SASSY ANSWERS to BURNING QUESTIONS: More Kids? Burnout? Pizza? New Mom Tips? Body Positivity? PART 1

00:00 Hellos, favorite wine
01:26 More kids
02:37 Making connections
06:03 Burnout
07:48 Natural skincare
09:15 Missing Russia
11:19 Celeb girl crush
11:58 Tough times with partner
13:42 Fav pizza topping
14:16 Body positivity
19:14 New hobbies
20:16 Mommy vloggers
21:28 Wish I was told as a new mom
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00:00 Hellos, favorite wine 01:26 More kids 02:37 Making connections 06:03 Burnout 07:48 Natural skincare 09:15 Missing Russia 11:19 Celeb girl crush 11:58 Tough times with partner 13:42 Fav pizza topping 14:16 Body positivity 19:14 New hobbies 20:16 Mommy vloggers 21:28 Wish I was told as a new mom

[@xcrunner3291]

I AM AMAZED!!! Last night I thought about how I would to watch a Q&A video from Maria, either on her Gentle Whispering channel or here on Sassy Masha. I am so happy!!!😂Thank you Maria! You are so so appreciated and I adore you.💕I have learned so much from you over the years, I am the oldest of three girls so I see you as a big sister.💕I have been watching for at least 9 years now. I am so grateful to have you and your videos in my life. Thank you for everything you do! I hope you and your family are well!❤️

[@evamay7115]

Absolutely love you Maria. You are a beautiful soul💕

[@alexthemoosefinder]

I am posting this comment again, because I am SO excited about this. Look up Koko Hayashi face yoga. Wrinkles are going away. Face exercises and changing muscle memory basically. Oh. My. God.

[@alexthemoosefinder]

Not selling anything I just know you are also into anti aging etc and my life is literally changed forever 😭😭😭😭

[@starlightromantic]

Okay yeah, so your comments on burnout and body positivity. So very validating and helpful to hear from you, especially since you are so authentic and warm. Definitely made me tear up a bit a couple times. Also! Your advise on parenting is really good advice for living and growing generally. Thank you, Maria!

[@catherinecreighton305]

The difference between Maria and a lot of other ASMRtists is that you really feel like she’s talking to you like she’s your friend. She’s just so open, honest, genuine, and caring when she speaks.

[@patrishanotpatricia6456]

Exactly that

[@pammanners2250]

Absolutely!

[@ashleyireton6756]

Yesss she is just so genuine & not afraid to be her honest self- I love that! I really wish we would have crossed paths when she lived in Baltimore since we are the same age and seem to have similar interests/personalities.. I think we would have been fun sassy girlfriends 🤪

[@Meg-py7cl]

Right? She’s truly down to earth person 🥰

[@djjonmaby3995]

So Right

[@gabbirucci5401]

“I miss my childhood *wine pours*” felt that 🥲

[@lapdoll_]

God Maria, you just are such a breath of fresh air. I love how you let yourself be authentic. I love how you address your audience. It's so obvious to us that you truly are such a good and genuine person. You have inspired me to keep living for quite a long time now. I could never thank you enough.

[@lisaszebralife5772]

Hello 🥰 just popping on to say hi and let you know that I set up my KZbin channel to raise awareness for EDS and other chronic illnesses that I have ! Just uploaded my first video 🥰 if you felt like checking it out and maybe subscribing that would honestly mean the world 🥰🥰🥰xx

[@nerdyarlequinz]

So glad I'm not alone on the natural deodorant. I tried so hard to love the plastic free options but I need science in my armpits.

[@matatosky]

Yeah, that's not happening for me. If I die, I die. In fact, I'll let em write it on my tombstone: "Here lies this dude who didn't wanna use natural deodorants and live aluminum free but at least he didn't smell like hot dog water after 3 minutes outdoors"

[@riggs20]

“Science in my armpits” is a great phrase! 😁

[@mackenziemoore]

Maria is so motherly and comforting no matter what she does and it’s so calming ☺️

[@ginger57350]

Deep Life lessons with Maria: “burn out is normal, you’ll burn out on everything, but that doesn’t mean you quit. Burn out is an opportunity for analysis”

[@LKGM11]

I love her answer! Made me realize that I’m not the only one who burnout, and even better made me realize that we don’t quit because of that!

[@tiffanypetersen789]

That is literally one of the most reassuring things I have ever heard.

