Rose Vs. Golatt: Wife On The Side

Bella says she’s had enough of Kenneth keeping her and their relationship a secret. She suspects Kenneth may even have another family. She wants the truth today…no matter what! Kenneth says Bella is too demanding and controlling over his life. Will Judge Faith give the guidance this shattered couple needs to move forward?
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[@jamesgibson3716]

He said "not looking for anything serious", but then has UNPROTECTED sex and gets her pregnant....these ninjas are a trip..

[@TrinaBinaBaby]

Indeed…

[@wordplay6665]

Pregnant multiple times…

[@dpl4563]

Thats not what he said. He said he wasn't looking to rush into anything.

[@magicthirdeye9548]

Precisely…bc apparently creating life isn’t very serious 🧐

[@lethalong6868]

@@dpl4563 if he not looking nothing serious by the way he has his fiance and marry him and put a ring on her finger and trying to pregnant her and trying to marry her because at the same time if he's not looking nothing serious in the relationship he should never got a divorce he should never got married if you wanted to do his own thing I don't see why these men out there think it's okay to rush in a relationship you don't say he's not all that good looking and this young lady going to postpart depression you talk about he got one but at the same time he'll full of crap I don't understand what the word a man was saying because you just got a divorce hello and you decided if move on to a new woman and trying to get her pregnant and you not looking nothing serious man by

[@Kei_sey]

I'M confused on why the ex needs to stay 3 months when the kids are with him for the summer, he can't take care of them on his own. They too close for my comfort.

[@arethaanderson]

Thank U cam he be alone with his own kids 🤔

[@islandgirll2650]

Thank you! They are still involved.

[@lavidaloca2344]

And that's when she slept with her friend. He wasn't taking her calls, wouldn't even let her come over? Wth, who does that? She blind on purpose

[@cynthiaward4512]

So the ex doesn't work??

[@lisapavese8514]

Something very wrong there.

[@yahmadoss6860]

He doesn't want to hurt his Ex-wife and Children by admitting that he has a Fiance. That in itself speaks Volumes. He'll probably end up back with his Ex Anyway

[@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini]

I think he doesn't want trouble. Child support raise. Maybe visitation problems. Etc. but you should want your children to meet their stepmom

[@lethalong6868]

@@Hazel.Eyed.Gemini exactly guess what child support comment but his ex-wife going to take all the money from him because he didn't tell her about his new fiance and it's children he did not tell them about his fiance you know what I'm saying but at the same time if he doesn't want to hurt his ex-wife oh well that's too bad I think the ex-wife need to leave him alone because if you going over there where he was there he trying to get somebody to you like he was with his new fiance but the new fiance I'm glad she got that ring back to him and she did want to marry him but that man he ain't nothing but trouble all these men ain't nothing but trouble she should never get her body out to either one of these men you know what I'm saying I know we all women with all bad choices and Men you know we all made mistakes duh

[@smdincognito462]

Sounds like the divorce may have been his fault too.

[@Wrongyouare]

That's what you got out of this whole thing

[@dgaines6781]

Probably not even divorced. Sounds like he still married to me.

[@kenyak2959]

He’s full of shit. The wife could stay in an extended stay Airbnb. That’s soooo inappropriate. And I can’t come over?? Boy bye!!! He’s definitely keeping the door open for that ex! He’s playing right in her face.

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Yeah I would check his social media to see who he is claiming

[@smdincognito462]

Yes he is. If he has custody during the summer why is the ex wife spending the whole summer break with him?

[@charf9779]

Sound like them Poly situations… it don’t make sense

[@nonilovechild5524]

She got to move on because this situationships can have her questioning her self worth especially if she wants more. Better to be single.

[@lisapavese8514]

The ex can stay in Arkansas and enjoy her months of a little quiet!!

[@HA-qo9jx]

The defendant is sleeping with his ex wife. If he wasn't he wouldn't have taken the plaintiff back after she slept with the "preacher". He's also a gaslighter and very dishonest. I hate when men come on this show and call their wives or girlfriends insecure or crazy when they KNOW they're cheating! Pretty messed up.

[@kimaleycreese28]

Yes he is definitely still in a relationship with the ex wife. It doesn't matter what your ex wife or children think if you love a woman and want to marry her you will find a way to bridge that gap. There is no reason why he will not tell his ex wife or children that he is engaged.

[@bunnyexotic1385]

Agreed 1000% with you

[@Music-tf1yn]

I'm a young male and happy that I can chime in with the ladies in the comment section, perhaps even offer a different perspective. It is true that he could be cheating but there is no proof that he is so you can't accuse him of doing so. What about her she openly cheated on him? You guys are coming at him but making her take no accountability for her proven actions?

