Ruining Your Love Lives

[@itsgabibelle]

Install Merge Gardens for Free clik.cc/Vls7Q and build your own beautiful garden🌻

[@ceoofmyass]

i will install this game because of you gabi

[@30thcenturyhomer]

i submit my question to email

[@transsexual_computer_faery]

i like this game because i get payed moeny buy the game to play the game that's whey i palyed the game

[@dougrr4342]

gabi’s sister just grabbing the mic is honestly so funny

[@bruce-le-smith]

i"m dying, so funny

[@NankitaBR]

And Gabi just giving up trying to get it back and just pulling it towards herself when she is talking but not taking it off her sister's hand lol

[@VirtualMarmalade]

real older sibling shit tho tbh lmao

[@d.laveyyy]

its like player 1 vs player 2 controllers lmaoo

[@Leaf321]

Gabi's sister grabbing the mic has older sibling is always player 1 vibes

[@drunkenprayer8390]

"You'll find someone just as inept as you and bond over that." This is a pretty accurate reflection on every relationship I've had.

[@pancake2700]

My sister, who has always been more quiet/shy, just married the one quiet guy in a very loud, very big family. His family loves having big family parties with all the aunts, uncles, cousins, etc, and at these parties my sister and her husband will go off to the side to just quietly hang out together. Which is honestly pretty iconic. I brought it up in my speech at their wedding and was like “I don’t think you can do that tonight tho”

[@Smauritsius]

Hey Gabi, as a proud Dutch person 🇳🇱, I can tell you that sure, we love our fast food, but the truth is, the fries craze in Amsterdam is exaggerated for tourists. Fries are a budget-friendly and convenient food choice for travelers, making them a hot commodity in the city. Additionally, fry shops are a profitable business with low overhead, as they can be run by anyone with basic skills and require minimal space. With the sky-high cost of shop space in Amsterdam, it's no wonder why fries are a go-to option! 🍟🇳🇱

[@zolizard]

thanks M.M.O for the fry facts!

[@abbyz13]

that’s kinda sad tho that instead of regional food you just appease tourists

[@ScaloraProductions]

Well I’m Dutch too and this person is completely wrong. Everywhere in the Netherlands you find a fry shop every 300 meters and it’s the most common form of fast food for the Dutch. Also, we don’t really have a great cuisine, so there is not much else to offer the tourists. The Dutch just stole dishes from around the world.

[@nothankyou]

They're called chips! They're famous in the Netherlands and Belgium because their chips are very good. Best chipshop in Amsterdam is Chipsy King 👌👌 Fries are what they sell in McDonalds.

[@rbxless]

@@abbyz13 It's like building a Disneyland in the middle of Paris oh wait

[@guilhermeshiba3135]

the clocktower prom guy is actually such a good writer and storyteller, i feel like he would write great books so he's got that going on for him if her crush ends up not breaking up with the other guy

[@thenightjackal]

great wattpad writer

[@abbyz13]

but he’s also a walking red flag. how is no one talking about it. obsessing over someone you know like that is so weird and unhealthy

[@moxum8855]

@@abbyz13 I would say it’s super weird but it’s most definitely unhealthy. If your acting like that you gotta work on yourself so you can be in a healthy relationship eventually. Classic anxious obsessive attachment style wouldn’t have been good even if you did get the girl

[@serenedystopia3488]

@@abbyz13 he’s also a child tho, crushes at that age have a tendency to get overpowering, especially because of the hormones. I’ve definitely felt like this when I was a teen but don’t anymore. Give him time.

[@dziabuka1981]

@@abbyz13 I wouldn't say it's weird but it's deffinitely unhealthy. It can litteraly drain you up. If something doesn't work out, you can cry about it, but then you should move on

[@maelovessleep]

Here's a fun story regarding "office romance". One of my ex bosses actually sat me down for a meeting to talk about how I wasn't allowed to date my supervisor. I had to explain to her that we weren't in a relationship, and that he was already dating someone and we were just friends. Over the course of a month, I received several warnings about the inappropriate behavior of dating my supervisor from this boss, despite the fact that I never was. My supervisor at the time also had to tell my boss several times that we were just friends. We eventually weren't allowed to work with each other anymore because we were "too friendly". I was making minimum wage at the time and wasn't about to deal with this level of harassment, so I quit shortly after. That same supervisor and I still saw each other as friends outside of work. He broke up with his at the time girlfriend a little before I quit my job. A week later, I got super drunk one night, accidentally confessed to him, and 3 years later we're now engaged and I'm the happiest I've ever been. I don't think that counts as an "office romance" but the people around us clearly saw it that way. Just something fun to share!

