Right Person, Wrong Time? Here’s Why

[@lavindas]

My motto is, if something is meant for you, it will never pass you by.

[@joeykidney]

Love that

[@fartmagus]

222 likes for anyone who's superstitious or spiritual

[@nickolazcarters]

The problem with that is that you have to hold yourself accountable too. If people keep letting you pass then maybe somehow there's something in you pulling them away.

[@carolinab9147]

Yes I agree

[@kamielmach]

What if you meet the right person but your life pulls you in different directions so that you can be pulled back together. My cousin was in a relationship and it was long distance. They broke up while he was in college and reconnected when he finished. Now they are married.

[@vishnukiran6162]

So happy that they reconnected and ended up marrying each other. No disrespect here but I'm curious as to why long distance didn't work out. I believe if it is the right person, long distance would work out. It'll be hard but still would work out.

[@yrurunning870]

I had to break up with my long distance boyfriend in college and this really does give me a little ounce of hope. I'm hoping that once he is able to figure out what he needs to figure out, one day we’ll be able to reconnect because he really did feel like the right person

[@justintruckell6506]

@@vishnukiran6162 doesn't really matter they are married. Success

[@brittanytuttle9537]

I really appreciated this one.. just ended a relationship last night that I felt was the right person. But they have issues that they need to fix and find themselves before they can love anybody else. And it hurts because I was willing to be there for them through it. I hate being alone. And this video is showing me that until I can be comfortable with that, I don’t need to be with someone else either.

[@raphael571]

Sometimes its scary how well youtube knows me, Im in the exact same situation right now. Thank you :)

[@emmagriscowsky2956]

I had a right person wrong time. Then he came back and we are stronger than ever, I truly believe that he is my forever person and it really was right person wrong time. But that being said it could have been super toxic and a negative experience, us coming back together, and now it has been the best and easier 4 months of my life.

[@irenesun6574]

I was literally in a relationship with someone who said the same exact thing and I’m so glad you posted this. It gave me clarity and confidence to move on with my life and be happy. Thank you Joey❤️

[@Jesussaves852]

Jesus loves you and may God bless you...

[@linda.213]

I had this Situationship, it ended months ago but lately it just came up again and I went through our old conversations, he told me I was his right person wrong time because he wasn’t ready for a relationship but liked me a lot. I decided to text him today because he reacted to my ig story and I wanted to know how he’s been. Turns out he’s dating someone and is really happy. Even tho it hurts I’m so glad he’s doing fine but now I don’t believe in right person wrong time anymore and your video just made it more clear. For everyone going through something like this, You got this!

[@JustinAmador]

"They are here for a reason, they leave for a reason, they love for a reason and they break for a reason. Whether you believe it or not, we needed them at that time and they needed us and whether you believe it or not, you needed them for a reason. Maybe now, you just need you." Damn, this video popped into my recommended for a reason. It's been a month since we broke up and it's been such a challenging and mentally draining month. Over the past month I've been telling myself daily that everything happens for a reason, what is meant for me will come to me, even if it means I have to live without it for a season. To anyone else going through this, trust that the universe is on your side, improve yourself, we're not perfect but do your absolute best. Everything will work out the way it needs to.

[@Paige10968]

I never hear anyone talk about the part of life where your true self becomes clouded and you change for no reason. You end up hurting the person you love but you’re not even sure if you love them anymore because of what you did/said to them. But then as soon as it’s truly over something flips in your brain and you’re like “why did I do that? I need to say sorry and be with them.” But it’s too late and they don’t love you anymore and now you sit here in sadness because you feel an overwhelming amount of guilt. I’m sorry this is all over the place but I don’t know how to explain it. I really hope you can try and understand it and I’d love to hear your opinion Joey. Thanks for being the way you are and helping me learn to be better.

[@biancamarin6995]

I just believe that more important than timing is if YOU are the right person for that “right person”.

[@WhatYouLookinAt-p7j]

damn thats it

[@maciejak9058]

Something just sparked in me when you talked about this…I honestly believe that there is right person as well. And it is not the wrong time. I just believe you can have multiple right people, but because you life is constantly changing and you are constantly changing some times things do not work out. I definitely believe that there is a reason for everything, so why not have right people for that time. You need every single thing that led up to your forever relationship. There is no set fate, there are multiple right people. The ones that work out just think it’s you are worth the work and that’s what makes things last forever.

