friends

[@kittenlove84]

"Your job on this earth is not to find out how many people you can get to like you. Screw that" 👏🏽

[@sarakyoutube]

ayy ayy!

[@cherkloe9500]

"that was never my goal,i don't give a damn to get there and i've never liked the popular girls" -----life lesson

[@pbl9393]

she actually said "gived" so just....so were clear

[@Hellcatchannel]

Finally I found a KZbinr Teenager who can think, can assume, can talk, can be natural... It changes so much of youtubers like Nathalie Paris 😒 I needed your videos and I'm so glad i found you.

[@Luna-uf9pc]

Hellcat come on now.. don’t hate on others, Nathalie Paris enjoys what she’s doing and she actually has decent talk videos

[@yeldacan9795]

Et coucou toi

[@jajarounette95]

T’es vraiment une seumlarde tu fais le même type de vidéos que Nathalie Paris ... une vraie française

[@ThisGaia]

I fucking love her voice lol

[@sarakyoutube]

aww thank you so much!

[@zelal1231]

Gaia Casella it's so cute and pleasant

[@ThisGaia]

Exatcly!

[@AliaEvera]

I thought I was the only one 😱 But right, I could listen to her all day long. She should become a voice actor :D

[@barbarastaszek2054]

"start obsessing over education" amen.

[@ittybittyhipster]

can we just sit you on a radio show and call it SARA SPEAKS and we can all hear the truth for days

[@sarakyoutube]

i would love that...

[@danielletasch4295]

Yes Ciara you are a genius.

[@Ayveh]

Right! She needs a radio station!

[@Mark.mp3]

YES JUST YES

[@JuliaPelio]

Exactly my thoughts! :D

[@VixenSimmerPlays]

I push my friends away bcause they're just there at my goodtimes not on my badtimes and i thought they've been fake the whole time and now im alone and i fucking love it it's better because there's no drama, you know. 😩😥

[@qtpilexi]

It takes a strong person to do that, honestly :) I'm sure you'll find people who will truly be there for you❤️

[@sarakyoutube]

I do everything I can to stay away from drama 😳

[@safiyayusuf5989]

u sound like a savage n I love it !!!! I rate u boo, do u & u will find those who can truly rock with that as u go through ur journey :)

[@Alex-cv9rq]

I used to be like you ,when every fake person left me alone. but now i m just sad..i m just a sad person. I cant take it and i always wonder what did i do wrong?What did i do which was so bad to deserve this kind of life..

[@QueenAnj]

Girl im going through the same thing i just dont know how to just push them away. ;_:

[@leslievespermann1100]

I love how real she is damn

[@mermaid000pranu]

if they didn't notice you in highschool, they were freaking blind because you are gorgeous to not be noticed at all..!!

[@alyssakate3868]

The thing with relying on yourself is that you will feel overwhelmed in loneliness because you are constantly bottling things up to yourself, if you just sit back and not try with people then they most likely won't try with you either, I'm just talking from experience and I have to go through these things daily and it sucks😕

[@jessiepo924]

Ella Kate so true

[@idontcaretbh2999]

Ella Kate I learned that the hard way.

[@MtBoMbEr3]

damn this shit hit home lol

[@catalina3664]

i think you are missing the point, she's not saying just lock up yourself in your room and wait there until someone comes. she is telling you to stop forcing stuff, to stop killing yourself in order to become friends with someone who isnt supossed to be your friend. you can always get motivated and go to idk...dancing classes or smth, and maybe you will meet a good friend there, or go to the movies by yourself and maybe you will meet someone. its abt that, she's telling to learn that being alone is okay, that you first gotta love yourself and enjoy your own company in order to stop being desperate to be friends with everyone and be able to find the right people. and i tell you this by my whole teenage years experience, ive been thru everything

[@renesmeeorlin9997]

Ella Kate I was being bullied for more than 5 freaking years. everyday at school people used to come to myclass just to cursed me. I used to complain things n isolate myself more and more from people bcs I felt scared to be hurted. then I realized that complaining stuffs wouldnt changed anything. we are human, we arent God we cant live alone.and then what is so wrong by dealing with people? I know some people arent click with me n thats fine say hi n work together thats ok, but for closer relations there are also people who match me well. Lets just be fair people cant judge me bcs they dont know me, so I cant also judge people if I dont know them yet. how can I know people when I isolate myself. self acceptance yes. self respect yes. and now I have good social life. they hold my back when Im down just like how I hold theirs. we are happy being friends. n one thing is that I cant dig my own grave when I die. cheers. have a good day everyone.

