What NOT To Text A Man | Did I Scare Him Off | Texting NO NOs

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

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[@kellyr9456]

Ladies, please just BE YOUR SELF! The right guy will appreciate you for YOU!❤

[@jamiebullock7878]

Kelly Richardson 💯 🙌

[@hs8shsubjsishejw747]

Yes the right one they come to you

[@courtneyherring6592]

No I am myself and no well ever love me so rethink what you said

[@francinesmith8109]

@@courtneyherring6592 its obvious why no one will ever love you. You need to do the rethinking here.

[@aleciawiltshire9021]

Agree

[@leesteal4458]

One thing I can tell you is that when a man likes you, he won't care if you text him ridiculous things.

[@Katzenmutter]

Lee Steal exactly!! i am a never ending text girl and very proud of that, thats who I am:) however i manage to make guys text just as much after awhile so whos winning🤣🤷‍♀️

[@Jooney91]

That is not true. Try to text him that you are not sure about him or that you were following him yesterday without him noticing you. Poor boy 🙈

[@29duygu24]

Lee Steal true :)

[@lizzieh431]

yes. But still, we shouldn't do it too many times. He or she will tolerant for several times occasionally, but absolutely can't bear if we do it time after time. At least we should leave an impression that we are able to control emotions.

[@Bodangers]

He will care but he wont let his girl kmow its annoying lol. He will put up with it because she is worth it.

[@Maya-yf6ml]

Lol if having a conversation turns your man off, find a NEW MAN

[@BluueCheese]

You said it correctly. “Your man”. This these videos are mainly meant for women out in the dating pool.

[@favouritechildofgod5636]

Exactly!!!

[@sarah.hodophile505.]

👍👍

[@thayoungswami3278]

@@franciscopartida2737 yup I agree w you brother

[@beachstreet101]

It’s unlikely that the guy wants to hear the details about you getting your nails done.

[@susanwagner2595]

This honestly makes me think that guys don't want to be texted at at all

[@sabinaali6811]

😂😂

[@user-iu2um8fd8n]

Can confirm. Texting is a useless waste of time. Call, flirt, meet. That's it.

[@Laasya0066]

🤣🤣🤣

[@maddart4445]

Hahaha unless it’s boobs

[@justmeonthebeach]

🤣

[@sunandsea72]

Am I the only one that feels like this is all exhausting? I think I’ll stick to single for a bit...

[@naughtyangel6885]

Its only exhausting if the guy really means sth to you ,otherwise u can write whatever the hell u feel like writing 😂

[@perkieperf1028]

Sun & Sea same here🤦🏾‍♀️ got no time for games my life is way more important sorry

[@deborahburrows3282]

Sun & Sea oh I’m exhaustd

[@katiehunt3083]

I absolutely agree. I'm just over the crap games.

[@poleen000]

It's exhausting. It's a game. Either you win or lose. 90% of the time, you lose 😭

[@simply_christina87]

Men give me a headache. Why can't two adults like each other and state how they feel without all these damn rules and without all the head games.

[@lifeofalady]

You are so right..all these rules are unnecessary to me...men do not make All this effort..all one sided with men.

[@mmc4214]

Exactly. I feel like I'm in high school all over again.

[@23magneta]

Most adults (both men and women) are overgrown children. It's no wonder why so many people have dysfunctional relationships.

[@mmc4214]

@@23magneta And, 60 % of marriages fail. It's messed up. Not fair and to be frank, it sucks.

[@Supsup7777]

For real.

[@nargesrzd7571]

those texts are annoying not only for men but also for women

[@angelicakagaya3018]

So its a human thing, this video should be like, texts that people dont like

[@angenequenash5180]

Exactly I actually seen guys text this tbh lol

[@annmariesaid777]

@@angenequenash5180 exactly what i was thinking..and sometimes they keep calling while you're ignoring them.. and won't stop until you answer..🙄

[@TheBeaniestBean8675]

I agree.

[@tatianaramirez1064]

Jajaja those tips apply to anyone that values their time and life. If there is no purpose nor valuable information to me, just don’t bother I won’t answer.

[@LBC22123]

Lol this is too much to remember, ima just text what I want and if he doesn’t like it then bye bye

[@rotemcrazycatlady4904]

Exactly

[@Z5Z5Z5]

Yup

[@elisevanessamay4786]

lol.. same ..

[@teregb6563]

Lily Clapham agreed!