[@user-vf1zm1ee1l]

@@Music-tf1yn thank you they always trynna dodge accountability for they action they do

[@Music-tf1yn]

@@user-vf1zm1ee1l Right! I'm surprised they don't see how hypocritical they are! Crazy

[@rhardy00004]

This is so funny how this man kills me, skipping over the question of WHY DON'T YOUR EX WIFE AND KIDS even know your engaged. He still didn't answer it he went to talk about her relationship with "Pastor friend."

[@rochelleowens6501]

We never found out.😃😃

[@Black_and_Green]

He answered plenty of times..he said he doesn't trust her...and he was right!

[@DazetheMaze]

@@Black_and_Green Why are they even engaged if they don’t trust each other smh

[@jasonmorris4eva]

I understand the kids yes...but he doesn't need to tell his ex wife any of his business she doesn't need to know his business.

[@sandrarice4197]

He's deflecting!

[@oddchocolate964]

I dated a loser who after 4 years told me he wouldn't tell his ex wife about me he said "why would I do that, how does that benefit me?" It summed up our whole relationship, he was tooooooo selfish. Dumped him a month later, best decision ever

[@deejai1173]

Happy for you 💞

[@ChellyJ]

Period, you deserve BETTER

[@grassh0pper]

Except, I would someone like her either

[@nonilovechild5524]

@@kahledblackman318 If the sex was good they both won.

[@oddchocolate964]

@@kahledblackman318 uh....are you a kid who's never had a real relationship? I smashed too so I guess i won as well. Sexual pleasure can work both ways in case you didn't know

[@fiesha2937]

This the episode where they should have skyped the ex wife!!

[@ElaineLoyd]

He just opened up and rambled about nothing. Sounds like he living another life. His excuses made no sense. I wouldn't be surprised if he was still married to the ex

[@greenqueen2673]

Elaine Lloyd, I wouldn't be surprised if him and his ex remarried.

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

I'm getting this vibe. He's the kind of dude that you hear about on the news that has 5 wives in 5 diff states. Im getting serious DL polygamist vibes.

[@MultiSassy84]

@@OSMRDucksLIB Exactly or they're just separated and haven't divorced yet.I mean really think about it, he says that but how does she know they're not still legally married?? Has she seen the divorce papers. They could be separated and he moved out, yet they're still carrying on like a married couple to me.

[@mtnewt1]

Faith hit the nail on the head... he's not a preacher, he's a predator... I really with these people would quit disrespecting the title and responsibility of a preacher, using it like a badge to get into places they have no business in like her legs! 🙄 He'll have to answer for that, but so will everyone for their choices.

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

Don't worry The Most High said he will not be mocked. They are all going to be exposed.

[@Babyboy-bz8dg]

That's who she wants to be with that's why she gave the ring back . she wants the preacher

[@Nerift]

Naah she wanted the preacher... even the way she was talking about hin

[@andersonlowe5332]

No he isn't.. he is a man looking for some coochie and she was willing to gave it to him... preacher was just a ruse for bad behaviour on her part... no woman gives up coochie unless she wants to...

[@jamesgibson3716]

If she goes through marrying this fool, she deserves whatever she gets....It can't be that bad being single out here...

[@lizhamblin3551]

No need to ask any questions. It's blatantly obvious, no court needed to discuss it.

[@greenqueen2673]

James Gibson Yes, it's this bad out here, but you are right otherwise.

[@mogetit5999]

It’s pretty bad sir lol but being single is better than this 🗑 situationship

[@HomeVidEdd]

He should've broke her off when she cheated.

[@ariamarshall5161]

It is NOT!!!! I’m here to tell u, Bc I’m not about to play these kinds of games. && U are right a fool indeed.

[@34Nails]

Don’t need to marry him he clearly can’t get over his ex wife the ex has no business being that close to him that’s a double life.

[@greenqueen2673]

@@anna-kaygreen5957 Right! This is an undercover polygamous relationship.

[@HomeVidEdd]

And I wouldn't trust her either. Neither one fit for marriage.

[@EnubeeStyle]

Red flags 🚩🚩🚩

[@EnubeeStyle]

@@greenqueen2673 🤦‍♀️hmm

[@ColeJacob]

@@greenqueen2673 that is not a polygamous relationship. that is cheating. lmfao. i get what y'all are saying but people judge them as harshly as they do because people don't actually understand what they are

[@rileyhanes5089]

It takes two to make a thing go right. It takes two to make it out of sight. There's no way you can become one if everybody's doing their own thing.

