Sandy, who are you lying to on The Ultimatum Season 3 Ep 5 | Review/Recap

[@llawrence5029]

The scene when JR met Sandy's mum actually made me uncomfortable. They was trying to touch him up like he was an exotic black pet!

[@AmandaB.]

Thats how I felt too. I dont think they even heard a thing he said

[@rasheedaharris5418]

Very much Get Out vibes

[@metaphysicalentity8494]

You could tell they’re all single and never been happy fr with a man so she brings this tall attractive dude contrast to who she had and a flip was switched

[@PrincessVelaryon]

That's probably what he likes

[@MAC-tf7pw]

It was very cringy. It felt like a scene from Get Out!!

[@lrangel2904]

JR was displaying himself like he was at auction trying to get bought up…

[@mi6438]

💯

[@TamMcC]

Ooop😳

[@kimmyb504]

Yep

[@AM20238]

I’m so glad Zaina got to see Scotty’s true colors. She’s been praising this man and he is low key crazy.

[@Jedidiasworld]

@@AM20238 baby that man is real high key crazy, when he started yelling in arias face because of normal emotions aria was displaying I side eyed him from the jump

[@Daniela-Christianson]

I feel SO bad for Zaina. First a sh*tty man who fell in lust with Sandy and couldn't care less about her, and then a whacky pretend husband. That lady can't catch a break.

[@whitleywhitley2280]

​@@Jedidiasworldyup scotty is a goof ball😂

[@jadedube8714]

Yea he gives narcissistic behaviour

[@laurenthomas3748]

High key crazy!

[@ThinMint411]

The black and white transition for JR and Sandy 😂😂😂 The way they so obviously fetishize each other and have total disregard for their real partners is so irksome!

[@TammyTalks]

Its so disgusting

[@kwanzadixon4722]

​@@TammyTalksI fast forward all of their parts. I can't stand them at all. I'm literally disgusted.

[@taylortrotman9896]

Im convinced JR was the one cheating and ole girl got her lick back… he wasn’t expecting it because the way he’s all over sandy is wild to me! Did he ever really like Zaina!

[@1.and.only.]

Nick should have left with the other couples. Sandy was so disrespectful towards him. That man was emotional and she couldn't care less.

[@TDarcy0013]

Facts. She may love him, but I don't think she likes him.

[@bosslevelcarter]

JR never denied that they weren't sleeping together 👀

[@TammyTalks]

Sure didnt

[@CremeBrulee-qm8wi]

It's obvious they did it

[@dancestar722]

The hair!! Thank you for calling it out!! Been bothering me the whole time 😭😭 and yes Sandy was nasty af for not only lying to Zaina’s face but treating her longtime partner like that

[@terre00]

Quick Sand 🤣 was absolutely playing in Zaina face

[@timeme03]

I don't think Zaina and JR were really in a relationship. It doesn't seem like they were too pressed

[@mexican_lilmermaid]

Omg right. They didn’t seem bothered at all 😂I was like hmmm? They’re perfectly fine that they’re each with other people.

[@jackie8357]

@@mexican_lilmermaidhe was posting all these old pictures on instagram to prove they were a real couple. I think they were a real couple and then broke up and agreed to go on the show -'neither of them looked that stressed lol - JR swan diving into Sandy's bed!

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

I was not prepared for the nutcracker puppet show. 😂😂😂

[@rachellecronephotography9898]

My favorite part

[@TammyTalks]

I wanted to provide a visual lol

[@pheoliasmith4325]

You gotta warn us before you reenact Nick wailing on the couch 😂

[@TammyTalks]

😂😂😂

[@happygardener2921]

I’m dying 😂😂😂😂

[@savageworld4622]

Honestly i really felt bad for nick of him having a mental breakdown.(i dont condone his mistakes) i hope after this show he does get therapy.

[@kieranferguson746]

Ariaha and Caleb are giving “The Closer I get to you”

[@learnturkishlanguagesandmusic]

Zaina and Aria are both so good girls, but those two boys they are with are horrible! They should run away from both these guys.

