r/AmITheA**hole For Getting My R*cist Family Member Fired?

r/AmITheA**hole OP is an Asian man married to a woman who has an extremely toxic family. OP's father-in-law and sister-in-law basically hate him just because he's Asian. Coincidentally, both OP and his sister-in-law are professional chefs, and the sister-in-law mocks OP's cooking every chance she gets. Eventually, one of their conflicts goes public and gets posted on social media, leading to the sister-in-law getting fired and all of her friends calling her out on her r*cist behavior.
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[@theresagailgiordano]

"your mom didn't do much in this story", that's just it. Her mom didn't do anything. She didn't stop stepdad from throwing away bio dad's stuff, she didn't stop step sister from locking op out of her own room, and she didn't stick up for her own child.

[@xfallenxlostx3254]

She also allowed stepdad to give his son the larger bedroom that he had to himself because he’s male. That’s fucked. The larger room should have been the shared room.

[@theresagailgiordano]

@@xfallenxlostx3254 oooh, I forgot about that!

[@nna_]

The fact that she even married to the guy in the first place is questionable as well like just say you don't care about your dead husband and your daughter's feeling

[@TiffWaffles]

What gets me is how can any person get jealous and feel insecure of a dead spouse? If I was in a relationship with a man that lost his spouse or partner and they had children together, I wouldn't ever want the child to feel that I am replacing or destroying the memory of their mother. I wouldn't demand that belongings get thrown out or that pictures be boxed up and hidden away. I'd want the child to have those pictures of their mother and any belongings that they feel are a piece of their mother. Whether it's a necklace or a book... Or figurines... Anything really. Why did the mother not nip stepdad's behaviour in the butt and call him out for it?

[@theresagailgiordano]

@@TiffWaffles there was a reddit AITA a while ago about a groom-to-be who wanted to know if he was in the wrong for wanting to call off the wedding cause his fiance wanted to massively tribute their wedding to her late boyfriend, like a dedication video and other stuff too. In THAT cause, I totally get it. But to alienate a child from their dead parent? Nah man. Something's wrong there. The stepdad is messed in the head for the mindset, but I'd say the mom is worse for going along with it. Also I don't wanna be an armchair psychologist but it sounds like classic scapegoat/golden child where OP isn't wanted just because she's from a prior relationship. Baffles me that the mom is all for it too.

[@ellabarrett3257]

That last post. You gotta hand it to his wife's family (ignoring father and sister). They really went up to bat against racism. He married into the right family

[@PyroTF2realone]

Except for the sister and the father obviouly

[@KirbyKips]

No kidding. It’s honestly kind of refreshing since the sister had it coming. Good for OP. He’s got a pretty great family.

[@lqtmn]

The classic American family divide: racists v. Non-racists

[@animeotaku307]

@@PyroTF2realone And everyone who sided with them. But it sounds like the minority.

[@shadows5499]

This 100 percent

[@t.abellard6280]

Kung Pao Chicken story got another update: Sarah was "forced" to quit, turns outr that the restaurant she worked at was partly owned by a Chinese investment company. Oops.

[@simplyaregularguy131]

That's karma right there

[@CassyBug]

YESSSS

[@isaacdesouza7721]

I’m still amazed on how you get the updates. God bless you!!

[@ladosis5596]

oh that is just DELIGHTFUL

[@t.abellard6280]

​@@isaacdesouza7721 Sometimes rSlash puts the wrong username or maybe the account got deleted or too complex to copy from the screen. Googling keywords from the post. i.e; "(name of sub) sil chef chinese racist sarah" is the best though.

[@DisneyFanatic2364]

Wow. That "Kung Pao Chicken" comment is not only racist, but devalues the time and effort that goes into making that dish. Cooking any dish takes time and effort and should be appreciated.

[@strawberrysoulforever8336]

And I'm sure good Kung Pao chicken takes a major effort, too. Shoving a TV dinner into the microwave is the only cooking that doesn't count. Even then, someone put effort into making the TV dinner before it was bought.

[@KikomochiMendoza]

I am now super curious what the original facebook post looked like due to Sarah's fallout. edit: checked the original reddit post with the OPs new updates. Dang things got even juicier, there is some closure for the reader and I am ok if OP doesnt update more for the sake of sanity in the family.

[@Accreal]

kung pao chicken is very difficult to make but it is very worth it, it is so good homemade.

[@eeeby_deeby]

I've haven't cooked at all but I agree with you, cooking anything weather it be cheburek, plov, baklava and hell, even pancakes take time and effort in all stages.

[@dtz1000]

Why is it racist to say Kung Pao Chicken? I didn't know what that was at first and actually thought it was a racial slur, but when I googled it i saw its a legit dish that tastes really good. So I'm a bit confused about where the racism is. Maybe I'm missing something, but it just seems like the snobbery of someone who thinks French food is better than foods from other countries. You do have some sort of hierarchy in the food world with French food seen as being at the top. That's snobbery, not racism.

[@GeorgiaDLee]

"I'm not racist. Your {Asian slur} husband is the problem!" Ok.

[@CadenceWallace]

“I’m not a murderer, the person just fell onto my knife fifteen times!”

[@Theimmure]

@You're the racist. Racism doesn’t stop being racism because it didn’t get physical.

[@soulgazer11]

@@Theimmure I'm willing to bet that's a troll account who just goes around saying racist stuff so their @ can be true in the replies.

[@Theimmure]

@@soulgazer11 Honestly, I’ve never witnessed a troll that was so entertaining. I hope anyone willing to use them for laughs will get a genuine kick out of it.

[@LJN745]

@You're the racist. so if I went up to somebody and called them a racial slur it isn’t racism because I said it and didn’t do anything physical

[@teayabrown3924]

About the goldfish story: If this girl can't handle being called an idiot by OP, then she is not prepared for the comments that tiktok is going to bring

[@Gothymothmoth]

the pet/animal side will not be her friend, she might even get IRL reported depending on where this is

[@BadassHater1]

That's literally "girl putting a tortoise back in the water" all over again

[@PersiasParadise]

oop-

[@eeeby_deeby]

and just you wait until casual geographic hears about it.

[@teayabrown3924]

@@eeeby_deeby I'm sure he hears way too many of these stories, honestly.

[@nickowen7406]

I dated a girl who had a daughter. The fiance/dad had died in an accident about a year before we met. In fathers day, they would go and celebrate her late fiance with her daughter. I would stay home while she spent time with his family. I will never understand guys feeling jealous of someone who has passed on. You have to accept the fact that she and her kids will always love him, even while she loves you as well

[@jeffklaubo3168]

A woman who can love 2 people at once can love more than just those 2. The fact that you were filling the role of father, while a dead man was getting the respect for it, basically says to me, you were her resource and not seen as a significant other. The fact you say "dated" tells me at some point one of you had this similar realization. It's not the jealousy. It's the knowledge of what's actually going on.

[@nickball4071]

Love is infinite yet some people think its a zero sum game where if you love someone else you're stealing love from them and that's absolute nonsense.

[@DHTheAlaskan]

@@jeffklaubo3168 found the incel

[@DHTheAlaskan]

Nick Owen, props for being a decent human being. You are on a surefire path to earning the daughter's respect for not trying to replace her dad.

