Tom and I are divorced...this sucks.

[@TheMinimalMom]

I'm going to leave comments on for now as long as they don't go off the rails! *If there is anything negative about Tom it will be deleted and you will be blocked.* Remember, unwanted advice is often perceived as criticism. Asking if we've tried something isn't helpful. Suggestions aren't helpful. If you do want to support us, subscribing and watching our videos means the world to us. And most of all, THANK YOU, we've been surrounded by love and kindness since day one and are so humbled and grateful. You can find Tom's channel here if you want to show him some love and support, too: www.youtube.com/@RustyJudgment - Dawn

[@melissaeisener6896]

You are so loved Dawn. You have brought so much peace to my life. I am devastated for you, and so sorry about your long struggle in this marriage. Praying so much healing over you.

[@CoralBalmoral]

Love and best wishes to you all for healing and recovery in a very difficult and painful situation ❤️🙏

[@elizabethshaklee8450]

We love you and Tom both so much Dawn! Praying for you, Tom, and the rest of your family during this time!!! ❤

[@galehunley7924]

I am SO SORRY! I've been divorced for almost 8 years. We would have celebrated our 30th anniversary last June. Although I am so against divorce, sometimes there is not much of a choice anymore. And I agree...it is THE WORST! I have more peace, but it's still the worst. I'm sorry...😭

[@trinahughes1230]

Damn ,Tom & kids , I'm sad for all of you ... I truly hope things work out for the best for all of the family ... ❤

[@WeLoveChouBJu]

The fact that this came as a complete surprise is due to your ability to keep your husband in a positive light on your channel. That takes a lot of respect.

[@jaeespo5413]

You do not owe anyone an explanation. You teach us about minimalism. You are my person to watch. I will keep watching you no matter what 🌷

[@RioJudy]

I’m a licensed therapist and you are completely out of line. This is the internet and social media. STOP making judgments that affect people in devastating ways. It’s cowardly since you’re doing so ANONYMOUSLY.

[@rphomemovies]

This is very sad for both of you. Hope your kids are doing ok.

[@lorrainesherman1660]

​@RioJudy?? Who are you talking to? These comments are very respectful.

[@rebeccaoprea9917]

@@lorrainesherman1660I’m guessing she’s referring to any negative or unhelpful comments that could be made. 🤷‍♀️

[@DonnaAndCats]

I don't think I've ever seen anyone deliver this sort of news in such a classy and impartial way. That was so admirable. I wish you and your families the best.

[@anitapulsipher]

Agreed!!

[@JRspeaking]

It's because she left. Watch the husband's video. He's crushed. Not that she shouldn't have left. The marriage had obviously run its course.

[@grannygoes7882]

@@JRspeaking Can you tell me how to find that?

[@youtubeacc]

@@JRspeakingI got more of an angry and rude tone from his video? It kind of scared me actually.

[@martinascopes5274]

​@@youtubeacc especially when he said he believes himself to now be a safer husband. What was he before?!

[@missyhoops305]

I can honestly say I have never been more shocked by anything. I am so sorry. Hugs.

[@joannecalcutt6724]

No sympathy just support

[@nancybrower8608]

Dawn, i know the feeling. I was married for 34 years. He was not happy, so he just checked out. I will keep you in my prayers. Many hugs as well. God is always there.❤

[@nancykapprel4103]

My exact response. My heart goes out to the entire family. Best of luck

[@sandraelder1101]

⁠@@joannecalcutt6724 No sympathy? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@mpagemi]

Same!

[@BruceDavis-cq6nw]

Dear Dawn, I just watched Tom’s video. I am so impressed how you both speak honorably about the other. My heart goes out to you and Tom and your children. Love and prayers Barb ❤

[@agnetahallberg9845]

Has Tom an own channel? What the name?

[@deniseestrada7037]

​@@agnetahallberg9845Rusty Judgement is Tom's channel

[@RebelAlliance42]

​@@agnetahallberg9845 Rusty Judgment

[@labradoritefeldspath4445]

@@agnetahallberg9845 Rusty Judgment

[@adp124]

​@@agnetahallberg9845Rusty Judgement

[@Clutterbug]

I am grateful to see so many supportive and loving comments. Your community is just as kind and wonderful as you are my friend. I'll always be in your corner ready to throw hands for you ❤

[@mariee.5912]

❤❤

[@meanoldbag]

Supportive is one thing Supportive of divorce is another

[@Grasshoppertrish]

❤❤❤❤

[@pamgunter9109]

Love you Cas!!! 🤗💞💞🤗

[@nicholecaputo4713]

Cas is my cup of tea, hands and all 🤣

[@kaitysheets]

When talking about your house & you said “dreams change,” my eyes immediately filled with tears. Thank you for sharing your story

[@johnabraham2035]

made me think of the lyrics from Defying Gravity- Elphie, listen to me, just say you're sorry You can still be with the wizard What you've worked and waited for You can have all you ever wanted (I know) But I don't want it No, I can't want it anymore Something has changed within me Something is not the same I'm through with playing by the rules of someone else's game Too late for second-guessing Too late to go back to sleep It's time to trust my instincts, close my eyes and leap

[@babysbliss44]

Agree, so relatable and raw. :'(

[@donnawarren5777]

Agree, I broke for Dawn at this point ❤

[@sandradowd6732]

😢my heart breaks too.Shes just an amazing person.

[@alicedavi1747]

I felt such hope for you Dawn when you said this. Life is always change! That was a dream fulfilled! ❤more dreams await

[@snightowl]

It’s very refreshing to see a video of someone getting divorced and say it’s terrible, it sucks, it’s not fun. Instead of totally bashing the other person.

[@sophia-luciakwon2792]

Yeah!! And a woman giving up the house to the man 🙌🏻!!

[@joanaoliveira5811]

​@@sophia-luciakwon2792yes that is very weird, they are not telling all the story.

[@LulaMae21]

​@joanaoliveira5811 They don't have to tell "all the story." It's none of our business. As I recall, they had a lot of property attached to the house, and that takes work to maintain.

[@tlsimonsson]

I feel so bad for you & your family ❤ & I hope & pray for the best for you all. However, in all honesty, I wish I knew why/what was the real problem/cause that just couldn't be helped. Thank you for this video & for being honest & inspiring for those of us who need it ❤️

[@moon-waterlatte6709]

She said the property was too much work for her. And....she doesn't need to share the "whole" story...legit none of anyone's business​@joanaoliveira5811

[@katiemacarthur3658]

Dawn, I have been watching your videos for several years now, and though I don’t know you personally, I felt a genuine sadness as if you were my friend. It seems like we are all sad alongside you. Keeping you in my prayers, that you two would walk in wisdom and be comforted.

