Mother In-Law Issues | After The Vows - Episode 5 | Season 1 | Full Episode

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When people get married, they don’t just marry their partners, but they also marry into their extended families. In-laws can be a blessing or a curse in a marriage. Our host sits down with different guests who have experienced different mother-in-law issues in their current or past marriages to share their views on the issue. Guests also touch on some of their experiences and how they’ve managed the situation to date. Amongst our guests is also a mother-in-law who also shares views on why she does what she does as a mother-in-law.
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@thabingxakata
@thabingxakata 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know if these episodes are cut and made shorter, if they are please don't. I'm sure most of us here would love to watch longer episodes. They really are great!
@KhatazaMbhombhi
@KhatazaMbhombhi 3 жыл бұрын
Its made for sabc2 . I wish it could be longer aswell
@disebolekhu6098
@disebolekhu6098 2 жыл бұрын
Even the sister in-laws are a problem
@patiencetangai1973
@patiencetangai1973 2 жыл бұрын
@@KhatazaMbhombhi tm. Kim
@patiencetangai1973
@patiencetangai1973 2 жыл бұрын
@@KhatazaMbhombhi tm. Kim
@itumelengmokoena6492
@itumelengmokoena6492 2 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@angelsean3426
@angelsean3426 3 жыл бұрын
Mme Ranaka is so wise.
@WILMA_
@WILMA_ 2 жыл бұрын
If i were keen to get married, that is the kind of woman i could be praying for to be my mother in law. God bless and give her a looooong life.
@dainty_dc6949
@dainty_dc6949 3 жыл бұрын
The lady in Golds expression are giving me life everytime Tebogo speaks😭😭😭
@joycemasusu2315
@joycemasusu2315 2 жыл бұрын
I was cringing 😬 the whole time...iyooh
@nothandodlamini3192
@nothandodlamini3192 2 жыл бұрын
Pure cringe
@sihledunamiz420
@sihledunamiz420 2 жыл бұрын
He is putting the blame of his (assumed) failed marriage on his ex wife. I don’t like the words he uses to describe her and the woman he dated after the ex wife
@ntandoyenkosicele5196
@ntandoyenkosicele5196 2 жыл бұрын
I was also ☹, he seems to be the problem here. He needs counselling indoda ekhuluma kanje!
@ThorisoC
@ThorisoC 2 жыл бұрын
I used to work with Tebogo u mite wanna delay ur judgements until u hear his full story da guy is strong yet he needs to heal... 🙌🙌
@joymogedi7729
@joymogedi7729 2 жыл бұрын
Yesses Mpho Popps is killing these conversations🔥🔥🔥❤ It's so good to see this side of him👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾. Great show
@phindilemsiza1743
@phindilemsiza1743 2 жыл бұрын
I really truly love you Mme Ranaka 💓💓💓 i saw her from last season of the Ranakas her love for Michelle its immeasurable this is what we need from Mother in laws not what we are getting because most of them are so bitter
@Silly_tilly809
@Silly_tilly809 2 жыл бұрын
I have the best mother-in-law. She regards me as her daughter and i regard her as my mother. The same as my husband and my own mother. Respecting each other is crucial.
@nothandodlamini3192
@nothandodlamini3192 2 жыл бұрын
The guy who spoke in the beginning 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@nompumelelomdluli4730
@nompumelelomdluli4730 2 жыл бұрын
Hey mtase... he is scary!
@timbawangu3038
@timbawangu3038 2 жыл бұрын
The levels of him thinking he's Mr. Right 🚩🚩
@sybillamula
@sybillamula 2 жыл бұрын
If he knew his wife couldn't cook, why didn't he cook or hire someone who can, aai that guy is something else
@happiness_moth9295
@happiness_moth9295 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@mantsolefa7608
@mantsolefa7608 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic man
@khangelwakhathi508
@khangelwakhathi508 2 жыл бұрын
More than that he knew she couldnt cook like his mom yet he married her anyway. There is no reason for him to remind her of her shortcomings bcoz if his wife would do the same he would be very angry about it!!!