[@kellyr3816]

Beautiful🙏

[@shivantikayadav]

i was going through a heartbreak when i met my "right person" they helped me see the world in a different way and they helped me so much. I wasn't sure if i wanted to date them but i gave them a chance and i found my person. i never knew they were someone i was looking for and tbh after the first person aka the first heartbreak i wasnt completely sure if i wanted to date anyone but just being with this one person made everything so so so much better. But i mean i do believe in 'right person wrong time'. if they are meant for you they will come back in your life. we should believe in faith and destiny. love comes to you when you are not looking for it. I've seen so many videos where they say ' even if its the right person or atleast if u think it is and they come into your life at a wrong time it just means that they are not the right person'. i do not believe in this. we should follow our heart coz it truly shows us the way. If that person is meant for you they will be for you and only you. No matter how much you try to change it.

[@ryanmclean2000]

Me and my girlfriend ended our relationship and it was just because our lives were to uncertain and we couldn’t make each other change our life plans for the other because we don’t want to ruin the other persons plans with our own so with so much love in our hearts we went our separate ways and i think it was “right person for that amount of time” there’s never a wrong time on love it just happens and it happens for a reason because for that time period that it’s there it was right life gets in the way life gets messy but everyone in ur life is there for how long they are for a reason just keep following your journey and don’t give up

[@felipecardenas6609]

So it's no about right or wrong. You just have to do your best. Believe it can all work out!

[@joeykidney]

I like the sound of that

[@MegaMaleeha]

this lowkey made me cry, I wasn’t particularly thinking about a relationship in this moment, but about my friends-the moment you mentioned that the people that are in your life are there because you needed them and they needed you, TEARS

[@stefaniastolz8830]

This hit home way harder than expected 😓🥺💙

[@RoamTheUnseen]

Going through a super tough mutual breakup, your videos are helping me get through it. Thank you so much man

[@sunejonker5325]

Thanks for these thoughts. I do believe in God and have a statement that has helped me sooo much with the difficulties I've faced during my time growing.... And it goes "If God puts a full stop at the end of a chapter, don't try and change it into a question mark"

[@_ammy_7708]

Joey, thank you for this video. I'm really suffering with my mental health these past 3 months. You're a voice of reason and it's really comforting. You're an amazing person and I want to thank you for your channel.

[@joeykidney]

We are in this together :)

[@SfTqUeEnBaLl1010]

Thank you for making these videos Joey. Someone who I thought was the love of my life broke up with me 3 months ago, told me he just needed space to figure things out, told me I was the one for him, and he still wanted to be with me. then when I reached out again, told me he didn't want a relationship with me anymore. I'm so broken and don't even know how to process it. And on top of that he's moving 8 hours away to be closer with gaming friends. I don't know how to go on and I want to beg him to stay and be with me, but I know he doesn't want to. I miss him everyday. Your videos give me the strength not to text him and hurt myself more. So thank you Joey, seriously thank you.

[@outsideivan]

As someone still reeling from a breakup, this was what I needed to see today. It was so profound and relatable. Thanks for your words, Joey.

[@WivianGirl]

I think the same way as you. Right person is just right person, and it’s timeless. For the right one, even decades pass by, as long as your soul’s still the same, he/she is still the right one for you. The fact is there’re multiple right people in everyone’s life so there’s no need for you to stick with just one person that you feel so right with but happen to meet them at the wrong time. There’s no need to wait. Just move on and put yourself first. Love yourself first and what’s meant for you will eventually be yours.

[@r.e5765]

Thanks Joey. This past relationship, even though it hurts I really don't regret anything. I learned and so did she. I'll miss her, but I'm happy with the time we did have and will use these lessons in the future.

[@rudhrapanchal4049]

Seriously... thank you for this! I was stuck in a situation for months and this just cleared out so many thougths...

[@tscarr11]

If someone is meant to be in your life you cannot ever loose them.