[@cynthiaperovich310]

The fact that we are all shocked tells the extreme professional way that you do your videos. And...a reminder that noone's life is what we think it is from videos posted. Im glad you are being kind about Tom and mature about it. Please take time to mentally and emotionally adjust to this change. I will pray for you all. ❤

[@alainacarlisle7306]

I watched Tom's video after yours, and I have nothing ill to say of either one of you. I do want to say I love what Tom said about not giving up. I will be keeping you both in my payers. This news broke my heart, and when I seen him alone in your house it made me cry.

[@lisapitts9518]

Me too, he seems so sad. Prayers for the 2 of them.

[@dianacryder7523]

Yes. Seeing him alone in the house was hard. But considering that his mom cleaned out his dad, it's probably a lesson that he needed. It will help him separate the one experience from the other. It's very sad but sometimes we need hard lessons to wake us up.

[@lchapter383]

Yes I watched after Dawn’s and I ended up crying and hugging my husband

[@AA-iy4gm]

I agree, seeing him and hearing that he's been working on himself as a person, and coming from a home like his it's not easy to transform yourself fast and even though he's doing the work, it seems like it wasn't enough and thats kind of sad...Some people need more time to work through things. He also hinted that youtube might have gotten in the way and it seems that many youtube couples and home tv reality couples experience that, it's not an easy thing to manage when you have a whole family. In my opinion, I agree with him that maybe giving a bit more time, the effort might pay off and that family comes first before a business...but they did deliver the message in a polite, civil way and that's commendable.

[@michellevalakos9341]

Another shedding of tears with both videos. Dang! This really does suck. I still hold hope that the scars you both tell your story from in the years ahead does indeed involve another one of God’s redemption and restoration stories. But whatever comes, may His peace fall on you both like a cozy blanket as you journey this painful valley season.

[@user-hm5zb1qn6g]

"it should be a basic human right to have awesome parents." OK, that level of gratitude made me cry. Your parents must be wonderful.

[@loverlyme]

Totally resonated with me too. Perhaps that's why I never got married- because there was no background support to fall back on.

[@courtneyfetterman5193]

It broke my heart when you showed footage of your house and said “dreams change”. It’s strange but your home became a source of comfort for ME! I found you and your videos during a very lonely time of my life and you were such a solace. I’m so sorry for your pain and for this great hardship. You are however once again an example to me even during one of I’m sure the hardest times of your life. You inspire me to be a better person Dawn and I’m so grateful to you for being who you are and sharing that with all of us/the world. Lots of love to you!!

[@Dah_J]

If anything it just further proves the idea behind minimalism. Stuff is just stuff. It has no real meaning or weight to it other than what’s just in our mind.

[@suekay1852]

Admire you so much for not saying negative things about Tom and for demanding that in the comments. No one knows what goes on within the four walls of any family or marriage - but it is clear that you have put your children first and don't want negative things said about their Dad. Prayers for your family.

[@SarahWiede-s9k]

No judgments... just love and prayers.

[@plantsbythemoon9049]

Yes! Life is hard and none of us live in their shoes. Love and prayers indeed.

[@ИльяТихомиров-е2ф]

Давно смотрю Дон и очень люблю ее видео! Скажите пожалуйста,какая причина что брак распался? Ответьте пожалуйста.....❤

[@jeno264]

💖💖

[@kmars3239]

This is such a personal decision, you really don’t even need to share with us. It was your marriage and your journey. Wishing you both peace as you move forward!

[@susanoline5823]

I agree. It's kind of sad that people you know want to know all the "tea" when you divorce. People actually asked me not, how are you doing? But rather they would ask what happened? Or how could you leave that beautiful house??? People try to "trick" you into talking about your personal business, pretending concern, but just gathering gossip. It is sad, protect your privacy, Dawn.

[@biker5662]

Your response was my initial reaction, but then I thought of all the questions she would get eventually when people started noticing that she stopped mentioning him and stopped showing his belongings. Considering her popularity, the news could have leaked out into social media. I think it is better that she come forward with the news so that her words are at the forefront as opposed to the words of wagging tongues.

[@catnipstudio]

Came back after watching Tom’s video. I wanna give him a big spiritual hug too because both of you have been so hurt and now are being so vulnerable. I agree with Tom that God can restore and heal. To both of you, I encourage you to keep your eyes on God, even through the pain. Allow Him to carry you. Trust Him to heal what hurts. Hope in the Lord. He will work out whatever needs to work out. He loves you both and so do I 🙏🕊️ I’m praying for you both.

[@rachellane358]

Omg I thought this was click bait at first 😢 positive vibes and prayers for everyone

[@GMYellowstone]

Me too! So sad. 😦

[@carriepinkduck]

Same!

[@kristabecker4491]

Me too. I almost didnt click because "I knew for sure it was clickbate".....Boy was i wrong. Everyone goes through stuff. And EVERYONE needs to do what's right for them and their family. Sending love and prayers for peace, for you and the whole family. Love you so much, Dawn!! Thank you for all that you do!

[@sharonlavespere4323]

Sending love and hugs to you all. I know it’s hard because I’ve been through an ugly divorce with three kids. Give yourself some time and grace. 🙏🏻💔❤️‍🩹

[@jharvs3]

I did too!!! Aww lots of prayers!

[@hillcrew9370]

I'm not surprised, and I can totally relate! I'm a born again Christian who divorced my born again Christian husband because I couldn't, just couldn't anymore. Fourteen years later, the Lord did a work on the BOTH of us, when I had thought it was only HE who needed to change! We are remarried to each other after fourteen years apart, and life is good for us now! God is GOOD!

[@swirlygirl4710]

Wow! This is great to hear.

[@JRspeaking]

No. God didn't do the work. YOU and your HUSBAND did the work.

[@Lesh004]

@@JRspeakingreally? They both worked in themselves and found each other again. This time entering a marriage wisely and knowingly. I think that’s amazing! The only yuck is that this isn’t done within the marriage. I’m sure a lot of marriages would be saved if both parties put in the self work and took responsibility for their own actions/behaviors.

[@spencerkeaton8234]

Wow! What a cool testimony! Praise the Lord!!

