This is What Happens When You Start Living with a Woman

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[@Thomas.Bolleiro]

Jesus Christ, just get a woman already and stop brainwashing people into being alone. There are successful marriages and relationships, just as there are businesses that are as such. Move on and stop ruining young people's lives with hatred

[@diegomaia5485]

@@Thomas.BolleiroI agree with you, but we must acknowledge he has a point. He is not wrong.

[@Thomas.Bolleiro]

@@diegomaia5485 I know that, but it doesn't solve a problem He's just stating all the negatives of women, like a little child, with a trauma A man needs a woman, as much as a woman needs a man. I feel sorry for those who cannot accept women as they are and still have a good marriage, kids and whole family It's possible P.S.: Also he's not a psychiatrist, he cannot possibly be right at everything. He's just a guy, with his own bad experience

[@Freebirdpr]

@@Thomas.Bolleiro Stats my friend stats don't lie.

[@Thomas.Bolleiro]

@@Freebirdpr Well, there are stats where marriages work. If that wasn't the case, you and I wouldn't exist

[@billreddy7593]

Young men need to know that women reserve the right to change their mind at any given time...

[@Mr_Goodvibez-f2c]

Yup and they will overnight over a argument, fellas don’t do it

[@maxxdroid]

Young men will never believe, due to decades long conditioning.

[@SKBottom]

What I've learned, is so can I.

[@maxxdroid]

@@SKBottom and so do I. And I have :) … new D-D trend will include a max 3 month period “when I’m into the relationship”, after which I will discover that “she has changed” and “I need to re-discover myself”, and “we need time apart”.

[@ericjames7819]

And so do you.

[@EDMDoc]

Your washer and dryer start running everyday. Your power bill goes up 2/3rds, your free time evaporates and your savings starts getting hammered. I could keep going.

[@2muchReality7ven]

I'm sorry that happen to you.

[@ForkOffjewgle]

Oh. A single tea towel. Let me wash that😂😂😂😂

[@LamelKendrick]

@@ForkOffjewgle That hits home. they literally do this. must be adjacent to nesting. also not saving money and packing your house full of unnecessary accessories - i'm sure you know about that one too.

[@ForkOffjewgle]

@@LamelKendrick but they can't and won't cook, nor clean. So the nesting thing is an urban myth.

[@keenanfish8999]

Dude this exactly happened to me. My utility bill was around $150-$200 a month. Thank god she was only with me for 2 months. Ever since she moved out my utility bill has been around $35 a month and yes I’ve save TONS of money in addition to that.

[@robertcampbell9992]

67, divorced,, yes lost home, money! I’m single now and living the best life. Life is short get busy living the life you want.

[@thyslop1737]

Dude you are my hero. I have to get up my courage.

[@RomulanWarbirdDecloaking-sd2ir]

Exactly 💯 👍 Money 💰 is more important than your LIFE ‼️ Football 🏈 is more important than your WIFE ‼️ BET THE NFL ‼️. Cha Ching $$$

[@kriztoppa]

Very peaceful

[@AnodaWun]

Ahh man why do they always get the home they didn't pay for 😡

[@kengaroo5170]

They ruin everything.

[@bigshot9891]

Men who get married are IN LOVE. Women who get married are IN BUSINESS.

[@LukasP143]

Jesus loves u ❤

[@lepetitjaponais4269]

CGA

[@ParisianThinker]

I had to laugh. But Marriage is a business partnership.

[@iamalphalim]

Reminds me of that country song “It’s a business doing pleasure with you.”

[@Scorned405]

@@LukasP143 Millions of starving people all over the world are waiting for him to love them. When’s he gonna help them?? I guess he’s to busy magically helping football teams win??

[@denzel1877]

I once lived with a woman in the same house for 4 days, that was 7 years ago and it still boggles my mind how other men are able to do it for more than a week. I am 38 this year and I made peace with the fact that alone is better.

[@mi81tkne47]

A lot of people agree with you.

[@Ryno-fp7pm]

47 and yet to cohabitate. No chance in hell.

[@davidcarter1013]

@@Ryno-fp7pm Ya ain't missin nothing bro.

[@marketwizard1977]

@@Ryno-fp7pm I hear you bro...same here

[@migm7428]

Smart man! Better to have an occasional gf

[@sadboi7537]

Living with a woman is a jail sentence. I lasted six months with my ex and that, in and of itself, was nightmare inducing.

[@geraldleuven169]

Could you give some examples ? You made me really curious.

[@retrogamer82]

@@geraldleuven169the fact you even have to ask is scary in itself

[@fauxbro1983]

Man i wouod work mad overtime after just 2 months with one of my former girlfriends. My house was a nightmare with her

[@rockkstah2550]

Ye! I did 15yrs! It felt like I was locked up for that long, and now I’m out, gonna be a good citizen and not going back there again. marriage is a lie.

[@rodmunch1931]

Ha I lasted about 60 days. She locked me out one night over something and I didn’t go back. Then she had the nerve to ask when I was coming back and I said never, biatshh!

[@elmobolan4274]

I'm a woman, and I know all too well how women play the game, I'm so glad he's talking about this. Young men listen to him!!

[@Krezmick]

My mother told me all women are inherently evil. Now I get why.

[@MateoDiaz-yu7pp]

Gracias amor

[@experiencinglifeisthepurpose]

Porque tan coqueto?

[@evelynm2530]

This is a man

[@elmobolan4274]

@evelynm2530 No, it's a woman...men are physical and want beauty and sex. Women want control, money, and security.

[@aristocrat2427]

Family law in fact does hate fathers.

[@goranmiljus2664]

Call it for what it really is ... "A Male Abattoir"

[@FERALDOG4]

FACTS

[@Christopher-0270]

Marriage is a dead institution until women demand things will be equal and fair if/when divorce happens (ie. marriage is a dead institution).

[@aristocrat2427]

@@goranmiljus2664 true

[@aristocrat2427]

@@FERALDOG4 yes

[@davidd.8256]

Marriage is a much more expensive form of prostitution.

[@karenshahmoradi6558]

This reminds me the Napoleon Bonaparte

[@Millennialtomb]

Correct. You always pay.

[@FreedomRider-id6yv]

Yes

[@xNevikKx]

AMP down the street is $120ish.

[@asparrow9876]

More than financially too. Mentally, emotionally, physically, socially, spiritually. The expense is too much.

[@juniorgod321]

Also, a toilet paper roll will last only 2 days instead of 2 months!

[@SkidCudi]

I'm very frugal I bought my ex a small kettle to wash herself. She loves it at the end because she feels cleaner.

[@Stephan2P]

My girlfriend uses up so much toilet paper.

[@monikamroczek3305]

😂Luv it.

[@YellowToucan]

A gal explained it to me this way, "Boys have a 'pipe'. Boys have a relatively easier time directing the urine where it needs to go. Girls 'spray' - (like sneezing into a wall) - urine goes everywhere". This is why they use so much toilet paper." After she explained it this way....I'm not as pissed that they use so much toilet paper (most of the time). It's really about cleanliness.

[@annes.9228]

I really hope you don't have obstipation! 😂

[@algibs9095]

"After 8.5 years only 13% said they were still in love and less than 3% in a state of bliss."