[@joanaosorio6316]

Thank u joey, for your words 🖤. I had really big traumas with past relationships and a really bad year in terms of mental health. Then this man, came in my life and he thought me what love is supposed to feel like, that love isnt abuse or possesion it can actually be good. Eventually, I became worse and i had to make a choice to move away to follow my dreams and to learn to heal and love myself as an individual. We broke up. But good am i thankful for him, for everything. Sometimes i get angry and wish that i had meet him in other conditions. But in some way i know, that he came in my life for a reason, he shaped me in the pearson i am today, and i pray to god that he gets all the happiness in the world. I truly loved him, even if at the time i could not love him in the way i wanted too.

[@vinayaknarayan5310]

I can’t quite explain the kind of peace this video brought me. I’ve been in a dark place for the past few weeks and this was what I needed to hear. Thank you ❤️

[@therunningacademic2442]

Thank you Joey. I am experiencing a strange breakup as I never met the person in person, but the feeling of loss is so heavy and real. Listening to your video has strengthened me on the path of acceptance and just that exhale 😮‍💨 of relief? ☺️🌈🙏🏼

[@adrianchewygum]

It’s never about timing. The right person will not break each other’s heart because they will support and compromise each other no matter what’s the circumstances so they can grow and live life together!

[@jncon8013]

Yes, in fantasy land humans would be perfect and never fall short and hurt each other. However in reality this is not the case.

[@vishnukiran6162]

Love how you elaborated both sides of your argument before stating your perspective. I also don't believe in "right person wrong timing". For those who believe it, can you give me an example of a circumstance that leads to right people breaking up. My naive brain is incapable of imagining such a situation.

[@jmcxmlb]

It’s like seeing your favorite flavor of ice cream during a the winter, it’s your favorite snack just don’t want it in that moment…(sorry if I explained that badly lol)

[@vishnukiran6162]

I would still consume that ice cream no matter what

[@sopiacute99]

I’m literally living this right now, like I found the right person and it’s amazing… but as you said, I’ve been feeling that right now I need myself, and I have no idea where I am. I feel lost even with this amazing right person .. thank you for this Joey, thank you so much ❤️

[@rosethora5573]

Right person Right reason

[@mikyl-fo8rh]

Katerina Simms has an excellent short video titled: How long should you wait for someone to love you back?

[@valeriejones292]

My boyfriend and I recently broke up. I can’t sit here and lie and say that I don’t have hope for us to try again one day. But I am thankful, as I’ve now come to realize just how badly I need to love myself. That I deserve a relationship with myself right now. I’ll always have a smidge of hope for him and I but for right now and for a while, I need to start making amends with myself, taking care of myself, and loving myself. For me and only me.

[@yo_alter_ego]

hey, joey. i'm not sure of how i stumbled across your channel, maybe it was the youtube algorithm but that's not the point. im amazed by how you word each thought of yours into poetry yet you manage to convey something so deep and something to actually think about. i truly believe that right person is the just and correct way to describe someone you love. they were there with you for a chapter of your life and in the next they may not. loved it❤

[@joeykidney]

i am really thankful that you are here

[@biljanabojovic4485]

I know people who have reunited after a marriage and kids from both side. So, yes it happens.

[@H_E_R_]

Thank you... I needed to hear this ❤️

[@varnikad9072]

Well how can this happen, i was just thinking about this nd here's ur video 😂btw just loved it ❤,much needed 💯

[@joeykidney]

haha i guess we aren't so different after all

[@nymeowcorecat6864]

Same 😂

[@MaxHartmann-t8n]

We all gonna get through this, much love and strength to everyone

[@SABATORdoesSTUFF]

Don’t force love and connections just like you didn’t force to love your favorite thing in life

[@nolanmartzke391]

I’m glad I saw your tiktok telling me to come watch this. Been overthinking for over a month about this girl, and what I just watched cleared those “negative what-ifs” out of my mind. Thank you.🙏🏼❤️

[@asmrsleep3079]

