Ross Jefferies and the Language of Seduction

[@robertmitchel2194]

She feed complex language back to you so the two of you dance and form a genuine relationship. Well said, Eric. What a brilliant distinction as well as an astute synthesis. Thank you for that. This is one of the best interviews I have seen on the topic of persuasion and influence. You are an underrated interviewer.

[@americanoracle]

Back around 20 years ago I had a friend who was totally into Ross Jeffries and gave me some of his tapes to listen to. Another friend was going through spook school and loaned me his study manual from The Reed Institute which trains spooks, FBI, etc. Imagine my astonishment as they were both teaching the same principles. Jeffries mentioned Richard Bandler on one of the tapes and I ended up immersed in his works and many of the same epistemological roots for the next ten years. And then finally I got laid. And some other good things happened. Thanks Ross! Good to see you looking spry.

[@devanshuthanvi731]

I want to talk more about this with you , you have any socials?

[@billusher2265]

What is the reed institute and where can we get the manual?

[@MadScientistCinema]

Nice interview! Excellent job keeping clarity in what was meant and not letting misunderstandings confuse conversation. Cheers!

[@erichunley]

Thank you sir!

[@artandculture5262]

When I talk to men who seem trained like this, it’s not clear that they really liked me. It’s their skill building that seems like it makes it a fake communication.

[@SuperiorityQomplex]

It can be. But some dudes just don't know how to communicate and this does help them speak in a more effective manner. I do agree that there are some who will absolutely use these skills to manipulate though.

[@veritylove212]

Very unusual interview, Eric, but interesting. I loved your questions about manipulation because that's what if felt like to me. On the other hand, if I had a mate who conversed or met me on an emotional level, oh yeah. Love you. 💜

[@erichunley]

Thank you! I want to have interviews that provoke thought.

[@veritylove212]

@@erichunley I love the direction you're going and Ross certainly provoked more than thoughts from me, haha. 💜

[@jamesburton9708]

@@erichunley I don't think you do, Eric; I made a point that wasn't disrespectful and didn't have any cursing - and was ACTUAL FACT - and you erased it; so yeah, your claim to want to provoke thought is fraudulent. You want to keep things in line with your own vision, no matter how flawed it is.

[@jamesburton9708]

@@veritylove212 I'm sure he did.😉

[@bryonjaffee2361]

Are familiar with the Book The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene and what do you think of it?

[@erichunley]

I definitely know of Robert Greene. He and Robert Cialdini are high on my list of people I’d love to interview.

[@maniac50ae14]

Its a garbage book.

[@williamclayton9566]

@@maniac50ae14 I agree. It reads like the author tried to logically deduce what he thinks WOULD work, or SHOULD work, rather than use what actually works and INDUCE from that, what rules and guidelines actually exist in women's minds. His book on POWER is pretty good, though.

[@ChicagoJan]

I watched Ross Jeffries decades ago, just once, and I'd not heard his name again until now. I can still see in my mind what he looked like back then and how strongly I was drawn to him. I'm so glad to see this. To see him. A nice surprise. 😊

[@erichunley]

Thanks! Glad to see ya!

[@cherialbaugh1741]

I truly enjoy the content you bring to us on your show. I frequently passed them along with great reviews for you. Mostly they are with you and Mark we do like the content with the, "dynamic duo"😅 You did a Really Good Job here interviewing, Ross. I've been in a couple of his classes. You retain a very good and loyal audience. We are your fans and thank you ❤

[@BushaBandulu]

David Mamet wrote a book called…. “Three uses of the knife: Cook, Shave, Kill!…” Seduction can be used in this manner.

[@MadScientistCinema]

12:45 Eric is The Master. Direct Hit! 😎

[@erichunley]

Aw! Thank you!

[@jamesburton9708]

Ross is the REAL master 😎

[@empresspoobah]

Eric is amazing as always. This guy is obnoxious and full of himself. Please tell me why the resolution on his video is bad? Compare it to Eric's, we all know the answer.

