Role Play: Person Centred Therapy

[@Sea_Slug_Magic]

The therapist was incredible, the paraphrasing was not simply mirroring what has been said but has also reflected client's feeling which is so important. the best video of person centred approach on youtube for me.

[@skionen1781]

The therapist is a master at reflecting and paraphrasing the essence of his message .very good

[@cybrhckr]

+skione n like, I must say in person centered therapy you don't suggeest things. so It is most of the time interpreting and paraphrasing. It is like basic grammar therapy.

[@aliciamonterroso5450]

fh

[@newpj]

Yea, right, mmmm, ok.

[@Tao-Quantum-Healing-Events]

I find her very annoying she sounds like is a talking to a child.

[@skionen1781]

@@newpj is call Minimal encouragers, small signals that let the speaker know you are listening and understanding.

[@markgoodchild9842]

As somebody that has undergone nearly a year of counselling, through the person centred approach, and also someone that aspires to become a counsellor, I found this quite interesting. Even though its a role play, and many have argued around the congruency, what many seemed to miss, whether it was or not on purpose due to the role play, was how this altered the clients body language to be more open and possibly more relaxed, lets not forget how sometimes body language can mirror feelings within a client, as well as be completely the opposite and as such, this is one of the many great talents in my opinion that a person-centred counsellor would pick up on. Finally to all of you that are currently practising, I just want to say I'm in awe of your skills and dedication, and I hope that one day in the future I to, will be in a position to help others in the way that you do. God bless you all

[@samismael4422]

Hi Mark, reflecting on non verbal cues is called feedback and forms a major part of the counselling process. Great that you picked up on that. I hope you get to realise your dream of becoming a counselor. You seem to have a knack for it.

[@vaniaswain8939]

I hope you are living your best life right now! Thank you for this post!

[@shannonw7315]

So interesting to see the clientd change in body language when the therapist states that she can see he's a good caring father. Like he really warms to her and opens up

[@cherylfielding6216]

Whether you like this type of therapy or not, I think that the role play was very genuine and well done. If you need to do person centered therapy for your assignments then I think this is a good example. Some clients actually like this quiet type of counselling.

[@cp068]

+Cheryl Fielding I agree.

[@creatingwithnature7709]

Cheryl Fielding Yes this is a very good example, her questioning and summarising techniques are very clear and the conversation is easy to follow. She also showed the power of silence, which I find effective.

[@mariamistretta3860]

I know right some people see role playing like a negative thing. When actually it can be a positive thing. It be good way to expression yourself it could be like putting yourself in the person shoes like changing point of views.

[@ezza88ster]

He's a good actor isn't he? I felt such empathy!

[@VambeefcoHorzey]

Wow, she was actually my counsellor about 10 years ago. She was very good, it has to be said.

[@Sundardevsaha-e3k]

I'm so thankful for the posting of this video. I am a first year grad student and this is a great example for me to study. THANK YOU!

[@jonbirtles3093]

Great counselling session that shows the skills needed with this type of therapy. Its easy to criticise when your not in the driving seat.

[@panini1827]

it's like a real counseling session, not a role play. Good job!

[@paddyk3748]

As a training therapist this was grate. I loved her use of body movement, seriosly . Thank you for this video

[@rosco8708]

this type of "acting out" and allowing my "shadow" persona to proliferate was critical in understanding the anima psychosis that was undermining my true ego. i recommend it for everyone who is in therapy under professional care and i believe it to be harmless,practical and nourishing.

[@Javjean]

This video is such a good demonstration of how to do the basic reflecting and summarising techniques in a natural light, but half the comments are just kids rigorously applying the structures to what is supposed to be a non-intimidating, basic video about people and how to talk to them in a therapy session.

[@augustinetah1975]

Excellent paraphrasing, good body language, great response and really keen listener...perfect duo

[@tsjasmine28]

Wow this role play was really good, both participants were excellent.

[@skionen1781]

She's a master at capturing the essence of what he says in a much deeper fashion instead of repeating Word for Word like most other videos I've seen, and all her Subcommunications are on point.

[@66Freesia]

Very good session, counsellor is gentle and attentive. Paraphrasing is great, minimal encouragements and silence plus cool summarising.

[@skionen1781]

I agree with you.she's a master at reflective listening & reflecting the essence of his message

[@66Freesia]

Very good session!

[@crazyanimeloveable]

I have to do this for my study becoming a social worker great Non-Directive way of communicating not overruling the conversation or coming with suggestions or solutions I do have to say that we are taught to avoid the word ''Oke'' because it misses the empathy and its like ''oke well... next but otherwise great done!!

