Save Your Marriage Without Saying A Word

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@danielbonnette14 Жыл бұрын

So, my wife ended up coming back and wanting me again. And it's not because I paid for your marriage mastery, BUT I watched maybe 100 of your videos to better myself and set boundaries. I took every word that you said in those videos and applied them to my current situation. Yeah my situation was more than likely different because she eventually told me that she never stopped loving me she left because she hated the guy I have become. Most of that was from my past. But I have moved on and I'm spending tons of time with my son, and my wife has moved back in and wanting to spend time with me, like constantly asking for time together and sex. I actually had to tell her to do something for herself so she doesn't get burnt out lol....but thank you Josh and I am continuing my learning from you. Thank you again.

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

THIS is why I create these videos. That's a HUGE win in my book

@desmondbaxter2449 Жыл бұрын

Is this real

@Junoj101 8 ай бұрын

your wife came back to you because she could not, or did not find a better option. sure it helps if you get your sh*^&^# together, but the fact is very simple, she only came back because the grass was NOT greener on the other side. I find it fascinating how humans twist things so that they can deal with reality. and the reality is that if she did indeed find a better option she would be with that option and not you.

@S1lverspike 4 ай бұрын

@@Junoj101most people don’t find someone better when they have kids with them. They just need to become the best versions of themselves.

@Junoj101 4 ай бұрын

@@S1lverspike she left because she was thinking she could do better, after realizing that she could not - she came back. this is becoming a very common situation for man women. they think that they can do better, they go on the dating market and get smashed over and over again only to realize that the grass was NOT greener on the other side. sure, it helps if the man has leveled up while she was "dating" other dudes. but any man who has truly leveled up would not take her back . . . he should have better options than someone who is for the streets.

@mark5650 9 ай бұрын

I’m trying to do these things and it’s the hardest thing I have ever tried to do in my life! We both filed but I made it clear that I don’t want this I want to rebuild our entire relationship from the ground up. She hasn’t moved out or even told the kids so seeing her looking so hot every day is still killing me. I’m praying for a miracle to stop this abomination that is threatening our marriage in its 20th year.

@derickhardy5116 9 ай бұрын

Same here Bro.. watching her look so damn good and not be the apple of her eye no more hits different

@CallsItLikeISeizeIts 8 ай бұрын

So true

@freemanfornow264 6 ай бұрын

Yes I'm in my 20th year as well and my wife left a week ago and likely isn't coming back... mother's day is in 2 days and she hasn't even contacted our children since she left which is NOTHING like her.....I don't know how I'm gonna salvage this thing but I love my wife with everything in me and I'll do ANYTHING AT ALL to save it....

@brentburkholderjr8129 Жыл бұрын

I am almost drowning. I know my wife is spent. She is pretty numb and emotionless from my selfish assholeish ways for so long. I recently started to change. Staying calm and not letting my emotions get the best of me. It's fuckin hard when you know you're losing your absolute best friend. But I am determined.

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

You got this man. You're on the right track

@BallhawkSports-d5x 4 ай бұрын

Don’t give up !

@2atalkandpolitics422 8 ай бұрын

My by law “wife” says our relationship is over. As weird as it sounds I’m glad she it is. I have child abandonment issues and it wrecked my marriage. I asked out of respect give us 3 months to file because we have a Disney trip coming up. So she’s waiting to file. However I now have a 3 month window to try and win her over even though according to her it’s a very small chance. We’re sleeping in different rooms in the house and my son sleeps with me (yes we have a son together and then there’s the step daughter) I could have let the band aid ripped of immediately but I have 3 months to work on me and try and show her

@Junoj101 8 ай бұрын

understanding the WHY is the key and the hardest thing to derive. yes derive, because what most woman say is not what they mean or even understand . . . I do not know what type of relationship that you have but what she is saying is that she basically thinks she can find a better alternative than you even with two children next to her. this may be true or just her delusion, but because she has not taken any action she is still on the fence. my recommendation for you is to try to understand the WHY and in the interim work on improving yourself and do apply the stuff in the video.

@S1lverspike 4 ай бұрын

How did it go?

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

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@donrickbell4805 Жыл бұрын

Trying to set up a schedule but when I click to step 2 it doesn't show anything

@markhorton3504 Жыл бұрын

Love theese videos i think re-watching these are helping but i need some guidance

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

Set up a call with my team and we can see what we can do 👉 www.joshhudsoncoaching.net/apply?sl=youtubemm109

@ethansmith5655 Жыл бұрын

I wish I would have found your channel 2 years ago

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

At least you're here now !

@ethansmith5655 Жыл бұрын

Honestly I've been watching your videos after she left about 2 weeks ago and implementing what you say and I had a afternoon at the park with my wife today with our toddler twins and had a great day but I have lots of growing left to do I can wait till my meeting with you on the 17th

@S1lverspike 6 ай бұрын

@@ethansmith5655how are things now?

@CallsItLikeISeizeIts 8 ай бұрын

OODA loop, COL Boyd, read his bio, fascinating, and later he changed the whole USMC combat philosophy

@kecnewman Жыл бұрын

Got goosebumps with the #3!!!

@BallhawkSports-d5x 4 ай бұрын

Why ?

@jwulfee173 10 ай бұрын

Wow Greg and I are twins living identical lives.

@marriagereset 10 ай бұрын

Insane!

@Junoj101 8 ай бұрын

This is all true with any relationship (marriage, LTR . . .) , but couple things to consider: - the moment the wife/GF starts to cheat on you - walk away, she is damaged goods. - if she no longer has respect for you as man, it's time for you to go. it's harder to fix that than start over. - if you had put her on the pedestal, it's almost impossible to get her off it. - identify the main reason why she is with you in the first place (if it's because you are provider - you are not her first chose)

@marriagereset 8 ай бұрын

While I understand that you may have had that experience, here are a couple other things to consider: -If she has cheated, regardless of whether you wish to forgive, consider where you provided the opportunity for her to feel unloved/undervalued at home -If you feel like she doesn't respect you, is it because you lost sight of your purpose as a man? -Women rarely feel good being on a pedestal, this goes back to finding your purpose-it can't be HER, she does not want that, difficult does not equal impossible -Again this comes back to you, and be honest with yourself, who is ever anyone's first choice? Had you been in ANY other relationships? If so, then she wasn't your first choice either, so why expect anything other than to be your best, you are the only person who you have control over. When you are in your frame, those 'considerations' will no longer matter. Hope this helps.

@Junoj101 8 ай бұрын

@@marriagereset "If she has cheated, regardless of whether you wish to forgive, consider where you provided the opportunity for her to feel unloved/undervalued at home" nonsense, if she cheated she is of low quality and needs to go, no need to keep garbage around - it's not going to turn into gold. a person of high quality will articulate if they "feel unloved" instead of opening their legs to make themselves feel good. at the end it's not my job to fix her issues, and she is always free to articulate things that she does not like or even terminate the relationship. but if the women needs to open her legs to others to get validation, she can bring nothing but drama into my life and no amount of trying to make her feel good will prevent her from cheating because in her mind it's justifiable in the first place.