[@LamelKendrick]

they have thousands of guys on standby in their messages on SM

[@sweetsmakemeshredded3672]

@@LamelKendrick Exactly, every single one of them have hundreds of those poor souls in their dms. Females literally don't have ANY clue about being lonely or undesirable

[@denzel1877]

I wonder how much of that 13% is honest, as for the 3% who are still in bliss after 8.5 yrs... they are lying I am sorry, that's not how human psychology works.

[@jessgatt5441]

The best of women are those that understand the fact that being short on happy and long on duty are the best of their sex.

[@derekbilly4784]

That's real numbers

[@FGF-om6nm]

Women bankrupt men very often. How many times have you heard of men bankrupting women???? I'll wait......

[@togarangala6204]

Hey ahhhhhh where did my stummer come from...

[@chineduchineyeze4039]

It will be on Netflix

[@ErinIsReal]

HERE HERE!!!!!

[@anothersucker-Youcantfixstupid]

For a woman marriage is a business.

[@Majorhavoktv]

Netflix's movie called the Tinder Swindler....

[@steveblackbird]

15 years ago I lasted 6 months in my home with a fiance. She piled on 50lbs, did nothing around the house except invite her equally heavy drinking friends over while I was working 12hr night shifts...without me knowing of course Came home one morning after work with 6 passed out drunk women sprawled out all over the place with vomit all over brand new carpet. Asked her to move back in with her parents, while we went to "Therapy". I never went, changed the locks immediately. She went for half of everything I worked for. My home, my cars etc. I gave her an offer she couldn't refuse. Cost me 30k to get out that one. I got the ring back. Lived alone in MY home ever since. I refuse to move anyone in. Don't get married and for the love of GOD...do not cohabitate. These grifters are only looking for the bag.

[@patschoenherr7497]

Bro I am so sorry that happened to you. I was in a similar situation as you, I worked all the time while she didn't want to do anything. She didn't want to work or clean or cook, just nothing. I had to do EVERYTHING. Needless to say I divorced her but luckily didn't ask for half my stuff. I will never marry or have a child or have a woman move in ever again in my life.

[@d.l4055]

If guys truly did understand why living with "Girls who Just want to Have fun" also requires the type of man who's yet to realize why He does have to sleep with one eye open.

[@thethirdgeneration1738]

You can bet the partying girlfriends, were on her side cheering away, and in her ear playing armchair lawyer, like a pep rally. May sure to get every dime you can. That's what happened in my divorce, with my ex. Her ex-boyfriends wife was in her corner, along with her friends, and of course the in-laws and they were contacting the lawyer also. Can you believe that? People whom I didn't even know. I should have known right after we married, she quit her job, what was up. She didn't want to do anything. And, began visiting her old Flames. I could type 10 pages of crazy stories you would not believe, and 2-page story on the divorce alone. Not enough space here.

[@alanm6o9]

Bahahahah you chose the WRONG women . And then LIVEd with her. Jeeeeesus

[@airthrowDBT]

​@alanm6o9 What part of, they reserve the right to change their minds, do you not get? Theyre ALL the wrong woman. In a society that encourages this garbage, they will all be like this. Women have no morals that are not pummeled into them by society, they just follow whatever the trend is.

[@PhilHyde]

Men are financially better off single. Women are better off financially in a relationship. Simple.

[@DrBilly90210]

Stories like this are why, when my GF brings up marriage and asks why I'm so reluctant, I tell her: "It's not you I'm wary of, it's the state."

[@devol5931]

The point is that WOMEN do this when presented with an opportunity. They just use the state to get what they want

[@jinkazama2555]

Dude, be wary of your Gf too, are u not paying attention to how women are?

[@pureblood101]

Are you stupid or something?

[@tonyp.bahama9368]

Ofc he is, he just isnt telling. Her ​@@jinkazama2555

[@36handy]

There is no reason to get married. None.

[@md0246]

I just moved into my own little apartment and had to leave a VERY toxic woman after being together for 22 years. I now have peace again.

[@sontodosnarcos]

You give me hope.

[@MauricioMontoya-dd1wi]

thanks man , I found hideout alike but only 4 years after!

[@trdriver430]

I can relate

[@johnmanning4097]

I was married for four years. The last three years were hell. I just moved out of a custom built house on an acre and a half of land and we’re now going through a divorce. I moved into a apartment and the peace of mind feels so unbelievable.

[@jamessmith-hq5mr]

It's a shame that we live in a world where men have to pay women to go away.

[@ericwright3798]

​@@pinnacle1717It ends up costing you less to just pay the money and get rid of her, rather than letting her slowly bleed you dry.

[@lindaross9709]

It’s a shame we women have to live in a world of man-babies.

[@indy18286]

are you going to go gay? or hang out at ur local bar drinking with men?

[@thenaughtyamericanexpat]

Yeah, it's just like paying a pharmacist for antibiotics to make an *INFECTION* "go away." 🤣

[@Jadty]

@@indy18286 How much do you weigh, ma’am? How old are you? How many cats do you have?

[@josephhector2888]

That why I live alone. Mortgage paid. No headaches. Why do men want to live with a woman? In today market it is not worth it.

[@Scot-kz7od]

Because a mortgage typically takes two incomes, for one.

[@AgentSmith911]

​@@Scot-kz7odThe economic incentives to get together with someone or stay together even if the love is gone is very strong. But I much rather share my home with my dog than someone just for money

[@victorwong6976]

To build a functional family and raise kids ?

[@EOTA564]

@@victorwong6976yes. If you don’t want kids I absolutely agree that there is little point in marriage. If you want to have kids it’s pretty much the only way. Unless you are super rich and have some idea to have kids with a surrogate.

[@Tarantulisimo]

because men are conditioned to believe that this is what they are supposed to do, like their fathers & grandfathers, who more than likely never got divorced -- although with later generations, divorce is so frequent that I don't know why ANY younger men would even consider getting married or cohabitating with a woman

[@markjohnson5276]

My ex said to my back as I walked out of my house, the house the state had given her. 'If only you had money.' Now I live in a house on a remote island with 150 feet of private shoreline on a private pond and a five foot waterfall next to the house. No debt, I own my car, an exotic roadster. The house she took from me has since fallen down due to lack of maintenance and she's living in tenement housing and will the rest of her life. btw I'm about to put two early 18th century cannons out front of my house as a welcome mate for home invaders. Married men don't get to do this.

[@pinnacle1717]

There is a hell of a lot of trash in this world. Glad you were able to toss it out & continue to improve your own life without that garbage holding you back mate. We can all have a much happier life & great lifestyle without them around. They wreck everything, can’t help themselves.

[@StraitClownin909]

Her houae fell down due to lack of maintenance? Where do you live haiti? Africa?

[@otvali5168]

Wow

[@bellagatto9670]

@@StraitClownin909 There's a lot of 3rd world rot to be found in the US, created by the government with the best of intentions.

[@joejones9520]

badass!

[@mntbighker]

The time it takes for a woman to change her mind can be shorter than the time it takes for her words to reach your ears.

[@SuperSaverPlaysSPG]

damn!!!!

[@rob-robi]

this is quite a brilliant observation lol, and often so true.

[@TABRO284]

Exactly.

[@c.san.8751]

So true.

[@MauricioMontoya-dd1wi]

it takes a shit outta my laughter !

