RWM Vlog

[@tiffanyr2326]

Hey Anita! "Marriage is honorable unto God, and the bed undefiled ". Appreciate your talk on marriage. Everything you said is true. Been with hubby 32 years, married 25. Rooting for marriage no matter how much is changing and becoming acceptable. We have 4 kids now adults and our youngest is 16. Yes to old school discipline and love. Agree with all you said about kids. Thanks❤❤❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Amen Tiffany and I'm rooting for marriage to my friend. TFW!

[@cherylwarren681]

I totally agree on marriage! We will celebrate 42 years in August! Definitely not always easy but worth it. I still absolutely adore him. Everything in life requires work and sacrifices! Some days I want to choke him and vice verse; but I still want him. We also have two successful, self sufficient sons that have made us extremely proud. Now we’re able to relax and enjoy the fruits of our labor❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Amen to that Cheryl and congratulations to you and your boo on 42 years, definately a milestone to be celebrated. Marriage is not for the lazy or weak...lol, because yes it is work, but if you do the job right, it really is worth it....lol. TFW!

[@joannebooker7176]

Thanks for sharing another video with us. I agree with you on marriage because so many people enter marriage for the wrong reasons. Before entering marriage please pray for your spouse and be very specific in your prayer request. For those who believe in God please keep Him first in your life.

[@RollinwithAnita]

You are so right Joanne, I started praying when I was around 16 for exactly what I wanted one day if I ever was to get married and God answered my prayers for real. TFW!

[@jennycharles375]

Marriage is Beautiful ❤ especially if both peoples work at it and keep it zesty and loving 24yrs of loving him . Thanks for sharing 😊

[@kara_tee]

Anita, this was so refreshing to watch! As a single 40sumthin year old woman, hearing you drop these marital gems was so valuable. People’s views on marriage run the gamut but what you said is 1000% true….you’ve got to match with a partner who is willing to put in the work. Thank you for your Ted talk 🥰

[@marcellawoods2114]

Yes! I love being married.❤ It's going on 22 years for me. 🤗❤ Thanks for talking about this.❤🥰❤🥰❤🥰

[@Mattielife]

Hi Anita, girl I’m 100% with you. My husband and I actually been together in all for 40 years and married going on 30 years in September. We have raise our children to respect ours. My husband always told them they are reflection of us. Sometimes I do regret not finishing college, but all 4 of our children have bachelors degrees and one has his masters. We were more focused on them. My husband was a senior in college when he withdrew to work full time. We are empty nesters and we enjoy it with one another. Good is always first in our marriage. I love this conservation on this Vlog. Thanks for sharing!❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Mattie, aw congratulations on you upcoming 30th anniversary, that's awesome and you all have done a great job with your kids, I know you are beyond proud as you should be. Glad you enjoyed the conversation and TFW!

[@luciennetaillefer4727]

Your husband is doing a wonderful job with the yard. It looks professionally done

[@dorothyhudson99]

Hey, Anita and Lonnie! I enjoyed this video, seeing y'all have quality time with your friends in Chicago! No matter where you go or how much fun you have while away, there's no place like home! Whatever y'all share is fine with me, tfs! Much 💚, Dorothy

[@georgiabrown5859]

Hili Anita, really enjoyed this vlog. I've been married for 36 years and love it. It definitely takes work, but it's well worth it. We are empty nesters with one grown son, and we are enjoying this phase of our lives. Enjoyed the Chicago trip and seeing your friends. TFS Anita, so looking forward to the next one. BTW your yard is absolutely beautiful. Blessing to you and your family❣

[@mzrobie3759]

I agree with your statements re marriage. I can relate so much to what you are sharing. Once you’ve been married for a long while, you understand that marriage takes work, hard work. You have to put in the time and commitment if you are serious about it. And first and foremost, keep God in your marriage.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Yes indeed and TFW!

[@athomewithshushana]

I love being married! We're going on 19 years this year August. Sometimes he gets on all of my nerves lol but I love and like my boo bear. We're best friends and he makes me laugh a lot still. Marriage is work and I find that nowadays ppl don't want to do the work that it takes. There are things that is a constant work in progress but for the most part I absolutely love being married.

[@Angierochelle]

💯 agree on the marriage and parenting!

[@RollinwithAnita]

TFW Angie.😊💕

[@michelledesigns6436]

Hi Anita, I agree with you on your sentiments on marriage and kids today. Enjoyed your vlog. Looking forward to your upcoming videos. 😊

[@cv8452]

Love this! Yes - please make more marriage/relationship videos. Also, parenting during the teen years! 🥴Thank you!