I agree with both the girl's views... For my situation I feel I agree with the second girls opinion. We were together a year and 3 months before mutually deciding to break up. Main reason we broke up was because of life. He works a laborious job 11 hours a day 6 days a week. When we broke up he said it was nothing to do with me and that he is just too busy for a relationship right now. We were friends before a couple and he had always been busy. I believe he tried to change his life and his circumstances to try and make the relationship work... That eventually got the best of him. We never had arguments, we always worked though our problems, and it seemed perfect. The only problem that got in the way was me. Me complaining that we don't hang out enough (mostly due to his circumstances with work) and over time I think this hit him that, he's just too busy to give me what I deserve as his girlfriend. He said that himself. He said he felt bad that he's always busy and can't do more as a boyfriend. He said he's open to staying friends and to see what happens in the future when we both have our lives figured out. I'm currently doing no contact to try and get over him and possibly view him as a friend without any romantic feelings. We never go intimate (not even a kiss) so it feels like we were just best friends. My situation is different from most mainly with no intimacy but it's still very hard. I question myself about what I'm doing and if it's right or wrong.

[@Autumnettey]

Just ended my first ever relationship and you have no idea how much clarity and hope you have given me, Joey. Thanks for being you, and for making these videos. It means a lot when I see something like this pop up on my suggestion, especially if it's relevant in my life right now. So again, thank you so much!

[@ben.tolman]

I love the thoughts that you discussed. It gives me hope that just maybe one day I will find the right person and it may end up working out

[@jojethpadillo4975]

you can and you will

[@niveditadas7318]

Thank you joey for this video. I've been in relationship for almonst 10 years and we broke up today. He is 10 years older than me and I'm 22. He is most amazing person I've even been with. He is my first love. But he wants to get married now and settle down with his family but I want to build my career first, I want to build myself first then there will be marriage. So we both parted our ways. I can't hold someone for my own reasons. I'm dying inside. I love him so much. I don't know how to heal myself. Everyone including my best friend is blaming me that I'm the reason for our breakup, I should have gotten married. I feel like I'm the worst person in this world.

[@hamidamahmud53]

This is not a relationship. This is grooming. You were 12 when the relationship started. You were abused.

[@Lewissharpley92]

Just went through a break up today and it's painful we had no reason to, everything was going so well but like in your closure video there was just lack of interest or wanting to spend time the last 2-3 weeks even though our time was short (3 and half months) it was good there was not one argument I told her how I felt from the beginning and what i was looking for and she said she felt exactly the same but I had that relationship gut feeling the past 2 weeks that I know alot of people can relate to when you just know things feel different and just knew something just don't feel right and today I had the "can we talk" and it all came down to that I did literally nothing wrong and she couldn't of asked for more and she cared about me and have feelings for me but she said she's just stuck in her head and don't know if it's a thing she wants but she wanted me to hopefully be around to maybe be friends or even more in the future, but I just can't I can't wait around for the what ifs and false hope because she don't know what she's feeling right now, I do believe it was more to it and she was just too scared to commit but that's fine and I really appreciate that she told me rather than let these emotions eat at her and lead us along for longer hoping that her feelings would just fix them selves. we left on really good terms and I wished her all the best and that she finds what it is she really wants but I just can't wait around until she realises what it is, I know this is a long post but its helping get it off my chest and speak my mind and maybe others have had a similar situation but it made me think was it the right person wrong time because nothing went bad literally 0 not a single argument but was just bad timing were she thought she wanted to commit then realised she wasn't ready for commitment, there will always be these questions but I'm sure it would of really worked if she wanted it to, I hope she finds what she wants but I need to find myself again right now and leave it behind. Thank you for sharing this video and giving me the confidence to share my breakup

[@Allabout_Atlast]

How is it going man? This literally just happened to me today. Stay strong bro 🙏🏾 we gone get through

[@Lewissharpley92]

@@Allabout_Atlast yep we gave it a few days after this initial post and she said she actually really wanted to give it a go (so we did) then we went another like month and half and it just didnt work she wanted a "relationship" but was also still stuck in a single mindset and in the end she just didnt respect me, she started getting more distant and i started to notice things so we talked once again and i wasnt going to fool myself and keep holding on so we did what was best and went our separate ways for good now, its been just over 2 weeks and we have had no contact what so ever, its been tough but getting better we just have to stay true to ourselves and move forward :)

