VLOG 27: Q&A WITH THE WIFE

[@tubefilmpkes]

when I look/listen to you both, all I see is unconditional LOVE!! I'm convinced it's about a soul connection; it doesn't really matter how you look on the outside. You just love eachother and go for it; really beautiful to see! Thanks for sharing!

[@SurferGirlAllAroundTheWorld]

Oh my god you have a KZbin! I’ve followed you for years but lost you along the way. I’m so glad I see you’re around and married! I’m here to stay now. 🥰💅

[@gueerk]

Cutest couple ever. Also "dysphoria is as real as cancer" hit me like a brick. So true. Thank you!

[@judyschutte1436]

Dankjewel voor dit mooie, warme inkijkje in jullie leven❤️ Wat een geweldig mooi stel zijn jullie! Met zoveel liefde komt het vast goed wat de toekomst ook zal brengen😘

[@valerievink1948]

Hey Sam, super toffe vlog 👌. "Champagne 🥂 on a rooftop"... Uit het leven gegrepen 😂. Heel fijn om te zien hoe gelukkig jullie samen zijn, en dat je transitie jullie nog hechter gemaakt heeft. Dikke merci aan Stef om uit haar comfortzone te komen 😘. Hopelijk tot binnenkort in Leuven ❤️

[@lisat9374]

This was awesome. Thank you Stef, for answering my question! OK, YES the server almost always gives the check to my wife (she has the short hair). No idea why. OK, some idea. Lol. Also, we both really related to Stef’s comment about having it better than straight couples. I was married to a man the first time, and I say that all the time. She & I are so much closer than my ex and I were. It seems that you two will always be close like that, though. Your basic spirit didn’t change. Thank you for this, it was fun! Cheers! 💜

[@billie3922]

You seem so relaxed and happy. I’m happy you are happy. Finding our other half must be one of the greatest joys in life. God bless you, Steph and Sam. I miss your music too! Big fan since the early 2000s. You’re a gem. 🏖 Peace.

[@billie3922]

I foegot to say: what a tan!

[@zoocjajo]

Thanks again for the super honest vlog! I'm pretty sure it is very enlightening for every couple to hear you guys talk! It absolutely is for me and my wife! Take care of each other. You are a dream team. Thanks. X

[@roosmarijnhoppe9050]

You guys are the best. It was so nice to see you being so happy. It was great to see you play with Rex Rebel in Amsterdam, like I said afterwards: I hope you felt the love. So much love for you and how you deal with being transgender! Keep up the good work! ❤️

[@christamarks824]

My short haired wife ALWAYS gets handed the bill and always asked first to sample a bottle of wine!

[@MaaikieW]

Jullie champagne, ik een wijntje. Wat een heerlijk stel mensen zijn jullie! Heb genoten van deze blog. Proost! Op de liefde!

[@mariannek2u]

Thanks for answering my question ! This was such a fun vlog...even though i wasnt sipping champagne but tea 😂 hope you got of the roof safe. Oh and Stef you were awesome 🍸🍸

[@entre91nous]

Super hoe openlijk jullie de vragen hebben beantwoord. Respect. I appreciate you both too!

[@lydocia]

A lot of people like to say that they would be as supportive as Stef if their partner came out as trans, but I think very few would actually pull through the way you have. You two are great together, it's hilarious to me how you're, like, "okay Sam, you can be a dude but then you'll take out the trash" and that's the most of it. :-)

[@nubitadeprimavera9017]

Nice to see you have almost like a casual chat together, tnks for answering the question ❤️

[@Jod3lay]

That was fun!! What a great couple you are ❤️

[@JF-mu5bw]

Sam, your wife is amazing!

