How To Be A Priority In His Life

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

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[@zozo-i7786]

Reading/listening to advice like "don't be to avialable to them"/"be busy" makes me feel like my boyfriend only missed me when I'm not avialable like do men only miss their girlfriends only when they don't reply their messages...I miss my boyfriend all the time even while we're talking to each other😭

[@ilah_dizon]

I have been watching dating coaches for YEARS. You are so refreshing and insightful! Love your content!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Aww thanks Ilah!

[@rochellerobinson939]

My psychology teacher in college told us the best way to find a man. The first time you meet him be very flirtatious and make him think you are interested. Make sure you touch him...I always put my hand on his arm. Then the next time you see him, act like you didn't. If he's interested the chase will begin.

[@Tasia169]

Valid and self respectful

[@icysnow57cold64]

How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.

[@icysnow57cold64]

Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man. Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way. Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father. Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers. The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view. How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.

[@ivyi7878]

I like that and actually works. My best guy friend told me and it works.. or worked for me.

[@cherrylane79]

@@icysnow57cold64 Sorry but this is full of stereotypes and weird assumptions. People are different. And females produce oxytocin when they have s*x or breastfeed. Men can switch that off if they want to. Many times those things you said, men have learned in their childhood. I never hold my female friends hand or cuddle with them. Some men who are good friends, may touch each other. It depends a lot of the country and the culture, what is accepted and what is not.

[@GG-rw8cz]

Yeah men are like onions...once you get deeper into them they make you cry 🙄

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Lol

[@kithale316]

And they stink and make your eyes water

[@santanicopandemonium6333]

Veryy trruuuee

[@adimana1588]

😂😂

[@Mushroom321-]

True sadly, ☹

[@PokePresto]

As a guy who somehow stumbled onto this video: This is how i see "you" eg a love intrest as a priority. 1. You make me a priority. 2. We have fun togheter 3. Your not needy eg if i cant make 1 date or cant text back right away you dont blow up my phone, but understand just like i would understand. 4. We give eachother space. Space is not a bad thing.... And people need to understand this. I could never handle a relationship with somone who requiers my attention 24/7... A girl i like will always be a priority in my life but i still need space for myself and friends no matter what. And so a girl who gives me that space will be a priority....

[@miljanaantic8712]

I put my ex-boyfriend on the test 'Prove your statements'. For example, he constantly was saying "I love you, I care for you and this relationship", but when it comes to explaining himself or proving it by acts, I only got bread crumbs. Another test was 'Being avilable'. He failed this one too by being avilable not when I asked for or expected, but only when HE decides he is 'in the mood' . I was constanlty left with peeving excuses how something/someone was always more important than me. The third test was 'Keep your promises'. When he failed the first two I became cold which made him wonder what's wrong. After arguing, I "forgave" him and make him promice me he will change his attitude. Of course, he failed that too, and after 3 months I broke up with clear concious and with owing him nothing.

[@natasham3096]

I am going to something similar

[@kv942]

Definitely putting him to the test with this one

[@miljanaantic8712]

Of course, he shouldn't know that you are testing him. Otherwise, he may manipulate to get better results, just to make you to 'shut up' for a while.

[@hawaiigirl8089]

You dodged a bullet! I married an A. Hole like that & he wasted my life, ruined my credit & 4 years dragging me around in divorce court

[@stephanie7572]

Talk about all the guys you've dated, all the guys who seem interested, and when he sighs and says, "But what about ME?" then say of course you're the one I'm interested in right now, what do you think I'm doing here? That lets him know he has competition and you're giving him a chance to be the top dog. Competition is good.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Competition is GREAT!

[@mrspaceforever]

Binge watching so after quarantine I make the right decisions LMFAOO

[@novanae7799]

He is too good. WE need a guy that is this in touch !

[@mrspaceforever]

linnae samuelson I wish you the best! We’ll meet someone that deserves us

[@novanae7799]

@@mrspaceforever - Just remember to protect yourself, get their background & no chasing....

[@beautifulrose2259]

Omg you're hilarious girl 😍

[@barbieblue3336]

When is "after"? Still not normal life

[@vita1179]

How to be a priority in his life? Ignore him!

[@Z5Z5Z5]

Lmafooo

[@rosedaniel9531]

Yes ooo

[@jilly8372]

Vita true story I've been married a long time. Stopped showing him attention and trying to be his mama/ it works.

