How to have confidence, power and influence ? - Ross Jeffries

[@matw1x]

This guy is deep. His teachings go beyond seduction. This is Enlightenment.

[@diamondgirls6541]

Performance confidence Acceptance confidence Compassion confidence Learning confidence

[@coolarjun24]

This is work of transcendence. When you hear it across time over and over, it will make deeper sense. This Ross guy is too good...

[@TwiztedHumor]

Did anyone notice how he was using hypnotism in his voice when he started to talk about using trance to allow people to become open to learning?

[@dancyr9638]

the sounds he is making on the glass seemed like some technique as well

[@ahmidahmid9303]

i can recognize one when i see even in this interview he used tricks to push his view 1-he validate the boy to ease him "you ask smart questions" was smart move. 2-he used his father story very well "compaction". that's what i noticed and i think there is more this man is well informed great interview

[@kjcornwell]

Best RJ interview around. To many people "active listen" blabbering about left brain facts and figures. I apricate your ability to sit still and be a great mirror to extract very cool stuff.

[@akshayhiwrale]

I can understand when he was talking about happiness which is not bound by any thing. I have done Vipassana (meditation course) which is 10 days nd when doing that you reach to certain point( for few sec) where their is no though in our mind nd as you know the hardest thing for humankind is to stop thinking, so when u reach to that point man that state of mind it feels awesome because u r at PEACE when their is no thought in your mind u r not sad , you r not happy, just u r at PEACE and that is the best feeling u can get .

[@namratajain2887]

Great discovering Ross Jeffries in France ! Thank you David. It's just stunning to discover the increasing number of people experiencing spiritual consciousness. I totally agree with Ross, there is a common mistake made by many teachings : not to take in consideration the two axes of development : the horizontal, which deals with all that is conditional in our life (health, wealth, relationship with family, friends, collegues, etc.) and the vertical axe (spiritual consciousness). Isabelle Podovani talks about this very well in one of her talks in France. Love you David and Julie for making us discover wonderful people living in this world :)

[@coolarjun24]

Namrata JAIN you there nailed some of it.. This is good...wow.. so many are getting it..nice to meet you Namrata

[@MrRene1968]

Ross is a an awesome teacher, as arrogant as he may sound, he knows what he preacher, I can not get enough of what he shares. Have watched and listen his lesson, and everything time I get lost of valuable knowledge. Keep up the good work Ross.

[@esmaster0072]

This guy finally achieved what it takes to be happy which is awareness of your inner potentially to control your feelings and Aline them to pleasure. Next step is to put that potentially at work on dayly bases for the rest of our lifes. Unconditional happiness, what a great concept.

[@MKANDRESTINPEACE]

the rythm Ross uses is so relaxing🙏🙏

[@mrluvit8232]

fully agree!!! 💯

[@jeffxcc]

Love this video! This is the essence of Ross Jeffries he is one of the greatest teachers! Seduction is juat a trogen horse. He teaches you how to walk through life on your terms, with ultimate influence and certainty. .

[@rumham7863]

Addiction is an activity we partake in too, wow that is a very profound thing to think about.

[@kalaklah4848]

This interview from Ross Jeffries is absolutely riveting.

[@charlesbukowski7730]

I use the ross language patterns, and they really work!

[@diamondgirls6541]

Really?

[@boazquartey7259]

58% tonality

[@rodrigobelinchon2982]

that was a great interview , letting Ross explain and talk and developing the focus

[@hornedlobster]

Great interview! It felt more like a fluid conversation than a robotic interviewer. Well done.

[@mihaimihai9770]

I have the all his seminars on a hard drive which doesn't work anymore :)

[@socraticproblem86]

I remember when Ross sent out a newsletter. He was talking about his father. Rosses Dad was a military man. I vaguely remember it. It was during the days of the early internet 😅

[@leko.19]

The interviewer is very clever, I like his questions.