[@MrHVACguy71]

Never Again

[@chrisn2125]

1000% NEVER AGAIN!

[@jammyb90]

👍

[@HumbleDude46995]

but what about the Black Woman ?

[@alanm6o9]

^ even worse

[@HumbleDude46995]

@@alanm6o9 Her Wig & Makeup makes her feel pretty. She gets a boost of self-confidence and self worth

[@philipswain4122]

They are generally very untidy, messy, dirty and chaotic. Gossiping too is very annoying.

[@up-2date]

Expensive

[@Erick-di9gm]

Their criticism and negativity is staggering. Notice it after being 'away' for awhile.

[@coocolal3644]

I can live with those. It's the dependence on micro and macro government that is very disturbing to me.

[@philipswain4122]

Clogging drains with hair, toilets with “ products”; scratching polished hardwood floors; accidentally throwing things away; messing up the interior of cars; leaving gas tank close to empty; each week the trash can and recycle can are full. The list goes on. I dont know where this consumerist lifestyle come from

[@Fabrizio7171]

@@Erick-di9gmfeels like breathing clean air

[@VisitaInteriora]

I have witnessed all of this shit with my mum divorce raping my dad in the 90s , and later in 2009 divorcing her 2nd husband. The hardesr part is men not acknowledging that we have an elephant in the room. We have huge societal issues, and most guys don't want to admit it.

[@1975normal]

Please clarify and simply state what that elephant is.

[@VisitaInteriora]

@@1975normal women rights

[@BlackPill-pu4vi]

The MSM and platforms like actively suppress any cmoments that get too close to certain details.

[@airthrowDBT]

​@@1975normal women are bad people

[@bk_8338]

@@VisitaInterioramore accurately put: the de facto matriarchy.

[@Majorhavoktv]

I am.fine as a single man, I have no desire for a girlfriend and even less for a wife.

[@itsathejoey]

Bet your having sex regularly though.

[@markdavis3629]

I hear you brother! They turn on a dime. At the snap of a finger, they upend your entire life. They cause thousands of good men to commit suicide every year. They are of Satan. A man is much better off to have a transaction with a prostitute when necessary vs a wife. Girlfriend can be just as bad. They love to control you. If you balk and break up with them, they will be all over town telling anyone that will listen, how you are the worst person that ever existed. Making up vile lies about you also.

[@HelloWorld-hb7yt]

what do you do when you need physical connection? if you find the right lady, it's awesome. you are missing out living your best life.

[@Raptorlake]

Stoics believe you should refrain from sex because of the chance of unwanted child births among other reasons. Men have been skipping sex with women for thousands of years. it’s not impossible, or unheard of.

[@Majorhavoktv]

@@HelloWorld-hb7ytI pay hookers....

[@stanlyqbrick1621]

women always take control of a relationship in order to feel secure. But what's good for her is very much not good for him and ultimately the relationship. so she turns him into something she doesn't respect due to her own efforts and then files for divorce because of the result. Crazy but true for most divorces.

[@bashiruddinahmad408]

Married for 5+ years..no sex for last 30 months we sleep in separate rooms..my wife loves bars male attention and validation has many male friends we barely speak divorce is coming...so different than when I first met her during the honeymoon period 7 years ago..geesh

[@bashiruddinahmad408]

No pre nup..and wifey is the high earner I'm unemployed at the moment

[@stanlyqbrick1621]

@@bashiruddinahmad408 wow, all the best with that. she is living her best life but not you. You did though in your comment mention the solution to avoid her taking the house and kids. You just need to go to a lawyer and set the scheme up.

[@bashiruddinahmad408]

@@stanlyqbrick1621 no kids.. she tricked into signing as a witness to a refinance the loan officer said it was strictly signing as a witness in fact I signed a grant deed/quick claim deed signing my property rights over to her..got fooled but spousal and her pension still in play

[@SGTSLACKASS]

A women will spend 25 years trying to change a man then claim he’s not the man she married and divorce him.

[@ronamador1463]

If it floats, fucks, or flies, rent it! A lot cheaper.

[@jerryvelasquez9080]

Noted.

[@fubar2231]

That is good advice!!!!!!

[@jacksson9391]

If it has tits or wheels it will give you problems.

[@Colskshreds]

My uncles favorite piece of advice!

[@krob-sn7ek]

You are only renting anyway....

[@yearight1205]

My biggest gripe about living with a woman is the constant communication. I get home from work, and all I wanna do is focus on my side project. But I'm constantly getting bombarded for my free time to talk. Then by the time I finally have the ability to sit down and get some actual work done on my project, I have to go to bed soon. It's infuriating.

[@tmackn6592]

Jack Torrance had the same problem in The Shining, unfortunately, he failed to 'correct' it...and her

[@tubewatcher3100]

The worst of it is that women find fulfilment in hours of inconsequential yakkity yak that mostly has no value five minutes after the words have been spoken.

[@John_Wood_]

Her goal here is to obstruct your side project and focus your attention on her. Mission accomplished it appears/

[@yearight1205]

@narendra7817 you hit the nail on the head. It's meaningless conversation with no purpose, and it's not even fun or good conversation. Why do you think so many women are unbelievably boring?

[@VS-ev1ww]

I got custody of my daughters in 2021 after being accused of sexually molesting them, accusations of domestic violence and it goes on and on. I finally got custody but it cost me my life savings. I knew I was going to lose everything, but if I were to lose, I’d want to lose fighting for my daughters. I’d rather live in a box with my children, than to be a billionaire and live without them. Our system is fucked

[@Bernard-rh8so]

My God! I can imagine the hell you got through.

[@MauricioMontoya-dd1wi]

I suppose your daughters fought for ya in court!

[@zos8085]

It will be. Birth rates plummeting or negative globally (less immigration). A sixpack of hit-the-wall women without savings or super, living beyond their means, while rents also discriminate those who are not DINKs. Remains to be seen how govts responds to cat lovers demanding more taxpayer money.

[@JLMcFarlin]

Never cohabitate. Never comingle. Retain control.

[@mementomori5374]

😂

[@marcgrundfest1495]

Never engage at all. There is no legally safe level of engagement. Period.

[@bellagatto9670]

The OP story about a paid roommate who was able to claim they were in a de facto marriage was very alarming, even when efforts are made to declare separate property. Even FWB need to have a separate address, now. Divorce courts are horrible, especially for men, or anyone else acting in good faith. I suspect that its' even more effort to destroy families and drive more of a wedge between men and women, and drive women towards the feminists' Marxist goal of making women dependent on the state.

[@Jadty]

Based.

[@charlesdavid-p1y]

This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 5 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.

[@DianaJovita]

The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

[@charlesdavid-p1y]

Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?

[@DianaJovita]

Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.

[@charlesdavid-p1y]

I just looked her up now online thank you.

[@MediaHappeningNow]

Women do not love my friend. At best... They appreciate.. the resources you provide. At best. Much brighter days are ahead for you brother. Just keep moving forward. 😎👍

[@pinnacle1717]

Best advice my Dad ever gave me. “If there is any trash accumulating in your house, get rid of HER!” 😂

[@TheNissandd]

bruuuuuuhhhh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@indy18286]

sorry all you learned frm ur dad was to hate women sad

[@MauricioMontoya-dd1wi]

very good indicator of womens’ decaying hearts!

