The Dark Side of Being Select

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[@StephIsColdG]

This is why I say don’t sleep with his wife because the simp in him will kill you. Nice game uncle rom 💯💯

[@Sombra_Azul_]

Simps don't kill people- alphas do. It take courage and intelligence to kill and(this is the key) GET AWAY WITH IT! Peace✌️

[@kwamenaplays5899]

F Sharp like you said, takes intelligence to get away. But any man can pull a trigger given ‘good enough’ reason. Consequences be damned.

[@Sombra_Azul_]

@@kwamenaplays5899 FACTS!

[@Sombra_Azul_]

@@allikdoolb3 Be careful out there homie...

[@kristiankolev3579]

@@Sombra_Azul_ I disagree with the courage, when the fuck load of hormones and anger hits you have the balls to kill a bear bare handed, but you won't if you are stoic enough, if you don't simp on that woman enough that you ruin your life over her.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

You pay a price. Whatever position you play in this game.

[@badddd]

Its like the drug game or the MOB

[@cameronchristopher3207]

I had a woman grab the steering wheel while I was driving 100 mph on the highway because she thought I was going to leave her for someone else. The car rolled 3 times and it was totaled. Somehow we made it out alive with no injuries. Yall need to be careful with these women. Be careful of what you wish for. All of these guys want a bunch of women until it's time to actually deal with them.

[@Motto_World_Wide_Mango_Lover]

Dam !

[@RomWills]

Stuff like that happens. That's why I tell men to focus on that one quality woman.

[@assaa5069]

Rom Wills Exactly

[@ellisjackson3355]

Good thing YOU'RE straight physically speaking. Fuck her. What kind if car was it?

[@badddd]

@J'Chris Lmfaoo he was gunnin it

[@supremevision631]

What’s funny is this applies even when your open with the women about being with multiple women.

[@jeffknowlton5200]

A guy will often take dislike to another guy and want him out of sight and out of mind for some unexplained reason. More often than we think it's a non select guy stewing with jealousy and envy toward a select guy.

[@supersaiyan8437]

Most of them aren’t mentally stable that’s the worse part discernment is your best friend

[@beaboutpeaceandpleasure9230]

Be picky. Yes? I have always been picky. I relate, but I'm very very very picky. Too valuable.

[@will_cashgrow2294]

Rom you’re the ONLY person on KZbin that EVER talked about the other side to having a lot of women. Nobody EVER talks about that part of the game they only talk about the fun side....there’s always two sides to a coin. They been through it too but ONLY talk to us (men) about one side

[@RomWills]

I gotta real with it. Part of the game is knowing what to avoid.

[@PPHDocumentaries]

One down side to being select is if you have a female manager or supervisor that likes you aint feeling her, she may try to sabotage you at the job, she might make your life a living hell or maybe even try to get you fired. If you work at a job that does not have fix hours she`ll give you low hours.

[@roystongibbs7189]

Been there brother. Didn't understand at the moment but looking back it was actually a blessing in disguise.

[@Iam5starc]

never let them know where u live....free game!

[@MiddyRules]

Can't have good without the bad.

[@knowledgeseeker4116]

So true about the jealous guys. The few women i had checking for me there was always this jealous guy onlooker that came into the picture. I let those girls go and kept it moving. Its not worth it no matter how long of a drought i have. Great topic Mr. Rom

[@spacelyman9482]

3:06-3:40 is very true nowadays. Rom, there is ALOT of women like this in the workforce. Sometimes they don't even know you and trying to start shit for NO REASON. You can tell alot of them are probably dealing with bad boys, thugs, or simply a relationship that is not good for them and they bring that to work or simply project their unhappiness onto innocent men.

[@kevinhayden9030]

Spacely Man way to true damnnnnnnnn

[@spacelyman9482]

@@kevinhayden9030 I'm glad to see other men can relate. Sometimes you have to pray that you don't have to be around women like this and they all hive minded and follow what each other do. That's how you know that men are the more logical gender because we all different, have our own opinions, and content in our being. Alot of women just follow materialistic shit and chase drama.