[@Allabout_Atlast]

@@Lewissharpley92 if you really want it to work bro, let her take her time to do whatever she want, but also focus on you in the moment and show her you can live without her in a bit. But keep your head up king, you’ve got this 🫶🏾👑 I just hope mine come back too, cause I’m ready to give it a shot again

[@Megan-colletttttt]

You’re literally the big brother I never had - I’m 22 and have two 16 year old brothers… I have several step siblings that I’m not close with and my parents never really talk to me about several things other kids would have had talks with their parents about… whenever I need advise I have no one to go to; other than my best friend. But she doesn’t have all the answers … no one does; but your videos always seem to have the exact thing I need to hear in at moment. And for that … I thank you 💚

[@amberica]

I have watched all your break up videos and I'm going through a breakup now. I wanna say thank you for saying the words. It really helps me and I already knew in my head that I wanted to work on myself. But you just told me what my brain couldn't explain. Thank you so much and I'm so thankful you do this.

[@shianneoliva]

I like what you said about there being no time. It’s either the right person or the wrong person. They were right when they were with you. Now that you’re no longer together, they are obviously wrong.

[@dubaifatimaali]

I have seen this phrase many times. Time is nothing but to teach you the difference between who is right and who is the wrong persom for you. You become the judge for it. If its a right person it will always be a right person 💯 and if its a wrong person believe me no matter how hard you try to make it right it wont be worth it..if you never know with whom you want to spend your entire life with , you are definitely very confused with yourself. You dont know who is right and wrong and time wont matter in it until you realize it. 😊

[@adarshsaurabh7871]

I do wanna hear multiple thoughts and make myself better for no one else but myself

[@thinkhappythoughtsXD]

I have been struggeling with this concept lately. I feel it is often 'right person, wrong version of me'. Someone might be perfect for a past version of me or a future version I want to be. It both might feel like 'right person, wrong time' but neither actually are. You will never be exactly like your past version again. You have to accept you have changed as well as your perspective has changed. As for a future version you aspire to be, you are not there yet. You might never even become that. So that perfect person is more of a dream than reality. I think it often comes down to accepting where your are in life. If after accepting that, you are not happy with it, you will change for yourself and not for someone else.

[@nerdygameinggurl]

For me i think what that means to have them at the back of your head while you move on in your life. You hold space for them but doesn't mean Im not giving other people chances. plus i don't think everyone have the luxury to experience love. Some people are not taught to accept love and it scares them. And sometimes things break but later on in life they mend it together. So I'm not sure about that concept, but i do want to have the hope. And i wish that in my life, this right person will be in the right time. I'm not bitter, i move on in life.

[@danielmadhu3970]

Missed you joeyy this clearly cleared some unclear things in my head🤧😂❤️❤️

[@joeykidney]

Welcome back!

[@JaJa-ev6sw]

Im not okay , I'm depressed I dont know what to do but thank you I watched some of your videos and it helps me.

[@affkhanahamed3061]

my ex always told we were the right person but the wrong time, she wanted to get back together after a few more years and i said no, this vid helped me realise alot and i can not think about this and move on with my life now :) thank you

[@rmblow82]

Honestly this helped a little- especially that this is my first relationship I really wanted it to work. I was and am willing to do anything but he wanted his freedom it hurts a lot and I might talk shit but deep down I know it's not true. Deep down I know he will always be my number one- deep down I know we both made mistakes and we just grew apart, he was/is sweet and caring, beautiful and a very smart young man- I still hope that one day we can connect again- but until now I guess I can work on me, he helped me a lot and I know he's not just a "lesson"- I really hope everything works out for him though even if I don't show it I'm happy that he's happy, even if sometimes I want to check up on him or talk to him I know I can't. I guess he's just always going to have someone else do that for me instead. Even if I hate it. I genuinely love him as a person-

[@subhabaskaran1849]

Wanted his freedom what does that mean? Cheer up you will also eventually find a relationship with a person who will deep love you

[@alexawesome456]

This just lightened my day. Its a good perspective to think about life but more specifcally relationsihps in life. Thank you Joey. Hope all is well! :)

[@aaden4888]

I really miss her, I still text her though she has me blocked. I’m so proud of the people we’ve become after the breakup, so I also believe that if it is the right person then it just IS. And the loved that we shared previously was still meant to be, but it might not have been meant to stand.