[@hunny585]

@@jilly8372 needed to hear this frm marriage perspective. So its same. Ignore :D

[@cherylbinning3765]

How much or how long do you ignore??

[@maryparker1976]

Thanks so much Ryan, I implemented this video and my boyfriend has started giving me his attention. Am so happy that my relationship is getting stronger.

[@Nikkie066]

That Moment when he pulls out an onion and all you can think of is Shrek 😂

[@Magnoliasdiary]

Onions make you cry.

[@VegasLady81]

Take a fresh onion to the movie theater and leave it under a seat, and no matter what movie you're watching, everyone in that area will be crying before the end😂

[@sandracockrum17]

Look down @ comments, seen this one 😂😂

[@JN-kg7jx]

Hahahaha Cheating tears!🤣

[@marylcampbell2409]

Perfect analogy then🤣💯

[@acornginger8279]

Like men

[@Tyreyan]

You're the most perfect and entertaining dating coach there is.

[@jenniferleigh9007]

I love the way you approach all these different subjects! You're really honest, but not mean about it, and you have a really wonderful balance of humor and seriousness. Thank you!

[@Mandy.S.]

Super interesting. I don't have anyone in mind for this yet, but I'm trying to learn and improve myself right now until I meet anyone. People keep telling me I deserve a great guy, but I just feel like I need to get my crap together first after a horrible relationship ended for me. It's been years now since it ended, but I just needed to be me for a while. I'm in no hurry - just learning.

[@mmommo10]

@ 5:40, had to rewind it twice...happily I'm doing all the right things, but I feel like I'm just following HIS lead, its not my intentions/plan, but we are doing everything you say Ryan. Love love listening to you, badly needed and so fun.

[@armidaislamaj6802]

I just got introduced to your videos by a good friend of mine. I am divorced for 4 years now and in an endless spin cycle and never ending questions about dating. It turns out, I knew NOTHING about dating 🤦‍♀️ so thank you for laying it out so eloquently! I appreciate all your videos, but this is my favorite ( maybe cause I love onions too 💁‍♀️)

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Welcome to the channel, Armida! 🙂

[@sandraknight3906]

I am REALLY appreciating your videos. They make sense and are giving me some good perspectives about my current situation and what I need to so for myself. I keep reminding myself that I get to choose for myself, not him.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Awesome Sandra! Thank you!

[@darciek2946]

Yep. I'm pulling back. We've already established we like each other. He's super busy with work so his communication lack a lot and it's hard to see each other more than once or twice a month due to our schedules. Hoping things turn around once his work life settles a bit.

[@Sabrina-mw4qm]

Darcie K this is me! Would love insight on this dynamic. 💖

[@darciek2946]

@@Sabrina-mw4qm Yeah well I just got ghosted and blocked

[@darciek2946]

@@roughrosa I have. He cut me out of his life almost a month ago. It sucks but I'm worth so much more than he gave me.

[@andsoitbegins464]

​@@darciek2946 Yes, you are! Leave him behind in the rear view mirror, and go find your true emperor. You got this girl!

[@mysideofthetable3731]

I really like watching your videos. Totally realizing the mistakes I've made. Kinda sux cause I thought we had a connection. Now I know otherwise. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. Your videos are funny, engaging, and insightful.

[@yolandathecrochetaddict6954]

I need so much help to save my relationship or to even figure out if it's worth saving . your videos have showed how many mistakes I have done . I hope it's not too late to fix things . he is the love of my life . I never ever clicked bell on any of KZbinrs but I clicked yours sooo fast

[@azrcn_]

Ryan, I feel hopeful when I watch your videos. Specially when I feel sad or lonely. I am not looking but you make me hopeful that I might be able to find that right guy one day. Thank you!

[@TigressNess007]

As Pete said in 30 Rock “Love is like an onion. You peel back every layer after stinky layer until you’re crying over the sink.”

[@missmorena8255]

You really made my mind refreshed from thinking too much about my ex Ryan. Thank you so much for this wonderful video!

[@Dianna-Hopkins]

Those pink goggles… I’m dying! 😂

[@jenniferjames107]

My “friend” is the opposite he continues to text and want to do things go places with me yet won’t give any real words he wants more. So confused and frustrated. Love the videos keep them coming please ever so helpful !

[@miahin7902]

A guy we were having a good time, doing things, going places etc as you say but never wanted more from me, turned out to be gay. I'm just saying, there are asexual people too.. Don't waste your time with people that don't want/need anything more..

