Sandoval Thinks Ariana's Anger is "Performative" | Vanderpump Rules After Show S11 E1 Part 1 | Bravo

On season 11 episode 1 of Vanderpump Rules After Show, Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix recall their experiences living together after the breakup, including "cringey" mail sent from Tom when he was "in love". Watch full episodes streaming on Peacock.
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As a mentor and confidant to the group, Lisa is working to restore some peace between two feuding exes as she attempts to provide perspective. Lisa is refocusing her expertise on opening a new restaurant in Lake Tahoe and continuing her success with additional ventures in Las Vegas.
Ariana’s life was turned upside down after a devastating breakup, but she’s determined to make the best of a difficult situation. Although she still shares a home with her ex, Ariana is moving on and dating a new long-distance boyfriend. While working to open the doors to her and Katie’s sandwich shop, Something About Her, Ariana is embracing the countless opportunities that have come her way.
Recently proclaimed #1 guy in the group, James’ friendships within the circle are stronger than ever and his DJ career is booming. He bought a house in the Valley and is settling into suburban life with his girlfriend, Ally Lewber, along with their cat and a dog from James’ past.
With more distance from her divorce, Katie is exploring life as a single woman and dating, even if her pursuits strike too close to home for her ex-husband, Tom. A previous indiscretion comes to light and threatens to upend her and Scheana’s renewed friendship as well as her cordial post-divorce relationship with Tom.
Lala is still in the midst of a challenging custody battle, but being the best mom to Ocean remains her priority. Lala explores fertility treatments and looks for a sperm donor as a single mother. She finds an unlikely connection with Tom Schwartz, forming a friendship that neither saw coming, but creating tension between her and the rest of the girls as her forgiveness for the Toms grows.
Celebrating their one-year wedding anniversary, Scheana and husband Brock are struggling to connect as they leave the honeymoon stage and settle into their life with a toddler. Scheana works on new music as a way to express herself. She finds herself straddling the lines in the sand within the group as she navigates her relationships with her longtime friends, and feuding exes, Ariana and Tom.
In the aftermath of a scandal that changed his romantic relationships, dynamics within the group and the success of his businesses, Sandoval is working on bettering himself. In a fragile state, he focuses on repairing the foundations of his friendships. When he isn’t on the road touring with his band, Tom Sandoval and the Most Extras, he and Ariana live under the same roof ... locked in a stalemate for the house.
Tom is mending a challenged friendship after taking the heat for his part in his best friend’s shocking deception. Embracing a new identity, Tom bleaches his hair, evades exclusivity with a friend-potentially-turned-girlfriend, and winds up in a surprising love triangle with a new flame and his ex-wife.
Cast:
Lisa Vanderpump
Ariana Madix
James Kennedy
Katie Maloney
Lala Kent
Scheana Shay
Tom Schwartz
Tom Sandoval
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00:00 Tom Schwartz Reacts To Ariana Madix's Text
04:41 Tom Sandoval On Living With Ariana Madix
07:48 Ariana Madix Explains A "Cringey" Gift Tom Sandoval Sent

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[@MA1.5]

I know Sandoval is not saying Ariana’s anger is performative after the way he cried to Lisa Vanderpump last season.

[@MzEbbyFrost]

Exactly 😂

[@sassyQueen-cr5dq]

You mean his acting he did at her house. As Ariana said when they were by themselves he was blaming her for everything and chucking stuff at her. Yep thats sandoval true colors nasty on the inside and outside.

[@simonepeterson3301]

😂😂😂😂

[@josannedv2570]

After what he trained rachel to do at the reunion, to lie....., who is performative

[@sh4dylol]

“Cried” lmaoooo that scene was so cringey I couldn’t help but laugh as he rested his forehead on LVP’s doorframe and dry heaved on 2x speed☠️☠️☠️

[@tenormartin277]

Sandoval being angry at Ariana will never stop being disgusting to me. He really only got away with this crap with Kristen because she was so reactive and impulsive so she looked unhinged.

[@tenormartin277]

Also “she REALLY didn’t think I was a serial killer. So she couldn’t have felt that bad.” Is a wild position to take.

[@tatianaroveda]

OMG- Me too! He is SO disgusting! He has NO remorse for an affair that lasted almost a year! And blames her! He is the biggest fraud- and he is garbage. Human garbage.

[@Reed.E]

Did Sandoval really blame Ariana for not bringing up HIS mental health onto the show? 😂😂 Like, dude, you know, that's, like your, you know, story, like, to tell.