[@jeffklaubo3168]

@@DHTheAlaskan ahahaha... *gasps* AHAHAHAHAHA.... No. You found a married man who has basic understanding of how things work. Just speaking facts. But I found me someone incapable of an argument let alone their own original attempt at an insult. We get it.... you pander to single moms playing the pick me dance just begging for some scraps. No need to be public about it.

[@helianabanes4875]

The 16 year old story made me cry. I am so glad she has a supportive extended family.

[@OneToxicPixel]

You know rSlash is angry when he isn't censoring his cursewords anymore. And honestly? Sarah and Doug deserve it. I bet Op is a great chef, the kitchen Op cooks in doesn't matter, only the skill, passion and result matters. Which Sarah would have known if she was a real chef and not just a snobby racist idiot :)

[@35joannecoleman]

I love it! So satisfying. 😈

[@ThomS2801]

I agree with you, the fact is OP doesn’t have to be a good chef it is just that you shouldn’t have to tolerate racist.

[@Ellerwind]

Was about to say about the non-censoring 😂. 100% agree with you 👍🏻

[@spartan_odinson7570]

Don't you love it when KZbinrs get to say their mind about a topic without fear of the YTA crunching the video into digital breadcrumbs?

[@LordDarque]

I kinda need more follow up on this story. I'm enthralled by the crap storm it's kicked up.

[@C.G.Gaster]

today was a big one, rslash basically said fuck the censoring.

[@MinscShip]

yeah taht is a sad problem but he is right here

[@Cloudisy]

Emphasis on the fuck

[@Namato360]

@@Cloudisy *_FUCK_* the censoring.

[@shaereub4450]

Im surprised he didn't give the step dad 5/5 buttholes.

[@jamesnorman9160]

KZbin: You do realise we have to demonetise this video now, right? Rslash: Worth it.

[@nRainbow]

Wait, I think we’re missing something in a story from the girl with a sucky stepfather with “insecurities” They are LOCKING OUT from HER ROOM a 16 y/o because her sister wants to use it as an art studio? What...? And her mother and stepfather just decided it’s okay? WHAT????

[@JosieJOK]

Agreed. She’s well out of there.

[@qdllc]

Sounds like mom is glad dad number one is dead.

[@Avrysatos]

There’s a word for a family like this. It begins with “abu” and ends in “sive.”

[@clarky23]

agreed, they might as well have her sleeping on the couch, she doesn't have a place for her own anyway.

[@GamerGrovyle]

I think they still don't deserve the rating they got. They apparently punished the StepSister severely for her actions and offered to increase her punishment further to keep the peace. Yes throwing out her dead parents items was extreme and a pathetic action. Adding a lock on the door is also cruel since they share the room. That's not fair. They're still bad parents and OP should definitely stick with her uncle. I just want people to be mad at them for the right reasons.

[@12369ja]

when the person claimed to be comparable to Gordon Ramsey, I was like how about you go on Hells Kitchen and we will se if you are comparable to him.

[@strawberrysoulforever8336]

*insert lots of f-words here, including fired*

[@BadassHater1]

Especially considering how many self-absorbed pricks were either kicked out or left mid-season or just mid-service because their ego got hurt

[@chileechim5289]

Sarah could never be Ramsey because the man humbles himself when it comes to different cultures and cuisines. Wise men know their limitations but idiots thinks they know it all.

[@rnaodmsomething]

das a good quote

[@elizaalmabuena]

I know!! He'll be so attentive and ask questions as he sees grandpa, mom, or whoever cook a traditional dish (kitchen, outdoor fire pit, whatever) and when he tries the food you can notice him analyzing how the preparation had effects on the food. Even everyday comfort foods are highly regarded by him when done correctly. And done correctly purely refers to the foods living up to the comfort aspect of them, not that they have to be made in one specific manner.

[@jesswagner7391]

A commenter on the post also pointed out that Ramsey and Bourdain, while famous chefs, actually aren't that highly regarded in French cuisine. They lean more towards Hubert, etc. So the commenter found it funny that's who she likened herself to working in a French restaurant. (Basically saying Sarah's not as knowledgeable as she likes to pretend.)

[@FlashQuatsch]

The episode where he tried to make Pad Thai and the Thai chef went off about how Ramsay's wasn't Pad Thai XD

[@matthewrogers9187]

also she does not inspect kitchens and be a dick about it and not being built difrent and most likely is a crap chef not even close

[@callanightshade8079]

RSlash took that last one personally because of his wife and I admire that lol

[@NarendraMnr]

Yeah

[@L1K34PR0]

I like swearing rslash :)

[@callanightshade8079]

@@L1K34PR0 same lol

[@GryphStone]

Aye, it's great how defensive he gets for what others go through.

[@callanightshade8079]

@@GryphStone it is. Yeah it sucks that people have to get defensive on behalf of others, but there is power in numbers

[@zwabbah4841]

That uncle is a legend

[@renew1572]

Indeed

[@estalindutan9887]

Indeed

[@lizzard5830]

indeed

[@blaze_phoenix3327]

Indeed

[@lexyackerman7513]

Indeed

[@Cpmnk]

As a british cook working in france. French cooking is the most overrated cooking in the world. But asian styles of cooking are so much more intricate and flavorful

[@maximumforce8275]

Yeah. I went to culinary classes in my highschool from start to finish and pretty much everything praised the french style of culinary. Idk I guess it's just exotic or something.

[@helenfotopoulou5125]

My family and I went to vacation in France once when I was little. I know the tourist restaurant traps have lower quality food, but we had never been in a situation where all restaurants served food that was too disgusting to eat. We practically were running on nothing but breakfast for almost a week! (breakfast at the hotel was amazing though)

[@Nikita_Akashya]

@@helenfotopoulou5125 They can't even make edible Pizza. It's either like gum so it's uncuttable or they use too much oil so it's inedible. Worst Pizza I had in my life. All hail my edible food in good old Germany. Not every food we have here is from Germany, but at least we have more to choose from. And the Pizza is edible! Pizza is the essence of the universe.

[@TheThirdParty35]

French cooking may not be good but French baking is where it’s at.

[@theowarmindswrath]

@@Nikita_Akashya As a French in the North part, I declare you heavily miss-informed.

[@CynicalChick777]

Hey Doug and Sarah, if you're reading this what he said goes double for me.

[@MrCubFan415]

Agreed.

[@Excel-erate-]

double agreed

[@glitchytrip5680]

Doug prolly got dat yee yee ass haircut

[@jakesk8]

O

[@ayaxmcgill635]

I really hope someone can reverse engineer this whole thing, get to Sarah's fb post and link this video

[@remylarrivee4554]

2nd Story: Let's be 100% clear, OP did NOT ruin a mother and son's relationship, the MOTHER ruined that relationship by being racist towards her son's wife and lying to "protect" her son's manhood. OP's mother in law ruined her own reputation! 0/5 for OP 4/5 for mother in law!

[@CyeOutsider]

Seems like the son left his wife out there to take the heat for his vasectomy with his family. If he was more up front about it, the situation wouldn't have happened.

