To Anyone Going Through A Breakup (for boys only)

[@trajan15]

I met her in my darkest place, we both grew so much together, and now it’s over. It’s hard to think the woman who saved me is gone

[@alfiere2078]

i can feel this a lot, man..

[@ffjake4762]

Felt

[@zacharypecora5339]

I fully feel that man, the same thing happened to me. She got me to finally stop getting pinned and actually “Wrestle the Giant” and then she left

[@hunterelliott4858]

That’s the problem brother. You gotta get out of the dark place before you meet the one. Gotta have some self worth and value before you get serious. Then you’re just relying on her to give you value

[@worldrecordmethod7119]

wtf me too man, chick literally pulled me out of the gutter and turned me into a great man. I know it feels like you’re back in the gutter now that she’s gone but you’re not. I’m currently 55 days in and it’s not easy, but it definitely feels possible

[@random3rsifO_O]

“It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.”

[@beready4861]

That hits hard man 😢

[@random3rsifO_O]

Yeah bro it does 😕

[@makaveli2363]

2nd day without my partner of over 3 years. This shit hurts boys.

[@AIDAN_TTK]

Na dwg i talked to this girl day and night we werent tg but we had the nicknames for eachother but shes with someone else

[@J1DIGGLYWIGGLY]

@@AIDAN_TTK exactly the same i cant stay strong anymore

[@mdcmdc1]

And they think men don't care...it's really difficult to be with someone and then suddenly it's gone. You can have friends, parents or whatever, but its your partner you build a life with. The emptiness is real.

[@pook304]

It sure is cause I'm completely empty and she doesn't even care one goddamn bit about it.

[@Clleonie]

​@@pook304she does trust me

[@nicolassimon2367]

Empty, Lost in thought and regret, we were planning to start a family and a week later she just left. I am not able to stop the pain yet, i see her everywhere and cant stop looking at my phone but we have to at least give it a try.

[@bunnypxnts]

@@nicolassimon2367 how are you holding up man?

[@williamg231]

It really is. We only dated from March 2023 to June/July 2024 but it felt like it was going to last forever. I understand rationally that I idealized the relationship with her but it really was the guiding star in my life.

[@SpyOnDeck]

7 years ended last week. I've been through heartbreak before, but this one hurts more than any of them combined. Trusting in God for brighter days ahead. Praying for all my boys feeling the same hurt. We got this Kings. Stay strong 👊

[@jordy9313]

Hope you are Allright. Same thing happend to me last week. After 7 years, she left me. And moved back to her home town, 200 kilometers away. Stay strong and positive

[@SpyOnDeck]

@@jordy9313 🙏 sorry to hear. My relationship has turned into long distance. It's still tough to deal with. Hang in there 👊

[@oliverislost]

dude, me too I feel like shit and I'm the one who broke up with her

[@worldrecordmethod7119]

7 years is insane man. honestly I would look into Okbaby break up reaction videos, it’s been my form of therapy and it’s pretty funny. She ended a 7 year relationship with her bf and married his friend later. Bro was absolutely wrecked for a whole year then suddenly got a girlfriend from heaven. Gorgeous beyond words and his ex got fat and ugly. Content about their break up has literally been getting me through the heartbreak one chuckle at a time

[@stefanandersson1263]

hope youre doing okay brother

[@josdav07]

The thing that hurt me the most was how cruel and cold she became. It made me feel like everything was a lie and the person I fell in love with never existed and was just a creation of my mind.

[@giveaway8800]

Same

[@macks170]

I felt the same brother. She still asked me to go on vacation recently and I felt like i was with a stranger the entire time. Now we are back home, she broke up with me.

[@TORAMiSTUDIOS]

I felt like that too. Like everything you had was a dream and the alarm clock gave a loud ring suddenly.

[@TORAMiSTUDIOS]

She entered into mu life at my lowest and left me at my lowest

[@Marshall.911]

Same, she just blocked me from everywhere without saying nothing 2 days ago

[@ianfranco4686]

That hug part damn! Yeah i really need that so bad. To all us men going through these phases sending y'all hugs bros! We fucking got this!

[@tbm4557]

I completley agree with you. It is really hard for me now bro. And all I can think about is that hug from her. But in the day when I am with my friends it is a lot esier, but the evenigs, damn they hit hard, I am alone and cant stop thinging about how it was. But I am trying. Hope you are too!

[@regan420]

⁠@@tbm4557 I am thinking the exact same thing. I can’t remember the last time I hugging someone that wasn’t her. You’re literally alone with your thoughts contemplating things you should’ve done to make her want you but you didn’t so you just blame yourself and it hurts so much.

[@nlegault1218]

i literally choked up when he said that

[@anthonyesposito4344]

@@nlegault1218same

[@CityForlife-jy8cw]

Thanks man

[@joeykidney]

boys, as cheesy as it seems - you are not alone.

[@lukebouwman6843]

You've just helped me more than you can even imagine Mr joey.... Thank you

[@Privileged_Slave]

I’m grateful for your video and advice . It helped me calm down and have a different perspective on my situation .

[@LucasRiley-ig1gf]

Thanks Joey

[@SmorezCx]

You just helped save someones life, me. I love you for that! ❤

[@shanevrins8470]

Why does it feel like the complete opposite then? 😪

[@aidanlund3767]

Just gotten broken up with by my girlfriend of a year and 4 months. I was too attached to her and she needed some space and independence. After losing her a few days ago, I have felt so empty. I have no motivation to do anything and I’m constantly wanting to text her back and fix everything, even though I know she wants to move on. I hate this feeling so much Edit: Thank you guys for all of the support. While it is sad to know other people are experiencing what I’m feeling, it does help me to understand that I’m not alone. This feeling still sucks, but time does heal. We got this boys. Sending love to all of you❤️

[@iwanther17]

Im on the same boat as you she just broke up with me and i feel so empty.

[@christianstone8570]

Same here!! 1 year and 4 months! we were perfect

[@christianstone8570]

I hate this man

[@TevitaSwann]

Same boat right now bro. It's really hard man.

[@toxicty6595]

How's everyone doing

[@DebbieDavis-y9j]

Great video! Unfortunately, my 2 year relationship ended a month ago. The person I believed was the love of my life chose to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. No matter what I do, I can’t stop thinking about him. Despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. He’s always on my mind, and I miss him more than words can express.

[@MarshaRobinson-k5o]

Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.

[@DebbieDavis-y9j]

Wow, that’s amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?

[@MarshaRobinson-k5o]

His name is Father Abulu, an incredible spiritual counselor who specializes in helping people reunite with their ex.

[@DebbieDavis-y9j]

Thank you so much for the suggestion; it means more to me than you know.

[@soulreaper5623]

I just got into a break up too this is crazy

[@Valhalla2008]

My girlfriend left me on my birthday, right after I got home from the Walter reed military hospital, because my dad was in a helicopter crash. I've been so depressed from that and to the things I saw in the hospital. I'm struggling man, I've been needing something like this. Especially when we live in a society where Men can't show their feelings. Where men just need to go suck it up and keep working. I'm just, struggling. Struggling with my faith, Struggling with depression, struggling with the will to live. I needed this. Thank you.

[@KVuong-rv2hs]

Let tears water the seeds of your future's happiness.

[@jimg5797]

Me too brother..

