Run Your Own Race In Life and You’ll Never Feel Behind.

[@Casual_Talk]

That's why I learned to separate myself from the trends, toxic competitive family members, and social media promoting unrealistic expectations.

[@joeplem5329]

I only worry about 3 people, me, myself and I. Don't give a you know what about what everyone else is doing especially since most people are "faking it" in order to look like they're ahead!!!

[@billhicks8]

I believe that we have an internal compass that we have to listen to, and if we don't, we will fail. And failure looks like a lot of things, you don't have to be living on the street. You might have material wealth but absolutely hate what you're doing every day. The only true failure is forever denying that internal compass. It takes a long time to listen to if you're not fortunate to tap into it at a young age, but you _can_ find it. It requires stepping into the unknown with faith and thinking completely differently. If you're up for a huge, but life changing book that talks about this scientifically and spiritually, read The Matter With Things by Iain McGilchrist. He nails it. Changed my life.

[@clydethevirgo]

Amen

[@jaysouthmusic8230]

Same here everyday it's me vs me and I'm not worried about people that's not worried about me either

[@iliketotrade]

Yep

[@alanssnack1192]

you worry about me too tho right?

[@dustinmiller2775]

"He who does not compete meets no competition." ~Lao Tzu

[@apolloniusbeitsman5444]

I swear I thought that was a quote by "Lae Zee".

[@dustinmiller2775]

@@apolloniusbeitsman5444 nah, that brother ain't talkin' 'bout nothin'!

[@MichiganDaisy-1111]

Honestly I went through my twenties and thirties feeling that way. Finally in 2019 right after my 39th birthday I woke up and realized that I need to start living for myself. Ever since that day my life has just continued to get better and better and better 😊💯 🙌🙏💪

[@applesidertea]

Amen! For me, it was age 40 when this revelation happened. 40s are the BEST

[@COSkywatch]

Appreciating what you have is so important.

[@leanwoodworks]

That’s right don’t let the World define Happiness .. yer badass bro.. and THANK YOU. I just had that moment ya know. Another person who helps you realize your not alone in your thinking..

[@avagup]

I’m turning 37 tomorrow…left my high paying corporate job 3 months ago to be at peace. I don’t know what my career looks like in the future but I’m so much more at peace now with my husband and kid at home. I can’t be a part of the rat race anymore.

[@marleyite]

Avagup: What was it that made you quit ? Was it the people you worked with or the culture of the organisation that made you make that decision 3 months ago ?

[@kezmenflowers8691]

I never cared what the next man or woman had. I always ran my own race, but what pissed me off is that I was helping others with their race all the while I had to do my own race alone. So yes, from now on, i am only focusing on my own race.

[@clydethevirgo]

I focus on God and working out, I keep a small. Circle and stay in my lane. I'm at peace!

[@jaysouthmusic8230]

Thats the best way to do it

[@nikkicalton2148]

My life as well. I protect my peace at all costs.

[@derekwallace4144]

This video needed to be made. I’ve fallen into this trap multiple times despite being blessed.

[@JMoroccoMisterBoy]

Get right back up, please.

[@peaceandquiet1983]

I have gratitude for my health, intellect, and home to explore creative hobbies. I am content. I reject the rat race, unsolicited criticism, and naysayers. Elevate, don't hate.

[@denisehoward177]

Yes, no room for naysayers.

[@raisa_cherry35]

👏👏👏👏

[@scottlondon8382]

Dude thank you so much for this comment i relate so much

[@midheaven_mimi]

Nobody is you and that is your SUPERPOWER!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Ascending-Transcending]

I never begrudge other people of their success, I say good for them! And I never compare my life to other peoples’ lives. I don’t want to be like other people, I want to be me, and I am going my own way. I have had the thought for a while now that all we need to do is BE, because human consciousness is the means by which the Universe bears witness to itself… that is our purpose. Also, pleased to hear you mention helping other people up, and being a mentor to other people - this isn't really discussed by anyone, but I think it is an important topic to explore and to action in our lives. A lot of the time we are too wrapped up in ourselves. Peace and blessings everyone.

[@JustKnowz]

Comparison is the thief of joy.💪💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@colettithekid]

We all suffer from the poverty of aging. Health is the purest form of wealth.

