What Men Find Sexy - Simple Ways To Get Him To Notice You

[@SaveTheMessenger]

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[@Adeola90316]

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[@dianneciresi7208]

Not sure if what says is true. When he found out I had mixed color in my family he judged me & was prejudice. Said don't bring them around here meaning by his house, then then he asked if I had $ & found out I didn't own a home & didn't have my s--t together. He was an egotistical shallow narcissist . What do u have to say about that & wasn't family orientated. Said I didn't want to meet ur family in one of our 1st text. 😮 Guess that was a red flag I didn't know about..

[@dianneciresi7208]

Then he eventually ghosted, blocked, & discarded me after I fell in love with him!😢 & got 💔

[@Hopelove73]

Be true to yourself. Work on you, know who you are and be authentic

[@MissHellKitten]

YASS! and if you have hobbies that differ from the stereotypically female-based norm, be proud of that! Dont hide away your quirks, interests, and unusual bits of yourself! This is what makes you memorable. These are the things that will have someone thinking about you later on, when no longer in your presence. No one wants a cookie-cutter girlfriend or wife. And no woman wants a cookie-cutter boyfriend or husband. Be unapologeticly YOU. Its sexy AF.

[@ShaniOnSinai]

My adorable boyfriend courted me from afar as a secret admirer leaving notes in my backpack at work. For two months I wondered who he was, when we finally met, he told me everything that enchanted him. Things I never heard before. I was able to understand his attraction that included my spirit and energy. It truly is something when you have gold between your ears.

[@Christie_OUR_TURN_2024]

🥹 That is, so sweet and kind... Best of luck!🙏👏👏👏

[@smilgazolyte6696]

one of the reasons why I watch your videos is that they are short. I dont have 30 min or longer to get the info that could be said in 10 min. so thank you for that :)

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Thank you. Yes, I try to keep the videos as straightforward as possible.

[@lifeslessons9889]

YES 👍

[@AnaBounds-nx7ke]

Absolutely

[@makelifematter1896]

❤❤so agree!!

[@kaeros5521]

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[@shelleydee6217]

Sense of humour, intelligence, wisdom and kindness. The physical attributes is just a bonus.

[@catwoman9633]

1. Sense of wonder 2. Elegance 3. Authenticity

[@noble604]

Google/ the internet took away wonder for the world. Before you said “I wonder how many stars there are in all the universe, how much a hummingbird weighs, if I can use sand to make this.” Now, you just łook everything up. There is no wonder anymore. It’s nice if people do seem awed, yes.

[@starlight705]

I’m a woman and still single. Waiting for the one.❤ thank you this. I’m always myself and act naturally in front of everyone whether man or womanbecause I can’t pretend to be someone else.

[@KendrickTech]

Hello @starlight705 where are you watching from

[@MissHellKitten]

Same! So much so, that its physically uncomfortable to pretend to be anything. We all have our problems, and we all make mistakes. Were human. And if someone isnt willing to see past this stuff, then they are probably self righteous, and in denial about their own issues.. and people like that arent worth your time or energy anyways. So its no sweat off my back if they dont like me. At the end of the day, i can still look myself in the mirror, and am able to sleep at night. And that, my friend, is whats actually important.

[@goddess-u7d]

What men find attractive 1. Boobs 2. Butt 3. Pretty face and jawline 4. Healthy hair 5. Sense of wonder 6. Elegance 7. Authenticity

[@myendlesslove5120]

😂

[@susanmiller2414]

Not always !

[@robbinjefferson7470]

TRUE. All said & done. Authenticity, yep after the first six. Authenticity, if THEY EVEN WANT TO ACTUALLY get past the first six. ACTUALLY wanting to GET TO KNOW YOU.

[@bigbadbillb]

Intelligence should be high up on that list, too. I have no patience for the dumb and ditzy type.

[@robbinjefferson7470]

Intelligence 🧠. SURE. So far, the first three (boobs, butt, looks) is what guys usually zero in on. Intelligences & Authenticity they may look for (if they Authentically 🙄 Care) in that person.. eventually.

[@susanmiller2414]

You are very direct and authentic in your descriptions of what makes a woman interesting and elegant to a man. So much of what’s on the internet is very superficial. Your intentional advice is very welcome!