[@havenschade8174]

Based

[@kerrithornton]

I love this for you both X ❤❤❤

[@melondoesyoutube]

I can't be the only one who loves this style of video right? 10/10 (please make more)

[@sphericalsphere21]

agreed I love it lmao

[@certifiedbruhmoment85]

RIGHT??? kinda reminds me of deb smikle and her sister but more tame 😭 😭 love the sister belle vibes sm tho

[@blaroe]

@@certifiedbruhmoment85 YESSSS THIS! I watch them so much that this does feel like a chiller version of their anonymous confessions and advice videos!

[@TayMcKenzieNZ]

Gabi's sister is like, what AI gives you when you ask it to give you a older version of Gabi who's married and has ADHD 😂

[@leahgale]

I LOVE HOW SHE TALKS

[@sleepycrows]

Gabi also has ADHD, so this isn't far off lmao

[@thenightjackal]

@@sleepycrows DOPPEL ADHD

[@KarmasAB123]

@@sleepycrows So, she's Gabi squared?

[@zwsh89]

and the last few answers in the video were like what an AI gives you if you ask it to give you relationship advice

[@maxdumpsterdive]

gabi belle in Amsterdam, what’s next?? what a wacky world we live in

[@diarrheapool]

Gabi entertainment is the best entertainment

[@hoshik0]

what a wacky silly goofy world

[@thenightjackal]

and I think to myself "what a beautiful wacky silly goofy little world"

[@moonxliqht]

gabi belle where's waldo edition

[@swordkitty]

SHES HEREV WHATTHEF FUFCKCK

[@shadylittlefox]

Holy shit the advice given, "she will be seasoned and you could get practice too" is such a great tactful way to redirect people in a positive way! Well done!

[@wolfsisterhowls]

Unless he takes it literally and uses other women and relationships as practice placeholders for his one true love 🥴

[@shadylittlefox]

@@wolfsisterhowls lol life isn't a sitcom

[@wolfsisterhowls]

@@shadylittlefox you're right, people are even dumber in real life

[@shadylittlefox]

@@wolfsisterhowls touch grass

[@wolfsisterhowls]

@@shadylittlefox are you ok?

[@tylerdoesstuff6834]

One thing I took away from this video is that Gabi is an aunt

[@vawqer1744]

Regarding giving hints to a girl as another girl, I find that sapphics often pick up on the hints, but don't know whether it's a hint or just being friendly. There's also just the hints that we miss altogether lmao

[@plushdragonteddy]

THISSSS lmao !! there’s such a tendency to constantly joke “haha what if we dated haha just kidding… unless 👀”

[@elainelouve]

True. My ex tried to give a lot of hints. When I wasn't picking on them, as I was just thinking we're friends, she proceeded to asking straight if I want to have s*x with her.x) So very straight forward... I was out of the closet and so was she, and I just said yes, why not, and we dated for a while.

[@vawqer1744]

@@elainelouve I don't think that was asking straight, but rather asking gay ;)

[@elainelouve]

@@vawqer1744 😂

[@ironcomics99]

gabis sister is litterally just an older version of gabi and im here for it XD

[@scarletgarciaa]

what do you think siblings are

[@chloehatfield8450]

@@scarletgarciaa LMMAOOOOO

[@jankounchained4211]

Ummm, okayyyyy???

[@ILoveMilkingWhales]

With hints of the judge from the good place

[@basementdwellercosplay]

I love seeing siblings with a bigger age gap being really sweet and friendly with each other. My sister and I are 5 years apart and are also good friends so it's nice seeing it in other sibling pairs

[@michaelpodgorski1692]

As someone under the umbrella of asexuality (demi and grey) it isn't that we don't want relationships. It's hard to nail down because there are so many nuances and categories within asexuality, but even AroAce (think of them as those who do not feel romantic or sexual attraction) can still desire a relationship, for whatever that needs to them.

[@Stormflame]

Jup, I’m AroAce, and even among us there’s still some that want a relationship despite not feeling the attraction… I used to too but I learned the hard way that I’m not comfortable with that at all lol but yea, it’s tough and annoying sometimes to be surrounded by „standard romance“ all the time so I definitely understand how the person asking the question feels…. I even like romance to a degree, I’m a bit of a romantic even, but being confronted with the expectation that everyone should have a partner can make you feel like you’re not enough. More rep and more possibilities for alternative lifestyles would be so cool! I’d love to have a family in a qpr eg

[@bongibot1104]

It's definitely an odd thing, but it's something you both need to figure out as it goes. My partner was ace/aro and it made things very wierd because they tried to satisfy physical needs without going there if that makes sense but they didn't really enjoy it and I kept getting blue balled in that sense lol. Emotionally they were so focused in trying to please me that I couldn't just talk to them and get to know them and my dumb/baby brain couldn't tell them to chill for a bit so we could just talk instead of making out. It was the most uncomfortable thing. They're a romantic for sure but they were so focused on trying to please me in ways that they not only didn't want to do but also were not interested in doing regardless. We were miserable in our own ways and I had to break it before it got messy. Back to the original story just had to vent to a youtube comment for a sec, you really have to work out boundaries but also those nuances and needs that both people have.