[@HRaeN]

He has new excuses every time he opens his mouth.

[@A_O_Leary]

No he doesn’t understand that, he used Ariana mental health and claimed she was suicidal as a reason he couldn’t breakup with her. He’s actually mad Ariana respects his mental health because he doesn’t respect her privacy or mental health.

[@Ash.Crow.Goddess]

Great impression!

[@Soverakera]

That’s not what he said though.

[@viennabarretta6584]

i don’t believe for a damn second anyone came up to sandoval and gave him a hug 😂😂

[@kandykaye9981]

Maybe you never needed to be shown mercy. Tom showed mercy to most of the cast in past seasons and I don’t know how no one was worried about him being suicidal. I would’ve given him a motherly hug. Definitely.

[@lizdahl847]

Yes. There are kind people in this world who have compassion and forgiveness in their hearts. So believe it. Tom received alot of hugs!!

[@angelahenjum2277]

He legit told Jax to have respect and move out when he cheated on Brittany but had had no respect or taken any of his own advice

[@Eamon2Please412]

Pay close attention to Schwartz disassociating when Sandoval talks shit about Ariana. He knows what he’s saying is fucked up and is just digging the hole deeper

[@TheFedoras93]

I know I kinda felt bad for him like in the Nick Viall interview he looked the same

[@jjsmakeupobsession323]

Schwartz knew about the affair from beginning to end, he is very passive aggressive, and deserves what he gets. Unfortunately in this life everything you put out there comes back to you times ten. Karma is a bi#@%, lol.

[@natashab3412]

​@@jjsmakeupobsession323absolutely. I think he welcomed it in fact. Recently calling her " the Patron Saint of scorned women " w t a f. I think he might be worse ( if thats possible) ~ two toms terminal teenagers. These ARE NOT grown men ,mentally . I never fell for his schtick. The way he treated his wife was incredibly telling

[@nomadichomebody4230]

He's tired of being Sandoval's PR

[@dianecraig2953]

Schwartz is a good guy. Just because he's nonconfrontational doesn't mean he's a villain. If everyone in this world was confrontational, wars would be the norm. All personalities add to the way the world turns. Be nice folks

[@justjen4988]

Sandoval is 100% driven by his ego and can't gaslight the cast anymore, except Schwartz, he still manipulates him.

[@katkoz6683]

I think these people that are actually 40 plus years old should actually act like they are 40 years old. Growing up getting over it Sandoval didn't really do anything that bad it's part of life believe it or not. I've been through this twice, never took it out on that person ever I took 50% of the blame. Ariana acts like she's god or something, that makes me sick! Now how long has it been. Over a year? You know this cast doesn't live in the real world! I do love la la she is so real

[@intheknowglow]

I hope Rachel sues Tom or presses charges for filming her without her consent. The way he speaks about her "I don't know what she was thinking..." as though he didn't commit a crime or skip Ariana's grandmother's funeral to sleep with her in his and Ariana's home. What was he thinking besides "I love lamp".

[@kieronphagoodejesus1014]

She won't sue him, she knew what he what kind of turd he was. Open relationships doesn't have secrets

[@naufhijazi8980]

Hahahahah I love lamp is perfect

[@makathanassiou8415]

This aged well

[@kellypalmer7052]

Still wearing the lightening bolt necklace 😂oh come on lol

[@ericascharf8711]

Sandoval wants credit for learning how to write a letter at 40? Lmao

[@partlycloudy3519]

Katie is the one true friend and I hope Arianna can see that

[@claudia320]

She’s such a mean girl. Like every season and I used to like her

[@mikeyteladoo5230]

I totally agree!!!! Katie is underrated tbh to me and she is soooo glowing now! Dropped dead weight

[@hunterandolive2693]

Anyone calling Katie a mean girl is just proving themselves to be shitty people. No one could think that unless they would be one of the shitty humans on the receiving end. And that's all I need to know about you. Guess what? I'm also mean to people who suck. And I always will be. Are you one of the sucky people?@@claudia320

[@dygall4128]

Both of these girls drop the deadweight, a.k.a. the two Tom’s!

[@samariathornton9110]

Scheana has always had Ariana’s back. Shes the one who dealt with a restraining order from Raquel because she hit her once she found out about the affair. Katie has only recently started being a real friend to Ariana and she’s always been a very vindictive, mean person.

