Salamina & Howza Mosese Define Intimacy in Marriage | Homewrecker | DEFINING Intimacy

Salamina & Tshepo 'Howza' Mosese define intimacy in a marriage and unpack the different things that affect how they experience it! They also talk about their latest film, "Homewrecker", directed by Stephina Zwane with Enhle Mbali Mlotshwa & Letoya Makhene Pulumo leading the cast.
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[@DEFINING]

We're so happy that Salamina & Howza finally visited the channel 🥳! Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it and let us know what was your takeaway from this episode 😌#DEFININGIntimacy #RoadTo250K

[@wewemhlaba7593]

This episode was a reminder that it's not always rosey in marriages boundaries are still a thing even when married.Honesty is key express how you feel respectfully but most importantly healthy relationships exist and LOVE conquers all❤❤❤❤❤

[@zama1629]

❤❤

[@vusikhawula5686]

How can I be part of your podcast.. I got really good content

[@lungiletshabalala3255]

You are amazing. May God continue to bless you, Mosese's

[@liso_lethu]

Salamina is amazing at articulating herself and her emotions. She's a very intelligent woman ❤ this was beautiful to watch

[@michellemoreana1938]

Howza listens to her and does not interupt one bit and receive what she is saying I love that

[@andilengubane5178]

Yes

[@QhubekaniSibanda-ic4sc]

i love this couple .May god blsess them in this journey of their marriage

[@zwakelemathebula5525]

That’s what I picked up as well

[@MsMousy82]

I just wanted to comment on your reference to interruption, my partner listens but INTERUPTION, no he is up there have to remind him to wait for me to finish!

[@rorisangtsoeu253]

Howza is like Mature Mature....like he leads her Roll and just listens

[@_molebogeng6281]

Aowa they should be back to Define Love on a 2 hour segment. 15 years is a long time . May God continue to bless their union ❤❤🎉

[@MsMousy82]

This couple is legit GOALS! You can tell that their "communication intelligence" is up there.

[@wisanibaloyi6049]

❤

[@wewemhlaba7593]

Can we all agree that Defining is the best channel ever?Like the snippets of the movie in between the chats?World Class🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@sethembilegwamanda4819]

💯❤️❤️

[@nthabisengmakola28]

Now I can't wait to watch Homewrecker. It's giving Obsessed 🤌🏽

[@user-mp7ly7zr5q]

Yuuuupppp Really really loved that They picked fire scenes too❤

[@mpedi_mo]

I'm definitely subscribing after this..I loved it as soon as I started watching

[@nthabisengmakola28]

It's him sipping his water when his wife advised him to 😂❤ Their love is so pure. They inspire me and I hope to be in a union as loving and connected as this one

[@jobesithole5590]

It's actually possible Nthabiseng as Howza and Salamisa has shown us. All it takes is for both parties to put in the work. I find that women these days aren't willing to play their role. It's all about " Indoda must ". What about you as a woman ?

[@Tam974eva]

It is so nice to see a couple that includes spiritual intimacy in their love. "Spiritual intimacy can build emotional intimacy" is a beautiful concept.

[@nthabisengmakola28]

And the fact that the husband said it 🥺

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

@@nthabisengmakola28 You know riiiiiiight!!

[@friedashifotoka6556]

@@nthabisengmakola28right🥹🥹

[@thobilembuli8571]

These 2. PLUS Gail and Kabelo Mabalane? Top tier!

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

These two are OUR A-Listers....been following their love story since the beginning!!! Love to see them together

[@Roses_777]

I love how low key they are. Even forgot about them. I love how SOLID they are💖💖💖

[@nthabisengmakola28]

​@@Roses_777They are SOLID indeed!

[@noziphokhumalo2963]

Bona! The MVPs 🙌🙌🙌

[@highandmightyqueen79]

Salamina is a lucky women, what a sensible man 👌

[@bonniemanana8858]

Too much! I think it's my first time seeing them together and wow I love his mind.

[@glorious9446]

Well said 🙏🙏

[@leanolaone6431]

They are so unproblematic, all about their family & business. Wish them nothing but the best of what life has to offer❤❤

[@bloomingthoughts_]

It’s always great to hear from people in mature and long-term relationships. Great couple, you can see the friendship in their relationship 👌🏾❤

[@boitumelodibetso8719]

When they say marriage is work this is what they mean. You work through difficult conversations and life moments together. They are giving we go to couples therapy. What a healthy relationship ❤❤❤

[@Khululiwe2602]

A man who listens Lord. Sip your water and does just that. No questions asked but just trusts that she has his best intentions. It's always the little things for me.

