Saying goodbye to my daughter

[@danielschiffer]

My condolences, Matt. So sorry for your loss.

[@lunamethyst7]

I have never hoped for something to be clickbait more than I was hoping for this video to be clickbait. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family have resources and systems of people in place to make this grieving process for Daisy as supported as possible. Thank you for sharing this moment with us.

[@trentkhr]

💯

[@evage99]

Same, I saw the title and said "Please let this not be what it sounds like!" But it is. These people are strangers to me, but my heart still breaks for their loss, because I can't imagine losing any of my children. Not now that they're half-grown, and not when they were contentedly bumping around in my belly. Unborn babies are human, and they are loved, and it's tragic when any of them die.

[@seanrawlinson]

I'm honestly pissed that he monetised the video tbh.

[@antonmironov1981]

if you think Matt could ever think of clickbaiting something like that, you are seriously mistaken about his moral compass. Condolences guys , we lost our first child too while pregnant and still miss her.

[@MrAnonimR]

i wished so much that this was clickbait :(

[@TheInquisitiveIndian]

I’m not a dad, not a regular commenter on KZbin, nor a longtime subscriber to your channel, but I couldn’t hold back from expressing my deepest condolences for your loss. Thinking of you, mate.

[@lukemperez]

Not a lot of dudes talk about the grief of a miscarriage or losing an unborn. We lost ours almost ten years ago. I had a support group of friends, other dads who had lost too. Not all do. Thanks for being open about this for the dudes out there grieving.

[@Annez8]

I'm so sorry Matt. I love that you say "she was real". She was!! We lost our first baby a couple of years ago, and all people said was "it wasn't real yet", but to us she was real. It made dealing with the loss such a lonely process. We gave her a name but we couldn't share it with anyone. So thank you for sharing her name, it's beautiful. And lots of love and prayers for you guys. You'll get through this

[@r.n.4765]

Your baby was real. Maybe not to others, but she was real in her own right, and she was real to you. So sorry that you were told otherwise.

[@classicaltrombone]

You, too, are not alone. Thank you for sharing Daisy's memory.

[@LarryBarbosa]

I’m so sorry to hear. I wish you and Nat the Best, Daisy’s memory will live on forever

[@AndrewEthanZeng]

It was hard not to tear up watching this. Sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you and Nat.

[@chiaramarker]

I teared up watching this. It is okay to tear up. It is okay to feel emotions. Especially when something so sad happens. :c

[@ethanrogers9627]

I wept. No shame.

[@BryceChristopherHodge]

Me too.

[@LorenaSalinas21]

@@BryceChristopherHodge same here

[@Justarandomnerdygirl]

I cried and I don't even know who this guy is 😔

[@beyondhumanity7025]

Sorry for your loss, Matt. She was real, and we all were impacted by her.

[@Diorhome]

As a father of a 4 month old girl, my brain cannot even register the amount, and the type of pain you're going through. Stay stronger than ever. My condolences

[@achtube85]

The pain of the loss of unborn babies is certainly not talked about enough. Thank you for sharing yourself from such a vulnerable place. You touched my heart. I send a hug to you, Nat and your son.

[@bornagain5199]

This happened to us with our 1st baby. We have 4 kids now. Our kids know that we lost our first baby. They frequently say that they have a big brother in heaven that they will meet one day. It gives me comfort knowing that he is remembered and loved by his other siblings. My condolences to you and your wife. 💐 🕊️

[@Manuel-rl6um]

Man, that hit me.

[@codeN_8]

Yes. It's going to be the sweetest reunion. ❤

[@this_epic_name]

I have two siblings who got to heaven under the same circumstances. :) I'm so glad my parents kept trying after two miscarriages.

[@chayap.199]

Yes, they have an older brother. My parents lost my 7th sibling to sids. He was born. He existed. He is my brother, in heaven. But he is still my brother. I visit his grave when I can.

[@kimconroy9535]

Matt and family. I am so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful name you guys chose.. Daisy. I pray for your family and thank you for this beautiful video you made and had the courage to share. God Bless!