[@1977pinkpanther]

I’ve been divorced for 14 years. But, he was a narcissist. There were a lot of red flags. That ignored. Did I love him yes. Sometimes I want to get married again. But, to the one GOD has for me. Love can be a beautiful thing. You have to have someone who won’t fold through the good and the bad. Plus you have to have balance. You gotta have that space. So, when you’re together. It makes you want to be around them. Put you first, and your spouse should do the same. Because you can’t pour into an empty cup.

[@Mimichellee]

I’m taking a 15 day Mediterranean cruise it leaves out of Barcelona Spain June 23’ I’m so excited 😆

[@RollinwithAnita]

Oh wow, I'm excited for you. Have a wonderful time and be sure to live in the moments. TFW!

[@Nfinite47]

Yes! Marriage q and a’s are always beneficial…. Approaching the empty nest w/ youngest leaving for college. Any words of wisdom for a smooth transition.

[@nikkojones2197]

Although it’s past, welcome to my neck of the woods. I live 15 minutes from Midway airport. I love you all’s relationship, it is so lovingly fun! You are so right about marriage, we’re 15 years in. Looks like you all were in the Beverly area, again, not far from me.

[@glynischatman5719]

Hey Anita, I agree, 100% marriage is work but when you are both on same page, life is so glorious. I'm in my next phase of marriage and girl its so fun, shout out to us empty nester...😊😊😊

[@tereugalde45311]

I agree with you said. Amen !!

[@kasandrabutcher6037]

Enjoyed the viedo! Blessings

[@sallyblake8070]

Preach sister 😅so real .absolutely without God and trials and tribulations that's what makes a marriage....but you grow with each other, but at the end of the day true relationships grow in time and maturity.

[@kayscott8769]

hey Anita, that was great marriage advice. see you next week. 😊

[@dianes529]

Hey Anita. Preach girl.yes more types of these vids.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thanks Diane and TFW!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thanks Diane and TFW!

[@geecollins4134]

Hi Lonnie and Anita, great marital advice Anita! Love your honesty and how you and Lonnie do so many things together and also do things apart. Marriage is work on both parts. Glad you went to Hook and Reel I was wondering how their food is. Glad you got a change of scenery and enjoyed your trip. Thanks for sharing your marital advice. A marriage chit chat is fine with me🙄

[@judybst]

Happy Sunday Anita!! I loved the video❤, have a wonderful week😊

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Judy and same to you. TFW!😊💕

[@irispresley3182]

I totally agree with marriage, my husband and I are going on 44 years, I thank God for him. And thanks for the video, I look forward to it every Sunday, pray you have a good week.❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw thank you Iris and congratulations to you and your hubby on 44 years, that is truly awesome and I wish you both many more years together. TFW!

[@decoratingwithjazigreen]

I don’t mind if you do a video talking about marriage. It would be interesting.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Good to know, thanks Liz.

[@LanDominiq]

Im 34 been with my husband almost 15 years. We have teens now and I agree with everything you said.100% told not one lie. ❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Linda, congratulations on 15 years, that is awesome and I wish you both many more. TFW!😊💕

[@LanDominiq]

Congratulations to you as well for continuing to choose each other for 32 years!! That is a blessing 🙌🏾. Social media doesn't show enough of us unproblematic long-time married folks! TFS!! ❤

[@phyllisjohnson1657]

Had my snacks and enjoyed the full adventure, lol. Thanks for sharing! 👍👍😍😍💕💕

[@RollinwithAnita]

Lol...yes Phyllis gotta have the snackkkks and TFW!

[@itsme_d7841]

My daughter and I just found her, and we have been working out with her for a couple of weeks.👍🏽

[@QueenTee918]

I agree with you Anita 100% on the whole marriage thing. My Husband and I have been together since High School (me 14 and him 16) I will be 40 and my hubby is 42. Marriage is work like any other relationship. These days ppl don’t want to put in the work and also love bed hopping 🤮. I just think ppl shouldn’t give up on marriage. It takes time to grow close to each other along with understanding each other…

[@QueenTee918]

Together 26 years and married for 17

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, high school sweethearts that's so sweet and I agree with you, people don't want to put in the work not realizing that you have to work at any relationship. They need to realize that you can not be lazy when it comes to love and matters of the heart. TFW!

[@RollinwithAnita]

That's awesome, congratulations

[@MrsBerger]

Absolutely Wonderful Vlog❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Kesha, so glad you enjoyed it and TFW!😊💕

[@robinharris9591]

Hi Anita I agree what you was saying about marriage. I been married for 42 years. We have a daughter and sonlaw and sonand daughterlaw.4 grandchildren. Thanks for sharing this.

[@vernellharris5278]

I'm second always happy to see y'all!!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, heyyyy Vernell.😊💕

[@adriane1031]

You saying right

[@thelmajohnson4819]

Hey Anita, I feel like if the love is real and truly sincere ,marriage is the answer. It establishes commitment .

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Thelma, I agree and TFW!