[@bennyummer]

wow, the "yeah, ok, alright" meter was off the charts! it would drive me up the wall to have a therapist that was so oblivious to her repetitive unconscious responses

[@Frederique41]

Well said

[@paddyk3748]

I also love how she is locked into him and not the the kids or wife. I find this hard at times, I find it hard to remember I'm counseling the person Infront of me

[@jasonmaravelias6692]

I agree! I just had a mock session today about a family situation.

[@markdouglas1601]

Its normal to try and solve the problem too, but all we can do is be mirrors

[@Xerazei17]

The main goal of the therapy is to make the client to be able to feel that the counselor he/she is talking to is genuine and empathic that is why the counselor here is repeating and paraphrasing the what her client is saying and to reach a point that the client would be able to realize what is wrong and solution about his/her concerns as the talk progress

[@mollymakawa7434]

Trephination17 b.

[@anthonyjoy1203]

person centred thearapy dianne5

[@andyakarudolfhessiansack7936]

Trouble is though.... Is she truly being empathetic, or just trying to do a good job and faking it.

[@redlady935]

5:22 is not congruency. There is a common misconception that being congruent is about expressing our feelings as a therapist whereas this is actually transparency. True congruence is the internal owning of our own feelings/thoughts as the therapist. Often expressing these can be harmful. Saying "Im very impressed" is offering CONDITIONAL REGARD. This can be damaging as is a CONDITION OF WORTH and prevents the client getting in touch with their ORGANISMIC VALUING PROCESS. (All from Carl Rogers writings)

[@SuperFaby27]

isn't it interesting at that point, he stopped having his arms closed and his demeanor was a lot less defensive

[@369jones6]

Excellent point. Making judgements on what is being said to you the helper is most definitely not unconditional positive regard, it's the opposite.

[@rozjeffries]

Completely agree!

[@memez4793]

But if i look at it from a strength/ empowerment perspective i feel that the counsellor is appraising him for his courage and is feeding this back to him so that he can realise it

[@AR-bv9hx]

Yes. I was also confused at this. Congruency is not something that is expressed to the client. It is within ones self. It's genuineness and being authentic.

[@StonefieldJim4]

This is helpful, but as I'm currently training in this field, I'm wondering about the approval and praise that could be read into the counsellor being 'impressed', as she puts it, and giving the client credit as a good parent. In my own training, it was brought to my attention that I had a tendency to do this myself - to praise and reassure, to, effectively, judge the client (I, for example, spoke to a client about what I took to be her courage in addressing certain issues). Like the counsellor here, I also told a client her outlook was 'balanced', and I was discouraged from doing so for the same reasons: that it's judgmental and puts my frame of reference before the client's. Any thoughts on this?

[@Jwcounseling]

I am also in a masters program and training, and I find it useful to praise in this session. To praise or reassure on positive aspects of your client doesn’t bother seem harmful to me.

[@hudajineyat5731]

The counsellor is doing very well. I only have one issue that I do not agree to paraphrase each response, statement, or concept the client makes.

[@ashimadutta780]

Could you please explain why?

[@hudajineyat5731]

Because, it seems she is talking more than the client especially first part of the session

[@DD-jm5ug]

That's person centred for you

[@CF-ei5oz]

I had the same thought. I think she was very competent. But in my approach to person centered, I don't mirror/paraphrase every statement but rather the main point after client makes a few statements.

[@TTbelis]

This therapy session is very educative great example

[@merryalijoski3720]

Thank you for this! It helped me understand this week's topic much more clearly.

[@ThePossumone]

Very good, helped me a lot. Notice she didn't take any notes at all, so will be completely relying on her memory once he has gone?

[@blackrainbow1100]

Pretty much! Unless she taped the session to transcribe later...

[@gabrielcarrasco8414]

@@blackrainbow1100 It's not likely. Normally you don't tape sessions, as it's a breach of confidentiality. Only in certain cases are sessions taped.

[@mikefoster5277]

The therapist may have made notes _after_ the session, which can then be reviewed prior to the next session beginning. It would otherwise be difficult to store all of the relevant information about each client in one's memory, especially if the therapist is seeing many clients during the course of the working week. There's also the added advantage of appearing more natural and less threatening to the client by not taking notes during the sessions themselves.

[@therapist_tlt]

This was a great example.

