Many Women are Simply Not Sexually Attracted to Genuinely Good Men

[@tamperd6342]

The black community reflects this too the extrem it’s why things are so bad likely to get worse

[@WhathehadasSole]

@@JesseVealIII it is amazing the cultural influence, bad or not, from black women on the rest of society. Got many non black women wanting to twerk

[@TG-dj2tx]

@@JesseVealIII according to who? What are the facts behind that statement. What reputable source confirms those numbers. I get what you’re implying but we have to stop pulling numbers out of our ass

[@Underratedcommentator]

@@TG-dj2tx he’s likely extrapolating from the single motherhood rate

[@zionz1164]

Not just black women are like this it can be all races of women

[@tamperd6342]

@@zionz1164 I agree I’m just black so I don’t speak for other community’s

[@everett894]

Nice guy / good man hack: Stop caring. Do not chase nor try to convince a woman in any way or aspect. Till this day women have not figured out how to deal with a man that takes his time getting attached to her regardless of how she looks. Simply because most men, especially “nice guys” are often trying to win her over or gain some sort of approval .

[@jermainrobinson5194]

Could not have said it better myself.

[@kwamd.1461]

Truth!!

[@ohmrdontplay6338]

Facts I dealt with some married cougars in my life , women would explain to me how good their man was and I would asked why would you cheat on a good man and they told me “he’s not masculine enough, he don’t dominate her, always kissing her ass, he lead with his money and she was not 100% sexually attracted to him but he had resources, he’s very respectful” etc. It really dawn on me that whatever a man do or say if a woman is not sexually attracted to you basically wasting your time. We all would be surprised how many women will take shit to the grave with them but if you know women true nature you wouldn’t worry as much, hell you can be the worst man on earth but if she’s sexually attracted to you, you can get away with murder like literally, open your eyes fellas and lead with your body game and not your wallet. You 💯 as always rom salute.

[@jackiechun5817]

The good looking(some thick too👀) white milfs and THICK BIG BOOTY 👀 black cougars ALWAYS married...and several of them have flirted/groped/hinted trying to get "too friendly" with me. I know how ALOT of white and black(especially black) hubbies are simps so I've dodged these married chicks like the plague. Don't wanna catch that case if one tried to run up.🖨️💯🧔🏾‍♂️

[@otman1500]

That's why those serial killers had groupies....

[@reesejohnson2788]

@@otman1500 That was so sickening….

[@blackhawk6695]

Total truth!!

[@TheCluesRNTheBlues]

You get it.

[@LifeHackMEDIATV]

TRUE STORY. I was just talking about this. Most Women aren't attracted to Good Men. Good Men are boring to most women. Women want drama and chaos. EMOTIONAL SPIKES! That's why you see women loving tv shows like the Kardashians, Real Housewife's of Atlanta/Miami, etc... THEY LOVE TOXICITY.. A genuine Good Man doesn't provide those HIGHS AND LOWS. Great video RW.

[@jwoods9659]

I remember like in church your taught to be a genuinely good man. And they lie and tell you that is what women want. Women want toxic a** men that sling d*ck. But really it's simple lead with sex period.

[@jackiechun5817]

Being handsome and stubbled out with stockyman game and some swag definitely helps as long as the vvoman isn't too intimidated around you)I get ALOT of those too...charge it to the game I guess). As long as I'm being charismatic and masculine I can get the link up then have my fun. After that, she can go watch all the Kardashians and hip hop 304's she wants...I'm not trying to wife em🤣.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@jackiechun5817 They haven't been "taxing" you for being handsome? Alot of the handsome guys are complaining that they are getting an extra hard time versus 10 years ago.

[@me-fv5xb]

I love when they lie about how they want a good guy but go for thr bad ones anyway. They probably do want to be treated bad

[@jwoods9659]

@@me-fv5xb naa the bad give them the best sex. SEC is the main key to keep a woman. They don't have to stay anymore they have their own money. This is all more simple To breaks it down. Women "freedom" in dating now in large part is they don't have to date me. They don't want to bang in exchange for resources.

[@FlavoredGenuine]

If I am considered “lame” because I don’t meet a particular woman’s standards, I see it as a blessing in disguise. Men who are genuinely good are the underdogs who are making something of themselves and improving their current situation so they can find a woman on their level.

[@kingr.a.4067]

@@thegreat9481 But at the same time, dysfunctional living has been encouraged way too much. How is such living positive? At the end of day, people are going to make their decisions but encouraging people to make detrimental decisions as if they're crash dummies is not cool in anyway.

[@kingr.a.4067]

Exactly. I wish more men would have this mindset because too many men listen to these low vibrational women and ruin their own lives for the chance to be getting sex from such females.

[@kingr.a.4067]

@@thegreat9481 Definitely. Every choice has a price and one must accept that price.

[@ajtaylor8750]

There's nothing wrong at all with being a good man, but it's much better to be good at being a man and part of that is knowing how to be sexually appealing to women. Im a guy with morals and values and I live my life with integrity, but I can also become Mr. Niagara Falls when needed because women go off who gets their juices flowing.

[@TrillBill]

💯

[@dennisrobinson8008]

It's not a problem. You NEED sexual attraction and you NEED to deal with females who VALUE you and are SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to you.

[@TrillBill]

@@jessebradford7130 💯💯

[@banderas2000]

i think that's the issue with "good men" they don't know how to turn on that faucet when it's needed. women like that tension. that sexual energy. grab that ass, spank it when she walks past you . i think alot of "good men" are passive when it's comes to expressing their desire. or not comfortable with it. so in turn the women aren't as into it.

[@ayalove6285]

@@banderas2000 "desirbale" men on the other hand seem obsessed with sexually inexperienced women who show no signs of sexuality. I know from experience

[@dragosavo]

Women are attracted to story lines that are magical, mysterious, even dangerous if you are such a complete package of positive virtues than there is no element of danger or unknown . If her imagination has no place to go with you than you are a book she has already read. Not intriguing. Men are much the opposite they don't want any unknowns. Aint gonna happen.