[@smurf2288j]

Hit it! I wanna rock right now I'm Rob Base and I came to get down I'm not internationally known But I'm known to rock the microphone Because I get stoopid, I mean outrageous Stay away from me if you're contagious!! …. I see what you did lol. Definitely true in the lyrics and real life!

[@rileyhanes5089]

I was wondering if anyone was going to catch that. Lol.

[@rileyhanes5089]

@@smurf2288j yes lol. I was wondering if anyone was going to catch that. LOL.

[@fatbootybutasmallback]

He lost me at “I raise my kids thru facetime”

[@sophiaandre139]

I read your comment as he was saying it! I’m lost too

[@havilahvlyday4904]

💀💀💀

[@MsTaurus37]

Exactly, how you gone raise your kids through face time

[@FinDom1]

Poor choice of words but they live in different states

[@fatbootybutasmallback]

@@FinDom1 ns Sherlock.

[@theycallmebeautiful3041]

He's a clown. Tried to guilt her but he's carrying on with his ex wife.

[@lavidaloca2344]

Exactly, crazy right? Smh

[@lethalong6868]

@@lavidaloca2344 exactly he ain't all that cute I think Bella need to leave him alone because she going through some hard times and she knew he was like that he still had fun with his ex-wife I know it I got that good feeling he still got feelings for her he we don't care about his new fiance but I'm glad she broke it off the engagement ring with that fool he ain't nothing but no good two timen cheater

[@robertphillips2642]

No she's a Clown.

[@godschild5189]

This woman has all her answers by this guy's actions. He is showing her she is not his priority.

[@grassh0pper]

She's not trust worthy either

[@Novakane78]

Why aren't the women in the comments seeing that this woman is suspect therefore he is keeping down drama...she seems ro be problematic....he is handling this situation poorly I admit..but he isnt coming off suspect foreal....do you forget that his ex and his kids in some situations are not interchangeable?

[@grassh0pper]

@@Novakane78 yes, and it disturbs me. She let that f*cking pastor use her! I would not marry someone like her ever!

[@greenqueen2673]

He should have set clear boundaries with his ex. The fact that he didn't shows something is going on between them, and he's using his children as an excuse. He definitely needs time to work on resolving his feelings before he brings someone new into his life.

[@jamessutton8114]

Neither one has any sense of the word boundaries. Him with the ex& her with the “friend”.

[@loyaltylashes8976]

When the ex wife sees this episode 😳 🤣

[@justforme6076]

Cute... & the fiance broke it off. Not him. If ex wife still wants him she will drag him thru the mud & "punish" him but if they were not smashing or in an undercover relationship she will "forgive" him. At this point it appears she is gaining more with him than w/o him. $$, time & attention. Unless she has a side dude too. What you going to say about that Bob O?

[@BigCore-]

😂

[@debrastone2198]

I just love how he keeps turning everything around & making it all about her problems. I truly believe they should break this off.

[@JAYBOXPOWER1987]

Both of yall need to take accountability. Both of yall are being goofy outside the relationship. Yall too old for this! Dont pee on my leg and tell me it's raining! I'm not stupid!

[@MyWayWendy]

"Trust takes years to built, but can take a second to break"..

[@CLEFFJOE]

Alternatively trust is gained in drops & lost in buckets

[@CaptainMarvel1939]

Ooo. The judge missed the mark on this one. She is his rebound relationship. He hasn’t closed the door on his ex. She’s allowed to stay with him and he still keeps playing “family” with his ex. You can’t tell me those two aren’t smashing. He’s keeping the fiancée a secret in case “wifey” calls him back. She is allowing herself to be a secret rather than face the facts and leave. These two do not need to be married

[@sammijoenathan]

Yes! Yes! Right on point!

[@antoniosmith7797]

I think dude just not putting all his eggs in one basket especially when he seeing this woman actions right in front of him. She definitely a walking red flag. Based on what why was said he admitted the plan was to share the news traditionally in the beginning until other things derailed that. I know people going to say” but he kept sleeping with her” but yall forget, they still not yet married. I think he was invested until he saw games being played and excuses being made

[@BajanPana]

Can someone explain to me why he’s the one upset? She was literally in a “secret” relationship for two year with this dude. He was so worried about pleasing his ex wife instead of his fiancé.

[@lavidaloca2344]

Because he tried to flip the script Lol, she more wrong because she didn't leave him sooner.

