The Only Changes You Need To Make To Win Your Wife Back

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@britHayman-i6s Жыл бұрын

Hello gents, wife asked me to move back in last night after being apart for 5 weeks. I was not able to join the program as the cost was out of reach as I have other financial obligations that are taking priority at this time. But I religiously watched and re-watched all of Josh's videos as well as others and what information was given on the videos I implemented into my life and my relationship. I have created routines, habits and rituals that are a part of my morning and evening routine that have contributed to my success. Thank you for sharing so much information for free on here, so happy I stumbled across your page. Lastly, down 20 lbs in 6 weeks, zero consumption of alcohol, more productive at work, more emotionally stable & more masculine.

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

Man, wins like this are truly why I dedicate so much time and effort into helping guys. I'm so glad you could find value in my videos and that I could be a part of your journey to reconciliation with your wife. Now that you're moving back in with her, make sure to stay in your masculine frame. Continue with all the changes you've made. Good luck!

@weaselbuff Жыл бұрын

What were the routines, friend?

@S1lverspike 8 ай бұрын

My wife left last week. You give me hope. She went out with me for our 6th anniversary. She let me know she loves me and misses me and doesn’t want anyone else but needs space and time. We decided to work together on finances and coparent and therapy individually (we need it as we have let go of ourselves taking care of jobs and our child)

@brianfreeman2200 6 ай бұрын

I really am trying to find the first video or what to do. I just saw this and just gave her the space she requested a week ago

@snaxandviolence 4 ай бұрын

@@brianfreeman2200 How did it go ?

@keithribeiro8387 3 ай бұрын

I no longer react to my wife. I reflect her emotions back to her starting with a ‘I get it’, ‘I hear you’ or ‘I understand’, followed by explaining what she is feeling. The complaining almost always stops right there.

@trevormars5370 9 ай бұрын

Criminally underrated channel. So glad I found you! You seamlessly blend the masculine red pill philosophy with a caring and emotional intelligent side that is key in long term relationships. The real like example conversations are the icing on the cake. Thank you, sir, for the education.

@contributepositivevibes 9 ай бұрын

Yes the real LIFE examples are very helpful 👍🏼

@jasonbrown7258 9 ай бұрын

we been married for 8 years but just separated. I been doing everything he said not to do the whole time. I need to change.

@Crypto_ALPHA 8 ай бұрын

Dude I thought I knew this stuff but this video just blew my mind! It all makes sense now!!! Good luck brotha 👊

@dabassassin7109 8 ай бұрын

Brother I just got married in august and my wife asked me to move out a week ago today and I’ve been the exact same thing every thing he says not to do I e been doing I have a call at 10am with his team today praying this can help me

@TheThefallenking 7 ай бұрын

Did it work @@dabassassin7109

@S1lverspike 4 ай бұрын

I enrolled in the program March 1st this year shorty after my wife mentioned divorce. It’s really counter intuitive. You have to do what she expects you not to do. Don’t beg don’t please give her space and let her come to you. Increase your value brother and learn to validate her feelings. I’m 5 months in went from talking about divorce to getting back together in the next 30 days. Don’t give up.

@keithribeiro8387 3 ай бұрын

Right on man. Keep up the good work.

@mathewjavela479 6 ай бұрын

Started not falling into my wife's frame for the last couple of days. Mantained my cool, did not respond with emotion to her tests. Now she brought up sex on her own, comes to kiss me often, and made me a hot beverage without me asking. Just waiting to see what more will happen if I keep passing her tests.

@keithribeiro8387 5 ай бұрын

This is probably the best of Josh’s videos. I’ve watched perhaps half dozen times. It covers many of the challenges and practical solutions to relationship problems. I’ve applied many of them to my own personal development and relation reconstruction. Results come with time - consistency and patience.

@inditropics 4 ай бұрын

Amen to that! Agreed.