[@kevinhayden9030]

Spacely Man 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@spacelyman9482]

@@kevinhayden9030 Yup, it's crazy man.

[@RobsterCWell]

It there is a dark side to being select, imagine what you have to worry about if you are in the shadow world.

[@RomWills]

I can't even discuss that in public.

[@badddd]

"Older n*ggaz giving the me the game, nobody's untouchable, everybody's game" 💯💯💯

[@mar-cs7lx]

Yeah, It's crazy out here. I had one threatened to kill me after I was done messing with her

[@michaelnafari2032]

The side piece can be a whole lot more dangerous; only because, they convince themselves that there's no way you could be stepping out on them.

[@assaa5069]

All of these women got a crazy brother, cousin, uncle, male family member somewhere. No matter how boujee she is. When you mess with a lot boujee women you would know. Trust me if you know you are a crazy guy yourself, trust me she definitely has crazy male family that she is close too.

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@1Techdrawer]

That’s why I tell people I rather deal with rich stress then poor stress. Stress will always exist on either side , good and bad

[@Domino077]

Reminds me of the Martin Lawrence movie a thin line between love and hate. Ms Whitfield was crazy in that movie.

[@RomWills]

Perfect example.

[@will_cashgrow2294]

Where do you think they get that character from...🤔😆

[@dsetgetatme]

Devante Johnson I saw that movie.. Lynnfield's character was an older crazy woman too

[@bigmantok1]

There are pros and cons to every lifestyle I am so glad you are telling the dark side so people can know what their getting into. Too many times people sell you false hope and don't tell you the consequence of things and it leads to mistrust and resentment.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@mr.wright7803]

it's most definitely a gift and a curse.

[@Amdecreations.]

A lot don’t talk about the bad or dark side, they only talk about the good side, so a lot of guys assume it’s all good and want that lifestyle, reading the comments section I’m glad I don’t have drama except for one where I fell off and dodged a bullet...Now I’m back to working on my projects and me.

[@will_cashgrow2294]

This message is 1,000,000 percent REAL...no lies spoken. It’s fun to have a lot of women but it’s a lot that comes with it tho....and he speaking on it Now. I can’t push the like button enough on this.

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@GamerGee]

There’s a con for being select? Yeah I gotta hear this. I’m listening

[@LifeEntity]

4:56 that the main reason you let her leave you first, and honesty is the best policy. Repercussions will happen anyway you try to flip it

[@GamerGee]

9:18 damn. If chicks are hitting you up at work then you’re super select. I don’t even try the job thing cause that’s the perfect situation to lose a job.

[@RomWills]

Not necessarily super select. It's just proximity.

[@cammelsphotographytv152]

Man, you smart, no jokes, I can’t even work alone, let alone do a gig without being chased, having someone wanting attention. They don’t even care weather their man is standing right beside them or not. I even got a girls Fiancé jealous of me & he even put his hands on her for seeing us walk out a building together & now she still talking & hanging with me at work 🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️. It’s annoy man, everyday all day 😩

[@GamerGee]

Rom Wills I’ve been in both majority black and white environments. I knew I wasn’t select once I experienced both. I have some homeboys who smash their bosses and team leads and all. Now where he gets the ladies I can handle the actual real businesss problems.

[@dudleyred267]

Bro my problem is always with other guys acting real tough around me when they with their crush but the second I stare at them dead in their eyes when im talking to them they start stuttering, looking around nervously and just being fidgety. And bro, it’s not that serious you can keep your girl, it’s not my fault she like what she see.

[@alexanderstevens145]

Oh yeh been stalked by some guy over a girl before. And thats not even on the select front . I could only imagine what goes on. Seems like players keep it on a sportsmanship level and other guys that dont have game will take it to the death over a girl in some cases.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@superone5838]

Over a million copies sold certified Gold October 29 1971 the persuaders : it's a thin line between love and hate. The female you least expected, and the one you would never know who did it or sent somebody. The dark side has a heavy tax for playing and at some point that tax will be due and everybody pays if they play long enough.