[@riggs20]

I loved this too! I’m the full time caregiver for my 82-year-old mother. About 80% of my day is spent feeling burned out. I’m going to try to look at it as a time for reassessment rather than an omen that I should quit.

[@dawnturner7055]

I only had one child!...I knew what I could handle!...so I was one and done too!...hes 20 now...he loves being an only child!...hes in college and living his best life!...hope you have a great day!!💥💫

[@olive7821]

Hello, I’m only 21 but I feel like I only want one child but everyone around me keeps telling me “your child will be so lonely.” Did your son ever complain about feeling lonely?

[@jmorris4972]

Me too

[@Brewst]

@@olive7821 I’m an only child. I was lonely as a child. But I was very creative and I didn’t really get bored. My mind could really keep me entertained. Only children just need friends and cousins in the younger years.

[@Selizabethbb]

I feel the same way... I’m an only child, it’s lonely.

[@cara0cara]

@@olive7821 i am an only child and never felt lonely. It really does depend on the rest of the family... so I wouldn‘t say an only child is automatically destined to be lonely:) there are so many other factors as well

[@aleshaperry1693]

Hey Maria, I love your attitude on skincare, because a lot of people like to demonise chemicals in skincare, but everything is a chemical, water is a chemical, preservatives aren't bad and are there so your skincare doesn't go off after you open it once, so you go girl, use retinol, use what you want ❤

[@Lasciel0717]

Thank you! Just because something is "natural" doesn't make it inherently better!

[@aleshaperry1693]

@@Lasciel0717 exactly, plus essential oils are natural but guaranteed if you put them on your face just pure essential oils you'll burn

[@TheLokoschade]

@@aleshaperry1693 yees I have eczema and I can tell you just because something is natural and with out parfume does not mean it's not irriating sometimes it's better to have one artificial chemical in there, that is of a certain purity and of a certain amount, than having a natural ingredient that consists of several chemicals that could potentially react with different products you use

[@aleshaperry1693]

@@TheLokoschade exactly, with chemicals from the lab they're controlled and they know what amount is good like salicylic acid, but organic stuff can be unstable and it may be useless after being opened more than once

[@emilycollett9104]

I completely agree! And chemicals are natural a lot of the time like water as you said. Just because it's a chemical doesn't mean it's man made, and even if it's man made it doesn't mean it's bad.

[@ghouliaheart]

her vibes are immaculate

[@nalinadlm]

At 14:20 when Maria says “awe sweetie” you can literally sense her compassion and empathy in a nurturing way. I replayed that section a couple times. This was so nurturing for some of us

[@wrenjablonka6090]

literally why did i cry when she said that 🥺🥺

[@cynsmith75]

Then she started rocking and I knew I found the mom I never had.

[@elnora1469]

Definitely! She's very genuine and thoughtful and that comes through in all her responses:)

[@alanahoward9190]

I think you should be a therapist because your healing my soul with your inspirational words

[@Ber.itsCold]

Was I the only one crying through half of it - take a picture and say things to yourself someone who loves you would say?!😭 Your parents are your blanket?!😭 So much I resonated here with, Maria. Thank you for being a virtual mama for some of us adults, too 😂🥺❤️

[@tiffanyjack1240]

Burnouts are an opportunity for analysis...I LOVED this!!

[@kbyeforever]

my mom used to call me her "sunny delight" because i was the happiest child. when i started college i ended up being diagnosed with several disorders including depression and social anxiety and to this day i haven't had that sunny disposition since i was a kid. i miss my former self more than anything, and it is so hard to reflect on how i have changed even if many of the changes are good or have allowed me to grow. struggling sucks. thanks for this video. i will cry with you as we reflect on our childhood ❤

[@elbosquetehabita286]

Aww 🥺 sweetie I'm sure you still your ☀️ I feel like u.

[@asmrkitten]

I’m an only child! My parents knew very early on that they were “one and done” too. Being an only child has been one of my favorite experiences, and I am so close to my parents because of it.