[@agm5424]

They crave the thrill and the unknown because their brains are naturaly desing that way to make them able to deal and communicate with children much easily, who are the ultimate embodiment of chaos, of the unknown; you do not know how a child will act and turn out so they always keep the would be mothers in their toes. However now a day most Wmn wait until their late thirties to have children and by that time they have already chased so many drama and bad/chaotic Mn for the thrill of it that they have become to addicted to it and thus are now unfit to be in a stable relationship with a stable Mn, much less be ready to be an adult to their own children.

[@sweetbitterness8337]

You are right, we are attracted to mysterious storylines. I love to read them myself but i do know the difference between a story/fantasy and the real world. I know what good for me and that isn’t a bad guy.

[@tdtellem]

And don't get the message confused guys.... Uncle Rom isn't saying that good nature men turn women off.... he's saying that those men are not focusing on developing their sexual attractiveness and that's why the women aren't coming to them. They're focused on everything but that part and it's putting them in the friend zone. They not getting chosen. Men can not leave out their sex appeal when trying to attract women. There's no getting around it.

[@kingk.2547]

Best comment

[@TrillBill]

@@kingk.2547 This needs to be pinned 💯

[@72SOLDVEGAS]

Absolutely! Thanks for saving me from typing what you said.

[@kingmaverick4499]

So answer me this, what if a good man is focusing on his looks but still good natured?

[@TrillBill]

​@@kingmaverick4499 You can improve your looks & sex appeal, without having to change the nature of your character. Who say's a Good Man can't be, or work to become a Good Bar?

[@GTPLAYBOY]

I will never be mad at women who don’t want good men. That’s fine by me - they’re not my type either 🤷🏽‍♂️that’s some mental ish on their part. Reality is, it all comes down to sex appeal, that’s the central point in all attraction. Great video as always Rom. 👊🏽

[@jackiechun5817]

Some of us "good men" are NOT doormats, are NOT yes-mam-beta-simp-chumps, DO HAVE SEX APPEAL, BUFFNESS, BROAD SHOULDERS, AND GOOD LOOKS. ALOT of Black vvomen in particular are just thug-obsessed and can't leave Mr "gang gang gang" alone. 🖨️💯🧔🏾‍♂️

[@MrMan-fx3ow]

How do you screen for this?

[@mistakook1616]

@@jackiechun5817 i agree are just lusting after that thug swag.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@jackiechun5817 Hey if she likes that she won't appreciate YOU

[@banderas2000]

@@jackiechun5817 lol facts. mr gang gang gang.

[@babyjesus1056]

People got it wrong. It’s not even that they’re not attracted to good guys. It’s more that 90% of good guys have no type of style , no backbone and aren’t masculine at all causing the relationship to be stale. There’s plenty of “good guys” that do their thing and get the women. You don’t have to be putting on a act to get women is all I’m saying.

[@banderas2000]

facts.

[@kikearellano8384]

Nah, if you are not her type genetically it doesn't matter if you have a backbone or you are masculine.

[@babyjesus1056]

@@kikearellano8384 that’s totally different from what I said. We’re speaking on attraction based on personality not looks. And even then that doesn’t matter. Get you a bag and any women of any race will give you a chance

[@kikearellano8384]

@@babyjesus1056 the problem is that men confuse having money with sexual attraction, of course you will get that woman but only because she sees you as an ATM or a provider for her lifestyle. Bro there's chads working at McDonald's who are broke all the time and have a harem of women why because they are genetically attracted to them, they don't have to put effort on anything or their personality could be lame too.

[@babyjesus1056]

@@kikearellano8384 it’s more then just being attractive. If you don’t have the personality or the money you’ll lose women pretty quickly. Looks just get you in the door nothing else. You have to have much more then a girl being attracted to you

[@Futurelawyer812]

If only women would simply say: “He doesn’t turn me on sexually.” Honesty would go a long way

[@keldel4363]

Actions speak louder than words. It's not necessary for them to say anything.

[@NicoAssaf]

@@keldel4363 Good point. Also, that would be a huge blow to the guy's ego, so the potential non-sexual benefits that she could get out of him would be lost (unless the guy has no self-respect, of course).

[@keldel4363]

@@NicoAssaf perhaps, but not sure concern for the man's ego is any part of the calculus as her own self interest or even confusion. Women are not always hip to their own motivations.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@keldel4363 You get that in the first few meetups.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@NicoAssaf It don't blow no ones ego that knows that all of them aren't for him.

[@scottmccrudden4187]

This video has definitely started something, one of your most commented on videos since the types of sex. One factor in this discussion is due to sexual repression in western culture, many subconsciously see sex at a bad thing, especially men who pride themselves on being nice guys feel they are being disrespectful or bad for being a sexual being, therefore many will focus on every other avenue but sex appeal.

[@the3rdpowerwave710]

It kind of makes sense when you think about it . If we all raced through competition as sperm to get to egg who knows what we had to do to beat other . I highly doubt being “nice or good” allowed us to beat all my siblings to get here.

[@MoltarTheGreat]

I like the path of acceptance of human nature, for both male and female, and doing what is best for yourself based on this knowledge rather than ruminating, lamenting, and obsessing over what simply is. All you can do is focus on yourself, live for yourself, and maintain a healthy sense of detachment.

[@toddmuhammad3827]

People attract who they are.

[@davedeluxe6196]

Your book Nice guys and players is by far the best book written on dating and relationships!! I recommend this to everyone. Very insightful. Thanks Rom!

[@RomWills]

Thanks for your support.

[@NateTheNoble]

Genuinely good men believe they can “negotiate” intimacy by trying to earn their way and this is why women are turned off or try to shack up with them before giving them any… If men with high standards and morals simply learn that primal functions (hunger, sex and survival needs) can’t be negotiated. They’ll be able to detect who’s really feeling them and who isn’t I hope men don’t use this as an excuse to be reckless though

[@rolltide2937]

Being a good man is critical to raising sound minded daughters who can see through the lies of unfaithful men. If you caught your son in law cheating on your daughter at the same hotel you are cheating on your wife at , you can’t get mad because she found a man just like her daddy!!!!! Live righteous guys and love your woman but you also have to keep your body up and your manhood 💪🏾 strong!!!!