[@Pencilpaperecstasy]

My brother just died three weeks ago, and I found your channel yesterday, I think I've watched all of your videos. I promise you the first time I've laughed since March is when I watched your story time. You are so strong, inspirational and funny. I seriously love you.

[@sarakyoutube]

I mean it from the bottom of my heart when I say I may not know your exact pain and sadness but I can sure come close, I want you to know that your not alone and if you need someone to talk to about anything, even just for a giggle or to get your mind off things I'm always here for you and I will always reply. You and your family will be in my thoughts, condolences to your family beautiful. Day by day okay? Thank you for your support and taking the time to comment, It means more than you know....

[@ilse2192]

condolences to you and you're whole familie remember where a big familie you can always talk to us al

[@kiahcharlize3203]

Kerena Loving i lost my brother in march too. she's amazing

[@Luna-ds7bg]

omg it's such a coincidence how I found your channel and I REALLY needed this rn. you are so real and inspiring 💕👏

[@CoralineLTB]

me too.

[@londonjeans]

sameee!

[@Ballin4eva3210]

I needed this too

[@inactive3889]

Luna I wish I saw this video in 5th grade

[@Cecesportraits]

Luna omg me tooo!

[@NatalieHansen-is3es]

This is so beautiful to me. I been bullied my whole life. I've always been a "loner". My first few friends moved to other states. The girl I thought was my best friend for 10 years back stabbed me for a "popular" crowd at school. She left me with no one. For the longest time I spent my school breaks sitting by myself on a bench. Another guy I thought was my best friend for years lied to my face, and told everyone lies about me to save himself. I've started blocking everyone out, but I like it this way. I like being by myself and watching everything unfold around me. I'm beginning to see the true importance of life, and the not so important stuff.

[@booboodfool9101]

Nat1127 The same happened to me with a "friend" I had on my new school, then I met a few good friends who stick with me.

[@pasta6207]

Nat1127 I'd rather be on my own, than to be surrounded by people who aren't real.

[@nikkimia2976]

I would love if you could talk about your highschool experience and how u changed from then and now

[@mermaid000pranu]

Nikki Mia I hope she does that video

[@MyNamesChai]

I don't know you, but I like your style. This was a great video, thank you for putting it out into the world!

[@sarakyoutube]

thank you very much

[@emilyexorcismzombie]

I wish I had friends to go out with. Yes I have a few friends I keep in touch with and had friends in college. But ive learned that you only have certain friends for certain periods of time and MAYBE the odd one sticks around for a life time. I am twenty freaking one. I want to go out on the weekends and go clubbing and dancing. Do I have anyone to do that with? big fat nope. I have depression and not having people go out with on the weekends makes it worse. I went clubbing once with my ex, and it was absolutely amazing. I die to go out places and do things, but sadly my bestfriend is the opposite, she likes to stay indoors, inside, playing video games. She only leaves her house when its necessary. I seem to only have those friends. Ones who are just unmotivated to do anything or are too busy working 5 days a week and are busy the other two. I dont care how many friends I have, I just want one to go out with. I felt okay when I had a bf who was my bestfriend too but he's gone and now its just me. I feel like its always been just me. Yeah im very independent but independant people need to go out and have fun too. Its not fun being an extrovert with no friends (how does that even happen right?)

[@mermaid000pranu]

Emily Joy story of my life too

[@vloggerbabies]

Amna Raza clubbing and socialising is what made her happy once tho so it's not like she's romanticising it based on societal norms. there's nothing wrong with doing that stuff because maybe going clubbing will help you find yourself through experience. and not having something that you feel can make you happy is hard because despite the importance of self reflection on your own, building and finding relationships are just as important too. and some people just like clubbing.

[@vloggerbabies]

Amna Raza that sounded angrier than I meant it too sorry lol

[@jag0wnsu]

+Emily Joy Let's go clubbing then

[@joanageborenumliebezugeben8857]

hahaha the same vhere ! lets go out and have some fun!