[@heatwilliams8]

This is the best!! Also, I have an 11 month old...and girl...that newborn phase is no JOKE. Also, I put a little bassinet by our bed, but my baby hated that, and/or would wake up every 45 minutes forever, and I would also just wake up to check to see if he was okay if he *didn't * do that, and I only made it maybe 6 WEEKS doing that before bringing him in to bed with me (and kicking my husband out, unfortunately) I had to nurse him to sleep, and then he would stay asleep or wake up and latch if he needed to, and we 3 were able to actually sleep. The lack of sleep was truly killing me. Bringing that little newborn into bed was terrifying, but also necessary...not to mention natural, and there is plenty of literature about how to safely bed-share. I have read, and believe that the whole idea of separate sleeping and sleep training was developed by men in the 70s and truly the whole ideology isn't worth the paper these ideas are written on. But you are so right, when you follow your heart about what your baby/family needs, you will be right every time. Thanks for the authenticity Maria (also, retinol and retinoids 4eva!!! hahaha!)

[@diannewhite573]

I love Maria’s common sense. I love she’s learned not to buy in to the mass do’s & don’t’s of motherhood. I love that she’s realised not to try too hard with people who “don’t fit”& embrace those who do. I love that she is learning with such wisdom. It’s beautiful to see. Life isn’t easy, it’s quite a battle, with many pit falls, but if we are in a position where we can try to listen to our hearts, be true to ourselves, try to correct wrong negative thinking patterns, love a lot, learn to forgive, be respectful, compassionate & empathetic to all, search for spirituality & find the truth, then we can achieve a good measure of inner peace & happiness xxx

[@erin4251]

I love love love this comment

[@lenah6731]

Please do more of these Q&A videos, Maria! They are soo interesting and cool to watch 😊 but all of your videos are just the best 😍

[@nonexistentfuture519]

I have so much anxiety when going to work and trying to make conversation with the only other co worker I have to work with for 7hrs. I struggle immensely trying to make deep connections, but when Maria talked about how some ppl take more time to open up and that’s ok. This made me feel way less awkward about being shy and just more reserved than most. I hope I find those people for me someday🌸

[@dyniawciescie]

Yay! I'm having a glass of wine too, perfect!

[@SassyMashaVlogs]

cheers :)

[@kathybarinia7575]

When you started talking about what your mom would say about you, tears literally filled my eyes. I have no idea why this had me so emotional. Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I definitely learned something today.

[@camjev08]

Aww me too. It made me think of my Mom and appreciate how she is sweet like that too.

[@xphilechef01]

I immediately cried at that part. 🥺

[@pockyeatingpanda]

That was so sweet and it is so interesting how she looks at others like children. So endearing!

[@Miss_Lexisaurus]

I don't think it's healthy to burn out every month but I prefer the saying "learn to rest not quit." Build self care and rest into your days, weeks and months to help you.

[@EmmaCOW93]

I agree :/

[@audreyanderson789]

That is a great saying. Will definitely incorporate

[@hannahharrison111]

I love that. I always think when I have lots going on it's ok to take it slow if I can get it done in the end. Even for things I enjoy, like gardening! It's strenuous work so I have to pace myself. Have a great day everyone. 🥰

[@haleyrosemedley]

It might not be healthy, but it happens. No matter how much self care, life can come at you and hit you in different ways and you have no control of it.

[@Miss_Lexisaurus]

@@haleyrosemedley Oh definitely but if you're burning out every month there's a serious issue.

[@LostInSpaces]

I L O V E the way you think and express yourself! Who else wants to be friends with Maria? 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@nyk0l3tt3]

I definitely know what you mean about the parents and safety. When my mom died, the world suddenly felt unsafe. My #1 protector just doesn't exist on this earth. I have to protect myself. I have my own back. (Edit) I also give myself compliments my mom would say! I try to look at myself with the kindness and love that my mom would.

[@TheGlamorousLifeofNae]

I can relate, this is exactly how I feel after my mom passed last year and it was so sudden so I felt like I had to learn to have my own back very quickly.

[@leahk.]

I felt like all protection was lost when my dad died when I was 17, 6 wks before my graduation. Did NOT realize how much he kept the men away from me and my sisters until then..and from people taking advantage of our family once he was gone. But I do remember people overstaying their welcome until he came home. Then everyone was quick to leave. It was his demeanor and seriousness..lol. But yah...😩🥲💖

[@peacebaby914]

Stopping at one child was the best decision my husband & I made. Our family of 3 is complete, & we're closer with our teenager than most parents with multiples. If your family grows, that's fantastic. But a triangle family is fulfilling and fabulous too.😊

[@kristinewithak9214]

You should do a podcast! I love your take on things especially motherhood♡

[@sydneyw8834]

I would SO listen to her podcast !!