[@youareworthalot1228]

Glory to GOD ❤❤❤❤

[@fordtechchris]

Dawn, my heart breaks for you. You've been a big part in helping me declutter my house to feel more sane as a single dad after a heartbreaking divorce two years ago. I know the pain, confusion, sadness, etc we go through. Your family and faith will be the most important things to get you through. I'll keep you in my prayers. ❤

[@cobugi]

This is the classiest and kindest divorce news delivery on YT. And I have to mention here because Tom's comments are turned off that when I saw the title of his reply video I thought "oh no, here comes drama." Instead, I saw a declaration of love and friendship. Thank you both for your vulnerability and transparency. The world has much to learn from you as I have. It's a tough situation where no is right or wrong. Sending you both big hugs and love on your healing journey.

[@reneenolan8163]

I saw his first and thought “oh no this is the clap back video so what have I missed” but it turned out okay.

[@marabanara]

I have no idea who her ex husband is, so I’ve only seen her video. But very kindly and well done, as far as this sort of announcement goes. Best of luck to both of them.

[@rachelhardy8346]

That video was made with such a gracious, kind spirit, with no unkind words towards Tom. I am sorry for your struggles and will pray for your family!

[@catfish9539]

I never clicked on a link so quickly hoping it was click bate and I’m so shocked, you seemed like the best team and so together and happy. I know we only see what you want us to see but you seemed to have the marriage to aspire too. You’re not crying so why am I? I’m so so sorry. Sending you hugs and positivity for the next few months and future.

[@kimmieshimmie]

Basically exactly what I wanted to say. I’m so sorry, Dawn!!!💔

[@sunshine3914]

IKR?

[@lauriegauthier4445]

I’m so sorry Dawn! I am completely shocked! It just popped up on my phone! I’m praying for you, Tom and your children! Sounds like you’ve been through a lot! Glad you have so much support!!!❤🙏

[@robindaniels2987]

I’m so sorry Dawn.😔Wishing you, Tom and the family only the best for your future 💕🙏

[@rebekahproctor4687]

I teared up too 🥺

[@valerieabon6180]

I feel you sister! I too went through a sad divorce as a Christian. Never thought it would happen to me. Twelve years later our daughter is in university and she convinced me to go back to university also (same one she's at!) and go after my dream career! Here I am with a completely different life and so grateful to God for His blessings! All the best to you on your healing journey!

[@caytonheathphotography8522]

I've never wanted to get on a plane and hug someone so bad in my life. Praying for you.

[@terrieaves1682]

Same ❤

[@meastrau4772]

Me toooo❤

[@TimesWithTammy]

Yessss and amen. I want to hug her and just pray with her. She is loved and supported by many. 🙏🏾❤️

[@charlenedrake8862]

Ikr!!!! Like I hate this so much for her and Tom!

[@Holli-xm5ru]

I have been doen that road and it has been against my beliefs not to divorce.. but always know my sister in Christ, you are loved and not hear to judge you, Tom or anyone. Praying doe you. Took me 2 years to feel whole after mine. He as very abusive me tally and I have 4 boys. All grown with family's of their own and far away. You are not alone praying for you all.

[@melindafalls1227]

I'm so sorry that you and Tom and your children are going through this. I disagree with a adage that marriage is supposed to be hard. Maybe a few down times every once in awhile but it's mostly supposed to be your safe space your spouse is supposed to be your person that you go to to relieve your anxiety to relieve your fears. Marriage is not supposed to cause anxiety marriage is not supposed to cause sadness. It's supposed to be more good than bad but sometimes that doesn't happen. God bless you all at this time. Can't wait to see what the future of your channel holds.

[@idid138]

Those truths can be so hard to swallow... Especially when a person might not have financial means or feel defeated because our homes are in chaos. Here's to getting our homes under control, so we can take care of ourselves better.

[@racheltonner2509]

I agree with this! I feel less anxious and softened when my husband is around to calm me down and listen to me.

[@natalieeubank4533]

Marriage can be hard but that makes the good times all the better

[@josie4peace]

We go to the Lord for support. Marriage is two sinners joining as one, giving daily grace as the Lord gives us 🙌

[@buddyneher9359]

"Dreams change... dreams evolve." And.... we are human. You've done this very gracefully. Thank you for being reality based. I wish you all the very best. 💕

[@AWanderingEye]

And people change and evolve. Very challenging to grow together as a couple. Stagnation in one hinders growth for the other. I hope your dissolution of the marriage can ultimately allow both of you to mend your wounds and move forward with the lives you truly want and are capable of being your full selves.

[@shawncaselberry4282]

Thank you very much for sharing. Tom has been part of our YT journey together, so we have enjoyed getting to know him in this space. I am praying for all of you.

[@rachelkrouse]

What a vulnerable side to share with us. I know I’m not the only one watching that is heartbroken but also very proud of you. It’s clear You’ve endured, and your heart is still raw. I’m so sorry for this next life stage of grief, learning new rhythms, and piecing your world view back together. Your parents sound like such a gift. 😭 Saying a prayer for peace to overwhelm you today ♥️

[@tashasmith1234]

❤❤❤

[@aprilwilson6136]

My love to all of you! Divorce is so hard! Please continue to take care of you and your family and know that we are all here for you in your journey.

[@moniquefuselier7711]

Strange that something which involves people I don't know is so sad. Prayers for peace, patience, and kindness for your whole family. Much love

[@crystalbelle36]

Anytime a married couple decides they cannot remain married, it is sad. As a society we need to normalize the sadness and grief that comes with divorce.

[@hannahhensley8497]

@@crystalbelle36I was just thinking all that comes to mind is “I’m sorry for your loss” - the loss of the future that was planned, loss of the holy union of marriage. Of course lots to gain, but yes. It’s sad and grief filled 💔

[@smcb2202]

@@hannahhensley8497It was awful when Tom said he never imagined a future without Dawn… 😢Break my heart.

[@craftyrealtorpam]

Dawn, I'm so sad to hear this news. I will be praying for you and Tom and the family. This is no easy season but God is with you all. I am a mom and wife from Texas and I can truly say you have changed my life. You have helped me declutter organize and get ride of so much that was unnecessary and it has spilled over to my family and friends. You teachings are in the back of my head all the time. You are truly a Blessing and I know God will bless you and give you peace in this situation. I love you Dawn. You are an awesome person!!!!

