Healing From Grief Is A Messy Journey | Kgopedi Lilokoe

Grief is an emotional roller coaster that, over time, has its good days and really bad days. But it's important to remember that it's okay to feel a wide range of emotions, to cry, to laugh, and to experience genuine happiness. It takes a community to navigate this challenging but necessary process.
Host: Ursula Mariani │Instagram: shortest.link/4RiO
Co-host: Sibonganjalo Botha │ Facebook: shortest.link/55e6
Guest: Kgopedi Lilokoe | IG: / kgopedililokoe
Technical Director & Videographer: Given Masilela │ Instagram: shortest.link/4RiU
Producer: Sibonganjalo Bonga Botha │ Facebook: shortest.link/55e6
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[@boitumelomfene9813]

I lost my mom while still at varsity. She died in my hands. Life happened, God prospered me. As I type this, I’m holding an Honors degree in Early childhood development, busy with my Masters in Educational leadership. On top of that I work in China. I’ve also worked in the Netherlands. In 2022, I obtained an award for excellence in primary school teaching from the Gauteng Department of Education. I chose not to build an altar for my pain! I got busy with bettering myself to make my late mom proud and today when I look back, I’m still amazed by the grace that kept me. Praying for those reading this. May you tap in the same grace that I experienced ❤

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@marcellem]

"I chose not to build an altar for my pain" - A WHOLE SERMON!!!

[@sirinaAtakora]

I lost my mom two weeks ago, she died in my hands tooo. I’m going crazy it’s so tough for me. My mom suffered in life she should have stayed a little longer. I don't know how I'm going to overcome it. I'm insane😢😢😢

[@boitumelomfene9813]

@@sirinaAtakora I’m sorry for your loss. I know the emptiness that comes with the loss not to mention the trauma that also affects your behavior towards others on daily basis. No words will make sense at this moment. I don’t know you or your whereabouts, but I believe that prayer knows no barriers. I will mention your name in my prayers so that God grants you the strength. 💕💕💕

[@DaleneSechele]

@@sirinaAtakorastrength to you. Grieving is a process, so be kind to yourself on both good and bad days. It takes time. The pain heals with time.

[@suesilika8851]

Don’t die before your actual death, just because you lost your loved one. Don’t build an altar for your pain, heal because you deserve a healed version of yourself

[@polinahgatawa]

I love this!

[@leratoleshaba5625]

Easily said than done. Time, time, time heals!

[@Miss_Zimm]

❤

[@thobekankuna1524]

Don't Build altar for your pain. 😢

[@mantlamapompo-shai5660]

That’s very profound ❤❤

[@thembekilemasanga4758]

Not only does she narrate a story on grief and healing but also gives us a glimpse on the power of love

[@suesilika8851]

I love how she recognises God’s hands in everything, even in grief

[@ntombisono1021]

The interviewers are such good listeners,they gave Mme Lilokwe an ample time to narrate her pain and grief so beautifully 👏👏 She's well spoken i must say

[@matsepomapanya1136]

❤😢 "Do Not Build An Alter For Your Pain, Your Healing May Cost You, There Are People Who Are Benefiting From Your Pain, Heal Either Way"🫂😭❤️📍 This Hit Home!!

[@TS-mo7qr]

“Pain can be addictive…. Don’t be committed to pain so much that your own healing doesn’t stand a chance…” felt!

[@MissKT26]

This is actually profound,

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

I could watch her the whole day. Authenticity, and the command of her voice.

[@joginahlesetja3550]

The Authority in her voice 📍

[@ggnozi1258]

I came running from Tik tok, first time here and moving in.Greetings everyone🙌

[@thandiwengcizela8380]

Me too. Hello neighbour

[@ncumisabungane4630]

Same❤

[@manassehsammatemba959]

Me too, came from tiktok

[@janetnjirammadzi4964]

I came straight from TikTok too. Her voice is so calm and soothing. I have learnt a lot from her story.

[@itsjayden9971]

Welcome Home Chomi's ❤

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

Guys I like how she still calls him love. They must have had a beautiful love story..