[@thenaughtyamericanexpat]

That double-meaning's priceless. . . *PRICELESS* !

[@jpowell2603]

Stay single fellas. No dramas No BS No mind games. And save you over a dozen headaches too!!

[@gefleigh4264]

Only a dozen?

[@jpowell2603]

@@gefleigh4264 over a hundred lol

[@Mark-bh8mb]

I went by my exes house (where my kids live part time) to get an AC repair estimate. Nobody was home, all the lights were on, the heat was on in one zone, the bathroom floor warmer was on 75. She used to take the garbage out when it was less that 1/4 full because "smells", going though 6 bags or more per week. Since living alone with kids equal time, I have one garbage bag per week. Don't even get me started on Amazon being there at least once per day. Women drain resources.

[@imageword5576]

Lol it's so true about the garbage bag thing. Women always telling males (the man or sons that live with them) to throw them out when they're only about 1/3 full. Those things are expensive!

[@SKBottom]

There is a reason they hold something like 80% of the consumer debt.

[@oldscratch3535]

Any food scraps go right in the trash outside so it doesn't sit and rot in the trashcan. Women can't figure that out. They throw heaps of food in there and then wonder why it smells.

[@joshblacker3512]

Yep

[@davidcarter1013]

@@imageword5576 I didn't have that problem,but the washer and dryer ran almost everyday,WTF.

[@Matrix10unplugged]

RIght on! I can agree 100% My only 2 real relationships I took seriously were all great before I let them move in. about exactly 1 year later on each they became disagreeable, bitchy, and tried controlling every aspect of the house and the relationship. Never again

[@MauricioMontoya-dd1wi]

a basic male trait is the freedom to use one’s mind cause girls do not use theirs!

[@tabletalk33]

Marriage is like a Tornado: "In the beginning there's a lot of blowing and sucking, then you lose your house".

[@rodtack8420]

I wonder if it isn't human nature.. or if they simply dont take after their parents grandparents... and the way they act is simply instinctively based on how they saw their parents and grandparents relationships work.

[@danstout3154]

Well said. Just ended a 2 yr LTR over similar crap.

[@donatello9482]

@@rodtack8420it’s human nature, humans have the innate desire to control any space they occupy

[@jimjames9779]

Its better to want what you dont have, then have what you don’t want!

[@d.l4055]

It's all about getting to the absolute "Why" your mate would ever change their mind about what was meaningful yesterday. Good luck with that, Today.....

[@Peterpiperofthes]

Good one I like it!

[@agesflow6815]

“Stonn, she is yours. After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing after all as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.” -Spock 🖖

[@kendalljoshua]

100% the truth.

[@TwoWheels4ever]

Awesome

[@chrisschultz6129]

When the rules are rigged; the only winning move is not to play. Get your needs met by someone who charges by the hour or evening; and go on with your life. This is the only way not to get railroaded by the system.

[@jammyb90]

👍👍

[@SKBottom]

As Donald Trump found out, not even that is safe.

[@KnicksNYanks84]

Robert Kraft knows

[@sntmdsa3628]

That’s not the answer either. You’re gonna get physical and spiritual diseases.

[@silentwitness536]

If it flies, floats or fux, lease, dont buy.

[@AdrianRP1]

Been with the same woman for 32 years or so. While not perfect, we together have been successful. Everything is paid for, net worth .5 mil+...still have sex. She cooks for me, does my laundry, cleans the house, helps me on occasion fixing things, nursed my dying dogs, gave me a son, drinks with me, likes football, rides ON THE BACK of my motorcycles, I'm her whole world with my son. Oh, and she works full time. So...there ARE some decent women out there. Cooper will lead you to believe otherwise.

[@chrisn2125]

Spot on Rich! My ex wife was exactly like, this super cooperative, said she’d never put me on support if things didn’t work out. Even though she said I was her soul mate 😂 What a bunch of bs. Of course she changed her mind after taking to a lawyer. I said I thought you’d never come after me and my money. She just said she changed her mind and I’d have to “figure it out”. NEVER believe what women tell you. They can and will change their mind it if suits or benefits them. Even if that means you having to suffer. They won’t lose one ounce of sleep over it.

[@briandavis1115]

Yep sounds like my X wife.

[@LoveLess--]

That's a Covert narcissist you've got there... "Soul mate / twin flame," dead giveaway. The "figure it out", 0 accountability and lack of empathy is another one...

[@dmaverick2396]

This advice is spot on! I have lived it too.

[@lexzenis2544]

we all married the same woman

[@111AlphaOmegaAndre]

​@@lexzenis2544 thats because they are all the same I have a mom a 4 yr old niece and a old bag (old lady)I take care of they are all babies cranky bitches out of the 3 I only love my niece.

[@MarlinWilliams-ts5ul]

This happened to a neighbor. He was a dentist with a nice house. He moved in his girlfriend. His girlfriend moved in her mother and aunt. At some point there was an argument ... and my neighbor got a restraining order against him. He couldnt go into his own house. The girlfriend, mother & aunt are still living there.

[@misterb1132]

What the hell?

[@pinnacle1717]

That was her plan all along! That’s what they do.

[@brianhall8097]

Guys listen to this man I came across his channel 2 years after my divorce he is 100% spot on when I went through my divorce it was three agonizing years I had a prenup protecting two homes paid off prior to the marriage the lady judge she said she would not entertain a prenup in her Court I fought through arbitration and mediation with no success my ex when I met her she had nothing when we divorced long story short she got 50% of all my assets listen to this guy he's telling you the truth I wish my fellow brothers out there all the best just don't get married the system is against men

[@Zero_Zero_Zero_Zero]

JFC that's horrible brother I'm sorry.

[@realalexmackenzie]

WTH!? What jurisdiction were you in?? How can a judge just choose to set aside a perfectly legal relationship? Brutal!!

[@jacksson9391]

So that was no protection? Bad to hear but good to Know

[@hoyschelsilversteinberg4521]

The judges need to be known.

[@SuperDanny1016]

What country/jurisdiction is this? Name and shame.

[@Freepr411]

Dude has a black belt in simpjitsu

[@chrisharvey5437]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@timmshelton]

🤣🤣

[@j4sho748]

Lmfaoooooooooooo

[@mementomori5374]

HAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@DapoIbrahimTV]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@patmagic3301]

My long time good buddy 16-50 years old. Dated disasters his whole life. He found a recently divorced mom and they got serious real quick. She told him out of the blue that she had to figure some things out. She said she didn’t love him and didn’t see the relationship going anywhere. Then he tells me that she’s still supposed to move in with him so she can save for a house. I advised him of the disaster that would follow. That was three years ago. The disaster happened of course and of course she’s still living with him saving for a house. And of course I’ve not heard from him in two years 🤷‍♂️

[@tikihutdweller5944]

I bet she is actually hip deep in credit card debt by now.

[@patmagic3301]

That’s ironic. For the first time, he mentioned debt as a major problem to a mutual friend of ours . He was already a balance bouncer before she came along. I’m sure she didn’t improve things…

[@tabletalk33]

You've come a wrong way baby!

[@vincei4252]

She's saving to take his house. How dumb is this guy ?