[@cynthiaward4512]

How did the ex wife come down and stay so long..apparently she doesn't work

[@BajanPana]

@@cynthiaward4512 I bet he’s still providing financially for his ex wife. That why he’s so secretive about their “relationship.”

[@cynthiaward4512]

@@BajanPana You know you right about it 😅

[@lavidaloca2344]

@@BajanPana oh he providing alright 🍆 🍆 🍆

[@caliefgoode6379]

At the end of the day he is wrong for keeping their relationship a secret and she is wrong for cheating on him.

[@itsme3k]

He's still pining over the ex wife. More than likely sleeping together still.

[@wb3209]

So y’all gon act like she didn’t cheat on this man. 😩😩😩

[@34Nails]

She knew what that life coach intentions were play stupid games you win stupid prizes she’s insecure.

[@janellepilgrim3046]

Exactly correct!

[@tajaunasmith1322]

By the text message alone prove your point @Fairy Queen

[@Babyboy-bz8dg]

Hello somebody

[@sabrinahampton1356]

Exactly she has been fooling around with that demon for a while

[@purplepassion6789]

It don’t make sense because he’s lying. Girl, just go! If you stay, don’t cry later🙃

[@rhardy00004]

Right if a man can't claim u to his kids or his EX then that would definitely be a deal breaker for me. U got he out looking like a fool. Men only do what u allow.

[@lavidaloca2344]

He's clearly still with the ex wife. This lady just playing blind because how dare he say she ended the relationship by cheating but he was with the ex wife when she did so that really don't count as cheating unless they was both considered cheating

[@feeltheburnsalissaaj681]

I tell my girlfriends this all the time and I become mean 😑

[@MP-ch1hq]

He set himself up for failure. He never could explain why she had not met his ex-wife or his children. That made it real easy for her to feel comfortable cheating because his actions makes it seem like he was still married to his ex-wife. Doesn't make cheating the right thing for anybody to do, but I could see why the other party would cheat when they feel like they are being cheated on.

[@lavidaloca2344]

Yep, I agree. She should've been left smh. And technically she didn't cheat, this fool was with the ex wife, not taking her calls and wouldn't allow her to his house while the ex wife was in town? Mannnn

[@jamessutton8114]

Angel sweet- amen! This relationship was over before it began- in the end, they made the right choice.

[@vergilsdisciple3057]

Women always get off way too easy let it be him who had the side relationship and cheated then they would be at his neck. Wtf you doin talkin sexual to a pastor yk for a fact is married? How you claim to be a followr/child of GOD and do somethin that breaks as many commandments and practices as both of them did? Somethin wrong wit yall

[@lethalong6868]

@@lavidaloca2344 I don't understand why she want to be with a man that did not tell his children his ex-wife about her but after all this time he make yourself like it's all about him but she should men left him a long time ago I knew he had fun for his ex-wife that's why ex-wife keep coming back over there where he was at but I feel bad the new fiance she should laugh a long time ago I think that was her fault for being a man and going through divorce it did not tell his children and his ex-wife about her that's totally in love blow my word advice to her is stay away from him because he really don't care nobody but himself so he's not all that good looking so it's what is what he is I think he got them for his ex-wife I don't know what it is

[@lethalong6868]

@@vergilsdisciple3057 I really do feel bad for the new fiance she did not sign up for that you know what I'm saying but she knew that he had fun with his ex-wife but at the same time you didn't want to tell your ex-wife and your children about her you just want to keep all the dollar to keep her a secret you know what I'm saying he want to get mad because she do her own thing you know what I'm saying but don't get mad at the fiance because she moving on you want to feel all insecure about it cuz she meet up with somebody else but you guys think for your ex wife I don't understand

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

There will be no wedding, I’m not playing second to NO FEMALE!!! I’ll be chucking him the ✌🏾

[@leatherface4133]

The pastor, though??? That's dirty! Then she was egging the shit on with the dude like if she was having fun with it! Woman can be just as slimy as guys.

[@rhardy00004]

She is justified for the Pastor friend because he's hasn't claimed her from day one, so if he isn't taken it seriously then why would she take him seriously

[@jamesgibson3716]

It's plenty of so called "pastors" out there like that clown. Wolves in sheep's clothing.. she should have been smarter though.

[@thessenceofconstance]

@@jamesgibson3716 exactly but also pastors can date also.

[@toniegordon2738]

It's funny how they all skipped over tht part lol "she's justified" tho 😂🤣 delusional.

[@justforme6076]

@@thessenceofconstance this pastor was married so huge NO.

[@lizhamblin3551]

He mad when she cheated later on, but he's been cheating the whole time... The nerve.