[@sierrab5904]

Was just about to comment this, I would love a Sassy Masha podcast!

[@simonelebaron4985]

That's a great idea! I would totally listen!!

[@ASMRsense]

I miss you very much too! 🥺 Love you ❤

[@doodleasmr7169]

Thank you for helping to normalize being one and done. We were initially one and done, then decided we did want one more, but ultimately it couldn’t happen. It’s been so hard seeing so many people saying how much only children miss out on and it makes me feel so much better when I see other families making that choice (obviously if you change your mind that’s ok too!) and being comfortable with it. Love you all!

[@alicestate2967]

I was raised an only child, and it was a wonderful childhood. I had so much attention from my parents even though they both worked, and it meant that I developed lots of wonderful and long-lasting friendships (I have many from age 4, I am now 17!) I feel you learn to be more independent, but also more creative. You become resourceful, and I feel often, better behaved because you’re not constantly arguing or fighting, and you learn to be more sensible more quickly. But at the end of the day, all kids are kids, whether they have ten siblings or none. Having loving parents is the best family they can be given. 💛

[@princessandthepolish]

Watched this while journaling and having a frozen burrito 😅 so calming and great advice for me to hear as a 21 year old!

[@AnastasiaASMR]

100% there with you about not listening to all the 'professional' advice. Not everything will work for you and forcing yourself to go against your gut is just an awful time. I went through all that with co-sleeping and then I said fuck it. I'm doing what's best for us ❤️

[@sydneyw8834]

Right?! Why tf do people hate co-sleeping so much? It was the best. Did it for a year and still do it occasionally with my 2 year old and will as long as we want because he's MY baby and we both love it!

[@Wanderlust.428]

Hi Maria!❤Love hearing about what's new with you. I cant believe people still ask you about having more kids. Its really a personal question and whether you want more or not it shouldn't be anyone's business and its shouldn't be asked. Its all about what is best for you and your family. You're such a sweet and amazing person! Greetings from Boston!

[@chelseacorby]

Ahh, your last response was so refreshing. As a new mom you really do have a lot thrown at you and it’s so easy to compare and feel like you’re not doing things the “right way” You’re such a gem and these videos are so relaxing and wholesome. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@usernameisunavailable8270]

Right. I just found out I'm pregnant. And I always said I didn't want any children. But if I did have a child, I would only want one. There is so much pressure put not just on pregnant women or mothers, but just women in general. And alot of it does come from other women too. Sometimes it's like damned if you do, damned if you don't. But as long as you're happy and your child is happy, I don't think it matters what anyone thinks. I want to remember this if I ever feel anxious about societal pressures and norms. Sorry this rant is so long lol.

[@jujimars]

I totally felt your skincare response! It must work! I adore (and appreciate) the products that are natural AND that work, however I feel like people hear the word "natural" and automatically think "better." GRASS is natural, and yet not everyone can touch due to having negative reactions to it...Just because something is natural, does not always make it healthier. And often times, products created by trained chemists were made to reverse the negative elements of "nature." But to each their own, and I just hope that people use whatever works for them, whether that's natural products or one with chemical properties! If you're anything like me, it's a collection of both. Maria, you've got me ranting now, but I love it! You're the best!

[@marxistyogamom2982]

your voice is so soothing even when it’s not intentionally ASMR!!

[@jessicacanfield5408]

I was just thinking about that

[@Ch3lsi3J0]

I love the real talk and just general getting to know you videos like this (: been a subscriber for the longest time and I love your ASMR content but the real stuff like this makes me smile and ...it’s just nice (: thanks Maria lots of love to you all

[@lisaszebralife5772]

Hello 🥰 just popping on to say hi and let you know that I set up my KZbin channel to raise awareness for EDS and other chronic illnesses that I have ! Just uploaded my first video 🥰 if you felt like checking it out and maybe subscribing that would honestly mean the world 🥰🥰🥰xx

[@chantellelandon85]

Hey fellow zebra. will check out your channel. i am an eds zebra myself (I have eds type 3) 😇

[@lisaszebralife5772]

@@chantellelandon85 yay lovely to meet you fellow zebra 🥰

[@chelsmarie981]

When you started talking about body positivity and rocking in the chair I felt so so at peace and like total body zen. Oh Maria, you have such a talent. 💕

[@chelseavuchinich4859]

🤗💕💕💕

[@njhaugen]

"I do my best to drink a couple times a week" 🤣 love it! 🍷

[@kevinjames2118]

Your comment about natural Vs Unnatural skincare was so refreshing! There's nothing wrong with any of what you said! I totally agree and if it works for you and isn't harming anyone or anything then what's the problem!!💚

[@okiswearitwasthenanny7134]

Maria mouthing “what the f*** made my day ahhahaha

[@lucylovesspencerreid8905]

what’s the time stamp? my 1/20 vision is failing me

[@ausBerlin1]

you are so relatable and street smart and genuine. love it.