[@GaryLamb2020]

5:15 Facts on having then think it's their idea... It's dangerous to believe you're not in danger dealing with these crazy people.

[@MsJoyce31202]

Y'all need to stop playing with people. That's what you get when you PLAY PEOPLE.. Its interesting how the select group can still play around.

[@FGAlele]

This Discussion is an INSTANT Classic. Thank you for Posting.

[@SPKLifestyle]

Rom is always dropping that raw game. 🔥🔥🔥

[@caseyreid3968]

Real talk Rom! I really needed to be reminded of this right about now. Thanks for doing this podcast bro.

[@spps1297]

Thanks I've watched a lot of videos on players recently but I wished they told the whole story that shit can be heaven or hell and the choice is not yours most of the time

[@MKULTRA_Victim_]

Lotta gems dropped in this one 💎

[@eteold]

I find being a Nice Guy is a great way to get rid of a woman. Or a "loser", I believe players should pay nice guys how to get RID of a woman! lol

[@RomWills]

That's actually a good idea. Trust me, there's a market.

[@eteold]

@@RomWills I believe it needs to be explored. I also heard Peoples video. Respect is paramount with women, their reputation is everything. Never snitch on them.

[@catman5218]

@@eteold that’s the truth

[@kelvinrice7872]

You're definitely on point fam! I can vouch to this even though I never had those issues but I knew multiple cats who did from relatives to people outside my family I knew. I can tell you a few stories about men who were select, what they've went through from busted out windows to slashed tires to barbecue sauce spilled all over their car, inside and out, that actually happened to my uncle, he nutted up on oh girl too fam! The darkside to this game is serious, no doubt about it because there's so much jealousy and emotions involved which can be very difficult to control when you're in your feelings and the moment. Everybody is not equipped for this game, they may think they are but they're not. So you really have to be mindful of the shit that comes along with this game when you're select and you're attracting multiple attractive women, especially when you decide to participate in this game! I even think about it myself when I decide to start dealing with women more, even though, I'm going for the top quality attractive women, I don't want to go overboard with it either, just have a few. The thing is when you start to attract multiple quality women, they're all very attractive, that can become a problem. It's definitely something to think about and be aware of, like you said fam which was a good point as well as true, for them to stick around, even quality ones, you still have to be looking out for them financially too where they'll be ok with it, as long as it's not too many women you're dealing with but you really have to have your shit together and be at a certain level financially, that's the only way that'll work, it'll definitely take communication and understanding with the women for them to cooperate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

There's good and bad sides to everything. I want men to know everything.

[@Kingreph3]

Top 3 rawest vids you ever put on KZbin!!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@projectivemotion]

Respect , Uncle Rom! For bringing us the dark side that no one talks about!

[@RomWills]

I gotta tell all sides.

[@illwill1691]

It doesn’t take rocket science to shoot a gun anybody can kill u out here with the pull of a trigger 💯

[@REDDPET]

Caine .... found out the hard way (menace to society)☝️

[@D_I_am]

This video was 🔥🌟. I think you mentioned it in a couple other videos: quality over quantity, and checking out these women properly. It also ties in with your message regarding sexual discipline. Thanks for sharing.

[@BIZ-WIZ]

I’m glad you you made this vid. I often look at Alpha male strategies vidz and just shake my head...dealing with women can be just a dangerous as going to Central America to buy dope. Unfortunately it’s a lot of late comers giving game to children and not giving them the lowdown.

[@BIZ-WIZ]

Actually ,its funny you left this comment-AMS just addressed how dangerous manipulating women can be in his latest video! I FUCKS with AMS, but the nigga told you he stopped being a lame only ten years ago , so that nigga ain’t the nigga he is to you he is to me. And I respect you calling me a cuck over the internet...

[@SmooveTV718]

Yea AMS is gonna get a brother caught up by the right one with all his games

[@selectorjahoutofjahfarisound]

I never thought I would relate to a youtube video more than this one.