@DakotaParrish-im6ib 3 ай бұрын

T😅😊😅😅😮😢🎉q

@moosemudding Жыл бұрын

Still crushing it with my wife things never been better in the 14 almost 15 years we been together still watching the videos and taken in something new everytime

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

I got you!

@moosemudding Жыл бұрын

Got you too bro I also heard you were or are or worked in addiction counseling id love to get a conversation with you about addiction and recovery etc I'm working on getting a lobbyist position in my state to push for reform on treatment and the approach Alot of my ideas stem from what I have learned from you and my own personal experience with addiction I May have never mentioned that on top of me and my wife being on the outs when I first started watching your videos she had also gone back into active heroin addiction so I was really fighting two major issues at the same time and have had great success with our relationship and instead of just pushing out or like I used to do about her program and how she didn't comply and never followed the rules and blah blah blah blah This time I've kind of just let her fall on her face and as hard as that is to do she is doing a hundred percent better in this new program that she's in versus how she was in her old program at 3 months or so in now it's amazing how much just letting things go and just leading with your own example can make such a difference amazing Josh hopefully someday we can chat man It would be freaking awesome

@KellyCampbell-Taylor-rh6jr 8 ай бұрын

Need help with asserting masculine boundaries and also with unpacking baggage to actually be able to move forward. Married for 7 years and she still brings up things that happened 5 or more years ago, still very bitter, tons of resentment and until we actually deal with those problems from early on in our marriage, then we’ll never make any progress and us either divorcing or separating will be happening soon. Each day we grow further apart and could be too far gone or too late. Taking on any new clients/couples by chance?…Haha Thank you Josh, very inspirational

@marriagereset 8 ай бұрын

Hey man! It seems she is growing more apart day by day, but with new proper action she will notice your changes and start to come back. Link for a call is in the description

@Ironstarfish 2 ай бұрын

I dunno, once she is done they're done, they were secretly not happy for years whether she told you and you didnt pick up on it or didnt take it seriously. Could even be like me where if we didn't talk about it maybe I can make her happy somehow. Mine wants to leave, she is just saving up for a house to move out. It hurts because I feel like I didmt do anything but as I noticed her get more distant I did get more needy and she frequently said I sounded like I'm begging. But what the hell am I supposed to do, I dunno how long I got

@jaredt3985 Ай бұрын

This is the video right here. If I had to recommend only one from Josh, this is it. I’ve watched this through at least 5 times, and have taken notes. I’ve been implementing all of this, and holy shit what a difference.

@bobbyhughes4895 9 ай бұрын

FRICKIN GREAT video, explanations of everything, and a HUGE HELP Josh. I’ve watched this video several times, cause I must keep everything fresh in my forgetful man brain. HUGE help. Thank you so much for taking the time to make this video. You have a hell of a purpose my friend. Very thankful you are KILLING it!

@mikeheston3558 Жыл бұрын

Thank you josh. This program and group has changed my life. Better than therapy

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

Cheers Mike!

@TheThefallenking 7 ай бұрын

Im in a awful situation we and my baby mother have been apart for 2 years and ive recently been trying to improve my errors, a just found out shes speaking to another guy. We still live in the same house and we have 2 months until one of us needs to move, she says she nolonger in love with me. But there are little signs here and there that show other wise

@stephenwooten6413 Жыл бұрын

Yes, Josh teach us how to insert those masculine boundaries. I've told her time and time again, not to talk to me in a certain way, it doesn't work. I know I'm missing something. Thanks for your videos, so very helpful in helping me understand myself and my distant, but close wife.

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

Are there consequences for the boundaries you set? If not, then they are empty words that make her more angry that you compromise who you are Also, HOW you express that is important. Is your message laced with anger or from a place of self-love?

@BrandonStokes Жыл бұрын

@@marriageresetI’d like to see a video on boundaries , as well!

@trevormars5370 9 ай бұрын

@wordsmith4305 I needed to read this. I’ve been watching KZbin all morning about this, and your comment summarized it all perfectly. Thank you, kind internet stranger.