[@bladerunner3314]

@@CyeOutsider It sounded more like he wasn't even present - as in "called him, he came by, we left after he told her off"

[@jffrysith4365]

I totally got confused when I saw 0/5 for OP cause I thought she was in the right... but then I realised those were asshole points.

[@ahstiasummers5583]

@@CyeOutsider It sounds like the mother-in-law did all this behind her son's back so he never knew until OP's outburst

[@GigaTechWolf]

@@ahstiasummers5583 Thats Exactly what happened from the way it sounds. Plus a Vasectomy should be a Private Matter like Infertility. The MIL was just a Bitch whos "Precious Angel" could do no wrong so she decides to drive the wife away only for her whole Plan to Backfire

[@randomstudent3061]

He demonetized himself just to say tuck you against racists and Asian hate. Respect

[@clintonjhowerton9438]

Isn't his wife Asian

[@מקסיםאיבנובסקי]

@@clintonjhowerton9438 she is

[@LA_choca]

@@clintonjhowerton9438 that would explain it even more.

[@kaykay8855]

Why do in-laws believe that they’re owned grandchildren? Woman, your son CHOSE not to have children and found a partner who respects his wishes. She destroyed her own relationship with her son.

[@GamerGrovyle]

*slaps chest twice* I love this man.

[@TheVillageIdiot829]

The asian hate story: Op's only crime was literally existing in an asian body near sara.

[@graciecat9694]

"I didn't DO anything! All I did was EXIST near her!" XD

[@memeking7273]

Sister and FIL: and that's the problem you [Asia slur]

[@kats3081]

did that grown ass man deadass just say, "World of hurt" unironically? I can't even, lmao

[@ayaxmcgill635]

Mans watched despicable me one too many times 😂

[@user-zl9ge6od6o]

@@brandyhooper5151 your not wrong. Must be in his 60's lol

[@pc4189]

lol. My reply to that would have been "Cash me outside".

[@JustAKomiFan]

He’s so old everything is still in black and white

[@nikoisland6731]

the gold fish is just- "TuRtLE SAvIng IS a HoBBy" *throws tortoise into a lake to drown*

[@stargazer1998]

More like hobbyyyyyyyyyyyyy

[@abrahamthebewildered1448]

Boggles the mind that they're making her apologize. She condemned those fish to a miserable, probably very painful death. I bet she's one of those knobheads that think fish don't feel pain. Should have been the one suspended, if anything.

[@xSydneyyRae]

i was literally thinking the same exact thing!! both of those stories have identical “stupid-girl-thinks-she’s-saving-an-animal” energy. like all she did was do more harm than good, just because she was uneducated. it’s even worse that she put it on tiktok cause it seems like she only did it for clout which is fucking ridiculous. i honestly hope that dumb girl gets a shit ton of backlash from that video and eventually apologizes to OP, admitting that she was, in fact, wrong.

[@ILoveRedPandas95]

I would've face palmed, give a heavy sigh and say very slowly and clearly "Goldfish are freshwater fish, you released them into the ocean which is salt water" If one stupidly asked what's the difference I would say "Try drinking regular water then water with a bout ten spoons of salt mixed in"

[@joshduthie3401]

@@abrahamthebewildered1448 it's entirely possible that the story was as she told it. It's also entirely possible that she was a lot nastier, but glossed that over in her story. We've only got one side, as usual, so we really don't know if the school was justified or not.

[@theamazingalex99]

“snitches get stitches, and they also get 2 out of 5 buttholes” a quote to live by

[@alberthuynh6914]

Lol

[@patrickthomas6985]

indeed

[@DarkRide666]

Justice, r/ style.

[@novamarpo3]

Eh

[@Idk-tp6us]

True

[@grantt1589]

Why is the dad Insecure because he clearly does not give a shit about OP

[@limiv5272]

I feel like in the story about the 16yr girl and her mom and step family everyone ignores how she had been locked out of her own room or only allowed in at night. She was like an unwanted piece of furniture that was being shifted around long before that last incident. So glad she has a caring uncle to take her in

[@terraria4565]

The uncle’s a real one

[@crazyinsane500]

It's telling the mother and step-dad genuinely didn't understand the gravity of the situation until OP left, only *then* did they punish the step sister, and even then it was clearly more of a token gesture.

[@luvondarox]

Father's Day story: Don't forget that Step-Pisster and Step-Dad put a *lock* on the door to the room that OP shares with the shrew so that OP cannot access _her own room_ if it's being used for "art."

[@martletkay]

I know, right? Like, I'm sorry... what? The stepsister is an artist so he expects to have the room all to herself during the whole day? I'm an artist, and if I had to share a room with my sister, I would either do my art elsewhere or get used it. I do art with people around all the time. What is she doing, furry porn or something? Lol.

[@animeotaku307]

Honestly, OP moving out of her home was good for her. That stepfamily is toxic; the stepfather is insecure and the step siblings are destructive (don’t agree that stepbrother has a right to destroy stepsister’s things). And the mom is an enabler. Also, it’s ironic that Sarah compares herself to Anthony Bourdain considering that he argued that “ethnic” food should be seen as on-par with fancy cuisine and was a big fan of Asian cuisine.

[@chaosreaver3597]

Yeah. Why would OP want to remain caught between her step-siblings feud (both are extremely fast towards aggression), being bullied in her own home (seriously a lock on her own room? The step-brother used a human shield to get away with what he an done), an A-Hole for a step-father and mother who is content to OP be used as a punching bag everytime the step-family throw a tantrum. If I could, I would shout at the "Big clue you're in the wrong lady, you got shunned by your family and and they only call you to tell you to stay away because of what you did, or rather didn't do, you're bloody job as a mother."

[@TeacherinTraining39]

lol, My tastes are all over the place. I enjoy (in no particular order) Continental, German, Mexican/S. American (haven't had enough of any specific region to understand the differences very well; I just know it's good), Italian, Some British, Chinese, Japanese, Korean (Beef Bulgogi is probably my favorite Asian dish) and Hawaiian.

[@Goblinhandler]

Eh, id argue that the stepbrother should’ve destroyed her shit, if you destroy shit, then you get shit destroyed

[@nicholasfarrell5981]

@@TeacherinTraining39 ooh, Bulgogi's good. Though I must admit that Pork Ramen is my favorite Asian dish.

[@nsilvereagle]

i agree the step brother should destroy his stepsisters things, its like an eye for an eye. dont destroy things if you cant take it when ur belongings are destroyed.

[@isiaadiel3468]

I remember that TikTok and how many people were absolutely roasting them on the app. Are they gonna get all the marine biologists' degrees taken away?

[@erin8050]

Last Story: NTA, Sarah should've known to not be racist.

[@theprokoking7156]

That’s a pretty good code to go by in general

[@Papaliam_1]

i havent seen an annus in a while

[@Nekulturny]

Besides, I'll have Sarah know that I learned a LOT of great techniques from Mandy on Souped Up Recipes that I use even when I'm not cooking Asian food. Maybe Sarah should spend less time being a snobby French Chef and she might learn something.

[@SRosenberg203]

Or she at least should have known to keep it to herself. Realistically, in America people have the right to be racist if that's what they believe. What they don't have the right to do is escape from the social consequences of having those beliefs, when other people in their community find out about it. Sarah has every right to be a racist. And everyone she knows has every right to tell her that she's a piece of shit for it. Her employer has every right to demote and/or fire her, if they feel she doesn't represent the values they want at their business. That's how freedom works.