@nothandodlamini3192
@nothandodlamini3192 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not understanding how Tebogo has been in 2 failed marriages and he fully believes the women were the problem when he is the common denominator 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@kingl794
@kingl794 2 жыл бұрын
red billboards
@princesslelaka1844
@princesslelaka1844 2 жыл бұрын
Have u noticed he said his wife was a child and not matured only to find out she was killed. If her death hurt him i don't think he would say negative things about her Makes sense why he was accused of killing his wife
@nompilokhanyile8100
@nompilokhanyile8100 2 жыл бұрын
I honestly believe he's a narcissist
@tvs9978
@tvs9978 2 жыл бұрын
Because he's a narcissist
@caronenkhonjera760
@caronenkhonjera760 2 жыл бұрын
exactly something in him is attracting children he might have the same traits himself or trauma there or seeking childish women because they are the ones to accept him.
@penandahalemona2240
@penandahalemona2240 2 жыл бұрын
I have the best mother in-law ever I will choose her again and again, God bless u mama,
@somilanoncanda5063
@somilanoncanda5063 2 жыл бұрын
You very lucky ❤❤
@mogopoleng3274
@mogopoleng3274 2 жыл бұрын
Please also discuss toxic BoMokoti and BoMokgonyana. It would be very interesting to hear that side too. Learning a lot.
@asivesonjani6909
@asivesonjani6909 2 жыл бұрын
We as women don't need a man like Tebogo... Noh shame 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@nompumelelomdluli4730
@nompumelelomdluli4730 2 жыл бұрын
He is a danger!
@happiness_moth9295
@happiness_moth9295 2 жыл бұрын
Very dangerous
@mathasbino1944
@mathasbino1944 2 жыл бұрын
🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️
@nanogudukah988
@nanogudukah988 2 жыл бұрын
LOL...Seems like hes feeling the same about yall too.... FACE TO FACE
@nadiapropertyrealtor9779
@nadiapropertyrealtor9779 2 жыл бұрын
It's the facial expressions of the guests for me🤣🤣
@PuseletsoTsotetsi
@PuseletsoTsotetsi 3 жыл бұрын
Enjoying this but the edits are robbing us if the conversation. Feels like important details were cut out. There's no flow🥺 kindly share full version
@khumopabiey9080
@khumopabiey9080 2 жыл бұрын
i like how pops addressed Ntate Tebogo he is truly hurt and you can hear how he talks about his previous partners uguthi he is still bitter. I don't think anyone can be this disrespectful to others nje
@msmussaa4316
@msmussaa4316 2 жыл бұрын
Please consider making the discussions longer for maximum benefits. Too much has been left hanging. Thank you though for these talks.
@nondo2.045
@nondo2.045 2 жыл бұрын
This show needs to be an hour long please.
@nompumelelomdluli4730
@nompumelelomdluli4730 2 жыл бұрын
So we all agree they invited a psychopath to the conversation and he had the least airtime probably because he must have said more alarming things that had to be edited out for our viewing... The uncut version would have us all in more shock it seems
@NomaswaziMadi
@NomaswaziMadi 2 жыл бұрын
I some how don’t believe the man with a cap😅. If everyone around you is the problem even when you meet new people then there’s a common denominator. Self reflection leads to growth
@nompumelelomdluli4730
@nompumelelomdluli4730 2 жыл бұрын
100% he is so degrading of his previous partners. That alone was distasteful.
@happinessmasango9231
@happinessmasango9231 2 жыл бұрын
What i thought too
@ntabyM
@ntabyM 2 жыл бұрын
He can't even explain what really went wrong in his relationships.
@happinessmasango9231
@happinessmasango9231 2 жыл бұрын
He can't even mention one instance Nthabiseng Mokwene
@nomthimalunga7880
@nomthimalunga7880 2 жыл бұрын
that's not always the case. This is life and sometimes history repeats itself but that doesn't mean you're the problem
@manero7634
@manero7634 3 жыл бұрын
I match Mamanese's facial expressions towards Tebogo
@gomop4649
@gomop4649 2 жыл бұрын
Yhooo,,thats me😫
@keaobakamoraloge944
@keaobakamoraloge944 2 жыл бұрын
😂 akere. The cringing bathong🙆‍♀️
@nametsobertha9834
@nametsobertha9834 2 жыл бұрын
🙆🙆🙆
@booairmow
@booairmow 2 жыл бұрын
She couldn’t believe what she was hearing😂🤣
@nthabisengangela7633
@nthabisengangela7633 2 жыл бұрын
@@booairmow 😂😂😂😂 yazin.... She was shocked
@shumiemalisha131
@shumiemalisha131 3 жыл бұрын
Can we get an uncut version of this please, I feel like guests said a lot but we only got a short version of it 🙏PLEASE
@shungumasawi9415
@shungumasawi9415 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like Tebogo needs a whole episode on his own.