[@Dru2maBoii]

Arousal is brought on by the presence of thrill. And most men, who are good, present security, and stability, which is the very opposite of thrill. Hence, why most relationships go cold, rather quickly. A woman's ever changing emotions, will always be the biggest threat to her own happiness. As a man you must first know this, and prepare to counteract it, in order to be successful.

[@JayStonez84]

A woman's ever changing emotions, will always be the biggest threat to her own happiness ‼️ That's the realest shit I've heard in this space. 💯

[@Dru2maBoii]

@@JayStonez84 it's the realist thing I've learned in my dealings with them. Once you do, you stop taking shit personal, and you can move accordingly.

[@keldel4363]

Correct. That's why u ALWAYS keep more than one.

[@Dru2maBoii]

@@keldel4363 I agree. It keeps you balanced, and away from taking desperate actions...

[@banderas2000]

It's true. "Keeping the magic alive" it's ongoing for life.

[@versatylepoetry]

Its hard to negotiate genuine desire... thats why all this men need to do this and that.... nope, either she wants you or she doesnt

[@the1and-only156]

that song by Anita Baker triggers in my mind w/ every title/vid u come out with, "If only you knew...." the value in your videos are abundant. See this is what I do it for. I know some men be like "dont improve for women improve for yourself," and yadda yadda but unless u want your bloodline to die with you YOUR GOING TO NEED TO PROCREATE WITH SOME WOMAN/WOMEN. And if you want a better catch you have to become a better catch. It doesn't stop at being genuine or good HELL it doesnt even start there, thats your character and your children, society, and family/friends will be happy that your genuine or good. BUT THESE ARE NOT PRIMARY FACTORS IN DATING. I WOULD GO SO FAR AS SAYING THEIR NOT EVEN SECONDARY. Us as men who want to date more women and date women of a certain quality or higher quality have to focus on the PRIMARY FACTORS in dating and secondary factors in long term relationships BUT! WE MUST KEEP THE MAIN THING THE MAIN THING. ALWAYS

[@RomWills]

💯💯💯

[@bigvince6965]

🎯🎯🎯

[@dsetgetatme]

That is the reason why you can have a woman and man who may look good together "ON PAPER"... but in real life wouldn't hit it off.

[@marlboropiked]

Good morning Brother Rom… this topic is very deep… at the end of the day most good guys desire a woman that’s sexually attracted to them.. as I think back to some of my relationships that didn’t last long or failed, most of it was because of being the “good” guy… I pursued those particular women so the blame is on me… However, I think when women chose good men, they’re choosing logically… which makes sense, but primal lust doesn’t make any sense lol… it’s there or it’s not… I think the issue is that some women think that either men can’t tell the difference between primal lust & gifted sex or that they can continue being in a marriage or relationship & not be truly fulfilled sexually.. Another thing is that women who choose like this will either under estimate their good mans ability to attract other women sexually or they try to control the dynamics of the relationship by quickly attaching themselves to good men via emotionally or though children… I think this is also why good men cheat or become frustrated with women… having these other attachments & finally realizing that their wives or girlfriends never truly sexually desired them… I also wanna add that this is why wives or girlfriends who cheat often times want to try & work things out more so than just split… they satisfy the urge but once the euphoria is over, they want the “good” guy foundation back..

[@RomWills]

Euphoria is a key word in all of this. I'll address it in a video tomorrow afternoon and give you a shout out.

[@marlboropiked]

@@RomWills thanks brother Rom

[@scproductions9878]

Brotha you said a lot WOW! Great! breakdown. I am currently a childless man in mid thirties and had issues with women that saw me as "good man" but my gut feeling was not all the way happy in how she was viewing me sexually tbh. Nevertheless, I stopped that train immediately because a woman like that tend to make rules for me as opposed to having primal lust in which she can't fathom why she very sexual with me. Thank you for your comment.

[@marlboropiked]

@@scproductions9878 no problem

[@bossman8413]

I understand that many women are this way, but I’ve learned there are genuinely good girls out there that won’t do you dirty and you can be your genuine self around. I used to put on this cold persona and it would get me a lot of pussy but never more than that. I’ve always wanted more and all it ever did was attract the wrong women into my life. Now that I’ve started being my authentic self I’m actually finding myself attracting fewer, but much higher quality women and I think for purple pill guys like myself this knowledge is very important. I understand this will get me hurt and cheated on, however I sincerely believe it will be worth it once I find a good woman that is right for me.

[@banderas2000]

how do the nice girls make you feel? are u sexually turned on by good girls? i do believe the same thing about women can be the same for men. not all of course but some. we want the nice good girl for wifey/ mother to our kids. but the freaky girl when we need that itch scratched and wifey is not as freaky, or w/e else.

[@v77scorpio41]

The answer to the western BW dilemma revolves around Programming. Pre-programming since 1970’s targeting black women to dismantle the nuclear family. Success. Blk women have been conditioned to dislike, disrespect , and disregard their fellow blk man. ALL content resorting to current dating should be targeting this topic further. DEEP PROGRAMMING MIND CONTROL.

[@Johnnie2g]

This is true. That's why pass port bros is a thing now

[@RomWills]

This in all cultures though. Where I live in predominantly white and these women cheat like crazy.

[@jonathanmcpherson102]

This issue is NOT in all cultures to the same degree it is in Black America. That’s what the passport Bros have discovered. I’m old enough to remember when it wasn’t this bad in Black America! Get your passport fellas, and get out of America. A lot of thugs and bad boys can’t follow cause they have felonies and owe child support, so no passport for them. The BW who want to be with good black men, will have to get a passport and follow us OR stay in Babylon with Pookie.