[@langaleplaatjie4539]

Lost my mom during Covid. November 2021. Four years later I am still struggling. I have listened to ted talks, sermons and read so many books on grief. none come close to how much I related to this episode. Listening to Ms Kgopedi has been so cathartic. Thank you. When she said "dont build an altar for your pain" I teared up, Ebe thetha nam. Thank you so much for this episode. It is exactly what I needed.

[@heyhadassah]

I remember when Kgopedi changed her greeting from "I'm Kgopedi wa Namane" to "I'm Kgopedi Lilokoe". My heart for her😍

[@MunchMaila]

Agh I used to love that greeting. I am Kgopedi wa ga Namane, & this is..."

[@thehumbleabode4293]

Right??? Was legit thinking the same thing 😊

[@kitsontuli2713]

I remember that too. Her and Mapaseka Makoti, b4 she was Mokwele

[@boitumelomogashoa7501]

I remember this very well ❤

[@user-yh9yr6di9q]

Me too hey,fell in love with her ever since❤

[@gontsemodise8964]

Mamfundisi is so well spoken. ❤ Nkare nka mo reetsa the whole day. Being loved like that is something else. 🥹🥹🥹

[@mokhabiso24]

“Pelo e bohloko eka u tlailisa.” 🙌🏾. Aus Kgopedi embodies WISDOM. I walk away A DIFFERENT PERSON after watching this interview.

[@ntombimgwena8451]

She does hey. Hyo😢😢

[@janetnjirammadzi4964]

This is exactly how I feel

[@puseletsomazibuko5403]

As much as this is about grief, but this episode has renewed my faith. There's a song by Donnie McClurkin, STAND. She stood in her faith and never wavered. Thank you❤

[@boitumelobuthelezi8960]

God is faithful even in situations that don't make sense to us. All things work together for the goodness of the Lord. I lost my mother at the age of 7 and my father at the age of 9. Got adopted by my aunt an uncle, my Aunty passed when I was 12 and uncle at 21. I lived in grief for years and years and God healed me in totality. I can testify of God walking with me in patience.

[@redibonemohlamonyane6239]

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[@boitumelobuthelezi8960]

♥️😊

[@yzs7618]

❤❤❤

[@MissKT26]

❤❤

[@motheowalerato701]

❤❤

[@kedibonerabotolo1517]

OH man, you're taking me down a painful memory lane of 20 years ago with a 6 month and a 9 years old. God will see you through, and those little people will grow like a small mustard seed where birds of the earth will take rest. Through God, I am now a queen, careerwise all-round mercy. Those little people are now graduates making waves in their own careers, too. I chose not to marry again and focused more on this God. All is well. Our God is the God of widows he has a soft spot for us. I am a living testimony.

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@hlengiwedube1163]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@zwelakhegalela3904]

Ohhhh my, this is exactly what happened to my wife in 2021 December... covid really tested our faith, till this I'm yet to be back at church because Sabbaths are no longer the same😢

[@elizermutai3370]

God's Arm will continue to hold you.

[@DrUnatiDrMHealthCorner]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🫂🫂🫂🫂

[@damarismohlabe1645]

So sorry my brother. May God give you strength...o sa le teng le lehono❤

[@user-lk7vl5gu7f]

" Don't build an Altar for your pain" 😢

[@NokonwabaDulungana-zv8rt]

May the lord touch and heal you 🙏🏻

[@dineolekoma5080]

I watched it right from the beginning until the end in one go. I cried so much because I was reminded of my own journey with grief. Loosing my Mom is still one of the most traumatic things I have ever gone through. I really didn't know how to deal with the pain and I overshared so much with people that later used my pain against me. Thank you for bringing Aus Kgopedi....she is an amazing woman,May God continue to be with her and her babies and give her incredible strength❤❤#GriefIsnotLinear

[@polinahgatawa]

When you say traumatic. I know exactly how you feel.

