Some moms are also hearing these types of words from their son.
@anjumanradha34742 жыл бұрын
True.. I too have seen
@jaihind88152 жыл бұрын
Yes i have also seen girl betting her mom on balkqne in news
@behindhim2 жыл бұрын
Not only sons but their daughters too 😔 I admit I am one of them A monster inside me always wins
@rajeshwarisharma98332 жыл бұрын
@@behindhim the good part is you know that what are you doing. Just improve yourself by controlling yourself and make little little changes. Getout or move from there. As you know where the issue is going to start.
@gauripandey25662 жыл бұрын
This shit is so true...🥺 Sometimes even i get furious and say a few things which i regret instantly
@misty2959 Жыл бұрын
Now that I'm 25, I realise how scary these statements are. I'm really scared of marriage.
@royjee-9580 Жыл бұрын
let me remind u that every man or boy arent the same thats it for someone marriage is a beautiful journey too everyone s experiences are different so we should not create a general picture of something in our head
@shifaalibr7419 Жыл бұрын
I'm not saying this with any intent against arranged marriages or love marriages. My only suggestion to you is "Know Your Partner". Take time to get to know how they are and how they handle different emotions and situations. Don't rush it. Because you might regret your decisions in the future and it's not something people should go through. Even if your parents decided your partner, take your time to get to know him. A month, a year or more. Just take your time till you know you both will have a stable and happy future together.
@asaamiaries_8103 Жыл бұрын
Me too #Misty but I'm elder than you even though
@fjkhihg Жыл бұрын
Same here😠sis
@neetasingh1185 Жыл бұрын
Same here....I'm also 25,I'm also scared about marriage.....if I'll get bad husband in future then what will I do?,where I will go? ,who will help me? ,I also scared about these things too...
@blinky3473 Жыл бұрын
Where u born :- Ye to kisi aur ke ghar chali jayegi . Sasural :- Ye to kisi aur ke ghar se aayi h .
@cristinadsouza1872 Жыл бұрын
sad reality 🤕
@piyavishwas4972 Жыл бұрын
Baap k ghr koi apna samjhta nhi h
@cristinadsouza1872 Жыл бұрын
@@piyavishwas4972 not all have same thought as you
@dikshasuman Жыл бұрын
Who knows?
@casablanca6295 Жыл бұрын
Reality 💔
@hello-xf5ow Жыл бұрын
MARRIAGE IS AN OPTION NOT A necessity UNDERSTAND THAT
@beastgarenaffboys23611 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 I hope everyone who r there in India understand this fact
@anonymousforu11 ай бұрын
In India u r born to get married someday...specially in case of girls
@beastgarenaffboys23611 ай бұрын
@@anonymousforu yah that's the problem with the society They don't understand that Marriage is not compulsory marriage is just an option in case If u want to marry U can marry otherwise u can live your life as an unmarried person
@rinixetri922211 ай бұрын
@@beastgarenaffboys236 yes , u're absolutely true...I'm from Nepal ..and ..as now I'm unmarried. I'm a std...23 age... I want to be independent one...so that I can do anything to take any decisions...I don't want to take help of others....I'm afraid of getting married....I m afraid of boys...to be beaten.....and many more....
@The_Indo_Aryan11 ай бұрын
@@beastgarenaffboys236 Why would you like to die alone? Genuine Question. I don't really understand why women are abandoning men, especially as a guy who can't even afford therapy and had to cope with loneliness due to toxic women. No hate.
@karishmasingh70662 жыл бұрын
"Ek or promotion ¿ ¡! I hope you boss isn't getting lucky " These lines might truly hurt her What if you get a promotion and she says the same thing to you 🙂
@halfstackpgrhalfstackpgr49252 жыл бұрын
We not gae. Surry 🌗
@an____ka2 жыл бұрын
@@halfstackpgrhalfstackpgr4925 to matlab agar boss woman hoti to ye Baat sach ho jaati?
@rishi2791 Жыл бұрын
What if the boss is truely getting lucky aye?
@an____ka Жыл бұрын
@@rishi2791 and how do you know that? Telepathy? You're just assuming. And assuming the worst consequences without actual evidence is delusional
@4cutatmaram Жыл бұрын
Don't get me wrong but single women gets into relationship with managers in order to get financially secured and promotion, I've seen this in front of my eyes, they won't fall in love with entry level positioned guys they catch the big fish
@tanishasinha24632 жыл бұрын
“Accept your sasural now" Have you have ever treated like she think her sasural “HOME" As her home? 🙄😤
@bookbuff2 жыл бұрын
Nice ..true
@RizwanKhan-mt9qs2 жыл бұрын
Saas jo hai maa k tarah treat kare aur hm use apna ghar nahi manenge 🤣🤣🤣
@SassyMeeh2 жыл бұрын
Never
@soumyachakrabarty78272 жыл бұрын
Yes. According to my Mom she has been treated better than her own home for more than 20 years. Please dont spread negativity. Just because you have bat experience doesn't mean everyone are same !
@soumyachakrabarty78272 жыл бұрын
@BLIИK ♡ then why we are generalising ?
@aaminafathimaa Жыл бұрын
These are the exact lines I hear from my entire sasuraal. All these things bring down my self confidence and hit on my self respect
@uditirawat7760 Жыл бұрын
Why r u takin these abuses then, have self respect and move out of such relation. Yes if u don't have family support tgen it will initially be very difficult specially emotionally but your future self will thank u many fold for being so brave and preserving ur self respect Hope u get ur happiness and respect back.