[@kingbizzle1357]

Exactly. Rom is right about female nature existing in all cultures but it much worst in the black community. At least in other cultures, women value their men more.

[@phillipcotton833]

In theory, I truly believe that overly - nice guys realize at some point that their demeanor/ vibe , etc is a deal breaker with most women. Not to get too deep about it, but dare I say....it's almost a spiritual awareness when a woman initially has inquisitive (lustful?) eyes for you,& in a short matter of time those same eyes veer off to the side as to disqualify the nice guy for any notions that he is a candidate for anything beyond the dreaded friend zone. Yes....I'm speaking on experience,& that experience , more than anything has led me to accept female nature for what it is. Thing is....you CAN'T emulate "Pookie" attributes if it isn't in your makeup, but in your most genuine version of yourself, you must maintain a masculine, SELF ASSURED frame who doesn't try to be "nice " as a means of gaining a woman's validation. It simply doesn't work.

[@brandonthomas75]

I think I’m a decent guy, and one of my biggest fears is being a clean up man for a woman who wasted her good years with the bad boys and douchebags. Good men should never stop being good men, but instead become more self serving. Focus on things that improve your life and make you happy. I think by virtue of that alone you’ll be more sexually appealing cause you got other things going on in your life.

[@codename513]

The cold hard truth Unc Rom. A lot of men don’t have that spark to turn a women on.

[@lutherjacob]

I question if any man is truly a good man. I believe the good guy simply likes to pretend we're not animals at heart. Societal culture is just a cover for who we really are anyways. So the nice guy lies to himself. He has all the rage, lust and other traits, he just pretends he doesn't, under the veil of being good and decent.

[@TrillBill]

You're not wrong for being skeptical, but it takes HELLA discipline to be a genuine Good Man, especially in today's climate. It's like playing Life on the hardest difficulty. In the end, we're still gonna need Good people tho, because when our society finally collapse, who are you gonna call to restore order?

[@topps19891]

Or maybe the good guy as no choice than to be the good guy because he isn't desired by women, 'beggers can't be choosers' sort of thing going on. If he had the traits women desired I doubt he had remain 'the good guy' and yes you get good guys that tend to be attractive like Will Smith for example but I had argue it's because they've low self-esteem/don't know their worth hence why Will be thinking Jada is the price.

[@noelxtr6960]

True

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@topps19891 And before Jada made him look bad and he had women on the side and his ex-wife like another wife could you have such a low view of him? Jada's bullshit was all a manipulation to degrade Will and make him look as low and pathetic as possible. In 2011 she said Will was a charming charismatic man that was a sexual dynamo would could fuck all day, they fucked everywhere and she was excited about her life with him. I think she blew him out in the last 3 years because she got tired of his side chicks and also being made to feel 2nd fiddle to his ex wife, some of his side chick choices probably were polar opposites as her and it pissed her off, ,anyways they say the entire relationship was a little bit bogus from jump because she chose him due to how much HE liked her and also he had alot of status.

[@TrillBill]

@@topps19891 We all have choices. There's plenty of good men out here who are successful with women.

[@leyland2725]

Character has never played any role in arousal. True. I knew the game was ruthless when a married woman who was supposedly happy fell for me and within a month or so of me hammering the P she suggested we elope , just leave the kids and the husband and just go. I totally refused , angering her and to make matters worse her man found out. If karma is real I'm screwed. Guy was a good guy ,provider and the woman a stay-at-home wifey. Female lust really needs to be discussed. And a lot of these women are already sex addicts because of the permissive culture.. thanks Rom.

[@RomWills]

Real talk. I've witnessed situations like the one you described since I was young.

[@ellisjackson3355]

Stay safe man

[@leyland2725]

@@RomWills it's crazy out here. It must be mentioned that I had absolutely no intention of crossing that line, even though I was attracted myself,, but it was the way she liked to dress that caused everything. Married women who dress like they're single are on a mission. And those leggings.....

[@jackiechun5817]

@Humble true, but make no mistake about it, there are some TRAINED lethal dudes out there who the "enraged husband" really better think twice about running up on...get his wig pushed back. For religious/moral/karma/frame reasons, I PERSONALLY DONT FW MARRIED BIRDS...I WILL split a mug dome if he get the wrong idea though no matter the reason. Being "big mad" doesn't mean the hubby is gonna survive the situation... tbh.🖨️💯🧔🏾‍♂️

[@sammiejones08]

Why would a married woman or a woman with a boyfriend try to cheat on her boyfriend or husband with me? Has happened to me alot.

[@yacobcastro]

It’s beyond primal…it’s universal, I call it the 4 second rule. It’s more powerful than gender, love, marriage, or status.

[@majesticw7668]

This chic I work with, got a man while she was 2 months pregnant with another mans baby. She said he's happy to take over and we moved in and he dropped me off at work today and babysits. Very odd. But your correct, some men have no issue with scenarios like that, and she was a 5 lol. 🤔

[@alexdemartine4758]

That's why men need to find purpose as AMS says. You find your purpose and hobbies you'll remain satisfied. Let the women seek you

[@kingbizzle1357]

Exactly. We are the prize.

[@abryepenez124]

It's best to be a real man to women and it will save you from headaches but being too much of a nice man will literally turn women off. The reality of being too much of a nice man ends up with disappointment and bitterness.

[@bakie9201]

Yeah, I had to be honest and come to terms with this myself. Still makes me a little salty, but I’m more or less done approaching them for a while. Not until I build myself up some more. I don’t have time to waste even faking being some evil nigga for hairy fish.

[@scproductions9878]

🤣🤣🤣 the last part had me Rollin!!

[@kingmaverick4499]

Lmao “evil nigga” 😂😂😂

[@ajtembo08]

Preach 💯 it's a cold game

[@AnthonyAdkins-8806.]

You a nice guy just hit the gym body game is the perfect equalizer.

[@P.I.M.P.720]

It's called Sexual freakquency ,which is why I go with the phflow 🤫

[@dayvonnedawkins580]

Yo Rom I kid you not I’ve talked to a couple of women & 3 of them said they like being beat . I guess it exudes sexual dominance?