[@Myglowtips]

When I was a young teenage girl, I would sometimes get sad because the other girls seemed so beautiful and I was the typical wallflower; my Mum sat me down one fine day and told me, that God created beautiful women and handsome men, for our enjoyment, they are gifts for us to enjoy visually. Mum told me that each person‘s gift, is for us to enjoy and be inspired by each other. Now, each time I see a beautiful lady, I enjoy her as I would a lovely flower or a beautiful piano concert etc.

[@razbliss3367]

I don't want to live like anyone!!!! I had everything I wanted 20 years ago, but !!! I'm Happy with out things!!!!!!!!!!💃😁 I'm running my own race, and I dont care about others think or say.I'm at peace!!! 💓

[@ChuckBaxter-sv2tn]

Agree 💯 especially when you learn about recovering from religious trauma using critical thinking 🤔 skills and learning and staying away from toxic! "Narcissist"!! people!... Ahh the good ole American dream because you haft to be asleep to believe it. Famous comedian George Carlin. And now you know the rest of the story, Mr. Paul Harvey. Good day.💪🍷🙈🌍🤔🦉

[@Omonike88]

Yes, I once was guilty of comparsion. No more. I am debtfree, living my best life. Sold house before fiasco (2021), done travel lab, and international travels for pleasure. I beat to my own drum.

[@josephsmith9130]

Excellent conversation. Walk down your own path in life.

[@kimw200blaze4]

That old quote "Comparison is the thief of life" is so true. The comparison business is so useless. I've also come to understand that many people I have envied and would like to have what they have, when examining closely their life, often have certain problems, that come with their lifestyle that I don't want. So you sometimes never see the real picture as to what really goes on in people's lives. Hence, it not as good as you think.

[@hammersaw3135]

I am coming face to face with my mortality, it is harder than anything I faced in life, which is ironic, because I had a hard life, and I always thought I wanted to die, because it would be a welcome rest from the daily grind. But now that l am face to face with the end, I regret all the time I spent being miserable, I feel like this life was truly wasted potential. I had some good times, some bad times, but I let my ego get the best of me for so long I lived the life of a miserable, angry, victim. I was the victim of child abuse, victim of violent crime, victim of poverty, victim of addiction, victim of alcoholism, victim of sexual molestation, victim of racism, victim of diseases, victim of insurance companies, victim of friends, victim of relatives, victim of enemies. Now I realize that all I own is my actions, everything else is BORROWED.

[@ayemiksenoj5254]

Your comment feels so genuine to me. I've had a very hard life too, but I'm also trying to enjoy it as much as I can. Still, I have to admit almost every day I think about death. I have a plan for it. I feel like this life and my existence on Earth has been hell. Or rather this is the 4th or 5th circle of hell. The things I needed most I never got. The things I want most Idk how to give myself or create. That's probably the hardest thing for me is, I haven't given up. I just can't make certain things happen for myself. I don't have the power or control. I hope I'm not over stepping or misunderstanding what you've said. I'm sorry you're facing your mortality right now. I'm sorry you believe/know you wasted so much of your potential. I hope you have at least enough to do one or two things that bring you joy.

[@hammersaw3135]

@@ayemiksenoj5254 Thank you for the thoughtful comment. Death can be your best friend, if you recognize it for what it is. Although I have things I would do some things differently, becoming aware of my own death has allowed me to live more freely. I only wish I could've forgot my ego/self importance sooner. Once we are born we think we will live forever, so we take things for granted. That is why dead receive more flowers than the living, regret is stronger than gratitude. I do believe this world can be both heaven and hell, and we are as powerful as God but we mortals have an expiration date. We are born just like fresh milk, which can be made into butter, cheese or yogurt it will keep longer. if you don't put the work in, you'll spoil this gift you were granted. I have lost a lot of people recently, young people are dropping dead of cancer and heart attacks. Life expectancy in America is declining rapidly. The only population that will age gracefully will be the 1% I hope they choke on the pollution smoke, and suffer starvation when they realize they can't eat their stack of worthless paper, when nobody is left to harvest the crops, and they are too afraid of breaking a nail. lol

[@ayemiksenoj5254]

@@hammersaw3135, you're always welcome. According to doctors I was supposed to die at 1, then 5. I've had other experiences with being near death or death itself( my own and other people) Too many actually. I'm kind of afraid of how I'll die, but not death itself. You're also funny too! I agree that the rich deserve suffering for all the harm done and I believe it's coming. Of course, I have no idea when. I hope when it's time for you to finally leave this place.. it's glorious. Balance & Blessings

[@hammersaw3135]

@@ayemiksenoj5254 Thank you so much friend, blessings to you as well. Your story was touching. I always hoped that my death would be swift as well, like instantly and for a noble cause lol. We don't get to pick, death is funny like that I guess. I known so many die of cancer slow and painful, it is very scary.