[@bliglum]

This is pure gold... If only more guys could hear the message of men like Ross Jeffries, the staggering statistic of 80% of suicide victims being men would likely go down. Sadly though, traditional masculinity has been deemed "toxic". Men like Ross here, are ostracized, and suppressed... As "men" in the western world continue to grow weaker... Speaking of, I notice young men are wearing tights, and perming their hair now... God help us...

[@thedjruiner]

Yup

[@brianmeen2158]

Agree. Every young guy I talk to is push him to listen to Ross first and foremost .. If I ran a school there would be a “Ross Jefferies” day

[@alexlonnquist]

Fascinating stuff. Amazing interview, I’m in awe of this guy.

[@diamondgirls6541]

What did I observe a long time ago is that women are generally get curious on a guy if they noticed that girls give him attention, and they tend to compete on that attention.

[@matw1x]

Shinzen Young. Wow. This guy is aware af.

[@rodrigobelinchon2982]

any video from him you recommend?

[@rocklee619]

Love this conversation! Some people may label Ross's talking style rude, but sometimes it's necessary to deliver your message... lol I'm used to having coaches and getting uncomfortable feedback sometimes, so I guess it doesn't phase me 💜

[@Michael-4]

Just imagine having a friend like that who dissects everything you say all the time.

[@joyfulness9968]

Make him as a mentor instead

[@hunchofmateus2422]

In order to do that you have to learn how to listen people. The best friends are the ones who really listen to all your shit.

[@toderox]

Thanx for this interview @David Laroche World

[@unstoppablefrank]

This is like a masterclass! Great video!

[@scottherf]

The cyrano de Bergerac of deep communication. Learnt much from this man.

[@scottherf]

The happiness is called universal compassion. You'll experience it when you reach a Maslow peak experience. Thank you.

[@dominiccocchiola6922]

Guys might be 30 watching this not even knowing they have more years of being a bad ass with women than they have lived so far. Ross is getting tail well into his 70s and until hes dead. There is a chance for us.

[@brianmeen2158]

True but many young guys these days just don’t even seem to have the strong urge to get out there and meet women. On average they strike me as much more lethargic and passive than previous generations . Have you noticed this too?

[@brianmeen2158]

True but I find many young men these days don’t even seem to have that strong desire to go out and talk to women .. they seem much more lethargic and passive than previous generations - have you noticed this too? Btw I think men put too much value in simply “hooking up” with women. After you do it a few times you realize just how rather underwhelming it is. I’m not saying it isn’t pleasurable but it’s usually not worth the time/effort/stress that most men have to put in to get it

[@pillay83]

Incredible stuff. Much respect. From South Africa.

[@leko.19]

Mzansi fo sho

[@yannickdanis2185]

Wow c'est la meilleure entrevue que j'ai vue de Ross, il a vraiment enseigné plein de choses intéressantes. Bravo d'avoir osé le rencontrer.

[@miguelhernandez1one]

Man I totally look up to Ross Jefferies totall legend

[@TheIntelligentView]

GREAT Interview!! I've been studying Ross since 1998 - on & off. He IS a smart guy.

[@OzOnO123]

dude, just saw this interview and he knows as fuck

[@JoshEves-r6z]

How did you find the results of using his methods

[@diamondgirls6541]

20:56 words to live by

[@Dbulkss]

I feel as if there should be one more which is change confidence. Being confident to changing situations. Being able to adapt to change an also wanting change since getting complacent is negative for progressing forward.

[@factopolis7752]

Dominicanbulk isn't that the same as acceptance confidence?

[@Dbulkss]

akeem anderson Yeah true. But ambiguity is more vast then simply accepting the fact that you are not good at something right now.

[@UngdommensMonopol]

Beautiful interview

[@francescos7361]

Good work man thanks a lot

[@06comment]

Ross Jeffries speaks so metaphorically I reckon this interviewer truly understood about 60% of what he was saying.