[@ayleenb1395]

I can honestly say that I ALWAYS come back to your channel, whenever I feel like a piece of shit. Thank you for the good feeling, Sara.

[@sarakyoutube]

it makes me so happy to know my channel helps...

[@mahletadamu2602]

I'm definitely a lone wolf most the time and I have tons of energy and time to grow and evolve as a woman. I really like and enjoy your freedom and self acceptance. It's refreshing. Gandhi...it's easy to be a part of a group! to stand alone is a challenge. I'm paraphrasing

[@FulyaAleyna]

you're so right sara, i agree 100%. much love from germany

[@moniquecook7363]

Thank God for the truth. I don't make friends easily and I'm happy with that. It means that when I do meet someone its because of who I am and not who I pretend to be. I'd rather be alone than with people who have no understanding or appreciation for who I am as a person. I actually agree, with everything you're saying. I am picky because I'm real, I don't pretend to be anything that I'm not and because of that I don't fit in. To tell you the truth being as fake as the girls are today inside and out seems like a shit load of effort.

[@ImmaBeRockDatBody]

Monique Cook same for meee

[@viivanaa]

I could listen to you talk all day. You speak truth. I'm amazed.

[@ConnerSully]

thank you. finally some refreshing truths beings shown/spoken online. Never change. keep spreading the truth. You could change someones life through videos like this

[@papi9369]

FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT, BLESS YOU. I mean at the end we're all have got ourselves and for me I really enjoy my company I don't know why but friends have never worked with me and I don't really care if it did or not but I learned from that myself is more than enough. I know it's nice to have friends but it's also okay if you don't have them and it's okay if they leave, literally nothing is meant to last forever and everything happen for a reason.

[@JasDreamx]

I like it when you just sit down and talk about these deep topics.

[@lisak217]

when I saw this vid back in 2016 I didn´t understand, I wasn´t ready for this conversation, but here I am in 2020 watching this and being like "man Sara was hella wise, she knew before I could even realize" I´m proud to say that I ain´t a people pleaser anymore and that´s just so powerful dude

[@csoniah4432]

now i just keep those who i love and who love me around me , i realized that i'm happier with my 5 , 8 friends than when i was surrounded by people who kept putting me down and wishing bad things behind my backs , be careful guys with who you choose to be your friends because there's a lot of people with negative energy

[@othgyal12]

" social media makes ppl advertise themselves " damnnn ... so true.

[@JavellH]

Quickly becoming one of my favorite youtubers.

[@decemberroscoe7204]

i have lost so many friends within the past year and my GOSH have i ever been more comforted than now. thank you, truly Sara. you are so, so comforting and uplifting. thank you so much. i am so thankful for your existence.

[@Mariasxo]

I love how real and straight up you are. you are like a rose in the desert. 🌹 ❤

[@sarakyoutube]

That is the best compliment I have ever gotten. Thank you so much. ❤️

[@dianashex]

I freaking adore you girl I wish I knew you IRL I swear I think just like you ❤️❤️❤️ keep making awesome videos cuz your so mature and will deff inspire many ppl 💋

[@DevouredByADream]

Will you be my friend?

[@sarakyoutube]

Sure!

[@gaviotazafiro]

This video changed my life, seriously everyone should watch this, THANK YOU SO MUCH SARA, thank you thank you!

[@olgapasternak7544]

You have the most inspirational talking vids on KZbin! I normally can't watch a whole video like this, but I watch yours like 3 times xD

[@ameliarejmi9850]

Olga Pasternak mam tak samo 😄

[@sunnyaerie3563]

Watching this vid probably for the 10th time srsly cause whenever I feel insecure or unsure Sara helps to get ma face back to reality so thanks for that gal! Same goes 4 the confidence vid. Sara's helping so many ppl I'm admiring that so much. Love ya

[@bpyku]

this was amazing and unique. never heard an opinion quite like yours and the way you deliver it is so affirmatively and passionately that you can't help but agree plus the reasoning is flawless from what I can tell

[@sarakyoutube]

thank you so much!

[@nadine3900]

I freaking love you, I love that you're saying this cuz I'm really insecure about having no/not a lot of friends I've had so many sad days because of that I love to know that there are more people thinking like me. You're an amazing person ♡

[@bethaniebluedoll9663]

The irony of this video is, after watching it... I just want to be her friend. Genuinely. Her realness in her videos is a breath of fresh air in this self-absorbed and crazy world. I'll never get the luxury of being that friend that walks into her life for a reason, but I wish I could.