[@InnerPeaceFindings]

Ha ha ha

[@23magneta]

I find text messages in general to be a turn-off. I'm more impressed by a man who can speak to me on the phone for 5 minutes.

[@nofybn7794]

I don't like calls or cell texts, I prefer e-mail.

[@fishcanon8141]

nofy bn I almost cannot tell if that is a joke lol

[@hs8shsubjsishejw747]

I fill the same way

[@Z5Z5Z5]

They dont like calls 🙄

[@Ana-ty8sl]

...ok boomer

[@sapphirethealpha5005]

Brain: why you watch this? Me: just in case

[@Milagros81]

I hate the one word texts from anybody friends or boyfriend, make me feel like I'm bothering them

[@Gina-Montana]

Yeah, but apparently it’s acceptable for a guy to shoot a one word response back (ie cool....; aiiight....) 🥴🙄

[@Milagros81]

@@Gina-Montana when i was on a dating site I didnt reply to anyone who txt me with sentence up to 3 words lol. I like to read 😂😉

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

I think what I was getting at is one-word initiating texts like "Hey." Totally fine to respond however, just don't lead with them 😉

[@Milagros81]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick now the guy I'm dating likes to communicate a lot! Considering that we live a bit far and both have children/work commitments i always feel his support and he is there if i need him, without crossing the line of clingy

[@morana-exe2477]

Same

[@yourmajestythequeenbee]

You forgot the “I think I’m pregnant” text 😬

[@Heather_T]

Yourma Jesty 😂😂😂

[@lifeofdyme4057]

Yourma Jesty 🤣🤣🤣

[@visam28]

🤣🤣🤣

[@shinequeen8243]

🤣

[@aleciawiltshire9021]

Dwl

[@kristagrym]

Girls...It's simple, be yourself....If that person doesn't meet your truly self the relationship never will work,because they will be meeting the typical girl conditioned by dating YT videos😉😉😉😉

[@loralieisa]

I'm with you on being yourself, and hopefully the guy that's interested in you also keeps it real.

[@ltdodgen]

If yourself is desperate and clingy it’s going to be hard to find someone who’s going to find that attractive...but good luck!

[@thatwinninggirl942]

* heart *

[@Semitry4u]

So this is where relationships have gone.....wow. So happy to be older. Never had to deal with the immature games.

[@ellesamuse]

That's exactly it. Instead of them appreciating you thinking of them and the fact you stopped and made time to show interest, or being flattered, or anything positive and well-adjusted, these days people pick everything you text apart very childishly instead of seeing the big picture.

[@user-db6el7eb9p]

It s hell 😔

[@Jiovelbeauty]

Melinda Lara exactly immature , no for me and next please😁

[@happyinots8598]

Hey.. it s simple, if the man wants you, u dont need to do those things..if he ignoring you, it means he has another important things to do, so just leave him and find someone else who deserve to get your attention more!

[@danaglover6801]

Salt N Pepper Bingo!

[@countrygirl2899]

Exactly!

[@juliapurdy3950]

Another way to look at it is: do you want a man or a marshmallow? A dude or a dud? A man who has "other important things to do" probably really does, and that is what makes him interesting and vibrant and fun to be with. A man on a collar and leash? Get up close and there's probably nothing much there except binge-watching sports, firing up the gas grill and sucking on a beer while watching the grass grow and thinking he should get out there and mow the lawn.

[@phoebsc5993]

Oh yes. I got sh...it to shoot like. Its so fricking exhausting.

[@ashleeearl0712]

I love his expressions when he reacts to the texts. It's so funny 😂

[@ammabeltapdasan2213]

Mee too💋

[@80sgirl96]

I want him to do stand-up.

[@jhsemoxitha3821]

Cringe

[@ezrathegirl9092]

Tips: what to text a man Don't text em

[@aminah761]

Period

[@ari4342]

👍

[@charelmurrell]

Bahahaaaaa

[@Iamjennilee]

Damn texting really is like walking on egg shells lol

[@lorireed8046]

Your whole LIFE is about walking on egg shells with a male in it.

[@BoraKimBUZZ]

So men wants someone fun and who would leave them alone?! 😒

[@danaglover6801]

Bora K Ha!! Basically that’s what it seems like. The shit is draining if you ask me. Tryna figure out his moods and emotions for you🤨. One day he’s hot and the next he barely has anything to say. But they talk abt us?! Yeah right🙄

[@RathZa]

After seeing several Videos from this KZbinr I get the same feeling. A good like to dislike ratio, some work in the videos but the content... Sometimes I was yelling in my head: "What?! I don't know any guy, that would/wouldn't like that except for the one from work who is boasting about how many women he is with and then asks his female colleague how to tell one of them off without looking bad." So yeah, I get the feeling that those are tips for women who want to find a guy just for fun. But I'm a little calmed down after reading the comments. Many make fun of these points or say they want to stay true to themselves, that's reassuring that most don't buy that it's about men in general, which it is not.

