THREE KEYS TO A WOMAN DISCERNING A MAN by RC Blakes May 4, 2021

[@kendal4452]

My mom was a stay at home wife and my father worked. They had 9 kids. Was married until my mom passed on. He said he would never remarry, because my mom was the love of his life. He brought a blot for the both of them for he wanted to be bured with her. Later on, he passed. They had a wonderful marriage and I never heard them argue over anything. Men like my father are rare these days. So I'm single because I know what a real man does for his family and for his wife. I saw it. I have yet to meet a guy like my dad. I remember when my mom was sick. He painted her toe nails for her. My mom lacked nothing. I miss them both terribly.

[@clarissegomez9275]

Wow beautiful story 😊

[@smileyglitter852]

@Kendal, I hope the Lord sends you someone hun. Your father set a very high standard. Blessings sis.

[@MsErica-lp7oe]

May God bless you sweetheart and keep you may he bless you to find the man that he has for you and Jesus name amen and I'm so sorry for the loss of your parents may God give you peace in that area as well and restore your joy in Jesus name amen

[@godsproperty_]

😢 so sweet. Praise God ❤

[@kamilahdammit]

I wish I could’ve seen this love!!! Bless you!! Your time is coming. Your parents are watching over you❤

[@Speaklifeandtruth]

“A man that’s treating you right, doesn’t have to apologize every week” Yessss!!!!! 🙌🏼

[@amandavil]

Jesus!!!

[@Joycelang2495]

Pastor RC Blake's you tickle me you promise u not gonna do,it again lord have mercy thats funny.💒💒🐴

[@chikFromMTL]

#ThatPart

[@wisesavedone2721]

💯💯💯

[@juditholoo3535]

So true

[@carlissable]

Cheating is not a mistake...that takes effort and planning. That's a choice.

[@OItsSasha]

No ma'am, it is not!

[@edith324]

Its part of chosing what they want what makes them happy So let them do what they love to do lol

[@lisaariottiart]

When the package and the paper are pretty we can confuse our internal feelings of anxiety for excitement. Be discerning with your internal feelings as well. ❤️🙏🏻

[@miriamcastelan8450]

I’m agree with you !

[@keepcreationprocess]

Really,wow...Did he say this ?

[@Godsgirl3286]

"Don't fall in love. Walk in love."

[@OG_Genesis216]

This is so good

[@debrajenkins9104]

That's something my Pastor taught.....'Walk In Love'👍🏽

[@rbeeydwan4479]

Aaaamen😊❤🎉

[@fancydani]

“A man will gradually treat you with less and less and unconsciously reset your expectations” my mouth dropped, this is too deep it resinates so much

[@tonyathreet3567]

Same! My ex. Wow I see things so clearly now.

[@veneshiaclovis446]

Truth !!!

[@shontasmith9362]

This right here is a mighty mighty word!!! Come on now Pastor!!!

[@banderson6470]

Narcissists favourite tool

[@tammydailey7425]

Good stuff!

[@lisaedmonds9573]

Disrespect never gets better.

[@l.christinejones8164]

That's a whole word.

[@gigipeach7179]

Wow! I will remember this.

[@empresserica]

NevaEva

[@corinethorbourne2635]

Only thru a miracle..and the Lord is a miracle worker. But correct..can't joke w disrespect. Oh no.

[@LizaLavolta]

it gets worse...

[@allisonoinkoink7430]

Self love is what will save you

[@abigailbencosme8192]

💖🙌

[@Ineedmypeace]

This

[@lorenparker7846]

Amen

[@josephrobertson4106]

Hope all is well with you and your family 🙏

[@portiajackson1778]

Thank you for this. I’m working on it after ending a relationship with a narcissist man.

[@jillanderson3445]

"Malicious heart hides behind loving lips"... Preach!

[@juditholoo3535]

Correctly put

[@janellamurphy4212]

YES!!!! AMEN!!!!!

[@Grand365]

That line was classic. #truth

[@anabautista8071]

1. Language (Does his language build confidence in me, or does his language eradicate self-control?); 2. Energy (A safe man with the right energy will always make you feel safe, respected, seen, and heard) 3. Treatment (A man's treatment resets the expectations unconsciously)

[@ceciliawanjiku7933]

Thank you for waking up so many women from a sleep or comfort zone

[@jenniferbello3524]

❤

[@beckyjade8931]

When your spirit is agitated God is sending you a sign 🙏🙌

[@renatajackson535]

This video is mind blowing! I told a guy literally a couple weeks ago that I needed to be seen, heard, and to feel safe. His response was the shrug emoji. I have been struggling with walking away knowing he’s not for me and Pastor Blakes posts this teaching tonight. Wow! I don’t believe in coincidences…that’s God speaking directly through Pastor Blakes. Time to walk away without doubting now. Thank you God and thanks Pastor Blakes! 🙌🏽💜

[@jewelleedwards]

Yes, leave that man all the way behind. Clearly he doesn't have what you need.

[@justicebeat2020]

There is this guy on FB professing to be a relationship coach for women seeking 6 figure men who is detrimental to the psyche of these women grasping for advisement. His presentation (language, energy, and treatment) is that of a man that hates women.