[@iambradarthur]

Thank you for sharing this Matt and for your profound courage to read the letter to us. Daisy is a beautiful name. It’s unimaginable how tough this loss must feel but im sure she will always be with you in many ways and you will continue to feel each other’s love. My deepest condolences. I’m sending you and your wife all the love.

[@earlgt2]

Brother, no words. I've come to you for inspiration so many times. I am deeply saddened by the loss of your child. Daisy was here, not long enough, but long enough to enrich the lives of both of you. Take care.

[@eamonandbec]

We love you, we’re here for you. We’ll always think of Daisy when we stop to smell a beautiful flower. Wrapping you and the family in pure, warm love 💗

[@glennsectordelterror]

I’m sorry Matt, I hope you find strength in the love and support surrounding you.

[@SethPleasants]

This is such a beautiful testament to the sanctity of life and both of your resilience and faith. Thank you so much for sharing and I am glad you found peace to the degree that you could. I thank God for you and pray he will guide you both to 'the peace that surpasses all understanding.'

[@luismunoz7587]

The things you wrote to your baby are the things we, as parents, take for granted every day. Daisy made a difference for me today as a father of 5. Life in the womb is truly beautiful.

[@benpavey8610]

These were my thoughts exactly

[@2enthu445]

I’ve never commented on a KZbin video before but just the first couple seconds broke me. I’m so sorry and I really hope you and your wife can move forward after taking all the time you need to mourn. Thank you for so many years of inspiring videos.

[@lisashoegal]

Sadly, I know Matt's pain too well. I know exactly how he is feeling.

[@_claraduarte_]

​@@lisashoegalSo sorry it happened to you. ❤

[@lisashoegal]

@@_claraduarte_ Well we're not sure what their situation is but we found out at a big scan that our Baby wouldn't survive. He lived for an incredibly short time.

[@nobodygnomes]

@@lisashoegali’m sorry

[@thejasontlewis]

Beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing. My wife and I struggled to get pregnant but we finally did 21 years ago and had a wonderful baby daughter. Several years later we unexpectedly got pregnant and lost th baby,. We decded to try again and lost that baby as well to an ectopic pregnancy. Blighted ovum, they called it. After that we adopted a 13 year old boy to be our son. He had many problems that we ultimately could not solve and at this moment he's in jail waiting on trial for several felony charges. We love him, but we could not help him. 3 years ago he had a baby with his girlfriend at the time. Neither of them coulld take care of the baby so we took him and he's been with us ever since. He's a wonderful boy, and even though I never anticipated being a new father at 50, he's been a gift. I say this to tell you that sometimes things are vrey hard and you don't know how you can get through, but sometimes wonderful things come of it. Stay strong, both of you.

[@neatcleanandsimple.1909]

Such wise helpful words...❤ thanks for sharing this. Stay blessed.

[@sidhpandit5239]

Thanks for sharing your story

[@codeN_8]

Bless you! ❤

[@taintedlife2618]

I am very sorry. I’ve seen such pain and loss in my own family but also much joy. My brother has spent a lot of my life in jail. Thankfully he’s been out for about ten years and most of the harm he did was to his own life. Lots of lost time. But he’s been out and it’s not been perfect but mostly it’s been good so I’m thankful. Many nephews and nieces and now great nieces and newphews and I worry about each one but also love them. Being an uncle to so many is strange for sure. Worry but also blessings. I’m glad for your boy and love for him. My own mother has raised many a niece and nephew. Currently has two living with her that are adults and one with two boys for her own. I love those two toddler babies so much🙏🏼💕💕💕

[@thejasontlewis]

@@taintedlife2618 Thank you.