[@liamvandevelde8373]

Hi Sam, first of all, I have to say that you have a beautiful wife and kids (saw you in the tv show: "Groeten uit 19XX on VTM). Its nice to hear that for your wife nothing much has changed, esp in your relationship cause I know alot of transpeople who's partner couldn't cope with the change and split up. Its heartwarming to hear that your wife enjoyes it when you enjoy other people speaking to you as a man and recognizing you as one. You are becoming your true authentic self and that on itself makes you happier. I experience the same thing ;-). LOLL....you drink champagne when i'm out of town?...oeps busted!! ;-). Thanks to you and your wife! Have a great day ya'll! greetz from Belgium! x

[@casbia]

Mooi dat Stef vragen wilde beantwoorden. Dank voor de openheid.

[@lisacahill-muller1432]

Thank you so much to both of you. Your video made me smile and look more positive to the future. Much love ❤

[@jtarrant74]

Great V-Log! As a lesbian couple, my wife and I both have the butch-ish hairstyles, but I usually get the bill when we go out to eat, as the more manly of the two. I am also the taker-outer of the trash and the heavy lifter of things.

[@heatherbenson4071]

I’m the femme in my marriage, and I always get handed the bill, wth? My Wife thinks it’s funny. I guess I just look more authoritative. Lol

[@felixeef]

Wat leuk om jullie zo gezellig te zien kletsen, en wat zijn jullie een fijn stel samen! Superleuk dit..!😊👍🏻♥️

[@theaandthemugs]

Thanks to you 2 for this interesting V-log, and congrats to Sam and the band for the release! PS: my favourite song on the album is "Run", I find it very beautiful and original.

[@praalgraf]

loving this! very jealous of that weather from a gloomy netherlands!

[@agnesrosalinde]

Nice to see and hear your wife. Good q+a. Sam your shoulders are big!

[@janohdegroot989]

Nice to see you both together. Love the interaction.. I would suggest you make every v-log together from now on 😊..

[@JootjeJ]

My gentle long haired husband and I are in a cis marriage, with me having short hair and always wearing trousers, mostly with a pair of dr. Martens boots. Funnily enough even as a woman I'm the one who usually gets the bill. I always assumed it was because I appear more butch. Never thought it was about the hair. 🤣

[@rachelrotterdam2242]

Toffff dat jullie mijn vraag hebben beantwoord! tijd: 18:12Thanks to both! How cool is it that your transition made you closer! Jullie zien er top uit samen! And you answer about who pays the bills...mostly the more "manly" female gets the bill! Lol!

[@heatherbenson4071]

I got to hang out with Stef at the Viper Room once ages ago and talk with her, and I really like her laid back and chill demeanor. She was very kind to me. I’ve been a complete supporter and advocate for my trans brothers and sisters, and I have many trans friends. Sam’s transition is the only one that I have ever struggled with. Not because I don’t support him, because of course I do, 110%! He deserves, as all trans friends do, to live his truth and be who he is. It’s so hard to explain, but I have loved Sarah for soooo many years, and have traveled so many places to see her, and she was always so kind to a big crazy fan like me every time I met her. I’ve even shed tears over this. I truly support Sam and I know he is still the same soul. But it hurts in a way because it kind of feels like someone I’ve loved for so long is gone. I doubt this is making any sense because I’m struggling to explain and I don’t even know if anyone is reading this. It feels like Sarah is gone, and it hurts- even though I clearly understand, it’s just how I feel. I hope to one day meet Sam and Stef again and get the chance to talk with them. I feel like that will help me alot. I wish them both nothing but happiness ❤️

[@perfectflaw75]

I enjoyed the Q&A. Thanks for sharing! Pre T I was usually presented with the bill, but also whenever my gf ordered beer the waiter would put it in front of me (I don't drink beer, but I like a smooth whiskey). The latter hasn't changed.

[@tamaradijkstra-liplijn6899]

Hele mooie vlog❤ Dank je wel voor jullie openhartigheid.