[@jackeeB]

Caleb doesn't like Aria the way she thinks he does. And I definitely didnt like how she spoke to Mariah.

[@J3nnbk]

Facts

[@dct90210]

I have a hard time believing that. I think he just wanted to be respectful to Mariah but he vibes with Aria. It's undeniable

[@mexican_lilmermaid]

I feel like lowkey Caleb does vibe with aria but idk I feel like Mariah and Caleb gonna end up back together idk why… I

[@Goldnotsilver]

@@dct90210he had fun with her but I don’t think he’s honestly attracted to her. I can tell he feels no chemistry with her like that but she looking at him with big rosy eyes.

[@ANamaky-o6s]

@@Goldnotsilverhe probably started to & felt guilty. He was trying to respect both the women during the experience & did very well. Mariah finding out about a stronger emotional connection between them would have destroyed her confidence even more & only make her more sad. Hence, when they first got back together - she only wanted to ask questions about Aria because what Aria herself confessed about their emotions. It’s all valid. Aria didn’t want the footage to come out later & be looked at as a bad guy. I think everyone did the best they could. Caleb yes should have admitted he had a small crush - but that it may or may not compare with him & Mariah. He wouldn’t really know that for sure until they actually attempted the trial marriage too though. Mariah was too focused on the negatives. Working through that stuff can happen organically & she didn’t allow any time or space for Caleb to show up the way he was with Aria. He was immediately questioned, & then asked how he should help fix things. He’s like….”I haven’t seen you in 3 weeks. We’re beginning fresh, or supposed to!”

[@evastilldreams6066]

“Your hair is dry today.. where are your juicy curls?!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@J3nnbk]

Jr , Nick , Sondra, Scotland needs to come to the front immediately 😂 I think Micah started that rumor about John Richard.

[@pattyduke3079]

I also think it was Micah that started the rumor.

[@amarie9092]

Oooh that’s a good take! You think he was smiling in JR’s face only to then be like “wait until I tell you everybody this, and watch it get back to Zaina”

[@TammyTalks]

@@pattyduke3079 Ohhhhhh that makes sense

[@RiaE.S]

It actually could've been Dave..because in the 2nd episode he told Chanel on their day date that "he sensed one or two people were in it to like, Hall pass"🤷🏽‍♀️ Funny how those two couples left but then JR is hearing something now. Maybe specific people weren't feeling Scotty so they put that rumor on him to throw his time off with Zaina.

[@J3nnbk]

@@RiaE.S that’s a great point too

[@cookies.crochet]

21:52 literally something is wrong w scotty. he was talking crazy to aria for no reason and tried to gaslight her in the beginning. now with zania he’s doing too much really showing his true colors

[@risankati]

@@cookies.crochet yesss, maaajor red flags

[@nicholnunn8074]

I can’t wait to see what Zaina does with Scotty after that display he put on. Bratty adult is right. And it is hard to imagine that he isn’t abusive on the regular. I hope Aria leaves him. For JR being so caught up on his ex cheating he sure can’t recognize Sandy’s red flags. I’m interested to see Mariah and Caleb together…

[@Daniela-Christianson]

He also doesn't mind cheating on Zaina

[@Goldnotsilver]

I feel like JR and Sandy are lying about their physical connection not being stronger than their emotional one. They both seem like airheads 🤣. They both came for hall pass 100%

[@tinuke782]

When you started singing Telephone Man, I fell out 😂

[@rrmalone7836]

Aria knows how manipulative and abusive Scotty really is! She is so happy to be with Caleb but he gotta be honest with her

[@ericpatterson5050]

Tammy your Breakdowns of this show is Hilarious!!! You are about to make me fall out of my Chair!!📺👁😮👀🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🕺🏽🕺🏽🙌🏿👍🏼💙🐲

[@smarti1144]

1. Nick is going to get some premium art from this pain. 2. The reenactment had me cackle aloud. 3. JR and them baby hairs on the edge up……….👀👀👀 4. Idk why but Scotty irks me but I think it is just his voice. Shout out to mama jones and in THAT order😂

[@leahtar]

At the gathering when Nick and JR were speaking, Nick said that he has never seen this version of himself and JR asked, why is it because she chose me? I read that as, is it because she chose me a black man. Nick hesitated and then said no no no. I do believe if Sandy had chosen a white guy it might be a different story.