[@hersheykisseys]

Hahaha

[@aintgonnaletuknow5758]

they're cat! the more unexpected you are the more they're interested in you lol

[@tshedzacolleen8340]

😂😂

[@rebeccajones8628]

Simple solution: Rarely text them. ALSO: If they take a while to read your texts and do not respond you have your answer right there PLAIN AS DAY. Ignore them.....works like a charm.

[@navimarlow]

Always!!

[@rebeccajones8628]

@@navimarlow OMG. This is happening to me as we speak. Do I ignore him? He is with his buddy.

[@navimarlow]

Rebecca Jones ignore him!!

[@alexflorentino9745]

yes!! i do this but i don't really mind how that is going to affect them, i just hate talking over the phone/text bc it is unproductive and i would think the same of a guy who's always on his phone too

[@elvinacheah]

This almost made my cry. I was a little choked up because of how many of these I have done. But I’m done blaming and shaming myself. Thank you Ryan, for sharing these. I felt there was a little judgment from the way you talked over these texts, but let’s be real- we all judge. So sometimes a little empathy on how the other party received are texts goes a long way 🤍 For girls who are reading, if you did any of these just know that you are not alone :’)

[@zippyblessed839]

Thanks. We all make mistakes

[@personanongratano1]

Guys basically want you to ALWAYS keep it light, keep it ONLY upbeat and fun, never go into your female or emotional side, never express what you truly are feeling, etc., etc.

[@jhsemoxitha3821]

Avoid those guys

[@sophies8564]

I didn’t do any of these and still got ghosted 🤣

[@jennevaa]

I have an answer for you that is just for you and many will not understand but I think you will.It's not for them, only you. You are at the top of the scale in attractiveness. Quite a few men without some maturity, will see this as a chance to disrespect a woman like you -a kinda like getcha' for what other women have done to 'me' ...and it's ego soothing to them. Displaced revenge. If you want to see this played out in an extreme manner, post a picture on a dating site and watch some swarm to insult you without knowing a thing about you. (as in, first contact is "wanna xxxx? ") In real life they could never get close enough to you to say those words even in a public setting. Sorry. Been there. Unprovoked. I tell myself the truth about it ,whether others might think it's presumptuous or not. NO HATERS PLEASE. WE GET ENOUGH OF THAT. move along.

[@Dark_Harmony]

@@jennevaa That's true. I'm not as physically attractive as I used to be, & I'm not acting like I was all that ever, but, I've had some experiences like that in the not so distant past. It's annoying, & unnerving. Mental cases needing therapy. Don't drag that baggage around on others.

[@Cantetinza17]

@@jennevaa Also sometimes guys aren't that into you like what you might have originally thought (happened to me once, oops) or they already have a girlfriend and the girlfriend is starting to get suspicious (this literally just happened to my friend). My Grandmothers would say that Rejection is God's Protection.

[@ruthiemonroig1614]

When he makes it clear that he wants a boodie call and your like its not happening..yup..got ghosted 😏✌

[@queenshamie7649]

How are you doing Kweyamba Nelson Uganda [phone] 🙏

[@sanazsu]

Embarrassing.... yesterday I sent a guy a message like, “Can I at least know you’re ok?” After he hasn’t responded to my last message in a few days. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I was watching this video smacking myself like, “El Desperado!” 😫😅

[@jessicarose3494]

Lailah A dont worry, we’ve all sent them!! 😂

[@sanazsu]

Jessica Rose 😅

[@Ana-ty8sl]

...so was he okay?

[@lucyespila3401]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sanazsu]

Ana Lerdo It’s been three weeks still no response so I don’t know... 🤷🏾‍♀️🤣

[@mariafury1047]

I hate the whole texting thing at that start of a relationship, or if you're trying to build one. Words on a screen can be so hard to decipher because you have nothing else to go on. i.e. facial expression, tone of voice, body language.

[@hs8shsubjsishejw747]

Me too

[@pmg1180]

I can’t say but I agree with you. It’s better to have face to face full time. Text is a good for basic stuff like what time to meet up and let’s go!