[@Flyyyy453]

Tom Sandoval: Always the perpetual victim

[@ah3738]

Its so gross isn't it. He is awful

[@courtneylynn9339]

“My mental health was never talked about… she knew i was struggling” aw poor tom so go fuck rachel that will fix everything!! Bozo

[@mac0219]

Classic narcissist

[@DyanLorenz]

I can't even watch Sandoval, lying POS

[@kf5034]

Everything Tom says and does is performative

[@Andre2012ish]

Sorry Tom your Nick Viall’s interview came out… You’re time’s up, fully! 😂

[@intheknowglow]

Yeah if he can't afford to live somewhere else then how has he made Ariana a cash offer for the house? Has he at least paid back his Mom with his 'Special Forces' wages?

[@KL-je4ye]

The Toms have such a toxic relationship. I don’t care how long they have been friends. Schwartz needs to cut ties and get therapy.

[@coleycoles]

Do people not understand that this was filmed right after season ten aired? Ariana didn’t film this last week. She was allowed to be angry.

[@bbgrl95_]

Thank you!!!!

[@nastassiasmith4786]

No shyt😂😂😂😂

[@Diamond-eq2xj]

Even if it wasnt its not up to anyone to give anyone else a time limit on grief or getting over something. Everyone is different and allowed to process things as they please.

[@hunterandolive2693]

Well, actually, this commentary was filmed recently. Are you talking about season 11? Yes, that was filmed right after scandoval happened.

[@Diamond-eq2xj]

@@hunterandolive2693 who cares? Have someone screw you over in that way im sure it will take much longer to heal. She can process being betrayed as she pleases for however long she pleases

[@elanorwilde8036]

“I don’t even send my mom birthday cards” what an amazing defence Sandoval 🤦🏻

[@AllyKit]

That speaks volumes on how he views women. Even the one who birthed him. Yet he was not-so-secretly sending candy to his mistress. That did it! We're now convinced you're a great guy!! He just keeps digging the hole deeper and deeper 🙄

[@katealison6087]

Tom Sandoval's whole life is performative! How ironic that he uses that word. Narcissists have multiple false selves to ensure they get the "supply" they need no matter which audience they're in front of. This is what we're seeing more of right now as he attempts to "rebrand." The calmer, quieter Tom is just another performance, designed to save his career bacon.

[@devothedev]

On Raquel/Rachel's podcast she says Tom told her to send letters to the house after Schwartz stopped allowing them to go to his apartment

[@itscmznews180]

Everything is someone else’s fault to Rachel.

[@annikinz491]

This is the same question I had… I was confused lol

[@daisyslovebot]

@@itscmznews180how would this be her fault?

[@aircreed]

​@daisyslovebot why would anyone want to send a letter or postcard to the home of the friend they betrayed for that friends significant other, even it is an ex? 😅

[@KL-je4ye]

@@daisyslovebot because she sent love letters to the house knowing Ariana would see them. Just because he told her to she should have known better by now

[@14ikan11]

Sandy, you're performative.

[@weenfain2321]

These people are in their 30’a and even 40’s. Let that sink in.

[@jjsmakeupobsession323]

Brahaha, I agree 100%

[@simonepeterson3301]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@bloom4807]

I have seen worse. My family for example, all people past 50, acting like children.

[@marileorube24]

So? Majority of their core audience is around the same age.

[@JazDelilah]

@@marileorube24I believe the majority of VPR's core audience is in their 20s and 30s, not 30s and 40s

[@autumncortez6254]

Sandoval is wearing the lightening necklace. And he knows what that means. 😮

[@jakestroll6518]

He’s a very pretty human. Everytime I start to feel sorry for him he does a stupid thing like this.

[@kimberleighe_anne]

Oh Jesus it's a stupid necklace I highly doubt he goes oh yeah I'm putting this bad boy on to throw it in her face" lol I think he's angry with her pettiness. Reasonably so especially over ten months after the scandal. She's apparently moved on and so happy with this new guy so why is she still so on it .. oh maybe cause she wants to keep the game and light on herself.

[@Ibimpjexoxo]

@@kimberleighe_anneare you secretly Tom?

[@kimberleighe_anne]

@Ibimpjexoxo lmao no just not a child. I highly doubt he thinks about ways to.hurt her. She moved on so it's time people do too. Get over it.

[@rainm7577]

@@kimberleighe_annebc it’s her job…that’s what the season is starting out talking about. It’s only been 3 months on the show since the reunion.