[@lyrisgreenidge-adams5941]

@@justicebeat2020 that sounds like Kevin

[@justicebeat2020]

@@lyrisgreenidge-adams5941 BINGO!!!

[@serinty5263]

Dont walk...run..his gonna waste ur time

[@carolynashford500]

I am 59 years old. I wish someone like you , sat down and gave me some lessons. How to protect myself. I thank God for the blessing. Once again thank you.

[@janellamurphy4212]

YES!!!!!! IN TOTAL AGREEMENT WITH YOU SIS!!!!!

[@traceylennon1204]

@Carolyn Ashford I'm also 59 same here!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💯

[@DW-li1jn]

Its not too late. Have faith and prepare.

[@aliciam5832]

Same Carolyn. I’m 58 and wish I heard this years ago. So much wisdom!

[@claudettejackson9676]

Women needs to open their eyes and listen to a man who will say the wrong thing within minutes right there she should know what the man is all about. A woman should be so on a look out for the signs of what a man has to say she should know then weither she should take it further. But no they want you to tell them what to do and what to look for before they get used and abused. Well, isn't that something.

[@faithcole2698]

Keep your standard up ladies... there is a King out there for you.👑

[@charlottemuller2233]

Far and few,if you can be alone it’s a lot less trouble!!! You take on there family and in-laws!!

[@lharper]

The King of all Kings will NEVER leave you nor forsake you, He is close to they broken-hearted. Give Him your whole heart first and foremost, for these days are truly evil and so many souls are being lured by sex to Hell and devoured. Lord, guard our hearts and give us wisdom, discernment, and courage to make decisions that honor You. Amen!

[@ulugomes5898]

🙏🏽 Amen 🙏🏽

[@fionagrant2023]

The only King is Jesus

[@deltaradiance9034]

A King can still break your heart

[@zoejaiattoh1243]

I wish I heard these teachings while I was in my 20’s making all these mistakes.. I hope my younger sisters of the world 🌎 are actively listening and applying .. but better late than never, I am trying to straighten up my crown and be the woman I know I can be .. the Queen that I was called to be.

[@vikkara2043]

Me too 😓

[@KitaRenee]

Amen… Same here 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@micolow115]

God knew when you needed to hear it. Now we all have testimonies to help others. God is never wrong in His timing.

[@Coachbware]

Yass queen

[@Shellbelle1975]

Me.. im you.. I understand, im learning too, did the same.. no more! healthy blessings 🙏🏽

[@imi_xo]

"Words are spiritual containers that carry good or bad intentions from one person’s heart to another’s." So powerful.

[@imi_xo]

Bishop RC you are amazing. That point about a man being made from dust of the ground (externals) and women from the internals (Adam's rib)? Amazing insight. Thank you.

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Go with your gut feeling. Your intuition, their energy.

[@Fan-qu8qy]

Amen!

[@lindaliterature2089]

My God! This is so POWERFUL!! “Pimped by words...” I wish someone had taught me this game in my 20s or 30s.

[@hardcopy5730]

Agree

[@wisesavedone2721]

Yesss!!💯💯💯

[@Westcocoa]

Amen!!! I've been saying the same thing!!!

[@misguidedpearls7456]

I hear you

[@rozsastojanovic4321]

Oh yeah

[@Ladecov27]

I feel like you are teaching me everything my dad should have taught me. Thank you❤

[@sherryhornung5894]

I thought the same thing!

[@sparkykitty6870]

I thought my mom should have taught me this, at least what to look for/beware of.

[@madelinebigio7565]

My father or mother didn’t show me this she had no clue lol

[@bernadettekelly2772]

Thank you Sir ......

[@yvettedillard4130]

Yes I agree with you comment.

[@meme4389]

The talk every father should have with his daughter.

[@FUEGOSTARR]

Yesss!

[@sesethubabalwamahanjana5064]

I am in my 20s and all I can say I am grateful to be here. God redirected me here

[@carolynr3764]

"Words are never just words." Wow. My abusive ex would go on a tirade for hours, name-calling me and belittling me and my hobbies and friends... if I expressed any anger about what he said to me, he'd say "they're just words, so what?" *sigh* Thank you RC for giving me the strength to get out of THAT relationship once and for all!

[@DivorcedSingleMomsHustles]

Had same experience. Glad he’s your ex

[@charmariah4766]

@@DivorcedSingleMomsHustles Me too!!!

[@shouston1413]

My ex would say, "Just listen to what I'm saying, not how I said it." Made little sense in the 70s and even less now.

[@charmariah4766]

@@shouston1413 This statement has manipulation written all over it.

[@juney18]

@@shouston1413 happy you got out of that,. He was an evil talker, purposely trying to wound you.

[@blacksongbird100]

Thank you for saying "You don't need to know why. You're not Sherlock Holmes" cz my inner Sherlock always wants to investigate. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@kendradamm1428]

I know that feeling! The sick, anxious “something is not right here” feeling in the pit of my stomach...let me investigate. Sunglasses, girlfriends car, let’s ride....and even after I’ve figured out all of his passwords, etc, and have the PROOF he’s lying....🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@blacksongbird100]

@@kendradamm1428 Ok?!!! STILL lying!!! Bruuuuh, go head on with the lies nie! Just confess. OR maybe I should just stick with the fact that I know something is wrong and disappear. 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@kendradamm1428]

@@blacksongbird100 So true! I am amazed by the strength of some women. For me, though, I struggled with that part of it. I wish I would have trusted my instincts and walked away instead of turning into a private investigator.