[@AKrieger94]

Sending love for you brother! Keep fighting. It shall pass 🙏

[@gakorothyt9768]

Bro, I am truly for your loss. Especially for you dad. It must really be hard for you to just keep living. I know what you're going through. My mom's gonna have surgery, I have me end Semester exams, and my woman whom I thought to be my emotional anchor left me. So my whole life is just crumbling apart bro. And I can't show that to anybody else. I can cry and grieve in solace. That's the best I can do right now. Everyday it's hard to put on a I'm happy and fine face and live my day as usual So you're not alone brother. We are there for each other.

[@jonburnett2207]

stay strong my bro (:

[@cocoa_ar]

Why did I tear up after he said "When was the last time you felt a hug?"?

[@Crusader930]

no bur fr i started crying

[@regan420]

I came close to crying bc I couldn’t think of the last time someone other than my ex hugged me

[@AKrieger94]

Same.. I literally cannot remember

[@McSalty087]

Idk

[@anirban_5]

25th march 2023 last time she hugged me unexpectly from my back❤‍🩹

[@lordstone57]

I’m in college and my girlfriend of 10 months who is still back home just broke up with me. I’ve had horrible relationships in the past, but she was the first one to ever really love me and show me that she loved me. She wrote me handwritten notes every day and I’d write her letters, she took the time to text me and remind me to have some food in between classes and she would call me every night and would rant about work and then eventually we would fall asleep on the phone together. I honestly saw the rest of my life with her. She took me out of such a horrible place and was the first person I was able to cry in front of in years. She honestly was the first person who made me feel safe enough to cry at all. She’s back home though and long distance is hard. We both love eachother but can’t say it. I truly believe she is my soulmate and the one I’m meant to be with, and I’m not planning on looking around at other girls anytime soon. I hate the idea of “dating just to date”, I only date if I genuinely see a long term/possible future with someone. I’ve only been in 3 relationships and those were because I saw a future with each of them, the first two were honestly middle school and then high school relationships and I would hardly call them relationships looking back at them, tbh I never kissed either of them because I didn’t feel comfortable with doing so and I wanted my first kiss to be special; this girl that just left me was my first, and was the first person I truly felt I was meant to be with. I wanted to make every memory by her side. I saw us starting a family someday and growing old together. She told me to stop texting her because I was asking about why we were breaking up, so I wrote her a letter and mailed it telling her one last time that I do love and care about her and that I’d be here for her whether it’s 10 months or 10 years that we don’t talk with one another. I finished it off with “And hopefully, if fate wills it, I will See You Again

[@redo3390]

im in the same boat brother, best wishes

[@ScreamingObsidian]

brother, i want to say that im also in the same boat as you but she was my first girlfriend, we spent so much time together everyday, video calls and in class together but then everything just broke apart (not related to cheating). our relationship is also 10months and i gave away everything for her, i had friends before i met her but then one of the friends betrayed my trust so i just gave up on friends as a whole and gave everything for her and it still wasnt enough. now that we are done, i realize that im not alone and i owe my friends an apology.(some of ‘y friends changed schools becus im in highschool). i cant understand the intensity of your pain but i do understand your type of pain. we, as men or “boys” dont get to open up and talk about emotions a lot but at the end of the day, we are all human and we cant stop our feelings. i never comment on videos but seeing your emotion, pain and suffering in the form of this post makes me want to speak up and say that you arent alone and we can get through this. i hate to admit that even im tearing up abit. (ironic how my pfp is obsidian and there is an item called crying obsidian and im only making this joke to lighten up the mood abit and you also have a minecraft pfp, i hope my form of joking it dont show my age) good luck man, we can get through this, from a random person on the internet to another random person on the internet

[@thatonedudethatplaysroblox3137]

I'm sorry man, the same thing happened to me. One man to another, hopefully we all get though this. Prayers your way friend.

[@S.Drift.1]

Ik how you feel emotionally. I was in a relationship of almost 3 yrs. Today she called it quits after saying that she’s tired of trying and telling me what to do. Moments later I got in my car and broke down, I’ve never broke down like this before especially in a relationship. I’ve ofc tried to reason with her but she keeps saying “I’m sorry but no”. I’ll keep trying since we decided to continue the convo tomorrow but she said nothing will change her mind, hopefully I can bc I don’t want to lose all of this progress and start over.

[@MM-py9st]

Broke up with my first girlfriend two weeks ago, we were together for almost 13 months and then she suddenly became cold and wanted to take a break even though we hadn’t seen each other in 5 months. She wouldn’t really talk to me and her main reasoning was because of where both of us were in life relative to each other. We both graduated college but she makes WAY more than me and despite giving her everything I could with what little I had, it wasn’t enough. I don’t want to get into too much detail but she was the first girl I ever connected with so deeply. I used to think we could’ve been soulmates but things started to change and in the end it didn’t work out. I also don’t normally date unless it’s with someone I’m serious about having a future with which is why my first relationship/kiss was at the age of 22. Anyways, it was tough. Just wanted to say I appreciate all the effort put into this video and to anyone going through a breakup, I want you to know everything will be okay. You deserve to be happy and you will find that happiness one day, just focus on enjoying the journey until you meet the right one.

[@bryanruppel9307]

41 male here. I've been with my partner going on 15 years. We've been married for 7. This year she told me she loves me but no longer in love with me. She won't go to marriage counseling or work on us in anyway. She told me I did everything right, and nothing wrong(I've always dated my wife), I feel in love with her now as much as I did when I married her. But there is nothing I can do if she won't try. This is by far the hardest thing I have ever gone through. I don't just lose her, I lose all her family(I have no family, all passed away). This video did help a lot, but I started crying when you said the hug part. I have no one to reach out to. I go day by day, try not to get overwhelmed. Thank you for talking about this, it needs more talking about. I hope everyone out there going through a hard time knows the same, you are not alone, just like Joey said.

[@MajorPickleSwag]

hang in there king

[@WillOligher]

I’m sorry to hear this man, the not wanting to try really resonated with me. About a month ago my wife said she needs space and was going to a furnished apartment through work to figure some things out. Found out that she had been having an affair for about 7 months, that this was not the first time she’s done this but the 4th and that she wasn’t actually at some apartment but his house. Gave her the option to try and work on this but she didn’t want to, didn’t want to try and didn’t really even want to talk about it. Also found out that she had been using a credit card to start preparing for this for a few months. Hard to fathom how someone could be so cold. You’re not alone man so keep going. I know it’s early and it’s only been 5 weeks for me but I feel like I’m in a drastically better place than during the first week or so.

[@dannyliles8025]

I love you man

[@clawje]

time time time and TIME. Give yourself time! You are still very young at 41 yo and life doesn't end there. You are going to be fine. Much love

[@oleksiikhmelovskyi2141]

I feel you so much, we were 12y together. And now she is leaving, but we are immigrants so she will live with me together until she finds another country that she wants to move and job and then leave (we are Ukrainians and cannot get back home). I feel the same, no one to hug, my last family member is sister and she is in Ukraine

[@HenriettaR.Morrison]

Nice Video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can't stop thinking about him, l've tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I'm frustrated, I don't see my life as anyone else. I've done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can't, I don't know why I'm saying this here, I really miss him and just can't stop thinking about him.

[@SaraMcClain-w3w]

I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let him go, so I had to do all I could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment...

[@HenriettaR.Morrison]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?

[@SaraMcClain-w3w]

His name is fatherabulu, and him is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...

[@HenriettaR.Morrison]

Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked him up online. impressive.