@tshilidzimatidza2492
@tshilidzimatidza2492 2 жыл бұрын
Especially here on KZbin they should just play the whole thing
@mmapontshopholo9733
@mmapontshopholo9733 2 жыл бұрын
Tjooo I agree with everyone who is asking for longer version,I'm learning a lot here...
@iamwhoiambecauseofhim3694
@iamwhoiambecauseofhim3694 3 жыл бұрын
The family should also be briefed about the person they are yet to meet, the wife
@iamwhoiambecauseofhim3694
@iamwhoiambecauseofhim3694 2 жыл бұрын
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 A relationship is being established so it cannot be one-sided. Again, We can't be the only ones to serve and walk on eggshells all the time, there is no authenticity there. The family also has to accommodate us and know what kind of a person is coming.
@mogopoleng3274
@mogopoleng3274 2 жыл бұрын
Yes , most times people only see the in-laws as the problem le bona ele diproblem.
@guguginindza9866
@guguginindza9866 2 жыл бұрын
Say that again. Hhayibo they do...
@khangelwakhathi508
@khangelwakhathi508 2 жыл бұрын
This man is insulting his ex wives but he is actually insulting himself he chose these women out of many!! If he chose 2 children than that means he is the problem shame!!
@nthomengmajara8575
@nthomengmajara8575 2 жыл бұрын
@@morpheus6394 who said that?
@lesedilabarongwa365
@lesedilabarongwa365 2 жыл бұрын
Too short hle. Please take this to 157 Moja love
@nthatengseipobi9019
@nthatengseipobi9019 2 жыл бұрын
When Tebogo "especially in a society that we're living in, where women are being killed"... all I heard was "walk away before you kill someone" 🥴🥴🥴 This guy is dangerous!
@moe_ramz
@moe_ramz 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is a narcissist. The way he speaks of his ex wife 🤨
@summadaze2546
@summadaze2546 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you my centiments exactly and he convinced himself that whatever he is saying makes sense
@Makhimyneighbour
@Makhimyneighbour 3 жыл бұрын
I saw that too I was like ehhhh
@moe_ramz
@moe_ramz 3 жыл бұрын
@@summadaze2546 twice he was in a relationship with a child 😂😂… No mahn quit playing with us
@linalesia5188
@linalesia5188 2 жыл бұрын
Here we go again with armchair psychotherapists with their rampant labels 🤦🏾‍♀️
@khomotsophokanoka640
@khomotsophokanoka640 2 жыл бұрын
You are like my son am so worried
@beyondbasicfitness7153
@beyondbasicfitness7153 2 жыл бұрын
Well I am glad to say my relationship with my mum in law is awesome, it takes respect and communicating
@nehemiamokgaliphe2244
@nehemiamokgaliphe2244 3 жыл бұрын
Me too I was never gonna marry Tebogo even if he was a last man available, he sounds like nguzwi lakhe.
@zamag2677
@zamag2677 2 жыл бұрын
Ndimve xa ethetha nge gravy ndabona ba no ubrothers is the problem for some odd reason I wondered(before) he actually confirmed they broke up and I was like yep thought as much... I'm sure he would talk down on her re the gravy stuff possibly nezinye and would later praise his moms cooking in front of her.... triangulation at its best
@happiness_moth9295
@happiness_moth9295 2 жыл бұрын
😆 🤣 😂 the lady in gold doek 😆 🤣 😂 she is shocked of the things Tebogo said are "shuu"
@justgugu8522
@justgugu8522 2 жыл бұрын
He gives me ama vibes ka mamas boy nje naye.
@tshegangndlela848
@tshegangndlela848 2 жыл бұрын
Please don't cut the conversations, it's so empty
@allnew9027
@allnew9027 2 жыл бұрын
I wanted to hear the nuggets of wisdom from Mme Ranaka and it seems to have been cut out.🥲
@moe_ramz
@moe_ramz 3 жыл бұрын
Tebogo please heal, you’re partially the problem.