[@Thaeru2113]

Im 24 and I found this really helpful, normally I dont care about other people liking me ... but then something changed, this video helped me a lot. Now I'm focused again. Thank you

[@ren7068]

wow out of any ANY friendship advice video I've watched, this taught me the most and was the most relatable 💘 thank you so much for being down to earth and amazing✨ subscribed !

[@tinawilliams1444]

I am 44, and I have one friend from grade school I am still close to. That's all we really need, because it's a true friendship.

[@mareeyanasib149]

You are soo soo so freaking right sara! Im 26 years old and all waht u just said i have experienced it in all these years! at the end of the day the only person u hav is YOU!

[@sarrah823]

okay i know you posted this last year, but i really needed this at this time in my life and i really really appreciate this. you really helped me so so much. you have a lovely mind and a powerful voice. thank you.

[@nosleepgang3771]

You're officially my favourite youtuber!!! I've honestly developed the same mindset lately; I'm so sick of the narrow mindedness and the superficiality of this society and people!!! God don't get me started on people (in general like how the masses think) Keep doing you girl; I hope one day you're so happy it heals all of you you earned it

[@milsberry9005]

I needed this. Most people seem to be looking for reassurance, not friends. But we can assure ourselves of who and what we are and not let other people say. Thank you Sara

[@svetlanahayrapetyan4375]

High school is such a fricken headache, how does someone go through it without any drama and heartbreak and etc... like tell me that, how do I keep to myself and just stop caring

[@asdfg4012]

I agree with you in terms of people just being so busy worrying about other people's opinion and appreciation of them. I don't have a lot friends, but with the few I have, I know that I can trust them completely because I trust myself.

[@LivLuvHaul]

my best friend ever is my older sister and she's all I need and honestly all i have. I feel like I've stopped even trying to make friends because I don't want to deal with anyone who doesn't meet my standards. ughhh I wish we could be friends in person because you're one of the few people who I feel I would be able to trust and connect with. thank god for internet and technology hahah

[@savannac_416]

I really needed this! I'm going into junior year after cutting so many people out of my life because of the way they treat me and I was not sure how I was going to handle going into this school year with no one, so thank you so much!

[@megan-rosehope3227]

i really wish i had the same mind set as her

[@coloureleven]

i come back to this video every once in a while thank you for your words sara they really help me feel better and keep perspective ❤

[@75sara75]

I needed this. I had to drop out of high school my junior year and start getting my GED because of a neurological issue. It was like I dropped off the face of the earth. I went from having a friend everywhere I turned to having one friend that I've had since kindergarten who I text a few times a week. I really, really needed to hear this.

[@keelimepye]

I know exactly what you mean. I basically dropped out freshman year because of how much I was being bullied and tried independent studies and within at least 2 months everyone forgot about me and it made me realize so much so I'm glad that that happened tbh. Just another amazing life lesson taught to me :)

[@TheDigit23]

sara b OH MY GOODNESS I DROPPED OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL BECAUSE OF MEDICAL ISSUES AND DID MY GED AS WELL IT WAS INSANE

[@asmaeelb5911]

i need to watch this every morning before i go to school. seriously.

[@19-7-t3d]

Sara u know why your channel got so popular it's because you're so real and comfortable with yourself that makes a person who's watching u feel so peaceful and happy because seeing someone who's honest and realistic seeing them in there details daily life really inspiring I'm just so lucky that I found your channel you're so great I swear, and strong and I wish with all my heart the I could make u happy as much as your soul and video did to me. Luv u

[@brielle.cr731]

She needs to be a motivational speaker

[@graceyong5369]

You're a realist and I appreciate that so much!!! I've had so many people come and go in my life that at one point in time I was close with, but I've learned that no one will ever understand me as well as I do. People can be very similar in so many ways, but no one will ever match perfectly. All of my "friends" think they know me so well and I just laugh at the things they come up with, and yet I never bother to correct them because there is no need to. People will have their opinions of you and its not your job to correct them. Being surrounded with the wrong people or "fake" people is much more lonely than being your one and only true friend. Understanding yourself is key. I found your channel from a makeup tutorial, and even though those are amazing on their own, your talking videos will most likely be the things I look forward to most. Sorry for the long comment lol