[@sunbeamgal1]

So glad there’ll be a part 2 I could listen all day. You’re so right about separation from parents and not having that safety net and support network around you as much. Even harder when they’re no longer with us. ❤️

[@leannesmith5818]

Open and honest, what a special "friend" you are to us your asmr community

[@poogeasaurus5684]

I’m an only! I don’t feel like I missed out on anything at all- my parents and I were a lil unit! And also I think it made me more mature, as they engaged with me like I was an adult. Served me well! Cheers, Maria!

[@malibuasmr4205]

Mom of an only. We got a LOT of pressure and guilt-trips. I came into the comments to thank Maria for making me feel supported by being so matter-of-fact and comfortable about the topic. Then I found your comment. 💕 🥰 I’m so glad you posted it. Thank you.

[@poogeasaurus5684]

@@malibuasmr4205 Happy to help!

[@Somethin_hazel]

I Love Hearing Your Perspective On Things Thank You for Taking The Time To Make This Q & A ☺️❤️

[@Vanjuska0212]

When you talk about your family, russia and relationships I feel often your pain and it really touches me because I feel the same as you in my own life. For many years as yourself. I have no words of comfort other than always sending you all my heart and remember that this same pain is also the love coushin we have and love so much and were privileged to experience and have in our lives. ❤️

[@gabriellelynnnn]

Love listening to you!! You’re so real and honest, it’s refreshing.

[@christinecade8206]

I'm a mom of a four year old little girl and I wish I had your advice back then. I totally agree with you. Maternal instinct is very important to trust. By the way, I love that kind of video! Nice to have news from you! :) Have a nice week-end! xx

[@laurasaxby9146]

Absolutely loved your response to having more kids (you put in words that I have never been able to when people ask me that too), natural beauty products and body positivity. You’re so good at explaining things!!

[@theDeadliestPants]

I love when I can find people who can cut through all of the bullshit and be real right off the bat. I like to have those conversations who can hold up their end. Also, I think one of the things that people really enjoy about your videos is the eye contact you have with the camera, and breaking that 4th wall so that you invite people in to have a conversation with you, even if we are thousands of miles away. It is effective and something that a lot of people miss when they are doing videos.

[@malibuasmr4205]

Mom of one by choice. Thank you for talking about that option in such a matter-of-fact and positive way. There is so much guilting and pressure we get to have more kids and how you answered that question (whether you end up having 1 or 10 kids) was really cathartic to hear. ❤️❤️ healed some hurts. TY

[@arushibhandari9028]

Maria it's so good to see you and listening to you... I really like it when we can listen your experiences

[@hayleydilworth6609]

Thank you for your honesty! It's so refreshing. I have been a subscriber of your asmr channel since 2015 when I was struggling with fertility issues. I found your asmr channel and asmr at the same time and it really helped my stress levels... and more importantly my insomnia! I then found this channel and suddenly I had something to help me mentally too. We're almost the exact same age and so are our daughters. I really feel a connection with the things you say and do and you've helped keep my sanity at times! I too am one and done... as my husband and I feel fulfilled right now. Its comforting to hear some one else feels this way too. Please keep being you! Sending love and best wishes from the UK.

[@ortiz70773]

That is very true Maria, you often bond better with a person if you hate or dislike the same things. Hate really has power lol

[@eltonjohnson]

As a westerner, I was super surprised when I traveled to Japan and saw how common co-sleeping is for parents. I suspect there could be a space rationale for a lot of people, but it's completely normal, and the kids there, by and large, seem to have turned out alright.

[@carimoreno25]

So wise Maria! I loved your burn out answer so many teens and adults need to hear how difficult time require diligence 💪🏼🙏🏼

[@lizzyjimenez]

I love your points of view on everything!!! ❤️ I just love you Maria, thank you for being you.