@summadaze2546
@summadaze2546 3 жыл бұрын
He needs to work on himself that one
@moe_ramz
@moe_ramz 3 жыл бұрын
@@summadaze2546 very much so, he can’t keep saying the women where the problem. It takes two to break a relationship. He’s a narcissist 🤨
@nokwazishezi7580
@nokwazishezi7580 2 жыл бұрын
He is the problem 😩😩 how he speaks i am glad that woman left
@nketemagana6540
@nketemagana6540 2 жыл бұрын
Tebogo you r de problem find healing n hav peace
@ayandasigudla6525
@ayandasigudla6525 2 жыл бұрын
100%
@summadaze2546
@summadaze2546 3 жыл бұрын
This guy with the hat Tebogo is making me cringe each time he speaks...Like WTH man 🤨 I feel like his not getting that Marriage is not about what you bring its about working together to the success if it...Like the pettiness of my Wife could not cook...Why could he not also teach himself to and how to make the so called gravy
@moe_ramz
@moe_ramz 3 жыл бұрын
Me too, he married children twice. He can’t see he’s the problem 😅😑
@ngwanamolwelasagagwe9392
@ngwanamolwelasagagwe9392 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣me too, yoooh this guy his the problem
@summadaze2546
@summadaze2546 3 жыл бұрын
Like am sitting here and watching the Lady in the Doek just forgot her name almost collapse in shock as he was speaking 😐
@mlekalakala839
@mlekalakala839 3 жыл бұрын
A narcissist of note. My eyes popped everytime he spoke. So much growing up and healing he still needs to do. It’s so sad that he doesn’t see anything wrong with him; which is supposed to be the foundation of bettering himself. You could tell the host and the other man were indirectly throwing advise without sounding like they are insulting him
@ntombifuthimemeza8035
@ntombifuthimemeza8035 3 жыл бұрын
That one must stay single nje 🚮
@refilweledwaba3841
@refilweledwaba3841 2 жыл бұрын
The guests are being cut short. The conversations are being cut short. Let them speak and not for 5 seconds.💔
@tshilidzimudau7807
@tshilidzimudau7807 2 жыл бұрын
I had the worst experience with my mamazala but I promised myself to raise my son to be man not a boy like his dad,when I think of her I get awful nightmares,she was the worst
@zimkhitha.h
@zimkhitha.h 2 жыл бұрын
The cutting of episodes is breaking my heart.
@mashegonchabeleng1929
@mashegonchabeleng1929 2 жыл бұрын
Mrs Ranaka ❤👊👊 Mitchell is truly blessed to have you 🤞
@tebohokekana990
@tebohokekana990 3 жыл бұрын
Tebogo was or is definitely the problem, I mean he is the common denominator as married 2 people, who don't know anything about each other.
@joycemasusu2315
@joycemasusu2315 2 жыл бұрын
There is absolutely no need for him to humiliate them like that, I didn’t like the way he spoke about them.
@tebohokekana990
@tebohokekana990 2 жыл бұрын
@@joycemasusu2315 exactly he forgets it takes 2 to tango, he has a hand in the failure as much as they do. One thing I have come to realise is that the people who bad mouth other people are trying to cover up their own guilt
@thatobaloyi6194
@thatobaloyi6194 3 жыл бұрын
Came running because i saw Mam Siba 💕
@toxicteezy8310
@toxicteezy8310 2 жыл бұрын
Tebogo you are a child wena 😂😂😂
@mologadi-acceptedinthebelo2923
@mologadi-acceptedinthebelo2923 2 жыл бұрын
No wonder mme ranakas children treat their sister in law as their own. They were raised by a force
@happiness_moth9295
@happiness_moth9295 2 жыл бұрын
But that one who is divorced doesn't like the Makoti but they put her in her all the time
@vusiepayi8629
@vusiepayi8629 2 жыл бұрын
“Finish & Klaar” 😂😭!
@ntandosithole
@ntandosithole 2 жыл бұрын
Very insightful episode, this revealed that there's more to marriage than "i do"
@Omarkhan556
@Omarkhan556 4 ай бұрын
4:29 that’s my physics and chemistry teacher😭😭😂
@carolpfavayi3882
@carolpfavayi3882 2 жыл бұрын
In which street did they pick up Tebogo cause hayini???!!!! I’m so embarrassed for his wife
@susanmosotho2557
@susanmosotho2557 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣😅
@TheCheryontop
@TheCheryontop 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂 I can’t. It’s like you are sitting beside me. I’m laughing hard!