[@EER0000]

We don’t have a strong food culture here in the NL, but fries are the thing you grow up with as the cheat meal of the week when your parents don’t want to cook. It’s fast, it’s cheap and it’s tasty when combined with the appropriate sauce (which is satay sauce). Besides Amsterdam I recommend Leiden, just as nice but less tourists, have fun! 😊

[@Mr5tanley]

Yes! Leiden, Utrecht, Delft, Haarlem and if you're feeling fancy (bc travel time) maybe Groningen or Maastricht. All great places and a lot cheaper than Amsterdam too.

[@Psychorico]

@@Mr5tanley Haha, mentioning travel time as a con in the netherlands, when nothing is farther than 2 hours by car.

[@Mr5tanley]

@@Psychorico proves that I'm Dutch I guess lol

[@vickysmashesyouwithahammer]

@Keebs here the national argument is about what you call the fries. it's either 'friet' or 'patat' and everyone has an opinion on what the right name is lol

[@iisalex333]

for the bi girl- just ask her to be your valentine and if it goes wrong play it off as a silly lil joke (no flaws works every time (this statement has not been reviewed by the fda please talk to your doctor to see if asking your bff to be your valentine is right for you))

[@captainnemo7690]

I've been Valentines with another single friend! Multiple times! Even if she isn't into it as a romance thing, it's genuinely fun to have someone to hang out with and a relationship to celebrate on a day that's kind of engineered to make single people uncomfortable. Highly encourage other people to do it, even with friends they don't have a crush on.

[@xblowsmokex]

Respect for closing both parentheses

[@nootics]

@@xblowsmokex seen too many exercise sheets at uni fail at this (especially engineering exercise sheets, those people suck at writing and grammar.

[@xblowsmokex]

@@nootics bruh

[@sophiaisabelle027]

Amsterdam looks absolutely stunning. Gabi never seems to fail with delivering great content.

[@talkingtochapri]

I see your comments everywhere ✨

[@DigitalVanquish]

It's a great city to visit, and everyone was very friendly to tourists. I can definitely recommend it in December (I went just before Christmas '22).

[@tattooedkittykat]

Ayyyyyeee another Tinder success story here! I didn't meet my now husband until I was 28. I always believed I wasn't going to find a long-term partner, but it did eventually happen. It's been almost 5 years since we have been together and I couldn't be happier. Trust me, the feeling of being alone while all your friends are happy and living fulfilling live's isn't something that's easily overcome. But as Gabi said, while not everyone may be your perfect match, someone who is will come along ✨️

[@libbykenilworth]

For the last question the person asking could also possibly aro-spec, or maybe even AroAce (Asexual is where you experience little to no sexual attraction, and aromantic is where you experience little to no romantic attraction). As both ace and aro are spectrums, the person asking could fit in anywhere on those spectrums. Or they could just not want a relationship which is completely fine too! And I agree - Asexuality is hardly ever talked about in the media, and I don’t think that I’ve ever seen Aromanticism mentioned outside of two books that were literally focused around an AroAce or Ace main character, with supporting queer characters, with some of them being Ace and/or Aro themselves. (This is coming from an Asexual Biromantic person, so if I hope it’s helpful)

[@timothytumusiime2903]

👋 So, what are the titles Coz, I'm positive I'm aro coz I'm never really interested in relationships even with OK interactions with the opposite gender But I'm definitely het. Confused 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@steeliewheelies]

I don’t know if it’s the mic or you two just have angelic voices but this was very nice to listen to lol story time is the best

[@Dinosauringg]

My biggest red flag is someone who negatively judges harmless interests, biggest green flag is being nice to strangers! Amazing video

[@rocko34]

The whole having feelings for a best friend is a difficult one for me. I’ve had multiple “best friends” secretly have deep feelings for me and it always ends with everyone’s feelings getting hurt, and us falling out and never talking again. I think it’s hard to end a friendship but if you’re in love with them, the friendship will never be enough for you and it’ll be too painful to continue. Trust me! And it left me feeling betrayed and like the only reason we were friends was because they were into me… so yeah I don’t recommend it.