[@kwamd.1461]

All facts Unc. It’s not about being a “good guy” or a “bad guy”, really. It’s all about sex appeal and/or sexual chemistry. I got tired of that “Pookie and Ray Ray” narrative because it seems like the guys that aren’t having their way are the only ones complaining about the Pookies and the Ray Ray’s. Guys who are having it their way aren’t complaining. However, this doesn’t mean they don’t deal with women’s BS too. That’s my take.

[@seven-qpitt2176]

I hear you brother Rom. I hear you. It’s like BGS has stated many times, there’s no affirmative action in dating. I repeat, there’s no affirmative action in dating. Dating and mating is a cruel and ruthless game. I get that. And I believe that a lot of men will also get that, begrudgingly. 🤷🏾‍♂️. A lot of men will or need to understand the challenges they will face in the mating and dating markets. And there are a lot of men that come into these spaces and complain about the mating strategies of women, like their lust for so called “pookies”. But at least you don’t see men attempting to politicize it. But the women do. Where as with the men, we are forced to learn to accept certain uncomfortable things about women that we may find atrocious, the women also see certain things about the men that they too might find atrocious, but they’ve labeled it oppressive to women. I can begrudgingly accept that women may not find a genuinely good brotha(such as myself 😎) sexually desirable, but will they accept that I will NEVER find the overweight bbw sexually attractive?! 🤣🤣🤣. Bruh…. We already know that answer. Hell no!!!! In comes the “body positivity movement“. See. They politicize. They’re going to attempt to socially, politically, and economically force feed us the fat. And if we don’t, they call it fat shaming. If my own group of women don’t find me attractive, I don’t get political. I go elsewhere. #sysbm. But even that comes under assault. Men, especially black men, exercising their options, is oppressive to these people. I must repeat. There’s no affirmative action in dating. 👍🏾👑

[@dennisrobinson8008]

"They" grouped me with Auston Hollaman, and his view of instead to eat these shit sandwhiches and go thru the bullshit and games instead to go to other cultures which still value man. They told me as a result i am "physically abusive" to women and they don't mind if women retaliate by attacking me and Auston physically. That we are violent towards women as a result of standing up for ourselves and finding more suitable solutions.

[@seven-qpitt2176]

@@dennisrobinson8008 well I don’t mind if y’all do whatcha gotta do to defend yourselves. 👍🏾

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@seven-qpitt2176 yea, proud of Austin, that dude is doing it at such a young age. God helps those who help themselves.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@seven-qpitt2176 Our special ladies REALLY did take up the "willie lynch" doctrines, it's crazy as hell. It's true!

[@dwighthayles1226]

This happens a lot. I think men can be the same too. That's why I think it's realistic to say that are likely to have to compromise somewhere in most cases.

[@Thefallengamer636]

I’m done trying to be a good brotha

[@MrMan-fx3ow]

What if you’re not actually trying and it’s just who you naturally are?

[@kingk.2547]

My ex have all my freaky text I sent and videos plus pics. She mentioned stuff I sent years ago. She refuse to delete them lol

[@jayslungsbloodclot2733]

Rom Wills is a master of the game Love from Morocco

[@horacegulleyjr3962]

Brilliant analysis as usual.

[@MikeJones-ne5ko]

YOUNG ROM WILLS ! man I love your house brother ...keep going keep pushing 💪 💯 I like how you put the book in audibook form makes it real easy for people who don't have time peace and blessings 🙏.

[@MoltenMetalGod7]

They can do their thing and I’m gon do mine. We’ll see who gets further.

[@Doriedejai]

Dark side user here 👋🏾 Some women don't even know what the dark side really looks like lol You can be at work, just trying to be professional and a chick/customer comes up wanting/expecting to see your dark side by looking at everything BUT the organ that's actually gonna show them who you are...you're eyes. Some are expecting you to use that energy during professional business hours. Who are they to you to even demand that? Don't get discouraged gentleman. Like Uncle Rom said, just keep improving. A lot of times, U.S. women just lack femininity and the art of seduction. They also lack awareness and emotional intelligence. That's why there's so much pressure on you. An emotionally intelligent, feminine woman will know what to look for, and if sees what she likes, she will try to seduce you into her life. Because she actually knows how to. Until then, Just keep doing you.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

Some "professionals" might NEVER show that at work! While others use a "high school" mindset and treat these corporations like high schools, and a similar thought and social process.

[@Doriedejai]

@@dennisrobinson8008 Exactly! That's why I tell women, "be who you are looking for". That energy is precious to me. I don't want just anyone having access to that. They don't realize it's a method to weed out the fake from the true who actually see you.

[@michaelharris7190]

I feel bad for some fellas, like really bad. I know some really good guys. Great father's, one friend who actually is a step dad to a boy he raised from a pup. They're gainfully employed, career men, loyal, supportive, funny, caring, great with finances, some even good cooks. Either had they're wife straight up leave em or cheat, or just plain not in to them. Then I know some other Brothas who be out here tear'n some ass up in the bedroom....them dudes only problem is they can't keep em away life unpredictable lmao.

[@raginald7mars408]

.. as a German Biologist... this is basic essential Biology. Survival of the Fittest... The warrior conquers what he aims for. Woman submits to the Conqueror. Simple

[@yahshuamuhammad2067]

Keep teaching Bro, keep them thinking...

[@TrillBill]

It's a tough conversation, but it definitely needs to be had. I like how you specified between Physical AND Sexually attraction. I have a question tho, since it's clear most women aren't turned on sexually by GOOD men, wouldn't that also apply to some of the 'Bad Boys' as well? I find it hard to believe that the 15% is occupied by just Bad Guys. 😅

[@RomWills]

I almost got into a fight with true thugs because they complained they couldn't get women. All pookies are not Select men.