[@realitycheck7176]

True💯

[@brindasingh6309]

Beautiful n practical suggestions, appreciate it Ismael 😊

[@colettecurrier7276]

Thank you, I like the way you explain the male mindset. It's important to understand the ale perspective.

[@SaveTheMessenger]

Thanks for the kind words dear.

[@stuffireveal]

As a woman, i feel so loved just to watch your content.

[@tedamjoke]

I’m very glad you popped into my feed. I think you’re right on the money. Ty 😊

[@rosehiver6262]

All coaching videos are the same : be like this, be like that, don’t do this, don’t say that,…….. and at the end : be yourself. 🤗 😵‍💫🤯🥴

[@SaveTheMessenger]

You can always improve yourself without changing the essence of who you are.

[@finna5970]

Don't watch them

[@spmoran4703]

​@@finna5970 I agree . If you want low self esteem these are the way forward .

[@zathenhcambidestem-iliv2464]

Wow this is so freshing & beneath the surface. I feel this content spoken from a male point of view, can be shockingly shallow, controlling, objectifying, role playing. You have expressed the unifying, the wholeness, the soul of a relationship, beyond the mundane. I always believed I can attract a magical, adventure, full of presence and growth, expansion, for this to happen I had to become my potential, and walk the higher timeline. I know we can exist in other dimensions, we are not just a physical suite.

[@whitedove4902]

Thank you very much for this useful video. 👍🌹👏

[@manyaverma64]

I have been in one sided love for 2 yrs now. He is someone who care for me so much, who listened me when none did. He made me feel special but....I just messaged him and idk why I didn't close the chat. And I saw he was online. He went offline for few sec and then back to online. I waited and waited. And then he replied me after 20 mins. That break me. I realized that no m not his any of the priority. I was like then why did u flirt with me, "babe" me, complimented me, reacted so in love with my pics, said I love u in concern between Convo.. Why...I thought maybe he started liking me but..... today, all these just shattered. Maybe, we can never be a thing.....maybe I have to move on....maybe I was wrong that he is interested in me.

[@saosins]

Girly, twenty minutes? :( something probably came up or he suddenly got busy. I wouldn't worry about 20 minutes

[@finna5970]

You overthinking my dear, in that speed you might never get a man, you need to chill lol 😮

[@Stephaniacat]

you probably have anxious attachment. Look it up. I used to experienced similar situations as you and didn't know why until i started working on my mental health and trauma. You're basically putting him on a pedestal, that's why he's probably not sure about you. Stopped making him your priority and work on your self esteem..

[@streaming5332]

idk..?

[@shwetayadav9174]

Hey girl you are right. If you are a priority to a man, he gives you attention no matter what and how much he is busy. If he is online and doesn't reply you it means he started dis liking you or taken you for granted. It hurts but it's a truth that he is not interested in you. I am not exaggerating this thing because i faced the same situation where a guy initiated a connection with me saying that he likes me and wanted to be in relationship with me. Since i was single i gave my attention to him but after few days he acted like the same as your guy did to you. It hurts.. but we hv to face the reality....we r no more important to them anymore.

[@spmoran4703]

Thats his opinion on women . We just like men cannot be categorised. GIRLS AND GUYS TOO . JUST BE YOURSELF . Some one will like you . And if you dont find that someone at least you have you and freedom.

[@Christie_OUR_TURN_2024]

I find that the very things that make us so different; is what warms my heart. A true connection to me, is one where you see the others imperfections and choose to accept them as they are & vice versa. Stay safe and God Bless. 🫶❤️🙏

[@sanoeteevaristo9797]

Well spoken guy. Nice to see.

[@thekirst8359]

I like the way you say "authenticity".

[@kristinefernandez1760]

I reallly loves your video sir so clear explanation,thank you❤

[@dreonthetube]

I would love if you upload your videos to spotify so that i can listen to your advice on the go!

[@CeciledeLuire]

That's probably one of the differences between men and women: I do not need to praised over the moon for sth like preparing a nice meal. A hug and a warm "thank you for cooking" is totally enough. Praising me over the moon for this would make me think "this man is weird-i cooked a meal, i didn't save the world." Sorry but there seems to be an exaggerated hunger for being praised for even small things in many men, and i prefer a modest man. All the other tips are awesome, especially the authenticity plus self-development and the focusing on values.