[@hawaiilife8084]

Interesting... I think the French guy understood completely everything Ross Jeffries was talking about. It was specifically Jeffries' innate and consistent method of suggesting that gives that impression. We all know what is a metaphor and if it's figurative or literal. The French dude makes a comment like "confidence is like a muscle" and Ross Jeffries spends 5-6 minutes long-windedly explaining WTF a metaphor is,,, suggesting that the French guy doesn't know to the point that he persuaded the French guy to believing it! How many times does he say: "Do you understand" Do you get it?" Jeffries knows exactly what he's doing for someone fluent in NLP. He actually does it in almost all his interviews... He is a great source of knowledge but kinda insecure as he always needs to one-up and disagree even when he agrees with someone to assert his Alpha-ness and expertise... Ah, kinda douchey...

[@06comment]

To be honest I agree with a lot of what you said and maybe i didn't give the french guy enough credit. Could actually be Ross undermining him throughout.

[@duosythe]

Are there any other interviews where Ross talks more on his response to the question at 31:20?

[@pwrong6450]

It’s funny how he control the room. How to be inviting what he wants you to be apart of his frame. Also how to be dismissive of your thoughts respectfully and bring you back into his frame. How to control you emotionally bringing you to a low when his father passed then bringing you back up. Pretty decent overall. Also showing confidence and being Elite and vulnerable at the same time

[@EricFisher.TheVillages]

Nice, useful thanks man.

[@ansmfella]

Ross is the Frank Zappa of charisma, attraction and persuasion. Ahead of his time and also timeless master

[@brianmeen2158]

I think Ross is brilliant and I think he can teach men how to persuade but don’t think he can teach them to be more charismatic .

[@ginguz1]

Thank you for the video!

[@sunnypai4031]

Seduce the mind and the body follows.😊

[@KylerBorn]

Ross is a blessing 👍

[@bamideletijani8683]

Hi Ross, how do I cultivate consciousnness

[@marcwildeman7520]

Feels like i hear Richard Bandler talking.

[@moniquemcdonogh698]

Well done David- awesome interviews with invaluable insights.

[@WisdomQuest-v4h]

J'ai adoré l'entrevue, il était vraiment perspicace et intéressant!! I loved the interview, it was really insightful and interesting!!

[@WRCWPLX]

Hearing Ross in this interview and comparing him to his initial PUA videos is a huge difference -- the Ross Jeffries in this interview exhibits wisdom, something that lackef in his original videos..

[@pas2356]

Excellent perspectives!

[@fabricio_santana]

Was the original video deleted from KZbin?

[@TheBeachGhost]

Where's he talking about that the real estate is worth half as much? Certainly not anywhere in Ca.

[@noticetheknow-it-all4341]

Ross was spitting game at your girl covertly by the way.

[@AlienK-cycromegreenplanet]

Notice the Know-it-All hahaha forreals

[@diegopagani2010]

Covertly and consciously

[@jamesrawlings5781]

@@diegopagani2010 Yeah. Creepy, wasn't it?

[@maryrosenathaniel9975]

@@jamesrawlings5781 yup

[@ilijasavic6549]

@@AlienK-cycromegreenplanet what with know-it-all? I can't see

[@zeiddouak9833]

Oh my GOD ...this is a rare video. very interesting But here is a serious thing : you may be better than many. You may be the best for a while. But if you believe you are the only one who knows the truth of something ...that means it is the end of your little knowledge. Finally, it was really really interesting to speak about unconditional happiness , my question is : is it about being okay with this life as it is Or by being thankful to OUR GOD about what we know and what we dont know ? Which one is accessible always and eternal

[@boxo5051]

Thank you.

[@Dbulkss]

What word does he say at minute 24:16??? "The Buddhist say there's 3 of consciousness"

[@thereal4114]

The Buddhist say there are 3 impurities to consciousness.

[@theredninja2817]

The master at work

[@sal8082]

Questa intervista è molto interessante!