[@HannaPramholt]

I just love listening to you. You’re so soft and genuine. I just feel warm listening to you ❤️

[@lisaszebralife5772]

Hello 🥰 just popping on to say hi and let you know that I set up my KZbin channel to raise awareness for EDS and other chronic illnesses that I have ! Just uploaded my first video 🥰 if you felt like checking it out and maybe subscribing that would honestly mean the world 🥰🥰🥰xx

[@esmebrumer6510]

It's so lovely to listen to your chats. You're so sweet and genuine, and everything you said was honestly so relatable, even as someone who's not a mom. Thanks for opening up and sharing. Love your ASMR videos too

[@madisonreid4654]

ahhhh i’ve been waiting for a new video from sassy masha!! ❤️

[@caycef1706]

Maria, I’m sitting here with my glass of wine while dinner is cooking and my husband has the toddler outside. This week has been such a difficult one with said toddler. I KNOW that you know what I mean. So I’m so grateful you decided to upload this. You’re someone I wish I could hang out with in real life for real!

[@nancysikes7581]

Your authenticity, honesty, and willingness to be vulnerable are so refreshing!!! Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us!! ❤️❤️

[@TanyaK771]

I’m so HERE for this series! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@janyjacoboc87]

Hello Maria 🙋‍♀️, it’s so heartfelt to hear how you share your true emotions & thoughts with us , how mommies can sometimes stress on things that we shouldn’t need to be stressing because of what other people tell us. To hear you be honest knowing that something people can be rude and mean yet you bring so much awareness to mommies of how we don’t always need to go by what others may say on how we should be caring for our own babies, I really appreciate you so much because I feel like ur the voice to many mommies who are scared to even say half of what you just shared with us and that Speaks volumes about you in the most amazing way 🥰🥰... sending you positive waves of good energy your way Maria

[@ashleys769]

Your videos always find me when I need them most. You have such a beautiful way of retelling stories and have such wisdom in your words. I appreciate all the hard work you put into your videos all while being a momma and wife. I know that life well! Thank you again. Wishing you all the best. :)

[@alimayasmr8749]

I love your videos where you just sit and talk to us 💛 whether it's answering questions or showing us what you've bought recently, they always bring me comfort 😊✨

[@bridgetbean79]

So many times throughout this I wanted to chime into conversation with you (not anything negative!) and just chat. I find you so genuine, down to earth, and just an overall amazing person! I have too many things to say in response to your answers so I’ll just say that I appreciate you so much ☺️

[@meganx1]

This is my favorite kind of video by you. You are such a role model to me and I love hearing your opinions. I really admire how thoughtful you are about everything in your life and try to do the right thing. Thanks for sharing your life with us, Maria!

[@annafructose]

Thank you Maria! I’m not planning to have kids but I still love your insight and reflections on motherhood so much because I feel like it’s real and from the heart. I also snorted laughing when you said “retinol is not natural, I don’t care” YUP! 🥰

[@akorang]

I seriously love how real you are! Your authenticity is so admirable. I love your blogs Masha 💕

[@scalesdragon2726]

Thank you so much Masha for the ending of this video... everything you mentioned really hit close to home! Just to hear you say it and be honest about it all makes me feel like I'm okay and it's not just me ....just thank you!!!!!

[@emmasobieralski3230]

thank you maria for bringing me peace and comfort every night. I’ve watched you for years and you are always the ASMR channel I watch consistently as no one is as good as you! i even watch this channel as both channels are so calming to watch whether it’s you doing ASMR or not. my name is emma and so in this video you saying hi emma brought me so much comfort so I just had to comment and say thank you. you’re such a genuine person and bring so much kindness into this world. thank you for being my favorite person to watch on youtube :)

[@kristinarivera8580]

I absolutely love this! As a mom of 2 who are 11 months apart, there is no true preparing for kids LOL. And with body positivity, my babies are 6&7 and I’m still learning to love the skin I’m in. It’s all a process and we should def be patient with ourselves ❤️

[@mysticalwhiterabbit4676]

The talk about the body positivity/exercising, is just what I needed to hear! Thank you so much Maria! I have been watching you since the start of your channel! Xoxo

[@wronglayerbutok]

Only «child» here! A lot of perks to it. Just important to have close friends and family. I wish I got taught more how to be independent and also how to solve conflict and anger with others? Had no siblings to fight with so I am truly helpless when people confront me. Fun to be spoiled and to have my own space!