[@DD-jm5ug]

That was wonderful to watch

[@Jwcounseling]

I am a masters student and we have gone deep into Cbt, but I’m trying to see the main differences by watching this in it and person centered.

[@jman4241]

What was your conclusion ? In your opinion what are the main differences ?

[@elegantblue19]

Body language speaks volumes throughout the session

[@stephenmair5300]

Ok. I’m a NLP and HYPNOTHERAPY therapist. She is repeating back to him what he’s telling her. I believe the therapist should dig a whole lot deeper.

[@sajjansharma8717]

THE MAIRSY CONCEPT exactly

[@bigusdickus1024]

In person centred counselling, it is not the counsellors job to dig as this is a non-directive approach in counselling. She is doing well and everything a person centred counsellor should do. NLP is pseudoscience and hypnosis is still debatable

[@AR-bv9hx]

It's the client-centered (person-centered approach). "Digging" is not what a client=centered therapist does. That's the client's work actually. The client-centered therapist provides the environment for that to happen.

[@gabrielcarrasco8414]

This is person-centered therapy, which digging is not within the counselor's role. Person centered therapy is more about using less techniques not more.

[@Ladycake79]

Person centred therapy does not 'dig' its non directive

[@neoclassica2700]

PLEASE NOTE: THIS VIDEO IS EMBEDDED INTO THE AIPC'S WEBSITE... ACCORDINGLY, WHETHER IT IS FLAWED OR NOT IS IRRELEVANT HERE... IT MIGHT BE A 'FAIR' EXAMPLE, NOT A GOOD ONE, DELIBERATELY SO - FOR TRAINING PURPOSES :)

[@isoney]

I got a lot from this, but the sound quality is horrible. Any chance of posting this in a higher resolution or something?

[@outsky20051]

I am not a psychotherapist, and I have a question. It seems to me, by saying "yeah yeah" the therapist is trying to express constant acceptance, but is that empathy? Before I thought empathy means I feel the same way as the person I talk to. Thus, when I try to express empathy, I try to change my voice/body language with the person I talk to, and guess his/her emotions (for example, "that must be very exhausting".). After watching this video, I am curious about what is the right way to express empathy: express acceptance, or simulating the client's emotions? Thanks.

[@adellecraig9758]

minimal encourages.

[@PurpleBadger]

You can never feel the same as the client, they are coming from a completely different place. You won't have their experiences. I think the 'yeah, yeah' is about acceptance and showing him she is listening.

[@saraluis-sanchez4348]

I wouldn't say acceptance but moreso to show that she's following what he's saying.

[@elegantblue19]

By putting yourself in the clients frame of reference you are introducing empathy into the working relationship with your client. So other words feeling the clients emotions within yourself. Sad, happy , angry , confused etc

[@AR-bv9hx]

Empathy is "feeling with" someone. By her nodding shows her client that she understands what feelings he is having. Nodding is also an expression of active listening. It encourages further expression as well.

[@cyrilsimon9949]

the position of the chairs are too close and both their toe seem to touch each other...it not a great deal just to move the chair a bit , to provide a comfortable space.

[@heymisswalkerrr6428]

WOW WONDERFUL DISPLAY OF PERSON CENTERED

[@redlady935]

1:22 is not UPR. It's directive as its subtly encouraging him to feel ok about it by saying people often feel awkward but then can come to feel ok. UPR would be staying with his discomfort.

[@hayley1600]

Absolutely

[@strangetube82]

I get what you mean. what do you think would have been a better response?

[@blackrainbow1100]

Good point. I never thought of it that way!

[@ioanaiulia3116]

The pause she made when he said he is thinking to leave

[@chrissiepage9460]

Very informative,thank you 😀

[@chrisgeorgallis7746]

I would want more space, its not always comfortable to be so close. Give personal space.

[@SliszMeisterGeneral]

Would the counsellor at any point ask her client to find out if his wife is willing to come in or would she exclusively work with her client so he can solve the issue?

[@wendygalligan8984]

I saw another one where the counselor asked if she thought her husband would be the type of person who'd be willing to get some help himself, but then she moved on helping the actual client. That's probably something that would happen down the road for sure, but maybe not to focus on it right off the bat.

[@darrellwaters830]

Could virtual movie making be a way of helping to overcome something someone is going through, hopefully with as little as a possibility of just anyone knowing it, if anyone knowing it?

[@cp068]

Shouldn't the therapist have explored whether the mom was physically abusing the kids? Or did she and I missed it?

[@HailXenu]

What do you do if the client becomes frustrated with this approach?