@bane469 4 ай бұрын

Hey guys, my wife and I are separated but living in different parts our home. She has started to see someone else and is not hiding it. I need some major advice here. No content I have found gives directed actions on how to respond to this. Also, she initiated this and I am all in to get her back

@keithribeiro8387 Ай бұрын

If you haven’t yet, make the call to Marriage Mastery. It’s a bit of money but well worth it. I’m separated 10 months and haven’t felt this good since the breakup. I learned to let her go, forgive her and forgive myself. She’s seeing someone else too. I care a lot less than I used. I’m in the best shape mentally and physically I’ve in years. Other women are noticing and I have been able to rebuild and start new relationships - with men and women. If my wife comes back or not, I am a changed man, confident and happy with whatever happens.

@AbePenner-h8r 7 ай бұрын

I just watched this video my fiance left recently and now got some of my family siding with her because my fiance and aunt both had similar life experiences in there past marriages what do I do to get firstly the communication back and get her back into my.life.

@Fpskeny 3 ай бұрын

This is an very informative video of why things breakdown. Complacency, not watering the plant, not fulfilling what she needs done right away. She has kids and doesn’t want to have to manage you to she needs your help with the kids don’t let her do everything by herself. We have to change habits and realize she is very different thinking emotionally then men are

@xopexindustries Жыл бұрын

Video on setting healthy boundaries as a man would be legit

@marriagereset 6 ай бұрын

GOT YOU

@adammiller6747 Ай бұрын

Thank you, I appreciate you. For taking your time to make this video.I'm sure if I take these steps it will be helpful.

@chrisevans3861 Жыл бұрын

You are all over your purpose, Josh! ✊🏾

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

Always!

@gregoryfrech2310 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Josh. My take away from your advice is that a woman does not know what she wants and that she wants me to lead/decide. Also, one cannot use logic to address female emotional issues. Truth that is. Josh, you da man.

@seangarton8891 Ай бұрын

Thank you! This video really hit it home with me . I'm currently going through it now.

@marriagereset Ай бұрын

You got this!

@rayvangobel1 5 күн бұрын

🤜🏾🤛🏼 Great work. Definitely gonna use this knowledge. Newbie separated 2nd marriage….three weeks in. Challenge accepted I am a phoinex rising beeches!

@DuasMeaning 8 ай бұрын

Hi Josh I’ve started your course and it’s been great so far. I’m writing my letter from the CLC as a first step and giving a small quotes pocket book to you got this to her with it. Now I caught her having an affair (started Nov) in Jan and she was having an emotional affair for about a year and a bit. I freaked out from everything I found out left home for space and even contacted the guy and told his wife. We have 2 children 10yrs and 12yrs but she says she wants to be with him now. It’s a hard one as we have a family holiday in the Maldives and she’s making a list of boundaries. Will be a tough one to play with and continue the course whilst out there. Will persevere and since we are still in the same house and I’m adopting some of your work lets see what happens as she wants a divorce (and so did I) and split money to start again. Should I read my letter to her or just give it to her?

@sdavis1123 11 ай бұрын

Asserting boundaries in an nonaggressive but assertive way would be helpful thanks

@motomeditacija 9 ай бұрын

I am so lucky to find your channel. Thanks man! Greetings from Croatia!

@bumblebeecleaning6773 4 ай бұрын

Yes please drop the video about assertive responses.

@acousticambiance Жыл бұрын

Definitely need a video about how to set boundaries and have them respected!! PLEASE!! 🙏

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

On the channel! kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKeUY6GKoNl5rJY

@Theme_Park_Mania Жыл бұрын

I recently got married after 13 years of being together, she suddenly told me she feels different and says it not me. I’m scared of losing her forever and trying to find ways of getting to love me again like she used to. I’m confused, scared and anxious. I need help!