[@patmagic3301]

@@vincei4252I finally spoke to him. He didn’t marry her TG and says he never intends to, but she’s still living there and now has three cats. He often travels without her and he plans to retire in four years. It’s like the Beatles song “boy, you’re gonna carry that weight a long time.” 🤷‍♂️ He didn’t talk about her much.

[@EricMoore790]

I lived with my friend and his girlfriend. BAD IDEA! She had all her bills paid and no job and had control of 80% of the apartment. I worked full time. She made my life hell.

[@2muchReality7ven]

How did she have 80% of control? Were you not on the lease?

[@EricMoore790]

@@2muchReality7ven Three way split on the lease. She paid no rent. I mean she had all the say about everything. I sat in my room with the door closed and that was not good enough.

[@mypronouniswtf5559]

@@EricMoore790 ...Never works out in the situation you were in..Women do NOT want the man to have any friends he had before they met and especially a roommate!! In the mid 1990's I was in a similar situation like you.We were friendlier hung and out but still TENSION...She liked me but hated that I lived there..My buddy and myself lived together for 2 years with no issues,after 6 -8 months after she moved in I left!! Luckily at 26 I was able to buy a house,small crappy house but mine nonetheless..2 bedroom,1 bath on 2 acres..Loved that place FREEDOM! Then his woman seemed to like me more and we hung out and she never complained,I even asked him and he said she liked me but a few of his other buddies disappeared for good..I usually get along with them but man,if you are a roommate,your done!

[@2muchReality7ven]

@@EricMoore790 Wow, Im sorry that happen to you. I assume your friend didnt check her, but he may have been in the same situation. At least you made it out.

[@EriPages]

​@@2muchReality7venhid friend is a super simp to have his gf lord over a 3-way lease she isn't even paying into

[@ZendelAtkinson]

There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.

[@SERIKAmrabat]

I understand why what you're saying is important, and I genuinely want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm committed to making it work. We've tried different things, like therapy, to mend things.

[@ZendelAtkinson]

Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@SERIKAmrabat]

Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.

[@ZendelAtkinson]

welcome

[@pinnacle1717]

What planet are you guys on?

[@chewface]

The perfect scenario: She's got her own place, her own car, her own job, and these extremely rare things known as HOBBIES. She is her own person. She has her own life. She is self-sustaining. And she is LOYAL. We date. We are monogamous. She trusts me. I trust her. But we live apart. So it's a TREAT when we DO see each other. Sleepovers on the weekends. Swap whose place we stay at. I would kill to find a woman in 2024 that could handle such an arrangement. But they're all psycho.

[@christines2704]

That sounds perfect to me.

[@flauze]

no thanks, this only works for red pill extremists and socially awkward people who are literally settling for each other so they don't die alone

[@lexzenis2544]

in 2024 that would be a bloke...with breast implants.

[@thethirdgeneration1738]

Where do you find such women at ? That's all I would like to find only. Someone mature.

[@thethirdgeneration1738]

@@lexzenis2544 Your Probably right. It's bad out there.

[@IvanDalmatinac]

I use to feel sorry and sometimes annoyed about this sort of stuff but then I look at myself. Single, healthy, fit, 56, retired young, living well. The difference with me and a lot of those dudes and many of them my friends is that I have never had any official attachments to women. If you choose to take that risk then the onus of responsibility rests with you.

[@pinnacle1717]

The risk is not worth the reward.

[@IvanDalmatinac]

@@pinnacle1717 if there is a reward

[@CroaghPatrickChallenge]

Absolutely, any man who takes the plunge knows the risks,, no sympathy from me

[@IvanDalmatinac]

@@CroaghPatrickChallenge Exactly. It will only change when the majority of men opt out of interacting with women in general.

[@JorgeReyes-it5jr]

This is why I'm thrilled about living alone. Freedom is key!!!

[@tabletalk33]

Sure is! What could be better in this life than freedom??

[@LarryWilliamsArtist]

@@tabletalk33 NOTHING.

[@furrytastic]

@@tabletalk33 A peaceful moment without drama perhaps

[@tamadeus7189]

I own a platinum wedding band some guy likely threw away after the divorce. It was laying in the dirt next to a parking lot. It's my constant reminder to stay single & free.

[@b.lloydreese2030]

My. Precious

[@misterb1132]

Cool story. Twice divorced myself and still find myself ashamed and angry.

[@debragillen255]

@@tamadeus7189 wow . I sit here and read all these horrible sad comments.and I agree with everyone of them . I’m a female myself and see the horrible shit women do to a man . Is f Ed up for sure. The law is against the males for sure. We are dealing with a vicious female who has taken over my nephew. She goes around calling her 18 month old baby a little shit , doesn’t clean house or cook, she now calls my niece a little bitch . Her choice of words are very poor . I recently told her as if a week ago to please quit talking so ugly to your husband, my niece and her 18 month old baby . Well ….. don’t you know that went over well . She told me to stay away from her and a lot of other filthy things. It floored all of us she is a grand example of what this dude is talking about

[@directorx5088]

You start getting drained until their is nothing left

[@somethinderpsterious]

They're over there with their friends

[@naveed5047]

@@somethinderpsterious Hey there, I think their friends aren't there anymore. They went with their other friends and they're leaving there.

[@breezystormatic827]

That's a woman's job: to drain men in all possible way. The most obvious one occurs when your release.

[@rodtack8420]

I'm already there... and have been for along time. And I dont live with a girlfriend but my sister.... she made my life hell for the past several years.

[@scu2r]

Men just avoid any serious relationship. Enjoy your life and random hook ups and just move on.

[@mikeodonnell6231]

👌🏻💯🔥🔥

[@nozirohhh]

Yeah great examples for women.

[@Melika-nv2xl]

It's funny that y'all think that's going to benefit you all 😂😂 statics prove single men are the least happy out of all men and earn the least

[@regbandz4208]

Facts been doin this for years. It works for me!

[@zaq1337]

Get your passport ✈✈✈

[@markt2398]

I am perfectly content and happy living on my own. I consider my home a sacred space and my place of peace. Inviting someone into that space has zero appeal to me. Will that change when I'm an old man? Maybe, but I can only speak for how I want to live my life in the present. I did live with a long term gf for a couple years several years back. It was not fun-nothing too crazy really but it just was an unpleasant experience that I would not repeat. There is no benefit to me that I'm not already getting from having a GF. I cook my own food, clean my own house, sometimes have a cleaning service, etc... This idea of near 24/ undiluted time together doesn't work for me. Most women push for it to get some level of security and someone to pay at least half of the bills (usually more). They are very pragmatic and clever when it comes to pushing for this sort of thing.

[@coloradomark2159]

Rich and the divorce lawyer he has on are both in an LTR but smart enough to Not cohabitate. Learn from them. For all practical purposes I am am older man at 72. Will you be a lonely old fuk? Don't even worry about it. The chips are stacked against you if you invite a woman into your house. Times are just not the same as 50 years ago. Women have the upper hand and they know it! You and I are nothing more than a swipe. If you are looking you are looking for a needle in a haystack.

[@markt2398]

@@coloradomark2159 Yep totally agree and they are also both smart not to cohabitate. Women will genially push for this and you have to be willing to stand your ground and let her walk if necessary. Too many guys just can't do it though-they cave

[@sweetsmakemeshredded3672]

Same. I absolutely can't imagine living with someone

[@steveblackbird]

100% me aswell... 15 years alone in my own home... No way will I invite anyone to live with me. I won't be paying anyone elses bills.