[@pauldwalker]

i’ll bet she’s single.

[@raunaresquaiwatayakanai1710]

Its really rare to see an op's relatives taking their side. It's really refreshing

[@owenogletree6374]

Agreed. Aside from Sarah and Doug, OP has himself a rock-solid bunch of in-laws.

[@Annie_Annie__]

I’m kind of amused that in the last story he said Sarah was racist, nit-picky, and egotistical to the point that she compares herself to some of the most well-known chefs there are. And that’s what it took for her friends on Facebook to go, “this is you, right?” BWHAHAHAHAHA! She got burned just by getting recognized by her own friends!

[@AmyoftheFlowerField]

The funniest part is that the chefs who compare themselves to Gordon Ramsey are the exact chefs who get torn a new asshole on Hells Kitchen, Kitchen Nightmares, and any of the other shows he's in. Someone who is truly GOOD at what they do don't need to SAY how good they are. Smart people don't brag that they're smart, badasses don't claim that their bad, good chefs don't compare themselves to Gordon Ramsey.

[@InsertCreativeusername_]

If she's just as good as Ramsay (which I doubt) I want to see the two of them do a cook off

[@commodore7331]

imagine getting fucking suspended because you called someone out for giving their pet asbestos poisoning

[@1989SupraGuyFIN]

The last story: Sarah ended up quiting herself, because whole other staff turned on her. Turned out, the restaurant she worked at is owned by a Chinese investment firm. And they didn't want to take chances with her. OP's MIL also asked for divorce (because she is a Dem, and Doug is. Well, far right turd), which ended up with Doug trashing the house and MIL packing her things to move in with OP and his wife... That's not really a powder keg anymore, that's full blown nuclear war.

[@justintreumer2272]

R/accidental nuclear revenge

[@SwiftTheHedgehog56]

@@justintreumer2272 wait, does that one actually exist? because if so yeah it deserves to go there

[@seanwhitman8353]

Holy crap. Welp, Doug just lost his wife and I will bet you good money she'll take quite a bit in the divorce. As for Sarah? Good. Fucking. Riddance.

[@1989SupraGuyFIN]

@@seanwhitman8353 Oh, yeah. I forgot to mention, that Sarah has to move, because she got her ass blacklisted from ever working in highend establishments in their area.

[@jfjvmdvbdcndkj]

How do you know all this?

[@samsonmacri941]

Fun fact, the insult, "Pussy" is the short form for the word, "pusillanimous," meaning "lacking courage, or timid"

[@jordanknight3519]

It's short for pussyfooter.

[@lizxu322]

69th like. Nice

[@nunomoure3608]

I'm gonna borrow this one, with your kind permission!

[@L33TRedNinja]

Oh. That’s interesting… 🤔

[@realrealwarpet]

Now it feels sexist to refer to a womans lady parts as a pussy

[@texastesse1126]

Went to the actual last post: Apparently the MIL and FIL are getting a divorce, SIL was forced quit and is blacklisted from high end restaurants, and neither FIL and SIL are remotely sorry for their behavior even after the consequences. Truly a AITA turned nuclear revenge post

[@AlecSmolenskiMusic]

Can you link it?

[@anto-n-4520]

omg yes pls link it

[@elyseking2566]

www.reddit.com/user/throwaway23235982353/ Here's OP's account.

[@dracko158]

They aren't even sorry for their behavior. Typical Kevin and Karen behavior.

[@SailorMya]

Its their own fault for picking this hill to die on... Sounds like the dad was always racist just needed something big to to happen so he could jump on the bandwagon against OP and he thought more people would be on it not just Sarah. I'm glad she lost her job too because she sounds like a pretty stuck up chief who will never grow her skills since she sees other foods as below her and her skill! I doubt they will grow from this...

[@digishade7583]

2:53 it’s great that OP got out of that living situation when she did because the way the step siblings acted towards her and each other just seems cruel and sociopathic and you can probably tell where they got it from

[@dracko158]

FIL: "You'll be in a world of hurt if you didn't DELETE. THAT. POST." OP: *"LOL. Peace was never an option anymore after you defended Sarah."*

[@TarisLuna]

Yea, FIL is lucky that op didn't go to the police because he threatened him.

[@thebombplayer2986]

Tbf op could've called the cops for a hate crime THEN shit would be real. Edit: and threatening grevious bodily harm

[@nicocchi]

@@thebombplayer2986 you're right, op can go ballistic, a social media post that's basically shaming them (and remember that wasn't even the original intent, this is AITA, the original intent-aside from telling the story-was asking if he should apologize) is being soft on them

[@jamesnorman9160]

"Hey Doug, I always got the impression you never really liked me that much, but thanks for proving it! Bye!" *blocks*

[@dracko158]

@@TarisLuna If I were the FIL, I would probably think that defending my daughter for being racist is messed up, and to discipline her immediately. Instead he has to double down and threaten OP with violence for simply speaking his mind. The absolute gall of that butthole.

[@BohlsachCarphaticus]

Cook joke: today's soup is made extra salty, with racist tears as a soup base. Delicious!!!

[@alberthuynh6914]

Yay the bad is sad

[@Alice-ct6ex]

@You're the racist. This is the lowest tier bait I've seen in my life 🥱😴

[@illyGalSloth]

@You're the racist. I think that's something you need to ask yourself lol.

[@travisponcelet4538]

Better STOCK up on the soup puns

[@donovanthedbzlover576]

oohh a classic entitled parent dish

[@FordPrefict42]

Gordon Ramsay is one of the most diverse chefs on the planet! Despite his years mastering many ethnic dishes, his favorite food is still a hamburger. To compare yourself to him, and then belittle someone else because they cook a different style of food is ridiculous!

[@KoriMasho]

He also happily eats anything his mom cooks.

[@Jessidafennecfox]

Gordon would probably tear into Sarah and reduce her to tears and make her reevaluate her life as a chef

[@Axion_0]

@@Jessidafennecfox oh most definitely

[@pugking1233]

@@Jessidafennecfox he would become what he hates more then bad food is prideful cooks

[@pugking1233]

He is also always wanting to learn more and show the respect that someone deserves no matter who they are

[@GassyMask]

as someone who lost their dad at 13 as well I know how important it is to have his things I'm sorry about that insecure bastard and that spoiled brat

[@CadentClock39]

Hearing "And then OP posted an update/another update" is so satisfying.

[@devilfanmik]

Indeed it is cause we rarely get updates

[@horror-hobo2292]

Dude, This Man In General Is Satisfying To Hear.

[@michael040990]

I love updates

[@Gunnabeasongwriter]

God same my smile just kept getting bigger

[@armondunkines6181]

Top 100 best feeling in the world for me ngl

[@Draygarth]

Hey Doug, how's your daughter's new burger flipping job going.

[@who.where13]

I love this comment. We need to get this more likes

[@Acefrr3]

Underrated comment!

[@fireice3040]

@@who.where13 they were actually fired, so, Doug, how do you feel about your jobless daughter?