[@krnstc]

I don't know which Tom is more deluded

[@shannonhabor]

Thank you

[@shannonhabor]

Ya u were in love looser with yourself😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤮🙈

[@goodcitizen3027]

Hard to choose for sure

[@irishsphynx]

“Every time you said nice things it really had a positive effect on me” Oh Christ Tom you are pathetic

[@cntsingbutigtsol]

Is sandoval serious with this commentary?! 😶

[@K1PPAH]

All this time has passed and neither Tom has matured or even learned anything from all this. 40 year old man babies

[@mollyjoy6677]

“I’ve never even sent my Mum birthday cards. They stress me out.” This person I cannot deeeeeeal!

[@AllyKit]

Seriously. How does it stress you out to make a trip to CVS and stamp a card for the woman who BIRTHED you??" This just proves he is a selfish human being. I wish my mother was still on this earth but he can't send his a card? Wow.Just Wow. I bet he blames her for his crappy life somehow. He has zero respect.

[@pamorama]

So Sandoval causes havoc and chaos and all he can say on here is that people weren’t caring about his mental health? I mean his narcissism is so pervasive. He is so good at making himself unlikable.

[@CreoleVooDoo]

What’s weird is why do they still have paintings of them as a couple on the wall? 🤔

[@mariahrocks19]

I saw people on Reddit saying either party is probably scared of ruining/throwing away anything in the house that might cause the other to get the house. If that makes sense?

[@margaritamach7408]

Why would they want to look at it everyday?...yuck 😂

[@CreoleVooDoo]

@@margaritamach7408 my thoughts exactly 😆

[@julieperry7388]

Who the fuck cares?? Why does it matter at all?

[@SandyWoodress]

Sandoval accusing Ariana of being “performative” is all the proof anyone needs that this man has zero self awareness! After his full blown breakdown at LVP’s when he realized she was not going to go soft on him! He stood up when she walked in and he said, “hi Lisa. Thanks for seeing me” and her expression said it all, but when she said, “I don’t feel it’s a hug worthy moment” he knew she wasn’t going to go easy on him. After she told him Ariana had already been there, he tried to make excuses about her trust issues and anger and surprisingly, Lisa held his feet to the fire! “Well what do you think she’s going to have now. You were sleeping with one of her best friends” You could see his wheels spinning & knowing Lisa wasn’t buying his excuses, so in true manipulator fashion, he changed gears and said he didn’t know if he would ever get the chance to ever have a conversation with Ariana when she’s not SO angry, and I don’t know if I’ll get that chance, which kills me… And starts sobbing. He only moved to the window after he realized Lisa wasn’t going to comfort him. Instead, she told him to take a moment 😂 so after he’s in full blown hyperventilation “oh God, oh God! Like 15 times, Lisa caves, rubs his back and says, I know. It’s all been too much. It’s going to get better. Mission accomplished!! He suddenly stops crying and he’s talking normally again. But Ariana is performative!! Got it!!

[@thot_topic]

i'm convinced no one could ever get through to tom and make him ever see any sort of reason when he truly thinks he's god's gift to earth for writing a letter

[@goodcitizen3027]

No this guy is going to die alone.

[@Missl.a.2023]

Performative is him talking about making fairy princess gift boxes with glitter. He’s a classic narc and he detests Ariana because the absolute worst has happened to him - his supply didn’t shrivel up she shone and that merely reinforces his fragile ego and deep sense of self loathing. Narcs cannot stand their partners moving on & being amazing it’s their worst nightmare. He’s still trying to compete with her and he will try his utmost to make her look like the villain. He cannot leave it alone. As for feeling safe she put a lock on the door and I dare say she probably had a security setup. I would.

[@howdyclowdy]

I genuinely didn't think I could dislike the Toms more but here I am

[@Esther-32013]

He’s really embracing the role of villain 😂

[@savanna2dope]

Legit hope all the women in the comments that are saying Ariana is overreacting after a couple months after this happened has a bff that screws their man. I’m sure they’ll get over it, then sale their 1 million dollar home that’s building tremendous equity off to their man so he can prosper. Hehe

[@MCterribleT]

Chile they all have cheated on someone on this show and it was filmed 😂😂

[@melissadiamond8029]

She is she loved Tom & was all in with him. Now she's just being a bitter troll. Girl get over yourself and move on already 😂

[@MCterribleT]

​@@melissadiamond8029it's comical that she expected him to move out of a house he was paying all the bills in woman are something else 😂😂

[@melissadiamond8029]

@@MCterribleT She's only there to prove a point & to make Tom uncomfortable bc she's holding onto the nonsense. Just how Katie expected Tom, to not date soon after their seperation/divorce. Meanwhile, she was getting banged and would've told Tom to mind his business, if he told her to wait

[@nylal493]

THIS. Telling someone to get over getting cheating on by their boyfriend of 9 years after only a few months is INSANE.