[@nishivasnik2838]

I don’t have any guy atm in my life but I loved this video and made me understand where I went wrong in past also I downloaded it, so I can keep things in track when I’ve some potential guy in life

[@kathypayne4380]

Hi try’s, I am 65 going on 40 and widowed. Years later now dating. You have been very helpful to me . Just wanted to say “ Thank You “

[@kathypayne4380]

That was suppose to say ... Hi Ryan ... stupid phone !!!

[@angelicas.keyser1711]

This is spot on! Thank you, Ryan!

[@karenclarke1678]

Thanks!

[@foxclover6]

Be yourself, your, self. You all you got =]

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

No doubt!

[@nancycastanon2845]

“This is an onion” 😂 ok I’m hooked

"Goggles, please." I love it! This is a highly interesting video, as I'm just sort of in working out a failed ... something (extremely complicated) and figuring out how to proceed with this guy, since we'll be interacting with each other in one of our hobbies and we still want to keep in contact, and your video has made some (failed) things a bit clearer. Thank you!

[@eneidadeleon7124]

You are my favorite! You speak my language from beginig to the end of your amazing videos!! Thank you😇 you're helping me muster up the strength needed to make the needed changes for better results with the guy I'm seeing. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

You're so welcome, Eneida! Thanks for being on the channel! 🙂

[@torri625]

I really appreciate your advice. I've been struggling so much with trying to back off. I'm learning to just continue my life as before while he figures things out. I just don't want to be upset about it anymore yaknow. I mean, I hope he sees my worth but if he doesn't oh well. I'd rather be alone forever than have someone treat me like I don't really matter. Weird thing with guys is..it's always way more fun when they think they can't have you...then once you give yourself to them they stop trying....so upsetting

[@MsAnchovey]

I know, right! It's all messed up.

[@torri625]

UPDATE: turns out he only wanted me once I moved on and was happy with someone else. But I am very much better off without him. I found someone who appreciated me from the beginning.

[@Casper7762]

When you date a Firefighter a good part of the time you have to go according to his work schedule. So, it cannot always be on a Friday or Saturday night. Sometimes it has to be during the week because they work weekends too.

[@andreamendibles641]

And expect that for the rest of the relationship. Know that they will miss holidays and important days.

[@esden4871]

what i really liked about your channel is that you help women understands about men not just what to do or how to be the women

[@ferociouscherub9819]

Great analogy with the onions/layers! Keep up the good work!

[@trulyscouse7695]

Why has no-one else EVER told us this, without it costing you a subscription 😆?! You speak such truth and it makes so much sense now. I've been the 'too nice' girl, thinking I should do/say/be more and not that it was just them being pretty cra#py instead😬. Thanks so much for this 💪

[@noureenmulenga1728]

This was amazing....am still working on layer 2 and to be honest it feels good knowing I deserve and so he am not to be taken for granted....Thank you so much

[@deanasmusic1]

I've watched most of your videos, this is my fav so far! Your hair is the perfect length, color, and style here, and those two waves on top are spectacular! That they hold up under those goggles is amazing! On a deeper "layer", you have guided me through dating in ways that have positively affected my entire life! You deliver substantial info in a fun way and I look forward to your next videos! Thank you for what you do!

[@Vera_Nails]

Love how Ryan adds metaphors to make everything clear and good humor as well😄 Also should try the goggle hack, when cutting onion next time, thanks👍🏻

[@Boyridge]

You are the best dating coach on KZbin! Keep the content coming dude!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks for that, Len! 😀

[@justinenantongo8029]

I just landed here but I guess it's not a mistake! You're a great Advisor 👌 Let me subscribe

[@shandrakindred7897]

I really like this analogy with the layers- it really makes sense. By taking a look at how his actions either do or don't match up I was able to find I fit somewhere between friends and more. Now we are best friends and hang out more than we use to and have a really great relationship.

[@eneidadeleon7124]

And by the way I thought I was the only one who used goggles when cutting onions!🤣🤣

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

My wife saw me crying a lot so she was like "Here, you should wear these" 🙂

[@eneidadeleon7124]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Well she's a smart woman 😌😃

[@momentsformoms9467]

Haha...the faces he made opening it made me so glad I didn’t miss this video.

[@eneidadeleon7124]

@@momentsformoms9467 that's what I said!🤣🤣

[@mamlas9494]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick I breathe through my mouth and that works too...

[@ashm676]

Fun, educational and pure honesty! Love it!