[@ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297]

What a beautiful conversation from a beautiful couple. Yes, we don't pomp; we smash wena Howza🤣!!! I agree with Salamina that it is a mistake to compare and compete with men on the issue of casual sex. Access to your space and your body shouldn't be for everyone. Sometimes being old-fashioned about this is the best move for your soul. Thank you for this episode, Defining. More please!!!!

[@nthabisengmakola28]

It was good to hear that, that it's okay in this modern woman day to want to have sex with a person I connect with only and not casually

[@lihlelamradebe9998]

Please do Phumeza and Shota next please 🥺🥺🥺

[@andilemtimkulu1458]

Yes please

[@luthohlazo7431]

Pretty please

[@nthabisengmakola28]

OMG yesssss!

[@Silly_tilly809]

The way Hozwa looks at Salamina when she is answering questions. That is love right there.

[@lesh1986]

I still cant get over Howza with pink t-shirt with that body on scandal years back❤ black love,i can see so much respect between them.

[@paballomotloung6710]

I love the honesty behind Howza being overwhelmed when they had their child. Some couples don't recover from that. You can tell from the experiences you have had how much you both respect one another, it's inspiring i must say.

[@nthabisengmakola28]

That part neh! It's not just women who get affected by motherhood, in turn fatherhood and in all parenting affects a relationship. They worked through it beautifully 💛

[@paballomotloung6710]

@@nthabisengmakola28 that’s true. You’re right, We tend to neglect men’s feelings in the process. So that perspective helps a lot.

[@baatsebamashego334]

So true

[@luphelele]

Very mature love. So respectful, so honest, so realistic and relatable.

[@thabithabang7239]

I'm definitely watching this with my wife the day after we get married❤

[@philanonkelela9630]

Salamina ; Howza is a goated pair in South Africa. No couple comes close to them. It's been an interesting session I wish it was longer, I took lessons and I admired their frank stance. Salamina is a powerhouse abhuti Tshepo is from the rarest forms of creations. They are so humble, as someone who has noone to look up to I honestly look up to them. I envy those around them.

[@nthabisengmakola28]

They are a couple to definitely look up to ❤ He is rare indeed How they acknowledge that they're both empaths... agh

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Absolutely right babe

[@Roses_777]

I love how low key they've always been. THEY ARE SOLID!

[@believebecomedc3825]

The most drama free, simple and calm couple. My role models in love.

[@bule_mzazi2003]

they're so well-spoken🥺

[@Ripanzell]

"Valuing you is also respecting your boundaries"

[@asiphemjungula7109]

Love their matured love ☺️☺️☺️

[@rubyadams1338]

Such people should offer counsel, she is not trying to make us believe that he loves her. He does such a good job at that himself. Howza is needed ko men's conference

[@user-kg4qt8xv6h]

It's educational I'm actually learning, I'm currently in a beautiful relationship with my charismatic Mwezi Goniwe and I pray that even us too we make it to 9-15 years together.he is loving, supportive and spoiling.i on the other side give him all that I am , cherishing every single moment he's with me 😊🤭

[@nqobilezondi4314]

Omg i smiled 21mins and 21 secs 🙂☺😍 i love them so much

[@NyeziNkanyi]

Such a gracious couple. I love them ❤❤

[@nosihlematyeni7650]

"You have to know all your emotions to know who you truly are" -Howza, emphasis on emotional awareness. Again, one of the most beautiful episodes I have watched of Defining, thanks guys ❤

[@kabelothapedi9841]

This was more educational than ya'll think, thank you for this interview, I wish them more love, light and success in their marriage ❤

[@user-qt7pe9re3o]

Putting it out there that I hope for such a beautiful, truthful, raw, honest love like Howza and Salamina ❤ Love love this for them.

[@noxolomlotshwa7026]

"Complacency is an enemy"👌🏾👌🏾

[@vuyopangeni3969]

Beautiful couple, so mature respectful towards each other and they are spiritually connected. Love Howza adores his wife u can just see it, appreciates her and respects her. Love Salamina so sensual, present, real, gives her husband room to be a man in her life, she makes him her King. So beautiful guys ❤

[@tebellomokone2508]

I like how self aware they are of themselves and how aware they are of each other.

[@nthabisengmakola28]

Goals. Their individualism strengthens them as a pair

[@XoliTheCreative]

Oh man! What a beautiful couple! I can imagine how loving & warm their home is 🥹❤️

[@thandekadikane6188]

I appreciate how honest and genuine you both were especially when answering questions about your relationship. My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years now and I genuinely saw us in some of the answers you two gave. That helped me and inspired me as well. Thank you so much for this video❤.