[@bizzy1586]

The more you allow Sandoval to talk, the more of a hole he digs for himself.

[@twinmothz]

Now I understand why he was such good friends with Jax; they’re both narcissists.

[@samariathornton9110]

@@twinmothz it’s hilarious how he would try and claim moral superiority over Jax and his infidelities when he’s the same type of person, just a much better liar and pretender.

[@bizzy1586]

@@samariathornton9110 Yes Yes Yes.

[@bizzy1586]

@@twinmothz very much so.

[@stephaniesaare2754]

Katie has always drove me crazy too...but I think in real life she's the only one I'd be actual friends with

[@samariathornton9110]

Shes gotten better, but I just can’t like her because of how mean and verbally abusive she’s been towards others in the past. Plus, she’s always been a mean girl and a bully especially to Scheana.

[@manihatechu]

i find that skipping the 2 tom's parts makes this 100% better.

[@frescazzz7536]

Sandoval still shows no remorse. Blech 🤮 Yuck. Move out dude. Let her buy you out.

[@amandaboulet5515]

Katie looks amazing this season! She seems much lighter and happier too. Less moodier. Divorce looks good on Katie!

[@JS-hn5ld]

She looks angry and dresses like a man.

[@KK-dx6qi]

Rachel already called this out, he is straight up lying still

[@SoulSpaUniversity]

I wonder if they’re ever going to explain the fallout between Raquel & Tom….in terms of why it ended … Also, Tom Schwartz’s face through the last 75% of this I feel so bad , his “stuck between a rock and a hard place” face lol

[@intheknowglow]

Well he recorded her without consent so if any for her mental health treatment has worked remaining with someone who betrayed you physically, emotionally and legally can't go hand in hand with improved mental health.

[@zitarush9568]

I think that is the whole plot of this season…nothing else to discuss at this point

[@nylal493]

What I’ve gathered from Raquel’s podcast- she realized how manipulative and toxic Tom was to her while away at her therapy program and cut him off when she got home.

[@user-qv3ux1wn5o]

She went to therapy and woke up to the fact that she was in a toxic relationship with a monster

[@kelseywillow8110]

It’s better to listen to Rachel’s podcast to hear those details, Tom is not going to tell the full story

[@spencerallegra]

I cannot believe there are people who are team Sandoval. What the hell do you see in that creature??? Everything about him gives me hives.

[@tomikamurry659]

He cheated, that’s doesn’t make him evil. Billions of ppl cheat, not cool but they shouldn’t burn in hell. Y’all too much

[@limeebri]

@@tomikamurry659 It goes beyond cheating. His character, self-awareness/accountability, and IQ are no where to be found.

[@tomikamurry659]

@@limeebri no one thought that in beginning. Just get over it. He didn’t cheat on you

[@limeebri]

@@tomikamurry659 No one? I haven't liked that slimeball since the start. He did not cheat on me, correct.

[@tomikamurry659]

@@limeebri so you hate him? Like is he doing something to you? Smoke a blunt

[@ragamusic4182]

Katie looks sooooooo good in this interview

[@robertterhune5315]

Good for what?

[@jacqueline-11]

Katie’s face is sooo beautiful!

[@marieneu264]

4:15 him doing something he might regret? He’s shown zero real remorse. He didn’t seem upset or dangerous to himself at any point in any interview or podcast.

[@heatherwilbourn4626]

The facts are, they all cheat, or have at one time. Its not like he physically harmed anyone. Ariana has always made it clear their relationship was a business deal. They were tied up finacially.

[@maggieyoung8090]

She didn’t make it clear that her realty was a business deal! C’mon man. Your life partner means you make plans to live, respect & mutually but a house & make financial moves. That’s what you do as life partners. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@LisaRumler8427]

Why did Tom and Tom never get a place together?

[@kieronphagoodejesus1014]

They did a place together in the beginning but I'm sure the Schwartz kind of wants to distance himself

[@BM0S]

Bills need to be paid

[@roselacerda7080]

His mental health...you got to be kidding...😳🥴

[@johnpinegar8027]

Ariana hasn't been innocent and neither has Tom but damn people need to pay more attention at what has happened on the show over the years before they want to just put everything on Sandoval.

[@TheCameronHarper]

He is SICK to believe she is being smart about her real estate decisions, because she is afraid to be alone?!?!

