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@nontsikelelodlamini83195 ай бұрын
Thank you l
@BraniG-psyc034 ай бұрын
❤
@janet82396 ай бұрын
1. He seeks my opinion, answer honestly w a touch of optimism. 2. Shares important news. Wants you to know, my reaction validates his success. 3. He wants to invest in me, my problems become his. Damsel in distress. 4. Watching me drift off to sleep. 5. Asks questions about my childhood. 6. He keeps the romance alive, celebrate his efforts. 7. He brags about me. Inside and outside.
@beatafiejdasz49835 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!🥰
@grandmaoldschool70114 ай бұрын
Well...then..I married 3 men who didn't love me. No boxes ticked. I was skinny and cute, though.
@phina83924 ай бұрын
@@grandmaoldschool7011I’ve been married x 3 also, never had this from any of them, was always me doing the asking and talking , still is to this day 😂..
@bornagain28904 ай бұрын
Yep same here. Two marriages, two huge mistakes except the first one did give me two beautiful sons.
@Portia6204 ай бұрын
Thanks
@joanieLeventis30774 ай бұрын
Hi Ishmael, I’m 59 years old, and almost my whole life, I haven’t found “TRUE LOVE “ until recently. Now I’ve got a treasure in my life, and I won’t let go. He’s my best friend, my soulmate, my confidant, my dream come true and the answer to my prayers. In all honesty, I didn’t think that this world even consisted of a wonderful person as him. Once I found “ self love “, and healed myself, I found him ( actually he found me). He’s my one in a million.
@QueenAlexis5564 ай бұрын
Be careful, every time I've thought I found "the one", I got ghosted shortly after. Not discouraging you, I hope your situation works out, but for me I'm not trying anymore because I always have to walk on eggshells. I'm 55 years old and will never get involved with another man
@mardi51683 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎉🍾🎊
@lisytrinh52312 ай бұрын
Curious on where u guys met?? 🤔 Lol
@charlotteselig65845 ай бұрын
God brought me that man and I am so Thankful .Filled with love light ,peace ,joy Praise God
@AmmeMahamayeКүн бұрын
Good for you👍🏽
@jvan13134 ай бұрын
Your seven top things a man does for the woman he loves is my husband! He is far and away the best person out there. We met in high school and are high school sweethearts. We've been together for 37 years and married for 32 years now. With the exception of his deployment's and unaccompanied assignments in the military, he brings me flowers every week and makes sure my vehicle is always in working order. Whenever he has something come up, he asks for my opinion and input. He has talked about me to people he works with and those he has just met. I recently went through ovarian cancer and his workplace got together and sent me flowers and a card signed by each individual, delivered the day after I got out of the hospital. He takes care of me and I take care of him. He's just the best guy there is!
@AmmeMahamayeКүн бұрын
Both of you are so lucky!
@rockyroad644 ай бұрын
Thank you. You just described el dueño de mi corazón. He even treats my family like gold and want to know all about them. We're only 4 months in but I've never experienced this type of care, sensitivity, interest and compassion. He's even always ready to help strangers! He had a couple with a two year old girl sit at our table because they'd been waiting in the restaurant line for so long. ❤
@SaveTheMessenger4 ай бұрын
That brought a smile to my face. Thanks for sharing.
@MrIrishscouse5 ай бұрын
'A man who loves you will talk about you to . . . strangers . . . like he's won the lottery.' Yeah, that'll brighten up the stranger's day if they have nobody. Like saying to a homeless person this is my penthouse/villa/mansion. 👍
@monamorris72445 ай бұрын
Aloha from Hawaii 🌺 Thank you for sharing your input on this subject. My man resonates with all of these. We are hopeful. Life is a journey.
@StephanieWhitley-bg1tk4 ай бұрын
Hi Ishmael -- I'm a first time viewer. I found your video to be very informative and touching, especially the difference between a man's broken heart and a woman's broken heart. I was totally unaware of this. I had to giggle, though, when you advised us women that if we "notice a man watching us while we sleep, that means ... 🤭🤭🤭. That was very cute.
@PatienceKadongolaPertual4 ай бұрын
The simplicity of your video is perfect 👌 I love it short and straight forward ❤️
@levierose4844 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for your knowledge and help. Will you make a part 2, if you haven't yet, please.