@Peace-ys6nt Жыл бұрын
it’s sad how they see a daughter in-law sister in law as a threat instead as a blessing . when you have good intentions then it’s their loss if they didn’t respect you. at the end of everything it’s you’re husband who should be you’re strength and confidant most times they are not they never seem to break free from their extended families. it’s as if they are married to sisters mothers brothers fathers not their wives and imagine asian men can’t take on divorced women with children yet the woman has to accept she married his whole bloody family! what a joke! that’s cos they need support to make fun
@arvindstam Жыл бұрын
@@uditirawat7760 uk actually ur right if she leaves this bloody family and focus on carrier she can do many wonders and can gain much support by people around her
@bhartigupta8469 Жыл бұрын
@@uditirawat7760 shall I divorce my husband if he wants to keep my atm with him and letting me to ask him for money and gets Verbally agreesive in arguments??????
@karanadhikari3191 Жыл бұрын
@@uditirawat7760 kya chahti ho didi divorce ho jaaye uska
@rishik_the_cuber7 ай бұрын
Slap is not only on the face, every attack on self respect is a slap too 🔥🔥 Edit after 6 months: Cold violence is also a form of domestic violence
@cauhanronak4 ай бұрын
Where self respect goes when you ask for alimony.
@arnikapal49094 ай бұрын
alimony ki baat hi nhi aayegi bhaiya hame to shaadi hi nhi karni fir aapko tension kyu ye to ladko ke liye aachi baat hai fir to@@cauhanronak
@Blessing0704_2 ай бұрын
@@cauhanronakfor this, first go back to history and read why "Alimony"word was even put in the law. And how and why did the word "Dowry" came into play. Then come here and argue. NOT before that. Go and have education that iss word ki zarurat hi kyu pdi?? Ye word society me hmesha se nai tha, jab females apne decisions khud leti thi. Read that how CONTROL and DOMINATION on this gender, considering it weaker, took over and this word came into play. But in sab k liye "padhai" ki zarurat hoti hai...roots tak jaa k pta krne ki, to know the WHY, n HOW.
@cauhanronak2 ай бұрын
@@Blessing0704_ You know there is no problem in doing all this but after that you will find another excuse to hide fact that you women only care for money in relationship, you be in relationship because of money, stay because of money and leave for money. And, each and every time you will try to divert topic to another to another direction. Women have problem with doing house chores and call themselves as maid but have no problem in understand husband as ATM even after divorce.
@scienceandpolitics2508Ай бұрын
admiyon par oraten bhi is Tarah to zada thappar Marti hoti
@nandanbn76682 жыл бұрын
I truly feel for every women. I feel sorry for many things they have to go through
@worldofflowers8702 жыл бұрын
Bhot bdi problem h jisse girls kbh ni chahti shadi krna
@lifestyleandfashion092 жыл бұрын
U won my ❤
@priyankasinghchattha13252 жыл бұрын
@I'm The Feminist Distroyer( SIGMA MALE) shut your guttery mouth you stupid sabhi ek jaise nahi hote
@manipandey52342 жыл бұрын
@I'm The Feminist Distroyer( SIGMA MALE)ye reality only tumhare life ki hai ,kam se kam unka interest khatam to hota hai tmhara to shadi ke baad bhi khatm nhi hota
@shaliniverma15522 жыл бұрын
@@worldofflowers870 true
@aditigupta49852 жыл бұрын
"ab salary mujh se jyada ho gyi to naukar samjhogi kya?" "Tu b to vhi samajhta tha mujhe itne salo se"
@stutikhanna9872 жыл бұрын
Tbhi shaadi kri thi pagal 🥲
@aditigupta49852 жыл бұрын
@@stutikhanna987 vhi to kuchh log bina paise diye naukar chahte h, isiliye shadi krte h
@arsalan11822 жыл бұрын
Sad truth of society 😤😤😤
@vigyatkumar46292 жыл бұрын
Salary dekh ke hi na shadi kiya tha😂😂
@kukudugubabu27262 жыл бұрын
Men mentality
@thefurrybunniesdogs930811 ай бұрын
Don't get married.focus on yourself enjoy your life, ADOPT A CHILD.BE STRONG.NOBODY NEEDS MARRIAGE.MARRIAGE IS NOT COMPULSORY 😡😡😡
@jyotikasingh59347 ай бұрын
So true n in fact this was my mantra for the large part of my life phir pata nhi kaunse pagal kutte ne kaata ki shaadi kar li. Seriously girls just be financially independent n emotionally strong. I am taking the nonsense cos of my 2 toddlers but I know that I will come out of this sham eventually. Der hee sahi par pucca se hoga zaroor.
@Shwetagymholic6 ай бұрын
Agree mam
@anishtripathi38005 ай бұрын
@@jyotikasingh5934 Zyada padh likh gayi hogi na, isiliya ab pati ki izzati nahi hoti aapse madam.. I read somewhere, better marry a maid than these modern independent feminists. So true it was.
@sarathi-theguide19465 ай бұрын
@@anishtripathi3800 I wish no women should meet you
@mandalaart27675 ай бұрын
@@anishtripathi3800yes you better marry a maid. She can serve you for free. Women have suffered since ages but only now feminism became a problem for men. Don't worship Kaali and Durga who have killed demons and dominated men if you can't even handle a female living socially equal to you.
@kishusharma7719 Жыл бұрын
I really find it funny. "Ye tumhara ghr nhi h wo h" "Wo hi tha tumhara ghr ye mera ghr h" 🤩 Talk about struggle. And RESPECT
@haryanvi6312 жыл бұрын
Nothing is more than self respect ❤️self respect always 1st 🔥
@punitasinghal8012 жыл бұрын
What is self respect according to u
@shibanichauhan85422 жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 well, good question....