[@STLO18]

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my sweet baby boy when I was 9 months pregnant. What you said @2:05 made me cry. For almost everyone around me, this baby just "never arrived". But I already had him.. and then lost him. I was asleep during my C-section and by the time I was awake I was told that he was given to a priest who buried him in a cemetery far away from our house. This was heartbreaking. They did what they thought was best for me but took away my right to mourn my way. I have no footprint, no picture, nothing but the memories of the 9 months we spent together. It’s true that time heals but they existed, they were here, and will forever have a special place in our hearts 💙💗

[@thas89]

Hi Matt, I'm very sorry for your loss, Daisy is a beautiful name. I had my first daughter, Ava, 3 months ago, and she came stillborn after 40 weeks, you are not alone also, the grieving process as a couple can be hard, at any given moment I can be fine and my partner not and vice versa. Participating in support groups have been helpful for us, to see that this can happen to other people and that there is live after the grieving period. She existed and a father wants to talk about his daughter, even if she's passed, so use her name and talk about her, this topic is such taboo but she was here and forever changed your life, you'll learn about pain, loss and compassion. Take care of each other and remember that your wife like mine, is going through puerperium without a baby so patience is key. Also take care of yourself too, society many times puts the father in a role to be the rock and to have to endure it all, but we feel it too, so let yourself go through it, they tell me time helps, but we can't speed up that, so hang in there. I'm very sorry for your loss, sending you, Nat and Daisy all my love from Brazil.

[@sakitoby1581]

Beautiful comments and advice. So sorry for your loss, too.

[@thebookwormshub1975]

I am so sorry. God bless you. ❤

[@veronikaruss9931]

So sorry for your loss..we lost our first and only baby girl the same way, at 32 weeks of pregnancy..it was 5 years ago (Covid times so nobody even saw me pregnant)..first 2 years were the hardest but talking about her helps a lot..after some time I realized that she is never truly gone, she is always with us, sending us messages here and there..I just need to pay attention in the world more. Sending you and your partner all the good thoughts.

[@BarnAndBeach]

She was so real, Matt. Thank you for sharing her with us. I adore the name Daisy so much.

[@Panda_Hat_Girl]

😊😊😊😅😊

[@Aree2000]

Daisy is a such a magestic name 🌼

[@kimberlycaritas]

I miscarried at 16 weeks over a year ago now. I still think about her so, so much. Thank you for talking about your loss; so many people feel like they can't talk about it, or that it's not a real loss, and that's just not true. You've lost a child-I am so, so sorry. There are really no words.

[@philippawood5047]

I cannot imagine how you must feel, but it took great courage to share this and you honoured Daisy's memory beautifully. Sending you and Nat so much love and strength.

[@abbybumbalough2550]

The courage to put this out in the world is so touching. I can’t imagine the pain you and Nat must be feeling. Thank you for sharing this - I know it will help someone else not feel alone. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

[@c.p.6498]

Matt and Nat, my condolences for losing Daisy. I have followed you for years and never commented, but I want you to know that you too are not alone. Grief and loss aren't easy. You don't just lose someone, but also something that could have been: a future that you imagined. Please take all the time you need to process this. Make room to remember Daisy in your lives, in your home, and in your mind. Continue to pay tribute to her, write letters for her, and embrace all the love you felt for her. It will be difficult to go through it all, but again, you are not alone in this. Thank you for making this video for us so that we remember to appreciate how life can be beautiful, fleeting, and cruel at the same time. It takes tremendous strength and vulnerability to put something like this out there, but you have made it into a beautiful tribute. I hope you read these comments knowing that we stand by you and that we mourn with you. Lots of love from the Netherlands

[@DanielTitchener]

I'm so sorry for your loss, Matt. This breaks my heart... Wishing you all strength and healing

[@dnydon]

I didn't expect to be tearing up on KZbin today. I'm so sorry for your loss, I couldn't imagine the pain of losing a child. Thank you for sharing this with us, and being so vulnerable. My condolences to you and your family.

[@nancymillet8210]

Writing letters to Daisy was a beautiful idea. Thank you for sharing. You’re not alone.