[@RobertSalvo-l8u]

Be you AND nothing else.

[@klarge24]

I hear you cousin I’m turning 27 tomorrow and I struggle with this sometimes. I was big into the marijuana game as a young buck I’m out of it now though. Got addicted to opiates bad which I’m doing a lot better with now so I’m moving slowly but surely. We got this

[@ankitaaac]

Good luck :) I think spirituality helps a lot

[@mosimosi630]

Happy birthday you got this just keep pushing

[@amreens9987]

Keep going brother don’t ever give up on yourself EVER

[@Mannsy83]

Since I quit weed I've been so depressed and anxious..it's been a year

[@ankitaaac]

​@@Mannsy83 I get that. Delta 8 gummies saved my life fr. I only did it occasionally for a few months but now I stopped and it's been rough lol. But I'm trying meditating.

[@shiptj01]

Good talk. Thanks, homes. Comparison is the thief of joy.

[@MasonGammill-vu7dk]

Tim thank you for giving me the motivation to live the life I want rather than trying to keep up with the jones. You have completely changed my perspective and outlook on life. May God be with you Tim! You are a fresh breath of air in a world that tells you that you aren’t enough! I finally live the life I WANT and grateful for the freedom I now have!

[@sabbathw]

Thank you for that very inspirational message, Tim. I really needed to hear that because I am feeling down about myself again and getting depressed. I fight those feelings but they come back. Your message about running your own race, from the womb to the tomb really hit home with me, and helped me, right when I needed to hear it most. I sincerely want to thank you for that. It helped to make a difference in me and my mental outlook. Keep making your messages, they are helping people more than you might think. ❤😊👍💯

[@ShennaeT.L.Medley-ly9fu]

Never compare myself to anyone else or their lives.I don't feel envy or jealousy either.But I compare myself by what I'm not accomplishing and what I know I could be but can't at the moment.Theres a time and place for everything and I just gotta be patient.I love learning from people life God and everything this life has to offer.

[@jaysouthmusic8230]

Yup comparison is the thief of all joy

[@fdoctor79]

Gratitude is the BEST attitude! Tfs, Tim!

[@Meeka-m3k]

Man, this is such a wise and healthy way to look at life! I have always gravitated to these lines of the song "Everybody's Free (To Wear Sunscreen)": "Don't waste your time on jealousy, sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long, and in the end it's only with yourself." But yeah, I think you're right. There isn't even an ahead or behind. We're all on our own unique path, or should be at least. Thanks for the video's Tim, you're a source of inspiration for me.

[@TimothyWard]

Hadn’t heard anyone reference ‘the sunscreen song’ in awhile lol. There were definitely some gems dropped in that one.

[@ankitaaac]

I like the perspective that you can reprogram feelings or thoughts because they don't represent reality. Your reality is just how you perceive it so you can make it work for you. And I never understood comparison because there's so much inequality and randomness in life that it makes no sense :)

[@Skyfoxx23]

💯

[@legiontheatregroup]

Wow. You are surely doing what you were meant to do on the planet Timothy. And I appreciate it.

[@TimothyWard]

I appreciate you saying that! Thank you!

[@dr05guitar]

I was just talking to a coworker about what you said today, your example, not trying to be the vice president of sales because I don't want it... we were talking about how it's easy to let other people's perception of you and expectations of you get into your head, and then you have to think, is this really what I want to do, or just what other people want me to do? Or most importantly, what does God want me to do? Anyway thanks for the video! Love the way you discuss these things.

[@FerrickOxhide]

Thanks, Tim!! Womb to tomb. Words to live by. I'm doin' okay.

[@herrberg8962]

This sounds liberating. You need to follow your inner light.

[@JMoroccoMisterBoy]

You Must Follow Your Inner Light

[@libertycaps97211]

Amen, brother. Live simply. Only person you need to provide for is yourself. Unplug from ALL programming and propaganda!

[@MamaShaysLifeWithFamily]

The womb to tomb marathon! I need to steal that☺️

[@mohg7793]

I'm not falling behind the rat race. I'm flourishing in my own endeavors, my very own games with my very own rules.

[@JoseFlores-kl6jm]

Tim like I said your videos always appear at the right time ! I don't think it's a coincidence.