@BarbaraAntoinetteVeronica3 ай бұрын
You're right on. I'm a problem solver, too. It's very generous of you to expose this information. This is intelligent advice. I never even thought of how over the top his foul behavior was. I trusted him. He didn't have the ability to trust or realize he deserved my love.
@nigoagamah39114 ай бұрын
Exactly. Thanks so much for sharing this video.
@susanstorgaard98622 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing ❤! I did understand more about man ! But I need more advice love to hear more !
@Bmon-js2lk4 ай бұрын
🌸That’s what us women need more of, how a man thinks. 💗
@rashmigama24175 ай бұрын
When you find that man don't ever let go. ❤
@KarenSears-iu5ne3 ай бұрын
Just met a doctor he already wants to get married he is so in love with me not sure about my feeling re him told his co worker he's proposing ❤❤
@rashmigama24173 ай бұрын
Good for you.Stay blessed.Hope he does soon.❤@@KarenSears-iu5ne
@marie-christineghering77312 ай бұрын
Thank you, Ismael for all your councils and all the useful information you give us through your videos ! You are really of great help !🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
@annankunda2 ай бұрын
Super great I am so grateful to Almighty I had meet that man who loved me truly❤ Even today being no more 3years already I still feeling joy to be loved in my heart Thank you so much to revive what is inside me and to enlighten others Very much appreciated God bless u all ❤❤
@jeancano53234 ай бұрын
Thank you so much fir the great share. God bless you.
@Raquel57503 ай бұрын
Ismael, you are so great to listen to & I always find myself laughing! You are authentic & caring and I always learn new & useful information. I really like the scenarios you talk about & enjoy your positive suggestions! Best to you always.😊
@user-mv2tg8hc8c4 ай бұрын
If you love and respect the other person women and men do these. I think love and respect go hand in hand.
@lisanidog81784 ай бұрын
Whether you’re in love or not you should always value her opinion. That’s true respect. If opinion respect is only based on love then you’ve missed the point of respect that isn’t just about you.
@nirmalanand51194 ай бұрын
Great honest video…great advice..❤
@JudithKorumbnga-px3jjАй бұрын
I really appreciate your work, you bring the reality to my broken marriage
@chin38402 ай бұрын
Mine is a 7 on 7 but when i sit down to discuss what's troubling, he says 1. "you are dumping all your frustation on me" . 2. "you're complicating everything" 3. "it's all fine according to me" 4. "you are not ambitious" 5. "no one else will ever love you like i do" 6. "you can't get anybody like me or better than me" 7. Isolates me from my circle 8. contradicts me and try to change my core nature saying "its for your best" Do I believe that it's "love" or just leave?!
@zuahajsuas28 күн бұрын
Just leave and RUN......
@dawnivey35214 ай бұрын
I watched your video just to see if my husband needed a few pointers. He doesn't, based on what you said. You validated him. Or should I say he validated you. Thanks.
@josephinesichimoАй бұрын
You are the best honestly,your advice and analysis are on point thank you.
@concernedcitizen40314 ай бұрын
My ex asked my opinion and then told me why I was wrong.
@StrideroftheNorth29313 ай бұрын
That happened to me too
@rhondaray64883 ай бұрын
My ex husband used to wear a body spray that wasn't pleasant. I kept telling him that I didn't like the scent, and he’d always say to me that other women would tell him how good he smelled. My opinion never mattered, to him and I was his wife.
@yakeishabaker52943 ай бұрын
I have just found out that man who was waiting for me for over 19 years now,I'm glad I've finally decided to give him a chance which is actually god who brought us together when his mom died and I went to her funeral which got us closer than we were before because I just wanted to be that good friend he needed
@CarolIncierto5 ай бұрын
I have found that man, but can't be. Because I am still married and bind to a wrong man who never had those 7 things you mentioned. Sadly, I found it to another man, but can't be. So it don't work out too. Better single that making a lot of frustrations and heartaches. I believe God will do something and write a beautiful love story out of my life.
@j.m.johnson99705 ай бұрын
I wish I had your advice 50 years ago. I was influenced by the media, which gave wrong advise. I believed only beautiful woman get the men. How untrue that is. Anyways, Ismael you are doing a good job, and maybe it will help the younger generation.