[@Technolobe]

Matt this is devastating. Can’t imagine what you guys went through. Sending you love and strength to get through this 🙏

[@HwayVision]

I was not ready for this. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment

[@rahuldmudliar]

Hey Matt, you’re told bold and strong than you could imagine. My condolences and lots of strength. She’ll be proud of you guys 🥹

[@LifeOfRiza]

So incredibly sorry for your loss Matt. Sending strength and healing to you & your family. ❤‍🩹

[@realJoshtheboss]

I respect your willingness to put your guard down and get emotional on camera. This is proof you are being truly yourself. Love the content Matt. My condolences. Love you brother.

[@_maximilianhinz]

This puts my "bad day" into perspective and helps me recalibrate again what's important. Thank you for sharing. Best to you and your family

[@LITTLERESOURCE]

Feeling this. Beautiful way to honor Daisy and your love for her.

[@k.crackcorn738]

Thank you for sharing this with us, Matt. Your letter to Daisy is beautiful; what a remarkable dad you are. Much love to both you and Nat. Olga

[@taylorwillx]

I rarely ever comment on KZbin videos, but I had to say I'm so sorry to hear this. Your letter made me cry, it was beautiful and heart-breaking at the same time. I wish you both well in the healing process and we all mourn Daisy with you.

[@anasofiapinho]

I’m profoundly sorry for your loss. Daisy is a beautiful name and as I once heard, you now have a guardian angel of whom you know their name. Sending you love and strength from Portugal. Thank you for sharing your tribute with us, and most importantly, for letting us know your lovely daughter.

[@avnerduchovni6675]

I'm so sorry and so proud of you Matt. Thank you for sharing, for being so inspiring and open even in the most personal and hard moments. Appreciate it a lot.

[@rachelhow]

sorry for your loss, matt and nat. daisy is such a beautiful name, and i just want to say you're really brave for sharing this heartbreaking story. it must be tough. please hang in there.

[@sallywinston1204]

I lost two babies this way, the heartbreak is indescribable - your tribute was beautiful, thank you for sharing

[@gardenboots7464]

(((BIGGGGG HUGGGGGGGG)))

[@SPPACATR]

In what way? He didn't say what happened?

[@Somatisandro]

@@SPPACATR She means during pregnancy.

[@ItsMyYoutubeAccount]

@@SPPACATRmiscarriage….? Literally learn about the human body please…. 🙄

[@corinatralala2556]

Same here...last one was really traumatic, we have stopped trying

[@mandimclellan7645]

I’m so sorry. I have also travelled this road. Thank you for sharing your grief at losing little Daisy. “A joy shared is a joy doubled; a shared sorrow is half a sorrow”. ❤

[@JaynaELand]

So very sorry for you guys’ loss, Matt. Just recently lost my nephew, right after finding out the gender and even not being a parent, it is insanely hard. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. The fact that you guys chose to open that email and acknowledge and lean into the realness of your baby’s life is so beautiful. Although things did not end the way you wanted, that is your baby to cherish forever, even though apart from you. Much love to you both as you heal and grow ❤

[@racaulk]

I can't begin to understand the enormity of this loss for you, Nat, and your family. No words, I'm just so very sorry. Thank you for being so vulnerable and for sharing your grief and sadness in this video. I think this was a beautiful way to help memorialize Daisy and preserve her memory. ❤

[@sarahfacio-davis31]

My sincerest condolences Matt. What a beautiful letter, thanks so much for sharing. Your Daisy is definitely loved.

[@ourveryoldhouse9848]

As a mother of loss, I felt all the emotions watching this. We suffered many miscarriages and lost our first born from amniotic band syndrome and anancephaly. My daughter, Avery, would be 13 this year. It does get easier, but the grief comes in like waves some days. Sending you, Nat, and your family so much love, peace, and positive energy. Daisy was real, loved, and valuable to your story ❤

[@andreanaranjo7468]

I'm so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for trusting us and sharing such a painful situation.

[@karuyadachi]

Oh my goodness. Oh the pain. I’m so, so, so sorry. “She was real”. She is indeed. May you both find the strength to keep going and loving. ❤️

[@po5tm4n]

Grief is unexpressed love for those who are gone. Much love mate. Live in the moment, your child is gone but will live on inside you.