[@mphoseduma1948]

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[@tebom9456]

The over sharing part... Soooooo true. Snap I thought I'm just seeing my own things

[@sinoxolopapu6178]

I lost my Mom last year September. It isn’t easy I must say. Some days are better than others but God holds me together. 🥺 May God strengthen you too sis. 🙏🏻

[@tebogomatshabe7871]

May God strengthen you.❤

[@kgomotsoL]

Dont build an alter for your pain...Yohhhhhh😭😭😭😭

[@anastasimankesemokgobu1724]

I am getting goosebumps listening to the story of how they met.

[@lindiwemtshali1643]

It’s been 13 years since I lost the love of my life, my grandma. She never got to experience me as an adult and all the things I have achieved. All other loss just awakes that sadness. 😢

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@PontshoDaisy]

Can someone please tell me why am I crying 😢...thank you so much for the interview ❤

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

Tell me about it my love.

[@samuelmahlangu7448]

This reminds me of my daughter's situation. She lost her husband in 2021. Their son was only 3years old. My son in law was a pastor My daughter never lost her faith till this day.

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@sipokazimanda9303]

Came running from tik tok to listen to this gem and I'm so glad. No words to describe her really❤

[@raykutu]

What a beautiful soul. A fountain of wisdom and strength. "Don't build an alter for your pain...Heal"

[@polinahgatawa]

I lost my dad 2 weeks ago 17 March 2024💔. All this suffocating love is stuck inside, making my chest tight. I started seeing a psychologist and she said "Grief is just love... with no place to go." The sadness feels like a big wave, crashing over me again and again. It feels like I'm drowning in a sea of sorrow, with no end in sight. I can't even imagine the pain stopping. The hollowness is like a giant weight holding me down. A constant reminder... My heart is empty. Yet full of love. This deep love for my dad. That has no nowhere go💔. I can't wait for the day I'm okay like you🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@nosiphontlabati3638]

"Grief is the price we pay for love and attachment " Lost my dad in January it still hurts but we will pull through dear

[@judithnamawejje2619]

God gat you 🥰

[@yaliwebentele8929]

My chest is so tight I thought I' need a physio but it's not helping ,it's only that I'm grieving my son loss in 2018 and my mum passing in February 2024,so all these are packed in one heavy load I'm praying for healing

[@chikaabtwn2244]

God will get you through, I lost my Dad in 2020, it still hurts but now the grief has become bearable.

[@motheowalerato701]

So sorry sis❤

[@barilenglekalakalamoloi9116]

The wisdom Mme Lilokoe carries is a blessing to us

[@nonieabrams2116]

The deep breaths she kept on taking in between at the beginning. She is strong but it's still painful.

[@duduzileboemah6722]

⁰

[@shamimomary6792]

Listening to this almost one year down from when my friend died is a gift. Learning , its okay to ask for help

[@Maria-yp6le]

I love her. What a woman! I feel like I know her even though it's the first time I see or hear about her. She has a beautiful love story that many people don't have. I wish to that people can learn to be kind to those who are grieving. It was an emotional episode. Ursula and Bonga were supportive, that's a better word that I can use. Please bring her again. She is articulate and knowledgeable. Her presence can be felt

[@idahswazi7373]

A lesson I am taking from here is to be intentional ❤

[@pearlita2137]

One thing i learnt is Grief is also informed by the relationship one had with the departed , I believe her amazing story of love with her husband must be crucial in this healing journey. She was loved correctly and that gives her the strength to be . She dropped nuggets of wisdom , spoke so poetically and ever so real about her experience. She is amazing , love from Botswana. ❤❤❤🇧🇼

[@user-st8cr7ys4h]

"I have been held" Wow she is solid.. love and light to Kgopedi ❤❤

[@daisysesing9488]

A woman point 5 She is ball of fire I love her She is too powerful Thank you guys the interview was really good ❤❤❤

[@daphnesethibe2349]

Talking about the guilt, I can relate. I blamed myself for the cancer that took my husband. How I have no answer. But I held on the hem of His garment. Here I am, enjoying the honey of my new marriage. God is good all the time. Jeremiah 11:29 kept me going.