[@Novakane78]

Speculative at best...she admitted to an affair...he hasn't...its a good chance he just has an ex that is strapped for cash and he let her stay at his home with their children..sometimes men HAVE to provide past child support

[@richierich8905]

Yet no proof and a bunch of woman in her don’t got shit to say about her fault.

[@nelfar213000]

Also something many haven't considered many ex-wives and BM enjoy the power dynamic they have when going their separate ways. Some not all like continue to extract resources from exes while using the children as leverage. I was in a similar situation after my divorce, luckily I had the financial resources to essentially tell her to fly a kite. Unfortunately many men don't find themselves in this position with having the resources to fight the system.

[@lakeofalltrades]

All of this unprotected sex and secrecy is blowing me 🙄

[@justforme6076]

She slept with him & goofy "pastor" both without protected sex. She just had another young baby by another man before the fiance so prior unprotected sex. Why?? Making yourself available for diseases & pregnancies? Especially since you said you had post partum depression with your young baby & again with this miscarried baby. Then fiance having unprotected sex with someone he wanted to be casual with & not serious but became e gaged BECAUSE she was pregnant. Clearly he is not over his ex. Goofy very married pastor having unprotected sex with her while he" life coaching" . Make it make sense. Just why??? Are grown people really this stupid???

[@juanl5231]

Exactly too many STDs out here ppl, way too many.

[@ranikarob281]

She admitted her faults, but this man clearly doesn't think he did anything wrong. He's not ready for any kind of relationship. In fact, he chose this woman because she was broken & in depression in order to still carry on with his ex wife.

[@Lincolnberries]

So she did nothing wrong? He obviously made the right choice not to introduce her to his family.

[@cedricbost4478]

Rats don’t get to meet the family his only error was proposing to the cheating widerbeast who smiled while describing the person she cheated with.

[@richierich8905]

Get the hell outta here! He clearly said she starts to much drama! Why would I want to tell anyone about someone who makes remarks while I’m on the phone with my kids!?? She clearly the type! She was smiling that she cheated on her, “suppose to be husband.” Even might of had a baby by the other dude! Just stop!

[@Lincolnberries]

@@richierich8905 Thank you! These women be thinking they can talk and rationalize theirselves out of anything. This woman is for the streets.

[@marcusblack8768]

Yea she admitted it but how you want to be mad sleeping with a marry man please make it make sense what happened if he would of show her to his ex and she still would of cheated and everything you can see it how her face no remorse are nothing

[@Tree372000]

I saw red flags on both sides it's over just go y'all seperate ways

[@KrysBrown89]

This was MESSY on both ends!!! He clearly has something going on with his “ex” wife. I’ve never heard of a divorced spouse staying with the kids when they go to the other parents for months. She’s messing with a married “pastor” and smiling talking about him. They deserve each other. 🤣😭

[@putitinder4595]

She kept smilin every time ole boy was mentioned

[@capcitymediagroup831]

Big facts she still want that man

[@tasbar7743]

He keeps getting off the subject

[@queeenpeechez]

That is intentional. It is a narcissist using a narcissistic tactic called deflecting

[@dgaines6781]

I think Divorce Court needs a "jury section" in some cases, cause sometimes things aren't addressed. Like, how he never really answered the question of why his ex and children didn't know about her. And, why his ex needed to stay for 3 months for his time with the kids.

[@rebelhenz]

It’s the beautiful melanin for me. Stay strong and know your worth ladies and gents. Good episode. as per usual…. 👏🏾😎

[@vergilsdisciple3057]

Cheatin wit married pastors? Bein sexual with men of GOD who have wives? Nobody with any worth does that, Thats disgusting

[@rebelhenz]

@@vergilsdisciple3057 agreed I was only complimenting their beautiful individually. That’s why I said know ur worth periodt. You obviously misconstrued my words.

[@tmacjman1]

he simpin over his ex and she for the streetz omg 😲 😭

[@toyamerriweather662]

Run Bella please, he is still with his ex-wife. Whether he admits it or not. This is not acceptable....Disrespectful on so many levels. Excuses after excuses

[@HomeVidEdd]

He needs to run too.

[@FalaqX]

Where is she gonna go? She is like 300lbs, nobody wants her

[@lethalong6868]

@toya Merriwether exactly

[@ramonepopskull9250]

He should run 🏃‍♂️... talking about pregnant again with a possibility it could've been for the preacher

[@melanatedaboriginal4752]

That Pastor friend didn't take advantage of her at all she wanted exactly what the pastor friend gave her. She became Pregnant again & then on Divorce court she now tells Her fiancee, Smh!