[@blacksongbird100]

@@kendradamm1428 I concur! I just watched this video 3 times back to back today and took notes the 3rd time. I'm going to break that need to investigate and learn to to trust my spirit.

[@keekee322]

I mean seriously when you want to know, It will have your anxiety all over the place! I hate it

[@amaragrace94]

My biggest take aways: 1) L.E.T.: Really listen to his words using your mind and not only your heart, let your spirit discern his energy, and watch how he treats you. 2) Integrity is the integration of a man's words/promises with his actions. 3) When a man with integrity steps into your life, he may treat you in a way that baffles you because you've never been treated that way. Sometimes your consciousness is so broken that it almost turns you off to be treated so well. 4) Check any disrespect or maltreatment (intentional or not) instantly, the 1st time. If he cannot apologize, respect those boundaries, and not do it again, that is your queue to walk away. "Let that be the last time he sees you." Amen!🙏 My promise to myself is to never ever again allow myself to participate in the degradation of my own standards. I MUST show myself that respect. I promise to love and respect myself more than any man that comes into my life. God first, then me. That's the only way to have the mental/spiritual capacity to discern if this is the right man (at the right time) that God has intended for me.

[@gugumkhwanazi9482]

Ladies, we're do blessed to have pastor RC BLAKES and LISA BLAKES..❤

[@montanadeleon1]

44:07 I COMPLETELY disagree. It’s NEVER a mistake when a man cheats ….wether it’s ONE time or 4,5,6 times. It’s TOO man steps before the peen ends up in the vajayjay. Meaning that there are SO many opportunities to stop yourself BEFORE you get into the act if sex The attraction, exchanging numbers, reaching out, coordinating a place to meet, taking off your clothes, HOPEFULLY putting on a condom, etc. It’s TOO many opportunities to stop yourself but you CHOOSE to do the step, the next step, the next step and then BOOM…sex. You choose every time

[@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644]

Exactly 💯 Just break up or get a divorce, sign a prenup, whatever, cheating is for dogs, both men, women. People can be so disgusting

[@knowtruth2773]

I agree.

[@princessjuanita1590]

You are so right. Never a mistake its a choice

[@AddictedTooYeshua]

Agree

[@AddictedTooYeshua]

@@godsbelove9 amen on that

[@carolelliott2099]

Never ignore the energy of a man. That is so good--God is trying to tell you whether he's good for you or not! ❤💯

[@ladyzinada5341]

GOSH I THANK GOD FOR THIS MAN AND HIS BEAUTIFUL WIFE.

[@CommonSense365]

Just subject matter, 🙏

[@wandahorton9549]

I thank God for Your Teaching Bishop!!!!!!!😊😊😊

[@cathybabisha1986]

Lived this thank you so much really life changing !

[@customfittedinc]

Exactly

[@brendahaarsma6155]

Thank you so much! Praise God 🙏 for this beautiful lesson! Amen

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

Sisters, remind the Lord of His Word next time you feel low: “For You created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:13-14

[@tylishajames1451]

Love this!

[@nostee4925]

Oh yes I'm fearfully and wonderfully made

[@nessparadis6948]

He doesn’t need to be reminded of that verse. He doesn’t forget but we do.

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

@@nessparadis6948 He may not _need_ it but in Isaiah 43:26 He asks us to remind Him of His Word. When I began to pray the promises of the scriptures my prayer life really began to take on more power. “Put Me in remembrance; Let us contend together; State your case, that you may be acquitted.”

[@trogers418]

Amen ! Many great comments here. So encouraging !

[@ChristManifestee316]

“He will then start to gradually reset your expectations.” THIS!!!

[@somechileanwomanslc]

“Disrespect never gets better…” 100 true and thank you for the reminder. May we never tolerate disrespect again.

[@lala5061]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@Sheriniqua]

Protect this man of God at all costs! 🙌🏽 His teachings are healing and guiding women all around the world. God bless you! 💕

[@shanae9594]

I totally agree!👏♥️👏

[@cindeed4422]

Discernment from God is very powerful. Listen to it and use it. Don’t ignore it. Thank you Pastor for a good word today. I was just SMH throughout because so much of it has happened to me even in the church! When you feel uneasy, God will never steer you wrong.

[@diana2101]

Thank you thank you

[@lindabest3184]

I also have encountered this in the Church, both women and men on a large scale who God reveled as wolves in sheep's clothing

[@helmahkengere671]

@@lindabest3184 x C a saw saw saw were wQ a saw was a z we m mmm

[@thebestindewest]

He never will

[@charlottemuller2233]

A lot of narcs in the church!!

[@pdelcarmenb2915]

"You think he was sent from god, no he came straight from the devil!" Lol 😂 pastor this was funny but so true 😩

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Yup I ran into a narcissistic sociopath.

[@ElizabethFitTaylor]

🤣🤣🤣

[@ritastevenson7380]

Bishop Blakes is teaching his Queens/daughters to getting ready for the clowns that are going to be on the hunt when Covid-19 is over. Thank you for your excellent teaching.