[@IAmPeterCook]

I'm so sorry for your loss, Matt. Writing letters to Daisy was beautiful and thoughtful, thanks for sharing one with us. Sending love, strength, and healing to you and your family. ❤

[@amandahenderson9338]

I am broken for you both. So sorry for your loss, and wish you all the gentle caring while you process all of this.

[@aron_toth]

I recently lost my wife exactly 2 weeks ago on Monday. She was only 29. We've been together for 6 years and married for 2,5 years. We wanted to have babies too but she got cancer immediately after we got married... Why I'm writing down this is because I know for a fact that she is now in heaven and I can't wait to meet her. You are right about Daisy, she is real. May it be your consolation that she is in heaven, the best place she could be. I hope you and your wife find your way to that path if you haven't already. Jesus said: "I am the Way, and the Truth, and the Life". With love and sympathy Aron.

[@عبدالسلامالشهراني-ن8ف]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@1kerShen]

So sorry for you

[@OnlyMon0]

I hope you are doing well Aron! Im am rooting for you!! ❤

[@DoYouSalut]

Praying that your wife is looking out for Daisy in heaven.

[@aresorum]

The Bible speaks of everlasting life on earth; not heaven. Wouldn't you rather be on earth with all your loved ones, forever?

[@loadiam]

My wife and I share your pain, we have lost three. Thank you for sharing.

[@TayoAinaFilms]

My condolences, Matt. God's got you! 🙏

[@markpinto11]

Wishing you’ll strength in these difficult times Matt. Couldn’t help but tear up listening to the homage.

[@Jeremy-fy1sz]

Thanks for sharing. This is a story that is so common and yet so seldom shared. It's hard to grieve a child that you never got to know.

[@KG-bv6eg]

This video is such a gift to your daughter and to your family and to all those who have suffered a loss. Thank you for sharing your heart and for lifting others who are in pain. I’m so very sorry for your loss. ❤

[@JordanSKTorres]

Yes, she was real and beautiful! I'm sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing this moment with us.

[@SnowbotD45]

I have never commented on a video before, but the strength you have shown in sharing this is second to none. So sorry for your loss.

[@melissafarrand5663]

I’ve lost 3 babies. It’s never easy. Their lives were short, but we’re the only ones that know it. To them, all they knew was you, and your love, and that’s a perfect life ♥️

[@sabrinal.3863]

God bless you and the loss you’ve experienced. I was so sad reading your comment but I also love how supportive it was. May only the best be directed towards you🥹🙏🏼

[@junnatha]

​@@Veenforwinr u ok?

[@PraveenSrJ01]

I’m so sorry 😞 for your loss

[@Rain_Reign]

I’ve also lost three. It’s been years but it still hurts. Thank you for this beautiful sentiment. I’d never quite thought about it that way, and it helps. Sending love ♥️

[@davidgutierrez8364]

Dude, I cried like if it was my child. You guys are brave and strong people. It’s crazy to think this 5minute video has actually changed my life and in how I look at life from this point onward. Thank you

[@eyk150]

Matt and Nat, thank you for sharing this with us. It's a beautiful tribute to Daisy, and I admire your willingness to express your grief as a way to express your love for her. I hope that it does nothing but draw you closer to to the realness of her life and all the love you shared.

[@clairedebbs9972]

I lost twins during pregnancy and "I can't wait" to hold them in my arms in heaven one day. And they, too, had been given names, because this makes them come to life, so to say. We are very, very sorry. God bless your family, all of you.

[@karhadley]

Sobbing I’ve lost two and like your initial response was to move on and put it behind us… thank you for sharing a beautiful and healthy way to acknowledge the life in your wife’s womb and her special place in your life.sweet little daisy ❤

[@peterr.7641]

So sorry for your loss Matt. That must have taken a lot to share. Wish you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

[@MH-kc3qv]

Thank you Matt for sharing your daughter with the world. You are in our hearts.