[@lesediseemela9856]

The level of respect between these two is admirable. So polite and you can see the connection between the two. I've learned a lot from the way they answered the questions. So articulate. 👌🏾🔝

[@awelanisadiki7168]

When a relationship put God as a foundation...it goes a long way, we just have to agree. I loved the way Hawza answers the intimacy part, spiritual...alighining with God teaches us to tap on the rest of intimacy....woooow

[@wewemhlaba7593]

My favourite couple ever😍❤😊Can't wait for this.

[@ntokozotshabala8124]

The love, respect you guys have for each other😍😍😍Moreover the realness and honesty you have guys is what I think keeps you stronger and going further with this relationship. I so love you guys♥♥♥ you're a true reflection of how true love is without having to convince others that you love each other. Many more years to you guys - God bless your family😘

[@nomfundoqwabe6080]

I love this couple, they are very humble.And honestly I've learnt a lot from this episode.

[@hellothaphaswana7391]

Wow wow what a beautiful couple perfect match. I love them so much i wish my daughter can be in such relationship her mani really adore them❤❤🔥💥🔥💥🔥💋💋

[@botlhalemotlhala5633]

Loving how they are speaking their truth, no sugar coating😻 just telling it like it is. And the fact that they share a similar definition of intimacy which is mostly emotional and spiritual. You can clearly see that they really put in the work for this marriage❤.

[@nobuhlemasombuka3167]

This video has given me a lot of insight, my appreciation for the artistry of acting has really grown. Great video 💐💐💐💐

[@PhilisiweBZwane]

"Valuing you, is respecting your boundaries"

[@neothelejane7450]

Spiritual alignment teaches you how to tap into emotions 🔥🔥🔥🙌👑

[@Lawrencelebuso]

They remind me of Connie n Shona (may his soul rest in peace). The love n respect they show is second to nun. Overall great lessons to be learnt. They have grown as individuals and as partners❤

[@siphosethu222]

I remember the Lerumo character n thinking this is too much intimacy… anyways this video gave me hope , I was super depressed lying in bed all the time stopped doing my fav activities but after watching I even pick up the book I was reading n read a chapter .. this episode really worked for my soul, wonderful people . I’ve always loved the Mosese’s..❤

[@bhekimabaso1077]

What an enlightening conversation between these two lovebirds 😊

[@onkgopotseseleka8352]

These two people are my favourite hands down… they are so real.

[@LoveInMarriage]

Love these two. So happy they lasted so long. To many more years of LOVE IN MARRIAGE.

[@DEFINING]

Have you watched Homewrecker? 👀👀

[@anelesibanda5807]

Definitely going to now.

[@silondiwekhubone]

Yes, last night

[@sisterinisizulu_]

On my way there!

[@pearlmabanga7241]

Watched it, loved it!

[@XoliTheCreative]

Yesterday already!!!!!

[@accoucher0]

They’re so good❤️😊by far I feel defined “intimacy” so well❤️❤️

[@Lerato_Moeketsi.]

So amazing to witness these two amazing individuals give us insight about what intimacy in marriage is and how it has been for them, big ups to them as well as to Defining.❤

[@elsamarlyse8054]

Howza gave great examples... and loooooved that he took his time answering. Beautiful guys❤

[@katlegomhlauli8423]

Thank you Howza for reminding us that you can sing sing… took me back to that piano scene on Backstage when he sang John Legend’s Ordinary People I will never forget that 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 also beautiful love journey

[@tumelomothoa2860]

Love their authenticity ❤

[@khutjodiphofe2245]

I find the soul-tie thing interesting because Christians often say it although it has no scriptural basis. It seems to have been adopted from New Age beliefs.

[@khanyisilemkhize6355]

Ohhh yessss I love them, can't wait watch I know it's good

[@imlapams]

Such a beautiful couple, their love is a masterpiece that unfolds with every passing day. May their journey be filled with endless love, cherished memories, and a bond that only grows stronger with time.😍

[@MsNamzieMol]

I really enjoyed this episode… what a beautiful couple ❤️

[@sylvialesaoana4644]

I just got to love this couple even more. The level of respect and how she helps him say 'something' easy when he striggles to find a proper word. The level of honesty and support for me is a deal. God bless your family. You are definitely an inspitation. Tshepo loves his wife so much. Beautiful guys. Keep it up. I didnt think about homewrecker but because these 2, im definitely going to support them and watch. From a busy schedule, you are my break - go to couple movies.

