S2 Ep07 The Desirables - What pleases the types

[@erinfield1943]

4's- I love being believed. It's so easy to dismiss a 4, but my partner is a logical type 5 and he believes me when I talk about astrology and things that are "illogical" or spiritual. It's such a relief, I'm so grateful.

[@Warriorsruach]

"They want you to see beyond the mystery that they display" is so crazy and acurate.

[@pjmackall]

I really, really liked what you said about 4s. You hit the sweet spot. My husband and I sat down and listened to our numbers together, and stopped this along the way to ask each other questions and discuss which things we do well, and how we can improve. We both agree with you on our numbers (4 and 9). Thank you for this.

[@theenneagramconnections]

Hi. I wonder who's the nine ?

[@theenneagramconnections]

I'm asking bcos I have a 4 , 3 and 5 and my wife , 9, 1 and 5

[@pjmackall]

@@theenneagramconnections my husband is the 9.

[@theenneagramconnections]

@@pjmackall good morning,b evening. How's your enneagram journey ?

[@diilouise]

Enjoyed how with the 2, Bea was on fire with suggestions. I have 2 2s in my life - very useful

[@ChestnutPaesEnneagramAcademy]

We are happy that you found this podcast helpful!

[@CuddleClaw.]

I love this video! Thank you! My boyfriend and I are both 4s. He’s an ENTP 417. I’m an ISTP 469. And we do this for each other. No other type can do it the way a 4 can, and an Fe user can. It’s like we both use Fe and Fi really well and understand each other on a Ti level … this combination is so sweet. I notice his Si is super sensitive just like INFPs and he has difficulty having uncomfortable conversations (only if I feel upset related to something he said/did)… but he’s amazing, he hears me out as long as he can. And he still gives me acceptance. Whereas, INFPs reject me, I do not feel accepted by them because they cannot handle conflict at all even when I’m doing my best to speak gently… I have to walk on eggshells. I feel so happy with this match up. I dated a 5 last year and very strong connection, but very challenging ! It taught me how to be more securely attached though. And taught me more about how to love freely and the art of letting things be and the art of letting go.

[@klaramolitva]

I love you two and your shows. Very helpful and enjoyable. Thank you.

[@jshir327]

Lol @ 11:45… “no disruptions in the force”.

[@yuiitodoro7791]

1:40 - enneagram 8

[@TaraLarsonMusic]

38:18 AMEN

[@gracia723]

38:05 Enneatyp 5

[@diilouise]

So beautiful. I am a nine and appreciate what you say.

[@yuiitodoro7791]

18:41 - enneagram 2

[@yuiitodoro7791]

24:46 - enneagram 3

[@aaramse4329]

I have really really difficulties w/ ones. As the ones I met are always of the pattern: I will criticize whatever I don't like w/ you (and that could be even TINY details) whereas if one dares to critizice THEM it almost like an apocaliptical event. After some time one feels like being their humble servant, always having to praise them (Oh my splendid Lord) only to let them stay okay w/ their overblowing ego. Whereas there is no reciprocity AT ALL. As they would never! find something to praise in you. On the contrary, regard you as their constant subject of education (bettering you!). To me this is a nightmare. And I feel like just being the servant of super-narcissistic beings! sorry to name it just openly. The only chance to live (or work) together w/ a one (of that really unintegrated level) seems then to play a game. And to behave like an actor towards them. Whereas your role is to praise them and to take their NORMS for given (of what is right and what is NOT)!

[@mthomas1800]

❤🙏