[@Truthseeker1961]

Why the RSD guys are silent on this seduction legend now is beyond me...this guy even predates 'Mystery'...old fucking school all the way, there are WAY too many pickup 'gurus' now spoiling the broth...too many.

[@factopolis7752]

Truthseeker1961 I've got to be honest, some seduction courses are just pieces of all the knowledge he's put out and the person now focuses on a single tool he's done or expounds on it but they don't really give credit, maybe because they don't even know where it came from

[@llucaslayerr]

13:10 this thoughts come because the devil is always trying to put you down. You must fight him everyday or you lose

[@SStabi]

Great video thanks!

[@alexanderworkchannel]

Great info - Thanks

[@leonreaper90]

He has a beard, I believe him

[@vonspeex9608]

Great stuff

[@scumbagg6155]

Powerful!

[@henryvillalona7833]

1) I saw you here I noticed that you are by far the most beautiful woman here so I thought let's go talk to her and see if she is someone who I would like to get to know. My name is .... 2) Change the meaning; Talk to a girl is actually doing her a favor.

[@NYCBigBull]

Wow, his voice today sounds completely different.

[@scottzvidzo5564]

This guy is as smart and articulate about his craft as James Cameron at movie making and there is lowkey resemblance

[@RamonRuizG]

Sure he's arrogant, but he knows when the interviewer hasn't jumped to his level of understanding. The interviewer remains unchanged by what Ross is saying so in a way he's being disrespectful, that's why Ross hits him hard sometimes. He's seeing a closed mind.

[@diamondgirls6541]

True

[@hylketromp5076]

Although I find Ross Jeffries a bit rude in this interview, the content is profound

[@gomontv137]

Actually this intro is quite good...

[@adriaanpruyssers1459]

Ross Jeffries is so smart and seems so wise. That he hasn't written a decent book is surprising

[@ppumpkin3282]

You're right. Ross is brilliant. I've been watching him for years yet I still find a few nuggets in this interview. I was wondering though, if some of this stuff would come across as well in a book.

[@diamondgirls6541]

He wrote some books and I read them

[@PainkillerPhysio]

That man is sweating ego all over the place... He has some good points though :)

[@wetdog5431]

Eric you're like why is he so confident.

[@Jetsfoo305]

You probably lack confidence

[@justsidu]

17:54 self confidence

[@justsidu]

Acceptance confidence vs Performance confidence

[@justsidu]

Compassion Confidence

[@justsidu]

Learning confidence

[@justsidu]

Tolerance for uncertainty(tolerate or enjoy what's going to happen or happening rn) -look from other persons perspective -look from 3rd persons perspective of what happened here

[@justsidu]

Learning = conscious practice + getting outnof the way and Letting the understanding flow out of the unconscious

[@phohead]

I just discovered this guy. I feel I have a lot to learn from him, but jeez the creep factor is strong with this one!

[@charlesbukowski7730]

28:47 he start a pattern xD

[@gustavoherreramx]

Awsome grate interview is like Watching Jesus talking jaja

[@strahinja95]

Great interview, but I dislike that he is flirting with the woman that is off the screen with. Tells something about the guy. Good ideas and delivery though

[@shadowboxing1729]

Meditation... I would like to get in to that..

[@SummumBonum.]

The guy is French not a 3 year old.

[@baolamgia4678]

11:05 tip for anxiety

[@HolaSoyFranchesco]

traduscanlo al españoooooool

[@mitchellmurray4725]

Momentum is not interchangeable with force and is actually defined as p=v(velocity)m(mass). just putting that out there

[@hawaiilife8084]

I myself would be annoyed interviewing Ross Jeffries' ego, maybe if his grounded self could join the interview would be nice... For someone fluent in NLP, he throughout the interview uses his words to belittle and condescend and treat the French guy like he don't know shit. Why? Because he probably has the unconscious or albeit conscious habit of one-upping whoever he talks to in the effort to make himself seem more like an expert... Count how many times does he say "do you understand? Do you get it?" Then he just says " no you don't get it" and goes on to long-windedly explain what a metaphor is like we don't know WTF a metaphor is... " confidence is a muscle". I'll give him he has dedicated and committed a lot to his knowledge but yeah cmon man! Don't be a douche!