[@dexstardipuka9809]

Seems like you and i are in the same situation bro

[@dexstardipuka9809]

Stay strong man ✌

[@slothy1412]

I spent my whole day today on bed asking people's opinion about what happened in my life right now but still couldn't come to a conclusion.. but when i saw this video, it totally calms me down.. i know what to do now ☺️

[@oumaimajmal7230]

definitely i agree with everything happens for a reason but it's terrifying to stay lonely

[@arveejaycastro0216]

Joey! Thank you for always being there. I love you man! I’m going through a heartbreak for a 3 years relationship and it’s only been a month. And you know what’s the funny part? She’s already dating someone else again.

[@cat_aventuras996]

This hurt, and healed? I feel like my bandaid just got taken off. You have no idea how important it was for me to hear this.

[@joeykidney]

I am glad that it hit home for ya

[@vicksoth]

When me and my boyfriend first started dating, I was in the process of becoming a better person for myself. Every now and then I kept saying what if whenever my fears and anxiety would get the best of me but it was just that. He would remind me that I was talking from a place of fear. I never thought of the argument to much but in my experience with my boyfriend, I agree with you Joey!

[@annaburdeina9750]

Joey, you are amazing! Watching your videos is always like just simple talk with you. You help a lot, I am passing through hard break-up and you really calm me down, like meditation. Thank you for what you are doing 🙏🏻 I wish you developing a channel✨ let more people to see your wisdom and deep knowledge ❤

[@anyarachel4838]

I relate to all angles of this... who I thought was the "right" person left a few months after my dad died. To me the right person is the one who wants to stay.. no matter what you're feeling or going through in life.

[@arielle4209]

Agreed. Once one person gives up and leaves then they weren’t the one to begin with despite of the obstacles that might come.

[@nintendom1319]

I'm the person who basically got told it was the wrong time and let's be honest it sucks. Human love is so unique when in love we want to spend every hour of everyday with this person they can encapsulate our life. But I do agree with there being outside roles that are going on. For these past two weeks all I have been able to think about it her its like wool has been thrown over my eyes. It's not like I shut everyone in my life out I still talk to them but I can't deny that I'm missing that spark. Love isn't just those feelings you get being around someone but I think its also the pain being away from them, that hole you feel when you see a picture or that notification pop up on your phone but you know it isn't meant for you. I know that I'll get through it I thought she was the one and I will be honest a big part of me still believes that and I think I don't want to let go of that cause I'm too afraid to lose all of her.

[@overknight7460]

Me and my girlfriend brokeup today after being together on a long distance relationship for about 6 months. we were deeply inlove with each other, but life grew stronger. her parents were very strict and didn't know about my existance, and if they were to find out about my existance they would be really mad and may react in a scary way. so we tried to find ways of meeting and keeping the relationship work, but we just couldn't. we both are so busy with our lifes and the constant fear that her parents may find out and be mad, grew stress in her and me, pushing us away to the point of a breakup. That's what I call right person wrong time. There isn't only 1 right person in the world. Every person has many right persons. That's why people confuse. When someone said they met the right person - they mean they met "the One" but, it doesn't mean that the right person would be "The One", the right person is a candidate to being "The One". The wrong time, just means that someone met a Right person, a good candidate to the throne of marrige - at a time where life is too heavy to continue with it. Me and her brokeup still loving eachother; and I believe - that one day, if and when life allows it - we might come back - and do it right; But untill then - it's time to continue with life, and let it do it's thing. (P.S - just wanna point out - not every person you date is a right person - there is a distinct uniqueness to a person who is "Right". Just because you loved someone, and you two brokeup cause someone lost feelings, or one of you grew feelings for a different person, doesn't mean they fit this title. People who fit this title are people who brokeup because of outside forces of life, people that life grew harder on them to the point it hurt their mental health and had to let go).