[@dawnpecho1710]

I agree with you. It is so hard to decipher emotions from a text. I prefer a phone call or face to face conversations. Luckily the guy I’m seeing now calls me on the phone, and vice versa. So far great relationship, hoping it lasts😊

[@robynalvin6319]

Excellent point. People use text as a way it was never intended to be used. To me, it’s lazy.

[@JOYELLE93]

Yes, so true! I told my bf that in the beginning I like talking because you can totally misunderstand text messages and that causes confusion.

[@Yummiiful]

So basically just don’t be yourself really. 😣 I seriously hate dating

[@aintgonnaletuknow5758]

screw this~just send him whatever comes into your mind as long as it's appropriate, most importantly you got nothing to lose anyway : )

[@jhsemoxitha3821]

Be yourself

[@jlo5515]

The most cringing text I ever sent was “hey I’m outside” 😭😂🤣😭😂🤣😭😂😂🤣😂😭

[@kelebogilemotshoane5186]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@marcusclark2225]

Dude your mannerisms are hilarious. Such good true advice.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

I appreciate that, Marcus! 🙂

[@annabee148]

So funny haha

[@elizabethvalente6812]

This channel helps me. I do not send cringeworthy texts to someone I like but I do send them to people I’m not interested in and it is the perfect tool to scare them away 🤪🤣

[@XOAliciaMarie]

My biggest pet peeve is when a man texts me asking me if I have plans that night or what I have planned for the weekend… And then never just asked me to hang out! And with some of these guys I would ask them why they didn’t ask me to hang out they didn’t tell me that they were going to but that I sounded busy. So then I’ve let a few of them know that had they just asked me directly I would’ve been more than happy to work them into my schedule to meet up with them for coffee or get some lunch because even though I keep myself busy I can make time for the right people.

[@lanamiccoli7056]

I’m guilty of sending and of receiving texts like these, I know the desperation of needing someone’s attention. What I’ve taught myself to do (instead of texting impulsively) is write a memo, or send myself an email, expressing what I want to say. Reading it again later really makes the words sink in!!

[@trudyvalkyr3005]

Only "hey" is standard where I live. Literally every type of text starts like this. Even in a professional or a commercial context.

[@misskia2582]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this is to funny but I swear we have all done one of them texts before 🤣

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Haha thank you for being honest about that!

[@jasminelove101]

I swear lol

[@deannalachelle9319]

Guilty .... but I now cringe about it 🙈

[@riley5572]

I did all of them! Lol

[@vickiweber4718]

Oh Lord knows I have

[@beckyd730]

I've decided i need to put myself out there and tell people when I like them, life is too short. Once I did this by email, turned out he did not see it working, but at least i tried :)

[@ciruwiru]

The long texts i think are annoying to women too. Especially me. Lol

[@beautylife310]

The modern day dating sucks. Everywhere you hear is what you should or should not do, what to say or not to say, for what? to make sure not to scare off the guy, not turn them off, to keep them interested, to let them miss you, to make them chase you......It is easy to get lost and feel exhausting about all these.... But think it again, why should I care that much? I have more important things to do in life, no time to play around text, if a guy lacks of interests or response, I have no time for him. Ladies, have your own life and make yourself happy first, then you won't care that much about how he feels about you anymore.

[@Ljounieh]

Perfect!!

[@imbebe3129]

The eyebrow raise after “I think I’m falling for you!” 😂😂😂 I died!!!

[@queenshamie7649]

How are you doing 🙏 Kweyamba Nelson Uganda [phone]🙏

[@rip6091]

This guy looks like Bud Bundy in Married with children...🤣

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Bud was charming and likable, so I'll take that as a good thing 😉

[@rip6091]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick ...I loved that show and yes he was charming, likable and also cute and funny! 😘

[@blueblaze9862]

omg kinda lol

[@leesteal4458]

Nope.

[@Jackie1111]

Yess..Bud was cute lol

[@kr4888]

HAHAHA!! I love your facial expressions!!! I am literally laughing out loud!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks KR! Glad you enjoyed this one 🙂

[@liaclarisse9400]

omg i was gunna to send "gush all over you texts" my friends told me to send it i said no thank goodness! Thank you for this video!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Sure thing Lia! 🙂

[@AtepaHathorMakalani]

Definitely guilty of the soulmate and break up text I love pretty intensely I think I need to just chill and remember to put myself first

[@lorettaagnes7620]

sarah.j collver i can relate to that.I have also sent break up texts a couple of times. I am now learning how to love myself and put myself first.