@shigano56602 жыл бұрын
Untill it's not ego
@haryanvi6312 жыл бұрын
@@shigano5660 right 🔥
@haryanvi6312 жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 सेल्फ रिस्पेक्ट यानी आत्म सम्मान,इसका सीधा सा अर्थ है अपनी गरिमा को बचाना ,किसी भी अन्य इंसान को आपकी गरिमा भंग होने के प्रयास में महत्वपूर्ण कदम उठाना
@dks3632 жыл бұрын
"थप्पड़ वो नहीं जो सिर्फ चहरे पर आके लगता है, थप्पड़ है हर वो शब्द जो आत्मसम्मान पर लगता है।"
@rakholiyadhruvi7223 Жыл бұрын
I'm really scared of the marriages because jo chij muje meri freedom nahi de sakti vo me kabhi nahi karungi
@mazoodstraveltales9036 Жыл бұрын
Slaps include rude words.. True..
@ebadat62602 жыл бұрын
*Self respect must be the first priority* ♥♥
@kooshi7 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@rightthought93912 жыл бұрын
After seeing this I became more proud of my father Today I realised how lucky I'm to get a father like him .
@sakshishivani29152 жыл бұрын
Same here
@dreamchaser47652 жыл бұрын
Touch wood.
@dreamchaser47652 жыл бұрын
@@sakshishivani2915 Touch wood.
@passionatep14822 жыл бұрын
Many indian males are good . Don't fall trap of fake femminists. Gaddari khoon mai hai inke. They divide everything from family till nation.
@faadumomaadey53272 жыл бұрын
Well you are so lucky but everyone isn't lucky like you my father isn't a good husband and that truth is hurting and disappointed at Same time because of that i I don't celebrate fathers day 😔💔
@syedahoque9695 Жыл бұрын
Oh my dear Lord, this is so upsetting, heartbreaking and really triggering 🥺💔
@dr.khushibharti5041 Жыл бұрын
👍👍 हमारे समाज के लोग कितना भी बदलाव की बात कर ले समाज के लोगों की सच्चाई यही है।
@shashisemwal78422 жыл бұрын
I know such females who decided not to get married just to avoid such nonsense. I feel, they are wise. Their decision is absolutely right. They have saved their self respect and freedom.
@MJ98.5 ай бұрын
And what? In the end none to look after 😂
@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones5 ай бұрын
@@MJ98.Why would we need someone to look after us.
@wowser21532 ай бұрын
@@_cosmic_aurora_gameofconesafter 70 most people are sick and it’s usually the adult children that take care of them. No marriage and no children is a recipe for loneliness in old age . Such people finally depend on their siblings and nieces/ nephews.
@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones2 ай бұрын
@@wowser2153 I will donate my body after 60. But for me,marriage life is hell😂
@kusumkumawat7168Ай бұрын
@@wowser2153 children don't gaurantee you a secure old age time. Apne budhape ki chinta h to riteirement plan bnao pese save kro 🙄. Bacha peda krke uske upr apna boj mt dalo bacho ki b life hoti h wo tumhara boj uthaege ya khudki life jiyege??
@radha_the_flute_girl2 жыл бұрын
Don't marry , don't have kids... Love urself and be free
@sniperskgaming86522 жыл бұрын
Right. But not all men are same or I may have not been here. Just some of us spoil the image of other gentlemans
@rummygenuineinfo2 жыл бұрын
ok then go and increase vesyavrati.....
@Heisthebestplanner2 жыл бұрын
@@rummygenuineinfo why are you even alive
@rummygenuineinfo2 жыл бұрын
@@Heisthebestplanner for doing marriage and keep save varnashram dharma....
@indrajeetsingh-ev3ig2 жыл бұрын
Sochta to mai bhi yahi hun magar budhape ka dar lagta hai ek meri nani. Nana ji pehle hi chal base. Meri nani roj roti hai. Unko nana ji ke saath sone ki aadat thi ab so nahi paati. Mujhe kaha tha insaan ko insaan hi pura kar sakta hai. Pta nahi kaise bitegi life.।।।
@abhishekroy2jan Жыл бұрын
I am a 33 yrs young man. I have been fighting for women empowerment and gender equality long time, with society and people. For a man: Always try that the life of your woman before and after marriage differs minimal if not same. Make her feel comfortable the same as she was at home. But these words dont hear good from characters like Pannu and Ranaut. Their words change situationally and for money. Believe an average man is better than them.
@beastgarenaffboys23611 ай бұрын
Hare Krishna 🕉️😇🙏🏻 Don't lose hope foght until u achieve your goal
@neelumalhotra33597 күн бұрын
I agree with you completely. This story still persists in my house.. All these taunts are killing 😢 and demoralise a woman..
@namratachakroborty84372 жыл бұрын
I can so relate to this because I was 5 when I used to stay with my cousin for 4 to 5 years because my mom dad were mostly out on business trips . my cousins dad always used to beat my cousins mother and she used to say nothing and just keep quite and do all the house works and she wasn't allowed to wear even a kurti she was only allowed to wear saree that also without showing one bit of her skin at that time I was very small and I didn't understand anything but now I am 13 and now I understand everything and even I told all this to my mother and she filed a case against my cousins father and now he is in the present for more 1 year and my cousins mother is doing a lot better she is having a job and I'm so happy for her but I have experienced this and I know how terrible it is !!!!