[@erichunley]

Thank you. It’s not always easy to get the remote video right.

[@empresspoobah]

@@erichunley Ok I will give you grace because I really like you. Thought it was on him. Your interviewing skills are tremendous.

[@kathc349]

Interesting discussion. On a side note, me OCD was distracted by the uneven moustache and beard.

[@TheyCallMeJesse]

One thing I'll say about Ross is that he's straight. Honest as f.

[@BushaBandulu]

@Eric: “What is one question…. “ I see Robin Dreeke had inspired you. 🔥💯😀 Robin’s awesome.

[@erichunley]

Did he do that first? Interesting. Robin is a great guy for sure.

[@BushaBandulu]

Good interview…💯🧨🔥

[@juanvaldes1837]

A real pioneer

[@annalachapelle]

Sending love , no legacy is so rich as honesty, did you watched this on TV ?

[@BushaBandulu]

R J is the first in the seduction game. Others followed him like Mystery (aka Eric Von Markovic), Tyler & Papa, Styles, etc.

[@jab1289]

There is a guy named Matthew Cross (The33Secrets on You Tube) who also sounds like he's been teaching since the mid-to-late 90's.

[@bryonjaffee2361]

I believe he works with The Fear of Rejection!

[@psmith6512]

Interesting guest. Thanks for entertainment. This man presents as a narcissist. Hope not true, they are true blithering on other humans.

[@erichunley]

He is a giant in his field but it’s not without controversy.

[@psmith6512]

Could be more my life experiences, this short interview isn't enough for me to really know. Take care Eric.

[@jamesburton9708]

@@erichunley Any man whose life is about avoiding controversy sacrifices his manhood. this shoe is for whoever can fit it

[@aimfloss7711]

Poor performance but much potential, @erichunley ! This is the first time I saw your interview and came across your KZbin channel. I'm sitting in my chair and just want to write a few notes to you about what I just saw. The interview started fine, you could say it was casual. But around 3:00, everything started to change. At 2:40, Ross J. explains how he created his alter ego name and ends the sentence by saying: "Maybe I am full of S*** I don't know." (joking) The interviewer responds by saying: "There is some of that, and to be fair, a lot of my audience will know. I am not a fan of PUA... and I don't know if I am a fan of seduction." That's a really bad judgmental frame to start the interview with. Pay attention to how Ross J.'s body language changed at 3:10. Eric, you as the interviewer and a body language expert, should have calibrated the situation at least. Because after that moment, the interview took on that weird judgmental vibe. P.S. +One tip: It's better to express disagreement with an idea using the third person. Something like: "Many viewers have a negative perception of PUA and seduction community. What are your thoughts on this?"

[@bryonjaffee2361]

Is he eliciting excitement by the Laws of Misattribution?

[@SMALLDANE]

I so like your honesty, self reflexion and critical thinking. Rare qualities - thank you for that 🙂 And boy is this guy trying to seduce YOU 🤣

[@UnclePeej]

I don't know, I've seen Mystery, he says wear big hats, lots of rings and call girls fat skanks.

[@erichunley]

😂

[@BushaBandulu]

Peacocking is what Mystery trying to mimic when he dresses like he does.

[@Sean-rawlins]

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[@anthonyhenson2663]