[@unathinoludwe9974]

"I had no plan, love forever was our plan"😭❤

[@malibongwesitole7771]

I'm listening for the second time... Well spoken Mommy.. Your voice is so captivating... It's like someone else's... It's so pure and Godly 🌹♥️

[@thembimahlope1037]

Thank you for this interview. Kgopedi is on another level, the authenticity, love and empathy that we easily give to others can do amazing things if we give to ourselves as well. I'm one of the relatives who didn't know what to say to her when the news broke. I remember sending flowers to her house a week later and forgetting to add my name on the card....I guess I was also devastated that I couldn't think straight. Lots of love to all who needed to hear the story of loss and know that we most times don't have it figured out.

[@phelopita9471]

I did not know I needed to hear this. Grief is earth shattering.

[@redibonemohlamonyane6239]

"...when your partner has promised forever..." I felt that because when your partner dies, your hopes, plans, dreams, promises, your whole future dies. 😶

[@motheowalerato701]

❤❤

[@Blackberries729]

Wow i just love how many people held her hand in her darkest hour of her life.❤❤❤

[@MadidimaloMathekga]

Pain does something to a persons body. I felt that…

[@hlengiwedube1163]

😢

[@emilymuse5907]

It does…

[@tinytomas3773]

Love her so much best news reader very much well spoken woman of God❤

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

I'm struggling with grief still. Today was worse. Missed my late dad. 12 years later.

[@elizermutai3370]

I am sending my hugs to you.

[@leratosebetoane8333]

I woke up missing the love of my life( Grandpa). I miss him everyday, esp on days where I have no 1 to turn too.

[@motheowalerato701]

❤❤

[@loveinmotion-swazilandands4248]

What an incredible Woman she is!!! just her voice is healing!!!! Love Mommy Kgopedi!!!!

[@tinytomas3773]

😢😢 8 years since my baby daddy died still feels like yesterday....sudden death of a 33year old guy full of life leaving his family & for me to raise our daughter alone thank God his family is still very much involved from all aspects of her life we still visit them etc...gs it makes it makes it easier but haaa it's journey & half to heal

[@connymontsho]

Sending you comfort sisi,i can't imagen your pain.

[@motheowalerato701]

❤❤

[@mukami12]

Partner died at 36 leaving me and our daughter behind.. it’s been 3 months and I just can’t see a way forward and the his family have been terrible. On my healing journey

[@user-zu9yh8iy3y]

I'm a widow my husband passed over 2021 July 01 that was a very very painful experience journey for me I stopped praying coz he was all I left with my brother's passed over and my father too died same year I gained strength by your incaregeng words of wisdom thanks a lot

[@mathildalebotse6524]

I can't stop crying 😭😭 am really struggling with my mother passing 💔

[@MphoAngel30]

She passed away in 2008 and to this day it feels as though it happened yesterday..pain so fresh..God help us😢

[@zanele6431]

You and I both😢

[@busisiwehlekiso8542]

You and I, and it’s been close to a year💔😭

[@khethamabaso2898]

Me too, it been a year 😢

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@leratokhambule1536]

Love Kgopedi. Such a beautiful interview. May she be covered in strength and God protect her little ones. First time watching this channel and I'm subscribing after this interview....

[@alettaphalatsi477]

I lost my son Dec 2024, i was so calm, still calm and i can only thank God for that, i remember talking God when doctor told me he is leaving he was battling cancer, i felt each and every organ inside me moving up and down, worse part i felt like my heart was just sitting on my throat, and i remember praying saying God i don't know what's happening please give me strength, strengthen my faith and may i trust you on this journey i am about to embark on, that was it, grieving is a rollercoaster indeed but with God its doable

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@ntombisono1021]

All I can say is, I relate to your pain,can't say a lot incase people who rejoice on our pain are reading this💔💔

[@alettaphalatsi477]

@@ntombisono1021 Thank you, i get you 🥰

[@matseliso3344]

Yhoo guys, ho bohloko maan... But we grow through pain.. Love & light to Ausi Kgopedi and everyone who lost their loved ones through any form of pain, be it death or breakup, pain is pain and its also mercy. ❤❤

[@mmamokete7787]

Sending love and light to everyone who lost loved ones to Covid-19 🙏❤️

[@mahlokilengsemenya4543]

I’ve always respected Kgopeli ! Oh man , what a gem we have been gifted . She has always had such amazing words to impart and this time , she not only touched but healed my soul . Thank you for this and if you see this Kgopeli , know that you are love and are loved ❤

[@MelVeeBroadcastingNetwork]

@37:47 - "time does not waits for nobody. It does not stand still because wena you are broken..." undiluted truth!