[@indatube]

People are in our lives for a season. We were like rocks going down the stream, slowly chipped and chiseled and eroded like a relief sculpture until we are our final selves. Some people say "they left the best thing they had when they left me" but you two not being right for each other doesn't mean anything about you personally, just there's someone better for you and them. Sometimes guys think they've learned their lesson or after seeing other people want their ex back, but if they don't want you move on, use your lesson to be better partner for your next. By the time you find the right one you will know how to not fuck it up or treat them less than you should. Synthesize all of your life lessons to be the best catch you can be. And don't stay in a dead relationship, preventing either of you from finding your better matches. Also big point: it's very rare that a guy and girl are in the same stage of desire for commitment, plus the correct maturity, financial standing, emotional stability etc all at the same time. Often when women look at a guy who has it all and is already taken, it's because she encountered him at the right time. Thanks, Joey -Darnell

[@nickolazcarters]

The problem is people are not perfect, they have conflicting thoughts and these people have to endure tons of reflections on what they want in life.

[@aditilahre9659]

Make more about this topic im sure a lot of us can't get their heads around this concept of *right person wrong time* its so so difficult , but this gives me more clarity and just helps me hold onto something

[@virajbhale3143]

I wish I could have a one-on-one conversation with joey rn. It could literally save my relationship..

[@tonikoch6213]

Thank you, I really really needed this my boyfriend just broke up with me and his exact words were, you're the right person but it's just the wrong time, and I was thinking about this words so much in my head, so thank you

[@srisannihitachavali4342]

Hey Joey, On the off chance that you'll see this, I want you to know that you inspire me. Your work has inspired me to write again. So a big thank you for that :) I wish we can be friends some day. Much Love ❤️

[@ernarjandos1031]

I dated a girl for about 6 months. The first 2-3 months were magical, then we started to argue a lot, because of my trust issues and insecurity, it was hard for us both and she couldn’t handle it. I did my best and when she lost hope i always gave her hope even thought i was also hopeless deep inside, but i was anxious and was afraid of the thought of losing her, so i suffered silently, but it wasn’t that that made us break up. Her overprotective father found out and made us brake up, i asked and reminded her countless times that we still can be together, but she chose not to, and I don’t know why, we still could have been together like before, but she wasn’t willing to. If she wanted we would have found a way. I don’t know which it is, is it that we couldn’t control her father or is it that she wasn’t willing to.

[@ninab.7246]

Found you on TikTok, now I follow you here and your podcast. This topic hit a very soft spot right now, this was the right advice at the right time kinda video 🙏🏼

[@riteshshisode5023]

Bruhhhhh! Content that made by you is needed in our India😂 Literally everyday my one friend call me and told about his or her break up or true love..... 💫😂 This people need you just try if you can add hindi subtitle..... I swear!!! The growth on your yt and views will be at its peak 😉😊 Just love you and your poem❤️💫

[@define2675]

If when you break up with the person you love, because of circumstances in the other person’s life preventing you from staying together, but despite that you still care for one another and maybe even occasionally interact. Plus, you even know that you both would have wanted the same thing, say 15 years from that moment when it didn’t work, why am I not allowed to be with them once life feels in order? I guess what I’m trying to say is, can the wrong person become the right person?

[@haydenhellyeah729]

In my personal experience, i think so. There is this universal thing where going back to your "ex" is bad, 'cause you broke up for a reason. It 100% depends on the reason obviously but it still gets frowned upon. Anyways, what I wanna say is that I am going through this exact thing at the moment. I was together with someone 5 years ago, they hurt me, I hurt them. We were both in a very bad place. Eventually broke up, became close friends, best friends and now we're working on building things back up together. We changed, we learned, we experienced stuff on our own, we grew and focused on ourselves. So yes, i think the wrong person can turn into the right person and I think the wrong time can turn into the right time (if that makes sense??) that's my opinion of course (:

[@कृष्ण-फ7च]

I came across so many non indian guys You are unique I mean your so matured person Each and every concept you explain is so deep and it requires that maturity and you have it brother Definitely your parents and the girl who is gonna be yours are lucky.