[@superbob24]

Yeah, my problem is I don't get attracted by physical beauty (although I do notice and appreciate it) so I've only gotten crushes on girls in my friend group and I either get friend zoned, find out they aren't single, or rejected when I do make the move and it feels awkward because I start to doubt myself and assume that they are going to think everything I have done with them/want to do with them is because of my crush and not the genuine friendship.

[@xxxaragon]

"And it left me feeling betrayed and like the only reason we were friends was because they were into me… " which is why I never understood the idea of wanting to stay being friends while secretly being in love with the other person. because as you said, to me it would shine a very different light on certain situations in retrospect. e.g. die she/he really give me the best advice about my relationship or was she/he trying to sabotage it?

[@rocko34]

@@xxxaragon preeaach! Imo it comes from a place of shame about how they feel and trying to convince themselves that they don’t like you There were so many times when they would act like they were happy for me when I was dating only to get super jealous and start creating issues out of nowhere. I realised we’ll never be able to be friends because I’ll never be able to give them what they want

[@InvisibleRen]

Who else is aromantic and watching this? 👀 Gotta admire the effort people put into romance.

[@megangriffith9944]

aromantic person here as well!!

[@みな-g4y]

19:25 the term for that is actually aromatic😭 I know many people don’t know the difference but I love to spread info on asexual and aromatic awareness💜 nice vid

[@ninjajoe0513]

The sibling dynamic is awesome lol. Life is insanely busy having a kid, but it'd be great to have her back on!

[@Kirakirasama]

OMG😂 I've been enjoying Gabi's content and she reminds me a little of my baby sis (who is nine years younger) and so finding out that she has a sis nine years older and watching this relatable/cute dynamic warmed my cold dead heart ❤️

[@ryanpooley]

I love seeing sister trying to grab the mic out of your hand but then waiting for you to finish but then grabbing it as soon as the sentence is over is so funny!

[@its4theer]

petition for gabi's sister to be in more videos, 1 a month maybe? Please we love you

[@leahgale]

potion

[@lukejones0826]

@@leahgalepotion

[@iMrp1]

@@leahgale pototion

[@leahgale]

@@iMrp1 potototion

[@desertracoon9599]

Please God no she’s so painfully millennial and all her advice was so bad

[@iainronald4217]

My biggest red flag is people who disrespect boundaries. I haven't dated much since 2013, but when I did, I wound up in emotionally abusive relationships with women who would threaten to kill any woman that even looked at me. Not surprisingly, it takes a long time to recover from those mentally. So, when I tell someone a boundary and they break it constantly, or they show signs of possessiveness, I immediately clip off the relationship. For green flags, I'd say somebody who is okay with people taking medication. I’m autistic and bipolar, and while medication might not help some people, it’s helped me greatly. So, when I sit down with somebody and the topic comes up and they’re not immediately turning into GigaMac and screaming “FLUSH IT ALL NOW!” Then, I can have a decent amount of respect for that person.

[@keineken_3281]

She's married and that office relationship was the sexiest thing she had, her husband has to be working on that right now 😂

[@plushdragonteddy]

8:13 honestly, i think prom guy’s mistake was going too big. i totally understand wanting to have the perfect, most romantic moment when you ask someone out, but not only did setting up the promposal lose precious time, but you don’t know if she’s into you yet !! if someone i wasn’t into did some HUGE thing with flowers to ask me out, at best i’d be embarrassed for them, and at worst i’d be creeped out. for the future, just ask people out like “hey, i’m interested in you, do you wanna go out sometime?” and you can save the theatrics for later. also, don’t expect her to go out with you. it’s fine to have some hope, but honestly, i’ve had guys be into me in our friendships & then turned them down, and i ALWAYS liked them better after they stopped acting weird around me bc they didn’t think they had a chance anymore. just be her friend. if you want her to be happy, be her friend. maybe she’ll date you one day, maybe she won’t, but you can’t be a good friend to her until you accept the fact that you might have to move on. also, if it helps, the guy i thought i’d marry when i was in high school ended up being a bad match, so all hope isn’t lost for your love life if she never dates you. you’ll find someone else who’s just as perfect, i know it :)

[@halla3184]

Yes, this! Poor dude set himself up for failure trying to grasp for “perfection”. Get her “yes” first, perform grand romantic gestures later

[@potatoenjoyer4745]

Yo, its me lmao. Yeah… yeah. I overthought everything, and should’ve just grew a pair and asked her. Face to face. But i think im starting to move on, not that were not friends still, we are, but im trying to treat it like that, a friendship

[@plushdragonteddy]

@@potatoenjoyer4745 hell yea !! given how things have already gone, i think that’s the best way to proceed for sure. i wish u the best, man :)

[@serene3175]

@@potatoenjoyer4745 don’t even worry, there are so many people out there who will see you as you are and love you. you won’t have to make any grand gestures for them, they’ll just appreciate you for being there.