[@hairnhappiness3880]

We definitely come from the same angle. I agree with everything that you have said.

[@RollinwithAnita]

TFW! 😊💕

[@adriane1031]

The shed is super super CUTE.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you, it's so old, we need a new one...lol.

[@susanburrow3238]

I agree with you 100% marriage is hard but so worth it I've been married for forty years we were broke when we got married raise two kids and we're still broke but happy we got married for life through the ups and downs peaks and valleys he has the only one that I would go through life with God put us together and we will stay together❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Yes Susan that's right, I think sometimes people forget the vows that are we agreed to. I'm not saying to stay with someone who mistreats you, but all other problems usaully can be worked out if the effort is made by both parties. TFW!

[@horrisajones8933]

Another great vlog tfs

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you Horrisa, so glad you enjoyed it.😊💕

[@kimmack4403]

We had a anniversary on June 2nd 38 years ❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, congratulations and happy belated anniversary. 38 years, that is so awesome. Wishing you both many more years of love and happiness together.😊💕

[@chancetochangehomedecormor8084]

Sorry but back again. I was born and raised in Chicago, but have not been back in a few years so it was great to see Michigan Ave. and Lake Shore Drive area. Hopefully we will be there in August! 😎

[@cheyennetapiasmith9056]

Hey Anita! Girl! Where have you been?! You've been missed!❤ I moved to the Chicago area after I left MD. I gained so much weight living in the Chicago "Far Western Burbs" The food is outstanding!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey lady, aw, thank you and I've been back for a few weeks now. It's nice to know I was missed and TFW!

[@cheyennetapiasmith9056]

I'm going to start "googling" your name, so I dont miss any videos.❤❤

[@latoniayoung1057]

Say it sis. I’m not looking but if it’s the Lords Will. I’m in my happy place. We need to have more talks. A chat would be great. God Bless Queen

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey LaTonia, Being in your happy place is a great place to be. No expections mean no dissapointments. Love will find you when you least expect it. TFW and have a great week!

[@athomewithshushana]

Jesus is 1st and center in our marriage and we do our best to apply the Word of God to our marriage. We do necessarily follow a lot if ppls advice especially if their marriage is terrible but we take the meat off the bones. We are so similar Anita in our convictions pertaining to family. I am tge same way. I'm very traditional in my marriage and the way I raise my kids. Very old school and I love it.

[@stephaniegeyen162]

I agree on marriage and raising children, I was the same way! Yes, we are empty nesters also.

[@RollinwithAnita]

TFW Stephanie.

[@phylliscarter41]

Girl, I'm so glad that I'm married to yall friend Mike. I'm his 3rd wife going on 9 years this year. We got a lot of catching up.😂😂😂

[@RollinwithAnita]

Third time is the charm…lol.😊💕

[@dwdesign2sellbydeidra]

Great video sis!❤

[@decoratingwithjazigreen]

Hey Anita, I enjoyed the vlog 😊 Can you share exactly what’s in your acia bowl? Sam wants to know 😊 I love being married too, especially when you have a good man. We’re been married 22 yrs. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Glad you enjoyed the video Liz, do you want me to tell you what's in it or film it and show you exactly how I make it? TFW!

[@decoratingwithjazigreen]

@@RollinwithAnita I wouldn’t mind if you film yourself making it and say the names of each item. Thanks 😊

[@judysnell]

🥰 TFS

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Judy, TFW!😊💕

[@chancetochangehomedecormor8084]

I feel that people have put blinders on as to what marriage is all about. We are in a "fairy tale ME generation".rather than a WE generation. Back in the day couples stayed together just to survive and then came the "I can do it all by myself" saga. We saw more and wanted more. Jobs changed from men only or women only jobs ( which I am not saying shouldn't have happened) We saw more and wanted more and went after more. The box was open and the ME generation spilled out. The traditional marriage concept has changed but not fully redefined yet. JUST MY OPINION! My husband and I just got back together after a separation of over 20 years and now have been back together for almost 2 years and have redined what we feel marriage is.

[@angeliarichardson777]

Hey Friend! You’re dropping some great gems in this video. Sounds like you and Lonnie did things the way God intended. You’re his helpmate. He provided and protected. And you made the house a beautiful home. ❤

[@anikac128]

I agree with what you said about marriage. Most folks aren't in it to win it and don't realize just how much of a commitment it is. I know that I didn't in the early years. We'll be celebrating 20 years in a month from today, by God's grace. Marriage is a covenant, not a contract or a piece of paper. On another note, where did you get the chandelier over your kitchen table?

[@RollinwithAnita]

That's understadable Anika, I was the same way when I was young and thought that marriage would be like a Disney fairytale the entire time...lol. However, I believe it's the not so good times that you are able to get through that makes the relationship and union that much stronger. TFW!