[@mymentalhealthisinexcellen2797]

24:37 🎶 in that order, in that order 🎶 in the palace running amok 😂

[@terrijones693]

Ma'am, I don't know who I'm reporting you to, but I'm telling someone cuz I almost choked to death laughing during this review. My high points... 1. Pecan Sandy 2. Y'all make it easy for me to hate y'all. 3. Dis my mama name. 😂😂😂 4. The animation of those nutcrackers 5. Mr. Telephone Man, there's something wrong with my line...😅 6. Scotland 7. What in the Diary of a Mad Black...😂😂 Top tier review!!!

[@TammyTalks]

Hey Terri! Thanks for watching!

[@terrijones693]

@@TammyTalks Always! I'm down for the Tamily shenanigans! 🤣

[@TammyTalks]

@@terrijones693😂😂

[@amariebloom]

Top tier 💯

[@holly14..m]

I don’t trust jr! Zaina is doing too much for him aswell! And him asking her like oh u don’t think id be with sandy why not?! Red flag

[@JustJohnda]

Scotty and JR are still giving me retro-1980s pretty boys who go to the clubs together or roam campuses swaping girls. They have the same general taste.

[@karenb4448]

The New Edition reference was GOLDEN and I can’t stop laughing!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@TammyTalks]

I love NE LMAO

[@karenb4448]

@ ME TOO ❤️😂

[@llawrence5029]

I felt sorry for Nick at first when he was just crying in the apartment. But it went all the way left!! The man crashed and burned!!!😂

[@junnufur]

perfect timing for my midnight snack 😆

[@TammyTalks]

Yes!!!!

[@Puffin_14]

Girl, your sweatshirt reading “ass” bc of your hair and mic has me cracking up 😂

[@TammyTalks]

😂😂😂😂

[@amyamy6246]

I love you!! You verbalize and point out everything that I know isn’t right and the way you say it, cracks me up!!!

[@DaiAllday]

Not the commissioned art 😂 he had a whole Ultimatum Collection, I would make a profit too

[@TammyTalks]

Listen!!! I love angry abstract art lmao

[@Daniela-Christianson]

I was like, he better not be getting his "art" on the walls of that pricey apt. That'll cost him...

[@jasmine6050]

Scotty is dangerous he’s blown up like this twice the first time with Aria.

[@rrmalone7836]

Dangerous and insecure, bad combo!

[@gray_7]

And this is on camera with people around! He could be even worse behind closed doors

[@michelescott1451]

It did not look like Sandy hung up on Nick. It looked like she gave the phone to JR and he did the hanging up. The way Nick is being treated is crazy - from Vanessa leaving, to JR and Sandy’s treatment toward him, to Mariah saying he isn’t marriage material and only had one conversation with him - he is going through it and did not sign up for any of it.

[@timeme03]

I thought it was normal for him to be sad and cry about it. Like what is he supposed to do

[@llawrence5029]

@michelescott1451 well he did sign up for it literally, he brought Sandy on the show. I did think that Sandy was out of order for the way she handled him when he came to the apartment. But!! He should not have gone to the apartment. He can be sad and emotional but he was doing too much! As for Vanessa leaving, I don't blame her. She and Nick were getting on well then the man starts crashing out in front of her about Sandy. She knew from then it was going nowhere with him🤷🏿‍♀️

[@ANamaky-o6s]

@@llawrence5029True but still Mariah coming out of nowhere with the “he’s not ready for marriage” ooooof. I hope she elaborates at the reunion. That betrayal was so random 😂😂Made me feel like Mariah just wanted something to say, or producer’s paid her for the quote to stir drama. Lol. (Because they only hung out like 1-2 times & during the emotional crash out. Which he, in my opinion, is excused for under the circumstances)…he was non-violent & while yes he was love-bombing, the other man WAS LITERALLY just F’ing his girl…so he was not “Crazy”. He had intuition.