[@TrillBill]

@@RomWills Thanks, Unc. Just needed some clarity. 💯

[@jackiechun5817]

@Rom Wills don't hurt em big Rom. You right though, I seen some thugs who THOUGHT I had "do many h*es" while I'm thinking the same thing about them...then saw 1 get rejected and go tf OFF on the chick who rejected him 🤣.

[@reesejohnson2788]

Well, I’m sure you’ve heard the stories about women getting ‘offensed’ against(keeping it clean) by guys that got rejected. Those are usually not normal/decent guys.

[@TrillBill]

@@reesejohnson2788 Ah

[@JayStonez84]

Smooth OG WILLS💯 KEEP PUSHING THAT HOT CONTENT TO THE MASSES

[@fitforfreelance]

Mans said "get some common sense" 🤣 good insights here

[@aaro9n236]

Facts on facts unc 💯💯. Had to learn this

[@tayfattz2272]

A lot of men don’t understand women because they are narcissistic in thought . That emotion that is in women is a great thing . Our society when it comes to masculine and feminine energy is not greatlyunderstood. A man gets more women when he understands himself and respect his feminine energy . Thanks Unc Rom .

[@ellisjackson3355]

Respect his feminine energy. Now I have learned that all men do have that little bit of feminine energy. But can you explain how men can respect it?

[@tayfattz2272]

@@ellisjackson3355 the first thing is understanding that you have it is the first part . Embracing it is the next part . Being comfortable in it is the final part .

[@kingbizzle1357]

@@tayfattz2272 How is a man suppose to acknowledge it without losing his masculine?

[@tayfattz2272]

@@kingbizzle1357 by seeking balance and understanding your feelings. Study the principles of both . For instance nurturing something is feminine energy. Supporting something is masculine energy. You have to support and nurture you dreams . Study the principles of the divine in both and apply them to your life . Also monitor your food and everyday products to see how the affect your hormones. I say we seek a 75 % masculine energy 25%feminine energy balance in our lives not 50/50 . The world at this point is too feminine. If you work on your energy and discipline. Your women that you attract will counterbalance you . It will work because she will be strong where you're weak and vice versa . Understand your emotions but don't let them stop you .

[@joebelman3481]

I feel like it’s all about what the focus is, if we’re going for sex of course they want/need the man to be attractive for them. If they value money they’ll want someone who can work with/for them financially. Some man can do all, therefore the alpha stereotype. That’s what I think is going on.

[@BandzMakeHerDance595]

The keyword in your statement is “feel” tell us what you know not what you feel

[@joebelman3481]

@@BandzMakeHerDance595 it’s a theory I have. The world isn’t black and white. Claiming I know is arrogance. A tought/epiphany. I don’t shelve a data chart

[@jessekirksey1980]

Women always say he's too good to be true

[@faixaazul69]

I like this channel! Will never forget the time I was rewarded for being a good man with a 1/4 second peck on the lips by a single mom. Major wake up moment for me!

[@GoddessYvonne3]

My boyfriend was killed in a car crash...I never recovered. I thought I did. I wanted to have a baby with him get married and my Mom liked him, too. I never married....Right💯 if I'm not attracted to him get out of my face

[@woah5985]

Goddess so you can't find anorher man like him?

[@ahgtrell]

She wants the challenge of winning you over. But She'll settle for you winning Her over.

[@merovingian688]

Just don’t be boring. That’s the #1 complaint. You must remember you’re not just competing with other men but everything else that gets her attention.

[@MGillDesign]

Can the woman be boring? What are her requirements?

[@merovingian688]

@@MGillDesign Yes. Maybe the guy likes boring chics.You have to ask her about requirements

[@MGillDesign]

​@@merovingian688 I just don't understand, many of the requirements women have (for men), requirements that they don't possess themselves. Like a boring girl, demands her mate not be boring??? What is that? Shouldn't she work on becoming exciting first, so she can attract an exciting mate? Or confidence? Women who aren't confident, demand a man be confident. It seems a woman is really looking for someone to hide her own insecurities. Me myself, I'm personally laid back, homebody, so I'm ok with a woman who is laid back. if I want to become outgoing, it is up to me to develop that part of myself, not demand it from my mate (or it be a deal breaker). Especially when that mate checks off a lot of other boxes. Men's requirements are more compatible/reasonable. If a man works out/in shape, he wants a woman in shape. If a man eats healthy, usually he wants a woman who eats healthy. These are reasonable. And for the things that most men are willing to "look the other way" on (such as, she doesn't have to be rich, she doesn't have to be popular), these are things that make it much easier for her to get the man. How many times do you hear women today say a man "doesn't have to..." fill in the blank? It's rare, they instead keep a laundry list of demands/requirements that a man "has to have." Yet women shame men about the weight/health requirements, when the man just wants compatibility (with his own lifestyle). Or preferring she be more natural (i.e. hair/body), when 'he" is natural. Now, where men and women differ biologically, that is something that men want to preserve (and not mess with), but things that can be changed either from birth or organically over time (lifestyle, health traits, non-biologicals), men's requirements are very reasonable/compatible. While many women shoot for an imaginary mate that is not only biologically different, but complete 180 in all facets of life.

[@merovingian688]

@@MGillDesign That’s the game. Even in nature. Males fighting over the females even in nature. You never watched National Geographic? You can be broke ass and ugly hell but if you get her attention she isn’t going anywhere. If it wasn’t the case every wealthy guy would have a harem of women and broke guys would be virgins.

[@MGillDesign]

@@merovingian688 You're talking more about hooking up. That "attention stuff" works usually when she's younger than 23, but after real life comes in, bills come in... just getting her attention isn't enough. I'm actually talking more about long term partner goals. Problem is, women want the guy they find most sexually attractive to be their long term partner. But usually he breaks her heart, doesn't want to commit, or doesn't have the financial resources she needs. So after her frustration with the sexually attractive guy, she seeks out the guy she deems as the leftovers (in her mind). Now mind you, many of these leftovers are quality men... hardworking, and usually represent 60-80% of the male population. But those men who she and other women consider "leftovers" have finally caught on, and aren't taking the bait anymore. So women are now upset, that their past has caught up with them, and there are consequences. They can blame the internet and social media for that.