[@ELSITAFERNANDEZ]

The mess in her room 😮

[@sylviatremblay7190]

The mess everywhere all the time. Don't they know there is cameras there!!

[@susanmcmillan6130]

Jesus, someone may have to look for Shwartz's eyes, he rolls them so hard when Scumdoval talks shit about Ari, they may have left the country

[@catherinecalvert7742]

He hasn't changed a bit Watch the podcast Viall files yesterday he showed up late dirty and high He blames everyone but himself

[@frescazzz7536]

Love Ariana’s whole look here.

[@lizdahl847]

On the other hand. Katie looks ridiculous in her black night gown😮

[@walkwithrach22]

Rolled out of bed...pj's and greasy hair

[@mesepareed9819]

Hot Take: All of their relationships were built on sand and when they fall apart they’re destroyed as if they weren’t all cheating from the beginning.. what’d you think was gonna happen. Ariana as well, you really thought you were gonna grow old together 😳😳🤷🏽‍♂️

[@kathyformelio6637]

Arianna I think Tom did you s favor Sweetheart you had all that hidden talent you where sitting on now look at ya Go girl keep up the excellent work and continue with your career..

[@mickeyandres2651]

Ariana is riding this for all she’s worth, the crash she’s headed towards is so deserving. If she really wanted to leave, she would!

[@LINLYN81]

Why is the crash deserving? Did she sleep with another person and gaslight Tom for 7 months? Tom knew what he what he was doing an deserves every bit of vitriol she is throwing his way.

[@kelseywillow8110]

Tom asked Rachel to send it to his address instead of Schwartz . The assistant was supposed to get it. This was already discussed on her podcast.

[@jasminesmikle8306]

bravo editors are reaaaading sandostinky left and right and I'm here for it

[@lipkin108]

So ariana had no idea what was going on or wondered why Raquel was with Tom during Christmas 2022? Like was she that trusting?

[@user-jv6pj8vk6b]

She knew.

[@danarodgers6432]

Willful blindness

[@Michelle-Williams-Melbournite]

Brilliant edit . All sides r heard. This story line Is Beyond ! Like Crazy stuff we all experience as Adults. Thanks Bravo

[@Faithchick]

I think all of them deserve each other.

[@lonaji6205]

The stock for both Toms has plummeted. Loved them both and now they are the most cringe men on Bravo.

[@Cherrygirl12]

Don’t tell me he’s still wearing ⚡️this guy 😂

[@docidemidome]

these people are my favorite astrology case studies 🤣

[@clareconnor9081]

How are you almost 50 and sending a birthday card is stressful? He's a child

[@kelseywillow8110]

Lala calling Rachel, at some point VPR needs to leave Rachel alone or pay her for being part of the show. She’s got her own podcast telling the full story, why still listen to Tom.

[@basil5880]

I agree! When Lala first said she called Rachel she made it sound like it was out of true concern. She didn't mention she did it while filming! That changes the whole thing! It was strictly for the show! What if Rachel would have picked up not knowing they were filming, that's just wrong!

[@georgieklotz7066]

Honestly Lala, I know you don't mean any harm but you reaching out to Rachel is a really bad look. Especially because as Ariana said, if it were her reaching out to Randall's mistress you would go nuts. This makes you look desperate for attention and desperate to be the main character.

[@teza2922]

I think Schwartz has a good heart. I know many people who do many questionable things to help their best friends. Maybe Schwartz also doesn't have that many close friends like Sandoval. I hope he learns his own worth and finds a friendship that is more balanced than toxic.

[@kieronphagoodejesus1014]

CSL

[@teza2922]

@@kieronphagoodejesus1014 What does that mean ?

[@kieronphagoodejesus1014]

@@teza2922 can't stop laughing

[@teza2922]

@@kieronphagoodejesus1014 GFY

[@mickeyandres2651]

Ariana was Rachel when Tom was with Kristen so this ridiculous victim hood she’s wallowing in is so lame….. Middle aged women who cheat then play victim like a teenager does is repelling. Grow up people! VPR needs an overhaul.

[@_PAIGE94]

The story that never ends…

[@taylortureau]

Kristen, Ariana and Raquel are all very different women with the same outcome. You cannot convince me Tom is not the problem. Stassi tried to tell us about Tom and Jax.

[@gingermcallister9533]

Ariana needs to count her blessings and run!!

