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@slynn360
@slynn360 2 жыл бұрын
I had a coworker like this. I started taking her backhanded compliments at face value and accepting them in an exxageratedly happy manner that was clearly fake and she stopped doing it to me because she looked dumb
@Ze_Moose
@Ze_Moose Жыл бұрын
I'll have to try that lol
@jasonbuffington5304
@jasonbuffington5304 Жыл бұрын
That's exactly how you handle it !
@darcyd2680
@darcyd2680 9 ай бұрын
😂
@danielrouth7805
@danielrouth7805 3 жыл бұрын
It's passive-aggressive Paaaaaam....... Also called living in the South.
@reason1925
@reason1925 3 жыл бұрын
And they often follow up with: "Bless your heart!"
@Raison_d-etre
@Raison_d-etre 3 жыл бұрын
@Cade Cannon I did. Of course, it costs a lot more now. Worth it if you can afford it though, especially if you're not white (and for women, blond).
@tracyseymour7553
@tracyseymour7553 3 жыл бұрын
@@Raison_d-etre Minnesota as well
@Raison_d-etre
@Raison_d-etre 3 жыл бұрын
@@tracyseymour7553 They're like Canada nice right? Is Canada as bad?
@tracyseymour7553
@tracyseymour7553 3 жыл бұрын
@@Raison_d-etre I think Canadians are nicer
@annabelleecho8056
@annabelleecho8056 3 жыл бұрын
This is not only funny it is clever and provides a useful warning about this toxic personality.
@tommasopincio7658
@tommasopincio7658 3 жыл бұрын
First time commenting ? Good for you !
@jennifersoens6692
@jennifersoens6692 3 жыл бұрын
@@tommasopincio7658 i see what you did there. LOL
@wisdomdantecourt8179
@wisdomdantecourt8179 3 жыл бұрын
OMG PAPs are EVERYWHERE. When you see one R U N!!!!!!
@annabelleecho8056
@annabelleecho8056 3 жыл бұрын
@@tommasopincio7658 You nailed it!
@rmg2419
@rmg2419 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, this Narcissistic behavior is very common now in 2021, unfortunately.
@withyoctopus
@withyoctopus 7 жыл бұрын
"You look tired" is something my colleague always says when she meets me. I say: "Since you always say that you should be used to it by now." Blunt is best, I find.
@bo2720
@bo2720 6 жыл бұрын
Tell her to go fuck herself
@oscarfun100
@oscarfun100 5 жыл бұрын
She was awesome in The Devil Wears Prada indeed. Sorry...
@lucyavarda1742
@lucyavarda1742 5 жыл бұрын
Wow I said this to my friend once. Hope I didn't insult her. I didn't mean any harm was just concerned she wasn't sleeping enough
@cl759
@cl759 5 жыл бұрын
@@lucyavarda1742 Were you concerned? Really? Made her a cup of Horlick's? Sweetheart.
@killaryhitten5243
@killaryhitten5243 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe she just was worried about your mental and physical health, and was trying to open the door up for you to vent or alleviate some stress that had been possibly building up? It's more likely than not that you are dealing with one or several problems, whether you are aware, or they are completely hidden and chipping away at you subconsciously; and instead of acting like a grown, mature adult, you have decided to project your problems onto a KZbin video, feeling like you have won some kind of victory over this person, despite not just being logical and confronting them privately, because (again) subconsciously you are likely avoiding a scenario that you know you've manufactured in order to perpetuate a narrative that is likely inductive of the very issues causing you to look noticeably tired. You can't be told by them how your line of thinking is misconstrued on this particular issue, because they aren't here to explain their rationale, meaning you have invented a situation resulting in a "win" based on perception. If it's mostly subconscious, you will be more aware now, if you step back at this precise second, and take notice at how irrationally angry you might be; a product of some person who you are about to claim had no idea what he's saying, doesn't know you, and is probably "an idiot". But if those are true, then you shouldn't be bothered; if they are just being an asshole, then you will be have a nice chuckle at my nonsensical rant. Who knows ?
@Acidicju
@Acidicju 3 жыл бұрын
I guess when Passive Aggressive Pam insults you, you could call that a PAP smear?
@CasuallyObservant
@CasuallyObservant 3 жыл бұрын
Bah dum tssss!
@mlewis3068
@mlewis3068 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent!!!