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

Exactly

[@richardthekingransom]

Yeah, I honestly don’t think he should get back with that chick, cut it off… she seems like the vindictive type, making excuses or finding reasons for her poor choice making, then being sneaky about it, forget being “friends” with her, just cut her off, be single for a while then try again with someone else.

[@charleslee1644]

SHE IS NOT GOING TO STOP WITH THE PASTOR

[@lotusgsxr750]

Have boundaries before you get into a relationship. Feelings shouldn't change them.

[@brishaberries0101]

Like using protection not getting pregnant early on, then building relationship from there.

[@brishaberries0101]

He also needs to have some boundaries between himself and his ex-wife. It seems he wants her back. You can keep your children in the summer, without thier mom staying there too for the summer.

[@lotusgsxr750]

@@brishaberries0101 exactly! And allowing the Pastor predator... And staying when his kids and ex continued not to know about you... could have a whole sibling and not known nothing about it.

[@simplyme2810]

He was on Steve Harvey’s Judge show. He was suing his ex girlfriend over catering services she provided.

[@kaylaj.3743]

I knew he looked familiar

[@wendybostic8297]

I was hoping someone else recognized him from Steve's Harvey's show. I guess this dude is on tour..lol!

[@juanl5231]

I think he is making up relationships at this point. He wanna get to Tyler Perry Studios to audition. fr fr

[@meghanwilliams4295]

VERY MESSY.

[@LeAnnWatson1378]

So it ended without him owning his part or explaining why he's hiding her.

[@goldiepatton8248]

She at fault tho for letting him in

[@mrkimaliep]

That man should never contact this lady again

[@jasonmorris4eva]

I understand the kids yes...but...why would the ex wife need to know...why would he need to tell his ex wife....they're no longer together so it's none of her business....I personally wouldn't see the need to tell my ex wife about my new fiancé or any new relationship I might be in...and I certainly wouldn't care about hers either.

[@justforme6076]

It's called courtesy. Ig you have a civil mature relationship out of respect you could let her knew. A toxic relationship is an entire other issue.

[@rexluther8412]

She using post partum as an excuse to leave and become a preachers wife .. Smh he deserves better.

[@jahneastanfield2662]

They both are playing games! "Play stupid games; win stupid prizes!" Enjoy! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 #Unrequited Love

[@justtracy7175]

This Brother hasn’t gotten over his divorce. Get counseling don’t date, seek your healing, continue to be there for your children. As long as he has children with his ex He will always be connected, but there are boundaries

[@darrellwilliams9850]

Damm she fell for the okey-doke. And he’s a snake in the grass

[@christiandilday7543]

Hey everyone stay blessed 🙌 😇 🙏

[@niece585]

See to you

[@putitinder4595]

I'm sorry Mr. Golat is FIIINE LOL

[@shaunteebrewington2946]

He was on Steve Harvey's court show.. Something is up with this dude..

[@kenyak2959]

With who??? About what??? 😳😳😳😳

[@shaunteebrewington2946]

@@kenyak2959 kzbin.info/www/bejne/rIbMgaeQfdF-psk

[@simplyme2810]

Yes he was. I just posted it.

[@cookiecook9026]

She gotta b wife stay months nobody kno about you don't sound right to me

[@jeromed.2505]

"I need a break" = "I'm gonna buss it open in the streets and get back with you when I'm done" She set him up with the pregnancy surprise. Get a DNA test bruh!

[@TimashaBernice]

She lost the twice baby too

[@marissabraithwaite6425]

DNA on what ?

[@nickylnr]

Aht aht...I was engaged once. The ex didn't know me and I didn't know her. I was concerned if we are engaged to be married and your child is in my care daily why can't I meet his mother? Yeah...found out he was lying about numerous things and I left because something wasn't right

[@shevaunbryant8554]

Hold on, y’all going hard on the man but she proudly slept with a married man. I understand why he doesn’t want her around his kids, she has 0 morals

[@ObjectivelyBias]

It blows my mind the number of people who are saying that he is a bad person and not her.

[@putitinder4595]

Ikr he seemed hella decent..

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

True

[@LemonStank]

Not sure if we watched the same episode. His fiance can't come over while the ex is in the house. Can't even go inside the house while she's there. Ex stays for months. He bought the ex a cell phone and pays the bill. Where. They. Do. That. At?

[@xxjonnyblazexx]

Disappointed in the judge removing accountability from the woman and placing it on the pastor by calling him a predator. She was entertaining it, and giving it up with no struggle. The gentleman was right for not introducing her to his kids, how or why after she’s committing infidelities

[@richierich8905]

@Twilight Faze would you want to let your kids know when she’s making remarks when your on the phone with your kids!???