[@jesusgymasmrlover]

Just started watching... sending you, Maria, and your family lots of love!!!

[@katerinemariajosegonzalezg1681]

I needed this! This talk, thank you my friend ✨ I truly love you ♥️

[@aislinnleblanc8019]

I just fell in love with you. You said so many things that hit the nail on the head. The deep and meaningful conversations. The skincare. I love how down to earth and honest you are ❤

[@pammanners2250]

Maria, you are SUCH a delightful human being. Just watching this video (and of course, I watch all of your ASMR vids 🥰), makes me wish I had a friend like you. You’re so REAL, open and honest, vulnerable and welcoming, sparkly and SO DANGED FUNNY! Can’t wait for Part 2. 🤩💛💖

[@applemei]

this video is relaxing! Thank You Maria:)

[@gchewison1]

Maria thank you so much for your wonderful words and your wonderful self. You help me every day- but the messages from this video have really touched me so much. Sending all my love to you and your family xxx

[@Yeodoongiiie]

You bring me INSTANT feeling of safety

[@Avarissa]

It's so hard being away from home and I could relate so much. When I was 21 I moved away to Australia for 5 years and I missed Canada so much. Every year I found holidays got harder to get through being away from my parents. I learned how to be on my own completely away from them and I didn't have that "security blanket". All my accomplishments and I didn't have them to celebrate with me. All the struggles and I couldn't have them around to support me. I've been back home for a while now and I appreciate the time I spend with my family so much more. My heart goes out to you and I hope you get to see your family soon!

[@vitamorex]

I wish I could listen to you speak all day long. I saved this video for two days because your posts are so special to me, on both channels but specifically this one because of the authenticity. Love you Maria 💗

[@abigailelder90]

I haven’t seen my family in almost three years because of Covid. Thanks Maria for talking about how it feels to miss family in such a evocative way. I have been feeling so sad and missing my family but haven’t been able to cry about it until I watched this video. I hope you can hug your family soon ❤️

[@kristivd5472]

Needed this ❤️, especially the end about toddlers🤦🏻‍♀️. It’s been one of those weeks but it’s nice to know I’m not the only one that experiences these things.

[@casitoll7170]

Omg I’ve been watching you for ten years now!!!! I absolutely LOVE your videos, your vibes, your beautiful family! Thank you so so much for all the videos you’ve created over the years and so glad you are part of my world! Hugs from Virginia

[@KerriCz]

I love your glasses! You are a beautiful person inside and out and I am filled with joy every time you upload a new video, whether it is ASMR or real life. So many people online are not their authentic selves - but you are, and it shows, and it inspires me.

[@Bjl2180]

Loved your answer about body positivity and how it’s not about a size but confidence. As we age, size becomes more about building strength and longevity in our bodies. Also, enjoying life and enjoying good food is such a blessing.

[@alexandrasalazar1188]

Maria just brings me happiness, and she makes my heart hopeful and happy. I owe her so much thanks 🙏🏽

[@lindawentink2725]

Love your authenticity, gentleness and your sense of humour Maria🤗

[@mariaeduardamelo9436]

Your videos are so amazing, I feel like you’re really talking to me. I admire you a lot

[@debsone]

I love your mind frame towards everything and trusting your motherly instincts and boundaries 💖

[@TheONETITWONDER]

You're a very wise woman, Maria and I love the advice you give to other women and to mothers too. I'm nearly 65 but I've something from you tonight so you're doing a sterling job!! Thank you for bringing peace and sunshine to so many others. God bless you x

[@haleycolaizzi2798]

Love your points of view! I became a 1st time mom a few months after you. My daughter will be 2 and I totally understand the trials of these first 2 years. I agree with so many things you have said and I appreciate it all ❤️

[@hannsolo8]

This video was everything I needed and more ♡ it's been incredible to see your growth through life over the past 8 + years on this channel♡

[@gc4469]

this made me cry a million times over. i love you Maria. thank you for being such a wonderful presence in my life. i appreciate you so much.

[@jenniferstout640]

I have been watching you for years Maria. I love how real you are with your audience. You are my favorite AMRist/ person!

[@kibummmm]

I love Maria's take on body positivity. I recently started making an effort to be more active and it definitely makes me feel better about myself in many ways. I'm already pretty confident in my appearance and do not need to lose weight, but being active is healthy for my mind and makes me feel really proud that I've done something for my body to keep it strong and healthy.