Twin Flames the Pain of Separation and why it’s happening

[@avin2222]

I think the hardest part is feeling like I'm doing the work, trying not to make it about my other self, but the separation some days feels so heavy at times, I feel like I'm crazy.

[@CrystalDiaz613]

You are definitely not alone. You couldn't have said it better. I feel the exact same way. Hang in there, girlfriend. We were made for this journey.

[@foodideasbynittu]

​@@CrystalDiaz613what a fate! Its a curse

[@WhiteTigress144]

Oh absolutely! Your happy one moment, then sad the next and at times it’s super charged it takes a minute to stop, and say wait a minute “is this even my energy”? 14:44

[@Ruby.EarthAngel86]

Thank you. I am so thankful to have been aligned to your channel🙏🏽 12/26/23

[@Earth-Angel1724]

I just feel like I'm just floating around doing my daily things, work, home, work, home. Still feeling stuck. Waiting for the break thru. Been doing inner work for years now. Sometimes I wonder if it's all worth it. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Sucks bc you cannot un- awaken. You cannot go back to how it was. Not that I want to but this is really a struggle mentally physically and emotionally 😢 just tired on all levels. I want it to stop 🛑.

[@kristinalafrance1494]

I’m putting this comment here because I think it’ll be very helpful for people who are at the beginning of their journey I thought that I would absolutely die from the pain of being separated from my other self . although it has been nine months, I know that sounds like a long time to some of you that are just beginning. I have finally moved into a place where I have alchemize the energy and I know in my heart I absolutely feel love but I don’t feel crazy anymore and I feel very grounded and not connection. And he’s been chatting with me a little bit each day and I’m just letting it be that and I don’t feel desperate and I don’t feel clingy and I don’t feel like I have to have this now and I’m gonna die if he doesn’t love me.? I never thought that I would reach this place. He reached out to me like a month ago and I couldn’t hold the energy and he disappeared again. I went on vacation and I heard from him a month later while I was on vacation because suddenly, I just got the energy straight. It’s just some thing that was a side effect to taking care of myself and doing the inner work and concentrating on, the evolution of my soul towards my awakening.

[@Mysticmindfield144]

I have a very similar story. No contact for 9 months and then a lot of in and out energy as we come into balance. It’s not easy but it’s also so beautiful.

[@CrystalDiaz613]

Love this. So very true. Thank you for sharing your feelings with all of us.

[@genenedormehl351]

My story is similar except we've been in separation for just over 3 years. We've been talking since December again and the more healed I am, the more I can see my DM responding to me without running away. Healing ourselves first and foremost is definitely the key to completing our journey ❤️

[@AnthonyWilliams-oi6eu]

I am a male divine feminine and have fought my same gender attraction all my life and just when I thought I had figured it out...and was married to my wife...this twin flame journey happened....and guess what..my twin is a male.. who has the same core wound I have...I'm extremely confused now more than ever. Thx u kat for all you do🙏

[@chadjones1377]

Stories being stories and not the point, but my Divine Masculine counterpart is in the same situation. This journey forces us to get back to the truth of who we are. No labels, no preconceived notions, no societal rules or expectations, no orientation, no gender identity, just the core of who we are. We're here to break those boundaries and "rewrite the rules" (so to speak), not only in ourselves, but in the world. You aren't broken or wrong. You're feelings are valid and true. As I am you and you are me, know that you are loved, understood, and appreciated for who you truly are right here, right now. You'll figure out the rest in time. Just know, love is love, without conditions or rules.

[@magdalenawiko5158]

I'm not sure, but I think it's Carl Jung's statement: "If you don't know who you really are, the world will show you." I think that was the point: I saw a part of myself that I never wanted to see.

[@LoveAndLight2040]

Was your twin open to being w men already or Was he confused as well? Can you share some of your story?

[@saranaudu4382]

This journey truly is perfectly orchestrated!! Thanks Cat💓

[@trishstewart121]

I am understanding this more and more; thank you. ❤

[@kaungsulatt]

I watch your video repeatedly, especially when I triggered. I use them as text book to remind my soul journey. It is amazes me how quickly my ego invaded my mind and how easily I could forget your advice.

[@generaldvw]

😂... Very true Cat... If you haven't lived it, you can't understand. It's just good to be able to get stronger, closer to self, and focused each day. You have helped me a lot 😊

[@indigenousangel.genius]

Seperation this time’s been about a week. But on my timeline and probably his 3D time line, it feels like months. CRAZY. But I feel the space he’s given me is to Alchemize these energies. DESPITE craving his soul, missing our shared energy that could never be replicated by anything in existence in this 3D. We found each other in this lifetime at SUCH a young age for a REASON. Our levels of consciousness are so much higher and more divine than majority of people our ages, always. He was a deep all knowing soul as a kid, his soul’s told me, the same way I was. I’ve been more blessed in certain ways but I love and want and feel I need his so bad despite the “pain” of it all that outside people would try to simplify and make me seem crazy because I could’ve been doing better than him. It’s NOT about that. My TRUE self is loud and jumps out in his prescence and I’m his safe space as well but he may resent that cuz there’s not a soul LIKE me in this 3D reality so it’s like he has no choice BUT to accept himself and what it all is. While I deeply know what it all is and exactly what it’s for . I just want to TALK about it with him as I feel it’s tooo powerful and he can help me Alchemize and we could help each other. But his seperation and the energy of it currently is showing me I don’t need him or anyone else to do exactly what I’m doing and meant to do ♾️