[@uppermostapollo7087]

This hurts so bad to accept 💔

[@humza4848]

heartbreaking, good vid

[@sammiller4862]

Offbrand Andrew Garfield is right. AMOR FATI: Love of fate. The idea that every single “loss” and “gain” in life can be accepted and loved for what they make you regardless of consequence. I have debilitating OCD and I broke up with my girlfriend of 11 months over it. The OCD attached to the relationship and I needed to make the breakup perfect, even to the point where if she was going to break up with me, she had to do it “right.” Compulsively, I hurt her even more. Heartbreak was my intrusive thought and I ended up becoming a vegetable, where I couldn’t focus on simple tasks like taking a drink of water because it was like she broke up with me EVERY. SINGLE. SECOND. (It’s called Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder for a reason) I still love her. But that love for her doesn’t need to be limited by the time of when it worked out, or when it didn’t. It was meant to be and then it wasn’t meant to be; because radical acceptance of life means even the worst suicidal pain of OCD heartbreak can be loved and accepted. There’s a lot of context missing in this story and it was more for me personally to say than for anyone to hear. Thanks Joey.

[@Bryan-6lackg]

It been 2years ,but it still hurts like hell

[@johnrenzcaballero4308]

I saw your vid randomly. 2 months have past since My First Girlfriend and I broken up.Yesterday, I assumed she found someone new since we casually talk and we only talk for stuffs concerning her . This vid made me wonder, How many signs do I need to completely accept and start the process. If she ever see this, Just wanna say, I'm sorry for neglecting and not answer your call when you need me in those silent battles you faced. So Sorry, I never stop loving you but it's late since 2 months is a long time ago :

[@jessiicaamusic]

Thank you for just being you ❤️

[@rikurikudou1989]

It is what it is

[@khushirane1673]

kinda helped me out sort out some of the overthinking ✨

[@daviddavila7571]

I really don't know what is the wrong time right time ...all I know I was in love with this wonderful beautiful girl for 6yrs that changed my life, so she's gone she left me and now I'm dealing with this pain 1 year-and-a-half later sometimes I wish like everybody else what is why did she leave? I don't know if it was still a long time or bad time I don't know all I know is that I miss her and I wish she will come back but I know that's wishful thinking, so I really don't know what to think what I know is that I feel sad deep inside after one year and seven months I still feel broken

[@lawrencekerketta0901]

🔥🔥 wise words true about just the right person. Love from India🇮🇳

[@allinotte4263]

Such young women who seem to be very in tune with something. 🙌🏻

[@sohaibalshalwi7277]

Lol his voice more comforting den the video it self

[@misha6751]

Wow, he really gave me a new and different perspective to think about.

[@DivineMeige]

Please post more videos like this. It is so helpful. 😭💕✨

[@nicolengadna7945]

I think the point work on being the best version of you so when the person comes you'll be ready, is understated. Working on self love so you can accept that happiness is 1000% true. Yeah, you hit this video on the head. So many goods I'll be taking from your grocery store Joey!!

[@NCOH1]

this cleared up my mind and made it absolutely clear, THANK YOU

[@samanthabissell22]

as soon as I saw the title of the video it hit me as I can relate n want to say thank you for these videos

[@wanderer__.__]

thanks for the video

[@joeykidney]

thanks for watching

[@wanderer__.__]

@@joeykidney thanks for the reply ! I came here through ur instagram and also wanted to tell you that all the reels you upload are helping me a lot and helps me to gain self confidence A BIG THANKS TO YOU !

[@ameliabriley2805]

this was very eye opening. i truly needed this

[@eloradesign4636]

Yes, yes, yes yes.....

[@ili-sn2cr]

Hey, I just wanted to ask, when do you know, that it's the right person? Because me and my boyfriend broke up, although we still love each other. We decided, that it's more important to focus on ourselves right now and become the best version of ourselves, however, it doesn't feel like it's over. I still feel the connection, the love, the passion. But me and him are just not ready for a healthy and steady relationship, because we don't have even that type of relationship with ourselves yet. So how do I know if "he's the one" and how do I move? Is there a possibility in the future? Either way, what the answer is, what do I do now? PS: I really love your content and you make me feel understood. Thank you so much for your courage to do all that and keep it up! :)

[@a_s_goncalves]

This was exactly what I needed to hear...