they won't...

[@Heritagepostfarms]

A woman's priorites: 1. Her son/daughter(s) 2. Siblings 3. Father 4. You Remember that!

[@QED_]

@Farmer Nate: Yeah. A Woman most gets my attention if she's a childless only child orphan . . .

[@rockstar-xj8tr]

Wrong, here is the correct order- 1. Her son/daughter(s) 2. Siblings 3. Father 4. Her Pet 5. Home, Car e.t.c. 6. That beautiful dress of her peers. 5. Some other shit. ..... ..... 100. You

[@JK20239]

Rock star damn. Makes you wonder why they waste our time...

[@illham9388]

Rock star obviously you’re a bitter ass nigga lmao

[@TheMissionOfSubmission]

Rock star 😂😂😂😂😂

[@SummerofKittyLove]

It's a whole different story if she/he is widowed. I have deep compassion for their children

[@QED_]

@Tinker Diggens: I think that's generally understood and appreciated . . .

[@SWIFTzTrigger]

Widowed is different due to it not being a choice. Single mothers however are in their situation due to making terrible choices, so should be avoided.

[@layneaic2076]

Tinker Diggens i strongly agree.. better to date a widow/widower than single mom/dad with divorce related issue. Its totally diff.

[@nina-bh4nx]

Lol what?!?

[@nina-bh4nx]

It isn't always "horrible" choices m so much delusion. Y'all are in affairs while married. Shut it. Lord have mercy on these poor souls

[@mariocondello2282]

Wow, i never knew about this, ty so much for saving me grief.

[@KeepinItOneHunnnid]

You're probably young, be grateful you heard this early on in your life and send the link to your friends (but don't post it publicly on your social media as you'll just find your self in a shit storm from angry women), we need to make sure every young man hears this before they completely fuck up their lives by dating a single mother.

[@nanapearlpearl2696]

mario condello 😂😂

[@2490debrick]

My favourite line from As Good as it gets; "How do you write women so well?" "I think of a man then I take away reason and accountability!"

[@joshuaattractsmoney]

LMAO. I remember that scene from that movie. Hahaha

[@jasonhightower5706]

That is so true.

[@OfficialTORKFILMS]

🤣🤣🤣

[@jadedmastermind]

That was originally a John Updike line, but brilliantly used in As Good As It Gets

[@Xfire2993]

Richard Cooper I wish you could preach this on live tv, I’m sharing this to try and save some of my friends and to wake them up with this enlightenment

[@gerardguitarist]

I feel sick to my stomach as to how accurate this is. Did it and it was awful the whole thing.

[@bar8665]

Same here!

[@gcarlson]

Yeah... I think this is a good example of an "uncomfortable truth".

[@gcarlson]

Abstract MGTOW Idiot Agreed. I've been single a long time partly because women my age usually have kids.

[@deaddropsd1972]

I BAILED in 1997. Thank God! Banged tons of gals till 2011 then settled down. Whew!

[@deaddropsd1972]

ImaginaryAdversary that’s ok. Enjoy it. Improve refine YOU! Travel abroad ! BooM

[@Cowglow]

Why is KZbin suggesting this to me?!

[@landocal0]

I got multiple videos suggested to me on this subject.

[@DaMaster012]

cowglow Because just something everyone should know.

[@geeveg1]

KZbin algorithm knows your a simp & suggests u watch it.

[@gnarlykoala]

KZbin cares for you.

[@jaydee3134]

cowglow ...who knows but just be thankful it did

[@kole1ful]

It's just common sense not to date anyone with kids if you don't have any. I am a woman, and I will NEVER even touch a man with a child with a 6foot pole. Also divorced people are off limits too. It only makes sense that parents prioritize their children, that is their flesh and blood. Plus children need a whole lot of care and attention. If you have children (especially if they are young) focus on them and leave dating alone.

[@craig581]

A rational response. My faith in women has been restored. Thank you Kole Ivy. And i absolutely agree with you. If you don't have children or have had experience with looking after children, then It may not workout out in that regard. Also, you have to expect the mother or father of that single parent to stick around. Will you be comfortable with that is the big question.

[@romario4evaer]

TravelingDiva2018 that’s the type of attitude that make women single moms. A lot of the time the guys are educated and decent looking but because he doesn’t act like a complete A.hole to women they over look him then these same women want these guys to clean up when they screw up by becoming a single mom

[@breakingrick778]

Lewis C. These fuglies may even get random fucks. But no decent guy would ever settle down with them.

[@buggg409]

This is absolutely mind blowing!! I just realized what a mistake I've been making for years and years..I have dated single mothers in the past and what this guy is saying is so true.. You'll never be a priority to them,you'll never be able to have alone time with them,and you'll always have to play by her schedule...But now after seeing this video "I have woken up and seen the light" I've now begun to make myself top priority,if she can't do that,then see ya...Way too many women in the world then to be stuck with one who doesn't make you a priority... Keep it moving playa!!!

[@goondocksaints9597]

For women, saying "My children come first!" is pure virtue signalling and gains her some sort of 'value points' from other women. For men, hearing a woman say "My children come first!" translates to "You will always be *dead last* in the hierarchy" and supporting this woman doesn't get men *ANY POINTS* from anyone. (Well it scores a lot of 'mangina points' but those are points you don't want on your resume).

[@tafri961]

it's not possible to cope with a woman as your wife with someone child... it's always ideal to see your own biological child on the lap of your own wife.. traditional but timeless thought....

[@tafri961]

@R Del Silva I partially understand you statement about wife .. can pls simplify....

[@tafri961]

@R Del Silva ofcourse not.. we need oxygen in past and will need always.

[@martonkovacs5932]

Every word in this video is true and this mans advice is beyond reproach .