[@spring_spirit]

I do... For me cooking a meal is somewhere near a heroic sacrifice.

[@publicserviceannouncement4777]

Even though men are extremely visual creatures, I want to share something that has really helped me with my own insecurities... I was watching a talk-show about women who don't like to be intimate with the lights on because they don't want their husbands to see their flaws. They brought out a woman behind a screen (all you could see was her shadow/silhouette/curves.) The point was that men aren't looking at individual tiny flaws under a microscope like we do to ourselves. They also suggested soft lighting like candles instead of bright white light during intimacy. That way their husbands can still see their bodies but the wives don't feel so in the spotlight so to speak.

[@patricialopez-cd8hm]

Thank you you're great

[@loreenasiyo9119]

I like your topics learning a lot in the end of them all 🎉🎉.

[@noble604]

It’s been so hot here that I dressed like an Amish pilgrim. I had on a long skirt down to my ankles and a long sleeved light turtleneck tshirt showing only my hands and I got more compliments that day than I have in years about how elegant and classy I looked. I wasn’t trying to look lanything. I just trying not to roast. Other girls had on next to nothing. People took pics of me as I sat by the tree and asked if I wanted the photos because I looked so refined and elegant. Do the opposite of what everyone else does. I cover up and it gets attention.

[@kennytabitha1995]

This was helpful. I have had issues understanding my personality....

[@victoriashin7682]

So true😉💘

[@adelerice3877]

Thankyou for your advice

[@CascadeofLife]

I'm charmed by your channel❤... So glad to be able to hear you.

[@konfetikspb]

Thank you❤

[@Jobpatience]

Thank you and I love you!

[@InaishaSakia]

Ismael I love your videos❤!

[@mameemunza1247]

This is the very first video of you I've watched but I've subscribed and now I have a crush on you lol 🥰 wonderful!

[@kaeros5521]

LOL

[@SabinaDsouza-f2d]

U give good guidance one should b simple with a natural smile n the gut instinct that connects u moreover one should b accepted for who she is. U r good thank you ❤🌹🙏

[@carmengloria2115]

Súper!!😊

[@Miss_Sawsan]

God bless you!

[@allesandra22]

I still didnt understand why he left me. ..i was/am extremely loyal, i gave him what he wanted, i had stayed true to my beliefs... and his, but he never came to see me ....never..i kept waiting, hoping, praying. I stayed strong. .......but .......he left the country ............and now its all over.

[@TrinaMoitra]

Potentially you put him on a pedestal. Remember, you are the prize. I used to do this too…. Feed someone caviar everyday … and they won’t value it. You must ration it out for the individual to be appreciative. Men must know that you love yourself the most. And that they at most add to your life, they aren’t your life. Also -- just cause he has left the country… nothing is over. Circumstances do not matter. Take some time to relax. Start working on your self concept… watch a few videos on the channel - Here nor There… and DETACH. The universe loves you too much to let you be w/o what you want. If after doing the self concept work you still feel like this guy is the only one for you…. Rest assured it is yours! ❤❤ You got this.

[@gloriabezuidenhout4280]

You said he never came to see you. Did u ever meet him? I had a guy for a long time and he never came to see me. He was a scammer.

[@krystynaoldakovska2233]

I'm so sorry, i understand you so much

[@aquavibes6259]

Sometimes they are just not interested, don't take it personally just move on, there's someone better out there for you

[@cypresse1620]

Still don’t understand… what exactly is a sense of wonder? He needs to “wonder” about me? You mean I need to stay mysterious?

[@michellearthur978]

I think it's that you just don't say everything that's on your mind or give him all information about yourself but as you said leave room for some mystery or wonder.

[@icysnow57cold64]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. It seems like it's impossible for men and women to emotionally connect with each other. Women do emotionally connect with other women, better than men do. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.

[@finna5970]

The world might hv been a better place without men eeh 😂

[@marmotdreams1428]

The opposite attracts ♥

[@icysnow57cold64]

@@marmotdreams1428 I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships. So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way. The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.