[@maroesjes]

Loved it and love you guys! 🤗

[@bluesteens]

Love the chemistry between you. On the question of whether hair length decides who gets the bill in a straight couple where both have long hair: He usually gets the bill. I reckon they go by facial hair. Beard wins! 😆

[@vikicha13]

Hi Sam, I love your music from the beginning. I am a masculine gay woman, most of the time with long hair. I've noticed during the years, that I alywas get the Bill if I am with women on the table. Sometimes I would get it even if a man is there. It's always been funny to me WHY.. It seems I present as some wealthy type of person which cant be True, as I am always the shabbiest, shady looking figure around my friends. But yeah, I take the Bill, and of course dont pay it all. 😁

[@ritalauryssen6750]

Sam you have so beautiful wife. Enjoy from your day and have fun you two 👍👍👍❤ love is all what you need in your live .

[@MusicFlowLofi]

you guys are so sweet, support

[@chantalvanginneken7098]

Thank you, thank you for doing this. You both shine.........and the bill is a thing we've got both short hair so they can choose who is more a guy that day😁, but yes are you twin, are you sisters, who is the man. But we don't care, We Are/I Am🤘🏻🤘🏻

[@rhogancamp111]

Love you guys! ❤️

[@LilithsOwn303]

9:26 - 27 There was a slip of the tongue... "this is Sarah".... ;)

[@Jen1981]

Beautiful couple! Happy for you!

[@evelynedepoorter3850]

Dat was een fijne vlog, mooi koppel zijn jullie. Groetjes en rex rebel is chique!!! Proficiat. 🙏Namaste greets from belguim Evelyne Depoorter.

[@mythirdchannel]

I can see why you're together

[@rachelrotterdam2242]

By the way.....Ik kom 15 september naar California, eerst aan Francisco, hopelijk auto huren om naar l.a te rijden om vervolgens naar las Vegas te rijden en dan naar huis. Is het mogelijk... eventueel tussenstop bij jullie...bakkie doen zoals wij in Rotterdam zeggen?!

[@meta4282]

72730 Homestead rd, I know the people who lived there before. I lived in the same street. There was a killing in that house. The man shot and killed an intruder in his bedroom.

[@jrx545]

Well when we go to the restaurant the waiters usually put the bill in he middle of the table. When we are renting properties or doing administration stuff people are addressing me usually I don't have shorter hair than my wife but I am taller thought 🤣

[@mandyferwerda]

❤❤

[@robertvanpiggelen4625]

respect

[@cateelisabethlsn6400]

Straight- whatever that means - Trans - whatever that means

[@Leeuwtje1979]

A loving couple ♥♥

[@spaceforthesoul6286]

(I am looking at the perfect white cloud to see if a text appears like in a cartoon)

[@Caroline-ww4gj]

💜🧡💚

[@peterdecat9847]

Hey Sam! Misschien ken ik je "spreekstem" hiervoor niet goed genoeg, misschien is het "wishful thinking" of misschien ben je gewoon een beetje verkouden , maar tijdens deze vlog heb ik me spontaan op verschillende momenten afgevraagd of je stem niet merkbaar aan het verlagen is. Je klinkt precies toch een beetje schor zoals bij een jongeman in zijn puberteit. Heb je de laatste tijd nog filmpjes van nu vergeleken met filmpjes van vroeger? Heb je bijvoorbeeld als eens een stukje tekst vanuit vlog 1 nu terug ingesproken en de twee opnames na elkaar afgespeeld? Misschien hoor je 0 effect, maar ik vraag het me gewoon af... *dikke knuffel*

[@SamBettens557]

Peter De Cat ik ga eens vergelijken! Bedankt x

[@esthertenhave6107]

😍😍

[@zeepostable]

Please take your sun glasses off!! It's like, I'm on KZbin, I'm showing myself / I'm not showing myself / I'm.... We want to see you 😉

[@miekevanreeth8624]

En wat zie je er goed uit in zo’n ‘marcelleke’ ! (Jullie allebei trouwens🤪)

[@MissBelgique]

Not sure about the short hair getting the bill, people still just look awfully confused about what to do altogether with how to "treat" us... 😁🙄😬 #its2022hello

[@salandersalgado4038]

Ruined Friends song...