[@schlampnfika]

i understand you my realationship wasnt as long as yours only half a year but she was my first everything except hugging and kissing and she cheated on me

[@noahseip4420]

Thank you. The hardest part is letting go of the meaning you attached to them, and the vision you had for you guys and for the future. Looking back at pictures, from when things were great, looking back at a letter she wrote you telling how much she loved you. Now all of a sudden she is moved on and does not have feelings for you anymore. The pain of her moving on, and wanting to see other people the pain of all the memories, and the pain that she is excited to be moving forewared without you is a pain like nothing else.

[@oscargarcete8200]

It is unbelievable how someone can love you to death and suddenly she's with other person

[@corvoriever539]

@@oscargarcete8200 it really is a lot of pain. I was with her for 5 years and then she got with someone about a month and a half later, and then I heard from a friend that she’s getting engaged with him?! Already?! It hasn’t even been 4 months my bros. Shit fuckin hurts.

[@nicholisfourie8971]

@@corvoriever539 Yeah I do not know what is up with that. It is around a month, or in your instance a month a half, and they are with somebody knew. I keep on reading instances of this. 4 months is flipping wild. At least perhaps there might be security in that? Mine had a hookup with a work colleague 2 weeks after the break-up. Originally I wanted to be there for her to talk to so that she doesn't do dumb stuff like that. My efforts were rendered pointless and I didn't even know.

[@corvoriever539]

@@nicholisfourie8971 she got engaged less than 2 months before our breakup. I want to slap that new dudes goofy smile off his face. Get my white air forces bloody bro. But I can’t think of them. The focus needs to be on my own healing and personal progress. I take solace in the fact she didn’t upgrade at least when it comes to looks. It’s funny too, she talked so much shit about white dudes and the first person she gets with is a blonde ass white guy lol fuckin eating her words. Following in her mother’s footsteps just hopping to the next guy instead of focusing on herself.

[@issa_adventures]

I’m crying watching this video, it hurts so much. But thank you for making it. It was something I needed to see.

[@joeykidney]

I’m happy it found you

[@babyyoda4942]

Are u doing alright now bro

[@chipmunkmusic2100]

me too man

[@Håkon-i7x]

does it get better?

[@chipmunkmusic2100]

@@Håkon-i7x yes,after 3 weeks it gets much better

[@D-A-N-]

The fact almost everyone went thru this and is going thru it makes u feel better that what happened to u is really not that special, it’s just part of the game.

[@wildmischief]

5 years together, 1 married, and we have an 11 month old daughter. She threw it all away to have an affair Found out this past Friday. Still can't believe it

[@sudaiskhan6643]

I’m sorrry to hear that man, weather it’s 5 years 10 years or even 1, going through something like that, I cannot imagine. Sending love and hugs to your way from one man to another ❤.

[@IckySpartan]

What a shitty way to end the year, dude. Holy shit.

[@wildmischief]

@@sudaiskhan6643 Just saw this, but thanks man, I appreciate it

[@wildmischief]

@@IckySpartan Eh, it wasn't ALL awful. I got to watch as many of her old friends (some she knew before me) up and left her because they didn't want to be friends with a cheater, so I got a victory in that regard

[@AfkChris20]

It’s been 3 days since I broken up with my 1 year relationship, and I needed a hug. My grandma is my top supporter, and yesterday, before I left from work, she said to me “Drive safely my son, I love you” I couldn’t hold it in any longer so I came running to her and we hugged and cried together. Guys, I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for that hug. I’m grateful for the friends and family I have.

[@ptvpoint9855]

If I didn't find this video sooner, people would have found my body, dead, floating on some random river. Your warm soft voice, with understanding confidant and advice, bring me back. Thank you!

[@nannimancini3088]

you got this homie

[@Moodeng-sama]

Stay strong king!

[@Tattooed_goldenretriever]

This is really sweet more men need to know it’s okay be emotional and express themselves. You’re a great example of a man to look up to. Thank you for everything joey. You’ve changed my life and I’m in a much better and healthier spot

[@joeykidney]

appreciate you

[@mk0759]

It'd be nice if that were true. Usually, a man is wise to keep his guard up and his vulnerable emotions hidden. Most people will turn it against him sooner or later if he lets them that close (I've seen it too many times). There's no social stigma or consequence for emotionally attacking men, even when it's blatant and out of pure spite. A lucky few may have a male friend who's been in that painful situation too, can truly empathise and be trusted to confide in. That's still only a lucky FEW from my observations.

[@d.b.2917]

She told me I saved her when I entered her life, but she didn’t save me when she left me.

[@ImWildflower719]

Hay everyone, I’ve been going through the worst heartbreak of my entire life recently, and I wanted to let you all know, that whatever happens it will be ok, it doesn’t matter what other people say or do, just keep being you, and that is what matters keep doing the right thing, God is with you and will always be by your side, so please, never stop being the best you can be.

[@livingthevoidlife9396]

My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me yesterday. She saved me from my own dark thoughts and allowed me to dream again. I do not know what to do now that she is gone. Waking up and almost messaging her "Good Morning" because it's what I did for the last years and realizing she isn't there anymore hurts so damn bad. Thanks, man.

[@1Jesus_is_King1]

that good morning part hit me hard man. i remember waking up the next morning and looking at my phone to see if she texted me good morning cause she would always message me first. just to realize i would never receive that text again. it hurts

[@ryan_clutch35]

Although its been 6 months since my 2.5 year relationship ended, this video just saved me from a lifetime of unhealthy thoughts and all I can say is thank you. To everyone else who may read this, take this from someone who made mistakes (even with the right intentions) and had to get over the depths of self-blame. YOU. ARE. NOT. ALONE. Love yourself and forgive yourself for any mistakes you may have made. Nothing moves linear so let the lessons be lessons and move forward with your new perspective, because one day you'll realize how strong you truly are. You are the author of your own life story. Some chapters may be your favorite and some you might choose to skip, but realize that you hold the pen. So write the story you want! Go out and try something you've always wanted to do, tell your loved ones you appreciate them, and let the next time you smile be the evidence that you deserve to be happy. Thank you for being on this Earth with me, I can't wait to read the story you write!

[@joeykidney]

love this

[@parashar.s]

thanks man I can relate to the things you said I hope everything will be fine

[@ryan_clutch35]

@@parashar.s You'll be okay and everything will be fine, as long as you make yourself your biggest cheerleader. You may not like who you see in the mirror today, but that's the crazy part. It doesn't reflect who we'll be in the future. So keep moving forward and keep the momentum! You have my complete support!

[@braedendabney3934]

Just figured out 2 hours ago my girlfriend was talking and started a relationship with someone else. She gaslighted me but i knew in my gut feeling something was wrong. 2 years wasted.

[@calumtorn1340]

I'm sorry bro... I've been there and I'm still hurting and broken over it .. but not as bad as I was. Time will heal you bro just feel as much as you can and get through each day. Much love bro you deserve better just let yourself cry

[@ottosneider7233]

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[@CheeseyMilkshakes]

Look at it this way, it wasn't wasted. You still had two years of beautiful memories with this person, and half of those memories are you. That feeling you have for her, all of that love, it's YOU that did that. Your brain made the chemicals that made you feel that way, your brain generated that love. Your brain will make those chemicals again, it'll be hard but they will. My partner left me two months ago, I was absolutely devastated and in many ways I still am (hell I'm watching this video now lmao), but I feel so much better than I did even a month ago. Put yourself out there , join new groups, start a new hobby, READ (get off your phone). Take this time to build yourself up into a person that you would be envious of. I'm sorry you're going through this man, the pain is atrocious.