[@guillermosanchez2797]

Words of a sage and of a really wealthy man. I understand perfectly what you have covered so eloquently. This video will be saved in one of my special files. Thank you Timothy. It is very refreshing to see someone who has inner peace. The majority of folks will "never get it". We can only lead by example and hopefully when someone who "is ready" they will say: "wow, I would love that inner peace, contentment and gratitude for blessings, that is priceless and that is true wealth. Nothing of the material realm is taken, it is only temporary and we are temporary guardians. It is all a state of being. 🙏

[@chrisbunka]

Sometimes I am watching Timothy Ward videos during my breaks at work and think to myself, “Man, Timothy is enjoying better scenery than to me!” Okay, back to studying Portuguese so I can go find my own beautiful scenery experience.

[@TimothyWard]

😂😂

[@Renee-Heal-The-Eagle]

Thanks for this brother...life is a game with a mystery clock.

[@Topg1]

I struggle with comparison. Lord, help me with gratitude.

[@DOOR.DASH.TYRONE]

You are a true role model Tim

[@bluesrocker91]

"All those people, who think they've got it made. But I wouldn't buy, sell, borrow or trade. Anything I have, to be like one of them. I'd rather start all over again..." - Neil Young

[@loriann822]

GO TIM GO 👍🏻 I really enjoy your outside videos, sitting or walking . Because when I watch it, I feel like I’m there with you, having a conversation and enjoying the nature

[@michaeljenkins7245]

Hey at Kay Large 24... Sometimes we have to go through what we don't want to go through to be where we want to be... I've got 20 years sober today. I'm 65 years old... the best 20 years of my life...

[@martymaker]

I want to add one thing to this. There should be one person you are racing with: yourself. Race with yourself to become a better version who had overcome all the traumas and left false believes behind. Why? Because the race is beyond one lifetime and it will get easier next time the more you work out now. Namaste 🙏

[@charleschapman4744]

What a remarkable soul you are, Timothy. There is so much that I could say about the content of this video, but I think that the most important comment to make is one of simple gratitude. Thank you! I have much to consider, and even more for which I realise that I should be thankful. Perhaps I should conclude by offering one of my favourite quotations by Epicurus, 'Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.'

[@nathanwilson64]

You are a smart man. Love your channel

[@Skyfoxx23]

That’s true, “life is never fair across the board.”

[@a1n3o1n3]

All praises be to most high for your Gospel Brother Timothy. 👏 👏 👏

[@AllenAcademics]

The way I laughed when you said maybe you’re behind if you have a twin who is killing it and you are not…… 😂 That is literally my story. I love your content!!!!

[@debbiesmith5513]

This has always been my biggest struggle in life- envy and comparison.

[@gabbypatty1543]

Ever since getting sober 17 months ago I have been thinking this way too. We are all different with different goals and aspirations. Great video Tim

[@EasyCartoon91]

I love listen to you. You are like a prophet

[@SandieCastaneda]

Thank you Tim ❤

[@jaythefox]

Nice video. I get this feeling quite often, and yet I remind myself that it's somewhat illusory. Something about our culture seems to push this mindset. Makes me think of this quote: “A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent on arriving.” ― Lao TZU

[@JHgjvdb]

Come across this video when I'm feeling anxiety and panic attacks thinking about marriage turns out i got gamophobia when i already 37 years old. It helps me relax a bit but still so scared and stressful 😢😢😢

[@Angela-September]

The place when you become happy for other people like you said is so key, and so liberating.

[@victoriasage7]

Great video, thank you❤ I love the idea of running your own race and competing against no one

[@latoshajackson9840]

Man Tim always comes through! Preach!

[@nancydick7157]

Look for your videos to keep myself going and keep my attitude and emotions OK. Need my emotions to feel healed and be OK with living my own life among all these billions of people on the planet instead of thinking I have to be like them. How can l like you said because they all have different combination of traits? The answer is that I can't even though people like to think they have to be like everybody else. Thanks for this video. It cheered me up and cheered me on. Thinking in terms of everyone as a blessing and what God gave me as a blessing is a big help.🤗🤗🤗☺☺☺

[@mandyrose1729]

Yessssssss Tim with the shit I need to hear out in nature 🙌🏽

[@sammyb5869]

Best video ever right here folks 💯❤️

[@LeelosAdventure]

This channel is very valuable. Thank you

[@findingaway5512]

Yes! You can be happy for others. And you can be happy for your own blessings. Someone else having a different life than mine is different. We all have our own deficits and gifts and can all grow who we are. ❤

[@anastasiab-x2t]

I am getting 1% better every day, I compare myself only to myself, everything else doesnt even make sense.