[@xoacatl]

I'm glad you spoke on this Uncle Ron cuz it is a flip side to that lifestyle. As we flow from between select and non select most of us men have experience that type of behavior from women. Cars keyed windows busted getting approached on the job by her family or other men in the love triangle situation, calling my mom and dad talking about she's going to do bodily harm to herself and/or me...There was a situation at my job about a year ago in Memphis where one man came up to the job looking for a co- worker whom was having relations with his lady friend while he was out of town working. Before the truck came back in from delivery, someone called him and told him somebody is at the office waiting for him(before managers said to him to leave the lot) but he got out the truck at a gas station a couple of blocks from the job before it got to the office (good move!)

[@RomWills]

It's crucial out there.

[@ellisjackson3355]

My dad always tells me about one of his buddies who was a master mechanic for Jaguar. Built up his cars that he used to race. This man's crazy ass wife killed him over some bullshit. Smh. And then to your point on STDs, my buddy's friend almost caught AIDS from raw dogging a chick that had AIDS...crazy.

[@nekow1785]

Damn this is some heavy stuff..guess I gotta count my blessings being non-select.

[@artbunker]

Well there was this guy at work who was defiantly select. He had a crazy GF. Well one day he, I and two ladies were just going out for lunch. He wasn't fucking any of the girls that we were going to lunch with. He was actually being loyal to his crazy GF at the time. Long story short, we were out basically going over work shit and some of the changes going on at the office. We get back to work form lunch and his crazy GF is there , for some reason, just screaming and cursing him out for going out to lunch. She tried to fight the two women with us. Luck for her she didnt as the two women took TKD the IDF style. Anyway it was an embarrassment , she though he was cheating and felt that he was always sneaking around on her. The incident might have hurt his chances for promotion as well . He told me its not all roses to be desired by many women. I though his incident was an exception, but you have confirmed it was the rule. Man you select guys go through drama as well . My hats off to you'll

[@RomWills]

It's matter of being able to navigate through all of this.

[@Motto_World_Wide_Mango_Lover]

Excellent game !

[@TheMidnightMaroon]

Damn the wash your sheets got me. Appreciate this.

[@rahkeemthegreat360]

Great video

[@RomWills]

Thanks family.

[@londonmaths1557]

Y’all better be listening

[@andrechris6518]

🤣 M9! I see you famo✊🏾

[@londonmaths1557]

@@andrechris6518 😂😂😂 caught slipping

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom,people that are known for being select other people just don't know that all he'll breaks loose and you'll feel like every body and everything will go against you and being select you have to be able to keep yourself on top of everything you do and say now you tell me what's so good about being select I'll trade places with some of you for some of the stuff I experienced only God can judge me but most of our earthly people are here to keep you under their level so that they feel select.

[@taycal7076]

this is super true.

[@adrianthomas373]

I've had dudes "add me" on Facebook over they women🤦🏾‍♂️💆🏾‍♂️

[@RomWills]

Oh damn. They looking for a weakness.

[@user-bp2eg3tb9n]

@@RomWills 🎯🎯🎯

[@Mike20111]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro

[@hlphilpott]

If u up front about having multiple women you will be ok

[@lordkaos3676]

it’s like u forced to talk to these women even if u don’t want to. u get attention and i hate having attention no matter what it is that’s just me

[@lordkaos3676]

i had work one day and one lady lost her thought at seein me honestly i felt so warm inside cuz i never had that effect jus by standing there. i hit da genetic lottery

[@busyrand]

@@lordkaos3676 Indeed Brother... Sometimes you are exactly a woman's type and they are frozen in real-time. Men don't get compliments, so it's the closest thing you can get to an honest compliment on how attractive you are.

[@gregoryglass9040]

Rom you gave the real game big facts

[@devongivens9547]

Always wondered if you would ever do a video on select dudes who refuse to play the game

[@RomWills]

I think I did. Can't think of the title. I'll do another one.