[@ericamichelle3992]

My deepest condolences to you and Nat❤ I'm so sorry for the pain and grief you are experiencing. Sending prayers of love and healing to you both.

[@twopintsofmilk]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be keeping your family in my prayers. Daisy has had an incredible impact on the world based on what you've said here and how the people commenting have been touched by your beautiful tribute. Life is precious. God bless ❤

[@bradhussey]

Oh man, Matt. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I feel this deeply and truly appreciate you sharing this with us. Thank you. I'm going to pray for you, Nat and Daisy. God bless.

[@fernandoros92]

Hope you and your family can find the strength and the spirit to overcome such a real loss. Beautiful tribute

[@sdcastaperez]

OMG Matt, I'm so sorry for your lost from Colombia. She is going to be an angel that will never leave you guys alone. God blesses you and gives you both the strength and the the hope to continue. I just write this crying, thank you for being so brave and sharing your pain with us.

[@vjunloc1]

As someone who has lost 2 babies pre-term i can understand what you are feeling right now, Your wife needs you, It will take her a long time to overcome this. Whenever we used to visit doctor and doctor used to ask about history and every time she used to narrate her lost pregnancies she used to start crying. She finally gave birth to our first daughter during covid (pre-term) and immediately went onto a ventilator for next 14 days ( due to covid ), Her survival was nothing short of a miracle. We used to look around and see everyone is having babies without issues, why is it us who has to suffer extreme challenges. I have huge respect for my wife for what she endured for us, Please take care of your wife Matt

[@GabeBult]

I lost my son as well man. So sorry for your loss. Really glad you made this video so many of us can feel alone when going through this.

[@richardsteinbergmakingknives]

How incredibly sad. My heart goes out to you both.

[@mrbenjirivera]

Breaks my heart to hear this news... I'm deeply sorry for your loss, Matt & Nat. Daisy...such a beautiful name and she's so real for all of us. We appreciate you and Nat for sharing your pain with us. Takes so much courage. We love you both so much & Daisy as well. Sending you all a big 'ol bear hug. 🐻

[@wildcat62282]

She was real and she mattered ❤ I’ve lost a child to miscarriage and it’s the worst. Wishing you time to heal and an earth side baby in the not too distant future

[@wakingtheworld]

This was heart-breaking. I don't know you, Matt, but as a parent with 4 healthy adult children, I can't begin to imagine how devastating & bereft you must both feel. Your letter was so touching.... Couldn't stop the tears. Thank you for sharing. ❤

[@ravenskye6595]

the beauty of that heartbeat will live forever. My prayers for you both.

[@wendyash6915]

It is so unbelievable beautiful that you shared this with the world. Losing a baby is extremely painful and it is just not talked about enough. Thank you for breaking through that barrier. You will love and miss her forever. Peace to you and your partner. ❤

[@penguinninja4417]

Thank you for posting this, Matt. It is very clear that you and your wife's love for Daisy is beautifully represented here. ❤ If I could offer you a hug, I would. 🫂 Please take whatever time (and help) you, your wife, and son need to grieve. Within my own experience, grief is not a linear path; but one that goes in different directions, with different strengths, on different days. It doesn't really go away, but it's waves' impact will slowly lower over time. Talking about her (with those around you, or support groups online) has provided some small amount of relief for myself. A good therapist who specializes in grief can also be helpful to open up with. I'm not sure how religious you are, but you and your family will be in my prayers. 🙏 Much love to you all.

[@herrnerdmeyer3638]

I am so sorry and I am so proud that you shared that, because it makes other people feel less alone. Thank you for being you.

[@heidiv5720]

Holding you and your family in my heart. Prayers and blessings for sweet baby Daisy. How she has impacted the world despite it all. ❤️

[@realestatesharktv]

I am so sorry for your loss Matt. I can not even image the feeling. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife and your daughter.