I would ask, “what is the line between deception & influence?” IS this DECEPTIVE ? There is an AGENDA she is unaware of… She doenst KNOW you’re using your language with an intent to create attraction. Is that WRONG ? We’ve learned telling certain stories and CARRYING ourselves with a measure of confidence can INFLUENCE her attraction. So is THAT also then, deception ? AUTHENTIC connection is a rare thing between 2 people. So when you don’t have that opportunity, to NATURALLY bond, HOW then, or WHAT should you say & do ? I went on a date once with KNOCK OUT. I was AUTHENTIC and improvised the entire time. SHE was closed off, and MILDLY interested at best. Result ? Fuckin NADA. Just a boring ass waste of time for us both… Ross once put it, we’re in essence, giving them what they WANT. This is CRACK for them. It’s a RARE guy that magically and authentically attracts HER, the 10. I guess the question remains, is HIDING your agenda morally wrong ? The agenda to create ATTRACTION where it might otherwise be very difficult to create ? I suppose it’s a great POWER. And with great power comes… I can say for SURE, manipulating her HEART is indeed an actual crime. Just to get sex. But NONE of this is intended to get her heart involved. And if we can say that PORTRAYING confidence, or talking playful shit, or telling a story you KNOW gets women wet is EFFECTIVE, yet potentially manipulative. We can safely say Ross’ teachings are simply another form of what some of us already do. I’m already a decent looking guy with a high intellectual & emotional IQ. It’s EASIER for me to just shoot from the hip. Equipped with years of experience. But for the not so lucky? Is not REVEALING every inch of truth & agenda considered deception ? Can we chalk this up to mere INFLUENCE ? I am consciously INFLUENCING her emotions & attraction. Deception vs influence. For whoever reads this, I’m sorry I could not come to a conclusion. I’ve been on the fence for YEARS implementing this tactic. But I’m trying to explore my own moral terrain. Cause the IDEA of using this to enhance my ability to attract sounds quite tempting in my older years. ~Fin

[@sherrysmithperry8438]

2nd try watching this. Maybe this is for a male audience. That's ok.

[@dianasvend7717]

I would like to learn this information in a more non-gendered presentation. The "men seducing women" narrative is really cringe.

[@dianasvend7717]

@@marjiaadamskia1163 your response is just more cis het gender stereotyping. Even more cringe.

[@cafeadicto]

Singer of system of a down looking old

[@annalachapelle]

Sending love , no legacy is so rich as honesty, did you watched this on TV ?

[@Sean-rawlins]

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[@Mary-wj3zz]

I would never take relationship advise from from a 60yr old person who is in a relationship that he feels the need to be regularly tested.

[@erichunley]

I can see your point

[@IBoughtItMyself]

That’s some bullshit, like Gandhi sleeping naked with teenage girls

[@wesing22]

This man, a 60 year old, experienced with human nature; is sharing what he figured out that women ask for security, and look for something better when they have it secured. Imagine creating need and desire for what you offer.... oh, all of society does that to us as men- stay the customer my friend. You are not the provider, you have been sold on being the pawn in the game. Society is being shaped by advertising, putting men in the backseat! Those who see it see it, and to everyone else I say: Just kidding! You are so right! Stick with your viewpoint... you are on to something

[@simpinainteasy680]

Women get bored easily

[@amcqueenboxing]

This is so funny... Good to There are men actually putting a lot of thought into getting a woman into bed.. A woman usually decides if you're actually fckable If she thinks it's possible from the way you make ger feel... If you get the time to talk those words and she thinks uhhhhh ok I guess he's ok to fck But if he leans in too far in my face I don't want to reveal to much and I don't want my IQ tested... If a guy isn't cute Making a woman laugh is the only thing I see as him having a chance with her that night.. But unless you plan on taking her scuba diving Unless you've been scuba diving how do you know she will connect the two... Laughing and looking deep into sparkling eyes without letting her smell your breath ... That's just enough to get her into bed Without causing her to fall in love Because if these sht breaks hearts then a woman could sue you for teaching a man to break her heart .. . No your not fcking a guitar it's a woman who hopefully is strong enough bust your nose... If a student is just testing your teachings

[@rakshithm1257]

If you want to catch a fish, you don't ask the fish but rather a fisherman.

[@Sean-rawlins]

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[@DIY4Profit]

Lame interviewer he always stops the wisdom

[@bryonjaffee2361]

You work with The Strongest desire known to the Human. The Innate Sex Drive.

[@Sean-rawlins]

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