[@sefilontheultamitetimelord7874]

They were demoted, not fired. She's a line cook now... I had to reread this comment...

[@bobbilly3606]

Theres more updates at the top. The sister WAS fired in the end.

[@TazariaGaming]

You know you messed up when even rSlash starts swearing at you uncensored. Also, completely agreed rSlash. Racists can get the hell out of here

[@angkarbasil]

Yes. Hate speech isn't free speech

[@genderno7448]

racists don’t deserve nice things

[@Real_fr-ong]

@@genderno7448 they really don’t deserve anything

[@TeacherinTraining39]

@@angkarbasil Unfortunately, whether we like it or not, any speech that isn't a direct incitement is free, whether or not we want to hear it. There is an actual Supreme Court ruling on the matter. That said, freedom of speech does not mean freedom from consequences. The racist crap Sarah spewed certainly came with consequences, and she most definitely deserved them. True story.

[@angkarbasil]

@@TeacherinTraining39 thats why im autharitarian, this toxic shit needs to be silenced

[@graziousgirl]

So happy Sarahs friends are also calling her out, way too often those people can surround themselves with the same kind

[@metademetra]

MIL: "I think my son is less of a man based on sexist stereotypes, so I'm just gonna spread awful rumors about you. Hope that's okay" MIL: "WHY DID YOU TELL MY SON I THINK HE'S LESS OF A MAN?! YOU RUINED MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY SON" People sure do know how to make no damn sense.

[@BenSmith-vd2jf]

"People sure do know how to make no damn sense." That's a good line.

[@AtotehZ]

I don't really think that was why he distanced himself from his mother. The reason he did so was because she was spreading lies about his wife and creating a scene when called out. Also, this was just the straw that broke the camel's back. The introducing him to other women and so on also left a negative impression on the husband/son.

[@meganchong365]

the goldfish story is like giving someone dairy when they’re lactose intolerant. NTA

[@ratskelll]

It's more like flushing a kitten down the toilet

[@vivixio2737]

Not to mention it was posted on tiktok Anyone with a brain is going to bombard that thing with "you're an idiot" comments without even explaining.

[@Punkan23]

Hey, people choke on food, so ima get rid of food. I'm the best person ever. NTA

[@strawberrysoulforever8336]

Worse. Someone lactose intolerant probably won't die from it. It's worse - something that would be a quick death.

[@leileyaravencroft]

Also isn’t it dangerous to introduce animals not native to certain environments? I seem to recall that it can have dangerous repercussions on the current eco systems. There are many historical events of this happening and I believe there are two famous cases, one took place in the UK, where a town overrun by rats introduced cats to get rid of them and now they have a cat problem. And another famous case for Hawai’i but I can’t remember the animal that was brought there to take care of a “vermin”, I just know that the ripple effect was that the animal started preying on other small creatures.

[@olliesaurusrex4103]

Sarah: I'm gonna rant openly at work about my racist comment! Sarah's work: *demotes her* Sarah: *surprised Pikachu face*

[@justroonhere]

She got fired too, turns out where she works is part invested by a chinese company LOL

[@Yumi_Jay]

@@justroonhere I just read the update and I was like oh man you play yourself. Also the update gave more insight into the family dynamic and it was like a "yikes" moment especially with families arguing amongst themselves like its WW3. OP did nothing wrong when posting.

[@jeremyadlermusic]

@@Yumi_Jay according to the update he even tried to find her another job through friends, OP seems like a really good person

[@tacosauce8639]

The amount of passion and rage Rslash put into that last story was pretty intense. That proves how much he cares, and that's pretty awesome.

[@fgwrts]

Holy shit that stepsister in the first story is messed up, seriously. I feel extremely bad for OP.

[@ReigoVassal]

That family is really messed up. Glad OP get out of there. Also, the mom say she did nothing to deserve it. She really deserve it because all she did was nothing.

[@danteweston2908]

What did you think of the final story?

[@louis-we8du]

ikr

[@35joannecoleman]

@@ReigoVassal the parents are enablers, the brothers spoiled for blaming OP but I get where he's coming from he wanted to get revenge but where I don't get is why rat out a kid who was expecting you not to break it, you're 20 bro grow up and OP is grieving and the first thing she thinks to destroy is her father's gift? Not only heartless but a huge asshole. Disgusting, I'd leave too.

[@creamylul6390]

Honestly I've seen siblings fight physically for a lot less I thought it was gonna end with op getting kicked out for slapping tf outta her sister

[@pascaleelliott63]

Another thing, about school's priorities and tolerances : So kids have remained in schools and have made peers lives miserable despite being all kinds of bullies to other students (from cyber bullying to all kinds of physical abuse), that the teachers and principals do little to nothing about! Yet a student risks suspension for not apologising for calling a dumbass a dumbass and calling them out for the damages made by their stupidity... Note : I know the tiktok girl actually had good intentions, but damn even I know goldfish can't survive in salt water, and I'm not the brightest bulb in the Ikea store.

[@MyDogIsYoshi]

If she had good intentions, she wouldn't have made a tiktok and then bragged about it for views

[@gabrielshadwick886]

Schools and their fucking spineless methods to dealing with bullying. being called out for animal abuse is justified. the school handled this in a shitty way.

[@PawsOnTheBalcony]

As they say: the road to hell is paved with good intentions. That moron had it coming. I knew about the difference between salt and sweet water when I was five 🤦‍♀️

[@random_guy5497]

Exactly and someone goes for actual bullying and they are like sorry we can’t do anything and then punish the victim

[@patrickshields6954]

It's about being civil. You would get fired in a workplace if you took that attitude, even if you're right. She was honestly just being a jerk and the girls might ignore her because of it. The tiktok girl was well intentioned, but OP wasn't. It wasn't about correcting a mistake to her, it was about making someone feel bad for the mistake.

[@soulgazer11]

Knowing rSlash's wife is also asian makes his commentary slightly better for the last story 😌

[@CloudedTear816]

RIGHT?! I was like this hit a little too close to home for rslash!

[@oraclemirai]

Exactly.

[@Alyrulz421]

Ugh, that first story, I feel for OP. It's incredibly frustrating how the mom cries "I didn't do anything wrong!" because she took absolutely 0 action. As if she doesn't understand the concept of being an accomplice, the *exact* same thing they got mad at OP for.

[@Jackie-McCann]

You know it’s serious when rSlash actually cusses someone out.

[@Caveman4876]

indeed

[@35joannecoleman]

Yup!

[@dustyrose192]

His wife is asian so i imagined it hit a very sentsive nerve for him

[@Manorbis]

Goodbye ad revenue for this one though.

[@FuckAssName]

@@Manorbis eh, it was at the end, so it doesn't matter as much

[@ficialintelligence1869]

My take on the Goldfish story: this was definitely a private school. And the girl who thought that she was "saving the goldfish" was most likely from an "influential" family. When I worked private schools, I saw this type of BS all the time.

[@arianebolt1575]

OP is not wrong, but there are better ways to articulate that.

[@BunchyPanther42]

@@arianebolt1575 I definitely think op deserved some sort of butthole score but yeah the school went way to far with the punishment

[@fishlady7930]

Plus working in a petstore her parents had to have bought them or where she bought them could be in legal trouble. In the United States it's illegal to sell live animals to a minor and have to have an adult physically present and have them buy it for they are breaking a federal law. I fight teenagers all the time because I don't want to break the law. Plus they could get fired selling it and it was actually abused and tortured to death.