[@jabulilekoza5719]

I needed to hear this conversation.it’s been 15 years since my mom passed and I think I stopped living and created an altar for my pain,grief is something else .😔I cried my heart out during this interview and I didn’t know I needed that so much.Thank you Mme , for the first time I have let go and allowed my mother’s beautiful soul to rest in peace.❤️

[@Naledi_22]

Powerful and healing message🙏🏽, even for those who haven't yet experienced grief in the form of death but have been living in grief (depression) most of their lives. May it be well, with our souls💛🙏🏽

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@tshegofatsomasimula6669]

Im back to watch again, I need to hear this again🥺

[@glendagallieboy1738]

Same!!!

[@_thabimatsepe]

Same❤

[@lebo_molets4266]

Im here for the third time 😢😢 I needed a reminder

[@nombuzoedithmahlangu3755]

Umfundisi Lilokoe umhlaba awoneli... Ngxesi Mamfundisi

[@yibanguwedee-kay5953]

Unabantu Bakho Thixo Ngamaxesha onke Ubagcina Ubanceda Ngamaxesha onke! 🙏🏿🤲🏿🙌🏿🙇🏿‍♂️

[@DaleneSechele]

This channel popped onto my TikTok feed. The guest’s voice (discovered here her name is Kgobedi) sounded so familiar so I was curious to know more. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful and moving story of a journey through life: love, loss and grief. Excellently done content.

[@NickyzworldZA]

Thank you for bringing Kgopedi! I've loved her from day one... she's those ousi who will be forever in your corner. Her energy is beautiful, through and through! She really honoured her husband in this interview. So beautiful. It feels selfish to feel sorry when she's telling her story with so much passion, hope and life. It's so beautiful!! I want a love like that... obviously I need to cultivate a great attitude like her. Thank you Kgopedi for the lessons! You are amazing, forever! P.S. Promoting this as far and wide as I can! Really good interview!!!

[@bulelwakkhanti5093]

Acknowledging God's love for us❤

[@eldahraesibe1281]

Kgopedi story is painful but please invite her again

[@basie_gama]

I need her back.

[@Morwa330]

Yes. But next time not about her pain but life in general. She is very smart and well articulating

[@lefatlhemokwena6592]

Yho! I will LIVE! 🙌. I'm encouraged. I lost my husband in October 2020, and I'm learning how to live. 💙

[@liselihlebelebesi8308]

Thanks Mamoruti

[@yzs7618]

❤️‍🩹❤️🤗

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@dineophotolo285]

Let’s clean up house so we can do the “forever “ on a clean slate 🥹🥹🥹😭😭. The love one desires

[@zandicarter5113]

I'm glad I got to put a name to a face ♥ lovely lady, very insightful Episode

[@mariondladla528]

I lost my mom April last year, the past year has been the hardest for me. I couldn't even pray. April this year, same weki lost my mom I broke up with the father of my child whomst I held on dearly because thought he's the only person I have left. Surprisingly during that pain God stretched his hand I found myself drawn back to God praying more, praising the Lord and I've since accepted that my mom's gone. Life goes on. Sometimes God uses pain to reveal himself to us

[@malebolesejane476]

I haven’t experienced grief of a close loved one, but I’m one of those that have ‘died before my own death’, and definitely ‘built an altar for my pain’. Sheeeebaa…this episode makes me want to LIVE! Mme Lilokoe is wisdom personified ❤

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@kokikoketso9253]

Your honesty Mma Moruti about how nonlinear and unpredictable the process can be is both comforting and enlightening. It's a reminder that everyone's path through grief is unique, and there's no 'right' way to heal. Thank you for sharing your experience and for shedding light on the fact that it's okay not to be okay, and giving ourselves the grace and time to heal. Your courage in sharing your story is a beacon of hope for others. Your message underscores the importance of seeking support and finding strength in vulnerability. Thank you for your vulnerability and for making others feel less alone in their journey.