[@kayleewall6266]

I thought this just HAD to be clickbait. This hurts my heart 💔 literally made me cry 😭 I am so sorry Dawn and Tom and your sweet children. Prayers for you all! 🙏🏻💔

[@coffeebitt1]

Me too😢😢😢

[@AnghelinaShlikov]

😢so sad for their children!! My heart breaks

[@josie4peace]

My heart breaks too, for their children 💔😢

[@AnghelinaShlikov]

@@kayleewall6266 I also thought it was clickbait and waiting for them to say just kidding.

[@amandaj579]

As a divorced mom myself, welcome to the club no one wants to be in. I commend you for sharing the basics and not the details! I’m glad you have your family’s support, that helps so much for both you and the kids. Prayers for all of you as you walk this path. ❤

[@TheFlamingoHouse]

“Where is the line?” I so much relate to this, as I asked myself the same question for a year before I decided to get divorced. One day while I was praying, this popped in my head, “Think of a woman you dearly love.” I immediately thought of my sister. “Now, what would you tell her if she were in this situation?” Without hesitation, my answer was “GET OUT.” And then I knew what to do. My heart goes out to you Dawn, and to anyone else reading this in a similar situation. You’re not alone. ❤

[@tashasmith1234]

❤❤❤

[@flaggov6949]

Similar for me. I helped my daughter get out of a bad situation. Some time later, as I pondered and prayed about whether there was anything else left to try, the thought came to me, "You need to love yourself at least as much as you love your daughter." I realized am someone's daughter too, and I need to help myself get out of this unhealthy marriage.

[@goodoldlinda]

I watched both of your videos, yours and the one of your ex-husband as well. I got to tell you, it is a blessing to find each other like you did. I hope you can clear your troubles and breathe a bit during this time AND then reconnect since he is willing to grow and make necessary changes which take time. You belong together! Once you are willing to give him another chance, he will be another person and won’t disappoint you. We can always find another person but it will always be the same … no one comes without baggage. Take this time to take a closer look at him from the distance to glance at the progress he has already made as a man with a difficult childhood. Sending much, much love and light to both of you and the kids. May you be able to conquer this challenge.❤

[@laurafritz7571]

I found you in 2020 during my divorce. You kept me together and motivated to keep going. Sending you lots of love and prayers.

[@willainteriors7887]

Dawn, I’ve watched and learned from you for 5 years. As a Christian housewife, you’re one of the sole reasons I’ve become successful at keeping my home. I think our brains must work similarly because everything you say resonates with me so well. I’ve never commented on your videos before, but I had to for this one. I am amazed at your strength and vulnerability to share this season of your life. I’m saying a prayer for you and your heart. May your future and journey to healing be blessed. You’ve changed my life for the better ❤ May the Lord bless you and keep you.

[@psthisisme]

Beautifully written.

[@natalieeubank4533]

A Christian you should have said that divorce is not allowed and she as a Christian should know that she and her husband took vows with God as their witness divorce may be the norm but is it ok no not ever

[@juliavivian4573]

@natalieeubank4533 you don't know the circumstances of anyone's life. You are not God. And the Bible does list reasons divorce is permissible. It also says, "Do not judge."

[@salvease]

Yes we don't know what happened. Was it something from their past? Baggage brought into the marriage? If we don't work on ourselves, the problems follow us wherever we go. Marriage can be hard work. My husband and I both cme from broken homes and did not want that for our children. I know the only thing we wouldn't have tolerated was the Three As: Abuse, addiction or adultery. We made it work but it wasn't always easy. Best wishes for your family Dawn.

[@SouthernFrugalMama]

@@natalieeubank4533and you know them personally and their circumstances?

[@feathered5]

So… I don’t think I’ve commented on your videos before… but I have followed you for years now. You helped me totally reset my house a few years ago. 💜 I am finalizing my divorce tmw; ending a 20 yr run that was hard from the start. We are Christian’s, homeschool our kids, have a garden/chickens etc and am just in a fog. Doesn’t feel real, but when you posted this video I was shocked; and oddly comforted. I am sorry for all you are going through and just know you are not alone and you made ME feel not alone. Thanks for the years of decluttering advice and just hang in there, you have shown how strong you are and I look forward to watching you blossom!

[@dianacryder7523]

I'm so sorry for your loss, as well. Divorce is the worst but it generally works out for the best. You'll get through it all the wiser for having gone through it. ❤

[@loverlyme]

I've seen so many Christian women put up with all kinds of things because they try so hard to make something work and they think it is the 'right' thing to do. But they eventually break! (Even the ones who break whilst keeping the not-right relationship going.) I can't imagine how hard a decision this was for you but when you know you've tried everything and you just can't keep going, then you really have to trust that it's time. I hope you can learn to love yourself fully, forgive yourself for not being perfect (because that's the whole reason God sent His Son, isn't it?), and start moving forward as soon as possible. My heart goes out to you.

[@123kapul]

I see that you found Natalie Hoffmann and Leslie Vernik. I'm so glad you found some healthy resources. Praying you find peace and healing as you move forward from here! ❤ Love you and Im so sorry you had to go through this!

[@exploringnewhites]

The ONE time I was HOPING it was click bait. I’m sorry you’ve been going through this for so long and wish you all the best. Yes, it happens to a Christians too.

[@traceyshoun1005]

Dear Dawn! As a child of parents that did not divorce but should have, let me give you my full support. I don’t know the details but my parents fought constantly and this left scars on this 69 year old to this day. Divorce is sometimes best for the kids. You and Tom are special people and maybe just better apart. ❤

[@justjennifer8448]

💯 I am a product of the same circumstances. I wish no child ever had to go through that.😢

[@BLK2000]

what a great comment, and the last sentence, right on there, hit the nail on the head.

[@lovingandlovingturquoisela8043]

Thank you so much for this comment! It resonates with me too. I’m still learning how the unhealthy relationship dynamic is playing out in my own life and relationships.

[@clairekell1507]

I'm so to hear this and yes it's come as a shock but know you will have done everything you can to make your marriage work. Prayers for you all x

[@shawnfrey4757]

As a person that suffered through multiple childhood divorces, that is absolutely false. One of the worst things that can happen to a child is their parents getting a divorce. Divorce only hurts the children. My parents fought and I was abused, neglected, beat and impoverished, from the first memory I have until I started sticking up for myself at 17. My parents got divorced when I was 7, the first 7 years with all the issues were still a lot better than the next 10. Those 10 years were the worst years and have effected me for the rest of my life. My siblings all agree and my friends and family that have suffered from a childhood divorce, all say the same thing. It isn't smart to speak on something you don't know anything about.