@rayva16 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, none of these have happened to me. Moving forward!
@celiamacalong65225 ай бұрын
Nice hearing my friend...yes that's truth..true love reveal in tself true actions.... and is worthy to be praised and care for❤.
@Annalorraine2x5 ай бұрын
You've got a new subscriber. I've been beat down so much. I need to be a believer.
@kamvamashaba64004 ай бұрын
I never find true love in my life only find people who wants to use me ask me for help when I don't have they go away and the love is finish
@vivienemitchell16864 ай бұрын
The man who does this for me was my husband and I also adore him likewise but he has took is leaaf and gone to rest may God bless his soul ❤️ 🙏.
@lovejesus18186 ай бұрын
That is so funny. Ok at work. The food that I bought from a vending machine got stuck. So I ask the first guy I can find to help me get it out. So he tried to get it out, but he couldn't, so he went and looked for a metal hanger. So then while he is looking for that. I saw another man and I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said let's see let me help you. So he can't get it out. So he went and looked for a metal hanger too. So the third man I saw. I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said, ok let me see. So he tried to get it out and he couldn't get it out. So the first guy if I remember it correctly. Found a metal hook. So the three men take turns trying to get my food out of the vending machine. At first no luck at all. So the second guy said let me try again and let me make this with a hook. So he did. We were laughing so hard. Because they were making fun of me. Saying, so you just have to have the noodles. Why not this and that? I said I wanted the noodles. The vending machine was poorly made. So back to my noodles. Finally he got it out and we all cheered. It was so funny. These guys weren't even my boyfriends and they helped me. So yes damsel in distress. Really works. 🎉😂
@jess977245 ай бұрын
You could've just banged on the machine.
@teodorailieva9746 ай бұрын
Wow Ismael, thank you for sharing your knowledge about this so important subject 🙏 Really deep informations.
@annamasiga2797Ай бұрын
A man who loves you marries you and ignores all obstacles to be with: why is this not talked about??!
@anitaramchandani78384 ай бұрын
Fantastic content Ismael . Thank you.
@ElismaGoliath-jr7vk4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice ❤
@MargaretBussiere17 күн бұрын
Thank you for your videos they all are amazing and full of info. Me I'm in a long distance relationship it's been 2 years and he is a really amazing guy, it's one were we met as a friend request on messenger, we are hoping to meet soon, we have had challenges and no matter how much I tested him his love for me always remained to surprise me more everyday, despite our age difference, I know he is the one for me. Have a great day.
@sallysmithy98604 ай бұрын
Thank you good info ❤
@gwenfusco72924 ай бұрын
Great info!!
@marijkehuurman57466 ай бұрын
Thank you,you are amazing, finally I understand men more.
@vartikaguleria57526 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Ismael for your guidance once again :)
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much.
@PamelaDeMers6 ай бұрын
Thankyou Ismael, I appreciate you.
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
I kept smiling as I read your comment.
@mahimamohapatra777OAS4 ай бұрын
Thank you❤😊
@margaretmsoo20606 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video.. New subscriber 🎉
@tonyasalo4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much.😊
@PamelaDeMers6 ай бұрын
I think your'e doing a great job Ismael.
@BelenTria4 ай бұрын
I experienced these to my husband. Thanks
@venus73386 ай бұрын
I am grateful for this video but when my man shares about his childhood, I couldn't talk about mine becauze I actually had no childhood and it is kind of sad..
@abishagnabakooza13314 ай бұрын
Am lorna watching from Milano. Am still single and searching Hope yr video guides me in the next relationship.
@IT_BABE5 ай бұрын
Great video❤
@rl7986 ай бұрын
How the hell do you know he's watching you sleep? Your sleeping😂😂😂
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
You set a hidden camera in the room so you can see what he does haha
@Braveh3artGirl6 ай бұрын
Hahaha
@user_abcxyzz6 ай бұрын
Because he tells you "hey baby you fell asleep last night and I didn't want to wake you, you looked so peaceful sleepin" prolly says some shiit like that
@rachelking88016 ай бұрын
You feel his eyes on you lol
@amygorman82996 ай бұрын
I live alone, if a man’s watching me sleep……………..😳
@margaretk93514 ай бұрын
Thank you for the interesting points. One tip I would have dealing with how to answer when he asks about my childhood. Basically, if a woman had a difficult childhood, she wouldn't want to say too much about it and may also be concerned how to address it. Do you know what I mean? I guess keeping to general and light answers would be best. I would appreciate your feedback. Thank you!