[@santanicopandemonium6333]

Onion was of great help to understand men. Great content here Ryan! There is so much to learn in your videos. For now, i'll make myself a priority., its up for the man to make me his damn priority. I just want a man who is consistent with his feelings for me

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

YASSSS Alex! 🙌🙌🙌

[@marialexandra06]

Thanks for another great coaching session 😀 I'm learning a lot from watching your videos!!

[@coolwomabat7897]

If I could comment w a pic it would be my daughter wearing snorkeling goggles the SECOND time she ever cut onions lol

[@karencanispeaktothemanager5340]

Just be yourself and be confident. Treat yourself like a priority and everything will fall into place, you don’t need him to make you happy. If he doesn’t like what you do, then say bye and continue to be yourself until someone comes to you themselves:) You will be surprised how many guys will ask for your hand:)

[@Aliciaroses]

I was following your advice then I had two days of no contact!! At this point felt I had nothing to lose because he clearly isn't interested so I sent this!!! You know when you just know!? Then the silence happens! I don't chase so sorry! 😆. Hope you find what you're looking for. His reply: No idea what you are on about but I’m not playing games. You too. ....... I said nothing back..... It was the weekend and I heard nothing! I appreciate lawyers are busy but these two days of silence were over the weekend... Just!!! Well! I've gone and blown that. Gutted

[@Z5Z5Z5]

When you fail at the first layer 😂

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Lol

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

Yep

[@freedomfitness8720]

Well, I always made sure I never cooked for a man. I would offer, "Oh? You're hungry? I think I've got some peanut butter and jelly in there. Please help yourself. I'll be taking a bubble bath. No, I'm good, I don't really need any help. But thanks for offering!"

[@vickiweber4718]

Chewing gum while cutting or peeling onions helps prevent the teary eyes.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Oooo gun chewing? Noted! 😄

[@NobelCats]

An old flatmate told me to chew on bread 🙂 She was a chef. Maybe it doesnt matter what you chew on just chew! 😄

[@agapesaligawesasaligawesa2781]

Haaa lol 😂

[@jedilady4485]

I am just glued to Ryan even if I am not interested in his topics because his videos just makes me laugh! LOL Seriously though, the sad part of our society now is that we just have to work so hard to the point of not being authentic just to get the guy?! I would love to be in a world where we can just be authentic with our feelings and actions!!

[@beverlyrembold8516]

The goggles are hilarious yet a really good idea!!! I use gloves when I deal with onions and any type of meat but I haven’t thought to use goggles lol. And of course more wonderful advice!!!

[@tanyahouston5635]

So, I did this and moved away, and he texts me how much he misses me, after three 3 years. He's been texting about once a month. He was so surprised when I moved, well, I wasn't his priority, duh. Next step, don't answer any more texts from him. No reason to answer. Thanks, Ryan!

[@twigzia]

Ahh I wish I had watched this earlier! Currently in talking terms with a guy. I might have been quite an eager beaver with my texting 🤭

[@janeaver1687]

Ryan, it's so close to Christmas, would you consider doing a gift giving guide based on how long a person has been dating someone?

[@maeonmars9357]

this is such a good idea!

[@janeaver1687]

Mae, ya, we’ve been dating 2 months and I’m at a loss.

[@jasminej6281]

LMAO you are funny but really this was really good. I'm so applying this to my life evnthough I don't anyone disrespect me twice.

[@musicmayhemshow6986]

My ex from 4 years ago just came back into my life- but he started dating someone new just before we started talking again. Yet, he's there for me every time I ask of him. He texts me good morning first. And he tells me every woman he dated after me he compared to me.

[@mirandamercyphilisiwenhliz5591]

Hi there I'm glad I found you. I got a message saying " I love you so much and you know that, I love your personality and if you want this relationship to work please be patient with me and understanding, you know I am still learning English so sometimes it's a bit hard to express my feelings to you. And don't forget that you are the first lady I am seeing in your country". Am I missing something here? Would really appreciate your response because I am put off..

[@kadjijody-kate9712]

Thank you so much. I just watched 5 of your videos and subscribed.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Awesome Jody! Thanks so much 😀

[@michelemccabeross379]

Thoroughly enjoy your point of you. I was raised with four brothers and it’s refreshing to meet a man who is truly a man. Much like my brothers are. Sweet do, BTW. The onion analysis reminds me of the movie Shrek. Onions; onions have layers. Men have layers. I love it.