[@iam_mmathoka]

Everytime i see Salamina Mosese I can't unhear her Intro on Abomzala " ke nna Ela wa ga Kekana ,ke thabela go le tseba " 😹😹 im happy Her and Howza finally made it to the channel, they are so beautiful ❤️❤️

[@zukiswamashicila]

You guys are great together.❤...i love you both and your love,may God continue to bless your union and its amazing how you have grown ,I used to watch Salamina as a child ,heyi kudala sabakho emhlabeni weNkosi...

[@Nthabee00]

Ugh man, i love these 2 so much 😍😍😍😍😍

[@thatomalebo5338]

Love the song he wrote for her. Didn't know he could sing so well. 🌻

[@mazazahngcamu4369]

Aggg man I love this two ❤❤ I was smiling watching this. Their love story warms my heart. May the good Lord keep them 🙏🏾

[@pinkymvuyana314]

There is so much more to the *on-screen love interest topic* which was not mentioned. I appreciate what you share. So genuine and honest. Love you both: God bless you

[@patiswavabaza2787]

Quite a refreshing and insightful episode by young couple. A couple who is very articulate authentic, in voicing their thoughts and feelings. May you continue to grow in your marriage, love and relationship.❤

[@athimapapu4367]

We waited for this in anticipation. Love these two!

[@kgomotsomabe]

Genuine couple, I love them so much and I pray God continues to bless them immensely ♥️.

[@ayandamokwana]

What a lovely combination. I wish them great success in their marriage and their careers!🎉

[@sibothezulu]

Love them ❤❤ Please also invite Tony and Sthandiwe Kgoroge 🥹🥹🥹🥹

[@Winterflowers1]

Omg yessss 😍😍

[@AK-LU]

Oh my word what genuine people, so rare ❤ love them

[@tselit7491]

BIG LOVE. Thank you, family!

[@zandibuckland1652]

They are still together 🫶🏽. God is good I’ve loved them from the moment I found out they were together ❤

[@nthabisengmakola28]

Me too! 🥰

[@tandiswamgudlwa779]

I thoroughly enjoyed the conversations. Love the couple even more. Thank you for coming and sharing abit of your life’s. I’m just inspired how you guys are besties, ntwanas … just loving the friendship and support ❤

[@umadumawangempela6098]

I love how these two do their relationship its so unique and loaded with respect I love you guys you are amazing

[@tshephomnguni-gw1jh]

One of my favorite celebrity couples...love how they model themselves...

[@Winterflowers1]

They're such couple goals, love them😍😍

[@nondumisobhila6887]

Thoroughly enjoyed watching this, so enlightening on how important it is to be self aware as individuals in marriage. Their Love is just too beautiful ❤

[@makonyanap9391]

Beautiful & Wholesome Defining of Intimacy Episode.🥰🙌🏾❤️❤️ Loved it. Well done Defining Team and the gracious couple 👏🏿

[@sindimbiba4865]

Oh woow how crazy is that i'm watching this video same day i watched "home wrecker"??...brilliant producer Salamina is.😍😍😍

[@Sive_Nyanda]

This type of love 😍🥹👏🏾 mature, filled with respect and humility, love it!

[@oyamamdleleni]

What a beautiful couple, one of those few you find in the entertainment space. I pray covering over them as individuals and as a couple. Salamina is a strong God fearing women, I love the matured level of intimacy they are at. Wish them all the best❤

[@asiveangel4940]

They are so authentic. I love them sm

[@harrymamabolo7994]

🙏🙏🙏 for a well thought and simply reminder of what a relationship is all about 👍😀

[@lynnmbambisa6973]

Watching this alone but tonight will watch again with my husband, love you Mr and Mrs M❤❤❤❤❤

[@nomfundohloele3112]

Love this couple. So admirable

[@rayawsum6292]

Beautiful and very informative for couples. They have stood the test of time in a hectic industry managed to sway the hurdles while growing in their marriage ❣️.

[@Ms-lb7lb]

Thank you Defining. This was wholesome, mature and just refreshing to hear from people who are thriving in love and life.

[@phizzy123]

Here after watching this amazing couple host The Ultimatum South Africa, had no idea I had seen Howza in the Homewrecker on Netflix already 😅 loved watching these two even as hosts!

[@tshidig]

Loved watching beautiful friends share their love story this way. You guys are the real deal and your journey is so genuine. Glad Defining got to share it with the world🙌🏾❤️

[@10khours]

Loved this instalment ❤

[@nomfundosammy2689]

Mmmm The last question yooh Salamina answered it so well thank you Guys ❤️

[@siphonkala3833]

So glad l came across ❤❤ Loved you guys from way back. You are just one in a million keep going ..