[@factopolis7752]

HAWAII*LIFE *808 I have two questions 1) do you think he may be asking if you understand because he speaks a different language and some things don't translate that well? 2) since he's so fluent in NLP, do you think maybe he said "you don't get it" because he read the interviewer?....

[@m.k9357]

HAWAII*LIFE *808 Yes, it's very interesting how people that practice and commit themself to a certain lifestyle and mindset with love and respect are different to those who are still in a ego manipulating mindset. It's really fascinating

[@FrostRare]

There's a moment where David says "I can tell what a man is doing to attract a woman"(paraphrase) and then Ross replies "Or so you say" and then continues as though he didn't essentially unveil this guy as a con artist on his own show. You are right that Ross condescends the interviewer constantly through embedded commands and a bunch of other things. The thing is, Ross doesn't give a fuck. He's probably trying to pull the camera girl.

[@truckerwellnesssusa]

Hahaha... good to see I wasn't the only one thinking what you thought. I was like... oh man this guy's like on his high pedestal just belittling this guy! To me he comes across as a former nerd who found a secret power and now has a ego problem. Lol

[@fustilarian1]

I found it more patronising that he had to keep reminding everyone what a metaphor is.

[@abdomahfouad4699]

He is so funny man 😂

[@joyfulness9968]

This boy is mimicing Ross's body language (the way he is sitting) to appear more likeable. But I believe Ross was fully aware of that old psychology trick.

[@Jetsfoo305]

Duhh. It’s what he’s teaching

[@joyfulness9968]

@@Jetsfoo305 Duhh Ross never teaches such a cheap trick.

[@yannickdanis2185]

It's called calibration, and it's pretty much in the basics of NLP, that he very well masters.

[@joyfulness9968]

@@yannickdanis2185 it's called mirroring in psychology.

[@oldnatty61]

Way too much work, energy, money. I got other things to do. You guys have fun.

[@williehaller5840]

Well aren't you important good for you buddy

[@valdocarvalho603]

Fear is not thing, it's an activity... change it dam

[@chokewholeddotcom]

who is the meditation teacher he speaks about around 40? shen yun xin? that's not it what is it?

[@AlienK-cycromegreenplanet]

No lol

[@smujohnson]

Shinzen Young.

[@Haude92]

Ross Jeffries gives some real good answers, but the reporter doesn't seem to feel comfortable on camera or even interested in anything Ross has to say...

[@hawaiilife8084]

Patrick Haude Did you notice how many times Jeffries says "do you understand?" I lost count but that in itself is NLP and has its effect and Jeffries is fluent in NLP and knows this... He actually does it in all his interviews and it is an effective but douchey technique... He plays semantics and disagrees when you agree with him, accuses you of making assumptions, and a chronic one-upper. All this works to suggest and imply his expertise and mastery while condescend and belittle whoever he speaks to. Granted he has skills and knowledge but definitely ego isssues.. He drills the guy about what is a metaphor literal or figurative and later he compares himself to Jesus the Messiah, and then brushes it off like it means nothing, no he suggests it and knows what he's doing...

[@Dbulkss]

beautiful

[@malthus101]

He's a great speaker... hope he's less grouchy than he used to be, it doesn't suit him.

[@kinraade]

7:50

[@noticetheknow-it-all4341]

He is me

[@wombythewizard1673]

Sure thing ;)

[@divyanshstyles]

11:25

[@sr_formica]

Nowadays you can meet a girl, have connections etc...the day after she symple forgets it, because she has 80 guys on tinder chasing her

[@bamideletijani8683]

Hmmmm

[@spacebumps.]

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