OMG I needed to see and hear this. Please make more such videos because being aligned makes attracting easier as that is the true nature of attraction.

Wow, thank you.

It is totally disgusting that there are men that will use women They are truly pathetic

I am very supportive but VERY fiercely independent. I do not care what he watches on TV. I dislike TV so it doesn't matter to me. Conflict? That's a joke. He would cause it, and then say, "I don't like conflict". LOL Obviously his true intentions became obvious. He wanted an object, a slave, a door mat. BYE BYE NARC!

Buddy you are not a sage. You don't speak for all men. Thanks !

Good very informative. 👍

Great summing up of male entitlement 😁Its the very reason women of any worth are remaining single. To partner with the men you are describing makes no sense whatsoever.

he calls you wen hes drunk been together 35 years hws a narrsissist he conttrols me blivks mw on the phonne for aboot 5 weks do t luve togwthwr anymore since my mother died last year so i havemy own hoiuse but he wont add mw on any social media an ii now y cauise ive made a new face book in my cousins name i i have caght him messiing people

I enjoy staying home, staying away from people. I have less stress in my life avoiding drama.

Thank u so much

Subscribed! The guy that I am/was dating is too busy to text me but when we are together he is texting and by his phone. Thankfully I picked up on that after our second date and haven’t reached out. We spoke for weeks and told me about wanting to be in a relationship but he isn’t ready. He also comes around or calls when it’s convenient for him. No thank you. He has got to go. All talk, no action.

All men act like this!

You are wise beyond your years...

All that you stated

My bf is an artist,and he is always telling me hes always busy always

I like the way you explain these advices. I learned more from it

Wow, the free therapy though!!! Sheesh 🙌🏼 that stuff is heavyyyy and just weighs you down and down and down

For goodness sakes I'm not even messing with the person like that online either or offline the person can leave me alone also online or offline

Great perspectives, Ismael! Thanks for your insight and honesty.

Real peace is found in Christ Jesus!

Thankyou for this I really need this ❤❤

What if he man is selfish and wants his cake and eat it and controls you, no matter what, no matter how much you support him???? Some men just want there cake and eat it ❤? And then some, you need to look at psychology as you are so wrong mister😂 a lot of men are controlling and don't know what they hae until they loose it and regret it! Talking about a 20 year relationship

Thankyou. Excellent councel

100%!!! 👏

Oh please, it's the guys BFF that can have him questioning his relationship. We were fine until his toxic BFF got divorced. Then that's all he talked about and sure enough eventually he questioned us and NOW WE're divorced. When it's constantly thrown in your face. He felt his BFF cared about him and wanted his best interests. No way, he wanted the old saying "misery loves company". He wanted to destroy us to make himself feel better. That BFF was the best man at our wedding. You can't get much more disrespectful than that. Ya know, at the ceremony if any objections now or forever hold your peace. He broke that badly. I hope that BFF of his gets worse than what he has.

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If I start talking about me or my day, he zones out 😂 & he won't look up from his phone. I stopped talking and just disappear. Now I'm being accused of cheating 🤷‍♀️

I have family members who are masters of the silent treatment. I think it's funny that people think not talking to you somehow hurts you. It doesn't affect me; they just removed the stress of dealing with them.

1) takes but does not give ( your energy, attention, body, money, etc) 2) usage of "maybe" too often (maybe introduce you - maybe marry you - etc) People don't need much time to make a decision when it matters to them 3) needs you as a therapist to solve his issues (one sided) 4) points a "flaw" about you If someone cares about you, they appreciate not affect negatively your self esteem 5) always "busy" - you are not a priority No one is THAT busy

Wow, I needed to hear exactly this now! Thank you❤!

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I love your channel. You always give the best advice. ❤👍🏼

🎉thankyou very much.. I am in a serious relationship at 52 yrs only new at present

Who cares what this man says???

Obviously men like women without emotions 😂😂😂😂😂

I know where I haven't kept it together enough and didn't give on the level I wanted to recieve! Thanks for the advice!!

You are always spot on. I appreciate your help

My bf just shared me that "You're secure right? I secretly took pics of this girl at the park cos she was so pretty". He shared me the pics he took. Yes, the girl was really pretty. He told me if he was single, he would have gone up to her. But at the same time, he told me I was enough for him and he didn't say a word to her and that he had me and it was more than enough for him. He told me he will delete the pics later. I appreciate that he was being truthful and frank to me. But it was hurtful. Our ages are around 21 tho. Ismael and ladies, can u pls give me advice? I'm really confused rn. And also sad. (Is this normal for men WOW? And they are not just dumb enough to share to their gf?) He truly loves me tho. But how normal is normal for guys to check other girls out? I can't believe I'm asking these questions now. Is his behaviour normal as a man? Do men think like that and they are not just telling us? I would love a vid on this. How do I approach this situation? I'm sorry if my cmt is not coherent; I just lost my grandma tdy and on my period...and this. So yeah, it kinda s*cks. Thanks for reading.

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The important advice that Ismail can give to women. Don't reward the bad guys and Don't punish the good guys. Women do the exact opposite.

🎉if a girl is attractive only then she can make a man obsessed with her

Hello lwant to know more about this. And what if a woman do this to a man is this the same signs l really want to know more about this before l do something

Wyd is a new text response I’ve recently got from a new guy I’ve just started talking to. Always texts back 2 or 3 days later. I think I can read between the lines that he is just using or texting sorry I’m busy. Like you mentioned in your video I’m not his priority so move on and I know my worth and value won’t be entertaining him any further!

Thank you ❤ I find this helpful

He’s doing all these and I’m making his ass watch this video right now

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These kinda of videos paint all men as trash. Idk, never thought humans were like this. Turns out 'most men only treat u well when u have value to them' Yea cool, wtf What's wrong with society

I kept initiation talks, showing interest, and trying to come up with fun stuff, he just simply followed and did the bare minimum which was sending one text a day................he was nice but exhausting...................

Thank you