[@Katrn30]

I watched your husband’s video. I left my house and my things too because my heart was broken by my husband’s distance and anger. I was always walking on eggshells, and felt unable to fix it. When I saw all your things behind Tom, I recognized that you too left your things in order to just get out. The things are just a painful reminder that the marriage was broken. I can see your husband still loves you…mine 20 years later is still telling me he loves me…the truth is he was so damaged by his childhood, that he was unable to relax and be happy. I feel bad for my ex, but for the sanity and emotional health of me and my son, we had to leave and get away from the anger. It was so hard, so sad, and I wish things had been different. I am glad you have the support of your family.

[@beatdizzy]

To this day I'm glad my Mom left my Dad when things were all centered around him and his volatile emotions because it showed me I could leave too. You can do all the therapy in the world but if you don't do the work nothing changes. At some point everyone has to be accountable.

[@Katrn30]

@ you are so right. And sometimes it takes a lifetime for therapy to work…in the meanwhile you have to protect the innocent.

[@JoanneMacg]

Where did you find that video?

[@annamaechristensen2655]

Where can I see Tom’s video😢

[@LulaMae21]

My ex was also damaged by his childhood, refused any and all therapy, and I walked on eggshells all the time. It was exhausting!

[@carolienw409]

It takes a lot of courage to share your honest story. I wish you and your family all the best ❤

[@kristinaash7938]

I NEVER in a million years thought I would start crying because I am so sad about a person who I have only watched through a KZbin channel for the past couple years, but here we are. 😭 Dawn, you are an inspiration as you are holding it together and remaining so positive in a sad situation. Coming from a fellow Christian, you are making the best choice for you and that's all you can do. ❤️ I will be praying for you that you will continue to find the wisdom and strength to keep moving forward. I have no doubts you will continue to be an inspiration though. I will keep you in my thoughts! ❤️

[@user56gghtf]

🥺🧸💕🤗

[@ericarutter7770]

I was almost brought to tears too.

[@Godblessed2]

Right!! 😭😭

[@TallyDrake]

Same here. Sitting here crying for a family I never met. It's just too sad.

[@colleenpeck6347]

She is our people! 💕

[@carolyneastman6095]

Oh, my….I thought the title was click bait…..when I realized it was real, I felt like the air went out of the room…..I’m so sorry this has happened in your life…..I will keep you and all your family in prayer…..

[@carrie3206]

Yes! Me too! I am stunned. I’m so sad for everyone involved. I wish nothing but the best for everyone. ❤❤️❤️

[@kahliakyser9993]

Girl, me too!

[@ninadukette3340]

Breathe.

[@inezsanchez1034]

I never comment but i just wanted to say that i really respect you for not allowing negative talk about Tom, and also thank you for your advice on minimalism. I am a long time watcher and declutter-er and i think you are a wonderful person. 💛

[@andrearoose5919]

Dawn~ Tom's video is heartbreaking....praying for God's perfect will for you guys.

[@jhildebrand7447]

What is Tom's channel

[@christysolange]

​@@jhildebrand7447Rusty Judgement

[@melindamcbee3930]

I'm so sorry for your loss. And that is exactly what the death of a marriage is: a terrible loss of what was. It's definitely a hard season. Again, I'm so sorry.

[@tashasmith1234]

❤❤❤

[@maryking5485]

Dawn, I have never commented on even one KZbin video before, but I've watched you for five years and you are the first KZbin channel I actually subscribed to. You have been so helpful to me in my homemaking. From my heart of hearts, I hope and pray the best for you and your family. Not for you as a KZbinr, but for you as a wife, as a mother, and in a sense as my friend these past five years. I pray for healing. I pray for a miracle. Your are loved. Your family is loved. Your children, and yes, your husband Tom, they are all loved. You have meant so much to me. We will be praying. ❤️

[@allieblank5992]

My friend that I have known since middle school just shared with me last week that she’s getting a divorce after 20 years of marriage, and I was so shocked. I had no idea. We never know the battles people are going through. It’s a sad loss, but wishing you love and light on the other side. 🌟

[@laurafitzsimmons8017]

Dawn sending you a hug. I know this is difficult and I appreciate your vulnerability in sharing your heart. I am praying for you❤❤

[@coley_bo]

Oh Dawn. I am so sorry, mostly because I know the grief of losing a dream you once had about a successful marriage. We are all here for you. Take all the time you need, or don’t and just keep pushing through, but I hope you can feel how truly loved, valued, and supported you are - both in your real life and here. ❤

[@Pearlstrand]

A friend once told me that it's better to come from a broken home than to live in one. Best wishes as you move forward in your new life. ❤️

[@Godblessed2]

As a kid of divorced parents 🙌🏻

[@Secular-Serenity]

I love that. You’re right.

[@ds06-p]

My friend tried so hard to keep her marriage together for her kids. It was after her divorce that she realized they were doing so much better, and she wished she had known that sooner. Yes, at first it was very hard on them, but then they did amazing and thrived. Living in a broken home is so hard on them too.

[@Grasshoppertrish]

100 %

[@grannygoes7882]

@@ds06-p Wow I wished I believed this. My ex left me. I had no choice but they weren't ok and are still not ok.

[@MrsNewfiefan]

As a child who should have come from a broken home, but instead I came from a home where my mother held the fragile pieces together to her own detriment… I’m sending so much love and support. My heart breaks for you but I also know what you did took amazing strength and courage.

[@saltedshell2925]

Your mother who held the fragile pieces together...were you as the now grown adult child happy with that?

[@calisongbird]

Newsflash: if your mom “held the fragile pieces together to her own detriment”… you came from a broken home. “Broken” doesn’t just mean divorce. It means toxic and dysfunctional. I’m so sorry.

[@saltedshell2925]

I am not judging. I just was interested in the perspective from another adult after they saw their mom holding things together.

[@MrsNewfiefan]

@@saltedshell2925 I didn’t read it as judging. I wish she had left. As an adult of course I have a ton of perspective now (having a husband and children). But looking bad, what she endured to keep the home together was not worth what we witnessed and what she suffered. Which unfortunately she took right to her grave. I do not hold any bitterness or fault towards her. I know she was doing what she thought was best. She was an amazing woman. And she deserved a life as well. One she never got.

[@JudyTyler-yc7om]

My parents divorced when I was in the 6th grade, and it was the best thing that could have happened. Our home was not filled with anger, tension, or fear any more. My parents were much better with each other afterwords and they never said a bad word about each other. My sisters and I knew what was going on.