@chhayachabukswar17482 жыл бұрын
I too hv undergone such disaster but nobody helped me n still iam facing worse situation..with my husband n inlaws as they r suppressing me 7nder the 8nflunence of political party ..n snatching money,,food n peace of livelihood hope god provide me some help as iam all alone facing fed up of police bribed by them..i pray to god everyday let some angel come into my life n i get freedom ..god bless youll
@namratachakroborty84372 жыл бұрын
@@chhayachabukswar1748 i will pray for u and don't worry God will send some help for u and if possible I will try to help u too by tell this to my mother keep hope on God 💜💜
@chhayachabukswar17482 жыл бұрын
@@namratachakroborty8437 Thank u Namrata ..so kind of u to reply ..hope i receive this god's greates gift iam immensely..in lots of trouble..
@namratachakroborty84372 жыл бұрын
@@chhayachabukswar1748 of course u will 💜💜🤗
@exolovebambibambi17632 жыл бұрын
You did the right thing!!
@pc3116 Жыл бұрын
My mom was abused in her marriage and that scared me off. 40 years old but this is exactly why I don’t want to get married without knowing the person
@chaykidiwanipreeti9 ай бұрын
Good
@parulbhardwaj51287 ай бұрын
Jaan ke bhi kuch nai Hota, more often than not things r different after marriage
@Dolly.76856 ай бұрын
Person ko jaan kr kuch nahi hona h qki sari zindagi khatam ho jati ek dusre ko samjhte hue or compromise thoda ho ya jyada hr relationship me hota h kuch chizen match kr sakti pr chiz match kare that's never gonna happen
@93Abdul873 ай бұрын
Say no marriage
@mayanksingh86572 ай бұрын
Ab kar ke bhi kuch nhi hoga 😂😂😂
@Happiness__143 Жыл бұрын
Ri8.. self-respect is very important n I m fighting for that.
@vanishanmugam261Ай бұрын
Seeing this video everytime with heavy heart. Sometimes we are not able to cry loud too..
@rahattabassum41772 жыл бұрын
most of the time all these comments come from another woman. we women need to fix our mentality first.
@honeygirl17242 жыл бұрын
True.
@Pasadena142 жыл бұрын
Disagree. My ex-boyfriend did the salary thing pretty often...and then other snarky comments started coming in. Dumped him.
@seittit2 жыл бұрын
Disagreed
@fatimaahmed002 жыл бұрын
Most of time this happens sad truth about our society 😐😐
@minnancyyoongiee18862 жыл бұрын
Disagree
@jyotipritamsingh2 жыл бұрын
I was crying...but these lines made me feel lucky.... i hhave not gone through all this
@abhyudaysingh1866 Жыл бұрын
Because it's an exception. Demonizing men is common
@CommentatorSG Жыл бұрын
Tolerating toxic words and negative criticism from anyone can break your spirit and harm your mental and physical health. So, stand up for yourself. Don't take shit from anyone.
@ankitaroy9104 Жыл бұрын
"Mera ghar bolna chhor do". Daily I am listening this sentence 😔
@Jasmin-ji7tb4 ай бұрын
Heyy are u ok now??
@arshisanjeed8288 Жыл бұрын
My husband never said anything like it's ... We are together from 10 years..
@NomadicLifeHunter Жыл бұрын
Madam ji, tapsi Pannu apne film ke promotion ke liye over acting kar rahi hai, jis ka real life say door door tak kuch Lena dena nahi hai
@hobbithallows Жыл бұрын
She is talking about manipulation’s and abusive relationships, not all marriage relationships I hope you can spot the difference 🙏
@karenoberoi Жыл бұрын
@@NomadicLifeHunter aisa hota hai asli zindagi mein
@mrunknown15277 Жыл бұрын
What's your religion?
@Owlet.. Жыл бұрын
She's not talking about men in general, she is talking about toxic comments that are hurtful to most women and their self esteem.
@farrahasif19312 жыл бұрын
These are the words that make one afraid of being happy in life. 😔
@jeevital7124 Жыл бұрын
CORRECTION~ *happy in a married life :)
@junkieefreak1266 Жыл бұрын
but if u r so concerned abt Gender Equality & Right,then why u r still in Islamic fold that legalize ultra misogynistic practices like- Triple Talaq,Halala,Polygamy etc....
@panduranghande544515 күн бұрын
That promotion wali baat is too.....😭😭
@visiblenature20121Ай бұрын
"Thapad wo nahi jo chehra pa laga Thapad wo ha jo atmasamman pa aa kay laga"😢😢😢
@priyanshujumani28192 жыл бұрын
Yes...such men don't deserve wives...
@punitasinghal8012 жыл бұрын
Well 21st century women just want special treatment Very few face this even they do selfless service
@somyashrivastava20562 жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 well 21 st century u ppl still trying to degrade us ,which is of ,no use.
@sandhya75022 жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 we are talking about self respect and equality not about special treatment
@user-ooop2 жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 what is wrong with you? If a man was being disrespected like this would you say he wanted special treatment if he wants out?
@punitasinghal8012 жыл бұрын
@@sandhya7502 explain the meaning of those word which you have used without being biased
@birdangel912 жыл бұрын
With God's blessing, my husband is the best and so respectful!
@lokisapiens53202 жыл бұрын
nobody cares
@kalpanasriwastava37022 жыл бұрын
Mom inlaw nahi hogi apki Or sister in laws ! They kill you
@sundusshah94672 жыл бұрын
So sweet 💖 MashaAllah
@lokisapiens53202 жыл бұрын
@@sundusshah9467 now someone do
@birdangel912 жыл бұрын
@@lokisapiens5320 lol looks like you really do care cz you are replying non stop.. stop replying if you really don't care ...
@shomasengupta58084 күн бұрын
Absolutely right. We always sacrifice in every step in our lives.