[@El_Doone]

You and the props got me rolling! 🤣🤣🤣😭😭

[@floral_boi]

Can Netflix do a spin off series about Caleb and Aria being wholesome and cute after they respectfully breakup with their current partners lol

[@mi6438]

Tammy I’ve been waiting for you to talk about JR’s sprayed on & rapidly disappearing hairline😂

[@TammyTalks]

I dont understand it. It makes me uncomfy

[@mlevell83]

You did your big one with this review. Im clicking subscribe. So sorry it took so long. Also, theory, assuming everyone is telling SOME truth, what if Sandy is telling Nick information in order to mess with him? How does he know where their apartment is? How did Nick know your mom met JR? How does he always seem to know where yall are? I have questions!

[@TammyTalks]

Better late than never!! Welcome to the TAMily! I wouldnt put it past production to give up the apartment number or he counted windows, he did see him sitting on the balcony.

[@mexican_lilmermaid]

Wait but didn’t nick say something about him getting back “I miss you” texts ??? Hmmm 🤔 maybe Sandy is playing both sides. Well she must be.

[@soraydabills2896]

Sandy and JR are narcissist they always turn everything around to their partners . 😢😢

[@desmawalker556]

Girl... That little "puppet show" re-enactment had me dying !!! 👀😂😆😂😆😂💀💀

[@tyraj186]

Nick scared me this episode with his raccoon eyes 💀😅. And why does Sandy have a drink in her hand at every scene?🍸

[@jaszlikescookies95]

Lmao!!!! This may be the best review you made yet Tammy! The nutcracker props had me 😂😂😂😂😂. Love the reenactment.

[@xonatalya]

Won what? 😂 they both loss. Between the conversation and the girl they’re arguing about they both took an L and look goofy 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

[@smalldoses6380]

Nick is unhinged! And i think this show is dangerous

[@JustGeeTee]

Tammy 😂😂😂 the reenactment of Nick coming up to that apartment, WEAK 😂😂

[@TammyTalks]

Why did he do that? 😭

[@DABADDTEACHERTEE]

😂😂😂😂 omg the visuals and animations are errrrything! I watch episode by episode like you… Best KZbinR EVER of all times!! 🎉🎉🎉 🐐🐐

[@TammyTalks]

Oh em gee! Thank you so much!

[@shortyp1000]

Not the Christmas ornament reenactment! 😂😂😂

[@PrincessVelaryon]

Caleb is giving Aria way too much tlc its confusing her.

[@mexican_lilmermaid]

Omg yes… I feel like Caleb doesn’t feel that way towards her. I feel like they vibe but tbh I don’t think Caleb is into her like that. He’s definitely going to end up marrying Mariah.

[@Whit2legit]

We won because I was thoroughly entertained by the mess! 😂 All I could think about when they rubbing on JR was White Chicks “What a beautiful chocolate man!” 🙄 Nick is unhinged and needs therapy. Caleb is great, but I think he’s holding back to not hurt Mariah’s feelings due to her past. Scotty needs a police report filed on him because I almost saw a hand raised until he remembered there were cameras. I’m ready for the next episodes!!!

[@ANamaky-o6s]

I didn’t see that perspective at all. Barely I mean. JR far more fetishizes Sandy being the first white girl he’s “dated” & had sex with. It was his goal, & the entire reason he didn’t choose Aria, whom he had the deeper emotional connection with. Let’s not play the victim card about JR at all. He is a Hall Pass player or maybe even an actor. Obviously the women in Sandy’s life would be surprised to not just see a different guy she’s with - but a completely different type all around. Fitness, tall, all the things. Like that’s a huge dude 😂😂Why would his skin color be the factor??? It really isn’t lol. If she was with a guy who had the same frame as Nick but just a black man instead, I’m sure they would be like “ohhhhh ok” versus at all surprised like the reaction was when they were excited. It’s just a first impression reaction. Nothing more 😅 Edit: oh you’re just being hella dramatic. You can’t arrest someone for raising a hand…? He’s manipulative & verbally abusive yes. But yall are going too far with the police requests 😅jeeze. Leave that man to his own arguments with himself. Lol.