[@lizdahl847]

No. She likes to hold grudges and twist the knife😮

[@bbgrl95_]

@@lizdahl847bro this was all filmed less than 3months after she found out. Her reactions are valid. Sheesh

[@TeeVaPool]

She already has😂

[@lizdahl847]

@@bbgrl95_ Sheesh. She is not a victim. So. No. She doesn't get to keep whining about her ex. He has moved on very well without her stinky a**.

[@dianecraig2953]

Your life is better than you could ever imagine. Sorry people, but its true.

[@heatherheying6313]

OMG Ariana clean up your room. I can’t believe you were ok showing it in national TV

[@auntym979]

shes very filthy lol

[@Humanity4ALL]

Scandal dude, you are the one that stepped out. Boohoo baby, own your actions. You give me sociopath behavior!

[@MCterribleT]

Who hurt you 😂

[@simonepeterson3301]

Tom is crazy ,Cancer men are said to be Narcissistic and crazy ,don't know how true this is ,also they love to crush on people

[@Humanity4ALL]

@@MCterribleT it’s called wisdom after 54 years of life and ability to critically think. Did that answer your weak comment!

[@holleysonya]

MOVE ON ARIANA!!!! My goodness !!! You have a man. Omg !!!

[@naufhijazi8980]

This wasn’t long after season 10

[@kaymckenzie4629]

Ariana won't leave the house because she wants to be on the show. She is not an original castmate and she doesn't have real relationships with the rest of the cast so she would get cut. After this break up drama is over, they're going to get rid of her.

[@lollyholly3005]

Neither of them moved out of the house because that would be considered abandoning the property and one may lose claim on it when they come to sell it

[@user-fm1li6fq8k]

now tom’s mental health needs to be addressed. in 10 seasons he has never had said issues. this guy looks for absolutely anything to stick.

[@foulany7774]

This is probably part of why it never was and people are scared to open up about their struggle with mental health especially being in the public eye. Knew from the beginning that he was struggling long before Arianna came in the picture 😒

[@ritadepeeves]

I cannot stand Sandoval, but he's not wrong about Ariana in certain aspects. Watch the earlier seasons, she's not a very nice person either.

[@fahimarob1026]

I*For my first magic trick* I want to point out that around 4:10 he does his weird little side eye, eyes slightly widening look when he knows the next thing someone says is bad news, for example, during season 9 reunion, when Raquel said she needs to tell the group something, Sandoval immediately made this face. Why? Because he would've been the only person who would've moved that separation along and every single other cast member was absolutely shocked. So, we've been gaslit since Scandoval people saying we're looking into things too much. But nope. That is his guilty face to a tee when he knows what's coming next. *takes a bow*

[@big_baby_world1]

Lmaoo James funny as hell “and fuck ur little dog too” 😂😂😂

[@kitrood319]

Wait how is Ariana’s mental health not impacted by that freaking hoarders situation in her bedroom edit: girl, two months?!?!? It’s been a year since this all happened

[@judysimpson2066]

I watched all the episodes from beginning to current season. Ariana and Tom's relationship was dead in the water for some time. Tom S was wrong for just not making a clean break, however, Ariana is over feeding on the sympathy she is receiving. Sorry, i did not like Ariana from the beginning and Tom S has always been a player. Unfortunately weak minded Rachel got caught up in the drama, however, she is not totally innocent in the whole affair. Sh!t happens, get over it.

[@kandykaye9981]

Exactly and thank you. This gives me hope there are other sane women out there.

[@bamboozle3000]

The fact that he still lacks accountability…he’s never going to change, it’s nauseating

[@daisyslovebot]

the gift🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mrblf652]

Sandoval has no redeeming qualities.

[@aileeng3403]

Ariana needs to move on. She's made millions on this affair. Soaking up every penny. Women have been through worse in a relationship, but she carries on like she's the only one this has happened too. Good God.

[@tiffanypriore9220]

He’s so bitter of how successful she is compared to him now. He can’t stand it

[@alexprinsrealestateagent1263]

Ariana needs to get over herself. I use to live for her, but she has turned into a monster. Get over yourself. You were cheated on. Come back down to earth, sweetie.

[@auntym979]

all she cars about is money, and fame. dont you see it? and now she wants to have kids? hahaha what a joke. she wants him back

[@smpb4660]

Sandoval is unbelievable 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️He’s delusional 😂😂

[@dianaosazenaye1313]

Yepp

[@LisaRumler8427]

Tom wasn't in love he was in lust he was in love truly he would have ended it with our Yama but he wasn't so that's. Why he had his cake and tried to eat it too?