[@MrNigel117]

19:24 i think the better term would be aromantic. both asexual and aromantic generally get conflated (usually due to there being mostly aroace people that make up the aro/ace communities), but there is a difference. romanticism is more focused on the relationship aspect of things, so being aromantic just means you aren't really interested in a committed relationship of any kind. being asexual is having little or no interest in sexual activity. there are asexual people who want romantic relationships, and have romantic preferences similar to sexual preferences. there are aromantic people that still enjoy and want to have sex. there's also some asexual people that will have sex with a partner if it's something they are comfortable with, and they're usually doing it to make their partner happy because their partner might not be asexual.

[@addiepiper7786]

I'm sorry but Gabi just awkwardly sitting there with a smile while her sister holds the mic and gives advice is truly the funniest shit

[@potatoenjoyer4745]

Yo, its clocktower guy. Thank you so much for reading my lil shitshow of a love life. As far as an update, they still together, and im not so hung up. I went too big with the “perfect date” and shouldve just grown a pair. Were both going to college soon, So i doubt we’ll see each other again, which might be healthy, might not, we’ll see. I believe life will play out the way it plays out, and wherever im at, ill be happy. Also love the video, love your channel, love your vibe, keep it up ur going places fs

[@Blank-jt3nj]

There's never gonna be a perfect time for anything. If you're really feeling someone, tell them as soon as possible because waiting around is just gonna lead to regrets. Good luck, man 🤙

[@s_nichim]

Reacting on different parts of the video lmao I really relate to the part with wishing you never dated that friend you lost after the breakup I'm a straight girl, and had the female friend that was actually from my city, so we were texting for like 3 months. At some point we decided to meet in person, which let to hanging out a lot, because we were generally the type of friends that understand each other from the first letter of the word She moved to another country to study, and by that time we started going out, because I was in my "i feel like I might be a bi but I'm not sure" period of life. We were texting a lot and spending a lot time together I sincerely loved our friendship, but later on I realized that I'm not in love with her, when I came to visit her and we lived together for about a month. I didn't like kissing her, I didn't enjoy your "funtime in bed" (youtube please don't ban me), so I told her everything, and we broke up. I know it was extremely hard for her, I know she loved me a lot We're not talking since then. She even sent me everything I gifted to her, and threw out my fav t-shirt I left for her... I feel so bad :")

[@Nelkami]

Videos from your channel always makes me feel warm generally, and in turn makes me wanna be a better person. I guess that's what the good content creators always strive for, just making the world a better place I loved this style of content btw! Stuff's diamond

[@CampCounselorKeivn]

I need more of Gabi and her sister, I live for the dynamic friggin adorable.

[@s_nichim]

This technique with doing something to provoke the anxiety doesn't always work, IDK why my therapist also suggested it to me... I've been dealing with severe anxiety every day when i was going into subway to go to university and come back home, and it was getting stronger and stronger, until i wasn't even able to go outside without feeling like i'm gonna throw up, pee my pants and faint at the same time lmao (i'm so sorry)

[@bruce-le-smith]

ah that's too bad, it's true that everyone is unique

[@infinite-ichthyologist]

An important part of effective exposure therapy is for it to be in digestible doses where your thoughts are able to briefly tango with the anxiety. If you don't feel safe and the experience is too much, then repeating that is not going to be exposure therapy, it's going to build into a trigger

[@doingo648]

Yea you might just need to do things in Super small bites. Like if you have a licence is the car a safe place? You could just drive around the block to start, or have someone drive you if that's a possibility? If you have a house with a yard, going out the back door and hanging out there for a few minutes may work to start

[@Hailey-bz2ym]

It does work it just has to be done carefully and correctly

[@halseydawn3729]

I was there 3 months ago 😭 I know exactly where you're sitting in the intro and I'm jumping up and down with excitement I'm just so happy I was there. Love u Gabbi

[@izznt]

I've known my boyfriend since grade 9, but we only started dating last year (I made the first move) and we're 26 now. I love the term seasoned. That explains it perfectly. I'm gonna marry this man.