[@sarakyoutube]

+Grace Yong theres no need to say sorry!!! i love when people comment especially long ones!!! but you are so correct with everything you say. thank your so much for supporting my channel and watching my videos! it means more than you will ever know

[@leabear5822]

I love these kind of videos, they make me realize what Life is there for when I'm drowning in some bad stuff

[@TallButShort74]

I'm 21 and I randomly just discovered your channel and this is exactly what I needed to hear! I am living in a new town for school (away from my close friends/people I hang out with back home) and I was so down last semester because I felt lonely and spent weekends by myself watching videos or doing homework. But this semester, I've chosen to stop being upset about not having friends and to instead work my ass off in my classes. Having a friends or a boyfriend, or whatever is not a priority for me, and that's ok. This reminded me of being in high school, and once I stopped trying so hard to be popular and just focused on myself, I was the happiest and actually made a few really good friends in that time. Thank you so much for posting and reminding me that I'm doing the right thing by not being consumed by trying to have a lot of friends

[@clomund]

I would love to know someone like you in person.

[@Queen-qv4tm]

i feel like we are so alike on so many levels. you have such an INFP mindset that i can relate 100%. it's like everything that i've been trying to work out, like the problems with my friend getting so much attention all the time and i'm just like the side girl no one even glances at. it used to bother me and irritate me 'cause i felt like i wanted to be in her position and be able to show who i really am as flamboyantly as she did. but reality sets in and i realise that no matter how much someone tries to talk me into joining a conversation or how much i want to show the world who i am and how i really feel, i've realized that i just freaking cant sometimes... and that's okay. maybe in the future i can have enough confidence to put myself out there, but i don't want to focus on anyone other than myself right now. people can come and go, especially in high school. they are fun while they last, they make for good memories, and that's something that can evoke envy. but when you look at it from a wider perspective, you'll realise that even you can make good memories out of even the little things in life, and they can hold a much more deeper and special meaning than any other fleeting moment.

[@imanlia9463]

Thankyou so much for not making me feel as alone and different.

[@sarakyoutube]

there is no need to thank me love, just doing my job

[@DinaDash]

Sara, breathe. looks like you faced a lot in your life, i can tell because i can relate by just listening to your tone. you're beautiful and strong!

[@user-cs1nt3tb4e]

Sooo, I had to come back to this video and half crying while I'm rewatching this because today I think I have finally realized that my "best friend" is no longer my 'best friend'. Shes stopped putting effort into texting, hanging out...just plain out communicating with me. We hangout like once a month now and when we do she complains how nobody in her life is putting in effort to stay so she just doesn't bother with people...but HELLO?! I'm still here bish. But, after another situation today I think I am officially accepting that if people do not make an effort to stay in your life and you've tried once and once again to get through and its just not happening, just let it go. It hurts and it sucks and now I have no friends but I want to spend some time with myself, love myself. Shit happens, and people come and go but always know your own worth and leave the people who don't know it. Mucho love sara, thank you for this

[@rosaartemis]

actually this eased my "AM I THE ONLY ONE WITHOUT FRIENDS?"-anxiety tonight

[@illuminatedeunoia]

Recently found this channel and it is a damn god send. Only a few videos in and I've been convinced for once I feel like good people still exist. I feel like we forget we are ALL humans. Your videos are so inspiring and you just speak the truth no bullshit. You my friend are unique as hell(which I know u know) and I'm so glad I've found someone who speaks what I've said inside my head my whole life. PS: are u an Aquarius? Cause I am and you have a lot of aquarian traits 😊

[@keroberos882]

I love how real you are and how you never try to hide your imperfection. thanks for being so inspiring

[@lokmersnow]

this might sound strange or silly but whatever, i just want to thank you sara, because i spent so many years trying to get what everyone else had, tried to be the best, appeal to everyone, i let others dictate what i should do, i let my friends change my self so i would be 'worthy' their time. and i was never happy despite having those friends, those things. you made me realize that it's okay to be myself, now i feel like i'm not only a selfish weirdo, but someone who wants to live their life as they want. cause you're right, friends will do shit, people will be awful but we've all got ourselves. so thanks. ✨

[@calaguas123]

honestly this video basically explained everything that happened to me. I'm so happy that literally there's someone that understands this concept of standing alone and proud. wish I could send this to all the fake friends that did me wrong

[@EvenTheAngelsFall]

it took me a while to be content with who I am. I'm glad to be out of high school because it's way more acceptable to be a loner in college. it's rare for me to find someone I'm even comfortable around but I have found those people and somehow they always end up somewhere else, which really sucks. Most people I meet end up being really selfish and I'm really done having selfish friends.