[@Elizabeth.sarchet]

I just got back from watching his video. I’m sorry you’re going through this and the fact that he’s not in the same place (mentally) as you, I’m sure makes it much harder. I’m extremely proud of you for doing what’s best for yourself and for your children no matter how hard it must’ve been.

[@josie4peace]

He has been broken and wants it to work. It's never too late. He's aware of his short comings, as we ALL should examine ourselves. He works hard, doesn't drink, is loyal, a good provider, very handy, loves the Lord...incredibly hard to find these qualities in a man these days. We all fall short the glory of God.

[@therapyandthings7090]

From a therapist, This is so well stated and I greatly admire you and how you approached this. Love to all of you! ❤

[@julievw6520]

That is so kind of you to share...from a therapist 💜

[@superduperhappyfuntime]

Two adults just crushed four children, for life. Therapists make money off of temporarily confused, and challenged adults. Are the children aware that they are future therapist customers?

[@halfwaythereatcampdowning6831]

@@superduperhappyfuntimeobviously this wasn’t temporary.

[@LulaMae21]

​@@superduperhappyfuntime Children will be far more damaged watching an unhealthy or toxic relationship than they will be by a divorce. They'll stop learning unhealthy relationship patterns that would damage their own future relationships. "Stay together for the children" results in damaged adults AND damaged children. Your comment is ignorant.

[@livb324]

@@superduperhappyfuntime It's actually worse for children to be living in a home with explosive anger. That is abusive. I was one of those children and thankful my parents divorced.

[@NanetteWeldon]

Dawn, I am so sorry. Although we have never met, I consider you a friend, so my heart grieves for you. My kids know you as “My BFF Dawn” because I quote you a lot. ❤ You are a blessing to so many. I am praying for you and your family.

[@kathymoss6288]

Nothing but love for you, Dawn. I hope you feel the grace, support and love you show others coming back to you tenfold! ❤

[@shemeikabrock436]

Thank you Dawn for trusting us with this. I love you and I know your community loves you and Tom. You have helped me and so many others over the years. We’re here to support you however you see best. ❤🙏🏾🌞

[@amymalone6685]

Dawn, I’m so sorry that you are having to deal with what should be a highly private family matter in such a public way. You have been such an inspiration to me and so many others, and I appreciate your ability to balance what must have been a terribly difficult situation with such grace and love. Just here to give you some love and grace in return. Wishing you well. ❤❤❤❤

[@astorytoldhere]

Praying for ALL of you, Dawn.🙏What a gracious public handling of such a tender situation. May God meet every need❤️

[@MariettaAnderson-i6l]

Dawn, I'm so sorry to hear that.😢 I'm praying for you and for Tom, and for your children. May the Lord bless each of you with peace and healing, and with strength to move forward. 🙏 ❤

[@ktjovander]

My heart goes out to you. I divorced my verbally abusive evangelical pastor husband after 23 years of walking on eggshells in a lonely emotional wilderness. Best decision ever. Now I am safe, happy and seen. I wish this kind of peace and happiness for your own future. That said, you don’t owe anyone (outside close family, perhaps) an explanation. In my experience, people who judge you harshly may themselves be feeling trapped and miserable for various reasons in their own lives. Shrug it right off! Love and care for yourself and your kiddos, that’s it! You’ll find the right way forward. Hugs!

[@donnahogue2146]

I am so very sorry for you. I am so grateful that you are safe, happy and seen.

[@brendaschommer8556]

Dawn. I'm curious about this cabin place you are at. I've been looking for a place to escape to alone. To have some "take care of me time" If you can mention where this place is?? I'd appreciate it so much.

[@Rhonda-m4n]

No reason to divorce.

[@Himmiefan]

@@Rhonda-m4n Yes it is. He broke his marital vows. When Jesus talked about unfaithfulness, he wasn't talking about just adultery. Show some mercy of you will walk in that woman's shoes one day.

[@calisongbird]

Evangelical Christianity is a patriarchal cancer. Not surprised he was abusive. Sorry you went through that.

[@amandaturner7821]

Thinking of you both, Dawn. Your channel has been a safe landing space for years. Tom’s video made literal tears stream out of my non-emotional eyes. I wish you both all the best.

[@heatherrowe2979]

Me too

[@OceanMomma13]

Can you link it

[@sunflowerbrown5823]

@@OceanMomma13 Tom's channel is called Rusty Judgment.

[@kimberlyhensel9155]

I'm so sorry. My marriage ended in divorce as well... something I never could have imagined. I also know how devastating it is. I know people don't like the feeling compared to a death, but for me it certainly felt that way. Please give yourself time and grace to process your loss and to get a footing on moving forward. It all takes time. Love and prayers!

[@shikiixTheYoungWidow]

Psychology they even say for a daughter, it's better for the dad to have passed than leave Wish you healing too ❤🙏 (Sorry my written English is a bit muddled)

[@FM-ij7iu]

It felt like a death to me as well. I didn’t have children but I am an only child without parents. I lost a husband, friend and a family. 💔

[@ginamcgrew9955]

Yes❤

[@wayfarinstranger2444]

Divorce is death, death of a marriage. Death of dreams hoped for. That is the reality of it.😢

[@SCsweettea]

I think it’s unanimous…..we are all heartbroken for your family. I am grateful you have a good way to support your new dreams, and give the kids a new home that will fit your life. Lots of new videos as you make your new home. Blessing to you. No one deserved happiness more than you. Hugs Judy

[@jenAKnND]

I am so sorry Dawn! I thought the title was a funny joke so I thought let me click on it and see the funny part about it! I was blown away. I had no idea. I cannot even imagine. We are the same age and have been married the same amount of time. My heart hurts for you!! Thank you for your honesty and sharing all that you did. ❤️

[@FrogeniusW.G.]

Same

[@heatheredwards2982]

A lot of us have been down this path with you. Some through divorce or, in my case, he passed last year very suddenly. It was such an eye-opener how bad things were after the weight was lifted. My body and mind physically changed. Years of body pain and mental strain were gone. Sometimes, we fight for what was other times we fight for what it should have been. They always say divorce is a death of a kind. Make sure you let yourself greve . Self care and love are the most important things you can do for yourself and your family. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@considerthebirds]

This might sound crazy but I had a feeling from one video that there were challenges because he reminded me of my husband and I felt led to pray for you a few times. So many Christian’s have a similar story and He uses all things for the good of those who love him. Nothing is wasted. The Lord sees you all. Praying for you and your family and that things go as smoothly as they can. God bless you.

