Saying Goodbye To What We Used To Be (with Ammar)

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Hey all,
Three days away from launch.
And what better way to run this final mile than with my best friend and brother, Ammar. Aka Habibs.
The man who has pushed me to grow more than anyone in my life.
The brother with whom I’ve had the lowest of lows and the highest of highs.
In this podcast we don’t hold back. We show you the hard parts of our relationship and we also share what we mean to each other.
There’s so much here. Per usual, I think you’ll love it.
Thanks for being here. Thanks for riding with me on this journey.
Next time we’ll be talking, the book will be out.
What a wild thought.
Love you so much,
Matt

[@SinAs24]

I need a podcast episode with ALL of you guys together one last time!! Matt, Thomas, Ammar, Tommy and Staffan

[@MaybeSomeone7483]

Derin too!

[@reeblesnarfle4519]

WOULD BE NICE if this were together possible with the 3 creators.❤🙏🌹🙏

[@SinAs24]

@@MaybeSomeone7483 yesss

[@liveindadream]

Matt, if you read this, I just wanted to say congratulations. As we near the release of your book, I can't help but think about how far you've come from the beginning. I was one of the listeners when you started doing voice notes a while back. I remember during one of them you mentioned how you had to start all over on the book again. While you didn't do the voice notes for long, I want you to know they were a huge inspiration for me, YOU were/are a HUGE inspiration for me. I had always wanted to write and publish a book and hearing your stories about your struggles, etc. reminded me that I wasn't alone. It taught me that if I really put my mind to it, I could achieve it. Thanks to you, I've wrote and published my own book called Discomfort: The Key to Your Best Life. Tomorrow, I find myself back in my hometown for one of the town's biggest festivals and I'll be selling autographed copies of it. It just absolutely blows my mind! So thank you and again, congratulations on successfully writing and publishing your book! I can't wait to read it! ❤

[@AhhhSukeSuke]

Congratulations on your book❤

[@liveindadream]

@@AhhhSukeSuke Thank you! ❤️🙂 Getting to read reviews and hear people say it's changed their lives in some way has definitely been one of the best accomplishments of my life. I can't wait for Matt to hear the same as I'm sure his book will be inspirational and probably share several amazing life lessons!

[@anajuliaregissarmento7574]

You guys made me into who I am today. I was so shy, so anxious and so scared of the world before. My 14 yr old self would not believe how far I've come, and a large part of it is thanks to Yes Theory. Thank you, thank you, thank you. You all deserve the best possible life, whatever that may look like.

[@dkm6054]

This is srsly relationship goals. Lol but rly...having someone push you, be there for you, love you despite your demons, and reciprocate just as equally. I know our culture focuses a lot on romantic relationships, but this is such a meaningful and beautiful friendship.

[@rooshi7]

this fills all of my heart with warm fuzzy feelings. Ammar and Matt being SO vulnerable while still being respectful about their current journey on such a public level is not an easy thing to do. Their love is so pure, you can feel it through the screen haha

[@loud_hailer6240]

You can feel the magic and the intensity this episode.

[@mars.giovani5183]

Matt, dont leave what u create. Place yourself in a space that makes you feel comfortable, you are a very special, valuable person and your vision helps the world :D

[@guillaume05ch]

I think Matt really needs to feel valued. Not so much by others but by himself first. And to feel this way, he has to go his own way, build something from scratch outside of Yes Theory, and be proud of it. But that path will have to be a resilient one so good luck!

[@ShaneElliott10]

Matt, whatever is next for you is going to be great. Selfishly I really would love to see you do your own podcast, I think the long form conversation suits you so well!

[@lu.beccuti]

I feel like Ammar gives the best hugs in the world Soulmates💛

[@tamargodalazian]

You keep on inspiring us day after day💜

[@edvinnilsrud9676]

Okay you convinced me, just ordered the book

[@aite6819]

this was so beautiful.

[@moanaberberat1151]

It fills my heart about how reflected you guys are about your feelings and your awareness of each others experience within your relationship

[@Nate-hw1nc]

Wow this is wild! Matt and Ammar you are insanely introspective!

[@natisanz-qz6jt]

The growth, the vulnerability, ahhh 💛 it’s so beautiful to see your relationship/brotherhood heal into something that fits this next stage

[@user-gm8yx9ok2i]

what a healing conversation! so proud of you guys and your journey

[@alexialoam9732]

Ready to listen to one of the best convos ever, for sure! Love you guys ❤️

[@RecapturingLife]

I got my boss for secret Santa this year. I just bought another copy of your book for his present. This podcast showed me it would be a perfect gift. I told him about the buried life and gave him my copy of their book earlier this year. I’ve mentioned yes theory to him. But I think the book will be a better introduction. I’m excited for the book to come out! I know it’s going to be great. Thank you for being you!