@wisdomdantecourt8179
@wisdomdantecourt8179 3 жыл бұрын
You just broke the internet! 🤣🤣🤣
@owedhead7303
@owedhead7303 3 жыл бұрын
@Brianna Philips, At first, I thought your comment was stupid until I realized that you were making fun of the spelling. And then I was thinking to myself how witty...cheesy, but witty. I love the Beatles, I play guitar, I smoke and I smoke weed all day. Are you single?
@darkmeetslyte_2102
@darkmeetslyte_2102 3 жыл бұрын
Can’t be funny without getting negged!
@curlywurly70
@curlywurly70 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine having a mother like Pam. Then again some of us don't have to imagine. 😥
@actionsub
@actionsub 3 жыл бұрын
Or an ex-wife...
@FriendofDorothy
@FriendofDorothy 3 жыл бұрын
been there/done that with a parent
@fearlessstudios1
@fearlessstudios1 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I have one
@oliviaruetten3366
@oliviaruetten3366 3 жыл бұрын
same tbh :/
@calisongbird
@calisongbird 3 жыл бұрын
My mom never bothered with the “passive” part of passive aggressive.
@actionsub
@actionsub 3 жыл бұрын
I spent 28 years married to someone like this. Ironically, her name was Pam...
@danielm.8853
@danielm.8853 3 жыл бұрын
I guess Pam means Passive Aggressive Ma'am
@GT-fi4sk
@GT-fi4sk 3 жыл бұрын
Haha I feel your pain
@jkfan2005
@jkfan2005 3 жыл бұрын
Oooh thanks for sharing. But "appropriately" is the word, not "ironically." [Pam would be sure to point that out]
@leahnole9771
@leahnole9771 3 жыл бұрын
Mike you can't be serious? Really? LOL!
@PoseidonKross2009
@PoseidonKross2009 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I’m sorry you had to endure that for almost three decades!!! That’s horrible
@nikoincroatia
@nikoincroatia 9 жыл бұрын
The best move is always to pretend you don't notice. They'll either get frustrated, or they'll gloat and feel all superior. Either way they'll amp it up and eventually they'll straight out insult you. Still ignore it. They lose their minds XD
@redwanrizvi
@redwanrizvi 7 жыл бұрын
nikoincroatia thanks
@jaffaorange3809
@jaffaorange3809 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice. I can't remember anyone asking for it, but I guess we all have to learn in life. (Just kidding.)
@pmeagle
@pmeagle 7 жыл бұрын
Hi passive aggressive Jaffa!
@Evija3000
@Evija3000 7 жыл бұрын
Responding to anything negative with something genuinely positive will usually make people annoyed or confused :)
@japikolee
@japikolee 7 жыл бұрын
Or you can just start exaggeratedly tell them how superior from you they are. Do it with a smile and add a little chuckle at the end, they'll be just as confused as you are with their remarks.
@margotgorske6986
@margotgorske6986 3 жыл бұрын
I had a male boss; passive aggressive Pete
@sindeekaye2223
@sindeekaye2223 3 жыл бұрын
I had a “friend” who was passive aggressive. Note the words “I had.” I cut that one loose. 😂
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
YASS You get that cancer loose for sure!! 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@ElearningDigest
@ElearningDigest 3 жыл бұрын
Also known as a “Frenemy”.
@lisagrieb8836
@lisagrieb8836 3 жыл бұрын
A “verbal middle finger” ... love it😂
@katie4623
@katie4623 5 жыл бұрын
She's a character and yet I actually hate her. Cuts too close to the bone.
@butwhatif9645
@butwhatif9645 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah bud, a bit too close.
@ss_whole
@ss_whole 3 жыл бұрын
She's a loathsome, offensive brute, yet I can't look away
@johnboykin3128
@johnboykin3128 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@nellieshoals
@nellieshoals 3 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of several past bosses! >:(
@lindataylor3834
@lindataylor3834 3 жыл бұрын
That's awesome acting, then!
@mistet7938
@mistet7938 3 жыл бұрын
Every young women going into office live should watch this and be aware this happens often
@NasreenUS
@NasreenUS 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@meme2363
@meme2363 3 жыл бұрын
Rule#1: there are no friends at work.
@alisongrace4334
@alisongrace4334 3 жыл бұрын
Ooh, bless you. First time trying to spell ‘woman’? ... Don’t worry, I just couldn’t get that word ‘woman’ right, until I was about 9 years old!