[@chikFromMTL]

For real

[@beeaboutabbabusiness8738]

There already, hunting for prey online be vigilant ,as wise as a serpent as harmful of a dove.

[@p.s.706]

NEVER ignore the energy of a man🙏🏾

[@RealLadi228]

Boundaries shake things up immediately either respected or rejected.

[@anettegeminiwoman3973]

Waited 5 years for a commitment, he made promises he never kept , treated me like a doormat. I loved him very much but had to move on and leave , he broke my heart and now I´m soo sad and lonley. After listen to this video it felt a little bit easier to deal with. Thank you.

[@beccareynolds4625]

You aren’t lonely you are just alone. Go there, there are allot of answers in the solitude.

[@RealLadi228]

You can't love anyone more than yourself except for Christ

[@meewannabe2525]

RealLadi228 TEACH!!!! 🍵

[@MrDDUDLEY10]

That disrespect came hard and fast!!! Caught me completely off guard. and when I said I’m just going to exit left.... this fool had the nerve to be mad and go AWF!! I simply said “I’m not sure how I will handle the next time you want to try me, so I’ll gone and walk away” 😳 LOST IT.

[@jillwilliams7554]

@Light4you Am I missing a joke or something else about this comment? Why would her leaving not be a good sign?

[@alwaysaccurate8725]

✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅✅

[@toshaperry6396]

Never ignore the energy of a person, it’s their essence.

[@RS-uv5hb]

“Words are Spiritual”…Powerful!

[@jennifersobel6155]

This man is seriously blowing my mind. Life-changing. It’s really hitting home and he’s helping me to really GET it. Thank you!

[@sallygilbert6906]

I listened and tears began to run down my face. Truth, so much Truth to my story..God help me and thank you Sir.

[@l.christinejones8164]

Sis, we have all been right there. Now, the sun is rising on a brand new day for us all. 💛

[@l.christinejones8164]

@@rcblaleajr3234 Scam no. Bye.

[@nicholerombo9132]

Everything he said rings truth in my situation...the manipulation for the passed 7 years. I'm getting a divorce...keep your head up.

[@awhxdiane3451]

@Sally every body plays a fool sometimes 🎶 your not alone. When we know better we will do better. It’s very important to know the word of God . We can’t do it alone! 🙌🏼

[@juney18]

@@nicholerombo9132 I hope your doing well through this divorce and mending, still learning. I’m trying to replay and learn all I was never taught (abuse). Modern ways shoved at us are actually demeaning to women. Get your Queen skills set on! I’m trying.

[@GodsLove911]

Kings always elevate the value of a Queen.

[@Recoverywithtamye]

Every time you feed me with your wisdom, I realize my own Father left me to starve to death.

[@nikkilong7377]

That energy is everything. I ignored it all the way through with my late husband. I reflect on my marriage to learn and understand. To do better in the future and make better choices. I remember how I felt throughout and had I paid attention to my instincts and that energy, I would have left in the beginning. We have to grow ladies. We're better than this! Love and light

[@MsChantae]

What stood out to me (so far): *You won't know your head from your tail, up from down, you will have been divorced from everything that makes you who you are, and this man will have firm grip on your soul*

[@thesethreethingspodcast2530]

This was great. i used to be the woman that was broken and fell for all of these horrible examples given here. Once I got well within myself, I now move as a Queen. We must do our work ladies and heal our brokenness, where ever it came from, parents, bad marriage, you dated a narcissist, molestation......get the healing help you need. . We are worth it!!! Thank you Mr. Blakes..

[@dominiquewyatt6704]

How

[@thesethreethingspodcast2530]

@@dominiquewyatt6704 therapy worked for me.

[@jessicarodriguez8657]

@@dominiquewyatt6704 by making a choice . It begin with that . Make a choice n walk on it .

[@JesusSaves77799]

I LOVE this sentence - “It’s not women’s liberation, it’s their incarceration.” EXACTLY!! Women have to protect and be SO careful with their sexuality and hearts - and make sure a man honors them and wants to wait for marriage. Thank you so much, Paster Blakes!! Exactly!!! God bless you, your family and this channel!! 🙏

[@coachnatishamommatish144]

Happy Sabbath @PastorDowell and my Israel sister's and brother's🙏🙏🙏🙏👑💃🤜💥🤛

[@leeshasha778]

I really want to beat myself, how much I have allowed my now ex do. I felt thev negative energy so many times, I ignored it. .. I didn't listen to my spirit.. Thanks for this teaching

[@trenaromain2817]

Omg, this opened my eyes. I had to listen to it 3 times. This was me for 23 years of marriage. I finally got the courage to choose myself and walk away. I still question my decision and cry everyday. Thank you so much for this video. I was never taught how to love me first and how pay attention to the words or treatment. I always thought just as long as no hands were put in me then he was a good man. The say sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. Watching this video showed me that words do hurt. Words are painful. I was so conditioned to believe that I am the blame for everything that I allow him to still manipulate me. I’m going to keep watching all of your videos especially this one to keep me on track. Your wife is a lucky woman to have a real man in her life. I’m grateful for the both of you of you. God bless you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@gladysgulledge2726]

Oh how I wish you had been born during my youth. I’m learning from what you’re saying, except I’m 82 years young. I would love to meet some one at my age that has all the qualities you’re teaching to have as a companion. My husband passed two years ago and I’m still missing him. You are so helpful when a man come into my presence I will know how to use my discernment. Thank you for sharing so many great messages…

[@AbsolutelyLinda555]

Spirit don’t lie 🥰

[@ilovehousemusic2637]

It does not sis!!