@sybillamula
@sybillamula 2 жыл бұрын
Did Tebogo just say he was accused of killing his wife or he was just giving an example? 😱, he's bitterness is so chilling
@ObeDadas
@ObeDadas 2 жыл бұрын
Ndiyamoyika sana.
@tfa4782
@tfa4782 2 жыл бұрын
I know the show is made for SABC, a 30 min program but can you also send myb digital exclusuves wt more scenes,,, the topics are very good, engaging but so abrupt. Good show,, keep it up...
@princesslelaka1844
@princesslelaka1844 2 жыл бұрын
Yho tebogo we don't speak like that when the person is dead Entlek you are the problem
@zusibone
@zusibone 2 жыл бұрын
I'm here for Mama Ranaka. That Lady is a true Mother. The wisdom is extraordinary.. The Cap guy gives me abusive woman basher vibes and crips. Something is very uneasy about him.
@dudumalapane4880
@dudumalapane4880 2 жыл бұрын
Mme Ranaka is amazing 🙌
@sinalogqunu9232
@sinalogqunu9232 2 жыл бұрын
14:34 Abuti Tebogo needs to do a bit of an introspection. You can't have the same exact experience with two different individuals and yet all the blame lies on them. There's certainly something he wasn't getting right on his end as wel. And that's my two cents.
@zimkhitha.h
@zimkhitha.h 2 жыл бұрын
Mme Ranaka ❤️ would've loved to hear more from here I feel like she has got gems to throw
@raseputukalesley4700
@raseputukalesley4700 2 жыл бұрын
This is the type of mothers we need indeed .
@nompumeleloramakokovhu2562
@nompumeleloramakokovhu2562 2 жыл бұрын
Michelle is blessed 🙌💖
@iamlethibe
@iamlethibe 2 жыл бұрын
This didn’t feel like an episode but an advertisement. Hopefully they will release the full episodes
@swazi4769
@swazi4769 2 жыл бұрын
I love this show and this topic was great. There are mother in laws who will never ever accept any wife for their children. The wife can be loving, understanding and submissive to the point of breaking their own backs for acceptance. There are mother in laws who are just demons nje. Then we have wives who also have a mentality that their are marrying the husband and not the family and they are tempted to take over instead of building. These wives are also toxic. Then we have husband's or son's that have no back bone and are old in age but very young in leadership and decision making. These men are not ready to be men, let alone husband's. I loved what Mme Ranaka and the other lady said, the man must set the tone. Husband knows his family and mother best, he must set the tone and this tone is not set after the wedding. It's set the day he decides to have you as his wife and introduce's you to his parents or parent. If he has a stubborn and unreasonable mother then he must be prepared to stand by you as the wife at all cost. That's part of leadership. He sets the tone and the standard since he is the one bringing you into his territory, otherwise it is bound to fall apart.
@amnikiwebridget8840
@amnikiwebridget8840 2 жыл бұрын
I love how this show sheds light on real issues with some humor. I wish it was longer.
@pointa2b388
@pointa2b388 2 жыл бұрын
I am a mother to one boy, eish, i hope i dont fall into these traps of ill treating his partner. We are very close
@morpheus6394
@morpheus6394 2 жыл бұрын
let him Go
@Lebo_FindingTime
@Lebo_FindingTime 2 жыл бұрын
Want to watch this series with my partner... 👌🏽
@andisiwefass8683
@andisiwefass8683 2 жыл бұрын
We deserve mother in laws like Mme Ranaka 🙏🏾❤
@nonhlemakhokha6537
@nonhlemakhokha6537 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this episode and l really appreciate and luv mama Ranaka and straight talk
@MsTrashie
@MsTrashie 2 жыл бұрын
You can tell the woman in the gold doek is afraid of the guy in the cap...her expressions in the last minutes of the vid show it
@nothandodlamini3192
@nothandodlamini3192 2 жыл бұрын
Tebogo🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@nicolahlongwane4166
@nicolahlongwane4166 2 жыл бұрын
From the first minute he opened his mouth enje!