@sarahgoff4795
@sarahgoff4795 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry, I don’t understand. Why should young women beware of passive aggressive behavior?
@theparalexview785
@theparalexview785 3 жыл бұрын
First time working with a Pam? Don't worry, you won't need to get used to her. You won't be here long enough.
@TokyoXtreme
@TokyoXtreme 6 жыл бұрын
Wow, Jimmy Fallon kept in character throughout the entire sketch.
@vicroberts3080
@vicroberts3080 3 жыл бұрын
yeah thank goodness.. i really got tired of his breaking character gag real fast
@yaras9009
@yaras9009 3 жыл бұрын
Lol he could ve learned the words.. He is still patjetic actor
@erikavidor5946
@erikavidor5946 3 жыл бұрын
That was pretty passive aggressive Pam of you
@jerrysizzler44
@jerrysizzler44 3 жыл бұрын
And yet still wasn't funny.
@Trevcreative1
@Trevcreative1 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaa! I was thinking the same thing
@philw4025
@philw4025 3 жыл бұрын
Flashbacks to my old boss, whose response to my calling off from the ER with a blood pressure of over 200 was to say, "Well you should have scheduled this emergency room visit in advance, it's very disrespectful to your students to miss class."
@whateverlolawants
@whateverlolawants 3 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, I recall a boss who said, "Can't you have a panic attack when you're not on the clock?" Not only can I not help it, but shit like that was WHY I had panic attacks.
@millsykooksy4863
@millsykooksy4863 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@lynnstlaurent6789
@lynnstlaurent6789 2 жыл бұрын
After three days in the hospital mine asked me to create an action plan to take vitamin C!
@conorsmith8551
@conorsmith8551 2 жыл бұрын
@@whateverlolawants "yeah if you could go ahead and plan your heart attacks in advance.. that would be great"
@TheDarkestMarcus
@TheDarkestMarcus 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like there aren't enough comments about the way Barbershop Quartet just scrambled outta there after every song!
@jamesmcinnis208
@jamesmcinnis208 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for letting us know what you feel like.
@user-ik4kh9lt6d
@user-ik4kh9lt6d 2 жыл бұрын
I can't tell you how many "passive agressive pams" I know in real life. This sketch hit it dead on.
@michelerich1590
@michelerich1590 3 жыл бұрын
I wish everyone would watch this as a wake up call. How accurate.
@Anna81WA
@Anna81WA 3 жыл бұрын
This is my mother...best thing is healthy boundaries and ignoring the behavior so they don’t get a “hit” or satisfaction from it. Most narcissists use this type of behavior too sadly.
@TigerzLionzPistonzWingz
@TigerzLionzPistonzWingz 3 жыл бұрын
Oh Christ, who doesn't know people like this. Blood pressure raiser!!
@BrandonSL500
@BrandonSL500 3 жыл бұрын
This is todays "Karen"
@wisdomdantecourt8179
@wisdomdantecourt8179 3 жыл бұрын
Assholes amongst us indeed! Welcome to the general working climate in America!
@victorc.9072
@victorc.9072 3 жыл бұрын
My HR representative.
@mountainman8775
@mountainman8775 2 жыл бұрын
@@wisdomdantecourt8179 it’s things like this will cause people of the future to give up on the modern concept of working life
@t.b.g.504
@t.b.g.504 4 ай бұрын
An in-law who thinks her immediate family is 'better than yours.'
@notofthisworld5267
@notofthisworld5267 3 жыл бұрын
There’s ppl who are like this, and you can’t change them either. They become to comfortable and set in their ways. They get pleasure from being like this.
@dieguismama2330
@dieguismama2330 3 жыл бұрын
Isn’t that just literally EVERYONE at an office ever?!
@jordanabeaulieu2530
@jordanabeaulieu2530 3 жыл бұрын
Dieguismama. I was feeling that way at my job and felt miserable. To be honest, the best part for me personally in those difficult times is working from home so I don't have to see those people. In fact, I wish I could work from home permanently!
@hinkhall5291
@hinkhall5291 3 жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself. People at my office aren’t like this.
@jcrocks6698
@jcrocks6698 3 жыл бұрын
No. If this is your office, get out! You don't need that toxic stress.
@whateverlolawants
@whateverlolawants 3 жыл бұрын
Thankfully, not any office I've worked at.
@millsykooksy4863
@millsykooksy4863 3 жыл бұрын
God Yes!