[@herchallenge]

He kept saying that he is being abused by his wife, are we not supposed to breach confidentiality if we hear this? or at least explore this issue further as it can effect the kids too

[@amandaspence5379]

abuse can be verbal

[@wendygalligan8984]

I heard that word several times as well. Maybe if there were more time, she could ask him to expound on that.

[@esterpoppiandika5409]

I guess the client's wife was the one who needed therapy....

[@memez4793]

but usually they will refuse therapy...

[@mariaangelacostaleon394]

Não entendi, a terapeuta apenas espelhou a fala do cliente e ofereceu possível ajuda posterior?

[@guloguloguy]

What is the distinction between "counselling", and "therapy"?!.... What is the cost difference between these two ? What kinds of "counselling" is available?... How long does it take to complete the "counselling?... What is the focus/purpose of counselling?...What does "counselling cost?.... ...How effective is "counselling"?... How does a counselling client determine if they are getting good results from this "counselling". Are there any "risks" in engaging in "counselling"? What does the client get, after completing the "counselling" courses? (Is this like taking a course in "First-aid/CPR", or "Driver's education" training?!... What if the "counselling" doesn't seem to be effective, or useful/helpful to the client?....Are there any great "self-study/.self-help books that can be used, instead of these "one-on-one talking counselling sessions"?!...

[@jasminelyana6538]

Therapy is actually the technique we use during the counselling session. Counselling session its self about the client use the help of counselor to improve their life or cope with problems.

[@karenmitchell1970]

I totally agree with you. In telling him how good a job he did with his children was an assumption and judgement... both of which isn't part of PCT...I think this a very poor example of how counsellors in training or counsellors should be in creating that safe space.......

[@hayley1600]

Extremely poor example! I felt she directed the session and got in his way

[@mikefoster5277]

Fair point, but I think one has to allow for the fact that this was filmed in Australia, and they were therefore likely playing by 'Aussie rules'.

[@wolfiemedia]

5:30 "I guess I'm really impressed" hmmm your opinion isn't relevant and using it is against PCT principles.

[@luiscastaneda1626]

Is this royalty free?

[@darrellwaters830]

I thought role playing was acting out the situation as a drama with a person or group of people if necessary to overcome whatever it being councelled about to relive it better or vent frustration.

[@ianturnbow7011]

I had to watch this for SOAP notes for a master's course that I'm taking. While I had already watched this video twice in class previously, I did not expect to start violently throwing up at the 1:15 mark. And I don't just mean basic ass puking-I'm talking VIOLENTLY VOMITING IN THE LIBRARY! *Anyone else experience this?*

[@hayley1600]

Dreadful!

[@burlyaikee]

Is there a transcipt about this? I badly need one for our discussion in counseling. Thanks!

[@Usama200824]

+burlyaikee I have a transcript for this. If you are still interested let me know your email and I will send it to you.

[@msargeso7446]

+Usama200824 If it's possible for you to please send me a transcription of this I would find it really helpful, thank you.

[@Usama200824]

M Sargeso OK let me know your email.

[@SawingBatter]

do you possibly still have a transcipt of this?

[@Usama200824]

Patricia Taylor Yes I do still have the transcript. If you give me your email I can send it to you.

[@avenue4313]

some strange mirroring going on here though

[@Ladycake79]

That is a big part of person centred therapy

[@gaganxs]

in my view counsellor spoke quite a lot i.e. paraphrasing, little summaries and I think listening with silences would have been appropriate to begin with ..i understand she wants to convey congruence but still there will be time for this later

[@Cheximus]

This desperation not to seem like you're asking a question is what puts me off PCT. The first thing she says is a question, "So you're...?" but she asks it without the inflection. That's all it is...

[@meetalkenasser359]

it is really important and effective counseling Session. I really like.

[@sajjansharma8717]

I want to ask the job opportunities in Australia after studying one year of diploma of Counselling in Aipc Has anyone been able to score a job or been doing a private practice ?

[@IcexQueen19]

lol

[@blackrainbow1100]

I don't believe you would be able to get employment as a counsellor with a Diploma. In my experience, most employers require a bachelors degree for this.

[@amateurmeteorologist7365]

@@IcexQueen19 super helpful response, idiot

[@michael2700]

Hi i done my Diploma in Person Centred Counselling at CONEL some time back. I am looking for a copy of a paper called the'" final paper" it was a list of questions. can anybody help ?

[@teamgaskeun28_]

Inti poin² nya apa pak?