[@Whit2legit]

@ yes I am being dramatic 🤣 I don’t disagree with what you said about JR. He’s probably tied with Scotty as my least favorite for that exact reason. I can’t stand his voice and tend to skip over and zone out during his scenes to avoid him and he’s absolutely fetishizing Sandy.

[@angelc5435]

The nutcracker show, the reminiscent of Mr Telephone Man, your interpretation of what they really wanted to say and your assessment of this episode was top tier❤❤❤

[@muva_magic4924]

Tammy!!!! At first glance, I thought you had some rock em sock em robots!!!! LMAO

[@TammyTalks]

😂😂😂

[@kayslay888]

scotty letting zaina walk on the outside of the sidewalk👎🏽

[@EasyA15]

These episodes and people are giving me whiplash with how fast everything and everyone us changing up. My jaw was literally on the floor the whole time.

[@justvynexa]

not Momma Dee making an appearance in your review of FAFO 😂

[@philexcellence]

The impression of Scotty was priceless 😂😂😂

[@SavageThrifter]

Vanessa said I'll settle for Dave 😂

[@nnj1991]

The puppet show! Top tier entertainment! Thank you Tammy 🙌🏾.

[@TammyTalks]

Thanks for watching!!

[@pattyduke3079]

Neither JR nor Nick won.

[@Mrs_Bonnee]

17:22 Ma’am….. I was not ready. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jennifers1040]

I don't know who's worse, Sandy or Jr smh.

[@Jotash2]

Loved the nutcracker reenactment 😂😂 And why you call that man Scotland 🤣🤣

[@Caramelmix-77]

OMG! Tammy😂😂 !! Not the momma Dee reference! You had me crackin up THE WHOLE TIME!

[@TDarcy0013]

Thank you for this comment because I didn't know the reference. 🤣

[@devochkadee]

100000% agree with your read on Scotland 😅 knew someone who presented exactly like him

[@Ms.Understood3]

I can’t with you and your nutcrackers aka nick and jr🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@deannajones983]

😭😭😭

[@Introverted_empath]

My husband walked in to the room on one scene and immediately clocked JR's hairline 😂. The way he displayed himself for those white women like it was an auction was so disgusting to me but not surprising based on his behaviour throughout the process. I get they were frustrated because she said in episode 4 Nick was blowing up her phone but they were disrespectful to him. And I was wondering the same thing with Sandy at girls night, is she only lying to Zaina or to JR too? I think Aria likes Caleb more than he likes her. I think it truly is just friendship for him. I knew there was a reason I didn't like Scotty.

[@ericpatterson5050]

Oooooooo Tammy, Mr. Telephone Man!!! I'm Officially Done with you!!👁👁🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽👏🏾👏🏾📺

[@muva_magic4924]

This is the funniest review you've ever done!!! Your Scotty impression!! LMAO..

[@pheoliasmith4325]

Tammy did you watch the FAAFO South African version? Jr and Sandstones are child’s play compared to what they were doing over there!

[@TammyTalks]

No I didnt, I heard its really good though

[@BBJ404]

@@TammyTalksIt was. Some good people you end up rooting for, and some wild ones. A substantial amount of carnage.

[@pheoliasmith4325]

It’s the best one!!!

[@blueberryroko]

Quicksand 😂😂😂😂

[@OldManMigs]

The nutcracker play by play 😂 I was not ready for it

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

JR will find himself in the Sunken Place lol Scotty (the weekday) needs to figure himself out because i said it since ep 1 "hes ... not straight". But when he said "no heterosexual male looks at aria and not want to sleep with her" confirmed my theory. He wants these men to look at his woman, and say "no way he can be 🌈 look at his fine woman". Not bashing that community at all, im part of it. Men like scotty who are unsure of themselves or even unsure of his masculinity are dangerous to women. My husband even said " why did he say heterosexual????" Lol

[@nicholnunn8074]

The Weekday 😂

[@mzlove4121]

😂 B. I. C. T. H.. And IN DAT ORDER! 😂 😂 😂 Momma Dee!