[@justpeachy4380]

Yeah, I did the soulmate one too. Idk why people get so weird about it. Like I'd be so stoked if someone texted me some of this stuff. I'd love to get attention.

[@AtepaHathorMakalani]

@@justpeachy4380 I think it depends on how attracted you are to the person what the chemistry is like and if you mutually feel there is something divine uniting the two of you. You probably shouldn't tell them on the first date I would wait atleast 9 months.

[@justpeachy4380]

@@AtepaHathorMakalani Right. I waited about 5 months. But I guess the feeling wasn't reciprocated. I felt absolutely ridiculous afterwards. I did feel a divine something. I think he was just emotionally unavailable. I'd never felt like that before about someone I didn't know well.

[@AtepaHathorMakalani]

@@justpeachy4380 I'm sorry

[@azado237]

I've spilled my whole heart out over text too many times to count 🙃

[@lydiahampton7393]

Same I look back and cringe 😬

[@jenniferanne8338]

Wait wait wait.....I have gotten these from MEN all the time lol

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Yup! We're guilty of it too!

[@jenniferanne8338]

Hahaha....:)

[@thors1fan140]

Jennifer Primo Me too!! @Jennifer Primo, it just sounds clingy and desperate.A total turn off.So needy! I don’t do needy.

[@aysvasquez6241]

Iam guilty too!

[@PATAMA12345]

the why you ignoring me part

[@margiepersh712]

Remember ladies...before you text, before make sure you’ve appropriately couched your texts to pad his fragile ego 🤣🤣🤣

[@lifeofalady]

Exactly..men have too much ego..we have to baby them all the time..I am not your cheerleader dude 24-7. Where is my support and attention...

[@rebeccalavoy6655]

Haha, now I know why it takes me 5 minutes to send a 30 second text 😂

[@phoebesanchez8915]

YOU GO GIRL

[@leahmwingi2266]

🤣🤣🤣🤣gorrit

[@lorireed8046]

Anyone notice how he was okay with the guy sending you a "cool" and "alright" text but... bashed the female for 1 word text???

[@cuteandfluffypikachu3405]

I was about to send the I’m falling for you text thank you for stopping me 😂🤣😂☺️🤣☺️

[@fallenpsyche4716]

Cute and Fluffy Pikachu omggggg same🤣🤣😂😂😂hahahah i cannot hahahha

[@maureenchewu8726]

Same😂😂😂😂

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Haha oh thank heavens you didn't! 😂😂

[@cuteandfluffypikachu3405]

I know 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@ladennayoung2939]

😆

[@hersheykisseys]

Dating is really a skill set

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

I don't text any of that but I still scare them off. lol

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Haha I know the feeling! Just remember when it comes to texting with guys, less is more 😉

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Noted! Thanks!

[@jasminelove101]

Less and fun tho 😂

[@TheSapphireSprit]

You scare off the wimps. Be yourself and good things will follow!

[@cherish.o.m4453]

I do worst but the refused to leave me alone.

[@Ljounieh]

So we should overthink everything and worry about perpetually meeting a man's expectations. Just send whatever the hell you want! His response should tell you if he's right for you or not. We are people, not programmable robots ffs

[@manalalhumaid812]

OMG 😳😢 this is so embarrassing I have done all of them🤫🤫🤫

[@Drching-hx9tn]

It's all about interest ....the guy who is interested in you will like u no matter what text u drop him 😄

[@zippyblessed839]

Exactly

[@kristenmoonrise]

Thankfully I stopped sending texts like these when I was in my early twenties. Absolutely nothing will be ruined if you take a step back before sending the message, if you decide to send one at all. Don't be glued to your phone, or turn off your notifications! Just relax. 😌🍹

[@queenshamie7649]

How are you doing Kweyamba Nelson Uganda [phone] 🙏

[@odapunkt]

Once, this guy wouldn’t respond to me, so I sent him a very long story about the under water bridge in India with floating stones

[@PH7018c]

😃😃😃😃....

[@Bodangers]

Waste of your time

[@sassiboem2194]

Oda Punkt - did it work?

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

👍

[@omoukponihenyen676]

Just tell me he replied. I can imagine it being interesting and captivating.

[@user-ft2zz3um6l]

:D I was watching this, giggling all the way through, and thinking does anyone actually do the most of these.