@ashutoshmishra6391 Жыл бұрын
एकदम सही बात है,"आत्म सम्मान को ठेस पहुंचे''विश्वास और प्रेम में करता करता सहा जाए???🤔🤔🤔💔💔
@jiyaah9842 жыл бұрын
I was just 12 when my parents divorced that's because my dad he was really abusive yeah he never physically abuse her but mentally and emotionally!! My dad he was against my mom for doing job she said that she wanna earn but dad he never agreed to it . He also cheated on my mom by dating someone else (not lying tho) he even sell my mom's gold earrings worth 8k it was really special for her coz my Nani gifted her before she passed away Relatives and dadi everyone was pressuring her not to divorce my dad she said that it's okay you're women you have tolerate this now get used to it already but yeah she didn't care about the society and divorce my dad !!! Now i(20) live with my mom and my younger sister (18) and we are happy yeah my dad he often call me and my sister but he never talk to my mom !!
@sneha7756 Жыл бұрын
so sad 💔 💔
@dafunk99 Жыл бұрын
Your dad is a superhero!
@Jinxed192 Жыл бұрын
@@dafunk99 🙄
@pickX539 Жыл бұрын
....
@Rhileyn Жыл бұрын
@@dafunk99 Um, if you want I can drive you to a psychiatric facility, won’t take too long.
@rida.kauserrida61092 жыл бұрын
I love the way you say about girls womens thanks to motivate every women
@punitasinghal8012 жыл бұрын
Well their is nothing motivation in it It just felt misandry
@somyashrivastava20562 жыл бұрын
yaa, like all this judgements were not passed by mans
@biggestfeminist67232 жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 yea its just reminding women what they face which they already know that's just makes them feel more and more hate for men that we are the reason they face this and all
@knmurthi2 жыл бұрын
अपना घर तो बसा नहीं और महिला सशक्तिकरण के नाम पर दूसरों का घर जलाने आ गई. ये एक सुशांत सिंह की हत्या की आरोपी है. इसे follow करने से पहले इस बात का ध्यान रखे. बाकी आपकी इच्छा.
@ushadevisaraff8651 Жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 what the fuck? Are you the one who says it these to women? I'm sure u r a male using any female's id
@mrs6771 Жыл бұрын
Amazing !!we have a few strong women like her to speak up . 👏🏼
@sandhyasandhi2174Ай бұрын
We women's r used to this tappad from centuries we try to forget the pain for sake of kids future 😭
@nidhiaggarwal6044Ай бұрын
So true
@anuragghagga39242 жыл бұрын
Yeah... Mother comparison ND body shape... Nd almost all you said is true.... Custom that a girl leave her home must change... Boys should also leave though they may understand the feeling
@fanofchan Жыл бұрын
Thats must be a quite understandable. Boys Also emphathise that feelings soon as possible
@user-yk5xu8gr1e Жыл бұрын
Girls parents won’t like having a ghar jamai and whole daily to take care of
@yangyang0208 ай бұрын
Boys : Not only I I leaved my home at the age of 6 and started living at the hostel alone and after 10th joined allen and started living in kota after neet started living in AIIMS jodhpur hostel and after placement can't even sleep Just to pay a bill for a women's candle light dinner
@PassionPrey6 ай бұрын
@@yangyang020bas bhaiya...woh apne paise se dinner kar legi...tumko paida hote hi uske parents uski responsibility dekar nahi Gaye the...tum hostel m ho apne parents k liye
@ramyachinna30922 жыл бұрын
If they treat us as a daughter at sasural...we will treat its our home....so many heart break words and things will happen always....
@radhajm6776 Жыл бұрын
Every day affair, you learn to handle with positive self talk, and also neglect to live happy and look happy.
@teebamehar4721 Жыл бұрын
O come on... I'm gonna marry soon... don't scare me...all of the comments are terrifying 🥺
@artmocha9901 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly how my dad started behaving when I started earning salary and respect. I would just go about my day and he would be like she thinks we are her servants and how is she getting paid so much as a beginner for just 6-7 hrs work and I am running around whole month and get paid nothing. He even started character shaming out of spite and spoiled good matches when guys liked me n didn’t want dowry and he challenged me he will see that I don’t get married till 30 and see how any guy will even be interested in me. I went in to severe anxiety, social awkwardness, gut issues, bedridden etc. Now I am 30 no job, health is getting better but all my zeal to pursue higher studies is no more, my self confidence is literally gone negative. He even beat me a month go for getting up from all the trauma and wanting to study again. I called cops n apparently he is a nice gentleman n I should have done something to make him angry. Society loves to support him though I shout on top of voice that all he had done is out of jealousy and he simply dismisses and says he is angry because my character is not good and society loves such stories.
@cottoncandace7704 Жыл бұрын
Oh my God, so sorry you have to go through this bullshit This is the reality of south asia honestly, girls and women have no actual freedom here or any support from legal system, police like to protect the predators..
@chandralapandith655 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god... This is such a terrifying situation.... please be strong physically and mentally and stand still infront of your bloody father and make him more jealous.... achieve big in life dear everything is possible 👍
@letsbeantihate.9821 Жыл бұрын
Only you are responsible for yourself. Pick up the pieces and move on. If you let yourself drown in despair, you will regret it later. Eat well, sleep well, pray well, work harder than you have ever done before. You will be better. Love and prayers for you.
@ayeshahaq402 Жыл бұрын
Leave that house. That should be your priority as to keep your mental health good it is necessary and the rest you ever wanted out of your life career love life etc will come by themselves. Trust me...