[@TammyTalks]

😂😂

[@HJ-ul6mr]

Everytime you say "WOAHHHH" during recaps it kills me so badddd 😂😂😂😂 and then you be givin these people the funniest nicknames too

[@jodyconover7601]

I’m just going to be honest, though I find your content entertaining we usually fall on opposite ends of the spectrum, especially with MAFS🤦🏾‍♂️. But today I feel as though we watched these last two episodes as kindred spirits, because I agreed with everything you said, even the funny things that happened on the low I noticed just like you. When watching the interaction between Nick and Sandy on the phone at first glance, it looked like Sandy showed JR the phone and he pressed the end call button, but I could be wrong. I also was surprised at how aggressive aria was in the conversation she had with Maria, but I think it’s because Caleb is the first guy to ever make her feel like this, and it felt like she was staking her claim and planting her flag.🤷🏾‍♂️

[@jeeither]

Idk why but the review for this episode was extra funny. I was dying the whole time.

[@TigerLily408]

I’m sorry, Sandy getting back with Nick was just absolute puke for me. That guy was so sniffling and childish and controlling. He set the whole freaking thing up to begin with and then couldn’t deal with it when it was reality. And then he manipulated her and he like Completely love bombed her getting back again, and I’m sorry if she went back with him …shame on her because that dude is an absolute mess of a human being. He would never love the way she needs to be loved and treated the way she needs to be treated if she even has kids with him, he will abandon her emotionally.

[@janine3664]

Scotty goes from 0 to 100 too quickly. First with Aria when he shouted at her and again with Zaina when she didn't want to do two quite undesirable activities. It's weird.

[@neldamayfield3037]

Giiiirrrrlllll my mouth was hanging open on that lie!!!!!!!!!!😮😮😮

[@Rccolo04]

I can't stand you Tammy!!! Not the Mama Dee reference! 😂😭

[@TammyTalks]

😂😂😂

[@FiveWisdom36]

I’ve been waiting for you to get to this episode in particular, I knew I just had to be patient. 🤣🤣🤣😊😊😊

[@TammyTalks]

LMAO

[@DMMcCann]

Scotty just need to stop-His future serial killer juju is so on point. 🤣

[@The_Unhinged_Thought]

I literally have started calling this show FAAFO because of you 😅😅😅

[@TammyTalks]

That is what its momma named it

[@EE-bg1de]

jr and Sandy trying to be in that netflix universe, JR will show up on too hot to handle or one of the other shows, watch!

[@darkmoonsolo]

Not Quick Sand 😂

[@natashavenzen907]

The Scotland took me outttttttt 😂😂😂

[@arden.california]

JR is not into Zaina at all. Zaina acts so kind towards him after all his did with Sandy. She is showering him with gifts and kind words and the dude still glorifies Sandy. Terrible. Zaina is so scared that JR will leave her and she is acting so loving towards him.

[@mandac5127]

Not SCOTLAND 🤣 🤣

[@melanielavonne3232]

Not pecan sandy 🤣😂😂

[@lesliewarren5394]

She Said All My 4 Eyes Are On You 👀🫣😅😂🤣

[@TammyTalks]

ALL OF THEM!! LMAO

[@lesliewarren5394]

@TammyTalks 🕶️🤓🤣

[@thelaceybunch414]

I felt so bad for Caleb. Mariah isn't ready for a great man. There is so much damage that she has to work through.

[@yvonne5698]

The lachey’s need to let you host the reunion

[@tayrussell9578]

I'm here for your recap because...wow. This episode was the most😅😅😅

[@myusernamesthislll4620]

I'm so dead . Nick looks like he will run in the house.🤣🤣

[@kaylena816]

New subscriber here! Love your content ❤🎉

[@TammyTalks]

Welcome!!!

[@Xenia2604]

I‘m cracking up over those nutcrackers 😂😂😂

[@pupa8136]

That is so the vibe Scotland🤣 was portraying!

[@insatiableme333]

This show in general entirely messed up but I appreciate your purview and humor. New subscriber

[@kalo7203]

JR is salivating and Sandy is allowing it’s just an F thing clearly. No respect. Scotty is one passive aggressive person…poison