[@laurapicht]

yep…agree…same here❣️

[@alyssarooney8942]

I was going to say something similar. I even had a thought this morning about them (before seeing this video) that one of their videos made me feel as if Dawn had some hurt feelings towards him. It was just a vibe I got.

[@sfowler1017]

I spotted this too and since he hasn't appeared in videos in quite a while this makes a lot of sense.

[@JesusIsTheLionOfJudah]

Same here

[@thisoldnest6963]

Having just had my own divorce finalized in December, married 16 years at the time it was finalized and also with 4 kids, my heart breaks for you. I understand all too well all the feelings, hope and heartbreak. I love you and will be praying for you. ❤

[@katieheidinger4635]

So sorry!😢

[@dianacryder7523]

My heart breaks for you, as well. I'm so sorry. It's a very painful time but we get through it wiser for having gone through it.

[@CartConfessions]

To remain respectful to Tom- speaks volumes to you! Prayers for you and the family. Glad you have your family and great parents. The older they get, the more they get lonely. I am sure you are helping them also! God Bless.

[@yourfriendinvermont2478]

So true ❤

[@Starfish2145]

This is very sad. I got divorced 12 years ago and have regretted it ever since. I wish you both the best.

[@smcb2202]

I’m so sorry. That is heart breaking. 💔 I wish you the best, peace and healing. ❤️‍🩹

[@Imzadi]

I’ve seen this so often… especially when the grandbabies start coming.

[@fordtechchris]

Two years and I wish everyday I could have found an answer to reverse the pain

[@OceanMomma13]

​@@Imzadi I really feel this so hard. My sister's kids spend so much time with my dad but he doesn't spend much time at all with mine and my heart breaks hard about that

[@josie4peace]

I see this in two influencers I follow. It's very hard to see their divorced husbands with someone else and spending time with the children. Personally, I wouldn't want another woman raising my kids, even part time. 😢

[@gailwhite8796]

Much empathy for you - I spent 19 years working hard and fighting for a family and marriage that couldn’t survive. Just like you weren’t alone in your clutter struggles, you’re not alone in this either. I told my second husband that I’m not interested in the “hard work” of a relationship. I had already spent more than half my life and all my faith on the effort and commitment of marriage. If it’s mostly easy and fun, I’m mostly interested. 35 years later we’re still together and it’s still mostly easy and fun. Adulting for me (I’m 71) is adapting to the reality of changing dreams. You’re all going to be fine❤

[@patriciastern9430]

I saw the title and had difficulty processing it. I know that only the couple involved truly knows what transpires in a marriage, and in the end a choice has to be made to bring peace to the family. I give you massive credit for the class and dignity you've shown, for not trying to assign blame or make excuses. Sending prayers that you may all find peace and healing in the coming months.

[@marcysfillet1]

So sorry, please take good care of yourself it’s really important!❤

[@ladyTiger0714]

My dear, you’re not the first and you’re not the last to go through a divorce. Bless you both and your children.

[@natalieeubank4533]

But that does not make it ok and that does not make it the norm

[@davewall6383]

⁠@@natalieeubank4533it does make it ok. Divorce is nothing to be ashamed of. We have to move away from judgement and shaming people for stuff that just happens.

[@LulaMae21]

​@@natalieeubank4533 Your marriage must be pretty miserable to be leaving all these ugly, judgy comments all over.

[@lepetitEllie]

My divorce just finalized at the end of December. We had been together since 1999, married the last 15yrs. Like you, I tried everything. Finally had to realize how unhappy I was with the current state of our marriage. It sucks as I am 56 and did not expect to enter this stage of my life alone but I also realize it's time for me to put myself first. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@tinaoakland3224]

I am 75 now but can still remember the day my Mom told me that she and my Dad were getting divorced. I also remember my response which was “What took you so long?” I was 11 years old and even I knew it was for the best. As a minimalist you already know that sometimes you have to let go of things and relationships that no longer serve the life you want for yourself. You also know that there is a feeling of internal lightness that comes after the letting go. Be gentle with yourself. I see a loving and happy life ahead for all of you. Wishing you all the very best.

[@Godblessed2]

This is beautiful ❤

[@colleenpeck6347]

Two separate happy parents! ❤🎉

[@Yachtbebe]

Best comment... "As a minimalist you already know that sometimes you have to let go of things and relationships that no longer serve the life you want for yourself."

[@yingzhang5597]

Thank you! ❤ I’m in the divorcing process and all I could worry is my kids

[@paulofell9939]

@@tinaoakland3224 hoping you find God

[@paris0551]

Just sending you and Tom, the kids, and your family much love and many prayers. You always say ‘I love you’ well, just so you know, you are very loved too. Take care xx

[@stephnorton-e1v]

Sending love to all of you. Thank you for trusting us all to share this personal story. May you find peace on this new journey. You have changed my life in so many wonderful ways. Bless you.

[@mollynickerson]

So sorry you're hurting, Dawn. Praying for you and the kids and all your loved ones. Tom too. 💚

[@inahertweck7069]

Dawn, I never left a comment. Over all the years. But now I want to say what a brave and strong person you are. Making this video must have been so hard for you. But I truly believe the world will be a better one if people open up like you did. We all have our struggles. I really feel sorry for you, the kids and Tom. My parents always fought so hard, and it left so many scars…. You will teach your children such valuable lessons so they can have healthy relationships in their future.

[@chislehurstbat]

Beautiful words. I think we all feel the same but you have expressed it so well.

[@marge2225]

The comments section is so kind and supportive. It's heart warming. It reflects the love and respect that Dawn engenders.

[@amberharris4504]

My best friend was in a difficult marriage (unbeknownst to everyone else) for over a decade. She went through the ups and downs of separation and divorce and helping the kids through it...she told me later she stayed in the marriage b/c all her life she heard that marriage is hard. Then, she met her current husband. They've been together for about 8-9 years and she will be the first person to tell you that marriage doesn't have to be hard. She says the still have disagreements and will argue now and then, but her relationship isn't hard. Much love to you and your family!

[@user56gghtf]

What an amazing testimony. Thank you for sharing your friend's story.

[@FofaBeijFeli]

Wow. Thanks for sharing.

[@lorraineedmond5921]

I rarely admit it, but we don’t find it hard, either, 40 years in.