@AishaMusa-hl2cd16 күн бұрын
For those who are lucky inlove❤❤❤congrats...as for me here have never experienced true love..i only bealive that love is beautiful only in movies...for unlucky ones...lets jus live with full hopes that one dey sir God will remember us❤❤❤
@ShopgirlNY1822 ай бұрын
Awesome video! Do you think it’s shady that my ex would never post about us or comment on my posts about us but he would like them… but then he commented “love you ❤❤” on a bartender’s picture on IG? I told him this upset me and he just told me “I was reading too much into it” and just left the comment there. I thought maybe he’d delete it since it upset me but nope he left it.
@leslieboles64395 ай бұрын
Early in our relationship he said I am demanding, which I am not. This made me reluctant to ask for help. Now he says, " well you didn't ask..." as his excuse for not helping. Manipulation.
@SaveTheMessenger5 ай бұрын
Sounds like it. I'm glad you're aware.
@user-Tortured-soul4 ай бұрын
❤ Thank you
@SunQueen-d7l2 ай бұрын
🎉"attach ur happiness 😊 to ur goals NOT people"- Genius Albert Einstein
@SaveTheMessenger2 ай бұрын
So funny. I read that quote yesterday for the first time.
@SunQueen-d7l2 ай бұрын
@@SaveTheMessenger he said: bc people will obviously 🙄 always let u down...
@SunQueen-d7l2 ай бұрын
@@SaveTheMessenger love ❤️ ur super powerful wisdom!!! Instant subscriber. 🙏 👏
@annababukhan18016 ай бұрын
Thank you, very informative. 🙏
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
I appreciate you took the time to leave such a lovely comment.
@Self-ExaminingMyself2 ай бұрын
Learned my lesson, no more Internet relationships
@rameya256 ай бұрын
Thank you for this
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
Your comment made me smile. I appreciate you.
@AestheticAlloyAestheticAlloy6 ай бұрын
thank you Ismael for your advices
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
Always my pleasure.
@astridhanl48614 ай бұрын
Love your clips. How short they are is pretty rfect bc some of those things seem so obvious to some ppl but to others, who were programmed with low Self esteem from early childhood or have been hurt, it is valid knowledge that has to be enshrined in our thinking. I listen to those very carefully and often rewqtch them or save them for watching on low energy days. Thank you so much ❤
@laurarichardson33902 ай бұрын
New suscriber here. Youre very insightful and very handsome 😊
@sabillamohammad76236 ай бұрын
Honest question : why do you call spending quality time, an effort ?
@natwel15446 ай бұрын
It is love when a neighbour will knock and tell you you have a parcel 📦 on your door 🚪 step
@kiluruudus2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@joeschweidinz77755 ай бұрын
Yes❤... Amg ...first time l heard you. You know! I agree
@ashadominicafernandes4614 ай бұрын
Nice video Ismael . But so far no one has done it for me .
@disneylike6445 ай бұрын
That is so nice when you fell asleep beside your partner…….but me?? When I fell asleep? I get in big trouble. When I travel I had to turn my gps on so he know where I am….and have to film the road I am driving pass so he know where I’m up to…. I lost my friends and my job because of him. Call me all diffferent kinds of names. I gave everything and do anything for him but I ended up like this. But I’m glad I’m out from that darkness. I almost ended my life but I realised it’s not worth it. I think of the people who loves me and cares for me and that’s the only thing that stops me from doing it. I’m happy now living on my own, but if god allows me to meet that someone who is meant for me…. I will be grateful.
@شاهينشاهين-ص2ق6 ай бұрын
Thank you Sweet Ismael Your videos is Different & insightful thank you for guiding us
@ez_ullah_fun4 ай бұрын
Wow my twin flame never did any of these. Thank you ❤
@lpsglitterpaws85366 ай бұрын
Everything you say is spot on!