@jasmeensingh5634 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that you had go through that.. unfortunately even if men are the ones abusing others they can get away with it easily. They get support from family, friends and society because they put on a mask that usually shows how good and righteous they are and everybody believes them. I feel for you girl, but don't lose hope.
@santodkewl2 жыл бұрын
The sad part is some of these things no one says to me I say it to myself. I just need to change myself.
@hafsasaeed012 жыл бұрын
You don't need to change yourself, find your voice and speak for it. I know it'll be hard but once you take a stand, you'll never be in the fear
@missmaturequotes87682 жыл бұрын
Pls support guys🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙇🏻
@nazmeenshaik46942 жыл бұрын
Yes you need to change the way you think about yourself. ASAP. Don't insult yourself. There are enough people out there to do it for you. But you're the only person to defend yourself. Fight others not yourself
@saheliacharjee29083 ай бұрын
Kash marriage necessary na hoke option hota in our society, jinke liye aur Tamanna hoti..😢
@maheshrathod5593 Жыл бұрын
Shaadi mat karo khushi se jio...
@Nutrition-For-HEALTHYLIFE2 жыл бұрын
Self respect is most important.girls have to understand first.then no body can hurt you.be strong emotionally and physically and also financially....❤️❤️❤️
@soumyachakrabarty78272 жыл бұрын
The first time I got logic in the every point and every words of feminism. Yes....first time. Respect
@Iamridhimanegi2 жыл бұрын
Stop pointing out that feminists are liars or logic less ....a feminist will never say something that's a lie because they will know the mere difference between being a pseudo feminist and a real one.
@soumyachakrabarty78272 жыл бұрын
@@Iamridhimanegi i dont think so. Yes you may say that not everyone is logic less. But not everyone has. Now a days there are lots of feminists (specially western) who try to encourage the females to disrespect the other genders specially men. And sadly we are blindly following !
@sunandabagha7732 жыл бұрын
Actually privileged females only talk about feminism...like the lady in the video...if they are Powerful and can talk then they should help females who really need it... everybody needs respect irrespective of the gender
@bhargav15342 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Iamridhimanegi2 жыл бұрын
@@soumyachakrabarty7827 you see we find exceptions everywhere ....but you can't judge an entire community on the basis of that ...if feminism would have been something involving logic less people than I don't think so people would have accepted it worldwide ...I mean c'mon..
@asthapatel206 Жыл бұрын
This is not the time to oppose saying that not all man/ women are same some are good and genuine too , it's time to just sit by and listen to him/her ,and support her till the end by actually showing that not all men/women are same ... Let's show everyone that not everyone are same .. We are good We respect gender equality.. We respect all kind hearted person We respect all the mothers ,fathers sisters and brothers in the world .. Drop a blue heart if you agree .showing the positivity 💙💙💙
@myversion27913 ай бұрын
Violence should never be accepted. ! Rest issues are there always for both sides .. if possible adjust but without hurting your self respect !
@rashmipatel46992 жыл бұрын
It's very true. If they are earning more than ghr to unke paise se chl rha h. Ghr ka kaam to tm kr hi skti ho. If we are earning more than they think we are taking them as servant.
@exxtraagyaanofficial10m362 жыл бұрын
because somewhere in their mind they think & treat homemakers like servant.
@punitasinghal8012 жыл бұрын
Then don't ask him He is not your money producing machine , he is a human
@somyashrivastava20562 жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 koi sense banta h iss baat ka ?? dimag bech aaye kya tm dono ,dumb
@somyashrivastava20562 жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 we earn for ourselves
@punitasinghal8012 жыл бұрын
@@somyashrivastava2056 who u ...... Just shut up Earning ok ....... How much is your savings
@goelayushi092 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 i swear i really wanted to believe in love. But definitely im not compromising on love i deserve. If he cannot love me i will never be in toxic relationship.
@netforce13 Жыл бұрын
Look for a good man who respects people. If he is kind to others then you have nothing to worry about. I don't think you fall in love before marriage, I think its all infatuation and attraction, which is fine. But for marriage, look only at his manners towards all. And you'll be fine 🙂
@sermajore1187 Жыл бұрын
@@netforce13 nope . There's no need to tell women to compromise more then they already do . She can find one with both looks and manners . No more compromise.
@shruthimishra65182 ай бұрын
She told such utter truth and it's the reality of present world. Tears in my eyes.. cause I have faced such statements 🥺
@KimTaehyung-tv5jb Жыл бұрын
The fact that I am going to end up with such jerks is already hurting me so much .. I am going to be a divorcee for sure 😂😂
@blackpinkfangirlanshi8518 Жыл бұрын
you are right. 😉
@Armygirl-zb4vy Жыл бұрын
@Harsh Patel right I also want that but what about parents who forces us to get married at any cost 😢
@rishivlogs1558 Жыл бұрын
But kids ???
@user-yk5xu8gr1e Жыл бұрын
@@Armygirl-zb4vy parents can be selfish
@namjoonstolejiminsjams Жыл бұрын
When I saw the comment section some weeks ago it was really toxic 😅 now it's better
@arpitverma2349 Жыл бұрын
coz they have deleted the comments🙂
@sunnysrivastav9824 Жыл бұрын
Yaha sare ek se ek gyani baithe hai
@nishikapanwar47292 жыл бұрын
It is soo true............. every girl is facing these ............
@lokisapiens53202 жыл бұрын
who don't marry?