[@thesparkleside1073]

I love this: “The chances that he’s in the mindset to receive a text like this, are slim to none.”

[@Dark_Harmony]

Poor guys. They just can't handle any level of reality. But, at least that's an honest statement. I thought only 15 yr old girls were shallow & self absorbed. Oh silly me. Acting like Idk men....

[@NkosiCebile]

Where have you been all my life hahaha... You just saved me... I'm guilty of all these texts and worse haha... Next time I will be better prepared. I'm binge-watching your youtube videos :-) Thank you for helping us out

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

You bet, Cebile! Thanks for watching, I really appreciate your feedback! 😃

[@mikochild2]

I find that most dating advice is not gender specific. This video is a great example. Women get annoyed when receiving these texts as well. Good advice, "would you be annoyed if you received the text you're about to send?"

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks! Spot on! 👍

[@ladennayoung2939]

Why would a guy want to know all of that info about nails? Heck I wouldn't want a stupid text like that. Lol!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Haha an absent-minded moment. True story! We all have them tho 😉

[@denillearenga7274]

hahaha

[@sassiboem2194]

Me either. If one of my ladies texted me about nails, unless we had an appointment coming up, I’d lose interest 🤣

[@sarahwoodward4453]

That made me so uncomfortable 🤣

[@Dark_Harmony]

And on a rare occasion, some lady tells me all this as if I even know wtf she's talking about. I've never been in a nail salon. Never went to anyone in an actual place that does mani/pedis. I do my own. Much money saved.

[@sumthin2lukatsumthin2lukat40]

Dude, I’m in my 40’s! I haven’t sent “stupid” text in a minute. I have mastered the art of creating emotions and intrigue. Thanks for the hilarious and insightful tips!

[@sarahc561]

This is hilarious, its like someone's reading my old phone history!

[@mine176p]

That's what I kept getting, so it goes both ways, I am SO DONE

[@Kat-lq8sp]

These were hilarious!!!.... I'm guilty of some. My worst pet peeve is the one-word text. REALLY!!! That is why I stop texting this fool. It makes me feel like I bothering him and this woman has no time for that. I don't need a dissertation, but give me something other than "cool," "damn."

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks Karen! Yes, guys have a lot of those one worders lol 🙈

[@annabhun90]

The "gush all over you" text is hillarious, once my ex texted me in style like this everytime he get a chance to text me. Fortunately he didn't text like that anymore after i blocked him.

[@Cristinact]

He didn't text you like that or anything else for that matter, since you blocked him....

[@queenshamie7649]

Holle 🙏

[@chanthana7694]

​@@Cristinact😂

[@lovejaycakes]

Haha, the soulmates text.. I actually talked about this with him and we had a great conversation/discussion about it! So I was pleasantly surprised 😅

[@queenshamie7649]

Hi kweyamba Nelson Uganda [phone] 🌷🌷🙏🙏🤣🤣

[@paularubina9843]

Your funny faces and humour here allowed me to recognize my own texting no-no’s without feeling badly about myself 👍😊

[@queenshamie7649]

Hi kweyamba Nelson Uganda [phone]

[@Z5Z5Z5]

"TELL ME SOMETHING FUN" LMFAOO

[@casy6203]

No I use to do that...🤣

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

A guy that I've been talking to for a few months sends me texts sometimes saying: Tell me something good" I think it's cute and I respond with something positive. However; I've already made too many mistakes with this one. I think it's time to say goodbye. I'll do it over the phone, though... No text.

[@Dark_Harmony]

Yeah. Who sends THAT kind of text? A 15 yr old? I'm not aware of anyone sending texts like this that are actual adults.

[@queenshamie7649]

Holle 🙏

[@queenshamie7649]

How are you sir kweyamba Nelson Uganda [phone] 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@hallclmall1251]

😂🤣 @ the awkward text messages and the facial expressions! Love your videos

[@leefray973]

These texts are why I broke up with this guy. He would literally text me every other hour “what you doin” what you eat for dinner blah blah bunch of boring crap.

[@emmiestacy]

I can understand certain situations like being creepy but if a guy doesn't like you texting them then they aren't interested anyway

[@tholangplaatjies4705]

Here's one that I sent: "I don't know whether we still talk anymore or not"

[@aussiejubes]

Lol. Guys don't like unnecessary drama like having empathy for the person they're supposed to care about. I'm not surprised.

[@kukana1108]

I texted “we need to talk “ and his reply was “about”. I didn’t want tell him he couldn’t move in in a text. I got no further communication, so the next day I did text him to tell him He couldn’t move in. That was 5 days ago. Nothing.