[@JonasFairfield]

The opportunity to be your own story is the only thing we all have in common. Not sure why you would want to compete with somebody else's.

[@RetireandGo]

I appreciate this message Thank you, Tim

[@leslierobertson7545]

Thank you for your words of wisdom 🙏🏼Having a spirit of gratitude is vitally important.

[@herbertdade6472]

Hello Tim this is Herbert out of Chicago another excellent encouraging discussion thank you so much keep up the good work you know you sound a lot like President Obama he has good diction good mannerism and everything so thanks again

[@steveanderson831]

Good words. How much do we really need anyway? Can't take it with you.

[@LordSiah]

My man tim stay blessed brother

[@60seconds529]

Wonderful video, enjoy your journey, thanks. I applied 30 days of gratitude in a journal (20 things), every evening and it helped me to stay focused on my own journey

[@TheWeekendYogurt]

Thank you so much for your message. You have helped me tremendously.

[@mosimosi630]

I don’t feel like I’ve been left behind at all I just want to be where I’ve always wanted to be I’ve worked so hard because I wanted my own house I want to leave an inheritance for my kids I’m not asking for much just what I’ve worked for where is 20 years worth of hard work where that’s my issue I don’t care what others have because that’s not what I want I should have a debt free house by now should be travelling and helping others

[@Kuludd]

I rarely comment, but this advice is just gold! wow, thanks for sharing

[@Skyfoxx23]

Yes, commonality is not the same as being “the same”, we’re all different

[@andrewminjiras5745]

I like your idea of human uniqueness…each of us gravitates to our right place according to our thinking. Not really any accidents. Great video.

[@kevinknapp6837]

Beautiful scenery. Thanks for the wonderful vod(s), Sir!

[@UncleGeezy]

Damn you’ve come a long ways!! Congrats!! I use to work for greyhound and watched all your videos!! Lone wolf is never alone with more alone wolfs around them. With you in spirit brotha.!

[@joshlower1]

Thou shalt not covet, is a commandment for a reason. Coveting only brings you down.

[@StAtIc__5]

Great video Tim. It’s nothing but facts. I appreciate this a lot. Thank you. I love the outdoor background view too 🌅

[@TheTektronik]

Putting gratitude into play helps a lot a in my opinion.

[@rachelmorris3498]

Thank you Tim for these videos, they always help me out during tough times.

[@curiouspov]

Beautiful message Tim! Funny thing is when I see a lot of KZbinrs, for some reason I get a little jealous.. except for you..I really want you to thrive and keep on growing and wish you all the best! 😊

[@Wanderer-li4ep]

Good video. I've known legit psychopaths who have to bring others down while they rise. It's sickening

[@noahduncan9596]

I need to hear this. I'm a young buck. Thank you for blessing us with the video, Unc!

[@TimothyWard]

My pleasure, nephew!

[@jaysouthmusic8230]

Theres a chris rock quote i heard in a video that he said the longest thing youll ever do is life. Thats why i just focus on myself and stay in my lane. Comparison is the killer of all joy

[@professorphysiology2081]

Tim. You do good work man. You would be surprised by the people you impact. Love your content brother. I have a good job and all the things that everyone thinks we should have. A ton of people in the recovery community watch your content. Your perspectives and advice is appreciated.

[@constancenewton3961]

Great talk! I enjoy your talks a great deal. Keep it up. God bless you for sharing!

[@FirstName-z1e]

Good job Tim on this video alot of people needed to hear this. I don't think people are grateful for what they have

[@marleyite]

This is so true. In my current organisation, it’s so obvious that there’s not a level playing field out there. The culture truly sucks.

[@maximilianlagerfeld2403]

Hello Timothy, thank you for another great video. I've been following your channel from the South of Spain for a long time now. Keep up the good work. Best regards, Maximilian

[@itismypride4085]

Thank you Sir. This is the wisdom we all need to understand.

[@slimilacraft7676]

The mindset thing for me is what needs work.

[@marietjejansen]

You are so right!

[@whitneywhitehead2305]

Good man you are appreciated keep posting videos, encouraging

[@Sunshine-555s]

Preach brother. Amen 🙏 ❤

[@Underhills]

This channel keeps on giving. Glad I'm found it Timothy. Much apricated.