[@ratsforlife8464]

@@fishlady7930 don’t buy from pet stores in general, the animals are not treated like they should be, especially rodent are just completely abused. Adopt or if that isn’t an option go get animals from a good and trusted breeder. And DO NOT impulse buy animals. Do research. Please.

[@fishlady7930]

@@ratsforlife8464 I get in trouble constantly by telling people either do research or if they really want a certain animal find a rescue that does. I will also refuse to sell animals to people who want them on a whim. As for quality of husbandry that varies from place to place and the employees caring. I am lucky where I work we care very much for the health and well being of every thing animal that comes in. We even bring our mice and rats to our vet for wellness checks when most do not.

[@mewtwo633]

rSlash: “Maybe I’ll post a story that doesn’t include toxic/crazy people.” The TVA:

[@ronnie2.039]

Loki reference?

[@sheh2735]

@@ronnie2.039 you're under arrest, variant.

[@MicroMarck]

@@sheh2735 quiet you're a variant as well

[@haydendenney225]

@@ronnie2.039 vid

[@JustAKomiFan]

Reddit: *Ima just pretend I didn’t hear that*

[@destinypoulter8859]

It's been almost 20 years since my mother died, and if I had prepared a gift to bring to my mother's grave and someone destroyed it because of any reason I would have either moved out or kicked them out of my life for good. NTA OP

[@AwesomenessEmpress]

"I'm sorry but it's kinda true " huh? What racist jealous person. I'm sure she was mad because she wanted to be the only chef in the family. Her dad sucks too. I'm glad the mom is making sense.

[@strawberrysoulforever8336]

Plus it's not true. The difference between French food and Chinese food is that they have different ways of cooking and different ingredients. The similarity is that they're both tied to a culture from some country. If both cultures are equal (which all cultures are), then both cultural dishes count equally.

[@strawberrysoulforever8336]

@@polmenakos Equal doesn't mean the same. We're all humans, we all have cultures. How can they not be equal?

[@ayaxmcgill635]

There's definitely a reason why op cooks in their family gatherings and not Sarah

[@strawberrysoulforever8336]

@@polmenakos They aren't the same. They're EQUAL.

[@LeannahW]

@@strawberrysoulforever8336 exactly, and americanized chinese food is not equal to true high end chinese cuisine. Saying "Just making kung pao chicken" ignores the complexity and skill it takes to make high quality chinese food. Not that I'm not for westernized chinese food but it's like comparing taco bell to an authentic mexican taco

[@NickNDSs]

as a fish keeper just hearing "saved a goldfish by releasing them to the ocean" made me cringe. let it be noted

[@jackadams3878]

*racism and bad parents* rslash: so i took it personally... also rslash: guess i'm not getting paid today XD

[@319hiroyuki]

Hours after publish, i still see the yellow ad indicators

[@hackbear5668]

You only get demonetized for cursing during the first 30 seconds of a video or if what the algorithm is "excessive cursing," which is thought to be >0.5% of the verbal content or >2 curses per minute of content averaged out over total time of the video.

[@haplessasshole9615]

Story 1: I married a widower. He had photos of himself and his first wife in many places in the house. The only one I asked him to move was the photo collage from her funeral, which he had hung on the wall directly opposite the bedroom door. I'm a pretty insecure person, but I was smart enough to realize that my husband's first wife *shaped his life* and that it would be way beyond nasty to try to expunge her memory.

[@nachotwinsmama4737]

First story: good for OP leaving her mom's house. Sounds like a very toxic environment. OP is NTA!

[@chipchipknockout6363]

Agreed

[@patrikbengtsson3883]

Was the uncle maternal and paternal?

[@deltazebes7326]

Entitled mother: It makes my son feel less of a man Son: *stands up for his wife and their choices* Yeah um he is more then what a man can be, overqualified acutally.

[@MorganVsTheInternet]

Op’s mom failed her daughter she let the stepfamily take over the house and let her daughter get locked out of her living space and loss her memories.

[@emmealsobrook4692]

16:13 fuck yeah rslash! lay into them. this is why i support your patreon. you stand up for the people in the stories and your wife!

[@bumblebee7860]

If the family actually cared about OP’s feelings when they moved away then at least we know the step sister is gonna feel like shit-as deserved

[@bubblesawesome3284]

I wanna know if their is an update. I wanna know if they are ok.

[@insufferableanarchist]

The first story set off every reactionary trigger for my rage.

[@adiyarnyoshi]

My dad also has passed away and even though it 90% probably wont happen, if it did, i would also consider moving (or convincing my mom to get out and leave with us, of course)

[@maieen2665]

@@adiyarnyoshi I'm sorry for your loss, and I also hope you don't end up in a similar situation as OP.

[@adiyarnyoshi]

@@maieen2665 thank you

[@chakatfirepaw]

An important thing to remember whenever someone tries to defend their racist joke by pointing out "it's a joke": Racist jokes are, by their very definition, racist. That they are also jokes does not change this.

[@LittleParody]

And here's the other thing that people like that need to remember: Just because it's a joke to you, doesn't mean that everyone else isn't allowed to be hurt or offended by it. And no, the people who get offended/hurt aren't just 'special snowflakes' or simply 'can't take a joke'. It's ironic how those people make such cruel jokes all willy nilly, but then they can't handle someone getting pissed over it because it's cruel. Like, if you're gonna be a jerk, can you at least NOT start acting like an entitled baby when backlash occurs?

[@anonymouscommentor411]

Idk, context matters too tbh. Like, you don't say things knowing it'll hurt someone. People often make fun of racist stereotypes for example, but sometimes people take it out of the context it was in. In this case it wasn't actually a joke though and that was just a mask for what was just an insult. Anyways, context matters. Like, I am bi and I make jokes about it and my friends join in and in that context it's fine because nobody is getting hurt and we are just having a good time and we all still love each other at the end of the day.

[@TeacherinTraining39]

The most screwed-up ethnic jokes I've heard weren't from other white people; they were mostly between black and hispanic people, telling them to each other about each other and laughing themselves to tears while they did it. They would never tell me any white people jokes, though. It sucked, lol, because I wanted to hear some. Edit: To clarify, my family is massively multi-ethnic (Black, Asian, Hispanic and Native and of course, White), so I've never grown up thinking "I have [insert ethnicity] family members," and racial tension isn't a thing in my family.

[@kemcolian2001]

im not at all defending what sarah did BUUUUUUUUUUT jokes are usually based in dark subject matter (like race). but it HAS TO BE CLEAR THAT ITS A JOKE. sarah said something racicst (not a joke) and then tried to cover her ass by saying it was "just a joke"

[@crypticcryptid4702]

@@kemcolian2001 Bet you if someone agreed with her she wouldn't have played it off as a joke.

[@Inception763]

The ending was priceless! You tell ‘em RSlash!!!

[@rylashadow18]

On the last one: OP has nothing to apologize for. Sarah's actions had consequences and are still coming back to her for her behavior. FIL proves where she gets these views as well as her behavior.