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

Firstly, Its natural to feel that way. Lets pause.....take a DEEEP breath in your nose and let it ALL out. Okay. Firstly, it is you. Don't listen to her. I am not saying that to hold blame or guilt. But start with honesty. Secondly, the fact that you are TERRIFIED if she would leave you is WHY she feels different. She doesn't want to feel NEEDED, she wants to be wanted Tap into that well of fear, for it has the answer to your problems

@brianriegel0831 Жыл бұрын

@MarriageMastery but what do you when you have finally found the one and actually become spouses and turn around and mess it all up to the point where she wants to leave

@brianriegel0831 Жыл бұрын

@wordsmith4305 there is always someone out there that truly completes you and has everything that you've searched for in a partner, the woman I found has literally saved me from killing myself twice

@brandonmccarroll6176 4 ай бұрын

You're in the right place.. pay attention and sign up!

@stewardinglifewellness8693 Жыл бұрын

Dude so much wisdom. Thanks for sharing as always

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@82DevilsNDisguise 4 ай бұрын

My wife and I have been together for 14 years. We have 3 kids, oldest is 12, youngest is 5. Our relationship hasn’t been great for several years. We had a serious talk about 2 months ago and she told me that she thinks she’s done and she isn’t in love with me anymore. One of her issues with me is that I didn’t help out with household and kids stuff. I’ve stepped up and started doing more stuff but it’s pissed her off more because it shouldn’t have come to this point to get me to help out. We aren’t fighting but she is cold and distant towards me and living in the same house is really awkward. I want to win her back but not sure how. I have a call with Josh’s team tomorrow morning. Wish me luck

@82DevilsNDisguise 4 ай бұрын

Update. Call went well. Not sure I am able to financially commit to the program unfortunately

@inditropics 4 ай бұрын

There's a lot of content on this channel, study them, and put them to practice.

@TommyMakalele 4 ай бұрын

Same Here mate.. Same fall....i make some Errors ....but now she speak with me...Spend time with me, she is smailing again....i am in Gym after 10 years again Last 4 months....now she Go with me....we sleep together again...No Sex but that will come...thx Josh For throw away Logic....

@TommyMakalele 4 ай бұрын

Just stay at curse.....need time....i am 4-5 months in....now come the good times

@urbanart7325 Ай бұрын

Getting divorced after 32 years and it's a bit scary. I mentioned getting divorced several times during the years but I never filed for divorce. The damage was done. My wife felt unsafe and built up a wall. No intimacy for almost 20 years and I love making love with my wife. Now we are both dealing with lawyers instead of trying to repair. My father was my role model and not a good model as to how to be a husband. Just being a provider is not enough. I can't replace those lost years. I do not want to get divorce. My wife was my first serious girlfriend and my only wife. What am I to do ?

@ryanpaterson-xc9gf 8 ай бұрын

35:12 “Don’t Tolerate Abuse.. If she is attacking your character as a man, that’s different.” Taking you up on your offer to make a video about having boundaries as a man (unless you already have, please share!) Thank you sir

@watkinsrcful Ай бұрын

Thank you

@jacobbrozenick8366 Жыл бұрын

Pretty good videos, been watching and learning a lot. But I’m beginning to notice something, the more I learn the less I want to be in a relationship. It’s just so much work for what feels like so little return.

@mostwantedtx6929 8 ай бұрын

I’ve scheduled my call … but my situation is that I’m giving her space while I’m living with my mom and not staying with her where we live which is why it’s her parents .. after she came out about cheating , space drives me crazy .. but it’s allowing me to work on myself how should I take this ? We’ve been together 10 years and married 8 years and have two kids .

@marriagereset 8 ай бұрын

It's amazing to hear you have the motivation to work on yourself. Space can be tough, especially when the situation feels out of your control. Even though space, at this moment, seems like an enemy, it's actually the opposite. It can help you pinpoint where the possible issues are coming from, and you can use this insight to help yourself grow. When you have the motivation to change and knowledge of what to change you open yourself up to small and big improvements that will be recognized by your partner. Take it slow and give yourself time.