[@javiciijessy3851]

am i the only one who thinks he’s funny 💀😂😂 LMAO update: damn . thnks for the likes !

[@shinequeen8243]

Am just laughing

[@Jeanninecomeau]

He cracks me up. I think there was one on body language he did and I was rolling

[@kaydykes9916]

I find myself just trying to start a conversation where we can get to know each other etc. when I ask how your day was, it’s cause I genuinely care and want to know. I don’t need every little detail. 🤷🏻‍♀️ And...people forget messages and therefore forget to respond all the time. Just cause they saw the text doesn’t mean they’ll respond.

[@chloebell333]

you know - those texts are awful and I have never sent them - however...at what point are we as people not trying to pretend that we have these high octane awesome busy lives? I don't. I am a full time student...full time single mother...I stay in most nights and my nights out are rare AND most weekends I have my daughter. People ask me what I am doing and it is usually studying. So does that make me boring or lame AF - I hope not but being new to dating I also try to be real and not pretend to be something I am not.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Hey Chloe! It's not about having a "high octane" awesome busy life. Hopefully you have a life you feel is awesome by being a mother and a student. The point is to never make him the center of the universe; it sounds like that spot's already reserved for your child, which is great. Never clear your schedule to be totally available for a man in the beginning; we hate that. Does *not* make you boring or lame at all! Your life is already naturally set up for success in this "busy" sense with men, I'd say 😉

[@tanyahouston5635]

Perfectly okay to be busy doing whatever it is you want to do. I am busy. My choice and I am under no obligation to say what I am busy doing, could be reading, could be sorting pennies, doesn't matter. No explanation, no judgment. And if someone calls and asks what I am doing, I say talking to you.

[@henula]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick what if u are from different countries? :D doesn't it change little bit the situation with clearing schedule? :D

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

@@henula I'm sure there must be cultural differences Henrietta. I think all of this really applies with western cultures. Beyond that, there might be notable differences indeed. 👍

[@henula]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thanks for answering. I think we didn't understand to each other. I meant if I'm going to start dating man living in different country than me... if this isn't changing rule about clearing my program. Like if he says i want to see you. than what? its different than you living in the same city, if you know what i mean...i would like to know how is your opinion in this case about "being available"... Thanks for your response.

[@NurseSabrina79]

Ryan~I don't even know how I came across your channel but OmG! This is so beneficial for me, (and any men that are/will be in my life!) I HATE those teaser videos where they will give you juuuusssst enough and then either wanna charge you or whatever. I loathe those and will never click on them! I cannot thank you enough for these videos-you are giving me great perspective and it's awesome! Thanks again!🤗

[@victoriacaropreso1506]

Love your animated expressions 😆

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Haha thanks Victoria! 😀

[@blancairisrobles4373]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Yes, hilarious!

[@lizzyfunnybunny9020]

Omg I laughed so much that I have tears. I used to send some of these in my 20s. These texts make women sound so boring and desperate! Oh man

[@mayl2773]

It’s funny because the “never ending text” the man responds with one word answers and the next thing you mentioned the thing to not do is sending a one word text... why the double standard?

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

He's sending the one-word text to you because, in response, he was turned off by what you sent versus you (or him) *initiating* with a one-word text. Hope I cleared that up, May. No double standard. He's accountable just like you 🙂

[@Gina-Montana]

Ryan Patrick now why would a woman INITIATE a one word text with something like idk, maybe, or whatever? These are words used in response texts. So no, you cleared nothing up here.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

@@Gina-Montana You're right! I got the categories confused. I was thinking about the "pointless banter" text which just happened to have "hey" in there and would technically be a one-word initiating text. Don't send 'hey' lol. Guys shouldn't be sending these texts I described either and I know guys send these too. If you're turned off by what they sent, send them one word so they get the hint it probably wasn't a great text they just sent 😄

[@panto036]

Can we please make a video about how do you know if you had a good date?

[@kiralee3074]

Guys are guilty for texts like these too . If 2 people love each other they except these silly flaws or if it really is an issue I'm sure sitting down and talking about it would resolve it .if you really end up losing someone over a stupid text message then that person isn't for you anyway go get someone better .