[@rogmaryperezpardo]

Minute 4:00 or maybe 4:30 » Thank you. Thank you SO MUCH. Because I didn't know it, but I needed to hear this. I thought I was the only one living this situation of "This is NOT what I do! I'm a perfectly respectable woman and I was raised well, I don't behave this way, EVER!". This has been one of my greatest challenges during this journey, and to know I'm not alone in this makes me feel relieved, and ready to move on from the guilt. Thank you again, my dear.

[@Libran1717-us8qp]

While watching, the video suddenly stopped ✋️ @ 3:33!😮 WOW!! Simply magical❤❤

[@crystalmorningstar19]

Strong synchronicity resonance; when I first got into channeling, etc I asked what my purpose was. I was shown a giant hand extend toward me. As the palm opened, a rose opened within it. From the rose fell an endless flow of crystals or diamonds. So, when you speak of that rose, that is what popped into my head. I hadn't considered it for a long time. Releasing the should have, would have, could have. Heard that! If it coulda, shoulda......it woulda. Thank you 🙏

[@carlosbarbon6846]

Very good transition of what we go through. Slowly i start to understand things and startet new life based on all this new information. Thank you for opening the eyes.

[@sacredsoulrising1]

You are welcome

[@Nina_kollcaku]

Thank you ❤ I think the soul is here to experience love through the physical body so yes we are the soul not the body but if we identitfy just with the soul it means that we should just be in a meditative state all life and not experiencing love, emotions etc in the 3d reality

[@lilbuddha4135]

The baking soda and vinegar is a great analogy. Never could figure out a proper way of explaining what I felt. I always explained it as static on a television from the 1990s. I also tell people I’m an Aquarius Sun/Moon and was always detached from people. And then all of a sudden - I wanted to attach myself to them like a leach. The most bizarre feeling.

[@kimberlyperez0328]

You’re spot on. This is exactly how it’s been. Thank you.

[@Isabeaulemoine]

I than you so much for your videos. You are a big help for us to realise this is real . I love you ❤

[@BellaFront9]

Love this!! Thank you Cat!! ❤️💗🤍

[@benitataylor3001]

❤do u realise how much u are appreciated! Thank u!

[@petraooghe1849]

❤❤❤so true💫🙏

[@Ladybug.2250]

You are so good and I really needed to hear this! ♥️

[@cohobatherapeuticservicesl4957]

Thank you. This video was so helpful!

[@yahnawilson-talley9089]

❤wow! Everything you said hits home

[@jonebs58]

Exactly!

[@HeartJourneys1177]

Thank You 🌀❤️🙏

[@I_am1111]

The person /twin/DM is just the door into the awakening room. Close the door behind you and forget it is my best advice 😅 Enjoy being in the room 🎉

[@spiritualsag11]

Thank you and I appreciate all of your content. I am not sure if I am on a twin flame journey or not but I do know that I was activated on a journey so regardless, I appreciate the messages as I am coming back into self in a big way. I come back to your channel for support as it makes me become more aware; that awareness is power. So thank you my love; you are a blessing

[@joanneswan]

you are amazing, so motivating

[@hollybelle5392]

Hi Cat, I really do understand finally what this is all about. You explain it very well. The whole life change thing is really ramping up now. The odd thing is, that I just woke up from a dream a half an hour ago, that my other part was telling me that I couldn't contact them (haven't spoke since last September). Interesting that this dream happens right after I deleted his number and removed him from my social media. Then again, I guess maybe not so odd. Thank you💫

[@joyulareign-himbert5218]

Thank you and much love

[@scorpiogirl3781]

What a beautiful message ❤thank you!

[@zenithmodel8669]

This was a harsh but necessary listen! I try so hard to put my TF to one side and focus on self, but it doesn't seem to happen. This video might be the slap in the face I needed.

[@ShiningGabriella]

Thank you so much Cat! You are truly amazing!! Really needed to hear this right now🙏 Love U 💛🌈💫

[@ARPITANAYAK-rr9fp]

I love all of your videos.Appreciating your efforts.Thankyou so much.💕

[@nomaswazimaseko2169]

This really helps❤

[@ann-charlottedahlander6340]

You are the best!!

[@avin2222]

I also get this weird fear. Like when I magnetize myself in, will I be really ready to balance it? 😢

[@otiliafarkasova4176]

That’s why my blood pressure is constantly high

[@sallyann-watson3588]

U always give So much of urself offering Cat & I'm extremely grateful ThankYou ❤🙏🏻☮️

[@helenahronopoulous3647]

Thank you do much I love how you explains this perfect

[@parii88]

Bigggg thanks for this❤️🙏

[@rundilina]

Word. ❤

[@gaiamyhomegirl]

I love your wisdom!! THANK YOU. It’s helped me so much in general for the next level of my awakening journey. I’m curious if you’ve ever known of twins that end up having children together? And what that means for potential separations?