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
Much appreciated 🙌
@sambandamcecilia19806 ай бұрын
Really means a lot Sir
@zenaidaalejos58964 ай бұрын
Thankful
@lovejesus18186 ай бұрын
I love your advice thank you so much. 😊
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
I'm glad my video found you today.
@ykt43436 ай бұрын
Thank you for another insightful video😊Please do make a part 2 on this. So interesting.
@carrieh9226 ай бұрын
Great video 😊
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
Much appreciated 🙌
@patriciamebs96104 ай бұрын
My husband of 53 years decided to leave me! I gave him most of my life from 19 to 71. He wants young women from 29 t0 early 30's I got sick then he left.
@hillmeli6 ай бұрын
Ismael, te voy a ser sincera...todos estos datos me han sucedido a mi con un buen amigo mio que decidimos intentar a "salir juntos". I would call 🤙 him to help out and HE WAS THERE, sin falla. Y también me preguntaba que si me sentia comoda a su lado y en sus brazos. Siempre me llamaba para consejos pq me decia que I had a good head on my shoulders...y siempre me contaba de sus logros. But, I messed it up pq me puse celosa un dia and I raised my voice. Desde ese dia TODO CAMBIÓ, y lo entiendo ahora que ese si fue un buen hombre...no es perfecto así como yo tampoco lo soy, but...he trusted me y yo le fallé. Mala mia, en verdá.
@AbhidaSingh6 ай бұрын
Such a nice video
@SaveTheMessenger6 ай бұрын
That's very sweet of you. Thanks.
@superpoodlehead5 ай бұрын
❤❤More please!!!❤❤
@sheilamorgan81674 ай бұрын
Thanks that helps alot
@pricesunbury595 ай бұрын
Cool video
@judysutton97584 ай бұрын
Such good insight and advice. Thank you dear. 😘♥️
@makelifematter18965 ай бұрын
So far this ole lady 68 is so enjoying best part they are not only educational but short and wonderful insight❤hsvrnt found one I dont like
@Mistyshaheen6 ай бұрын
Thank you
@liongirl25786 ай бұрын
nobody love me 😅i’m either how people fall in love what does it mean is that possible 😂
@sygraciavee17722 ай бұрын
Hi coach❤
@jeannettestuckelschwaiger50714 ай бұрын
My husband is absent when I happen to have problems or to be sick. Im always loving and caring towards him and his family from previous marriage. I even quit my work to help him in his business. It's all wrong from my part. But I wanted so badly to build up a family. Mine was murdered in genocide time. Besides, love is blind and Im utopic. You r responsable for your own life. Nevertheless curcumstances give you no much choice at old age now.
@YukivideolifeАй бұрын
Can you make a video about, what men don't do to the women they love
@marygranke2044 ай бұрын
I wish I could go to my mother and talk to her again, but she passed away this May 2, 2024.
@ish70364 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace🙏
@marygranke2044 ай бұрын
@@ish7036 Thank you.
@Self-ExaminingMyself2 ай бұрын
That is awesome and sweet
@Annalorraine2x5 ай бұрын
Nobody will ever love me. That's what I figured. I'm a beat out so many times, but nobody wants me a little off.
@glorialuyinda75744 ай бұрын
Somebody loves you dia. Don't ever say that
@glorialuyinda75744 ай бұрын
You are special my dia
@4Beats4Me4 ай бұрын
A sweet commentary - but ladies beware of all these things !! As a woman , I could caution you about American men in this American culture. Ismael, I wish. And hope. Nothing against you at all. You are the one 'guy coach ' I can listen to without laughing. Don't give up on us hard-headed independent types, please!
@SamjhanaDhakal-f9g5 ай бұрын
Ismeal sounds like your talk is based on your personal experiences or your knowledge about yourself and study and there are facts about men but watching your vedios about men made me feel like, are all men incompetent in terms of their beautiful supposedly manly qualities to treat ladies?? Therefore expectation that ladies hope in men are too much or duped? We are imperfect men and women and the relationship we bring fort is also not perfect, there should be alot of understanding and forgiveness based on love and respect, for each other. If we keep ditching a partner because of his or her flaws then we could never get one perfect, if we look and see the good qualities in the partner then that person looks and feels beautiful but the major red alert needs to be dealt with appropriately😊