[@bscott33]

After binge watching your videos this right here got me the most. If you could re-do this for 2022 I think it would be beneficial for the community. The dark side is for real for real.

[@RomWills]

Nothing has changed.

[@bscott33]

@@RomWills You ain’t never lied big bruh

[@cortezchevelle1272]

The good thing about being select is you can either play the game, or bid out of it.

[@RomWills]

That's the thing. A man needs options.

[@cortezchevelle1272]

@@RomWills The body game is so important. Most men are soft and emotional. Once a man gets his mind and body right, the most feminine woman will come to him.

[@pnice3666]

Shoutout to uncle rom 💯💯💯

[@christinabernat9681]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍And then there are the few (but even one is too many) women who will commit suicide or have a nervous breakdown over being played - who feels great over such a conquest on their bedpost?

[@RomWills]

That's another angle. No reasonable man should want that on his conscious.

[@christinabernat9681]

@@RomWills ❤

[@eriktarver2087]

Facts Rom 💯, sugar in the gas tank, car burned up and shot at twice. Ain't no joke man. The average guy don't understand and wouldn't believe the stories a selectman could tell. Definitely not what they think it is.

[@RomWills]

Yeah...taking the car to the shop to get new tires and the mechanic already knows why they were slashed.

[@eriktarver2087]

@@RomWills facts bro..!

[@AnthonyAdkins-8806.]

Contracts=Murder for hire that shit is dark as hell.

[@REDDPET]

Preach uncle Rom , I’m going through it 🗣

[@RomWills]

Keep your head on a swivel.

[@markflowers3985]

It's all in the game to me.

[@hustlebrave2006]

Real Talk Real Talk

[@SubwayFan83]

I guess I should be ok with being a non-select. I may not have as much women checking for me as the next man but hearing these stories?.... I'm ok with being at peace and away from the craziness. Lol

[@RomWills]

All you need is a few quality women to feel you.

[@SubwayFan83]

@@RomWills a few is alright with me, brotha.

[@Error-qm8ow]

Shit be dangerous 💯💯

[@adrianthomas373]

"Why are you sending nude pics to Pizza Hut???"

[@user-bp2eg3tb9n]

😂😂😂😂

[@emebookingz5933]

Fo real... this women got 3 kids an an a husband live 2gether an still stalking me 3 times per week.. but da sex was fire on fire .. I could hit it hours witout gettin boring(No mo though) .. ex stalking on my job.. other ex gettin beef wit my old ex .. my neighbour under me .. men at night she be krazie even cops had 2 come .. gettin jealous that am givin hardcore 2 another one in my crib.. an she even got a men.. unbelievable.. I am now really picky who am dealin wit .. It's gonna be a more BIG issue cuz they feel who I changed in da real me.. even my ex from my kids.. she be gettin loco when another chick is checkin me out.. shiiiizzz but ya am not gonna change fo no women.. Thnkz again coach .. This topic is really important 2 know PEace 🤙🏽

[@tjsmoove83]

great video ppreciate the game Rom

[@assaa5069]

The other side AKA the Darkside can be quite scary especially when you hang around select males and they tell you all the fuck up shit they have gone through.

[@RomWills]

It's some good times but some bad times as well.

[@bambam9315]

on point. two of my so called friends , who i thought was kewl straight up told me they had plans to set me up and ambush me cause a succubus they likedd was feeling my vibe. One of my best friends was killed by his lover. She came from a prominent family and got off without having to do any time.

[@RomWills]

That's crazy.

[@xskalibur]

Rom say make the side pieces go the corner and strip. 😂😂😂😂 That's real though.

[@RomWills]

Real talk. Women leave clues.

[@dr.jk9937]

Rom you are on point with a woman's people. In college I was messing over this fine sister and I don't know what I did this particular time. But she called her brothers and them dudes called me at school and cool and calm told me brother we are on our way down there if you don't make it right with, and then just leave her alone. Enough said 😂

[@RomWills]

At least they warned you. Some just run up on you.