@xy1omusic Ай бұрын

9:18 my man said you gotta work on those Broundries. 💯

@anissaholmes4495 4 ай бұрын

This! This… 26:44 ! 🙌🏻 it’s exhausting. I need a break! I need leadership.

@bradschwartz6287 Жыл бұрын

Yes, please make that video

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

WILL DO

@prov25two66 10 ай бұрын

Damn man. My dad passed unexpectedly and you're absolutely correct

@StillLiveWithMyMom Жыл бұрын

How can I set boundaries when she’s so close to her mom that it turns into me vs both of them? She talks to me like dirt when I express how I feel/think & is constantly spending way too much of my money. Help 😅

@AlIsUpOutdoors 6 ай бұрын

14:55 I don’t even talk to my father anymore. I blocked him a couple years ago because of how needy he became and how angry I am with him still from how he was never there.

@Lewis-me7jr 11 ай бұрын

Just an FYI. Your friend wasn’t being prescribed estrogen. Excess testosterone gets converted into estrogen by an enzyme called aromatase. Common when you’re on TRT. It does make you emotional. I kind of think every guy should experience that at some point because it helps you understand women slightly better….slightly.

@nieczerwony 10 ай бұрын

Man don't even chat. My cousin had suicide attempt, cause his T dropped to essentially non existing levels. Later he was diagnosed with tumor on his pituitary gland. He said he doesn't wish this to his worst enemy. He couldn't recognize himself. He couldn't workout, start actions, take risk and anything. Smallest stress was causing him to fall in serious anxiety and panic mode.

@fightingmonk123 6 ай бұрын

I apologized to my gf today. I took responsibility for my side in the conflict. She texted me back right away and said she loved my company. Wow thanks Josh! Even if my gf and I dont get back together, at least I got closure today.

@kriskobza4695 Жыл бұрын

I can not afford the program and I am stuck on what to do. I was the problem in my marriage, and cheated on my wife twice. The first time was not dealt with properly and the second was this last October and I have been out of the house since. Divorce papers have been filed by her. I have worked on myself this whole separation, but don’t feel like it’s getting better between my wife and I. Lost on what else to do or what I should be doing for her.

@brianfreeman2200 6 ай бұрын

I don't even know how this came into my feed. I'm so mad i didn't see this just one week ago.

@husseinayad4640 6 ай бұрын

I have a completely different situation No one will believe what I’ve been through She’s been loving me for seven years. And I was always telling her that I don’t love her But I show her some love and respect, but not all the time now when she’s gone I feel a lot of love for her I don’t wanna lose her not because we have a baby together because I have feelings for her I wish I can get some help. To save the relationship. What I comment it’s just a part not everything she was good to me I hope I can get help no one understands when your 4 years old daughter told you I’m okay but I’m sad because I’m not with you I do understand that will affect the child

@mfngeez Ай бұрын

It’s crazy to learn that you have been doing all of the wrong things 😢 been married for 8 years and together 13..Damn near separated and divorced…she’s so indifferent so idk if I can save anything here I feel so discouraged…I didn’t knw shit abt bein a husband now im jus angry and lost.

@bassprojdable Жыл бұрын

about to hit our 10-year anniversary. I'm an asshole. I stonewall when something happens that I don't like. She stonewalls as well. How do we get away from doing that? we do it sooooo often towards each other.

@DK-xw1kw Жыл бұрын

You only control your stonewalling so stop doing it.

@husseinayad4640 6 ай бұрын

I mean from the end I need call not email or program maybe later program

@FreedomLife-v8f Жыл бұрын

Is there a video about properly asserting boundaries

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

Stay tuned, coming soon

@marriagereset Жыл бұрын

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@nieczerwony 10 ай бұрын

Money has nothing to do with high value. My friend was earning 6 figures and his wife ran away with a lumber jack. Guy who had a pickup and was chopping trees.