[@emmal.4388]

Thank you Sara for saying out loud what I was thinking. It's really comforting to hear this. Thank you

[@imanezaazaa5951]

you give the best advice on the whole youtube

[@monag7811]

god i love that you said social media is a platform to advertise yourself. very good point

[@joanne3463]

Sara is like the perfect therapist ❤️

[@fiona7016]

I feel exactly the same! I used to drive myself crazy thinking I was weird for being okay with my own company and hardly any friends. I've come to realise why should I feel weird for being comfortable with myself? Thank you for this :)

[@logandahlquist]

best advice, glad I’m not alone. 🙏🏼

[@skyemoran]

I can relate to your mindset a lot. I'm 15 and I'm in 9th grade. I hate society and it's values. People always wanna be the best. People always wanna have the most friends. I know I have myself. No ones opinions matter. I know that people will come to me. Friends will come to me. I don't have to force my friendship on anyone. I have friends. Not a lot at all. But the ones that I do have are amazing. I agree with you on all of this.

[@danielletasch4295]

With all the stupid cliques at my school, this helped a lot.

[@cleoek]

Sometimes I feel bad when these girls wanna be my friends but I don't wanna be their friends at all. But I shouldn't have to force myself into their life when I don't want to. But when I genuinely want to be friends with someone who is alright with me and willing to be my friend I am going to try to be their friend. Which is the case with this girl at my school who is GORGEOUS by the way.

[@housemaniaclucifer]

bruh you always speak so much truth! bless you and your mindset! i want to be your friend! just bless man bless you!!! and your cat!!! and your music taste!

[@YouCantHandleDisz]

Thank you for this ! I lost all my friends they ended up betraying me when I was at my lowest and needed them the most. Tbh in life you only have your family or one good ass friend who's just been there from the start if you're lucky. In the end nobody got you like you got your self so fuck everyone and do you on god the right people will come to you, don't try to please people and learn to love your own company its ok to sit alone at a coffee shop, its ok to eat out on your own its ok to travel on your own. Its OK. Life is too short to wait on people or to rely on anyone else except for your self. Learn to focus on improving your self, busy your time working on your mental and physical health, seek knowledge and succeed in life. Make your self a 10/10 not for people but for YOU and once you're at 10 and people sense this positive confident vibe about you they will fall at your feet. Stay strong for yourself!

[@kateyperry33]

I have never been in a group or "clique." So I have different experiences. I always hang out with my friends separately. Whenever I am in groups, I have not liked the outcome. Of one person or more being more mean, and one or more that is left out and or picked on.

[@millielindsay2068]

You legit give me so much hope, every time im feeling shitty about my life, friends, school, i just watch your videos and they are so inspirational. You show me the actual meaning of life/existence, thank you so much! Keep doing your videos they are amazing! Your so beautiful keep strong! Lots of love XOX

[@yasmineoui_]

I feel likes she's low-key insane but I'm low-key loving it and low-key loving her

[@sarakyoutube]

dude im high key insane hahah ive never tried to keep that a secret

[@yasmineoui_]

lol aw thanks for replying ❤️❤️ you're the best

[@Maddie-fy8zk]

I needed this a lot..graduated high school finally earlier this month.. struggled a lot with friends, anxiety, depression and binge eating which led me to being homeschooled half my junior year to get away from the harassment.. could not waiiitt to get out of there, had 43 absences senior year.. left school with only two friends left, my best friend and my boyfriend.. old friends i thought would be with me forever turned out to follow the popularity path and i end up with stronger relationships with my family because my home is where i spend all of my hours at. ive been crying a lot lately because i was dropped suddenly from all my friends i thought i had, making me depressed, even seeing my boyfriend hangout with his buddies made me jealous of the kind of reliability he has on them only as friends. but now I watch this and realize I'm not at fault.. they are. and this is who i hope to be soon, i've been dreaming of being a youtuber since sophomore year now, and damn do I look up to you. such an amazing soul, strong heart. xx

[@faithyayi]

its scary how much we have the same mindset and I'm not saying that just to say it or to sound like a force. I'm 17 and here in high school I am constantly surrounded by sheeple who don't seem to know what really matters. I'm into hair, makeup, nails, etc but those will never be my idols bc there is so much more to life. btw I have no real friends to really talk to. I thought I was crazy to be ok with it until I watched this video. plus ik high school will soon be over for me and I'll be able to meet new people soon so I won't force shit to happen.