@annajolie228
@annajolie228 9 жыл бұрын
Bosses like this are the worst
@ftuT
@ftuT 2 жыл бұрын
Ana is a national treasure. Her NPR sketches with Molly Shannon and her role in Lady Dynamite (that show is a fantastic acid trip) should be historically preserved.
@BlueMonkeySky
@BlueMonkeySky Жыл бұрын
This should have been a regular sketch. Awesome!!!
@psterud
@psterud Жыл бұрын
I had a boss like this. Awful person. She was also a natural expert in gaslighting. I'm still recovering two and a half years later. Human Resources LOVED her, so I had no recourse. My fault for selling my soul to an office. Live and learn, then learn and live.
@notsure1277
@notsure1277 3 жыл бұрын
Gasteyer: one of the most underrated SNL performers.
@TRVBAL
@TRVBAL 3 жыл бұрын
Who underrated her?
@tatehildyard5332
@tatehildyard5332 3 жыл бұрын
Society man. Society underrated her. The fact that she’s not a big name movie star like her contemporaries is the fault of society.
@gioPHL
@gioPHL 3 жыл бұрын
You should hear her sing! Check out her album "I'm Hip." It's awesome.
@lmp9726
@lmp9726 3 жыл бұрын
Gasteyer and Jan Hooks could do the insincere, passive agressive character flawlessly.
@dvdly
@dvdly 3 жыл бұрын
@@tatehildyard5332 Give me the names of this society. I am going to fight their dads.
@1timeforyamind
@1timeforyamind 3 жыл бұрын
Great sketch! If only I could find the sense of humor in it 😀 -Pam
@luigicirelli2583
@luigicirelli2583 3 жыл бұрын
brilliantly written, directed, acted, genius sketch
@fozzybear8878
@fozzybear8878 4 жыл бұрын
She is perfect for that passive aggressive Pam role. Love it!
@googlesucks6029
@googlesucks6029 3 жыл бұрын
I just realised I've met a lot of passive aggressive people in my life.
@dayeeoliver
@dayeeoliver 3 жыл бұрын
We all have people like her all around ourselves
@JayLawson
@JayLawson 3 жыл бұрын
This Passive Aggressive skit was great...for an SNL skit.
@buttayobread505
@buttayobread505 3 жыл бұрын
You could tell this skit hit a bit too close to home with a lot of the audience..
@ArcWarrior
@ArcWarrior 3 жыл бұрын
OMG I've always thought that when I've seen this skit. So many managers and office people act like Pam it's a shame. They probably felt some type of way as they should.
@jakestroll6518
@jakestroll6518 3 жыл бұрын
Probably because the whole thing was a passive aggressive jab at them
@errcoche
@errcoche 3 жыл бұрын
Very well written sketch. Most SNL sketches just stretch one mildly funny situation out way too long but this one was strong right to the end. I remember my "Pam" quite well. When I was in charge of an office move I made sure she got the absolute best spot in the new place. When she saw her new spot she was so disappointed about not having something to bitch about she blurted it right out in a heart broken tone.
@AmandaabnamA
@AmandaabnamA 10 ай бұрын
She was rewarded
@butwhatif9645
@butwhatif9645 5 жыл бұрын
This pam character is awful, never felt soo much hatred for a character.
@wisdomdantecourt8179
@wisdomdantecourt8179 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine having to see her @ work every day. Yup you guessed it. Her name was Pam! 😩😩😩
@theadventureparent
@theadventureparent 3 жыл бұрын
This one just hits too close to home. But it’s nice of SNL to remind us it’s not in our heads.
@abundance4324
@abundance4324 3 жыл бұрын
And there’s always somebody like Pam at your work place lol
@wisdomdantecourt8179
@wisdomdantecourt8179 3 жыл бұрын
Yup. Her name was......wait for it......,PAM! 😩😩😩
@nicholascave3012
@nicholascave3012 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! 😯 I had a manager just like her but she wasn't as harmless. I mentioned her use of constant sarcasm once and she kept a grudge until found an excuse to fire me.
@tlewis4054
@tlewis4054 3 жыл бұрын
They always keep note, then smile after they give you notice, very snide people 🤯
@johnpelletier7641
@johnpelletier7641 10 ай бұрын
Just when I thought I had seen every SNL sketch. This is brilliant and hilarious. Ana Gasteyer, impeccable as always. And the Greek chorus in the guise of the barbershop quarter - just amazing. And, yes, we all know someone like Pam.