[@zulu3274]

😁 OMG... Please tell me y'all NOT buying this EMOTIONALLY VULNERABLE/ PSTD excuse... That genuinely discredits people who TRULY suffer with those conditions... She wanted to cheat for a long time then finally found somebody she was comfortable doing it with... On top of that she said she didn't know whose baby that was that she miscarried.... But SOMEHOW the man is the villain...? 😐 If a woman is willing to sleep with someone else YET she stops sleeping with you but STILL wants you to marry her......SHE FOR THE STREETS !!! 💯 🙄 I LIKE YOUR CUTE SELF BUT I'M KINDA DISAPPOINTED IN YOU ON THIS ONE JUDGE FAITH...lol

[@antaneshiamoore1547]

Yes 😂

[@zulu3274]

@@antaneshiamoore1547 😅 crazy in these streets... He not perfect either but it just seems like everybody breezing by all of that terrible stuff she did.... lol

[@antaneshiamoore1547]

@@zulu3274 both terrible 🤣

[@34Nails]

Wow so here it is she’s accusing him of cheating when she had a baby in her stomach if she didn’t sleep with someone that shouldn’t be no question💯

[@mzluvsexy9846]

the woman is petty that's why he didnt tell his kids about her i see postpartum didnt stop her from spreading her legs

[@charleslee1644]

FIRST SHE SAID SHE HAD PROTECTED SEX WITH THE PASTOR THEN SAID EITHER ONE COULD HAVE BEEN THE DAD

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

The woman is ridiculous. Why are women supporting her and acting like she is the victim. She slept with a MARRIED MAN and not taking responsibility for her nasty behaviour. Why are you all supporting her when she was not supporting his wife. She knew what she was doing. She is NO VICTIM. STOP MAKING EXCUSES. She will not make a good wife because when times are hard she will run into the arms of a married man.

[@julika1984]

He did not take advantage of her if she agreed and had sex. He did take advantage of her feelings yes. But i love how the judge try to put it a nicer way.

[@capcitymediagroup831]

These comments are crazy their both wrong ....nobody holding her accountable for sleeping with a married preacher multiple times while in a relationship to the point of not knowing who you were pregnant by? I'm not saying dude is right in his actions but blaming dude like everything is his fault is crazy.....she clearly wants the preacher just the mention of him puts a Kool aid smile on her face....she chose to break that engagement off to be with dude

[@BigAce3000]

Both definitely have their issues but the lady came into court as if she had clean hands where in fact her ass was playing in mud without gloves on. When brother said at the very end "you can't cheat your way out of ....." that heffa rolled her eyes

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

You will find that not many women expecially will agree with you but I do.

[@BigAce3000]

@@Renrens-LionessofJudah although they have a right to their opinion, clearly they cannot ignore the obvious if they watch this case sober.

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

@@BigAce3000 I see alot of double standards, overlooking and down playing her role. The judge did not even hold her accountable and she just role with it. Sisters were busy defending her and no one considered the wife. Like I said she would not make a good wife because when trouble comes she will run into the arms of another married or unavailable man. We need more honorable men and women to hold these people accountable for their actions.

[@BigAce3000]

@@Renrens-LionessofJudah totally agree sister

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

@@BigAce3000 Shalom

[@niece585]

Good y'all need to break up and heal

[@conniewoods7824]

HE WAS ON JUDGE STEVE HARVEY SHOW...A Catering Case with a Shocking Twist...I DON'T BELIEVE THEY'RE A REAL COUPLE...UGH

[@HeyItsChuanTe]

He so full of BS and She has to be the most simple dense person that ever appeared on this show, the writing on the wall she just refused to see them he simply do not want her she is a realtor ship of convenience for him..smh 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@rochelleowens6501]

He said "I knew the relationship was broken off is when he was breaking you off" ☠☠😃😃😃

[@roddypiper2810]

whey everybody going in on him? she should have left.....but she chose to cheat.i wouldn't tell my ex bout u either..

[@wezzman1]

All the women on here blaming the guy when the woman was the one that actually cheated and got pregnant by the pastor....jokers

[@tasbar7743]

Great advice Judge Faith 👏🏽

[@mrelite9424]

!!..Y'ALL REMEMBER.."SALT & PEPPA'S "FIRST ALBUM..HAD A "HOT SINGLE: CHICK-ON-THE-SIDE..WHELP,..THE ABOVE PERSON...JUST MAY BE "THAT PERSON"!!!....