[@ivy3986]

Omg I was the same way throughout high school, I had two actual friends but didn't even have things in common with them. I actually preferred to be alone than to be with people I couldn't relate to. I'll admit at times I was jealous of all the groups that took over the year book but in the end we all get separated and got to do our own thing anyways X)

[@faithyayi]

lupe3986 that's exactly what I'm going through rn. Its crazy bc I fr thought I was the only one but I should've known better than that lol. I'm just trying to push through the rest of hs. All my "friends" so far have either been fake or people who have little to nothing in commom with me. It sucks but I think that helped me become who I am today. Especially being an ap student in a medical science academy. There is no diversity with personalities here unless you're not in the academy and even then its hard to find people like me. At this point im done searching. I realized that I have to let things happen naturally.

[@sarakyoutube]

+Faith Lapri I am so happy you were able to connect to me:) I'm just like you,,,, feeling alone in this crazy world but we never know what's out there😏

[@Queen-qv4tm]

tbh you've inspired me to start thinking about making my own youtube channel. i love these little talks where you can just be yourself, let go and talk about everything that goes through your head. it just seems so therapeutic.

[@zelal1231]

Although I agree so much with what you say, it is so hard for me to actually have the same mindset as you and follow your advice. Anyone else?

[@sarakyoutube]

thats why you believe in the individual, its hard to live someone elses dream just as its hard to think someone elses thoughts:) you arent meant to have the same mindset as me hon.... you arent me:)

[@zelal1231]

Sara K right but since your mindset and what you say in this vid is so true, i wish i could use it in my everyday life by realising your message and manifesting the idea xx

[@b76561]

I love how there is so many of us who think the same way yet a few have confidence to speak up

[@marlenejuarez6699]

Girl you speak nothing but the truth this is how I feel. I also love your videos so much your so pretty💕 much love

[@sarakyoutube]

Thank you so much love, just trying to share a couple tips and tricks I've got store up my sleeve over the past years❤️

[@marlenejuarez6699]

Sara K yes girl & im currently in high school & I can relate so much!

[@cdkia1]

One of the most genuine people on KZbin ;)) love your vids pls keep making them because you are really inspiring

[@MartocasXD]

This video was exactly what I needed right now, thank you!! kisses from Portugal :)

[@yenaflower2548]

i so needed this video rn, i swear she will probably be the only new youtuber i am now watching. and that's so rare, because i don't really even like much youtubers. This girl speaks the whole truth.

[@Javijavijavi]

I ADORE YOUUUUUU. I literally feel like we're the same person lmao.

[@sarakyoutube]

😌 love you so so much girl.

[@sare88]

So damn real and down to earth. All your videos are worth the watch completely; 5 min or 30, I love them all and watch them all the way through. My favorite subscriber💜

[@callmesenpai4333]

You are such a great person. :)

[@marijamihajlovska9463]

Everytime i watch your videos, you open my eyes and you show me how life really is. honestly if it wasnt for you id be so clueless and upset with myself. Your videos helped me with so much and open my eyes so much more. thank you

[@MegNHilt]

I so agree with you!!! I had very few friends in high school and in college. I actually don't have a lot of friends now. It is mostly just me and my KZbin friends. It bums me out sometimes, but I know I'm awesome. I no longer care to stay friends with people who don't appreciate me. I want to become more like you. Thank you for this video!!!

[@ramaisdazzling4474]

That's like me when i walk at the university, i don't talk to anyone and no one talks to me. my life is already so full of things. you just need to find what makes you happy

[@johanneaasmoe]

you seem like a very wise person

[@fairyinchains]

Whenever I feel like shit I just watch your talking videos and feel so much better. You've really helped my confidence. Thanks, Sara.