[@jasminelove101]

Yes never let anyone be the center of your world,it’s just not the healthy approach. Your videos are so deep on another level! Just like tht onion😧 guess we gota dig a little deeper haha. But from what I’ve learned from ur videos is don’t try too hard and be yourself.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Yes Jasmine! Love how you capitalized on my core message 🙌

[@brielleimana1408]

@@datingcoachryanpatrick this video helped my realize I am putting too much effort into a guy who’s “busy” to hangout (got out of a breakup a couple months ago but is saying “he’s busy”) even though he texts long paragraphs he breadcrumbs me. I think after watching your videos I should just ghost him and see what he does with it (we still see each other in person tho) what do you think?

[@annettelozano5232]

You’re really so entertaining!

[@classy_c88]

This has help me tremendously thank you ! *Subscribed*

[@mgsol3316]

Just discovered your videos and I am loving them! Binge watching ❤️

[@suzieburnette1677]

My love interest has only been in two relationships in his life...I think that’s sexy alone. I determined to be the last woman in his life, I listen to him, I’m compassionate to his feelings and his needs...I intend to show/give him my upmost respect and modesty. He has already shown me how much of a priority in his life by sharing his life with me and his past. So far it’s going well but I’m just a little insecure and I need some advice pls~ TY!!

[@leesteal4458]

Put the onions in water first. Learned that from the Indians.

[@dancingnachos3634]

Haha. Modify that: cut big onions into 4 prices and soak in water for an hour

[@tatianavutsan5292]

@A E Oh my dear I'm so sorry to hear😔😔 please seek help from your family or from your firends😢💔🙏 you are NOT alone!

[@1cosmicdebris]

I'm loving your channel! Thank you. This is random... Can you make your notes on the board behind you larger? I am listening and trying to read this week's topic and next week's topic. But it's small, I can't immediately read it and so I'm distracted trying to squint. I know... Strange request.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Interesting! I'll make it a little larger starting today! 👍

[@teuminori2121]

Why do I get addicted in watching his videos? huhu. Thanks~ been using some of the tips. hihi

[@brendaleverick3655]

I'm in love with a guy who wants me for a friend. I REFUSE to be in the friend zone with him. Nope, ain't happening.

[@kariemelje8468]

Those goggles are a good look for you. 😂😁 I enjoyed this video!

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Thanks Kari! Hot pink is my thang 😂😂

[@ramani1738]

Thank you so much for all your suggestions. Very informative.

[@kimbernolan2010]

Honestly, I wonder if he uses his own advice in his relationship with his wife?

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Practice what I preach? Sure do 😌

[@matildajones5035]

He'll obviously use them if they're naturally coming from him. So far with what I've seen, Ryan seems to be natural nd passionate about what he says or teaches so I'm sure he'll practice them.

[@novanae7799]

marriage is different for sure.

[@jayjayx114]

Omg I thought he was gay... no hate tho

[@abbigailg.9663]

Commenting on random video. But your tips have been helping tremendously on this potential guy in my life 🤞🏼😁

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Love that! 🔥✊✊

[@paulasmania7309]

Can you please do a video on how to change the roles... so if you are seeing a guy for a month or a couple months and you have been initiating a lot of contact but he reciprocates most the time, sometimes he doesn’t but when he does he’s very keen in his responses etc... how do you change that or how can you start fresh so you can apply all the strategies in your videos even if you are already a couple months in... can you reverse things somehow to build that desire from him with a fresh start

[@ElaineAeris]

“She knows my style” lol 😂

[@gabriellarossetti2050]

I enjoyed this video so much!!❤😂

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

So glad to hear Gabi!

[@BillijeanS442]

You are a great teacher!

[@mevellemartin6783]

I wished I found your channel way earlier! God I didn't know I was so dumb back then

[@alanikeiser]

Love love love this!!!

[@saradf]

Thank you ! Amazing analysis 👌🏻 i love listening to you it’s just fascinating ❤️

[@raniyuna2930]

So what is point to have man?🤣🙈 If I am not needy, if he isn't reason for my happiness etc...so what is point to have man? If I can love myself too...what is point? Why I will want enter relationship?

[@andreaelisarentasronaldkan6043]

I agree single is the best thing because after marriage comes kids we already know what comes after that Bill's we already have enough of that going on in the world I'll rather be paying my rent electric and phone than anything who has time to be paying medical bills for children and marriage bills because the dude my not even last long then we get stuck taking care of that but women could put them on child support which I don't believe in because I believe in Independence

[@Penelope416]

@@andreaelisarentasronaldkan6043 Feminism must be treating you great!