[@deeevansnola8178]

I met a guy who seems like a good guy when I first met him. Would buy me things but my discernment was telling me something was off with him. What prolonged the situation was he kept helping me buying my groceries, giving money, etc. But my discernment kept telling knocking at the door. Well I listened to.my spirit. Come to find out he was married, abusing and neglecting his wife. And when I found out I questioned him and a different person showed up. He talked to me so bad and said I had no right to ask him questions. Needless to say I changed my number good thing he never came to my house.

[@gratefulandblessed7194]

Honestly, it depends on what Spirits a person listens to. Not everyone is surrender to the Holy Spirit, and sometimes they will listen to their own demons. But yes, we should see the fruits of the spirit and have peace and safety with others.

[@jillanderson3445]

No one taught me ANYTHING about finding a good man! Thank you Pastor for your videos and message. I am mid 50's and am just coming out of a relationship ( 7 years) based on lies, by a man who fooled me. I suffer from low self esteem and was so flattered that this man was interested in me, he said the right things, and gave me his ear and advise. Feel like a fool, and don't want to be in this position, ever again. Was divorced for years prior, and had given up on dating or finding a good man. ( ex husband broke me mentally) Heartbroken and deceived, so sad and depressed now, but I will get better , I hope.

[@juditholoo3535]

You are not alone dear. You have made the right decision!!! You will get over it and find the love of your dreams. Find yourself and keep God first

[@rhondachampagne8621]

Your worth is found in Almighty God not man. You're worthy by the Blood of Christ Jesus. Get that in your heart and it will be in your soul forever and nothing /no one will ever break you again. Praying for this revelation and encounter with God for you, sister.

[@beccareynolds4625]

Time alone and deep healing helps … 7 years single here and it does get better.

[@jandavis4584]

Have faith, pray, and remember the 3 things he taught from God. I've prayed for you and everyone else on here that needs it.

[@kingmemories352]

Seek therapy, and spend time doing something you really like that relieves stress. Prayers for your healing.🙏🏼

[@genievebanner1308]

Thank you Bishop. This is for me .Long story short. I met my Husband when I was 22 yrs old , I’m now 48. He was wrong for me from the beginning. I was told by my Pastor to get away from him immediately. I felt it wasn’t right deep down inside. But oh no I have a hard head and don’t listen. Anyways he was a monster and still is . We have been separated for 6 yrs .. We have 4 children together.. . Three weeks ago with the strength and courage from God I finally walked away and this time I’ll NEVER look back..I gave my pearls to a swine.

[@deeevansnola8178]

Amen!!

[@crystalroget4649]

Lord have mercy, this is my story, too! Trying to get out this year after 21 years married to narcissist. Didn’t listen to elders when younger now paying for it. Have 2 almost grown children who keep encouraging me every day. I have made up my mind to do it this year! Pray for me!

[@genievebanner1308]

@@crystalroget4649 my Sister I pray that our Creator will give you courage and strength. It’s time to put you first. Time is just slipping away so swiftly.Don’t worry about the past ,please put it behind you . Start living..I was living in a PRISON WITH NO WALLS . I’m happy now . I’m FREE.. You will be too in the mighty name of our Creator.

[@tjohnson5760]

@@crystalroget4649 You can do it, your story is too familiar, I was married for 15 years to a narc also, I stayed because our daughter was younger, he emotionally, physically and financially abused me. Our daughter is 23 now and almost 9 months ago I demanded he leave it was very hard but he finally did. I’ve learned folks can tell you to leave but ONLY YOU can decide when YOU’VE had enough and only then will change happen. It wasn’t easy, my daughter & I both did therapy as time moves on it has gotten easier. You need to do this for you, so you are happier & find your peace. I 🙏🏽 God keeps you & gives you everlasting peace.

[@crystalroget4649]

@@tjohnson5760 Thank you for this encouragement!

[@minyhonebowman]

Absolutely love Bishop Blakes. He keeps it 100, no sugar coating, no intention to hurt feelings and nonbiased. This man has helped me so much. The truth is the things he says may hurt because we do not want to hear the truth about ourselves and what he speaks of is probably 80% of us women we just have not tapped into it yet or and refuse to accept the truth about ourselves. Bottom line is that we as women are nurturers by nature, so we love on everyone. Bishop digs deep to the core and tell it like it is. He is pure and genuine therapy for me. He has helped me become a wiser woman. If you do not want genuine truth and love don't watch. If you do watch prepare to be hurt a little but much wiser. Love y'all Chi town

[@trenaromain2817]

I never realized that I didn’t know so much. I will stop beating myself up for what I was never taught. This is so powerful. I blamed myself for so long. I can’t stop crying. Now I know better , So I will do better for my mind, body and soul.❤

[@judydesvignes9195]

Where my own dad never sat down with me, you,re the apostle that God has sent to me to open my eyes! Thank God for you🙏🙌

[@mistyjordan7147]

As a Narcisisist, they study us as women and us as women need to start studying these men so we can spot a narcissistic persinalities. So that we'll have a contious decision to avoid these men or women that wants to attached themselves to us on no good attentions.