[@jeffengstrom5363]

I guess I just don't get it. It seemed as if she really didn't know what to tell him. Now, maybe that's the point. But it appeared as if all she was was a shoulder to cry on. That ain't something I'd want to pay for.

[@joysayshine2301]

That's why I hate personcentrd therspy . You feel limited and one dimensional as a therapist . I prefer the others CBT and psychodynamic. I regret studying this therapy for 2 years.

[@Connect_with_Yourself]

@@joysayshine2301 Are you a counsellor? I know its subjective, but would you recommend the profession?

[@charlottebruce979]

I'm training to be a counsellor I'm happy to be a shoulder to cry on!!. But it seems you missed the point of being a person centred counsellor, the aim is you come to your own conclusion and help yourself, the counsellor helps people to do this, with time and positive regard and empathy.

[@binky8501]

I know how he feels, I used to feel the same way, it get better with time, for me anyway

[@murraywells8357]

If she was listening to me in this situation I would get up and walk out before I fell asleep.

[@mariamistretta3860]

Well it could be like therphy if it's done right. All about expression.

[@kookyscribbler523]

I agree, great reflecting and paraphrasing!

[@rezkymaulana1122]

is there anyone who knows what is the point of this video ? what are they talking about ? i do need the explanation of this video, thanks

[@tomorrowsforecast1799]

read the description.

[@susammajoseph8209]

Hello are you watching subliminals

[@sobesednik4734]

If I had a parrot like that sitting in front of me, I'd be crawling up the wall in 10 min or less and never ever come back.

[@samquan578]

I was thinking the same thing!! It would just make me feel like she was doing nothing to help me at all.

[@gabrielcarrasco8414]

It's only one form of therapy. Maybe you're looking for more structure in your sessions, in which case person centered therapy isn't for you and that's fine. But Person Centered Therapy helps the client engage more in self talk, getting them to be the instrument of change in their own lives. The counselor is there to rephrase what you say to help you to change your own behavior. For some this type works, for others it doesn't and that is completely normal.

[@MrLimaGui]

m'okay ok m'alright

[@blackrainbow1100]

Yea, okay, okay, yeah

[@JonasKlara]

Brad?

[@teamgaskeun28_]

Alhamdulillah dapat di mengerti juga🤲🤲🥹🥹🥹

[@mrsclause8442]

Rapport!!!!!!! Open posture….. Uncross those legs as you have closed yourself to mirror your client. 🤷‍♀️

[@DCLsMusic]

It's heartbreaking how many people stay in unhealthy relationships because they think it will do good to their kids, but actually staying together means they just absorb all that tension and negativity... which is worse..

[@wendygalligan8984]

But it's also heartbreaking that people just walk away. I like that he's taking the first step to see if their family can be saved. Maybe on the other hand he makes a different decision, but you should at least try first.

[@DCLsMusic]

@@wendygalligan8984 I agree, try once, try twice... third time should be a sign to get out sort of speak.. and with some relationships you know if the issue is fixable or not... or at least the odds. My ex partner had ptsd and struggled with alcohol, never went to a therapist, he thought he could do it all himself and went through the usual cycles of "From now on I'm gonna be good" but within a month he was down the hole again... it's heartbreaking to watch but that's a sign you should be getting out, otherwise they'll drag you down with them... it might sound harsh but I think it's best to be careful with toxic relationships.

[@ash_li8034]

Uhm .... shouldn’t she be taking notes ?

[@Unsolicited_Freedom]

Too clinical

[@nikhilbabu6233]

Good nice

[@dontscrewwithgodschosen6692]

🧚🏻‍♂️🌌🦅

[@elina2310t]

She just basically repeats everything he says without giving advice. That's not helpful. A person who already knows what their problems are, they don't want to hear them all over again. That's triggering and causes anxiety.

[@imnotyouimsureofthat441]

Did you even read the description?

[@nikan4now]

She has lost attraction and respect for him.

[@simonemamo35]

how irratating is this form of therapy?.. its like hearing yourself on replay. very annoying. whats the outcome?

[@jrbowens]

+Simone Mamo Outcomes are based on 40% client strengths and resources, 30% counselor/client alliance, 15% hope of the client getting better, and 15% techniques of counseling properly utilized. We know that proper empathy and unconditional positive regard builds rapport, which is the foundation of alliance.

[@adellecraig9758]

This type of therapy empower the client to solve their own problems since they are self determining beings.

[@SawingBatter]

do you possibly have a source for that?