[@huangbusiness]

just happened to me recently. nearly 3 years gone for some random fella

[@joshuabrown9398]

​@@huangbusinessdon't feel bad, a horrible poison on your life is now gone. Better people are out there

[@robertg78]

Thank you, Joey. In my case, the part that hurt the most was that I was trying to feel valued through my GF because I didn't feel valued at my job. That said, I was dumped. Couple of months later she is going out with a new guy and gets in a new relationship. I actually did not care much about it -kinda happy for her actually- but the ego, man. Ego took a serious low blow, reinforcing my low-self esteem and value issues. I believe that when your ego gets hurt like this, you need to acknowledge it, try to understand where it comes from, and work on yourself; be kind to yourself. Men are shaped under the heat of the forge and by the weight of the hammer. Work on yourself with purpose. Even though I still have my setbacks, I feel blessed whenever I feel excited to know what partner the future will bring. I don't know any of you guys, but I love you still.

[@718QNZKID]

I got discarded a month and half ago, everyday I cry for her. Our time together was full of love and laughter, we never argued and than when our first rough patch hit, she ran and left me behind... Kings, brothers we are strong and we are enough. Please talk to someone. I've started seeing a therapist to help get all my emotions in check. If you've got healthcare coverage, I encourage you deeply to look into and find mental help. Please brothers, we can't keep up the stigma of appearing weak for needing help! It could very much help you understand and make sense of what goes where in life. Stay strong kings!

[@oscargarcete8200]

How are you bro? Hope you doing well buddy, im going thru the same shit rn, she left me 5 days ago, 3 years right down the sink, just like that, gone... It is fucking hard, the hardest thing ever, i cried so much these days and i feel empty. I just hope we can survive this shit and be happy again. We can do it brother, i know we can

[@revonn7336]

This was exactly what happen to me as well. From a happy moment where we both enjoyed each other company, had sex and was intimate. We were long distance as well. I was ready to give everything to make it work, no matter how difficult it gets. But she always avoid when there is difficult conversation. I tried everything to fix it. From being ignored and messages becoming further and further she slowly moving out of my life, unfollowing me and removing me from Instagram with no explanation, that’s was what we used to contact each other. Whoever going through a break up or ending a situationship, it’s tough. But believe in yourself, work on yourself, because you deserve to be love. You deserve to be treated well. One day you will find the one. And hopefully I will heal and become a man who is able to love once more.

[@joaomacedo7279]

You are one of the few that actually says what it's need to be heard. It has been over a year now and I guess I am at the last stage, I've accepted it and moving forward but still with pain in my heart but I don't ignore my feelings anymore. That hug thing at the end it's so true, everyone needs a tight hug from time to time!

[@Syndor12]

Thank you. I'm 28, been in only one serious long distance relationship for the last 4 years. We'd broken up three times before, but we'd always get back together. I finally ended it again, two weeks ago. She was my best friend, my safe place, but logistically we just couldn't be together. Neither of us fell out of love, we just knew we wouldn't be able to get married. No one really tells you how to handle those breakups where both people are still in love but have to break up for reasons out of their control. Still, this video helped me.

[@HQR000]

I had to breakup with my bf because he went through a major illness.. we were seeing each other with the intention of marriage but in the end I had to walk away because if we pursued it further & became more knowing the fact that he could practically leave me widowed in the next few years it would crush us both. If he really became my husband & I had to see him deteriorate in front of me & then die I dont think I could mentally handle it. I had no choice but to walk away even though I still think about him everyday.

[@Syndor12]

@@HQR000 I'm sorry, that's such a horrible and cruel situation for anyone to be put in, I can't imagine it. I hope you get through it. I left that comment five months ago and today I'm able to get through most days without the feeling of pain and loss. I know our situations are completely different, but time really does make things easier. Hang in there.

[@nicholisfourie8971]

Yeah. I didnt stop loving her, but we knew that we had such different ideas over a household together. I did not go researching strategies on how to handle break ups, weighing the odds of not talking to them anymore and so forth. It was my first. I was genuinely reacting. Some people encouraged not talking at all, but that just sounded so extreme and cruel.

[@Syndor12]

@@nicholisfourie8971 Honestly as much as I was against going no contact, in the end that's what did help the most. It did basically mean the end of any relationship we'd ever have, I don't think the two of us will ever speak again or be friends, but it's the only way I could move on. It's still a struggle during some days, but I think it'd be worse if we were still in contact.

[@anycoveryoulike7510]

Thank you for sharing this. I went through a very similar situation where I broke up with a girl I really loved 3 weeks ago, it was really hard, but it was the 5th breakup in our relationship and at the end of the day despite how much we loved each other, it wasn't compatible

[@TheThinkFirst]

This really does describe all the emotions that I’ve felt so far with my recent breakup. I’m still moving towards the 3rd and 4th step in the first part. Keep doing great things because mental health is extremely important.

[@itsmesoleh06]

I have released my ego and asked him for the second chance but he didnt want me to come back. Thanks for it, helps me a lot.

[@Mutuli]

Every person of my age circle I tried interacting with couldn't seem to get how it hurts to break from a 4 year relationship...I felt estranged and alone.... coming to the comments and seeing similar or even worse situations brothers have gone through, I can't help but feel everything will be alright. I've got a brotherhood in here...

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

Trust me bro u not alone, I lost a good girl of 2 years in October and it was all my fault bro, and I can never get her back, but as on rn I’m doing wayyyy better then I was before, at first I thoguht I’ll never get over it and here I am feeling all normal just in 2.5 months, but lemme Tell u I do still think about her but it doesn’t hurt how it use to

[@rottekiwi]

She came by today to pick up the last of her things. I can't wrap my head around the fact that I'll probably never see or talk to my best friend ever again.

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

It be like that sometimes man, how u holding up?

[@rottekiwi]

@@Itzdaydaybtw One day at a time. Really going through it, ngl.

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@rottekiwi yea man I feel u, it’s been 2.5 month after a 2 year relationship and I’m the cause of our breakup, but bro it do get better I promise, rn u feel like shit but eventually u gone get thru it, whatever emotion u feeling bro just let it out and don’t hold it back, if u gotta cry then cry bro. Never hold your emotions in

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@rottekiwi u gone think about her everyday, have dreams about her bro, and everything gone hurt like hell, but the feelings like a roller coaster, one day u feel fine then the next u feel like u just wanna cry and get her back and do everything u can

[@Somusicais]

I suffered severe depression several years ago. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my wife which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd. Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.

[@AfkAliaga]

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

[@HAMZAPINE]

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

[@AfkAliaga]

Is he on instagram?

[@socialworkgroupa5256]

Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of my worst depressive episode, a three year long episode, enough to start working on my mental health.

[@grandmastermario3695]

My mom had breakups all the time because all her boyfriends were alcoholics and abusive to all of us, so honestly being depressed over 1 break up wow sounds like someone who can't handle life sensitive much.

[@harmmx2923]

When you started about the "'hug" i broke down, perfect words. Thank you Joey

[@nic0gass]

Relationship of 3 years just ended yesterday. This is the first thing I’ve found online after hours of searching that’s actually helped a little and made me feel heard, understood, and validated. We dated from when I was 18 to 21, very formative years of my life, and I wouldn’t be where I am or who I am today without her and the positive influence she was for me. I know that I’ll be fine eventually and that in the long run it’s for the best, but that doesn’t help at all right now even though those things are true. I just miss her and can’t truly fathom the reality of it being over.

[@AustenFTW]

same here man 3 years started at 17 in high school made it to 20 she was my first actual love partner i’ve never had that feeling of losing someone like her she was amazing in every possible way i just can’t wrap my head around there being someone better out there it’s so hard i cry almost everyday thinking about her

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@AustenFTWhow u doing so far bro u good?