@LouisEmery
@LouisEmery 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't met anyone like this until a few yeas ago. Her husband was a saint to live with her.
@MrVinceMunro
@MrVinceMunro 5 жыл бұрын
Oh look it's my mother in law, fun!
@martijn_yt
@martijn_yt 3 жыл бұрын
As well as my mother 😂
@amyhutchinson3170
@amyhutchinson3170 3 жыл бұрын
MINE TOO! Haha. It's a blast. Especially fun because it ALL goes right over my hubbys head (likely because he is sooo used to it).
@MrVinceMunro
@MrVinceMunro 3 жыл бұрын
@@amyhutchinson3170 I had that same problem and it was driving me nuts! I talked about it with my husband and he started seeing what was actually happening and we put a stop to it together. He was so used to it he didn't even realize it until I said something!
@DG-hb8wq
@DG-hb8wq 3 жыл бұрын
Same! How fun! Yay!
@parkerapricot
@parkerapricot 3 жыл бұрын
Yup, my MIL is a covert narcissist and my partner went grey rock without knowing what it was to deal with her.
@looper9264
@looper9264 3 жыл бұрын
I can't watch this anymore, it brings back some bad memories. I hate people like this.
@jilljones3664
@jilljones3664 3 жыл бұрын
Assertiveness training is needed to deal with people like Pam. The good news is they usually play the same games over and over so the first time they may catch us off guard, really let us have it with an insult disguised as a compliment and then disappear before we realize they INTENDED to be mean. But they'll try it again and when they do we can be ready for them.
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
Gregory Loomis..I fully can relate to what you're saying Sir! Some people are unnecessarily rude..😒😠
@johnjohnson3709
@johnjohnson3709 3 жыл бұрын
I have a female boss and she’s actually like this. I never noticed until I saw this skit.
@wisdomdantecourt8179
@wisdomdantecourt8179 3 жыл бұрын
Miserable folk for sure. Most have a superiority complex as and manage to hide it very well. 🤫
@conscious-typeperson4583
@conscious-typeperson4583 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe you need to bring in a barbershop quartet so she gets the message.
@jamestidwell4989
@jamestidwell4989 3 жыл бұрын
I had one female boss who was like that. She was a piece of work. Had another female subordinate who tried these stunts with me her boss. She wasn't with me for long. She flipped out and went to hospital due to a suicide attempt. I told her she could only return to her job if her psychiatrist would clear her. She never returned. She ended up talking her husband into getting a vasectomy claiming she didn't wan't children Once he followed through with the cutting, she divorced him because she wanted chilldren after all. I nick named her Loraina Bobbit.
@billiejennings3531
@billiejennings3531 10 жыл бұрын
I had a teacher in High School that acted exactly like this towards all students. Awful person. Funny skit though. Damn Katie Holmes was soo cute before.
@harpiyon
@harpiyon 10 жыл бұрын
they were all cute. then they met Tom Cruise...
@WillowJordan1979
@WillowJordan1979 4 жыл бұрын
"Before"? That sounds like something Passive Aggressive Pam would say.
@tonibauer2949
@tonibauer2949 3 жыл бұрын
@@WillowJordan1979 exactly what I thought.
@drumsNstuff79
@drumsNstuff79 3 жыл бұрын
I had a very mean snarky fifth grade teacher just like this! "Did your mom buy you those pencils from the cute bin in the front BTS display at Kmart? Has she not seen a yellow #2?"
@drumsNstuff79
@drumsNstuff79 3 жыл бұрын
God now I remember what hell standardized test day was!
@danielrouth7805
@danielrouth7805 3 жыл бұрын
BEFORE THERE WERE KARENS, THERE WAS PAM
@TheTripstraps
@TheTripstraps 3 жыл бұрын
i wonder what name comes next. should be male?
@lunetelalune2783
@lunetelalune2783 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheTripstraps Notice how it is men calling her "Karen".
@kaymuldoon3575
@kaymuldoon3575 3 жыл бұрын
To be honest, as annoying as someone like Pam can be, I would much rather have to deal with someone like her than to be outright abused by a narcissist.
@ceilconstante7813
@ceilconstante7813 3 жыл бұрын
Narcissist can be passive aggressive.
@allme2547
@allme2547 3 жыл бұрын
But I find it frustrating because the passive aggressive person plays innocent when you try to call them out on it. So, it's a cowardly way of being abusive towards others.