[@coloradomark2159]

@@steveblackbird Exactly. It may start out innocent enough but you will end up paying the lion's share if not all the now elevated bills. Juice ain't worth the squeeze.

[@Saboteur2401]

I am gonna say it louder 📢 soo that people from back can hear "Women always reserved to change their mind at given time!"

[@tmackn6592]

shot in the dark here...as a kid, you wore a helmet and rode the short bus to school while licking the windows

[@marcusr3795]

@@tmackn6592??

[@robveltre8897]

It took me 30 years to find a woman I could live with. This is how I did it. I was totally honest and up front with my needs BEFORE we moved in together. I told her what I needed to maintain my sanity, and I held firm. I told her I need my own bathroom, my own bedroom, and my own office with TV so I can have some space when I needed it. Everywhere else in the house is mutual territory, 24/7, including kitchen, living room, dining room, family room, and garage. While I don’t have 100% freedom, everyday I feel grateful that I found a woman who is willing to respect my boundaries as I respect hers. It’s been nearly 10 years together now, and I owe it all to the courage of being honest from the very beginning.

[@indy18286]

so you dont sleep with her?

[@robveltre8897]

Correct, we get better sleep that way. We are both heavy snorers and move around in our sleep, and both wake up to go to the bathroom multiple times a night. At our age especially, it just makes sense to prioritize sleep, which gets more difficult as we age.

[@carolmaz8675]

There’s a lot of women who want their own space too but never get it really . But I agree it’s about being upfront at the beginning .. I do feel men are brought up in western society for the man to feel like he’s doing the woman a favour .. my take on it is as a woman .. 1 in the beginning talk about finances 2 make an agreement if kids come about for support 3 agree to have an amicable split 4 let’s face it until men carry babies for 9 months and shoot a melon out of their orafice it’s always going to favour a female and rightly so . But if going onto a relationship a man should protect some of his wealth .

[@Vincentthecatsings]

Men live with an honor system. Women live with a survival system. One would be a fool to expect to live without a double standard if you engage. Just like a few other demographics.

[@sebastianvella8992]

great comment.

[@rally_chronicles]

Very well put

[@heartlessangel1460]

Women have NO concept of "honor"

[@misterb1132]

This is really good. I'm 57, twice divorced and you just slapped me across the face with something I need to memorize.

[@Thegamehhh449]

What I thought was the love of my life for 12 years, became my worst enemy

[@algibs9095]

Same here and in multiple situations. Women are very unstable and unpredictable creatures, going from friend to foe in a heartbeat.

[@joejones9520]

same...i often check the obits hoping she's in there so i can be sure i'll never encounter her again

[@c.san.8751]

@@algibs9095 Agree. Scorched earth is how they operate.

[@AdiposePhin]

​@@joejones9520lol

[@vale5189]

I have the same situation here...but I also have 2 kids...and it's very difficult but a real MAN is strong and we overcome everything...stay strong guys

[@bf3ram]

Smart men dont marry

[@kharofaro7435]

Sad men don’t marry - smart men choose right simple!

[@ErinIsReal]

Smart women allow men to move in and CHARGE THEM RENT! Where I failed, always giving a free ride; literally and figuratively!

[@BetomengLegoman]

We smart knows that 😊

[@MauricioMontoya-dd1wi]

do they fuck‘em all?

[@robertmzee1027]

​@kharofaro7435 as Socrates says one day you will be a philosopher after you revisit this silly analogy you beleive.

[@BenWharfe-vr1pn]

My brother is getting asset stripped at the moment. He can’t even sell the house as she has a child under 18… not his child but he still has to pay the mortgage on a place where he doesn’t live anymore

[@tonydiesel3444]

Lol h3l l naw don't pay

[@denzel1877]

Big brother has him by the balls! can't really say I am sorry about a sefl-inflicted harm.

[@nonjaninja4904]

Oopsie for him.

[@pinnacle1717]

We live in a fkd up system.

[@tabletalk33]

Whoever said marriage was "fair"??? I'll wait....

[@andrewtrotter9023]

“They're prisons! Man made prisons! You're doing time! You wake up in the morning: she's there. You go to bed at night: she's there. It's like you have to ask permission to use the bathroom!” - noted philosopher Cosmo Kramer

[@jackoandme7340]

classic scene.

[@MetalTeamster]

Women wonder why guys are not interested in them as much

[@pinnacle1717]

After being involved with a few women, ALL men know that they are too much trouble, are not worth the time & will totally fck up your life. Be warned!

[@basicprogrammer6147]

In laws are a HUGE part of the problem. They will start bombarding your marriage. They're jealous. I loved my wife. We just got divorced after 25 years of marriage. I never saw it coming. We have two teenage children. I am almost homeless and broke. I have to reinvent myself. I have wept every day for 557 straight. I have thought about "it" 127 times. But now I am working out. I do not drink alcohol or use drugs. I read a lot. I eat right. I am saving. Someone told me there's a girl out there with love in her eyes and flowers in her hair.

[@jonbuehler2429]

Hey Brother, it DOES get better based on what you are doing now. I walked that road 23 years ago. It took almost a decade to get back to where I wanted to be. You can do it-as there is nothing special about me. No alcohol, no drugs (including Rx), no debt, living on an island in Florida. I Live small, have set goals, established solid boundaries for women. They may not like it; but, life is too short to get taken advantage of twice. I Had lunch with my pilot buddies today, planning trips, live for myself, my two children, and grandchildren. Wishing you the best!

[@basicprogrammer6147]

@@jonbuehler2429 You have made my day/week/weekend. Thank you for your kind words. I am leaving for a 10 mile walk now. It is Friday. Tonight I will have pepperoni pizza and a salad. Tomorrow morning, I will have my egg sandwich. I am going to help the homeless Saturday and Sunday, and attend church and sing. Thank you.

[@mountainof7]

When you find that special girl, DON'T MARRY HER

[@blitzkrieg6872]

"Going to California" Led Zeppelin. Robert Plant at the helm.

[@thecurrentmoment]

​@@blitzkrieg6872"Going to San Francisco"?

[@Rothbard_is_God8082]

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". There is a reason this expression exists.

[@racerx2580]

Mall Rats

[@martysykes3221]

No need to be scorned for them to be hell and or fury.

[@saltyabcdef3202]

Death by a thousand cuts unless you can maintain frame.

[@alastairwheeler3531]

Exactly

[@fitnesspoint2006]

"maintain frame" sounds exhausting - rather be me and free, then some frame maintenance machine

[@saltyabcdef3202]

@@fitnesspoint2006 I'm older. I get it.

[@lukequigley121]

The frog s-l-o-w-l-y being fried and he doesn't JUMP OUT..

[@John_Wood_]

@@lukequigley121 boiled

[@chasing_dragons]

I'm turning 50 in only a couple of months. People, coworkers, family, friends, even a couple of neighbors hate that I have never married or have kids at my age. The concepts described in this video regarding the State's legal interpretations of male/female interactions and financial/emotional/other resource consequences compounded with the modern feemail's delusional and even narcissistic character is THE CORE of why I refuse to agree to marriage/cohabitation/kids and even allowing an interaction to progress to satisfy the legal definition of a "commitment." All of this is perpetuated into a 24/7 enabling of feemails to extract from men's genuine want to build lives with a feemail. Why men continue to volunteer for these liabilities that feemails have no problem inflicting onto a man no matter how great of a soul and caring heart he has is at minimum mind boggling with gut wrenching on top of that. I was born in and have lived in Los Angeles California 49 3/4 years of my life. I thank God for never allowed me to have give into any of ex's demands and subtle hints to get married and/or have children in this God awful LA County court system.