[@wizonce]

16:05 update since i wrote this 1. omg i cant believe i got put here thank you 2. she rejected me lol so i, yesterday, thinking that this video would be uploaded in a few weeks or something and that my email wouldnt be there, came out to my friend and told her EVERYTHING. that i was bi, since when i was bi, and of course, that i liked her. after a few hours, she wrote me a letter rejecting me. it said that she obviously still wanted to be my best friend (which im very much relieved about) and that she was glad that i had trusted her to tell her my sexuality (my friend group isn't homophobic (in fact almost all of them are lgbtq+) but the problem is that they make a huge fuss whenever shit like someone coming out happens, and apparently its even worse if i try coming out because they are SURE that i'm straight which is why i havent wanted to come out. im shy and dont want to be the center of attention which is why i dont want anyone else from my friend group making a big fuss out of my situation) but that, while she loved me, she simply felt a platonic love for me, not a romantic one. of course, i was disappointed but after 30 minutes of crying inside my bathroom and listening to gangam style and some old kelly clarkson songs (yes, im 13 and listening to someone only 40 year old wine moms listen to) i felt a bit better and was able to go to the outside world again. so yeah...if only i had decided to wait another day to see if lady gabi balls uploaded...but well, at least this girl still wants to be my friend. thanks for the advice though, gabi, because i might be able to use it later on :)

[@linaforrestal9209]

THERE IS STILL BIG LOVE FOR YOU IN THIS WORLD 🌎 I'm so sorry your friend rejected you bit I'm so proud of you for coming out, it's a really hard thing to do and you should be proud of yourself! I'm proud of you for feeling your emotions and crying it out. Please know that this heartbreak is just a blip in the ocean of your big beautiful life :) Thanks again for writing in, we loved answering your question ❤

[@HotStrange]

The energy in this video is so wholesome. You can tell they have a great relationship. I was smiling the entire time.

[@plushdragonteddy]

i’m honestly so glad i went to therapy and got to a place where i’m comfortable being single, bc i just moved and have been told by my new friends that “the dating scene here SUCKS,” lmao

[@mcwjes]

Same. It's amazing how therapy helped me stop being ashamed to be alone.

[@Jaxident]

I absolutely sobbed over 'gabi balls'

[@BrundonC]

You are quickly becoming my favorite channel!

[@CastiellaXIV]

Gotta love the graphic design work put into those transitions ❤🔥

[@Ace_Greymoore]

I just recently entered my first relationship and it's been great so far. It's been a little complicated because we live in different countries, plus he's six years older than me, but it's been fun and he's so nice. I've been exploring what I'm comfortable with in a relationship and he always checks to make sure I'm happy. Looking forward to my first Valentine's Day with a partner

[@JacobPDeIiNoNi]

9:24 Gabi's glasses push up into immediate "say hi" into immediate "Ok don't say hi" was so funny lmao

[@snowhusk]

such a cozy and wise vibe you gals have here

[@Ellesbelles420]

I started seriously falling for someone at the beginning of the year, showed them your videos and they became immediately obsessed. So now watching your videos makes me feel cozy and close to this person.

[@briand624]

I’d like to weigh in on the first question (the one about struggling to talk to the opposite gender). I deal with this issue as well, or have dealt with it in the past, and what Ive found is that even if that never changes, it’s ok. That is just a unique trait of you and it’s ok to be a unique individual. Its a matter of being comfortable in your own skin.

[@Eli-lk3cn]

You two are so good together! I loved and had a good laugh! Great content!

[@annaquint9412]

Dutch subscriber here! Fries originate from Belgium. Belgium and Netherlands used to be one country so we picked up the best stuff they had: fries. Belgium fries are called Vlaamse friet. They're the tastiest! But the best part about the fries here are the sauces. We've got a lot of combinations of sauces on fries. But I really recommend trying pindasaus (peanut sauce) and Mayo.

[@kimwasalreadytaken]

For all of those out there seeking for love but not having found it, let me share my mum's experience: I'm a one night stand, and my biological parents were never even in a relationship. My mum raised me as a single kid, and at the ripe age of 37 she met her now husband. They're literally made for each other, and have been together for over a decade. You'll find love in time, perhaps even more so if you stop chasing it.

[@moss8807]

There really is never any rush to be in a relationship, especially if you’re a queer person. It’s pretty easy to feel like you’re behind or smth is wrong with you when you don’t share similar romantic experiences with your peers. But romantic relationships happen at different rates for everyone. I personally acknowledge that due to being very queer and also having some pretty bad social anxiety, I’m delayed in some ways in my social development. But it’s never been a big deal for me or anyone in my life. It’ll happen when it happens. Just find what brings you joy and focus on that !