@EEVictory13
@EEVictory13 3 жыл бұрын
Being passive aggressive is a form of emotional abuse and can even border on gaslighting.
@martymaloney1032
@martymaloney1032 3 жыл бұрын
@@allme2547 Covert narcissist.
@ozzieenglelewis
@ozzieenglelewis 3 жыл бұрын
@@ceilconstante7813 covert narcissist
@sexyhomeowner9345
@sexyhomeowner9345 9 жыл бұрын
Pam - the incarnation of every other pupil at any all-girls' school.
@musiclolli7280
@musiclolli7280 6 жыл бұрын
Amaechi Jones I understand your point but there are loads of men who are like this. Its a stereotype that a lot of girls mould themselves into or get misjudged because it's perpetuated constantly.. Also comes as a reaction to being called "overemotional or feisty etc" when merely directly expressing a problem or pointing out a mistake.. Not saying what you said isn't true ~ but you might be adding to the issue you are pointing out by making such a comment..!
@lucyavarda1742
@lucyavarda1742 5 жыл бұрын
I went to an all girl's and the girls were lovely. Then I moved to a private and that's where I saw some nonsense
@mrfake675
@mrfake675 3 жыл бұрын
@@musiclolli7280 plenty of men are but not as much in Boys. Boys deal with conflict in direct confrontation and physical aggresion much more then behave in a passive aggressive manner....I think testosterone drives this behavior to a degree.
@mountainman8775
@mountainman8775 2 жыл бұрын
Met countless women like this. Met zero men like this.
@yellowblanka6058
@yellowblanka6058 2 жыл бұрын
@@mrfake675 Boys or men who never matured emotionally....there's a reason clubs/bars have bouncers.
@emilybarker3240
@emilybarker3240 3 жыл бұрын
My tactic wi it h this personality is to take it at face value. They said a positive thing I’ll take it and make them believe I think it’s a positive thing. They say to do something and I’ll do the thing that they said to do even if it was sarcastic. They can’t do anything about it without owning up to the fact that they were passive aggressive. Works so well and drives them nuts.
@user-dt6xn9qu7f
@user-dt6xn9qu7f 3 жыл бұрын
I know people like this, if you try to defend yourself or dish it back they get defensive and play victim. Better to just ignore it and make it meaningless, then they get angry Of course in here it's funny, not trashing the sketch. I liked it
@nellieshoals
@nellieshoals 3 жыл бұрын
Yup, just let it flow over you like water. Not your responsibility to help assholes not be assholes.
@mountainman8775
@mountainman8775 2 жыл бұрын
That’s the passive-aggressive gaslighting that comes if they’re ever called out. They never stop this, and never admit there was a sting in their word.
@ericrood4100
@ericrood4100 3 жыл бұрын
I grew up around this sort of thing because of my family. I actually never knew the term for it until now.
@radamik
@radamik 3 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of Marie on Everybody Loves Raymond. The way she treated her daughter in law: “ I wish I could just throw on anything and leave the house.” By the way that pink dress the new employee is wearing is fantastic. Very cool and not that corporate career!career!career! look.
@linnycrocus6023
@linnycrocus6023 3 жыл бұрын
Will Ferrell doesn't do much in this sketch and he still cracks me up.
@mckernan603
@mckernan603 Жыл бұрын
His commitment is undeniable. The exact opposite of Pete Davidson
@taurussian4591
@taurussian4591 4 жыл бұрын
There are real people who are like this Pam. I traveled with a guy like this multiple times, I didn’t know why. Almost every day I was annoyed.
@kipsa
@kipsa 3 жыл бұрын
The "I always told everyone he wasn't gay" was a joke about Tom Cruise!
@user-dt6xn9qu7f
@user-dt6xn9qu7f 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, i think the audience noticed too. I wonder if Katie was ok with it
@jjjlove2260
@jjjlove2260 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-dt6xn9qu7f she had to be. I don't think she would have done the skit if she wasn't
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
😲😲😲
@cherylthompson2731
@cherylthompson2731 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@jenk5267
@jenk5267 8 жыл бұрын
Will Ferrell is trying so hard to stand out in this
@jamesofarcadia
@jamesofarcadia 8 жыл бұрын
+Jenn KG thought the exact same thing!!!