@Princess-pl6rd5 ай бұрын
absolutely right
@rakshababulal7462 Жыл бұрын
So true this is the sad reality for most,women good through so much in life,I hope these type of messages motivate our youth men and women how to treat each other with respect and dignity and as equals,we've come a long way,but still very long way to go for people's mindsets to change in the 21st century ,love taapsee plus priyankas talks,too powerful 💯👏👌🙏👍
@madihafatima75642 жыл бұрын
Mujhe shadi se darr lgne lgaa... Hai🥲
@drawssesed2 жыл бұрын
This is sad reality 💔
@just4fun7162 жыл бұрын
Kisi ki zindgi easy nhi hoti it's all karma
@shanu52152 жыл бұрын
😢
@sarithajagajith6568 Жыл бұрын
Reality of some people's mentality.
@drawssesed Жыл бұрын
@@sarithajagajith6568 yeahhh
@rosinaluck1829 Жыл бұрын
Here acting so the best...than any actress
@shwetanarkar777211 сағат бұрын
Since last 12 years I m listening these sentences
@readytogrow82662 жыл бұрын
Yes. ...my mother today taught me being In sasural don't say much in high tone ,have patience ..... I replied if anyone will be treated in wrong way i will be bad for them ... I am not going to be suppressed by them ...i can sustain my self my own why the hell i should be like that typically bechari .....i love to be culture but not blindly ... their should be proper science
@avinashkashid91762 жыл бұрын
Unki baat sunlo....behan ji ..Puri jindgi de ke jo sikha hai wahi bata rahe hai tumhare parents....inn chutiya Bollywood valo ka kya bharosa jo har dusare din shadi karate hai...agar tum bhi wo kar sakati ho to phir sunlo ....aur ha wo sab karke bhi khush nai reh payoge
@realitycheck71762 жыл бұрын
@@avinashkashid9176tumahri behen ko kehna chup rehne ko sehen krne ko, har tarah ko wildness bear krne ko, sasural valo ki or unki family ki maar sehen krne ko emotional mental pressure ko sehne karne ko kehan thik h.. 🙃
@realitycheck71762 жыл бұрын
@TYCOON Relationships only works if two people's understand, respect and support, each others. If she thinks you love her she will bear anything for you. And both partner should think by putting themselves on others situation, and most importantly they shouldn't allowed any third person come between them, no matter if it's boots mother or girls sister or friends
@divyangimishra2612 Жыл бұрын
@@avinashkashid9176 kyu ladke treat nhi kr skte ache se? wow mtlb apne aap ka stand lene se ladke divorce bhi de dete hai? ssly grow up, you'll raise children someday and no one wants their child to be mistreated and remain silent just to save their "rishta"
@avinashkashid9176 Жыл бұрын
@@divyangimishra2612 har koe ladka waisa nai hota...so stop blaming stupid things on partner always ..if you are loyal and respectful then no one rejected you....
@nehatiwari44922 жыл бұрын
200% true .....the reality of women's life....whether a housemaker or a employed one
@shraddhasingh4661 Жыл бұрын
I love her voice ❤
@snehalgiri7823 Жыл бұрын
Very nice. Must see 'Thappad ' 👌👌
@Anisole232 жыл бұрын
Even after every phase of women life she go through many such things... Society isn't gonna change 🙂
@punitasinghal8012 жыл бұрын
Well today SOCIETY is better ........
@mohammedsulaiman86632 жыл бұрын
💯 we have to change
@Anisole232 жыл бұрын
@@mohammedsulaiman8663 Yes also women's should not be in burqa and hisab if they don't want :)
@anujekka1472 жыл бұрын
@F*ck that hoe nigga I like your style bro 😂😂😂
@AlokKumar-bd3lb Жыл бұрын
@@Anisole23 they have to be in hijab or burqa for muslims men also get circumcised literally losing an important body part and women can't even were a hijab or a burqa atleast for their religion ??
@bhoomijain7952 жыл бұрын
This was the best video I have ever seen
@daitsy18942 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻
@sanoberhingoro21562 жыл бұрын
That's reallllyyyyy a nicest video ❤️
@biggestfeminist67232 жыл бұрын
U should watch more of this channel then the videos was pretty senseable i mean almost cuz some are just hating on men but still pretty strong thoughts
@learnenglish67862 жыл бұрын
Wtfffff,,, itna masoum q bana ke bata rahe ho ladki ko
@biggestfeminist67232 жыл бұрын
@@learnenglish6786 bhai ghusa karke kisi ko kuch bhi bolega to ye koi nhi sunta hai yar to kabhi thik se bolke hi dekhlo itne din se ghusse se hi to bol rhe the ki ye videos faltu man hating ki hai but koi mana kya nhi na to ab thik se hi baat kar lete hai
@brahmos55113 ай бұрын
Absolutely correct
@tanyachaudhary6524 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right
@allixendersamuel2774 Жыл бұрын
Nothing is more important than Self respect for both men and women
@Gudo-kv6ot Жыл бұрын
Luckily aaj kl le ladke bohot understanding hote h but kuchh ab bhi bohot toxic hote h. Comments mein dikh gye mujhe. Seriously it's scary even imagining what if I get someone like these guys who treat women with no respect
@husnainsexperimentalkitche2928 Жыл бұрын
Toxic ones are more than understanding ones
@nehabarnwal3952 Жыл бұрын
Yes u r right mujhe bhi comment me aise hi log dikh rhe h
@hemangshrivastava9561 Жыл бұрын
@@nehabarnwal3952kyo ki log aye se hi hote.
@anishtripathi380011 ай бұрын
Agar ladke Toxic na bane to ladkiya Jyoti Maurya ki tarah chuna laga ke chali jati hain. Aurat ko thodi dheel dete hi sar pe naachne lagti hai. Society me yahi ho raha hai aaj kal. That's why men better be toxic than cheated. In case I ever marry, I will prefer to be a stereotypical husband, not one of wife's pet who gets treated like a doormat in the end.