[@ianarn]

Doesn’t all the sexual intimacy dry up and then loads of resentment creep into the relationship and this particularly abusive to the male. She can put on a tonne of weight! Has even more leverage in baby trapping you through persistent nagging and female passive aggressive tactics. Intimacy can be rationed off for household chores further damaging the romantic illusion you originally had.

[@moosehead482]

Sex is just a tool women use to lure you in...

[@chris-non-voter]

I have been with my partner for over 17 years, blissfuly happy. She lives in her flat, I live in mine. We both like our space and sharing time together but will never cohabitate.

[@oranges557]

Thats probably the only way

[@terrydebord7878]

Take all of your fun toys , boat , atv, motorcycle and give it to goodwill. That is marriage.

[@m.t.1616]

How does her sleeping in his bed make them a couple entitling her to his property? This world is insane. That’s absurd.

[@BelindaJon41]

Cohabitation rights only really help women if there are shared children involved or if there is clear evidence of her past financially contributing to the property. So calm yourself 🙄

[@OhSoSnake]

It's New Zealand.

[@johnadams2630]

Shout!! Shout it on out brother!! Help these young men. Rinse and repeat

[@andrij66]

Fact 1: Common law states often go by when man & the woman consider themselves together (being dating, partners, lovers, whatever) Fact 2: The status of the house house changed --> after they got together

[@TimJameson-jg8sl]

I think about self deleting alot. Getting married and having kids is the worst life decision i ever made

[@MenofMañana]

Please, please talk to someone close. Do not self delete. It’s never worth it. You have value.

[@stevebrown5603]

Follow Terrance pops videos... If you're emotional pain is to high join a gym and start training in combat sports.. your brain can't tell the difference between emotional and physical pain it will have to start focusing on the physical

[@deanchur]

Go look at being of service to others in some way (volunteering and so on). Fulfilment comes from being of service and a fulfilled individual isn't looking at self-deleting.

[@go818win]

Be strong as you were ...

[@silver_stringz]

Don't do that man. Permanent solution to a temporary problem. There are better days in front of you

[@SamRostien]

It's important to explain to these guys something very crucial if you stupidly decide to marry. Do not co mingle your premarital property! Homes, cars, stock investments, inheritance, ect and keep separated bank accounts. The woman can not touch it nor can her sneaky attorney. Mine tried and fought me during a 5 year litigation and custody battle. Her corruption, parental alienation tactics and past criminal record, which I only discovered after she tried to toss me out and keep every cent I had, sealed her fate with the courts. I now have custody of my kids and my money but not her! Don't give in and act weak guys, you can beat the women in court.

[@katana1960]

I paid $50K when my first wife and I split. I paid $130K to get rid of my second wife, and I'll write a check for $250K in a couple of weeks to get rid of this one. I'm an idiot.

[@rickmoore4482]

I am now 61 and have never had a girlfriend or lived with a woman. I can see from my friends who have partners that their lives are not their own and they live a life of constant compromise. My advice is stay single and keep your privacy, your independence, your sanity, your money, your time and most important.. your total freedom!

[@stephenwalker5253]

My first girlfriend's mother told me when we broke up, she Steve all women are rubbish, she said find em, feel em, finger em, fk em and forget em. I didn't listen. And after 3 divorces at 62 years old I finally learned my lesson, I'm now 69 and luckily still healthy enough to go to the gym and travel. Footnote I was left homeless each time. Never ever believed when they say I will never lie to you.

[@lexzenis2544]

when you get married the priest quickly shoves a pen in your hand , and all these papers for you to sign you have no idea about . 8 years later in divorce court you get to find out what you signed.

[@AegonCallery-ty6vy]

It is the ONLY contract that does not state the terms and conditions. Funny story but true: before i signed i asked for the paperwork. Both the official and my future wife thought that was the most hilarious thing they had ever heard. Imagine, 2 out of 5 marriages fail and you sign on the dotted line in ignorance!

[@lexzenis2544]

@@AegonCallery-ty6vy and yet its the very contract they stand to benefit from financially should THEY breach it. Unheard of in breaking any other contract, that you profit from it.

[@sandramartin9784]

This is heart breaking and so unfair to men.

[@agaragar21]

What unfair , idiot ...that you have to pay a PRICE for something !...it should be free !

[@leonardomota9679]

I have been married more than 20 years. I left home completely broke, I lost children and mental health. I'm fighting with her in court for 4 years. Never more!!

[@theodorerinehart781]

I simply couldn't take my girlfriends farts. I am ok being single until I find someone that isn't gassy

[@georgefranko7788]

😂😂😂😂

[@2muchReality7ven]

Wow, I thought something like that would be the other way around. I didn't see that coming 😂

[@tanyaflanders2196]

I hear you. My ex boyfriend would fart all the time. Gross!

[@FreedomRider-id6yv]

Bet you dreaded “Taco Tuesday”

[@wread1982]

Wud it mell like

[@vladimirgm2305]

We have to be very careful with women intentions

[@loveyesmarriageno123]

Yep, I like most men had to find out the hard way by trial and error.

[@PerryMarshallScott]

Marriage and relationships as defined in western societies today is a minefield. Don't step into it. Statistically, you are very likely to be damaged by attempting to live there. While it has always been a messy endeavour, so much interventionist law and legislation governing every little thing has developed in recent decades that it is essentially an industry for lawyers and the courts. And yes. Those in possession of a vagina have a distinct and unfair advantage. Do your research. Read the data. DON'T GO THERE !

[@pinnacle1717]

In the end women all have evil intentions.

[@AELwriter]

As a woman, I believe most men deserve a deep authentic apology, apologies for what ‘ cruel, heartless, violent women have done to men. On their behalf, I apologize deeply and wholeheartedly for the actions of women towards you. The hurt, heartbreak, drained resources, parental alienation and drained resources. I also apologize for the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual abuse inflicted on you and your brothers. It has been truly horrific. I am sorry. Please forgive me. I love ❤️ you. Thank you. The last are taken from the simple Hawaiian 🌺prayer. Amen .

[@AELwriter]

I don’t want to address the harm caused by men towards others, there millions of other social media postings to do that. Men need a clean pure apology , and then for the actions to shift this death spiral to the ground that is occurring. Men, this apology is not to make you drop your beliefs or boundaries. My intention is to help heal these wounds and value your presence on this earth and our lives. Thank you. ❤

[@Mr_Goodvibez-f2c]

This struck a nerve with how bad woman are and how manipulative they can be, I experienced this with a narcissistic single mother she was a hot mess, thanks for the content Rich

[@ArmageddonIsHere]

What about her actions showed her up as narcissistic? Just curious.