[@rortwin]

Thx a lot ❤🇸🇦

[@lisapurvis3976]

I had really hard time on this journey once seperation came,as i met my twin on halloween but also found out i was pregnant to him on halloween also, my little girl is highly sensitive, psychic child, but when we went into full seperation i hit rock bottom and have had few dark night of the souls and brings out more of psychic gifts..

[@cgp1442]

I know my true essence. Or maybe multiple essences. Healing and Creating. However, I have always had blocks ( I guess ) moving forward due to lack of funds. Money blocks may be an issue, but I can't figure out how to overcome it. I've worked hard, made it, had it, and more than enough of struggling to get to the point of fulfilling the steps to get my true essence moving forward. 😔 As far as my twin, I hold no attachment to him, for some odd reason I don't ( our 5D connection is unbelievably strong and I feel him all the time) . But the deep deep love is there. I have absolute faith in Devine Timing or if I'm meant to be with a soulmate instead, then spirit will bring him into my life when once again, the timing is right. Been focusing only on my journey as mentioned above. Don't understand however, why spirit keeps bringing my twin back around. We are not even speaking and would prefer to not see him, but apparently, Spirit has a reason for that too.

[@kaungsulatt]

I am confused. I am the one run from the connection because it was so strong that it not only pull out my minds, it literally pull my organs and every parts inside of my body including foods I ate. I resisted as much as I could but I gave up after five days because I can’t sleep eat and drink. My soul is trying to leaving me. The information on internet say the awakening one is chaser? I don’t know anymore am I chasing or running since we both gone silent for three months even we sees eachother from distance.

[@alchemyofbalance333]

🙏💜🙏

[@mattB94]

We hear so much about when "the chaser" detaches, "the runner" is drawn back to the chaser. Then how on earth is it possible to choose a soulmate instead of your TF at a later stage? 🤔 I hear so much about TF's choosing soulmates instead... how does that work? Does that leave one TF in obsessiveness and basically being f***ed for life? Or is it something they actually are able to agree on and if so then what happens to the push pull energy?

[@lovelightshining4444]

✨🤍✨🧘🧚🌬️💨💓

[@sweetnesssoulshine7842]

What if your Kundalini awakened years before your twin coming in?

[@irinastancu9034]

This Journey is meant to happen in this particular life anyway? It is something that I did in this existence to attract this kind of awekening or it was already planned in my destiny?

[@BelendaHarber]

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[@apolloarts687]

Hi Cat, I've been following your videos for a few months now, I've reached the point where im not so obsessive over my DM but within all these videos I'm starting to question how it feels like the ego mind is the one trying to balance or magnetise them back in, if the journeys about self and soul why should I even worry about magnetising them back in?

[@ViorelaSoulCafe]

❤

[@sharona.5519]

Hi Cat could you please do a video on why the DM cling onto the "karmic relationship" in case there is a case a child, is it why ??🙏

[@LeshelleDavidson]

I think I should take a boxing

[@Eleonova1976]

I merged in too my twin when i was standing in line in the supermarkt, and i still feel like i'm in his body. What does this mean ?

[@BelendaHarber]

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[@dawnjenkins4116]

Do you have soul recognition at the very beginning or can it be later?

[@magdalenawiko5158]

Three weeks after the first very strange conversation. Ordinary but extraordinary. Logic was a big "help" in this recognition. I analyzed everything that had led me to this place and grabbed my head. It had started half a year earlier and it couldn't have been a coincidence. Then I understood what was happening. But I didn't think he had my soul. Then a vision that I never had in my life: a sense of coming home, etc... Probably he also knew it on some level. But he acted weird and immature and just scared me. For him, it could be a change from a boring life and doing the same thing over and over again. Not for me.

[@dawnjenkins4116]

@@magdalenawiko5158 I met mine a decade ago and always had this closeness to each other although never meeting in person but once. Horrible first date but we stayed in contact over social media. It was like we were best friends in a way. We met up in person a few years ago and it was so exciting to see each other. After that is when I stumbled upon twin flames and I began to believe that he was mine in the 3D. It made sense that connection although not really even knowing each other. He has done the “let’s meet up” and then canceled over and over. I don’t know 100% but I believe he is me.

[@TurbulentMystic]

Should we not communicate with the TF at all? Should we not even look at what they are doing online?

[@WhiteTigress144]

I could use your help! 13:16

[@sacredsoulrising1]

Feel free to reach out here is my link linktr.ee/Catsummers

[@foodideasbynittu]

Can I manifest union n forever with my TF?

[@I_am1111]

Manifesting with twin flame in mind is pushing energy. It will repel 'them' further away.

[@foodideasbynittu]

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[@Lucysbeenhere]

I’ve known for sometime what I’m supposed to do. My problem has been starting that business around it, but I’ll get there. I got your business course and found it helpful. Also got the extra one about the lines, but a friend of mine said her experience with it was not good. I have to try the ones you mentioned to see if it actually works for me although I know it’s not going to be my main thing. Thanks 🙏 🤍💕