@LisforLosers
@LisforLosers 8 жыл бұрын
Yassssss
@ClaudKaKeiYeung
@ClaudKaKeiYeung 8 жыл бұрын
+Jenn KG Doesn't he always?
@siri_siri4709
@siri_siri4709 6 жыл бұрын
Ikr but it worked for me!
@johnlumsden1969
@johnlumsden1969 6 жыл бұрын
He's literally doing exactly what the other 3 guys are
@lindahandley5267
@lindahandley5267 3 жыл бұрын
I've known plenty of those in my work career! There was one woman who walked into the office I was in and promptly gave me a suggestion, of which I promptly told her, 'gee thanks for bringing that to everyone's attention'! She ended up looking like the fool that she was!
@QT168
@QT168 Жыл бұрын
I love that wicked sense of humor
@jeffkrebs
@jeffkrebs 3 жыл бұрын
Really well written. Loved it
@rachelm2041
@rachelm2041 3 жыл бұрын
How many Pam's have I run into over the years? Too many! 😬
@dpsulliv
@dpsulliv 3 жыл бұрын
There’s no way they brought that back. It was too smart and too on the nose for a lot of people I’m sure.
@kymmiisha
@kymmiisha 7 жыл бұрын
In this day and age we call it SHADE!! Lol
@fenecofeneco19
@fenecofeneco19 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, assho*** now should be seen as social role models..
@cl759
@cl759 5 жыл бұрын
No we still call them bitches and bastards.
@terebertuccivoicemusic9821
@terebertuccivoicemusic9821 5 жыл бұрын
this caused me anxiety :S
@rutarde
@rutarde 5 жыл бұрын
It's so real and so good, I've met many of them.
@juliecorona9744
@juliecorona9744 3 жыл бұрын
😂🤣🥲Best cast on this sketch!!! Love all of them !!!! ❤️
@rperez327
@rperez327 3 жыл бұрын
I actually love those kinds of people... Helps me sharpen my wits and deflection skills with off balancing comments
@Tmanaz480
@Tmanaz480 3 жыл бұрын
"Let's rummage around the costume closet...oohh barbershop outfits"
@mitchravenswyck705
@mitchravenswyck705 3 жыл бұрын
What a rough crowd... Ana Gasteyer is fantastic here!
@MindlessTurtle
@MindlessTurtle 3 жыл бұрын
She's almost too good.
@SDALLE99
@SDALLE99 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, I love her. She’s so endearing to me. Kinda resembles my mother... 😅
@mdgsk824
@mdgsk824 8 жыл бұрын
Katie Holmes and Drew Barrymore have the same quirks
@bondpaz
@bondpaz 3 жыл бұрын
I AM Pam!!!🤣❤️
@florakoutouzakis9615
@florakoutouzakis9615 3 жыл бұрын
Very funny! We've all known at least 1 person just like Pam in our lives.
@foreverblessed6443
@foreverblessed6443 3 жыл бұрын
My boss is exactly like this. I'm looking for a new job 🙄
@jolien8195
@jolien8195 3 жыл бұрын
Same...
@pandapanda8354
@pandapanda8354 3 жыл бұрын
A whole sketch about my mom!
@brianrohan1
@brianrohan1 3 жыл бұрын
Katie has a hand gesture for each and every word. She looks like she’s trying to dry her nails throughout the sketch.
@wizzyb9761
@wizzyb9761 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think she's ever NOT had that twitchy weird half-grin thing that I find so annoying.
@brianrohan1
@brianrohan1 3 жыл бұрын
@Yabadoo Lively 😅😂
@theparalexview785
@theparalexview785 3 жыл бұрын
You really tried to contribute to the conversation. Bless your heart.
@NAConen
@NAConen 3 жыл бұрын
@@theparalexview785 Are you doing a Pam bit?! Lol
@1timeforyamind
@1timeforyamind 3 жыл бұрын
Great comments ! Sure the peasants who don’t waste their brain cells reading on it will enjoy! (:
@thefemalemantis
@thefemalemantis 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of her facial expressions and tone in the way she delivers things reminds me a lot of Mad TV's Lancome lady
@Ransomhandsome
@Ransomhandsome 2 жыл бұрын
One of the jokes is a word-for-word lift from one of Nicole Sullivan's Vancome lady sketches on MadTv.
@moooozart
@moooozart 10 жыл бұрын
I think this is hilarious, a lot better than some of the recurring sketches....Wondered why it didn't appear more!