[@gigipeach7179]

This is a terrible hidden spirit that is wreaking havoc on people’s lives. I pray to God we never accept anymore personalities like this in our lives.

[@mistyjordan7147]

@@gigipeach7179 Amen😇🙏💙💜💯

[@healed2011]

@@gigipeach7179 Amen.🙏🙌🏾

[@kdub3892]

Can't ignore his energy. Red flag bad energy everywhere on 1st date.

[@sharilyon5983]

Misty Jordan, spot on!

[@Renee0784Harris]

I told a guy who was interested in me that he didn’t make me feel emotionally safe with him, he acted like I was speaking Chinese 😂 #BIGredflag

[@casperinsight3524]

I can relate, the X would talk to me in mock Chinese and say its like we're speaking two different languages

[@pkyrispkyris208]

Probably a narsassist. Don't give a damn.

[@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644]

These dudes act like females

[@Luvurselffirst]

I told a guy, I was in a relationship with him while he is single. he said "and what's wrong with that"?

[@millieempowers]

Thank you so much for this!! I’ve taken interest in this man recently .. very early stages of dating & my flesh wants him. He’s attractive, my TYPE . We had a nice date. He was respectful, complimented me, & a complete gentleman. But after the night I felt sooo overwhelmed unsettled by his words & actions.. & I had to put aside “the butterflies” & realized that I might need to run. Because his energy & words were slightly off.. Thank You for this!

[@zoejaiattoh1243]

I wish I had these teachings in my 20’s .. I’m learning so much and how naive , gullible I was .. I’m so grateful and this message hit home and felt like it was just for me.. and I’m able to walk in my Queendom!!

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

Words are spells. Let no one cast any kind of spells to you or on your life - especially a no good ungodly man. 1: Take your time to discern the language of a man. 2: Experience a man’s energy - don’t ignore the energy of a man. 3: Observe a man’s treatment of you.

[@Pamela.B]

“Let no man deceive you...”. 2 Thessalonians 2:3 💖

[@charlottemuller2233]

How do we change the damage??

[@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644]

A fake pastor treated me like crap, spread lies, and had me investigated. He used bad language, energy was like the devil cause he practices sorcery, and tried to treat me like crap. God is always watching. Continue to do good to others, don't let it make you bitter.

[@daijadorsey674]

Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@cherylmcleod6088]

Bishop Blake is comedic entertaining as well but his message sermon is POWERFUL 💯👼🙏

[@empresserica]

Yes !!!

[@iamangela171]

And Serious

[@sexyava5280]

I love his teachings. He is a blessing

[@UnshakableShe]

Very powerful!!

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

It’s a gift, to make us laugh while he feeds our spirit.

[@jo-anndisalvo7070]

I learned more today with this message then I have in all my 67 years. I appreciate you, thank you so much.

[@Nurse.ifeoma]

A mans treatment resets your expectations unconsciously! Thank you for this word today pastor ❤️

[@blueskies773]

It so true. I had a first date recently with a man. It went really well at first. Then he overstepped boundaries physically, started negging me. Culturally speaking, people say negging is part of a culture. I let it go for a moment because I thought, okay, this is cultural-- NO I’m not accepting that! My life partner will NOT neg me. That will not be his character.

[@writeract-p5z]

He cannot keep me locked up and go about his business freely and doing whatever he wants even though he is the provider. Women are not enslaved by any means. Some of us may have gone through rough financial times from karmic situations that our families had caused, but it is our strength and truth to the most high that will make us win this life's true rewards. It starts with love. I am crying with tears of inspiration from your words. Keep up the good work, Reverend R.C.

[@vintage-rosé007]

I'm going to OD on Bishop RC's videos till I get through this! God bless you and thank you for the encouragement ❤️

[@tnt3929]

Me too! He is helping me through a lot! I had a great dad.. but he never taught me anything about men and relationships. Since he and I are close in age.. he's more like a brother.

[@queensheenz8400]

I've been doing the same also 💯🙏

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

Sis, remind the Lord of His Word next time you feel low: “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Psalm 139:13-14

[@vintage-rosé007]

Thank you so much for all your support beautiful ladies ❤️

[@kmonette]

His messages got me through a very difficult break up. It's been a year and I am a happily single and healing ❤

[@talentedt5080]

I’ve learned from experiences and hard lessons to never ignore The energy that I feel from another person if it’s not gelling with me I know it’s a move on💯✌🏽🙅🏽‍♀️

[@chamiltonmgb]

I was "addicted to his voice" not even realizing he was breaking me down.

[@gchrisfairbanks5390]

Disrespect never gets better~ Words of wisdom.

[@karlabraun2029]

I wish I had heard this before I got married, it would have saved me years of hurt. We are now separated and he says he's changing, now I know what to watch for. Thanks so much. I need wisdom and strength to stand up to the narcissist. Amen.

[@TheRealHeavenlyHands]

Hi @Karla Braun how’s it going did you all work it out or did you stay separated. I’m currently dealing with on in marriage and considering separation

[@karlabraun2029]

@@TheRealHeavenlyHands we are still separated. Healing takes time, trust takes time. He doesn't want to change, he just wants me back without take responsibility so I am looking after myself and my emotional health. Going back would be a mistake.