[@claudiaclaudia9826]

Very good question 👍

[@FreedomUninterrupted]

Lol! For fun. Cuz you can. Like a hobby. 😏

[@FreedomUninterrupted]

He's just saying don't make your world revolve around him because our lives are important too. I don't want a man doing this to me either. He made a great point at the end.

[@flawlessfinance989]

Fantastic video! Extremely helpful

[@pj3034]

So funny de-layering the onion. LOL

[@ce689]

This video is awesome!!! It made me laugh so much with the onion peeling.. Thanks You! And for these advices, A lot!!! Honestly. Plus you present them very well. :-)

[@euphoriapurple3355]

Ryan! You're the Best! Why didn't I know you before???...

[@guesswho8562]

thanks Ryan great video and I will tell you your videos have helped me soooo much and even with my self care so thankyou

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

So awesome to hear Boo Boo Bear! Thanks for watching! 🙂

[@Bhannahable]

Yeah, but what happens (besides me detaching) when you’re dating for six months and spent everyday from day one(when we first met) until we had our first big fall out. He also waited until we were under the influence and told me he was married when I asked him, saying he had been wanting to tell me but I never asked. I never asked bc within the first few days of meeting I made him aware that I too was married but separated. Most ppl would’ve said me too! He chose not to(bc I never “asked”) well, long story short some more secrets came out and I done a background check and that’s what gave him his exit bc he went from making me a priority everyday to jumping in a new relationship within a few days of us splitting or at least dating someone else. I don’t understand how he could move so fast as if we had nothing. I met his entire family ate weekly with his parents, sister and brother in law every Sunday for six months. I went with him for his brother balloon release where I met his siblings and aunt and uncle from out of town. He posted me on fb twice but never snapchat(hoes hide there🤣) . And now, he’s trying to string me along and make me a friend with benefit or just a friend.

[@mawmawtee]

This video is so funny! I laughed so hard watching you with that onion! I love anything that makes me laugh.

[@louiselanthier5135]

I am an onion lover big time. I am a 10 onions girl. I have a lovely onion bowl that I like to keep full. I love hot and fresh onion rings, preferably dipped in ketchup! I love your videos too. They are so fun and informative. I am pretty well self isolating with my onions along with other delish foods! Any advice for a 58 year old foodie? I have been watching Matty Matheson's cooking videos!

[@dju1719]

Binge watching your videos!

[@indanasaniman]

I don't need anything from anyone or anybody...i have everything i need already....i am the happiest girl in whole universe

[@panterxbeats]

This video isn't entirely applicable to me since I've been with my partner for 3 years and it's a long distance relationship, but I don't feel like I'm as much of a priority to him the way I used to be. for various reasons I don't feel like I excite him as much anymore, though maybe that's me comparing the early stages of our relationship to the now too much. We've both grown a lot since then. My partner is going through a lot of stress lately with college, work and anxieties about the future... so with these all being priorities for him I can understand why he sometimes comes off as more distant. He's often tired and stressed, but I end up feeling like the only person to initiate anything in the relationship, if I even can, since it's hard being long distance and I don't always know what to do. I think I just need to hold/lean back since I don't have as much going on as him and our relationship is a big priority to me.

[@MN-pd8fs]

This is exactly what i’ve been going through expect my partner and I actually ended up getting into a big fight about the topic and we broke up, it’s been 3 months since that but they still give me signals of wanted to communicate again and I wish i could talk to someone who understands me.

[@poureddesignsstudio3907]

Focus on you 😘😘

[@MsAnchovey]

Yes, back off some and focus you.

[@danymiller1405]

Thank you Ryan for the video and I love the goggles!

[@splitraven7060]

I’m fortunate to have met a secure hot guy online. I can be myself. He’s had to wait to see me after three weeks and is two hours south east of me living on the beach in Florida. He’s taking me to a fine dining restaurant tomorrow night. I’ll dress hot for him. We are playing tennis and going to lunch. We are diving in. After a week and a half of talking by phone/ texting he invited me to his nieces wedding. I’m like I’d be more than happy to go. 🙃 I’ve invited him to go on a mini vacay with my friends for Labor Day to Clearwater and he said yes. I told him this is what my life is normally like fun fun fun. He wants to take me on a vacation for my upcoming birthday 🥳