@LXSeaV
@LXSeaV Жыл бұрын
For some reason never saw this gem until now! Eternally classic description of these kinds of people.
@DaijaMonroe
@DaijaMonroe 8 ай бұрын
There’s a few of these at every workplace
@fashiondiva6972
@fashiondiva6972 3 жыл бұрын
I’m as subtle as a shotgun. Passive Aggressive Pam and I don’t play well together. But it sure is a great show for the office to watch. Then I got my own spinoff series and now Pam works for me. She’s Unhappy Medicated Pam now. And I’m Decides If She Has a Job Tomorrow Boss
@annieholbis2430
@annieholbis2430 3 жыл бұрын
Good on you!
@mayhemjr.803
@mayhemjr.803 Жыл бұрын
Wow!
@kelsieboo99
@kelsieboo99 3 жыл бұрын
she was wayyyyy too good at this i wanted to actually punch the screen
@abibb27
@abibb27 3 жыл бұрын
I have multiple coworkers like this and it makes me want to die lol
@carolyngrey2853
@carolyngrey2853 3 жыл бұрын
Lol wtf is this i love it 😂 will farrel's face is priceless
@LinkinParkConnoisseur
@LinkinParkConnoisseur 6 жыл бұрын
Wow this year.... 2001 Who let the dogs out was a huge thing and Linkin Park dropped the highest selling debut album of this century. crazy how time flies by.
@mimprincesa
@mimprincesa 6 жыл бұрын
Wth passive aggressive call em out or pretend you dont understand what theyre saying😂
@asheashe99
@asheashe99 3 жыл бұрын
Love this. Surprised it didn't become a recurring sketch...
@RustySpoons6490
@RustySpoons6490 3 ай бұрын
It *really* is quite an art form to be that miserable but veiled in either being helpful, concerned, or confused.
@athkiamaisha6806
@athkiamaisha6806 5 жыл бұрын
I have to deal with this kind of people...pain
@rogerdavis5142
@rogerdavis5142 3 жыл бұрын
Every boss I’ve ever had ever!
@Jess-kn8vl
@Jess-kn8vl Жыл бұрын
I know a lady like this. She came up to me to ask me a question and said somone else told her to ask me because I know everything, and then she laughed in my face with her face inches from mine. I almost punched her lol
@kaseyjones2861
@kaseyjones2861 5 ай бұрын
This is actually hilarious 😂
@MattGreerMusic
@MattGreerMusic 3 жыл бұрын
Man this is too real to find funny.
@betteurbain7911
@betteurbain7911 3 жыл бұрын
Hey! Junior college (community college) is still college! Our courses have to transfer to universities.
@notsure1277
@notsure1277 3 жыл бұрын
Nonsense. Students at CCs expect a substandard academic ride, and most instructors there are barely qualified to provide a mediocre education.
@doctordl7757
@doctordl7757 3 жыл бұрын
@@notsure1277 University is a money scam that puts you 100k in debt for a annual salary that isn't even half of that when you graduate. Just look at the Harvard graduates.
@notsure1277
@notsure1277 3 жыл бұрын
@@doctordl7757 That may be so, but the topic here is community colleges. How does what you wrote address community colleges?
@doctordl7757
@doctordl7757 3 жыл бұрын
@@notsure1277 You make it sound like university is ideal while belittling a community college. Are you pretentious?
@notsure1277
@notsure1277 3 жыл бұрын
@@doctordl7757 Not at all. I am speaking from experience. What I have seen with my own eyes.
@ashleyelliott444
@ashleyelliott444 3 жыл бұрын
I think Pam works in my office too!
@wolfie-wr9rf
@wolfie-wr9rf 3 жыл бұрын
I need passive aggressive Pam with my toxic family
@julia448
@julia448 4 жыл бұрын
1:59 and he llllllllloved junior college :)
@RickWolffTV
@RickWolffTV 3 жыл бұрын
I think nowadays we call these microaggressions
@mountainman8775
@mountainman8775 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks that’s helpful to have a word for it
@dynamopirate470
@dynamopirate470 3 жыл бұрын
I'm getting retail flashbacks.
@porflepopnecker4376
@porflepopnecker4376 3 жыл бұрын
The best way to combat passive aggression is to BE the passive-aggressive person in your group.
@kimboydstonartanddesign
@kimboydstonartanddesign 3 жыл бұрын
First time singing? That was funny😀
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