[@Lala-ht8ps]

@@karlabraun2029 If it's not the spirit of Christ he will not change. Also if his intension is not to know Christ and to Love Christ, Run for your life.

[@TheRealHeavenlyHands]

@@karlabraun2029 I agree with you. You must protect your mental health because it’s draining going back and forth. I just became aware of the title of what my husband was operating in. I knew it wasn’t the Spirit of God but a demonic spirit. He’s operated in covertly for years but when he left to go see about his mom last year and didn’t communicate with me plans and only with his sisters and left this is when the children and I eyes were opened to this. Connecting to Bishop Blake’s and Lady Lisa Blake’s ministry on KZbin has been a strength giver to me towards Gods healing in my emotions. I made up my mind yesterday that I need to put space between us and he hasn’t been taking the counseling seriously but to try to win people over to his side. So I must do what is best for my children and I at this point. Praying for you. @RCBlakes sir can you please do some teaching on those who are already married to man who doesn’t take responsibility for his actions. Those men who work a job but isn’t willing to do whatever else did necessary to make sure his wife and children are good. I want to know my husband got me and that peace I don’t get from him. He looks at me to have him all the time.

[@kissesdelight27]

I poured into my husband too much,he went to his co-worker/Workwife and trashed me falsely.Had and affair for 2 years.He drained me, emotionally, mentally, sexually and etc.He just confessed October 2024 about the affair they both gaslighted they never had.He claimed he wanted to change but half hearted in his efforts.He only decided to go this because he got caught venting to another coworker.​@@TheRealHeavenlyHands

[@gailrosenberg48]

What about a man who withholds words/language?. After the rapport-building and love-bombing comes withdrawl. Silence can communicate as well in a very destructive way.

[@brees5697]

Exactly. Narcissistic stonewalling, they know what they're doing. People can be addictions unfortunately, pushing and pulling, using love and intimacy as a tool.

[@brees5697]

Check out Dr. Ramani Durvursula on YT. (Spelling?)

[@ckl5801]

No joke! I’m done chasing after crumbs of love!

[@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves]

Exactly and all of a sudden get lazy with all the things they did in the beginning it's all game

[@monicanapier9087]

Narcissistics love bomb to bring us in... then the silent treatment is a mind game to break you down! Your brain becomes bonded to the rejection w chemicals released by the brain by the addiction to rejection! These guys are sent by the devil to destroy us!!! I walked away from. A narcissistic guy n destroyed the devils work against me !!!

[@charlenedeshazier1414]

I don’t understand how there can be 300 dislikes on this amazing video.

[@tonyathreet3567]

People don’t like the truth sometimes

[@SD-yq4jn]

It’s all the men he’s talking about in this video 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

[@queenofqueens5460]

​@@SD-yq4jn I was thinking that

[@domking157]

Everyone doesn’t take change well! Shrug

[@gentlerosegarden]

Its official I found my father! Amazing word! Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty I'm free at last!

[@Ddeath.Eaterr]

For real amen

[@rcblaleajr3234]

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[@tonyathreet3567]

Thank you Heavenly Father for leading me to Pastor Blakes. So many questions answered that was heavy on my heart. Thank you Pastor, thank you for caring for us women.

[@blueskies773]

Yes! Thank you Pastor Blakes for answering your Calling so we can recognize God’s intent for us in love!

[@TheRobinAskew]

RC is slowing teaching me everything my father never did. I’m so grateful for you, RC!

[@angelabrown6135]

I'm so grateful for a true man of God that can lead, teach, and edify.

[@jessyon6274]

God sent you to me at the exact right moment. I’m not sure why I am a amazed every time he comes through for me. God is SO GOOD! I have been dating a man who is great on paper, says all the right things when he needs to, but my soul is unsettled with him. He has overstepped the boundaries of respect when he gets angry and lashes out. He has said some hurtful things to me. He apologizes each time but I no longer feel safe going to him with concerns of our relationship. This was my confirmation of what I need to do. Thank you so much for being a beautiful messenger!

[@Limlani]

This is my exact situation. Your comment feels like confirmation in the spirit sister. This man apologises for all the things said.. but this is happening every week now and i did a mini fast (24 hours) but God was with me and when i spoke to this guy, the uneasiness in my spirit was incredible. I had asked God to reveal this man's heart to me and God was / is faithful. Thank You Jesus!!

[@talentedt5080]

This is so true I am so grateful that my mom referenced me to start listening to you over a year ago and your messages sharing the knowledge with others is such a blessing. It has change my life as well as saved me when I was going through a very tough time in realizing the storm I was in🙏🏽💪🏽🎯

[@bunnyboo6295]

Your so bless to have a good mom to lead you to Blakes power messages.

[@Radience100]

The comments are so uplifting and life giving!

[@esmamirac6612]

With Utmost Love and respect as a Muslim woman I found your Lectures so profoundly life changing,moving,touching!!!!I can't leave here without giving my deepest Gratitude and appreciations!!!Salute to you !!!Your Lectures will stay with me forever and you will always be in my prayers..Least you willever know that how much ur wisdom changes woman's world!!!Sincerely Grateful!!!!