[@PureChristianContent-ej6wo]

What a beautiful episode, this woman is such a gem. As I'm watching this, I realize how much void (besides the heart break) my husband would leave if he were to die, the way he does so many things in our household that I don't have to worry about. Man, I don't appreciate him enough 😢. This was a beautiful episode I must reiterate!

[@user-il9wn1mf3f]

Oooooh My word Ursula and Bonga this painful and healing 😢😢 I lost my father 2016but it's still hurts but to hear this is healing

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@bokangmaipato5803]

The words that stood out for me were "don't build an altar for your pain, as some people are benefiting from your pain."🙂🙂

[@pheladifakude8237]

This has been a healing process for me. Thank you Mme for the glimpse of hope 🙏❤️

[@queensliezohhappy-girl7112]

"Don't die before your actual death just because you burried your loved ones" 😭😭

[@lesogomahlasela5939]

39:05 the guilt...omw😢 Thank you Ursula for this🙏🏽

[@kgetsepemkhabela3963]

Let me watch, I have been struggling with grief since 2000 when I lost my mom at age 11. Now I want nothing to do with funerals, I don't know how will I support my wife when she loses her parents. 😢

[@LM-he7eb]

Askies

[@nthatisidimema9084]

Pls seek counseling...it's not weakness seeking for help.

[@LeratoSimango]

I still can't do graveyard...thing..I go to funeral but avoid going there...

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@keneilwetsieane]

Watch your tongue while you're at it. When you're in pain you don't know the line.. if you're not feeling your steps, you'll tend to overshare... it's ok yo shut up..💖

[@jarirovisovirere9328]

I love she narrated her story so calmly, her story is more like my story, I lost my partner also in 2021. I envy her strengths. She is so strong. All the way from Namibia🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@tumelo2758]

So glad to bump into this channel and specifically this video today. My baby would have turned 5 years old yesterday. I miscarried when I was 2 days away from reaching 27 weeks being pregnant in 2019. I thought I was good and healed but this milestone birthday broke me in ways I didn’t think were possible again. Grief is so strange. It never goes away, I guess we learn to move forward with it. The pain is different everyday. I remember in 2019 when I was getting back into my “normal” life and I was laughing at something and I quickly gathered myself on some “you can’t be happy, you are grieving”. I know it sounds crazy but going through grief has made me empathetic to people who lose their lives to depression and sometimes lose their minds because nothing makes sense.

[@vanessa_bukasa]

I'm sending you so much love during this time of your baby's 5th birthday! I see you and your pain, I lost my baby boys at 26 weeks. They would be 4 years old on 6 April ❤

[@tumelo2758]

@@vanessa_bukasa Thank you so much Sis. I’m also sending you lots of love 🌸 and Happy Heavenly Birthday to your babies 🥳🥳

[@sekgabimasobe9690]

Tumelo I lost my son in 2003 when he was 8 months and I know what you are talking about. Time does not heal we learn to live with the pain unfortunately. On the 26th July he will be turning 22 years on the other side

[@motheowalerato701]

❤❤❤

[@tumelo2758]

@@sekgabimasobe9690 I'm so sorry love. May God heal our hearts hle. This journey has been the toughest i've ever walked. I don't wish it on anyone.

[@Ziqelekaziiii]

Yhoo this episode felt like a hug. Nothing happens without a reason. Im not much affected by grief,but I've learned the importance of community and how its ok it is to just keep quite when you have nothing to say. UmamKgopedi i wish her many more shinny days and all those affected by grief❤

[@lungilenjokweni]

Wow I'm speechless. Grief is real

[@mmtn9043]

Wow, very humble, Now I understand why she is saying she is surrounded by love, such a humble soul.