@casandramaphorisa1061
@casandramaphorisa1061 2 жыл бұрын
Mme Ranaka's love for Michelle is unmatched❤
@nompumelelomdluli4730
@nompumelelomdluli4730 2 жыл бұрын
That daddy with a cap...he failed because he is so belittling!!! He keeps attacking his partners maturity and saying that they children... and it’s very clear that he wants exactly what he is attracting... Someone who will move to his tune. But he is not ready to look in the mirror .... and that’s why Mpho said... he needs healing! First thing is to be at a place where he can use better adjectives for his previous partners.... Incompatible vs. maturity of a child
@happiness_moth9295
@happiness_moth9295 2 жыл бұрын
What's funny is that he married the children while he knew they were children. He should have went for the matured ones
@ntombifuthidlamini3372
@ntombifuthidlamini3372 2 жыл бұрын
The lady on a gold head scarf left home for 2 years because of a piece of meat. I think the meat was just a tipping point, there was a brewing problem way before the meat.
@nyashajay85
@nyashajay85 2 жыл бұрын
She was pregnant as well but I think she was supposed to be fine after she gave birth and should've gone back to show them the child at least 🤷‍♀️
@lungileringani2693
@lungileringani2693 2 жыл бұрын
@@nyashajay85 what is they also were equally mad and not interested in seeing the child?
@nyashajay85
@nyashajay85 2 жыл бұрын
Lungile Ringani some women will convince men that they donot want to have any sort of communication with their relatives until they are ready to and they include the kids in the whole equation as well because the feel they are not welcome in the family....
@thakirams6914
@thakirams6914 2 жыл бұрын
2 yrs sounds too long and too extreme but I respect a husband who stands by his wife and hides her nakedness
@ntombifuthidlamini3372
@ntombifuthidlamini3372 2 жыл бұрын
@@thakirams6914 true
@thandol448
@thandol448 2 жыл бұрын
This episode was over too soon☹. The edits really cut the flow of the conversation & I think they only scratched the surface. It would've helped for us to 1st get an introduction and more insightful story about all the guests, coz the bits & pieces they gave us throughout this edited version left me with so many unanswered questions. The questions could've been more planned & structured for such an interesting and rather deep topic. Otherwise, thank you all for your time and insights.
@motlhatlhedi88
@motlhatlhedi88 2 жыл бұрын
But this show is good waitse. I'm single but this is great content. We are all learning and equipping ourselves.
@dollyogle6172
@dollyogle6172 2 жыл бұрын
Tebogo doesn't know if he attracted kids who are confused 🤣🤣🤣 he is the one who is confused. Immature little guy.
@mashegonchabeleng1929
@mashegonchabeleng1929 2 жыл бұрын
Being married to a breadwinner, sho! 😭😭
@mfundo1pumla
@mfundo1pumla 2 жыл бұрын
ryt
@pointa2b388
@pointa2b388 2 жыл бұрын
So Tebogo calls his wives children?
@kokimothoagae9533
@kokimothoagae9533 2 жыл бұрын
Like really maybe he is the boy in the relationship
@talent_can5770
@talent_can5770 2 жыл бұрын
@@kokimothoagae9533 he probably is the boy, it sounds like he is projecting (making his insecurities look like what is wrong with the other people)
@leehlemzamo
@leehlemzamo 2 жыл бұрын
Please post the unedited video
@danielbundor6869
@danielbundor6869 2 жыл бұрын
I will always love my wife and honor my mother. I cannot by any means sleep with my mother, but at anytime with my wife. Simply put, there are kinds of love and so, in the case of a wife and mother, the both love given cannot be labeled the same. Men who say “I love my mother than my wife” are nepeos (children).You’ve got to be a husband which means you should have the right values and be straightforward and unbiased! Two-way street. I love my wife!!! I honor my mother.
@claudiafanezile4533
@claudiafanezile4533 2 жыл бұрын
Love the show big up sabc
@gimbles7358
@gimbles7358 3 жыл бұрын
My mom-in-law kicked me out of my marital home and changed the locks after giving birth, holding a 2 week old baby with a c-section. As we speak I have need to go to court because his son stands by her. I lost my job, hubby paid lobola and a celebration was done but now I am being told I am not his wife and because he purchased the house, therefore i want him to marry me because of the house. This is the same man I stood with in a rented cottage with only cold water during lockdown and now I'm a gold digger. I need a good lawyer, I have a approached the court and mominlaw decided to bring lawyers as she is monied, very controlling too. I need urgent help...