[@konige-tochteru.9295]

Shes a nasty mess.. worst than him by far!!! Hes not too far behind cause I think hes still with the wife

[@marieeleonaregeffrard81]

They both were cheating SMHHH!

[@yung1717]

Not she sleeping with the pastor 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mrelite9424]

Lmbo!..it "started with "selfies"!!..LOL

[@niece585]

Sure is

[@biite0siize0hersheyy]

He wanna be the victim soo bad... news flash goofy their is no victim 🙄

[@dawnedaniel1354]

The woman did the best thing by breaking off the engagement. That wasn't a relationship, that was passing time.

[@carlyy8284]

Both are definitely not ready for marriage too much baggage on both ends.

[@veronicaushraf4207]

I guess she had made her decision before coming to court but just went to make it known for everybody they were engaged. Savage 😂

[@ginad9935]

The look Judge Faith gave the dude when he said “and he’s married” lol. Her face told him to shut up lol

[@richierich8905]

More like damn it’s more

[@MrCeejaythadeejay]

He said he almost slapped the protein out of him, but his fiancé already took the pastor's protein 🤦🏾‍♂️😂🤣😂

[@TimashaBernice]

Lmao

[@queenebony489]

She knew from the beginning that man wasn’t a preacher🤣

[@Jremeus89]

People love to use religion to they advantage 😒

[@SuzyBuckwheats]

If there's too much confusion it's probably not worth it. How does facetime raise children, I have a child I'd like to know, why did she continue with this relationship if he hasn't even introduced her to the family. And I think she is 100% right to speak with "Preacher" she isn't married and her "relationship" is very dubious.

[@michaela08247]

He never answered any questions with a real answer

[@guest4796]

I would of been moved on. Let him be with his ex they need to be a family together because she's definitely not in the picture.

[@wanderfull5829]

This man is still attached to the ex wife.

[@aswaswasw2323]

The fact I see so many women going after the man when the woman was just as dysfunctional is crazy to me. He should have told his family but she confirmed his bs by being someone untrustworthy. Ladies don't get out of character cause you mad, just leave. Men be honest with your partner and your families.

[@shareeb2336]

I would not say anything about her. She's sleeping with other men. Why would you tell your children about her or your ex about her? He's going to come out looking like a fool. I wish Judge Toler were here. These were stupid advice. I’m happy she gave him back the engagement ring. He deserves better.

[@mathildap.7705]

I'm a woman and don't fully agree with Judge Jenkins. Yes they both have healing to do from previous relationships and other issues they have, but this woman is so unrealistic and delusional to expect him to introduce her to his family when he knows she's sleeping around and he has the receipt to prove it. Judge Jenkins should of mentioned that the fact that he didn't introduce her to his kids because she's sleeping with another man and that doesn't seem like a permanent thing to him. Why bring children into an unstable situation? Children already have to deal with their parents separating and all the emotions of that separation. Never understand why women only bring one side of the story to divorce court when they fully know there's another side. I'm definitely supporting the man on this one. Introducing your family to your significant other is a huge thing and if you feel the relationship is broken or one party is sleeping around refrain from introducing them. I feel the man was willing to move on but her affair caused him to see what he missed with his ex and he realised the grass isn't greener on the other side.👍🏾

[@100nation7]

Damn bro...glad u keep her away from your kids. She a whole 304! Guess we found out why he gave her advice on celibacy. Only not for him😂.

[@yakirathomas9181]

Still need a answer to the main question he was asked. I always say if you going to cheat, be single. I don't believe at all that he's not over his ex. Depression is strong especially postpartum. They both not ready and playing with each other feelings.

[@maryamnakowa3869]

I bet the ex wife is gonna know after the episode aired. and I’m glad she gave that ring back coz he’s a narcissist. Imagine he is gaslighting her saying the engagement broke up she she cheated. He also need to heal , I was like seriously dude! You just put all the blame on her after all he’s cheating with hi ex

[@minkki5656]

I feel that Judge Faith missed it on this one. She was more on the woman than the man. He never did answer why he was spending so much time with the ex- wife, and why he didn't introduce his fiancee to his kids. Now I definitely don't agree with fiancee cheating and getting pregnant by someone else. That was also wrong, but I see why she did it, but it doesn't make it right. I think he got in a relationship to quick after his divorce, and didn't give himself time to heal, and he's not over the ex-wife. There's some emotional baggage going on with him. They shouldn't be together. This is a mess. If she has postpartum, she need to take time to heal herself, stay away from men for awhile, and definitely stop engaging in sexual activity.