[@Natalie-nq6un]

WTF does he mean Ariana thinks he’s a serial killer but felt safe enough to stay in the house! He’s making no sense, surprise! Ariana exposed him for the dirty cheater he is not some serial killer. I want Tom asked why he told Jax to leave his apartment when he cheated on Brittany to be respectful but didn’t think Ariana deserved the same respect!

[@fzrms7954]

Ariana exposed Tom as the dirty cheater he is when he was with Kristen. She didnt care and wanted to date him anyway. Shes no better than Raquel.

[@tinajohnson5787]

You lose em how you get em@@fzrms7954

[@fzrms7954]

@@blueraven596 Yes, but she was a coworker and didnt deserve the hate and cruelty that Ariana dished out after cheating with him. The pain to Kristen was still great and Ariana caused that.

[@LINLYN81]

@@fzrms7954 Kristen was very busy sleeping with Jax whilst Tom was in the next-door bedroom... GTFOH... Kristen was no victim.

[@nicolegough2828]

​@@fzrms7954Kristen attacked Ariana a lot more than Ariana attacked Kristen. Ariana and Kristen were not friends nor were they coworkers when Tom lied to her and said that him and Kristen were over. Ariana didn't start dating him until after him and Kristen broke up. Tom is the only one to blame.

[@sadiapsychology]

How every cast member here is a cheat yet making Tom feel like hes a lunatic is WILD!!! every single one cheats

[@TheRonda130]

Over it. A couple months after this she got boyfriend. Move tf on already

[@marieneu264]

Sometimes I think Katie is so pretty, then other times I’m like, hello 1990’s Katie Lang! Love your new album.

[@tazzibear86]

It's K.D .. if you're going to make such a poor attempt at insulting someone, at least get it right

[@marieneu264]

@@tazzibear86 no shit Sherlock, combining their two names was the point 🤣🤣🤣

[@tazzibear86]

@@marieneu264 sure babe🤣

[@dqueendavis7681]

Arriana has an entitled attitude. She has no personality. I don't care for Sandavol because he is draining as hell. He has to be the center of attention. I believe they wanted the relationship to appear perfect. It seemed fake for years. Raquel was wrong but seems to be a better fit for him. She should have come back to tell her story. Tom was trying it seems to break up with her.

[@metorphoric]

He and Ariana are performers.

[@michelleronca7775]

Tom Sandoval... shut up. Learn being humble

[@ebunosayemi1193]

These Tom’s are never going to grow up 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@classyconversationswithrho344]

It would have been so nice if the call to Rachel was genuine. Everyone online seems to feel it was produced. By taking the call to Rachel back was so telling. Just because Rachel shared her truth. Of all people La La should understand! She was also misled by a man who claimed, to love her! For women who have been a mistress, its a bit unfair to throw stones. No shade just a fact! Rachel deserves the grace they were given, lets be fair here! I don't condone cheating nor misleading another. I just took the time to see the complete situations. Of course what Tom did was wrong! He should have told Ariana sooner. She also should have left him long ago. She clearly has not been happy since 2016. Where others are pointing fingers. As well destroying a person! So unfair! as well, being hypocritical! Tom Schwartz did try to tell Tom to come clean. To blame him is completely unfair! Rachel was the sacrificial lamb when almost everyone cheated, on the cast. I did extensive research for months and decided to back Rachel. I can't stand bullies, so I decided to stand by her side. She was always caring, a person doesn't change like that overnight. I feel Rachel is the missing link. The show was based on real friendships. As well,genuine situations. The whole feel of the show seems off. I've written to Bravo many times,to express how I feel, I feel Ibam able to help with the storyline. As well with many of the shows on Bravo. Without her they may have been cancelled. I am a Published writer as well a digital creator. I see the complete picture. Without her I don't see the show lasting. That is my opinion. I always have my finger on the pulse, when it comes to TV. I feel for everybody who went through so much as well, Arianna. I always felt there was much more to the story, that hasn't even come out, yet! I know this may sound terrible but it is true, you lose them as you got them. According to what I've seen on TV Tom express to her that he was not happy. And let's not forget she wasn't happy, as well. As well in many areas, I am just doing my best to help. Any help would be appreciated. I tried reaching the Producers, several times. I would love to give my advice on many of their shows. I've also been quoted several times on US Weekly on issues that would happen, before it happened. My Deepest Condolences 🙏 Thank you

[@Titunka]

Katie is truly a loyal friend as someone said here in comments...It is true...