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Yes, guys are guilty of these too. Let's be clear though; the texting I'm referring to is everything *before* you guys are both in a committed relationship and are in love; this is during that initial courtship when you're dating. They are simply texts that turn people off in the beginning. Once you both say "I love you," then feel free to fire off whatever you want 😉

[@vlo4829]

People do those things after the first dates though! Acting like you're "2 people in love" at that point is too much for almost anyone...

[@kiamolee2347]

The guy im dating and i are both guilty of these. Were not in love but were both grown ass ppl who have fun with each other. I get that this is a general thing but if i really like a guy he could txt me that he has diarrhea at 2 am and im all 😍😍

[@MR-fl6ul]

@@kiamolee2347 lmaoooooooOooo

[@sleepwalker6067]

OH when we send a guy i one message they dont like it but when they do its alright for us :,)

[@pam164]

Hate txying men lol omg wish we could go back to days before mobile txts! 😁

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

I agree, Karen. I remember those days of having to remember like 20 phone numbers. It would be interesting to see what would happen haha 😂

[@lotusshakti1222]

Good idea. I will pretend that i dont have a phone. I am planning to leave my phone at home often

[@pam164]

@Jasmine Sweeney I never did that

[@oceansoul3694]

If a man won't talk face to face, or call...I don't even bother with them

[@violetcat9116]

In the 70's when I was dating and in high school, I got a lot of letters. The man I dated wrote me at night at night and gave it to me in the morning. He wrote me during the day and gave it to me on the bus home. He wrote me during the day sometimes and threw it at me as we passed during class changes. I still have a box full of these notes. We ended up married. No longer, but was not for normal reasons. I still read his notes, there were so sweet. When I cleaned out my mother's house I found a box of her love letters from my father during WW2. It let me see a totally unknown side of my very stern mother. It is a shame that generations coming now will never see these love notes. I miss the written notes.....text will never be the same.

[@SeventyStars]

Patrik I love your expression during the whole video it makes the topic do much more interesting man!

[@jennyho5359]

OMG! Can't help myself laughing..You're my favourite dating coach. Keep it up! ❤❤❤

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

This made my morning, Chef Jhen!! Thanks for watching! 😃😃

[@jennyho5359]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick You're welcome. Looking forward for more of your videos. ❤

[@lucyespila3401]

This is the funniest video i ever watched on you tube... i have laughed a good one😂😂😂😂 the comments are gold!!! Done with texting!!!

[@irinahechavarria4306]

This guy is amazing 😅 today is my first time watching your videos and I think you'll be my favorite coach from now on!!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

WHOO HOO! Welcome aboard, Irina! 😀

[@haveneobrien]

This video just made my whole year this is the realest shit ever this is why scrolling on KZbin at 1 AM it’s so worth it because you run into great videos like these

[@username3585]

omg it's 1:06am right now. ugh. lol

[@JazMegan]

The amount of these things I did to the guys I really liked 🤦🏼‍♀️ so embarrassing to think about but I was 20 so I can't be too harsh on myself. Agreed with all these that will push him/anyone away or make them vanish

[@glamaz0n]

I am laughing hysterically at this video. It's the second or third time I've watched it. You should do standup.

[@mxd-1990asn]

So we are basically (sometimes) texting them stuff THEY do too.... Cause i got ALL these type of texts from men before (often)

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

For sure! Guys do this stuff too 😄

[@stitches318]

seriously, I get the what's up and what are you doing texts all the time. It lets me know he's thinking of me, I don't hate it. Men do? Weird.

[@rsushma6293]

His expression though 😂😂 really love it💞

[@isabelhoch3713]

No wonder my guy friends are pissed whenever I text them 😂

[@anon_ya]

Your videos are the best & make me laugh! I love how you emphasize that texting is not meant to have full on conversation etc but as a way to build up to F2F encounters. It’s not a full method of communication and we shouldn’t use it to replace real talk.

[@hannahscott6604]

So I can’t text guys at all Got it

[@jellybean9418]

Omg! I did all the things you said I shouldn't be doing 😱😱😱. Thank you for this video! ❤️❤️❤️

[@mackenzilowery684]

My husband is to scared to tell his feelings so he will text me a song from KZbin, conveying how he feels lol

[@beachstreet101]

These are all true. They’d annoy the Hell out of me. Although I don’t mind long texts, but as long as they’re saying something interesting. Not interested in the details of someone getting their hair or nails done.

[@jokpop9302]

I nearly sent my crush "Hey, are you there~" HAHA and I didn't do anything on this list!!

[@thecanadiangirl]

The good and bad examples are great. The bad ones are pretty funny lol thanks for the content!