[@AustenFTW]

@@Itzdaydaybtw i’m doing better haven’t cried about it today yet but when I get home from work and start sippin off the bottle i bet that will change i can’t even sleep in our bed anymore i have to sleep on the couch because it all just makes me think of her

[@AustenFTW]

walking through that front door and she’s not there watching tv all excited for me to get home from work is what hurts the most

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@AustenFTW if she broke up with u bro, I say don’t try to beg for her back, the more u do, the more u push them away,idk the reason but if it’s your fault apologize once and that’s it

[@Wazes]

7 years me and my “Ex” ( it feels so weird calling her that now ) were together. She broke up with me over text while I was working; my first reaction to it I laughed and shook my head & went back to work. I hadn’t talked to her since she sent me that text and it has now been 1 month. As time is going by it’s getting harder; it didn’t feel real at first at all but now reality is setting in and it’s gut wrenching. My days off are the worst right now because that’s when I typically spend all day with her.

[@JoeyLeBlancMusic]

I had to leave her today because of the constantly emotional abuse and everything I did was wrong and I would never be enough for her I’m so depressed right now but it needed to be done and the weight of the trauma is lifted off my shoulders

[@areebjaved0022]

Thanks for this. She just left me yesterday and her mom was trying to comfort me, it's been really hard even though it's been a day. I will still be there for her and support her as she has more problems than me

[@ReaperActual700]

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me a little over a week ago. She was my best friend, and we had started building a life together. Then she wanted to follow her dreams and go to medical school. I was 100% supportive but I couldn’t follow her just yet due to work. It was only a couple hours away, so I would visit her every other weekend and it worked for a time. But she began to grow more and more distant until eventually, she said that while she still cares for me, she didn’t want a romantic relationship. It’s been so painful. All the memories I think back to. Blaming her, blaming myself. It really is just like a tornado. As soon as I felt that feeling that you’ll never recover from this, I knew I needed to find some advice. Thank you for what you do. And thank you everyone in the comments who are sharing a piece of their story. You’re awesome.

[@MAGNATEOfficial]

6 years ended 2 weeks ago. The worst part is I’m not sure I fully understand her reasons for wanting to break up, which makes it worse, harder to process or to accept that it was a good thing when there doesn’t seem to be a good reason to break up. But there isn’t much I can do. First week was fine, felt normal but I ran into her 1 week ago and she spoke to me for the first time like a stranger, like we were fully truly done and I think it was then that it properly hit me, have been feeling really shit lately and have lost some ‘friends’ who no longer seem to reach out anymore. I feel lonely to be honest, and I want someone to talk with but I don’t feel like I have anybody that cares. Its tough man.

[@chipsahoy8716]

I feel you bro 3 years over like I swear 30 minutes ago everything you say I feel the same, but we got this bro I love you💙

[@godnoss466]

@@chipsahoy8716I relate to you man! I am going through something very similar. Stay strong bro, at least I’m trying to!

[@whiteyls9682]

Hey man I seen this is 3 months old now, how are you doing. I had a 6 year relationship that just ended still early stages literally this past Monday and I'm not sure I know why it ended as well I mean she gave me reasons but us guys can't truly comprehend a woman's mind unfortunately, anyway I been down for the most part but I am trying my damn hardest to hold it together

[@tsluthra5490]

Me too guys , got blindsided in June , got my reasons and a closure ( all fixable by a mere conversation ) but she just wanted to leave. Was fxed the first 2 months after that, begged and pleaded too but my pleas fell on a deaf error. Got the cold treatment from her, I'm getting better now. I would just advise you to find hobbies and workout a lot bro. Time will heal us and we will make it brahs.

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@MAGNATEOfficial how everybody holding up? We all here for each other, heartbreaks tuff but just don’t hold in your emotions

[@Handlemmm]

What hurts me is all that time spent with this person all of it gone to nothing. I gave her 8 months of my life like 5% of my entire life spent with this person and she doesn’t care about me. How does she just let go so easily. Ive been stabbed I’ve gotten several broken bones. Nothing has hurt more than this broken heart that aches every single moment of every single day. I love her, and I miss her so much.

[@blackblue2224]

Hey ! Saw a comment of someone saying 50% of the relationship is you, and so 50% of these memories are a (good, I hope) part of your story. Liked the idea, so I thought I could use it here. Hope this helps! take care

[@Handlemmm]

@ Id say 90% of the relationship was me putting my all and none of my effort has been reciprocated in the slightest

[@swampthing94]

My girlfriend of 7 years left me today. Everything feels so unreal and I feel like I'm slowly sliding into a black hole that I can't climb up from

[@ErichHiller44]

Hey man youre not alone! Same shit just happened to me the worst part is how I was just randomly ghosted so not knowing is killing me! Starting to think women are evil no joke. How do you spend time and emotions on someone and they don't even have the empathy to say what happened or why?

[@swampthing94]

@@ErichHiller44 I relapsed less than an hour ago and called her. It feels like I'm dying inside, my gut is wrenching and her BS about "It wasn't you, it's me" doesn't help. I indeed slid into a black hole and still going deeper. Thank you for your comment and support, let's hope we get through this. No girl, I mean not a single one is worth dying over and being miserable to no end. (The great relief that begins with the letter S does seem tempting to be fair)

[@TheDRGSdontWork]

@@swampthing94hope you’re good brother stay safe , I just got dumped by someone who I spent so much time and energy on just for them to act like everything we ever did meant nothing. Man does it hurt & I hate getting emotional but I just don’t know what to do

[@swampthing94]

@@TheDRGSdontWorkThank you brother 🙏It will get better, it still hurts like hell and probably will for a while but no woman will kill my will to live and will to move forward. Not even the one I thought I'd share my life with

[@nannimancini3088]

@@swampthing94let’s fucking go buddy

[@godofgames0947]

We hugged before we said our last goodbye's. Im thankful to have someone like her, to have the chance to court her. Thank you.

[@PheonxGlare]

Coming back to your videos in my 2nd heartbreak feels like popping a drink with my older brother and talking about it all. I still remember sending in a video 4 years ago sharing with you and your viewers that i was afraid of love- it was my biggest anxiety. The cause of panic attacks, and despite all of that, it was the reason i got up every morning. That girl built me back up over those four years, but found a way to convince herself to leave despite everything i did for her. Now, its my turn to build myself up, separate from loving her. Thank you, Joey. Your videos are something every guy whos ever been hurt like this should see.

[@Spectrumpicture]

I moved to a new city, knowing no-one. I met her, through new friends. I had a glimpse that I wasn't going to be alone, I found a new home in this person. Obviously, im here, and she didn't feel the same. I share this because it helped me to know my situation is not unique, and maybe this describes you too.

[@CrazyPancake9876]

I hope everything gets better for you, man. Just remember that we’re all in this together.

[@ricassiocosta]

This is exactly what happened to me... I moved to a new city in a different state just to be with him. We lived together for two years and now I'm totally alone. I feel like I don't belong to this city, but in the same time, I changed to much back to my home town... I'm totally lost.

[@ThatDvdeMatt]

Trying to keep myself from going off the deep end.