[@dr.jk9937]

Good point.

[@redlionesv]

keep your head on a swivel gentlemen. Nothing is sweet out here P. S Mental health checks aren't as routine as obgyn appointments. The elder isnt lying

[@RomWills]

We need to take mental health more seriously.

[@redlionesv]

@@RomWills big time. A large majority of this stuff goes un-diagnosed / untreated. And prayer does not fix schizophrenia or bipolar disorder. ( from experience)

[@TheRealBlackula]

@@redlionesv 👏👏👏👏

[@RASTAGOOB]

Welp uncle Rom I'm glad my windows or tires didn't get slashed lol. im not deep in the game at all. approaching 30 next year

[@sameerforyou01]

Wisdom!

[@Bobby-hn3cu]

That black leather jacket looks cold 🥶 💪🏾💪🏾

[@johnstorm9071]

Thank you sir even though there were grammatical errors in my comment.I can't stand that shit.

[@adrianthomas373]

One out of four women are on some form of psychiatric drug

[@selfdiscipline296]

it's tough, im one of those select men

[@mycity2284]

Indeed.

[@mansamusa6724]

8:33 Every man whose dealt with multiple women at one time has had to park their cars in weird places🤣🤣

[@RomWills]

It is what it is.

[@trex0416]

Lots of insane women, this is why it’s a risky thing to mess with multiple women. I’ll just talk to like two chicks that’s about it lol.

[@marlobx7442]

Steve McNair was a select man smh R.I.P

[@BabyChris17]

Somebody call 911 shawtys chasing me with a golf club o woah

[@kingleo393]

I had a few women at work tell their girlfriends I was their man and I didn’t even know their names I’ve had other crazy things women done did that I can’t really speak on but yeah it’s real out here I cut the crazy ones off real quick 💯

[@gregoryglass9040]

I have witnessed that from an friend lol i so happy it didn't too me lol yes there is the bad part too i now send the younger black men too your channel here who are selected titans so you can help them lol these ladies got that good loving nocking the boots song lol

[@gregoryglass9040]

That is how mine fam is

[@spenserforhire9775]

Minute 5:00 was some emperor palpatine vibes. I suppose that game is on the patreon, fair play.

[@jasonroberts557]

Brother Rom, I have a suggestion. You should do a video on how to discern a woman's agenda when dealing with her and how to navigate thru that situation I think brothers would definitely benefit from that type of knowledge.

[@mr.pimpslapahoe7784]

Test them .

[@RomWills]

Great topic.

[@rollingtinfist]

Yup. I refused to sleep with crazy and she literally communicated to me screw you, by putting screws in my tires, two days straight.

[@RomWills]

Yeah I've had to hide my car around the corner.

[@badddd]

🐐

[@sniper11n.d.34]

When you are that good woman be like I wont talk to you but I will claim to anyone that you are mine. It's always interesting when women be like that around me.

[@OMGKRU]

Hey Rom. Ive been improving myself a lot with women and I'm starting to understand more and more that I am select. Ive been on 8 dates with women and hooked up with 5 of them. I ended keeping 2 of them which I'm still seeing and sometimes I would like to keep hunting for more as my search for the right woman grows. I never thought I would be the type of person to see more than 1 woman at a time and still dont know if I am. My question is will I become less emotionally attached to women the more I play with them? Will I ever be satisfied with just one quality woman when Ive been starting to see multiple women at the same time? Will being unfaithful to a woman make me less sensible to the woman I am cheating on? Will I just become heartless towards them? Will I lose the feeling of being in love and being monogamous? And what are the dark sides of being monogamous?

[@RomWills]

Let me think on that one.

[@OMGKRU]

@@RomWills thank you will be waiting for your insight and an answer! Appreciate you always responding. Also to a video thats over 2 years old. Been gaining a lot of knowledge over the content you put out here for free!

[@dantejames4607]

@@RomWills Uncle Rom did you ever respond to this in video form ? These were some valid questions and I think about these as well