[@Project_Changeling]

I feel a bit angry at the wife in the last story. She wasn’t fully on OP’s side until the SIL yelled at her over the phone. Until then, she kept begging for OP to apologize so the fighting stops. No. I’m glad OP didn’t apologize, you don’t apologize to people who are blatantly racist and refuse to acknowledge they’re in the wrong. Otherwise, you’ll just be enabling them to do it more. So, I am a bit angry and disappointed at the wife for deciding to fully side with OP just ‘cause she got verbal abuse from her SIL instead of doing so from the get go because of what SIL said the first time.

[@anonymouspotato7538]

I agree, after four years of MAGA we need to fix the damage with an eternity of MRAA, Make Racists Afraid Again

[@TheValkyre0]

I cant be too mad at the wife because I understand it was a "Lets just keep the peace" mentality. She likely hoped that if OP apologized it would settle and she could handle it her own way. Id imagine having your sister scream at you on the phone and use slurs to describe your husband is a quick wake up call though.

[@prettyfreaknordinary7982]

@@anonymouspotato7538 Agreed my guy. They been hella wildn' for four years like it's back in the 1700s. They need a good kick into present day.

[@supervegito2277]

@@TheValkyre0 Yeah, could easily just be someone who doesnt like/isnt comfortable with drama or confrontations. Sometimes its just easier, and less painful to just.. smile and nod, so to speak. But i guess everyone has their limits and if you hit those, fuck the easy way.

[@Project_Changeling]

@@TheValkyre0 I get that, I do. But as a POC (I’m not trying to speak for every single POC, I’m just talking from my experiences, I hope this isn’t offensive or harmful) who’s experienced very harsh racism from someone who was, at the very least, supposed to respect me, I find it difficult to keep the same views of “keeping the peace” when it comes to race. I’m not saying OP’s wife is racist or doesn’t understand racism because she isn’t a POC, but it just seems really insensitive to prefer keeping the peace/trying to control the situation in her own way until the same racist person yelled at her rather than defending her husband from the start. And I’m pretty sure most of this is because she’s Caucasian. It doesn’t mean she’s a bad person or anything, it just means she’s probably unknowingly insensitive. But I hope you can understand where I’m coming from and go from there, if that makes sense.

[@azaezelare173]

The stories today were incredible! Rslash had every right to curse and I’m glad he did. That last story though, it’s incredible how things can devolve and an entire family feud can start.

[@xvaldez3284]

Lol I love how you spit out the word "p*ssy" with such venom and I completely agree. What a little man

[@becausereasons5235]

On the last story, the FIL isn’t being a good husband either for attacking his SIL w/o even discussing his feelings with his wife and instead making it appear as if they were all of the same terrible opinion and leaving SIL and their daughter alienated

[@thebombplayer2986]

Last story was a fucking banger tho

[@justaperson4656]

On that goldfish one: you know what they say, the road to hell is paved in good intentions, set in stone by ignorance

[@princessstewart8196]

So your saying that the little girl with good intentions is going to Hell, okay

[@TheWoollyFrog]

@@princessstewart8196 According to Christian doctrine, people of all ages can go to hell for a lot less. However, hurting animals isn't one of the ways to end up there because animals are just tools created for our benefit.

[@justaperson4656]

@@princessstewart8196 no, I'm saying that people can do bad things without realising it, or do them accidentally with good intent Why on earth would you think I was saying she'd go to hell? I'm not even Christian

[@IrkenExile]

@@TheWoollyFrog That's why I'm glad I'm not part of mainstream Christian faiths; who TF says babies go to hell for not being baptized?

[@princessstewart8196]

@@justaperson4656 I was being sarcastic

[@medukathemeguca]

Everyone gansta until rSlash doesn't censor swear words

[@TheCrystallizedVoid]

Yeah XD Also hey a Meduka Meguca fan XD

[@medukathemeguca]

@@TheCrystallizedVoid yes

[@TheCrystallizedVoid]

@@medukathemeguca nice

[@rachelphilhower3330]

When I heard that I was like wait did I hear that right????

[@johngennaria7081]

@@rachelphilhower3330 he seems to be doing more swearing (regardless of censorship is used) lately again. I guess after nearly 1000 stories you learn to sometimes leave the filter off for the sake of making the vid more impactful and your thoughts more known on stuff like AITA.

[@sephypsycologist]

i really hope that racist part of the family sees this and feels how stupid they are for being racist.

[@supercowviralanimals4384]

I hate when people demand an apology… no if it’s justified, NO APOLOGY!

[@ilyte1]

I would apologize even when I'm not sorry at all and then they would lose their s*** because I'm not sorry. well then stop demanding and apology. I will feel sorry for the things I'm supposed to feel sorry for

[@amaeliss7827]

I choked hearing the uncensored swearing. Like. Straight up loudly choked. But it was deserved.

[@ThomS2801]

I know right, I wasn’t expecting that

[@AestheticWaif]

I snorted my coffee lol

[@amaeliss7827]

@@ThomS2801 and I swear all the fucking time, it's just that coming from him, these days?? Unexpected

[@zwabbah4841]

Same

[@songohan3321]

Sometimes, it has to be this way.

[@OzyTTv]

That last story…. Sheesh. That literally went nuclear so fast. Edit: for anyone wondering the link to the original thread was posted in the comments, and sheesh it got worse. So to be honest it was deserved. Edit 2: remember if you comment on their post or on any comments please try and be respectful regardless of who they are. Even if they think that op was the ahole try and be respectful. Op wasn’t though.

[@Srade2412]

it is definitely close to going supernova

[@OzyTTv]

@@Srade2412 true

[@Lb29356]

It got worse. Just found the original story: www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/o5pzzy/aita_for_calling_my_sil_a_racist_after_she/?

[@OzyTTv]

@@Lb29356 oh shoot thanks

[@OzyTTv]

So much worse…

[@jacquelineastorga558]

Moment of appreciation to the uncle in the first story 😌

[@matthewn7287]

Hahahaha RSlash you legend! Being Asian myself and hearing all the support and fight against racism has made my day. Well done Sir!

[@adiyarnyoshi]

Op: is a (possibly) famous chef with many trophies and rewards, but is humble and doesnt brag Sarah: a probably newbie/average chef who brags every second of the day, compares herself to the most famous chefs (i bet her cooking could be done better by a 7 year old) , and is racist

[@johngrim3468]

5 bucks says if she went on hells kitchen she would be the first to go

[@clarky23]

@@johngrim3468 10 bucks says she wouldn't even survive the audition to be on Hell's Kitchen

[@GamerGrovyle]

You're being unreasonable here. If she works in an upscale restaurant and has 7+ years of experience then she's clearly no slouch. You don't get a job in a upscale kitchen through sleeping with the manager. The tempo in there is so intense that having a blumbering buffoon in there humming about would lose you your chefs faster than your customers. That however has no bearing on her personality or will excuse her racism. You can be a terrible person and still be a good chef.