[@trackydoo]

I've been married to my husband going on 14 years now. We have our bad times, but I too would say that marriage isn't hard. Life is hard, but it's made a bit easier by having my husband.

[@violettefemme21]

I think some people confuse that marriage is work.. with that it is hard.. work doesn't mean hard.

[@2CorgiMom]

Feeling a bit stunned and overwhelmingly saddened by this news. Wishing you well Dawn. 🙏♥️

[@dajadaze3795]

I applaud you for being brave enough to do what is best for you. Wishing you happiness in your next chapter!

[@DeborahBeckwith-d9s]

I'm so sorry, Dawn. One of our daughters recently went through a divorce after more than 21 years. She is recovering. They hid their problems well, even from us. Prayers for you and your children.

[@michellefox7887]

I found you last year, and watched one video, and went home and cleaned off my kitchen counters and got rid of my "mulitples" (except, I really do use 2 spatulas BUT I could reduce other things). Now, everytime, I walk into my kitchen, which is the first thing I see when I come home, I say, "Thank you, Dawn! That tiny thing is a BIG thing! You are a big thing! Your advice is in my head when I go shopping or when I am in my closet! You have always been so brave and honest in your videos. I wish you and your entire family peace and happiness! 💜 And I want to truly Thank You for being YOU!

[@tribalbabymum]

We do, too - a plastic one for inside, a metal one for outside!

[@tammytisdell2499]

I'm so sorry, Dawn. You are loved, and so is Tom! You and your family are in our prayers.

[@margenn3889]

I'm sorry to hear about you and Tom. I wish you both best wishes for the future and for your children. I will continue to support both of your KZbin channels.

[@iheartshaneandjeffree]

I went through a divorce with the love of my life. Years later he was taken from this earth last year at only 32 years old and now I raise our 11 year old son alone. Time goes by so fast. Sending you love and well wishes during this time. I know how it feels the way you’re feeling right now. But you strike me as a very strong person with a good head on their shoulders and you’re an amazing mom. We are all standing behind you! You have changed my life so much and I will always support you.

[@JMA864]

I admire your graceful handling of this news. So difficult to have dreams end. Wishing both you and Tom healing as you move into your new lives.

[@sl9906]

As a reluctant Christian divorced woman, my heart bleeds for you all. You are loved by God and all who know you. Let the LORD seep into all those cracked and broken places and He will sustain you all. Praying for every one of you ❤

[@jesusisthelordofall4715]

Beautiful message

[@SENSEF]

This video was beautifully real. Thank you for being an inspiration in ways you never predicted, this video being a big one. ❤ As someone in a struggling marriage your strength and honesty provides comfort to follow your example, give it your all to fix it but it's like your decluttering advice, there comes a point when something isn't working that it's time to let it go even though it's hard and sad. Thanks for not glorifying divorce but also speaking the truth that turns out marriage isn't supposed to be this hard despite what we were told in church.

[@paula.nasmith]

Oh man, I was hoping this was a misleading title. I love you guys! Sending you prayers and love ❤❤

[@tl2978]

Me too! 😢

[@emmahelton6323]

Same ❤

[@Nanatracie]

Same here 😢

[@Smithpolly]

I saw it and thought that's weird because it's probably clickbait but it doesn't seem like something she'd be comfortable using as clickbait.

[@ADayInTheLifeofLori]

I have so much respect for the way you relayed the information about this change in your life. There are so many of us out here who have walked the same path. After the grief passes, you (and your kids) may be surprised to find a lightness of spirit from being free to be YOU instead of having to “manage situations”. I wish you nothing but happiness!

[@5Ducklings]

As someone who divorced when my kids were 4, 5, 8, 12 and 15, my heart goes out to you. I know that divorce is always the option of last resort after everything else has been tried AND FAILED. You don't owe anyone any explanations. I know some people (often within your local faith community) will judge. But hold your head high. You tried everything you could. No judgment here, just gentle understanding. Sending you hugs from Ecuador. It's not easy, but you'll get through this.

[@cathybrodie5721]

When my ex and I were being counselled by our minister, I remember him saying ‘God meant for marriage to be forever, but He didn’t intend for us to be miserable forever’. Good bless

[@dianamccowan215]

To tell you the truth, you have helped me. I am a 56 year-old grandmother who is raising up one of my grandson because our daughter passed away. And you have helped me so much on decluttering, and it was a dark time in my life. I believe with gods help and your family's help. That you will rise from this. Also, I am sending love and hugs from San Diego, California..

[@jennyhicks1930]

❤❤❤

[@mcchacha32]

I found Dawn when my life turned upside down (4.5 years ago) when we got guardianship of my SO grandchildren. DAWN has been there from the start of that and I am so so grateful! Dawn, thank you for being you and I am sorry your family is going through this! 🫂🙏 God bless

[@PlainANDplaid]

I’m a rare commenter, but just wanted to say my whole heart is with you Dawn!! All good things ahead!!

[@TheBejeweledSwiftie14]

It says you have 61 comments on this channel alone....

[@sunshine3914]

@@TheBejeweledSwiftie14 Dawn has over 800 videos…

[@TheBejeweledSwiftie14]

@@sunshine3914 So? He said he's a rare commenter.

[@sunshine3914]

So? She has half as many livestreams. The ratio of videos to comments are low.

[@natalieeubank4533]

@@TheBejeweledSwiftie14and your point is?

[@MyFocusVaries]

I'm so very sorry to hear this. ❤ Divorce is hard. I'm sad to say that I heard an undertone of (undeserved) sarcasm and criticism from Tom towards you in videos that I found disrespectful, and I was relieved when he no longer appeared in videos. I could see the strain and felt you handled it so graciously. For people who say, "What about the kids?!" I'm a child of divorce and can tell you I was relieved when my parents divorced because the fights stopped.

[@DKMAE]

Yes, same. My parents divorce got me away from my abusive father.

[@labradoritefeldspath4445]

Tom has given his version on his channel Rusty judgment. Always good to hear both sides of the story. In this case, the two versions are not wildly different. And what i really appreciate of Dawn and tom is that they speak respectfully of each other. I wish the very best to them and their children.

[@devchonka18]

She just seems much more happy (maybe relieved) in her video. While he looks crushed.

[@BayRaeDay]

@@devchonka18That isn’t uncommon and that’s not a fault! One party can often check out long before they actually leave and she says they’ve worked on it for a while. This was finalized in October and she’s been working through it before announcing publicly.