[@1nathaniell]

my first real ended 3 days ago after 2 years and 4 months. that might not seem like alot but it surely felt like a lifetime, in a good way. We met in middle school, we were both 16. she broke up with me. the pain im feeling right now is something ive never felt and it doesnt really matter what i do, i cant get my mind off of her, off of us. She told me that we were destined to be with eachother, but not now since we both have quite some personal problems. We also stayed friends as there is no bad blood between us. She also told me we would find eachother again when we both have our lifes in order but it just hurts. i want her, no one else. i miss her so much

[@TheWaunfawr]

Day 77 after a 6 year relationship

[@retroaspects729]

Same we’ll get through it brother

[@captainrich0222]

I’m on day 7 after a 3.5 year one. Does it get easier?

[@TheWaunfawr]

@@captainrich0222 it does mate. You go from being in pain and upset into a stage of being confused and not knowing what’s next for you in life. You just have to grind the pain out mate. Feel your emotions and let them out, no shame in it. Stay active, get closer to your friends and family and set some big goals in your life! My 2 goals this year is to go to the Amazon and do ayahuasca then later on climb up Mount Kilimanjaro! It’s something to look forward to and to prepare for!

[@anzorthewolf5558]

​@@captainrich0222 Hello brother! I hope you're doing well❤️ I know it's so hard to deal with especially if it wasn't you who decided to break up I have been in an online relationship for over 8 years And today she just decided to break up just like that... No reason at all... 8 years.... 8 years gone from my life the memories, the feelings, the emotions... They meant nothing to her... She were just manipulating me all the time... I tried everything to make her stay... My feelings were so true and pure towards her She was my everything my love my soul my motivation to keep going and to never give up I thought that she was the one for me... I gave her everything..... Yet I meant nothing to her... I rejected many girls in real life for her, it was so hard for me but I did it anyway just for her And now after all of these years together.....after 8 years she just left me like it was nothing Just simply saying: "I think we should break up I'm sorry but we can't be together" nothing more and nothing less She just left like it was nothing It's so hard to deal with, so much pain in my heart, so much memories that won't fade away Stand strong brother! You deserve better than that! You'll get up from this It's ok if you fall down but remember no one will hold you back up but yourself Take your time to heal and let it all go away Don't chase a silhouette that's long gone She's gone forever and she'll never return Stay strong brother❤️ I hope you the best in your life!

[@nelsonleung613]

@@captainrich0222Day 1 for me from a 3 year relationship

[@The.RandomTube]

5:30 To anyone going through a tough time, Firstly I'm only 19 years old, but I went through my first breakup when I was 15, At the time I didn't know anything about seperation and I underwent pure depression locked up in my house due to covid for a few months, it took me 3-4 months to move on and I know it may seem like a small time, but to a 15 year old mind that had never experienced this before it seemed like an eternity. I thought that I may never be able to be happy again, I felt like my world was crumbling, I didn't want to eat, didn't want to sleep, didn't even want to exist, but I pulled through. Later, I went through one of the best times of my life, found someone that I loved even deeply which made me a better person than I have ever been, now I'm 19 and this person that I'm referring to who made me the best version of myself has broken up with me, it's been 10 months and I still haven't moved on but I know that it's okay, it always feels like the sadness isn't going to end until it does. Even right now I don't know how long it will take for me to be 100% happy or atleast happy from my core, but I'm gonna stand tough and swim through this, to anyone going through something similar, I wish you and myself luck ♥️ Much love

[@mast3rchief536]

I met mine in a dark place, I ended up supporting her and helped her get her dream job even in middle of balancing real problems in my life. Once her life took off and got where she needed to be, she left me behind. We got speaking again now 10 months later and when I brought it up she was like “why do you bring something up from a year ago” and “yes you did do …. But that’s all you’ve done”. My love that turned to sadness and depression has now turned to anger but it’s also taught me and cleared my head. My empathy has been crushed which was my weakness and I’m never gonna let that happen again. Feel sorry if the next person who comes a long coz she isn’t gonna get full version of me. Right now I have no interest in women whatsoever

[@grandeisayev570]

"You think it was sad, but you still love them, so you understand it needed to happen." This hits hard. It needed to happen.

[@MVDSYNISTERPRODUCTIONS]

I broke up with my girlfriend after only 2 months She had depression and with each day she was becoming more and more unhappy And eventually instead of breaking up with me herself because she didn’t have the strength to do it she wanted me to let her go for her Her father wouldn’t let her have antidepressants, a therapist, or contact the school counselor for help For a first relationship this is truly something that has pushed me against a wall Also back to the depression she wanted to break up simply because as it got worse she realized she wasn’t ready for this I still have feelings for her, but they are gradually fading as we grow farther and farther apart I’m just helping her get through this in any way i can

[@offISH-c4c]

thanks a lot, it’s the seemingly cringy things that are always what we need to hear especially about something like this. Keep doing what you are doing it’s helping me and i’m sure it’s helping a lot of other people too. Thanks

[@mikelgutmut]

This is just so good, thank you brother. Almost a year since I took the decision to break up with my ex-girlfriend. It has been a super healthy breakup, full of respect and love, but also, of course, so much pain. Your words are just so accurate and true. Thank you. Keep moving forward guys and strive to become better men in the process.

[@fabianlohnherr4183]

Same for me. One month out of a 3,5 year relationship. The breakup was on a weird wave one of the most beautiful, honest interactions i ever experienced. But it was also the most brutal and painful thing. Hope it gets bette soon I hope you doing well

[@999plays]

Damnnn I didn't think of it at first but the thing you said... You don't feel it when it happens but the more time passes, the worse it gets

[@Jerryboss24]

I dated my ex Fiancé for three years. Engaged for only a month. We broke up about six months ago. I am now living in the same city where we met and the memories hurt so much. I just can’t wrap my head around how she moved on so quickly. I just look back at all the things she has said to me and it has me in question. She now has a new boyfriend she’s introducing to her family and rumor is that they are wanting to marry each other. I appreciate your videos man. God bless!

[@soulreaper5623]

I hope you get better man fr

[@macks170]

I thought she is finally the one, but she told me, shes the problem and not me, and she needs to work on herself. Im so broken right now but may God bless her.

[@Grey_legend59]

1:45 I’m here because I miss my ex, and I wanna move on, but I still miss her. I still have feelings.

[@kadiramukatar8168]

Even tho I luv ha had to leave herLone

[@aditdeshmukh3431]

You’re doing a great job,its been 3 months but still trying to fight it.

[@joeykidney]

and you’re doing great too! Keep going

[@aditdeshmukh3431]

@@joeykidney thanks man

[@Jenna-vj2ju]

I am not a boy but I appreciate this. Wishing all the best to anyone going through a rough time rn💖

[@joeykidney]

Thank you Jenna

[@ju_tkaper]

Anger is linked with optimism and sadness with pessimism. I know It’s not right but that anger high feels good.

[@spotyhistoryLT]

Spend 7 years together. I helped through her biggest issues in life, and she left me during mine. She used every weak point about me against me. I rejected any idea of having anyone else near me, but she started to look for male friends. If I can give advice to anyone, never give it your all, people just dont appreciate anything these days. No matter how many times you helped them, one bad thing about you ruins everything. I aint going in a relationship for a LONG time, if ever. I dont see a point anymore in sharing anything about me with another person.