[@phozisamdloyi9063]

I’ve watched this episode twice, what a powerhouse. She kind of reminds me of my late friend and I don’t know why

[@cathydimakatso2431]

Grief is indeed messy,one minute you are laughing at the memories the next you are so sobbing 😭 😢 💔, I lost my Mom in 2007 through a car accident,in 2024 I lost my older brother to suicide then in 2019 my other brother also committed suicide 💔 😭,I think I died in 2019 too...thanx to my loving Husband he organized Therapy in the middle of Festive season because I was not coping at all...listening to Mamoruti Lilokoe gave me so much strength and made me realize how much of a roller-coaster grief is but this woman of God is giving me so much wisdom🥹🙏

[@MelVeeBroadcastingNetwork]

I am glad I came across this Podcast. Thank you Mme Ursula and team for a great story of loss, pain, family, and healing.Thank you Kgopedi Lilokoe for your spirit and for sharing this journey. I am SUBSCRIBING to your channel.

[@LesegoMohlakane]

I lost both my parents last year 2023 🥹I buried my mom while my dad was in ICU,3 days after my mom’s funeral ,my dad passed away. I’m still struggling with grief🥹.Go botlhoko,I cry myself to sleep every day 🥹 Thank you for this interview ❤

[@kelsmatlawe2979]

🫂🫂🫂

[@sekgabimasobe9690]

Askies my friend went through exactly same thing but with her we burried them day during Covid

[@mukhethwanemanashi]

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

[@lindimabunda1376]

Hugs and strength my dear sister 😘

[@motheowalerato701]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Toops808]

Yoooo I'm speechless! I could only cry😭😭 I love her more than before. I loved her before I could see her, I love and respect her more.. May God protect you and hold your hand, and may He protect those Angels ❤

[@vuyokazinofotyo5115]

“There’s people benefiting from your brokenness”thank you for having her ❤️

[@MissKT26]

I consider it a blessing that l came across this clip on this very day- this morning- at a moment in my life in which lam going through a journey of healing and growth. I held my breath and had a lengnth wave of emotions listening through every word you uttered out of your mouth. I believe God and your ancestors gifted you with a gift of healing people through your words. They possess such a formidable force that speaks to the soul and feeds it. Thank you for sharing your journey and your wisdom with us. I had so much to learn and also share with my loved ones. "Your healing may cost you, they are people who are benefitting from your brokeness..."🙌🏾🫶🏾 May God continue giving you strength and more wisdom🤎

[@jeansophia2092]

Buried my brother 3rd March this year. Thank you TCC ❤ you really got us.

[@leratoesau7852]

The way this whole interview had me in tears 😢❤ Kgopedi is so eloquent and sharing her heart with us is a truly a privilege. I wish her love and strength

[@evamutua151]

This, this, this It’s a journey, it is a passage, we must accept vulnerability, healing and living Profoundly profound

[@GuguShezi]

An incredibly encouraging conversation.

[@angelboshego3229]

She's a very special somebody. Her articulation, how she narrates the story, lehu ke ntho engwe but God is still God. This will help a lot of people. Thank you Mamfundisi. Lerato, lesedi, maatla❤

[@agnesmkhuzangwe7308]

I loved a garden part it's gonna work for you my dear sister, I was at your hubby's memorial at ur home after Covid , I never stopped talking about the strength I've seen in you. It can only be God. Your wisdom is way out of this world. 🥺

[@maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093]

Ijoooo I love Kgopedi tlhe. I know God will keep & heal her. One day I will meet her, give her a warm hug & tell her myself how much I respect her.

[@kopanomalapela370]

This triggered wounds i avoided since 30 June 2020 when my mom passed away in my arms and She said "Ke tlo tsoga" and i think i held on to those words until today. Ausi Kgopedi just woke me....Love her wisdom ❤

[@Thapppie]

Yoh! Mme Kgopedi Lilokwe??? What a woman! It feels like I am reading Proverbs 31 as I hear you speak! ❤❤❤❤

[@tholakelekasi3344]

'Dont build an alter for your pain' What an intense, yet so uplifting conversation. Her strength and wisdom has made me love her even more just from listening to her on Metro. Thank you for these conversations.