[@Mr_Goodvibez-f2c]

@@ArmageddonIsHere admitting to she doesn’t like to apologize at all when she’s wrong it plagued her in her previous marriage, she just took didn’t pour much into the situation, was getting emotionally involved with someone from work had them lined up before she broke things off brother the list goes on and on. The amount of Gaslighting when she was wrong was insane and love bombed like a mad woman at the beginning wanted to move quick to in relationship was sending me ring pics in month 3 of relationship Lol I would be writing a book if I sat and mentioned it all.

[@johnliberty3647]

You get constant nagging once she is embedded to the point you can’t kick them out

[@jerichojohnson3219]

drip, drip. drip .... 3 drips form a bitch!

[@johnliberty3647]

Get some antibiotics for that drip.

[@patrick-ho5kc]

You can always kick em out bro , your choice 🤙

[@LearnCompositionOnline]

Hausverbot!

[@zuhairreza]

7:42 : It was SO important you said it out loud! It's not even a joke, seriously. "Women always reserve the right to change their mind at any time". Welcome, all!

[@pinnacle1717]

Not only reserve the right to, but WILL change their mind at any time! Get out while you can.

[@theSword-]

I NEVER let a woman take control of the relationship. It's my way or the highway. An "irrevokable" trust is the one that is safe. A "revokable" trust is the one you DON'T want.

[@BrizAU]

W: stop objectifying us Also W: I want a guy with a million dollars

[@Tarantulisimo]

People (mainly women) always ask me why I'm a single man, not married, & have no kids -- as if there is something wrong with any of that or with me. I reply that while I do want to be a father & a husband someday, I however DO NOT want to be an unhappily married man, or a broke divorced ex-husband, or a miserable baby daddy, & in this day & age there's a 97% chance of being one of the latter as opposed to the former

[@DanceChickaDee]

No need to try, you seems to be doing great 👍🏽

[@davee164]

I've been employing pros since 1982. It was the right choice then, and it's DAMN sure the right choice now!

[@lochnessmunster1189]

It's a great deal: 1) Guaranteed sex 2) Don't have to listen to hours of their self-centred nonsense 3) Different woman each time if you like 4) Don't have any drama, revenge and stalking, unlike pump-and-dump 5) She won't break your heart.

[@davee164]

@@lochnessmunster1189 you got it Brotha! It's a win win for all parties involved.

[@John_Wood_]

any STD's?

[@lochnessmunster1189]

@@John_Wood_ No. They all insist that you rubber-up.

[@John_Wood_]

@@lochnessmunster1189 even with a rubber, is there a chance of catching some other stuff, crabs or whatever

[@smurf88]

Why does life have to be so shit? I just want a companion.

[@RodT87]

Nothing wrong with wanting a companion. It's just a companion moves in or you marry one they know full well that laws are on their side and they will use it to control you. That's the problem.

[@ARW11221]

Why have one companion when you can have many

[@FlamboyantArt]

Get a dog. Dog won't hurt you like people you love do...

[@MD-xb1qw]

Buy a dog 😂

[@rodtack8420]

at least you aren't in torturous physical pain every day of your life due to nerve pain. Id take being alone and emotionally miserable for another 20 years before id take another day of this hell.

[@gothamindembaum]

Family court can't do shit if your trust is in another country that is outside the court's jurisdiction. So think about that.

[@am-vy1fb]

Ok, but why just not marry and complicate stuff.... 😊

[@senyap3924]

I keep hearing from all our family friends that have been married for 10 - 15 years that their relationship are at all time low. Being in 11 year marriage myaelf I can attest to that. When the love is gone, and the bliss is over, the rose glasses come off, and the couple has to learn to live together once again. The questikns is do they really want to, or sometimes have to learn to love together when small kids are tangled in in between their crappy relationship 😢

[@er1cmaurer]

If that happened to me, the judge better pray I don’t know his/her address.

[@bartbarrett4867]

I have been divorced for 31 years. We agree of spousal support because I married her because, she was pregnant. Into the marriage it was brought to my attention I wasn't the biological father. i never signed the birth certificate did not have to child support but yes, to spousal support. She is on her third marriage. My spousal support has not stopped because she allegedly never worked so the spousal support will continue.

[@tinderbox218]

Isn't it supposed to stop when she remarries?

[@markwegner6100]

It's a trap!

[@natescott8729]

That’s exactly what the custodian at the state house said when I was being led in by hand to sign papers. I need to go find him and buy him lunch.

[@makattak88]

My so glad the ex didn’t move in. I’d likely be in jail and lost the house had she accepted. I wanted her to move in because I thought her apartment was too expensive, but she felt it was too early… THANK GOD.

[@gefleigh4264]

Dodged a bullet there pal.😊

[@makattak88]

@@gefleigh4264 not entirely. She drank drano in my kitchen so I had to call 911. Paramedics took her then I had to deal with police. I haven’t been in a relationship since.

[@NotAffiliated]

1:00 "Nobody tells you up front" about how marriage really is. This reminds me of this one skit on SNL back in the day with with Will Ferrel in it where he and this other guy met this 3rd guy at a bar to talk to him just before he gets married. Will then proceeds to tells him all these lies that go against marriage stereotypes. He's telling him the sex only gets better and more plentiful. The food is always great. She never pushes you around. Everybody is laughing because while everybody knows this isn't true, we all get married anyways. Finally the guy leaves and says "Yea, I am going to get married. Thanks for the advice." Will Ferrel and the other married guy are left looking at each other silently until Will finally breaks the silence and says "WHAT!........Screw him. Nobody told us!"

[@dnbaddict]

I use to work with a women who was going through her second divorce. She told a friend of mine “I going get him good and take all his shit!” A couple of weeks later she told me “Yeah, don’t ever get married it’s not worth it” Coming from a women I will take her advice into consideration. It’s kinda like keeping your enemies closer eh? 😂

[@SuzanneQuew-vc4us]

We almost left out the fact that they had children…as he was reading this, I was banking on that fact. Surely don’t have children, she’s getting half. As a man, you get one marriage, if that doesn’t work, no more marriages.

[@Ken5244]

So is there any solution to all this? Even if you're lucky enough to find your dream girl and you get married, she could change her mind at any time in the future -- and 50% of the time she will -- and decide she wants a divorce. So how do men protect themselves, other than just staying single forever and not having a family? Are there any states in the U.S. that aren't toxic to men when relationships break up?

[@robertl2227]

I sold my property a few years ago so politicians couldnt steal it if they took a dislike to me. Its not worth it to own anything anymore except a cheap car. Now i have another reason not to own anything

[@biasedknowledge]

This is such a powerful reminder of the Hindsight Bias. It’s so easy to see where things went wrong after the fact, but we often go into relationships thinking 'it won’t happen to me.' A friend of mine ignored many red flags early in his relationship, thinking everything would be fine, only to face similar legal complications years later. Your video really brings home the point that we need to be more informed and cautious upfront, instead of assuming everything will work out just because we want it to.

[@dugnice]

Bottom line is that cohabitation in general isn't for everyone, whether it be with another of the same sex, opposite sex or if the relationship is platonic or romantic. If a person prefers to live alone, then cohabitation would probably be an unpleasant experience, regardless of the relationship of the people cohabitating.

[@deano4138]

If only it were that simple, the state and family courts dictate that you are placing half your life's work completely at the mercy of her whims if you decide to cohabitate

[@dugnice]

@@deano4138 Not necessarily. Not all people that cohabitate are married or have children.