@gontsephaloane1530
@gontsephaloane1530 2 жыл бұрын
This is evil, I am so sorry that you are going through this.
@gimbles7358
@gimbles7358 2 жыл бұрын
@@gontsephaloane1530 Thank you. Your words give me strength. After giving birth via c section, she came to my house insisting that I was supposed to be in her house since returning from hospital, for peace sake I went there, I cooked, cleaned washed and hanged laundry even the sheets that I slept on for those 5 days that I was there but she had the audacity to tell my family that she expected me to wash the blankets too, imagine. The infant was a week old. She is a retired nurse.
@Star26900
@Star26900 2 жыл бұрын
He paid lobola for you. You are legally married, I pray you find a good lawyer soon. So sorry for what has happened to you🙏🏿
@gimbles7358
@gimbles7358 2 жыл бұрын
@@Star26900 Thank you. We had our first appearance and the judged ruled that I be granted access to the house once again till the next hearing. I need to get a lawyer that's willing to help me pro bono, perhaps they can claim back the money from him once we win the case. First night back here with the kids, I can't sleep. It's clear some one was residing here. The mominlaw was here removing everything, together with the son.
@dudumalapane4880
@dudumalapane4880 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry that you’re going through this . Prayer strengthens us during hard time . When God Jehovah is doing the background work, miracles happen . All the best
@sinalogqunu9232
@sinalogqunu9232 2 жыл бұрын
Sons need to let go of the mothers as well. At thirty you can't still be doing such and blaming batho babang.
@joseymoloi7169
@joseymoloi7169 2 жыл бұрын
Mine was okay for awesome 10 years 💝🌹💝🌹.. Until my eldest sister in law came back from he matrimonial home (passing of he bubby) 🤕... She influenced both mother in law and my husband.. 💔.. My husband chose the over me and our children. It's unfortunate that we had to part ways. 🎁🎁🎁
@moilwa6209
@moilwa6209 2 жыл бұрын
The show is more like an advertising thing. Please stretch out............
@refilweledwaba3841
@refilweledwaba3841 2 жыл бұрын
Duuuddee. My point exactly
@NinthJewel
@NinthJewel 2 жыл бұрын
Love this programme 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
@make-peacelifecoach4940
@make-peacelifecoach4940 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing Show and quite a powerful impact
@nc2604
@nc2604 2 жыл бұрын
I just love Mme Ranaka ...Michelle you are blessed 🙌🏽 May we have more mothers in law like Mme Ranaka, May God bless mme 👏🏽🙌🏽
@happiness_moth9295
@happiness_moth9295 2 жыл бұрын
Tebogo is dangerous 😳, if he couldn't eat food without gravy he was supposed to know how to do a gravy. I can't cook pap properly so most 9f the time my partner cooks it even though we eat pap once a week or in two weeks
@mphomashane3602
@mphomashane3602 3 жыл бұрын
The platform is short, I feel like there was a lot that could have been shared
@nthabisengangela7633
@nthabisengangela7633 2 жыл бұрын
True.
@agirlnamedginger1118
@agirlnamedginger1118 2 жыл бұрын
Tebogo needs therapy... lol
@mfundo1pumla
@mfundo1pumla 2 жыл бұрын
No doubt
@LebzaNdinisa
@LebzaNdinisa 10 ай бұрын
The relationship of mother inlaw and daughter in-law must start before the marriage,the son is the one who suppose to support this relationship for both women to work.
@khef3846
@khef3846 2 жыл бұрын
Is it me or was this too short
@gabisilestar6483
@gabisilestar6483 2 ай бұрын
😂😂 that first skit😂
@RayOfLetsatsi
@RayOfLetsatsi 2 жыл бұрын
The lady sitting opposite Tebogo is just as shocked by the nonsense he is spewing as everyone in this comment section.
@ThandsTV
@ThandsTV 2 жыл бұрын
I would like to hear Tebogo’s ex wife give her side of the story
@uLovvie
@uLovvie 2 жыл бұрын
This was too short!! I wish you could have explored this topic longer and in greater detail.
