S3 E9 A Catch Up with Ndumiso Mazibuko hosted by Pastor Koketso Molaolwe | Grief | Mental Health

Following the devastating, recent passing of his mother, Ndumiso takes us deep into his heart on how he is doing and what he’s gone through. We hope that his story and vulnerability will heal and encourage someone else who might be facing a dark season.

[@thabiso7984]

Important topic for the church and Christian faith. I am a Christian who just happens to be a mental health nurse, and I see a lot of unexpressed emotions, "Faith shaming", and telling people to pray when going through afflictions. Very passionate about the subject because a lot of us fake being okay, which is not what Christ would have wanted for us. He expressed his emotions, asked Peter, James and John to stay with him at his toughest moment, and did become vulnerable with God, " my soul is sorrowful even to death". This is Jesus, weeping at funerals, moving with compassion to heal the sick and He is a MAN and God. I think Bible school should improve their curricula to include Health and wellbeing.

[@anastasimankesemokgobu1724]

This is the most honest and necessary conversation about grief. Thank you for allowing God to lead with honesty

[@molemocreatives]

One thing i love about Ps Molaolwe its his compassion for people who serve around the same realm as him , Phephisa Mfundisi ,i am praying for you Sir

[@Tebo5583]

We indeed grieve differently. When my dad passed, initially I was okay because he had been sick, so I was “glad” he is resting. It was only a few months later that it hit me that this guy’s gone, I’m never gonna see him again and that’s when I broke down. Thanks gentlemen for the insightful episode❤

[@regopotjoesetwaba6198]

In 2014 I lost my mother and one of church ⛪️ folks said, “don’t worry I will be your new mom 😮” needless to say I snapped.

[@NamNtia]

Wow! "If someone is not ok with you not being ok, you need to assess that relationship"

[@thandolwenkosimahlangu2772]

Wow oh wow! Thank you Pastor K perfect host for this special episode . You did a sterling job to both pastor Ndumiso and us the audience. Thank you Sir. May God richly bless you.🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏

[@ambeswamazwi3397]

I really enjoyed this interview, Pastor Koketso, You're so blessed. I like the fact that you ask all the questions to bhut Ndumiso. Bhut Ndu, heal my brother, thes still a lot for you to do. May your mom's soul rest in peace.

[@ntombimgwena8451]

Enjoyed the Episode. May God continue to Heal you Ndumiso

[@victoriamohapi9370]

I really enjoyed this podcast,it took me back 23 years ago when I lost both my parents 😢Askies Ndumi

[@FitsoulsConsult]

My deepest condolences moruti.. I buried my mother in February I understand your pain.. Thank you for this episode that's just so relevant..

[@romeomasanabo5819]

LOVE THIS !!!!!!!!

[@MissCombs1511]

There really is nothing to say when this happens. Sometimes I prefer to just hold the person until their emotions come out. Then just be there until they say you may go. Silence is sometimes the best, creating space for whatever may come, without stopping it.

[@nellykau1431]

You are still young, you can have more kids. In the midst of arranging burial for my 2year old . The pain I felt unmatched especially coming from an elderly woman who never buried a child.

[@zandimbatha7611]

I love you vulnerability opening up about mental health issues. We have a long way to go as the body of Christ in opening up about mental issues . Those who suffer are still stigmatized and sometimes demonized ❤

[@unathikenqu5755]

Thank you Pastor Mazibuko for sharing your story and being vulnerable. Ministry of presence is important ❤

[@ntebop9655]

I lost a child. And someone said 'Life goes on.' I had to bury my dreams wrapped in my son...what do you mean life goes on. I'm still not okay. Grief is long and lonely.

[@relechoane33]

Sending you hugs sisi may God continue to comfort you💕

[@sindiswajacobs6974]

I'm so sorry again for your loss...sending warms virtual hugs❤

[@lungaMrauthor]

Thank you for this episode sir

[@thandolwenkosimahlangu2772]

Hayi manini ..cry madoda please cry...show emotions...let it out it is healing

[@FitsoulsConsult]

Someone said God is a jealous God and he took my mom because he wants time with me, and that my mom could have died because I turned my mom into a god.. I'm still trying to make sense of that

[@tsholofelosefike7143]

I'm sorry about that

[@Zandieluthuli]

Eish ...I wish ppl wud keep quiet sometimes

[@nomzekelomdloyiya620]

Grief is very tricky, man. My dad's passing hit me after 6 years and when it did, I almost lost myself, infact ngacishe ngayolala Ecebolethu.

[@Busisiwe_Makhanya]

Phephisa mfundisi. We trust God to carry your family through.

[@thandolwenkosimahlangu2772]

❤ ❤ 2 funny pastors pastors ❤❤ you are so loved apostle s by many. Phephisa....our condolences kuwe and your family Ndumiso

[@quintongalane5960]

37:31 🔥🔥🔥 Your audience doesn't need you, they need God. you have always been a channel. You've never been The Source.

[@victoriamohapi9370]

I'm watching 👀

[@Zandieluthuli]

I lost my 2 year old son in 2022..my mum wud confess that she just didnt know what to say to me..she is size 44 ,im size 38..on the toughest days,she wud open her wardrobe and tell mè to choose everything I wanted....like really.....Im still in pain....but I find that really funny and crazy

[@zandimbatha7611]

The worst is expecting you not to feel pain and just carry on because you are a believer

[@ntebop9655]

Whether I'm there or not, if the world is gonna end, it's gonna end. LOL...

[@Tebo5583]

We indeed grieve differently. When my dad passed, initially I was okay because he had been sick, so I was “glad” he is resting. It was only a few months later that it hit me that this guy’s gone, I’m never gonna see him again and that’s when I broke down. Thanks gentlemen for the insightful episode❤