[@neonte13]

I love the frenetic energy y'all have together! Please keep making your sister do videos with you, Gabi! It may not be fully in the spirit of red flags, but my biggest red flag is any racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, etc. I don't have the looks to be picky, but I absolutely need to be able to respect someone to be with them. I'd rather stay single forever than date someone I feel is poisoned to people I care about and want rights/respect for. If I'm honest, I think my biggest green flag is a cute face and smile, 'cause that shit goes a long way, but as for a real answer, I like to see someone's creative or intellectual spark/passion. Even if it's not a shared interest, the other person's love for something can draw me in and teach me about something new, and that's a really exciting experience! ... Also, dog-friendly. My dog loves making friends, but she doesn't really know how to give people space without being told. lol

[@benster62]

I recently started binging all your videos after being recommended your Spotify video. Absolute great work, you consistently both entertain and educate and your videos are well paced.

[@CaptainTwizzler]

love this video! and for the last question, maybe aromantic instead of (or in addition to) asexual. Aromantic is more about romantic relationships and asexuality is more about sexual attraction. I'm asexual but very much not aromantic, so I can try to answer any questions people have about that!

[@salt-emoji]

1:05 HOW IS THIS A QUESTION!? Potatoes are legendary.

[@Jakepf]

14:03 Gabi just head bobbing to everything her sister says is mad funny XD

[@gtaviper]

Please, we need a burback style channel of the both of you, amazing dynamic both top notch legends

[@Ydh_8]

Great energy between you two, very funny and overall a good video ^^. I would just like to add a couple of things though (if anyone ever reads this and it can be useful): - Asking chat gpt about relationships, queers and psychology will always be bad and generic af, if not plain wrong (also, queer relationships are still relationships, many things are common and you can answer on the "human" part of it and still give good advice, we're not aliens :). Ask friends, close ones or a psy even, the AI is shit for most tasks. - Lesbians being bad at knowing if another gay/bi/pan person is interested in them has became a meme and a joke around the self doubt of "is it really hints?!!", sometimes reaching some preposterous levels of self-gaslighting and/or for ridiculous amounts of time. Next part of that cliché is "if that relationship does kick off, it's then going ultra fast". - Asexual people are more like not really into sex (or under very specific conditions/in specific contexts only). They can still want romance and relationships (sex isn't needed in all relationships ^^). Aromantic people are the ones that may be less/not into wanting any romantic involvement in a "classic" relationship fashion. But even then, there may be exceptions or a different kind of relationship that may work. It's more of a very diverse and interconnected spectrum with a lot of variations and combinations between sexuality, attraction, romance, connection, etc. Anyway, whatever the situation, even if it's scary, the best is always to communicate, be truthful and nice: to communicate honestly about "the thing" will always clear the air and provide guidance for the next step (even if that step is unpleasant/hurts :/), have a nice day! :)

[@kmarciano6010]

Y'all are both so rad and funny, I'd watch a whole series of yall answering people's questions on different topics

[@sebastianfeuerstein9306]

18:55 Bruh, this is exactly what I needed. Your uncle and I are basically the same person. Glad I watched this video!

[@madelynnemree2618]

the sister energy is so sweet and healing

[@wiiink]

I have liked someone who was in a 3 or so year relationship with someone else in high school and I eventually got together with him a few months after they broke up. I didn't say anything about liking him because I'm shy, but he asked me out anyway. We've been together for 5 years now, so it can happen, but I still wouldn't be absolutely focused on one unattainable person your whole life because that will just keep you miserable.

[@kiwi_arms]

my dating drama is being a gabi belle fan, women know they can't compete with your great content and steer clear of me 😔😔😔😔

[@outloud_overthinking]

That's just adorable, guys. Love your channel, it's the reason I like people

[@jankounchained4211]

Your sis is natural at talking to the camera, get her on here more often!

[@jadejacobs2221]

The edits are the GREATEST. Loved this video!!!

[@jordoncooper5153]

your sister has such a great camera presence, basically a natural youtuber

[@Solid-Matrix]

Chronically bitchless is my new favorite term

[@Smiley_Fruitcake]

To the clocktower dude. I am in high school and have been with my girlfriend since June 2nd 2021. We liked each other in year9 and we're now year12s, we knew each other in intermediate/middle school. We both dated around for ages, we talked about it with each other and went on our first date in February of 2021. We dated around for months before we got together and took a long time just casually being together before we finally decided we were ready for a relationship. The point is a lot can happen in a few months and a few years, but don't freak out about it, stay in contact with her and maybe date around a bit. Get some experience and appreciate your friendship before thinking too hard about a potential relationship. If you read this good luck my guy.