[@reinaquisha9418]

I had to rewind this blessing. I wish every woman would hear this🙏🏽

[@virginiae.4498]

When you Love and respect God, you love and respect his creations, you have compassion and therefore you know how to treat yourself and others. Thank you so much for your wisdom Bishop Blake and mostly for your sincere prayer for us, God bless you and your family ☦️♥️

[@patriciawilliams5519]

Yes, Amen. Love for self and loving your first love with your heart before thinking of loving or being loved by the opposite sex/gender. These evil modern day clowns hit devalue quickly!! Even before they really know you! Pay attention men and women. Get Out, Run fast when you begin noticing inconsistencies!!👟👟👟👟👟

[@ksize3147]

@@patriciawilliams5519 Yes, listen to the words, BUT pay close attention to the actions and deeds.....if they don't match, believe the actions/inactions. Anyone can say any words. Actions speak LOUDER than words.

[@janderson947]

@@rcblaleajr3234 stop scamming ....

[@dianeoneil5376]

Every single sentence of this sermon is PACKED with depth and meaning.

[@cocolatte8335]

Right !! I had to listen to it a second time and probably more times. Cause this message was speaking straight to my soul. Thank you @Bishop Blakes. Thank you God for putting this word in him to bring forth.

[@teresadockery8043]

Yessss!!!! This spoke to me, I’ll keep relistening to this. It connected so many dots for me. Thank God for this powerful man of God and his wife💕

[@joydorsy3341]

Wow Daddy Blake is ALWAYS OPENING OUR EYES AND HEART PAY ATTENTION TO ENERGY!!!!!!!!!!! I LISTEN 2023

[@selfaware555]

Words are not just words. Words are spiritual. WOW! This message was everything!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Holistretch]

I’m just sitting here head nodding like, mmhmm. Mmhmm. Mhmm.. 💯

[@dr.dermixgirlmd7479]

Girl, me too. Mmmmhmm, yes sir.

[@BikiniBanana]

Haha, like totally. 👏

[@tinagalaviz2908]

Same

[@jomarysdemorizi8779]

Mmmmjuuum me too

[@yahoskatijerino5137]

Thank you Pastor Blake! Our Heavenly Father knew I needed to hear this today, and no better conduit to deliver this message than you. Have a blessed week!

[@ANCministries]

Good stuff Pastor, A man can only RUN GAME, it's up too us to peep it. We only get PLAYED IF we're willing to participate...God bless u.. You walked HEAVY TONIGHT...♥️🔥💯

[@tinawilliams919]

The way a man treats you is reconditioning your standards, beautiful stated 👌

[@lorna1319]

It’s no coincidence I found and watched this video this morning. I recently had an experience with a man who expressed an interest in me, asked me out and then ghosted me before resurfacing a couple of weeks later. We had one conversation after he rise from the dead where I expressed my distaste for his communication style and his response showed me his true colors. I wish I could share more details but let’s just say that my red flag rose high and I had no choice but to take heed. It is true that our instincts don’t lie and it’s up to us to pay attention. .Thank you Pastor Blake’s for your words and sharing this message.

[@daniellebenning5706]

I’m soo glad HE delivered me from those ppl, who seeked to destroy my self esteem and worth! (Unsuccessfully)I am now healed and very much aware! Sharing your message with my friends!

[@laurencharles6807]

This sermon is literally putting my broken pieces together. Sir you have spoken to experiences and brought my solution

[@jordanellesse8708]

Thank you so much for what you do. I grew up around my dad and he was the perfect provider, but the emotional support and example of emotional treatment was not conducive for my romantic life in adulthood. So I thank you for being a teacher and commuting yourself to saving the lives of women who are lost in a world of wolves.

[@DaleRFetz]

A just man walks in his integrity! The integrates with his promises. He walks it BEFORE he talks it!

[@ashlimo481]

We listen to words instead of paying attention to their actions that's the biggest problem

[@deborahford1844]

Good evening sir. Tuning in live for the first time from Jamaica. I have been listening to your videos since the start of 2021 and I can truly say I am getting back my senses

[@leeallen1556]

🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@leeallen1556]

@@neemyers6869 i did too big up uself.

[@leeallen1556]

🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@neemyers6869]

@@leeallen1556 Amen

[@charlottemuller2233]

Some of those people can realy pray over there!!

[@nadiaa4127]

I really needed to hear this. I wish someone would have told me this when I was younger. Thank you for your wisdom you have enlightened me in so many ways.

[@jennifersobel6155]

“Kings always elevate the expectations of queens”. I’m so grateful I’m listening to this in between relationships and can make fresh, better choices in the future without having to extricate myself from something sub-standard

[@asinobigift5221]

Thank you pastor for your sincere teachings.I have become a better woman since I started listening to your message, what if the man involved is not in relationship with me, maybe in work place how can such a person can handled

[@susanwachira3606]

"Disrespect never gets better it's designed to go further and further 😢"

[@karenblueford9082]

Real TALK ❤❤ Don't rush into no relationship wait on God. Don't let no one be little you. They have you on the corner. Keep yourself Worth up ,always.

[@gabsilequeenethmhlanga1525]

Watching from South Africa. 🇿🇦🇿🇦 Thank you Pastor