Absolutely profound, loving and filled with grace ❤ Thank you 🦋
@williamoarlock86344 ай бұрын
'Center for Inaction and Navel-Gazing'.
@Alphacentauri8192 ай бұрын
Your eeyore negtivty bias and veiled “needing to be heard” is heard. What do you need? Do you inquire to your thinking patterns, beliefs, conditioned programming? Have you ever wondered why you are as you are? Compassionately? That’s a place to start…
@williamoarlock86342 ай бұрын
@@Alphacentauri819 Your getting high from patronising should be your only concern.
@Alphacentauri8192 ай бұрын
@@williamoarlock8634 the word “should” is an interesting one…it’s a command. If your lens distorted what I said as “patronizing”, check your lens. You likely have a series of unconscious ideas that distort the lenses, which then distort reality…of yourself and others. I’m in neuroscience and used to be in medicine. I study human behavior. I wasn’t trying to be patronizing, but inquiring and also suggesting you pause. You are your own worst enemy. However, keeping blaming outwards, engaging in negativity towards (or with) others, keeps you from looking at, feeling your own shame and pain. This is a maladaptive coping technique… I’m not here to fight you. It’s apparent you already fight yourself and others a lot. I’m here to get you to take a breath and ask “why” in regards to this animosity stance. I hope you heal, and that is honest and true (no patronizing added).
@williamoarlock86342 ай бұрын
@@Alphacentauri819 I don't have the off-the-scale arrogance to claim understanding of someone's entire life and personality from their KZbin comments.
@Alphacentauri8192 ай бұрын
@@williamoarlock8634 see there? You said “entire life”, that is an all/nothing absolute, which is an example of a cognitive distortion. I don’t know your entire life, however…having worked with thousands of patients and studied the brain…there are cognitive distortions, biases, patterns, which I saw in your comments that reflect a way of being, narratives of how you see the world. I can’t claim to know your entire life…but just like I can look at a person physically, and tell you likely their main diseases and if they have HPA axis dysfunction and so on…I can also see indicators of how a person’s mind operates in the way they comment. Maybe get out of your dualistic brain, and see the grey area I was actually operating in. I’m far from arrogant. As a grandparent, and having studied the human brain and behaviors for decades…I know less than I thought I knew in my 20’s, despite having more knowledge than I did then. I do know patterns though, and am confident in certain realms. There are core features of people who comment as you do. Let’s look at the other side. If you loved, accepted yourself, grew up in a safe, nurturing environment, had ideal genetics and epigenetics, and had little trauma, you would comment in a very different way. Your ego is trying to fight. Let it go. I don’t need to fight you!! I’m not seeking to win. We are not in opposition, as much as your ego is trying to make it that. I’m for you, being healthy, being whole, being happy. I’m likely more on your side, than you are even on your side…