[@itsjp3941]

You know a lot of your stuff I dread hearing because it’s the truth but this is what keeps me on my square and in my truth

[@yantastic2265]

Well said I agree much needed content

[@reesejohnson2788]

Great video, great topic. Fellas, try not to take things personally when it comes females. You guys have to understand that most females aren’t sexually attracted to men in general. Just have to find the place where the women treat you well.

[@mikelowery711]

So basically they settling? Because I’m 24 and I see a lot of women around my age with multiple kids.

[@reesejohnson2788]

@@mikelowery711 everyone settles one way or another. We’re only humans…

[@jackiechun5817]

Nah g, they just aren't sexually attracted to the bottom 80%(non select) of men.🖨️💯🧔🏾‍♂️

[@reesejohnson2788]

@@jackiechun5817 thanks for confirming what I said. Appreciate it

[@reese9637]

@@jackiechun5817 Facts it’s simple if she dnt think u a hood type dude or u not super funny or popular/famous/social media famous then she GOING to make u pay for a CHANCE to get her what they dnt kno is she dnt like yo axx she gon milk u til u leave her alone cuz she DNT WANT YO AXX Lol meanwhile pookie n ray ray runnin trains on her for free at 2 am on some sneaky deaky shxt

[@eystwood1988]

Great content Brother

[@xBlackHalo]

I haven’t watched the video but clicked it because of the title, because I think this is usually true.

[@greaterwisdom3495]

Rom you are a very sensible man😂🤣

[@therealdevo7894]

I know dudes think just because it’s a common occurrence in Western societies that it doesn’t happen elsewhere. I’m here to bring you back to reality so that you can realize women are the same everywhere. And this is the same guy who is pro-passport. I dated this African chick from the Ivory Coast. She was Muslim and a virgin. Really feminine, but got a bit of an ego due to American culture. Anyway, I remember when she was telling me about her previous relationship where she was dating her for 2-3 years. I asked her if she felt sad about the relationship ending. She said plainly, “no because i never loved him”. Trust and believe women from other societies want select men as well. They just aren’t as free to explore their sexual nature like Western women are. Overall, just accept things for what they are and find women see you as select.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@shawnhazel8208]

A lot of good men but they are ashamed of talking about the problem; the worse I acted the more women lust me

[@MrMan-fx3ow]

I don’t know what to do because my dad raised me to be a respectful, genuine, kind but strong man. I never saw him treat my mom bad and I grew up in a peaceful home. It’s not like he’s a pussy either. He’s extremely strong and firm, yet fair. Just thinking out loud and sharing my thoughts

[@shawnhazel8208]

@@MrMan-fx3ow - I agree with you my brother; I have always have respect for women, but we I stopped caring women responded differently. I think it was a case of them not being raised properly and showing me love from dysfunction attitude.

[@Doriedejai]

Don't. Sometimes, our issues are regional. Other areas wouldn't like that in a man. Don't let one region ruin you for all the wonderful ladies out there that'll want you.

[@mistakook1616]

yep thats true especially with young women.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

Worse in what way bro?

[@YoungScato]

Lol Unc got that Pimp music in the intro

[@RomWills]

It's jazz.

[@ashtonfrett2536]

Straight facts every time

[@KudziM01]

I have to admit. This is true. I have a girl who has a long distant relationship and she sees the guy like 2 to 4 times a year. Unfortunately im too good of a man but not simp tier. She just wasnt attracted to me. Nothing wrong that i did. You know. Its so heart breaking because why want a toxic relationship that can kill you. Like honestly and yes im on semen retention too.😒

[@jackiechun5817]

Always dropping 🔥 big ROM...🖨️💯🧔🏾‍♂️

[@sugarbear1225]

Sad but true my brother 💯

[@kcchildress2826]

Super accurate video!!!

[@ellisjackson3355]

Ah yes the truth lol

[@AI-pu6zv]

I’m 50 the truth is women need attention all the time And how can you do that when you have a job and other shit that needs to be done women get bored

[@dennisrobinson8008]

At 50 you haven't classified "types" of women?, all women aren't cons for example and all women aren't battle axes, all women aren't charmers, all women aren't hard working, etc, etc... There are different ones and they like different things.

[@jds2056]

I like this channels vibe. I hit the subscribe button

[@RomWills]

Welcome aboard.

[@wangtang12]

Here's the questions that has to be asked. Why is that only 15% to 30% of men are sexually appealing to women? Why does American culture not raise men or put a large emphasis on men to be sexually appealing to women in order to get women?

[@leyland2725]

That's the depressing part. Why is it that the majority is not wanted only the minority. Monogamy now makes sense why it was enforced otherwise isociety was never gonna get anywhere. The silver lining here is that no case is really hopeless and any man can build himself to be arousing. But gym is not child's play and charisma can't really be taught. Or can it?

[@the1and-only156]

its not american culture its nature. 15/30% of men didnt just start to be sexually appealing to women this has happened since the beginning of men and women procreating. Go to any country and area where there is women and men in a group and a small section of men will be overwhelmingly attractive to the women their. If it gives you an even clearer idea look at Rom's views/subscribers and look at a complainers(wont mention any names) views/subscribers. THEIR WILL ALWAYS BE MEN WHO GROW UP AND FIND THEMSELVES ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN, MEN WHO NEVER EVEN CONSIDER BEING MORE ATTRACTIVE TO WOMEN BC THEIR COMFORTABLE OR THEY SETTLE, AND MEN WHO TAKE ON THE CHALLENGE OF SELF DEVELOPMENT TO BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE. Its not up to America or any other country to make sure men are attractive to women. Its up to the men themselves if thats what they want.

[@wangtang12]

@@the1and-only156 I disagree. I believe it's more culture than nature. If men were raised to believe that they have to have a nice body rather being a good man things would be different. Once again the question is why does American culture not do that?