[@adriane1031]

The broke part will make you feel some type of way.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Yes, being broke will have stressed...lol.

[@ellabransfocombransfor8091]

I love married life 😊.

[@candyman.g.q.1636]

"Good, job. "Yall.😀.

[@lynmorand]

Love u Anita

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you Deann and I love you too sis. TFW!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you Deann and I love you too sis. TFW!

[@latoniayoung1057]

Heyyy sis. I got my food too lol. Just got back from Louisville Kentucky for my grandsons AAU game. Plans for Summer is to get out and enjoy more concerts, eat good and enjoy my family. I think Marriage is beautiful. I’m not married but I know my husband is out there🙏❤️. Good advice. Love how you always keep it 💯

[@RollinwithAnita]

Did they win? Sounds like you have some fun things planned for the summer and I think that's great!

[@rebaallen5832]

Hello Anita & Lonnie!! You were spot on about marriage! The weather here in Richmond, Va has been bipolar. It was good to see Phyllis and Mike! I enjoy your videos so much. Have an amazing week!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you Reba and same to you. TFW!

[@ramonajacobs9402]

I enjoy watching your vlogs so much Anita...I am single and really don't get out too much. I hope to get out of my comfort zone and get out and do more. It's so inspiring to watch you guys. I live in MD as well but don't like to drive. I am trying to do better and would really like to explore more that life has to offer. Baby steps...lol

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Ramona, thank you so much and I understand sis, it's hard to step out of our comfort zones. Just do what you feel comfortable with one step at a time. Sometimes we have to be uncomfortable to be comfortable if you know what I mean. You can go at your own pace. Take yourself to Icecream (that's you like it like me...lol), or lunch and a movie, or go to a museum, or visit a bookstore like Barnes & Noble, I can spend hours in there alone. You can do this, I know you can. Please keep me posted and I'll keep encouraging you. Have a great week and TFW!

[@lindakitts4146]

Hi Anita & Lonnie..looked like you all had a great time in Chicago with your friends..It's always good to get away, but there's nothing like coming home..enjoyed watching & tfs❤❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Linda, thank you and we did have a great time and yes, there is no place like home. TFW!

[@kiajawn]

I swear Arnez J. at the same place 2 yrs ago I think...he was so funny!

[@RollinwithAnita]

He’s hilarious, TFW!😊💕

[@adriane1031]

The weather was absolutely crazy in Detroit the high 30s last week, today the 7th its 70 degrees go figure

[@RollinwithAnita]

Sounds like Maryland weather. One day I have my heat on and the next my AC....lol.

[@candyman.g.q.1636]

"I'm, first.🤣.Lol.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Lol…hey Candy Man.😊💕

[@candyman.g.q.1636]

@@RollinwithAnita "Hello.🤣.Lol.

[@lolasalesmoore236]

Hunni, you covered a lot in this video, crab boil had one last Sunday( mighty tasty) will you please do more videos like this one. I’m not married(10 years) I didn’t wait on God.. you tell Lonnie, I love a beautiful outdoor oasis,I see a lot of flowers we have in common.. enjoyed everything! Hi Ko-Ko!! Blessings!!!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Lola, aren't crab boils so good...lol. I'm glad you enjoyed the video and yes, I can do more like this. I'll ask you guys for specific topics that you want to talk about and we can go from there. TFW!

[@monarock9552]

Hey Fam! I have one trip scheduled in August to San Diego for my college women’s alumni weekend. (Hampton University).. Can’t wait! 🥰🥰 What a beautiful weekend!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Mona, oooh, that sounds like fun. San Diego is a beautiful city, that's going to be a fun trip. TFW!

[@QueenTee918]

YES YES AND YES ABOUT THESE KIDS TODAY…… PARENTS ARE NOT DOING THEIR JOB.. NO GUIDANCE, NO SUPERVISION AND THE LIST GOES ON…

[@RollinwithAnita]

It's so sad and embarrassing.

[@Tgallager2742]

Yes that gender war is crazy within the black community, but I think we all know when it started...but it's crazy. You guys look like you were having so much fun in Chicago with your friends great vlog.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Tracy and yes, it's crazy and I hope things can get figured out and back in a good direction. TFW!

[@Tgallager2742]

@@RollinwithAnita Right

[@vernelllevingston1800]

This generation. More parents I having kids and their kids themselves. It's more in this generation than when we was coming up. And then I know more big mama than grandmama. Past 50 where mama's at 35 and 40 now. Single people my advice is to work on yourself. Surround yourself with Well rounded people that have a head on their shoulder and no Right From wrong with God in the middle of it. What's the show the future wifey on KZbin or any podcasthat will help you in your single situation?

[@RollinwithAnita]

I agree with you and TFW!

[@vernelllevingston1800]

@@RollinwithAnita 💯