[@Idontknowwhyidothisanymore]

You know rslash is passionate about what he's saying when he keeps in a swear & risks demonitization. that story absolutely warranted it

[@gothicgolem2947]

I don’t think swearing dempnitizes i mean it might if he’s on KZbin Kids but apart from that pediment pie swear canoes swears there’s tons of KZbin’s who swears I don’t think it demonitizes

[@Idontknowwhyidothisanymore]

@@gothicgolem2947 i think he tries to keep it family friendly so his videos can gain more traction, so it would necessarily demonitize him, just limit potential viewers, that's all I mean

[@gothicgolem2947]

@@Idontknowwhyidothisanymore ohhh ok i think it can still gain traction just look at the views pewdiepie and vanoss get but i get what you mean more kids could see it

[@sh4y4b4e]

Hearing rslash bust out with the word *pussy* so aggressively made me laugh so hard (also very correct about him being one)

[@capnMAN]

I like how the last story is basicly "Someone was racist to me! AMITHEBUTTHOLE?"

[@Jono997]

I mean, when you put it like that, yeah, it does sound kinda stupid and almost validation baity, but I'm glad OP posted it anyway, since he accidentally dismantled a racist's life.

[@TheAngryMoth104]

Basically all the posts there are either, 1. I was beaten, abused, racially profiled and gang raped but someone cut their knuckle on my tooth and it hurt them, am I the asshole? Or 2. I’m an actual monster who wants validation for the awful things I did, am I the asshole

[@animeotaku307]

@@TheAngryMoth104 I mean, I can get why people in the first group might be genuine in asking. The worst thing about abuse is how abusers can make their victims feel like assholes for not doing what the abusers want. In those cases, they need someone on the outside to tell them that it's not normal.

[@bradenr867]

Rslash has been cursing more often hasn’t he? And I like it

[@christianzdon3997]

Clearly, RSlash isn't worried about swearing anymore.

[@supercowviralanimals4384]

I guess it’s just one of those days

[@vivekshindhe7336]

Its only about things that hit a nerve with him. His wife is asian.. And its not been a fun time for them in USA right now. The other time was the daughter post. His just had a baby girl.. So it touched a nerve there as well... In these times... Its justified i guess

[@LokiSavageGamer]

He only stopped swearing to broaden his viewership. It still comes out when he gets emotionally charged.

[@CBlueduck]

This is my fav R/slash because of how amazingly harsh and perfect it is

[@Toaster-draws]

On the gold fish story: I agree with Rslash that Op could've handled it better. I understand that Op likes fish, but maybe Op could've explained it without calling them idiots.

[@ratsforlife8464]

Okay, but it’s pretty common knowledge that goldfish aren’t saltwater fish. Op just told the truth. She is an absolute idiot.

[@jameson1239]

@@ratsforlife8464 true however there are better ways of explaining that then just insulting a person

[@nachtaron]

@@jameson1239 That's not even an insult at this point, who tf is so dumb to release goldfish into salt water while filming it for tiktok likes? play stupid games, win stupid prices, she's an absolute idiot. 🤦‍♂️

[@jameson1239]

@@nachtaron true but she won’t learn from her mistake and may even double down on it due to insulting her

[@nachtaron]

@@jameson1239 like I said, that's not even an insult at this point. Also if she truly cares about the animals she's trying to "help", instead of being a drama queen, she could take the idk 3 seconds to reflect on why what she did was pretty dumb. If she can't do that, there wasn't much to save anyway. Why are we so afraid to call people out on what they are? Sarah in the lsst story is a cut and dry racist, you wouldn't try to deminish that either, would you?

[@gedion4000]

#1 sort of happened to me. My sister was jealous and threw away all the things my father gifted me before he died. Nearly $40k in tools and personal items.

[@xKCAZxLEADER]

That last story was insane 😂😂😂. Gotta love that domino effect, all by calling out a racist

[@jamieemeagi7377]

After being hooked on Reddit content for about a year *I'm still amazed* by this situation. I've heard everything from: delusional parents (who shouldn't be parents tbf), cheating, narcissism, douchey companies, amazing wholesome posts, advice and many things... but hhhhhhhhhhhhooooooooooooollllllllllllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

[@candiedick9462]

OMG, FIl and SIL on the last one both need a massive reality check! I'm glad MIL lost it on FIL. FIL could go live with SIL and wait for divorce papers. People hurt my head.

[@aimeeprincessofpower]

So glad she has the support of her uncle. Losing a parent is the hardest thing, especially as a child.

[@velvety2006]

- she moved on rather quickly- yea I am suspecting mom was messing around with stepdad while Op's dad was dying

[@tristenbailey8442]

Ramsey would tear Sarah apart for trying to stand where he stands without actually earning it, ya know?

[@SRosenberg203]

I'd love to hear that rant haha. She'd definitely cry

[@songohan3321]

Ramsey would tear Sarah apart with rare insults, the funniest type of insults.

[@ilyte1]

@@songohan3321 firstly I'm a big fan of your character

[@mco220]

wow that's really refreshing to hear the husband stand by the wife

[@jdhorror]

I totally agree with you about the stepdad in the first one. If my wife died and I was eventually able to move on to find someone else, if that woman was insecure and asked me to get rid of things that belonged to my wife, that would be the end of that relationship. Also, I'm a 35 year old man. I lost my dad to cancer 7 years ago and there are still times I cry my eyes out after thinking about something, then thinking to myself "oh man, dad would love to hear about that, or hear that funny story" only to remember that I can never talk to him again. It's tough, every deals with grief in different ways, so no matter what, you let someone have their own feelings and emotions through their grief.

[@Cheetoh-ir3wy]

Since Sarah said “it’s just making kungpao” and she’s comparable to Gordon Ramsey I would invite her to a dinner service, surely she can keep up right?

[@krystencabbage1032]

Invite Gordon Ramsey over for dinner and have her cook for him, see how that goes.

[@RegenWasTaken]

@@krystencabbage1032 we'd see Gordon Ramsay fucking go Super Saiyan from rage

[@ilyte1]

@@RegenWasTaken but he's already blonde

[@RegenWasTaken]

@@ilyte1 there's a difference between blonde and piss yellow

[@ilyte1]

@@RegenWasTaken I can't tell if you're saying that the super Saiyan transformation is piss yellow and to that I say, no screw you. The super Saiyan transformation is glowing blind it's like a freaking neon stick was stuck on their head

[@Ahrpigi]

"Oh no, the consequences of my own actions!"

[@randomstuff8149]

The last post is the Reddit post incarnation of the “War Pigs” song.

[@justasentientmclarenp1879]

How so?

[@airplanemaniacgaming7877]

@@justasentientmclarenp1879 an absolute fucking mess of fighting. one side making stupid verbal choices, saying veeeery stupid things, and getting a crowd to try and follow them. *Fortunately, that shit backfired.*

[@JurassicKM]

WHOOOAA, LORD YEAH!

[@xenonentity]

The goldfish story is so upsetting on so many levels. First, releasing a freshwater fish into saltwater will guarantee that fish a slow, excruciating death. Second, if she had released the goldfish into freshwater, it has the chance to become invasive and disrupt native wildlife; released goldfish can cause a lot of damage. Third, buying fish from pet stores to "save" them just encourages them to overbreed and maltreat MORE fish. Absolutely gross to do something like that for clout.

[@nancyhetzke3885]

Shouldn’t the teacher and the family should get a BH score If some one is an idiot , they are an idiot