[@ellisjackson3355]

@@the1and-only156 it's like the bell curve. There's always gonna be outliers on either end, and then the average 60% in the middle. In this case, the women focus on the outliers on the bell curve that are sexually attractive. The uninformed are on the other end of the bell curve

[@cfamick]

I don't know. Maybe it's a biological imperative for mothers to think that women will be attracted to their own sons if they're "nice." Maybe fathers don't want to compete with their sons later in life.

[@antjaguar9]

Another thing they love to say he's not tall enough it gets me all the time 🤦🏿‍♂️💯 im 5'6

[@Shado965]

Yeah you could talk about it but they aint gonna change nothing. It is what it is

[@ridleys2034]

Hey Rom: By the way, that shirt looks very good on you. I already knew where you were going with this video topic. I immediately thought "s*x appeal" as well as "Mr. Goodbar." You make a very good point about the importance of discussing s*x appeal. If s*x appeal is the primary/primal aspect of attraction and it's basically ignored in favor of things that don't turn people on s*xually, then people are not going to put much (if any) emphasis on understanding and developing those s*xy qualities that will make them truly and innately attractive.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@chriss6945]

Rom, you’ve brought up an interesting point. I’m currently at 4:40. You said that if a woman voluntarily wants to have your baby, you’re hitting on a deeper level. In your opinion, does that go hand and hand with sexual attraction? Would you consider that to be the highest form of sexual attraction? I’ve dated women who have had casual hookups with men, but they would get grossed out at the thought of having their kid, and I have been told by those women they would be honored to have my kids. This is why I’m curious…

[@codename513]

If a woman want to carry your seed for several months considering the pain and changes, you really trigger her on a deep level.

[@JRed41]

Good question, but sexual attraction does not mean procreation. It's real when a woman wants a man for her pleasure. This is the man she will tolerate a lot from. Bro. Rom is right, if she ain't sexually attacted to you it's a waste of time. I believe the same is true with a man to be sexually attracted to the woman in his life. When a women is really attracted to you she'll do her best to entice you to be sexually attracted to her too.

[@StayFocus23]

Speaking Facts

[@marlobx7442]

This was deeper than the Ocean wow

[@MsJoyce31202]

I was wondering who was slamming doors in the background. 🤭

[@woah5985]

A ghost that doesn't like good guys

[@frederickhoward5598]

Indeed, just as she will call out to certain men😎✌🏾

[@Bigcdt80]

Brother rom! Been awhile how are you hope all is well my guy #salute

[@RomWills]

Doing great brother. How are you?

[@Bigcdt80]

@@RomWills everything is everything my brother work work work

[@dkid1495]

Another Convo that need to be had primal has nothing to do with good or bad ... Unless it's used otherwise

[@TrillBill]

Let's be real here, the powers that be don't wanna have a genuine conversations about this. SEX is a MULTI- Trillion dollar enterprise, and the truth may very well ruin that. Misery & Confusion makes money

[@theblkgod1]

Peace Unc. Why do you think sexual dynamics aren’t being talk enough although it’s an important factor in male female relationships? Thanks

[@RomWills]

It's the religious side if the culture we live in.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@RomWills The "Religious" in many cases are comfortable with marriages not having intercourse... When it goes completely against the book. They also go against the bible and promote female headship. It's a way for that group to have control over that man thru the woman. A pastor might say "listen to your wife", when she's pushing a view that is totally against him.

[@shanel624]

Netflix show s*x life perfectly illustrates this

[@thomasvogelsinger4007]

Body game all the way

[@Jdunn928]

Thank you good sir

[@BrandonVerse]

Yes this is true my og, but most women are damaged. I’m Redpill myself but the few good, un traumatized healthy women are not attracted to bad boys or party lifestyle boys. You attract what you are. When I was a party bad boy that treated them like sh** I got laid way more, but with lower quality women. Now I attract higher quality but get laid way less, it’s a trade off

[@RomWills]

A quality woman is better than 20 low level women.

[@sideshow00]

Yes, women who want to be treated bad deep down are plentiful nowadays. Can get laid easy by just getting your bodygame up and being a 'narcissist'. But 80% of these women are at best just damaged. Usually damaged and dont look the best.

[@banderas2000]

That's real

[@cavaliib1889]

Facts you can’t mimic raw sex appeal that is facts ‼️‼️‼️

[@sweetbitterness8337]

From what i have seen in the world, you are right. The most women do. I’m wired a bit different though, i do really like and go for the ‘nice, good guy’. I think it’s because I grew up with a narcissistic father who treated my mother bad. She’s like a 1950’s housewife but he doesn’t appreciate her. I’m allergic to cold, arrogant, rude and obnoxious men, it really doesn’t matter how good looking they might be. They’re rotten on the inside. It would be a shame if men started acting nasty just because they think ALL women like that. I like a man with warmth and that is kind, THAT is attractive. Personality over looks any day, for me at least. Good video!

[@dennisrobinson8008]

LOL, you don't want any of that cold, arrogant, rude and obnoxious ENERGY? You are mature enough to realize that what you will be consuming when dealing with them?

[@sweetbitterness8337]

@@dennisrobinson8008 what do you mean exactly? What will i be consuming? I don’t deal with them, not in relationship terms anyway.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@sweetbitterness8337 Communication with cold, low interest, devaluing and rude people is CONSUMING their energy. You should not communicate nor hang with someone who has such a low view of you.

[@sweetbitterness8337]

@@dennisrobinson8008 ooh ok. Thanks for explaining. Have a good day!

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@sweetbitterness8337 They will make you less than and reduce your self esteem even your looks will diminish.

[@iloveliljar]

You gained a loyal sub today u hard ash🔥 I'm going to try to put your messages in my music to start strengthening & educating the manasphire 🙏 We got this BOYZ STAY STRONG @stephiscold "Those Tables Always Turn Ma G 💪" We all gon get our day in the sun just wait. I Promise 💯 On God.

[@joefromdc]

As it relate to imprint, could we say it start at home first (father), than the type of men on TV second in the information age

[@RomWills]

It's more father and men in her immediate environment.