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

How u holding up man? I’m here for u bro

[@markostjepanovic9803]

Two and a half years…. Was my best friend. I thought we were forever. Texts me late at night saying she doesn’t think she can do this anymore. Says I did nothing wrong deserve the world but she just can’t be with me. I’m lost and don’t know where to go or what to do. I miss her:

[@usernamemarz]

Hope you're doing better man

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@markostjepanovic9803 u okay bro? Everybody here for u

[@leviotten]

14 years of love is over. Depression caused her to to turn inward, and it was 4 years of decline at the tail end that caused her to open up and tell me she cant see a future with me anymore. She can barely see tomorrow, let alone feel anything but anxiety about our love. She said the suicidal ideation hasnt left her alone for years now. She needs to focus entirely on recovery. She is still alive. She is still the woman of my dreams and the love of my life so far. I have to somehow cope with her needing to move on and deal with her depression in earnest. I have to move on as well. Nothing could have prepared me for this outcome. Be kind to yourselves. The grief is total and it is the very definition of pain. I dont see a way out yet, but one day I hope too. I love you more than life itself gaby. I dont how to deal with being alone.

[@veer5714]

Stay strong brother... we love you.... Seek help from God ... Make a bond with him... He will surely help... I am going through the same situation after staying 9 years together she is marrying to someone else....

[@nlegault1218]

i love everything in this video, but you really got me when you said i need to hug someone. i started choking up

[@pstrokeslibsarctic]

She's always back in my head, it's all here that I think of whenever I'm done doing things trying to get her out of my mind, and it's like I'm drowning I can't sleep. I'm so depressed. Thank you for making something like this.

[@loveandfaithfulness4479]

Yes, the Bible says to pray about everything. No matter what we are going through right now, no matter how impossible the situation may seem, no matter how helpless or hopeless we may feel, we should remember this, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH GOD. God's power is infinite. Therefore, we should have faith in Him, His power, and His love for us. I encourage you to go to God in prayer. take this time to pursue God. For and foremost ask God to protect, comfort, guide and strength you through this trial. It will only weigh on your mind more and more and potentially miss out on the spiritual benefits of seeking guidance and comfort, if you neglect to pray before the Lord. We are to give our grievances, our emotional turmoil, our anguish - to God. Our peace is not determined by our circumstances. Our peace is dependent upon our relationship with God. The closer that we are to God the more peaceful we are. practicing discipline with your mental state to surrender your issues to Jesus Christ is something God desperately wants from you. Do not lean on your own understanding but just trust in Jesus Christ, He is the only answer to all your problems. He knows you completely and knows your pain too and He will heal your heart and will pour His blessings upon you. Now, it's up to you to repent and put your trust in Jesus. Let Him lead you. Strive towards being satisfied with God, because if He can't satisfy you, how can any person? Jesus said in Matthew 11:28, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Philippians 4:6-7 states, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Jeremiah 3:20; “But like a woman faithless to her lover, even so have you been faithless to me, O house of Israel,’ says the LORD”

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

How u doing now bro?

[@boltagon]

When i broke up with my gf, i also lost my job, seeing my mom lied down with an extreme pain at hospital. It all happened simultaneously. I feel really drained until today. Now i just keep trying to convince myself to hang on, even tho its painful to remember how she saved me from my dark route of life.

[@ComposedByReuben]

3 years ended today. Moved in together to chase our dreams. Ended via a text message. Heartbroken

[@aidynmorenk5534]

My was only 1 month and 27 days but we knew eachother for around 6 months, it’s hard cause I loved her and we both loved but it ended cause I had too much pent up anger or something which is true and I felt it and I wish I could just go back and it’s hard to understand cause she texted the breakup not even a call, and it feels like she dosnt care and has another which might be true but I’m just having so many emotions, it’s the 3 day counting today and it’s hard so I can’t even imagine how much it hurts for you, I’m still young but our love felt pure and she was my first girlfriend, every man goes through this and I don’t know how they can go through something so hurtful, it’s like I lost a genuine person which I did, I loved her, she was honeslty perfect but I learned if she really loved me she would’ve stayed and helped me, if she called em I would get back but I know it wouldn’t work, I still have time and maybe I can get through this but it’s just so losing, I hope you get through it, all love ❤

[@skeley1167]

That hug part really got me man. Wish me luck boys. sending love to all of you, lets get through this ❤

[@brandon360white8]

I needed this channel badly, just got out of a fantastic 1 year relationship and it ended because of anxiety and we both were going down mentally and we had to accept we had to end things, now I'm starting a new job and my life feels so confused and unmotivated, it's been hard to move on and accept everything that happened, it's weird trying to find myself again, thank you for the advice

[@AverageSensei]

6 years down the drain. I just wish I knew what I did wrong. What led her to cheat? Why? All these questions will remain unanswered and that's something I have to live with.

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

Yea man I’m sorry for that, everybody should have reassurance and for her to leave with out a reason, ik that hurt to the core man, but rn it might seem impossible to get over but trust me, it get better, whatever emotion you feel just let it out, if you have to cry then cry, if you wanna punch something then punch it, but don’t hold your emotions in bro just let it out trust me

[@mgd8867]

I really recommend talking about it with a close friend. I made the mistake of just tamping it down and burying my emotions. It made me a bitter resentful person and just filled me with frustration and anger that I took it on others. It’s part of the journey boys, some are lucky to never experience it, most of us do though. You loved, you lost and now you keep on living.

[@36200]

Many girls hitted on me but i was so depressed i didn't even care. Then she came. Not the most beautiful, not the most sane, not the most stable. But there was something in her i couldn't explain in words. I still didn't show interest, but she was the one making the first move, and i went for it. It was magical, every second with her. I forgot my depression, forgot every bad thing that happened to me. And then she just left. No explanation, no reason, nothing. The worst part - i see her everyday at work, acting like nothing happened...

[@ovrxpsd]

damn. I'm sorry. that's probably why everyone always advises against dating someone in the workplace. i hope you get thru this brother.

[@Gunsandrodsoutdoors49]

6:37 Don't think I've been hugged for comfort since before I started dating..

[@henrichomette831]

I cried watching this, your so genuine and real. Thank you

[@Mr_gray641]

6:33 hit hard😢 it feels like I’ve been smiling and masking while my heart is out of me and in pieces and I just Stoped and looked and saw it there on the road broken it was i think a year ago :( or when my sister did when i was about to end myself. Ima hug my sis this weekend, thank you.

[@okthen6505]

Thank you genuinely. Needed to hear this or just watch this. 2 years gone in a 10minute conversation feels like hell

[@deadstreet1675]

My partner has just left me. 20 years. Two kids and a house... im about to move into a room share. Iv never felt pain like this. If it wasnt for my kids i know what i would do to stop this pain but i know i cant because i dont want my kids to feel this pain that i am.. jesus this is so hard to deal with i think im suffering a mental break down. Dont sleep and eat. Feel sick every minute.wheen when i do sleep its torture because my dreams r nightmares over the situation.. idk what to do anymore.

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@deadstreet1675 hey man if u need someone to talk to im here, 20 years down the drain bro ik that’s tuff but dont hold in your emotions

[@joshuwa6036]

Guys, it does get better, I’ve been in your position. Shit hurts and it’ll hurt for a while. but learn to love yourself; figure out what you like, hobbies n all that. Also learn to appreciate time, like, I appreciate for a moment in time she was in my life and it was everything. I was happy. Those memories make me happy and I’m thankful for that. The best thing you can do is learn to wish someone the best and go do what’s best for you.

[@RadYudoka]

my fiance and i just ended our 3 year relationship and although it ended in a good way and out of love and no hate, my heart still hurts so dam bad and i cant seem to stop crying. to my queen, i will forever love you and have a special place in my heart for you.