@anushasaxena807310 ай бұрын
yahan bhi ek toxic aa gaya. soch samajh ke shaadi karo. shaadi zaroori nahi hai
@dineshchoudhary-ii7nu4 ай бұрын
This brings tears in my eyes ,as a child had seen so many times ,this same things happened to my mother 😢
@harshitakant44005 ай бұрын
Very rightly said
@parthopratik76872 жыл бұрын
Have seen this in my family..but even after trying to make them understand she says this is what happens..a GOOD woman needs to adjust and ignore all this. Wish i could make them understand that this is not normal.
@preetichoudhary26062 жыл бұрын
True that :(
@Harbringer4432 жыл бұрын
The most sane comment I have found in this section up until now.
@rajeshwarisharma98332 жыл бұрын
You are the son who noticed it and atleast you are trying to make the understand. Proud of you
@btsdisneyland66602 жыл бұрын
Universal Truth 🙂🙂.... That's why Don't want to get Married 🥱🥱🥱
@kusumdogra3982 Жыл бұрын
Respect woman's 🙏👍🙏
@amishasingh6227 Жыл бұрын
Thappad vo har ek shab hai jo aatma saman or lgta hai♥️♥️♥️
@samratmom7112 жыл бұрын
True.....every line, sub face kiya h but inn batoon ko choti choti bate Khh krr ignore krr diya jata h... But yeah sbse Jada effect Krti h
@ranjanatirky52402 жыл бұрын
Han itni si baat ko itna bda bna rhi ho til ka tad bna rhi ho aise sabd istemal kiye jate hai jab aurte apni paresaniya batati hai.. aur bhi bahut se bato me gendar inequality hoti hai gharo me ...sabhi ke ghar me nhi but most of the Indian family aurto k sath alag aur purusho k sath alag vyvhar krna sikhati hai gharo me example- kabhi bhi maine kisi pati ko patni ki thali uthate ya khana paroste nhi dekha aur na hi suna hai jabki aurte to har Roj ye kaam krti hai bina kisi sikayat ke jaise bhagwan ne isi kaam k liye use dhrti me bheja hai
@NehaChoudhary-rn9zf2 жыл бұрын
Loved the way you communicated all what it is
@kssreelakshmi2 ай бұрын
True. I want to add there are those silent slaps too, the silent treatment, ignoring,never making time for you etc.
@meghajyotiyana631213 күн бұрын
These words are boosting many women
@aads..74922 жыл бұрын
The bgm with words hit my heart deeply❤️
@user-pp8fs4hp4q2 жыл бұрын
Gyaan bhi dekho kon de rhi hai😂😂😂😂😂😂
@an_indian93392 жыл бұрын
Koi dikkat haiii
@cutelilpotato6214 Жыл бұрын
@@an_indian9339 pata nhi kya dikkat hai inko
@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones5 ай бұрын
Kya chahta hai kon de fir? Koyi ladka ?
@user-pp8fs4hp4q5 ай бұрын
@@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones jo gender biased na ho
@_cosmic_aurora_gameofcones5 ай бұрын
@@user-pp8fs4hp4q to yeh Kab hoyi. Koyi ladki apne baare main bole to gender baise?
@sonalrai9243 Жыл бұрын
I just love this girl ...her each movie is so unique n interesting without any promotions..her movies are best n she too
@deepikasaini44208 ай бұрын
Kitna sahi explain kiya hai Thapad muh par nahi jigar par lagta hai
@menimawo68672 жыл бұрын
It completely resonates... They don't say directly bt mean the same
@sushmaboyapati20352 жыл бұрын
Truth.. hope these things bring some changes in the society!!
@punitasinghal8012 жыл бұрын
Well society is better Old society was peaceful and happy
@rahulbhattacharjee65082 жыл бұрын
Give girls power, and they will run the world like a red light district Give men power, they will run the world like well oiled machine
@PriyankaReddyrockz2 жыл бұрын
Hope so... I think we should be the change. Drive your own life and make ur own choices and decisions. Things will change automatically.
@tarungularia85942 жыл бұрын
Society already change if you talk about metropolitan city Moreover alot of different between female who have no kids(responsibility) and who having kids 🙂
@divyangimishra2612 Жыл бұрын
@@punitasinghal801 aye shut up
@carminarasal51108 ай бұрын
It heart so much there no words to say as a single mother people only jaj u😢😢😢😢
@serajahmad534811 ай бұрын
bitter truth ✴️
@kalolikadey2 жыл бұрын
"You are mother of a single child" Me-Wait wait I am not even a teenager🙂 But the video was really true...
@praveen1292 жыл бұрын
Watch this after marriage dear🤭🤭....just kidding yarr😁😁
@kalolikadey2 жыл бұрын
@@praveen129 😂but I am never gonna marry😂
@praveen1292 жыл бұрын
@@kalolikadey Hey yee ladki jut bol raha hai 😅😅
@kalolikadey2 жыл бұрын
@@praveen129 Nhii sach much main😅✨. I really don't wanna marry😌. My dream is that I wanna be successful in my life & then just live alone😌
@praveen1292 жыл бұрын
@@kalolikadey lekin parents nahi chodenge na🤭🤭😂😂.......Anyways I pray u will hit those success standards in a great way Dear 🤗🤗.....keep smile😁.Be happy😊 Never give up on u r goals #Nomatterwhat🎉
@sakshiarya65182 жыл бұрын
True🙏🙏🙏aatmsamman par laga thappad bina aawaj kiye bahut jor se lagta hai