@misskaykayRSA
@misskaykayRSA 2 жыл бұрын
Moreeeee episodes please 🙏🏾
@sofortunate5171
@sofortunate5171 2 жыл бұрын
This show is nice and i love the conversations, I just feel that they cut the guests passively while they still talking and we don't get to connect fully with guest on their commentary. Pls editor do best.
@kutlomphusu8888
@kutlomphusu8888 2 жыл бұрын
Someone needs to look into this dude with the cap, he has a very sinister vibe to him😩
@dlegodi3694
@dlegodi3694 2 жыл бұрын
The host did a brilliant job 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@carolpfavayi3882
@carolpfavayi3882 2 жыл бұрын
Not your daughter being an extra💀
@lesegontsoele6678
@lesegontsoele6678 2 жыл бұрын
His own blood 👀
@vamsilengwenya3267
@vamsilengwenya3267 2 жыл бұрын
Bhuti here will continue blaming women and labelling them as kids until he deals with the common denominator in the situation. He sounds like a heartbroken man that actually needs a professional to guide him through that which is causing him pain. Love and light kubhuti bakithi🕯️
@kebaneilweseoke5672
@kebaneilweseoke5672 2 жыл бұрын
Can you guys please stop cutting episodes. The show is deeper but is served to us in a surface level because there some deep parts that are being cut out.
@khangelwakhathi508
@khangelwakhathi508 2 жыл бұрын
They want you to watch the show live this is just to entice us!!!
@KolorMeyellow
@KolorMeyellow 2 жыл бұрын
Tebogo is the problem in all his relationships
@thembisaodendaal
@thembisaodendaal 2 жыл бұрын
I like how they throw the bible..but she drives all the way for a piece of meat. The guy on the other hand says he's attracting children but he himself is a child
@thembisaodendaal
@thembisaodendaal 2 жыл бұрын
@@kentaprises I mean yes we agree this is childish behaviour but at the same time there could be some merit for the daughter in law behavior sometimes adults can really push you to a state of unconsciousness.one can only take so much of being present and trying to understand someone bad behaviour but we also hear that the mother in law is a psycho who goes as far as buying the same dress..in these situations the husband is the problem hes often weak and spineless.The poor girl is probably so exhausted with this mother in law.Mother in law should be the adult in the situation let's say maybe she really forgot that she requested for that piece of meat to be reserved then in that case she would have apologized but the fact that this ended up in a feud points to much deeper issues it was never about the meat.This happens in many relationships when people are not prepared to be authentic then you'll catch them fighting pettiness because they just failed to look each other in the eye and say mom that was not ok..and strictly speaking if the mother in law loves the daughter in law you know what it would be like she would have killed anyone who touched that piece of meat because she would have said it's my daughters meat but clearly the woman is not ok and for her to be ok not to see her grandchildren for 2 years over this points to some seriously poor emotional intelligence.In general people can really test your patience.The daughter in law felt unloved and unprotected by her.The husband as well is in a stick position because clearly he must choose his wife and family.ultimately they are all at fault but mostly the mother in law is problematic
@happiness_moth9295
@happiness_moth9295 2 жыл бұрын
😆 🤣 and he goes as far as marrying the kids . His a real problem
@mfundo1pumla
@mfundo1pumla 2 жыл бұрын
full 2 years and she was comfortable with that break and now they have bible quotes.Please!!! bomakoti sometimes can be too much.
@nontokz
@nontokz 2 жыл бұрын
Ai cha shame you know it’s real when the therapist gave Tebogo a look 😂 we might not know the full story but the little he said was 🚩
@lesedilabarongwa365
@lesedilabarongwa365 2 жыл бұрын
Tebogo is the problem. Two marriages down the drain. And he keeps on blaming the ex wives. Tgeres nowhere where he is taking ownership of his faults. It takes two to tango.
@lesedilabarongwa365
@lesedilabarongwa365 2 жыл бұрын
There's
@poshy3045
@poshy3045 2 жыл бұрын
Mme Ranaka we need a conference le wena you are an epitome of a great mother inlaw you need to teach more women how to deal with their makotis. Nna am raising a son and I prayed to God to release him when the time comes. I need understand that am not loosing him he just doing what was meant to be. I was entrusted with rearing him only no ownership.
@leratosongo-mokantla3621
@leratosongo-mokantla3621 2 жыл бұрын
Mme Ranaka God bless u... Keep it up
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