[@PurpleBadger]

It's amazing how much just having someone who listens to you and regards you with UPR can be.

[@joysayshine2301]

My exact feelings . I hate it. Very limited. Boring and repetitive. I regret studying it for 2 years as a therapist. Gosh

[@elina2310t]

It's so rude of him to call her a "stranger"! Even if she is, you don't say that directly to people. That's rude and belittling. I would've kicked him right out. He could've chosen to say "someone I don't quite know".

[@Cheximus]

She is a stranger! She's making some nice $$. Sensitive soul?

[@jasonsmith17]

She talks way too much

[@XXI1485]

i think Angelina needs therapy

[@niky9965]

Can't hear anything that he's saying. Thanks anyway.

[@thenewtowncryer]

Role playing psychotherapy is generally bogus and not a good enough representation of the process.

[@sensie_hello3550]

3:46 5:31

[@mike9913]

I'd like to nail this therapist.😅

[@RashadWalser]

Her hair is bothering me

[@traceywebb5368]

I found her to be extremely irritating with her "yeah, yeah.. Etc," the ENTIRE time. There are other attending responses she could have used. I couldn't even finish this video... Where's the " Hate" button?

[@karlmarion6969]

exactly. made it sound like some adult movie. lol

[@mariamanidaki-ganotis2104]

me too !!!!!!!!!!! please............. find another word

[@ianturnbow7011]

The "hate button" is in your mind. Hate everything. Hate everywhere. Hate all of the time.

[@M3Lucky]

I assume you're all non-Australian? This is acceptable dialect here, and I think appropriate.

[@kflett81]

Glad i'm not the only one that thought that

[@ROB7002]

Wow this was great but bloody boring as hell

[@dolgorsurenb5247]

The psychologist seems very irritating. Dislike

[@hayley1600]

Dislike too!!!!

[@AceDeclan]

Psychologists and counsellors are different. Shes a counsellor.

[@christopherjohnson-cu9nr]

What an absolute load of baloney! In what possible world is this "counselling"? Not only is talking to this dull woman a waste of time it can actually be counter-therapeutic.

[@sarahevans2020]

It is discomforting viewing a role play that is blaming a woman, 'who is crazy' with zero male accountability, and he is using "the kiddies" as the excuse. Domestic Violence is mainly perpetrated by men. So it is important, especially in training to demonstrate the actual scenarios that DV is serious for women's survival and safety. Showing a video that suggests DV by women to a man, is concerning. Our community is struggling with increasing violence and control of our women. Women continuously have to challenge old-fashioned attitudes of blaming women. (This video is no help to women) THE TRUE ISSUE IS THAT WOMEN NEED TO BE SEEN AS SOME WOMEN ARE NOT SAFE.

[@zixea3318]

please never ever go into the medical field if you genuinely have this much hatred toward a subset of people. I will be sending this to any bosses you have in the future if you continue to pursue the medical field.

[@drackondraven2151]

he said fortnite *take the L*

[@drackondraven2151]

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[@BambiOnIce19]

Can i just say that i find the therapist quite irritating, and not helping at all - just reflecting, reflecting, reflecting....i would find that style of councelling useless. I think if anything, people need to vent and need direction. She's not doing that at all. "It sounds like.... ", "Ok..." "I see...." I would walk out of that councelling session if someone was talking like that to me. It is almost patronising

[@Cheximus]

The whole point of PCT is to just let the client be heard and guide them to the solution of their problem. Without any input from yourself. The client has the solution to their problem, they just might not consciously know it or be aware.

[@MoralGovernment]

The way she says "yeah" is so annoying.

[@mrbilingual]

As a male, this spineless man does not deserve any sympathy or empathy. He should have put this woman in her place or called the cops to establish a record. He should leave if she does not change over a period of time, TAKING YOUR KIDS WITH YOU.

[@louiseneervoort5262]

Judgemental.

[@66Freesia]

***** We don't have bottomless vaginas and don't need 10 inch - stupid revelation :-)

[@mrbilingual]

66Freesia It is not a stupid revelation! Like most folk who come in at the bottom of a joke and react not knowing the top part. A wise guy who later deleted what he said made a reference to my size and genitals. I rebutted against him. Otherwise, this statement makes absolutely no sense by itself. At any rate, it is good to know that you do not have a bottomless vaginas.

[@therapist_tlt]

lol

[@joysayshine2301]

Spineless indeed. Person centred therapy. The worst. CBT would have been more directive n helpful for him.