[@beckymurphy5399]

Blessings to you for getting this vid together. I’m a female of-a-certain age and yet I needed this, too…! My relationship was brief but intense and the end came suddenly LIKE a car crash! It helped to hear you say that just bc someone didn’t die doesn’t mean it wasn’t traumatic… bc I can’t stop thinking about it! I journal a LOT, talk to friends, employ strategies, have good days and bad days, but ‘society’ has moved while i still haven’t. This video gave me permission to acknowledge I may NOT move on like my people hv and that’s ok, bc I AM processing it…and one day I too will be able to enter a store we went to w/o hoping I’ll see him, nor being triggered to relive our last date again. Your words hv restored a new level of hope🙂 Thank you!

[@mvpfireant5188]

Respect peace and love to everyone. But I’m gonna get her back and I won’t lose her twice. I spent 2023 in a deep depression that left me unable to give or receive love in a healthy way, but the breakup was a wakeup call. I’m working overtime on myself. Over the past 2 months I’ve been more vulnerable and had a better relationship with my parents than ever before, I’m going to therapy, I do things every day to be the healthiest version of myself. When her and I first got together, she brought out this incredible version of me I didn’t know existed. But it wasn’t sustainable because I hadn’t done the work for emotional stability, and things faded. When I get back to that place of “seeing the world in color” on my own, I will be ready for a beautiful and healthy relationship whether its with her or someone else. But my loyalty and commitment remains as of right now

[@romanfude2938]

Hey Joey, I wanted to say thank you for all that you do. I’m currently reading your books working backwards and appreciating every word that’s in them. Keep up the good work can’t wait for what’s ahead!

[@nidhithakker5911]

Thank you so much needed this badly I'm a woman, never been in a relationship but still somehow needed this badly especially right now ❤

[@joeykidney]

I am glad it helped you

[@lilshroom]

dawg i still miss her and can’t stop thinking about her. it’s been almost 3 months and i watched this right after we broke up and nothings changed. i only want her.

[@owenuden9929]

I know the feeling

[@goatking3137]

How you feeling bro?

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@lilshroom 7 months passed and u doin any better?

[@lilshroom]

@ Yeah bro, I recently just got off another break up not long ago but I was able to handle it way better. Ofc it hurt but It was easier to let her go.

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@lilshroom okok that’s how it be, if u decide to date and if they not your last partner someone’s bound to get hurt

[@Ayeeromeobeats]

She found me in my darkest moment and she showed me love like no other human has ever showed me, but then she got tired of trying to make our relationship work. She turned cold out of nowhere and said she only loved me as a friend after we broke up. She broke up with me during our first month anniversary 😔and I don’t know how to move on without her. She was the only good thing I had ❤️😔

[@wockbear]

I wasn't in similar situation, but i was manipulated heavily. Made me only talk with my ex, only care about her. She nearly got all of my friends hate me just so she can have me only for herself. I was BLIND to this and thought its normal. For 1,5 years i had no friends but only her. Had urges to end it all , but then week later she came to my life. So similar love, where i just couldn't think of us separating. 6 months after the breakup and yesterday another mental breakdown. Here are my tips... Do not ignore your feelings. Let it flow, talk to urself and just know that this wasn't your last relationship. More will come and hopefully the right one! Talk to people alot... I got my friends burden from talking about my ex, but it helped. You for sure both went together really well, but if a partner gives up after month... Sadly it was never " meant to be ".

[@Itzdaydaybtw]

@@Ayeeromeobeats u doing better by any chance?

[@tommyreynolds6237]

Thank you for being authentic and honest. Young men need more role models who aren’t afraid to be vulnerable.

[@user-walnut909]

Its okay for guys to vent !! Its okay to cry and talk about how you feel !! That's what friends and family are for ,to listen to you amd be there for you and make you feel better 🫶And if that doesn't work, therapy is there for everyone as well !! Every broken heart needs proper treatment,male or female ❤️

[@caczter_5288]

After 24 years and 4 kids she left me, the pain is horrendous, I feel so alone. I'm so worried about how I will cope, thank you for this video, it really helped.

[@zayxoxo]

❤

[@RAJohnson713]

How do you feel now?

[@caczter]

@@RAJohnson713hi, yea I’m a lot better, the pain is still there though it’s nowhere near as noticeable and only shows it’s head rarely. But in general I feel a lot better, the hell I was in 6 months ago is gone.

[@jakubmroz7104]

Im 3 weeks after breakup of 5 years relationship and i just couldnt stop to cry after the hug part, I was doing it every day I only could and thinking that I haven't done it for so long made me realise how much I've started not to even think about it, it was just a habbit for so long, but man I would use a hug from her rn so freaking much

[@xXChaChingXx]

I think I'm getting to this stage. Man it sucks

[@mendihadad2665]

Hey Guys my name is mendi and i'm gay my boyfriend broke up with me today for his ex and lied to me about talking to any of his ex's he talked to him from the start and had feeling for him and he picked him after treating him badly and ghosting him i spent 7 months for nothing gave him all i could just to make him smile and make him feel safe i was too innocent thinking he loved me i was angry and i felt so much pain i still do but after watching this video i felt comfort and not feeling this anger anymore i'm happy there's someone even if its a random guy from youtube who thinks i matter i thought about giving up about everything but i didn't and I KNOW u might not feel what i'm about to say but it's gonna be better u gonna understand the true meaning of moving forward Thank u Joey u saved me i owe u

[@حسابدراسي-ص1ح]

Your story is inspiring. Good luck to you.

[@Ash-x9m]

😂😂😂

[@Aether191]

I met her when I was at my lowest. I grew a lot in the time we were together but I never felt like I was good enough for her so I let her go. I truly loved her but she deserved so much better than I was giving to her. It's killing me already but I know it's for the best.

[@bobbyrebholz2183]

Maybe I can help some men in here because I'm going through a breakup that's my first relationship post divorce. I was married for eight years and I'm a single dad at 44.(Single dads, you know how challenging this can be). Well, I gave it a full year before I would even date again. I met someone in May of this year and I kept my distance on purpose. We started falling for each other hard but there was one single thing getting in the way: she wants to start a family(she's 34) and I already have kids and don't want to start another family. I'm not going down that road. It's one of the most difficult things I've had to do because she's amazing. It hurts bad but we had to do it because she deserves to be a mom. She's wonderful. When you have to break up for reasons that were never toxic, those can be the hardest to deal with.

[@christiansantiago.5586]

It may have been about a year ago when my ex told me they lost feelings for myself and just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore and that was the thing that broke my hart i couldn't eat for a few days i couldn't go to bed without crying and sometimes i cry to this day but it was something that was going to happen i shouldn't be crying about the past i should just move on for my self and enjoy the freedom of my self and learn to talk to people and be less introverted and more outgoing and confident i may be sad for now but its okay if you are sad about someone or something just reamber that one door opens and another closes

[@AquaInferno]

Love you so much big bro!! Been with you along this journey of life for years now. So thankful I your wisdom found me you always bring me back to a humble and emotionally vulnerable state of mind. I hope we get closer one day and get closer because I genuinely have seen you over the years as an older brother. Sending you love forever!!! Stay positive twin

[@TORAMiSTUDIOS]

I sincerely, of the bottom of my heart thank you for this video. You said exactly those words I needed to hear and even tho sometimes I loose hope in others, its those people like you keeping me intact. I love your poems btw, youre probably the strongest men Ive ever seen.

[@cjcooljohnson5621]

It’s harder i feel when there is nothing wrong with the relationship. She was perfect. We were perfect. I just really want to move on.

[@joshfriggle7977]

dude these videos are accually amazing like i dont even understan how u get me so well like what thank you

[@joeykidney]

I really appreciate that and I’m glad they hit the spot!