[@marmotdreams1428]

@@icysnow57cold64 good luck 😄

[@urfavengdz_]

This man is amazing

[@traumong4314]

1 sense if wonder, authenticity , elegance , not appearance

[@Gisela8603]

I thank you it helps a lot 😊😊😊😊

[@joseviljover3096]

So...transparent❤❤❤

[@OriFan4Life2]

16 year old here, haven't dated before. I thought/think men (besides body shape and curves) are more into girls who are outgoing, funny. Girls with energy, Sas and Attitude(a Baddie).

[@OriFan4Life2]

Don't see any of those in me and I'm abit of an Awkward person. It seems there's alot more to dating and being in a relationship from what I thought(such as maturity and being able to read the person and if one should stay in that relationship)

[@kind5244]

They do like those behaviours but it doesn’t mean they want that in a woman long term etc….. marriage those women will always get attention but not the longevity they want

[@aishalipham2855]

You must be a fellow INFJ lol. You got that vibe 😂

[@SaveTheMessenger]

I'm an ENFJ-A

[@aishalipham2855]

@@SaveTheMessenger oh well that explains everything fully now. Keep up the good work. I was close 😂. A lot of similarities

[@osijekretfala6832]

Im INFJ 😊

[@aura7153]

​@@SaveTheMessengeralot of relationship coachs on KZbin here are ENFJs I believe

[@fatimasalie3911]

Thanx😊

[@brightemerald3924]

Good advice here. Love the video.

[@latofatifa8395]

how come your name is ismael and gomez at the same time 😅😅😅😅 where are your from?

[@louiseleite3866]

Why are you surprised? 😊

[@eyeopeningtruth7518]

Low values go with low values. High value goes for high values

[@imexplode]

I’m gonna say confidence without listening to the video.

[@spmoran4703]

From listening to this, then yes , i am sexy

[@allesandra22]

What do men want exactly in today's times ? I never understood?? I remember .. ..I was happy, very strong, quite independant, i earn enough for all family ....i was so different before he had entered my life ........now i just. .....self doubt myself all the time. ..........and he just doesnt reply ...............why couldnt he accept how i was ?😢

[@ghdodo]

Because he's probably a narcissist. When someone mistreats you, the only thing that can be done is to walk away. Being abused by a narcissist and then saying this is how men are is quite a harmful generalisation. BTW, I'm a woman. 😊

[@beccalynn1970]

Hopefully men follow these rules also!!!

[@Jovana-xi7uq]

Never

[@Adeola90316]

❤

[@j.j.3445]

Men: .........

[@ARAMAICA-s4y]

Their problem.

[@chinta27]

Now let's ask the lady's, A man can look like Shrek, he can be the ugliest looking man, but if this man is organized,clean smells good good heart,I'm there.

[@krystynaoldakovska2233]

Shrek is nice and protective 😊

[@Aurelius_Marcus_B]

men are giving and women are receiving!!! sweetheart, are you serious?!!!!! you give her some flours in the beginning of the relationship then you start acting like a child waiting for her (mommy) to take care of you and nurture you... men are trained to be selfish and women are trained to be nurturing and caregivers ... and then men take all the credit also by training and women accept that also by training .... you should know better Ismael

[@FerminineForce]

That short clip is no funny…like huh?!!!!🤣🤣🤣

[@freshdumpling]

This guy is just going to mess women up further. Everyone knows real life consists of different types of men and women and we actually live in an imperfect world. Who cares what a man or woman find irresistible. His vdos are all games and manipulation. You're never going to find love following his advice

[@thuhuyenbui2907]

🐮Do I attract the lecturer on sexuality . 🥱😴 He will be successful in his field bias to his way. I have two wonders . The first wonder is that the beloved man showed him up with everything I love at the beggining. Then he leaves me alone . The second wonder is that the unpleasant man appear but he had sex with me after long flirting time . 🐯The third wonder is that I choose and the man has to agree . We are in contrast of characteristics . 🐯I want to mention that lie is lie , the same with ,wethod is method . Just the way you are , your characteristics , manner , metallity , physics will connect . 🐮I still affirm that the cruel liars will never have mutual life even if they are family . That is the reason the man does not call me his wife. 🌺 Does the lecturer take me out to have sky time ?😢 I bet that he will be easy going with me but not other woman.

[@guineverecharlottetheresas2276]

Thank you 🌻

[@lyndamcmullen5506]

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[@ΧριστιναΣαντοριναιου-κ9η]

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