[@lordnihilus3198]

As a Dutch, to answer your question about fries, we love the fact that it's made of potatoes and because it's so damn salty, it's a wonderful side dish.

[@frogdude1337]

I am aromantic guy and also the most awkward person to have a converstation with in the world ever. If I were ever to have a relationship it would probably be for the other person and not for me. (aromantic and asexual are not the same thing. Asexual is you don't get sexual feelings and aromantic is where you don't get romantic feelings)

[@noahsryan]

Loving your sisters rambling content. Great work sis. Bring her back. Thx

[@evan3155]

Red Flag - someone who doesn't have friends. Green Flag - they can respond to my optimistic and high energy personality and reciprocate that energy. I read shit off vibes for sure

[@celestemangonya]

Right now, my situation isn't great. I'm 18, I recently moved across the country (Colorado to Florida), figured out I am Bi, came out to half of the people I plan to but not the other half yet, have never dated anyone ever because I am not really romantically attracted to women nearly as strongly as to guys (maybe not even at all, still a bit confused, but right now I'm only really romantically into guys), but I didn't know that until recently so I just didn't try with romance or love at all, have no local friends (although this might change soon), no job (with no experience, and extremely limited availability), no car, and I'm not very good at being outgoing. Oh, and after figuring my sexuality out, I realized that I am actually super, super, super interested in a romantic relationship, but don't really know how to handle those feelings because they were locked behind a fog of war... I got a long road ahead, man. But hey, I am hopeful, a lot of these issues should be resolved fairly soon (within the next 6 months), and then I can figure out how to meet people and try actually dating!

[@Nickshelf]

A minute and a half in and I freaking love this already

[@TheRealBrotherGrimmy]

No joke... my favorite kind of "first date" (not that I go on those anymore... married circa 2018) is literally "lets go get coffee and talk for a few hours." Not that I wouldn't be able to afford a "real" date... I just like how it's simple. If you don't click, you don't have to pay for dinner or vice versa (or pay for your own dinners). Edit: your sister has a manta mask and I love it. That thing changed my life. I can't imagine sleeping without it Edit 2: literally after I paused the video to comment about that... she starts talking it. Win. Fuck yeah manta

[@yelhsasokolova8561]

Coworker relationship #1 didn't work out for me. He was super jealous that our manager seemed to appreciate my work more than his, and he took that out on me. He was also insanely jealous of our other coworkers being around me, even though I never associated myself with them unless we were paired to work on a project together. 😂 Coworker relationship #2 (at a different workplace several years later) turned out to be amazing. We both quit working at this store and we are now happily married with 2 kids. 🔥

[@yelhsasokolova8561]

P.S. - I need more videos with you and your sister, this was amazing

[@Ralphr203]

omg I love your sister. Bring her around more. Love this video. Thanks for creating!

[@agatacagata3277]

About 19:25 , Asexual refers to having little to no sexual attraction, the term for having little to no romantic attraction is actually Aromantic. It's a common misconception but the two are not linked and someone can be one but not the other.

[@xenotiic8356]

This video was one of your best yet! You two bounced off each other so well!

[@marghea4008]

the dynamic between you two reminds me a lot the relationship i have with my big siter lol i loved this video!

[@kylesmith1408]

Your sister's farting on the dance floor story had me giggling so hard.

[@samquinn2769]

gabi’s sister is so lovely

[@TadpoleMusics]

I love how Gabi is just here to read the questions and her sister is giving all the answers

[@johnk.7058]

Nice to see Gabi making a guest appearance on Lina's channel

[@Awesomesausages]

This video is straight gas, truly excellent!

[@rbxless]

This is straight Fart Sound Effect with Reverb on loop for 10 hours

[@DuhLikeTotally]

You guys are so fun together! You should have your big sis on your channel more!

[@minikawildflower]

Omg my Manta mask is my favorite thing, I cannot sleep without it!

[@kayleehofte3708]

Fries are quick eazy and cheap to make. Its the perfect streetfood here. And we have allloooottt of patatos here they grow like crazy

[@jay3971]

i love your sister so much! this is such a cute style of video

[@joshuaadams8240]

French fries actually originated from Belgium. When the belgians fought alongside the Americans in an important war The Americans enjoyed their frites and thought the belgians were French.

[@AaronYorkYT]

waffles and weeeed and fries sounds like a perfect place to me

[@micahpolk34]

y’all are both super funny, charming, charismatic, and insightful ❤❤❤

[@kylespevak6781]

Step 1 to doing better at daring is to stop being so concerned with dating. The more pressure and anxiety you create for yourself, the harder it'll be. That's why you always hear people say "I found them when I wasn't looking"