[@yashitasharma2194]

My heart aches, and my eyes just can't stop crying. But I hope you both read this. Never have I been so strongly inspired by someone. You chose to confront your feelings and express them rather than ignoring or saving yourself from them. That shows that you two have a healthy and strong relationship. Immense power to you Matt and Natalie.♥

[@amlec1985]

What a beautiful tribue. I'm sorry for the loss of your Daisy.

[@sidneyraz]

yup, i lost my daughter Delfina at 25 weeks. We got to hold her and she was perfect. It was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life.

[@Intmain69]

Could you pls explain how you lose a baby? Sorry I just don't understand.

[@kiera6326]

@@Intmain69 this is an instance where googling is the right thing to do

[@Intmain69]

@@kiera6326 I did and its just shows like dealing with the death of you child.

[@Anna_RK]

​@Intmain69 Try to Google miscarriage or stillbirth. Whoever, if you are very young, it is better to speak with an adult/counselor/parent who you trust and who is able to explain this kind of topic.

[@Intmain69]

@Anna_RK oh no bro I'm 18. I know what a miscarriage is. I'm just dumb and I didn't know that's what "losing your child" meant. Sorry

[@markxsavage]

I’m so sorry. May your family have strength in this loss and pain. Bless you.

[@valeriebabyuk7192]

I’m so sorry , this is heartbreaking. I’ve lost my baby during pregnancy too. Thank you for your courage to share , it is so important to know that no one is alone in this, there are quite a few of us 💔

[@mark3431]

I can't imagine the pain. To lose my daughter (or son) would be unbearable. Prayers.

[@AaronTWas]

Daisy will always be your daughter, and you her father. She was and the memory of her is very real. The letter that you wrote was absolutely beautiful, and a simple but amazing memorial to her. My wife and I lost our son, Declan, at birth back in 2014. To this day we count him amongst his siblings as one of our kids. The missing him does not go away, but the pain does subside eventually, as unlikely as that may feel right now for you. You will find ways that work best for you, but taking opportunities, even little ones, to include Declan’s memory have always helped us - like using his name, and signing it on Christmas cards with the other kids’ names, etc. You are in our thoughts, and we thank you for sharing your daughter, Daisy’s name with us!

[@framedman]

Man, thank you so much for sharing this. It's devastating but it's also so important to tell and share stories like this. You're right, you're not alone but so few of us are able to talk about infant loss, especially during pregnancy. It's still felt just as hard for so many people. I am lucky enough to have had two children born naturally and healthily but the reality of what you have been through was never far away and even some of our very good friends weren't able to talk about similar things that happened to them. So once again, thank you for sharing, I hope that many people see this and get a lot from it. That letter will be cherished by Daisy wherever she is right now and I hope you will be able to read it in the future (or see this as it sounds as though you left it with her) and remember the time you had with her with fondness. All the best to you both.

[@WhatLeslyeLoves]

I’m so terrible sorry, Matt. Prayers of peace and comfort for you and Nat during this time. Lots of hugs too!

[@mh.blue_swish25]

Awe Matt this is heartbreaking 😢 💔. My deepest condolences to you and Nat. No parent should ever have to go through this. Your letter was very touching. I think the idea for writing those letters and having a resource for you to express your grief will be so important. Wishing you both all the best and love ❤️.

[@ahmadmmughal]

So sorry for your loss. Your words to your daughter were beyond beautiful. Wishing you and your wife strength at this moment. My wife and I lost our son not long ago, you sharing this helped me just now and will help so many others I’m sure.

[@simcmahon]

I’m so sorry for you both Matt, there’s no heartbreak quite like losing a baby. In one way they never made it into the world but in another way they made such an impact on our lives. ❤

[@wakeupwith_morgan]

I'm crying. Thank you for sharing the hard parts of life

[@PatrickBreenMusic]

Matt I’m so sorry. As a dad, I can’t imagine what you and your wife are going through. I’m so sorry.

[@kylersalameda868]

I am very sorry for your loss Matt. My deepest condolences to you and Nat ❤

[@nicolaconlan168]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this to help others who may be going through something similar know that they aren’t alone. Sending love to your family 🖤