[@BenHirons]

Simply beautiful, you guys are a true representation of what brotherhood is about. I got the email that my copy of the book is en route, absolutely buzzing to read it. Love always dudes ❤

[@SnipeNScoreProductions]

I cant wait to read the book. I havent read through a full book in a long time so will be nice to sit and read something that will be truly awesome! congrats Matt on the accomplishment! :)

[@mommywithagoal8032]

Such an authentic conversation and can really feel how deep your brotherhood is. Love the respect you guys have for each other, how important your personal growth is given priority as well and not only focus on building money/fame. This truly shows how well accomplished your mission as a Yes Theory is.

[@lesley_brown]

Only 5 minutes into this episode and I already had tears in my eyes and got choked up 🥺

[@Hana-vm4st8zr8p]

You guys gave us a perspective we wouldn't see it fully over the years by going places and meeting people as well as showing us a stranger is a friend you just haven't met yet, ..... so thanks a lot ...... love your brotherly bond, it is big and real .... love you guys .... ❤❤❤

[@globetrotter3878]

Thx for sharing your relation! Good friendship is authentic, wish all the best for the person one cares for and , at the same time, make you confront kindly and identify truthfully the challenges, the things that need to be worked on. Amar and Matt, you do have that kind of brotherhood! It’s rare and precious! Can’t wait to receive my preordered book! Wish you all the happiness possible Matt on your new adventures ❤

[@mars.giovani5183]

I really admire how u were able to work as a team for so many years, from the transparency and display of vulnerability of the conversation it shows how united and brave you are! long live yes theory! ^^

[@Menyuamnismab]

Love you both and Yes Theory. Been watching Yes Theory since the beginning. So proud of all your accomplishments and always inspired by you all. 💕

[@MeritMalek]

Absolutely love you both and your brotherhood ❤️ it truly is a blessing 🙏🏼 I would love to see the conversation you guys shared when filming the podcast the first time. When Matt was just like let’s do a podcast right now on the beanbags. I feel like it would be such a wholesome conversation in addition to this one 😇

[@malcolmbancroft7916]

Great conversation! It kind of amazes me that more people don't watch these podcasts. I recently described them to a friend as pure gold. I don't doubt that the thousands who do are way more engaged with them than the average YT viewer. Indeed, it may be the most rewarding or meaningful thing they watch that week. (Am really looking forward to the Colin and Samir one!)

[@kevinwagiuramissatrio8259]

Your videos have been so inspirational to me guys! Hadn’t i come across your video on youtube, i never would’ve let myself outta my comfort zone and always been in the state of blankness ❤❤

[@luchafonseca2653]

I didnt understand the fear you guys had about China. I'm from Brazil, so... I loved to hear the AHA moment Matt had there. What medias says, specially American media and american politica, about China, about World, is far from being true. I loved the episode! You guys are so special❤

[@mydogisbailey]

The way Matt’s voice cracks drives me crazy in the best way possible ❤

[@katiehanson6253]

As a girl from Wisconsin who moved to Oklahoma at age 14, I had the privilege through my school, to do a cultural exchange progam.... my partner and her family were amazing while I lived in Cheng Du and honestly that experience made me understand.... all people are human .. no matter circumstances and I'll be forever grateful that Irene was so kind while she was in the US. I lived in a single mom home, and her grandparent's were famous engineers, her moms a doctor, and her dad is a PhD... and i was their daughter during my time there...if you have a chance in your life to experience something new or challenging please do. It's soo worth it you will be happily surprised by what you learn❤

[@donavanbenally7083]

Thanks matt i received yourbook me an my spouse are reading your book

[@Daniel96ftw]

I just wanna say: thanks for doing this. I think you should know how much you guys have helped in the struggles people have in this day and age. Many of the things you share can be reflected upon ones own experiences and friendships. So hearing these things from such inspiring people like you is truly heartwarming. I'm not even sure if you guys realise how much impact you make. Not even necissarily through the Yes Theory 'brand', but through yourselves as human beings. I've orderdered three books, of which two I will gift to two of my best friends, whom with I share a very similar friendship like you guys do in my opinion. I haven't even read the book yet, but I wanna finish with one last note: you have been so inspiring and made me think of life and goals from such a different perspective. It feels like guys give that last gentle push in actually following your gut, seek discomfort, pursuing ones dreams. You actually change peoples lives. Thanks so much for that.

[@yz2538]

Beautiful to have gotten to see this. You guys are amazing✨. Ammar, I really appreciate your passion to make this world a better place. I recommend interviewing Derrick Broze and Steven Macon Greer, they and their teams are very knowledgeable and are also working hard at ending all wars and freeing this world to make it better than our dreams.

[@RonaldJHElzenga]

The hug the arms around each other..like the ironman..so great...thank you..❤❤ back flip 2.0 it will be..🎉😅

[@anubiaart]

I love you guys ❤ big hug

[@edsanchez3710]

Thank you just A thank YOU.

[@amy-ca9104]

Yaay and the last is the best 😍🥰❤️

[@seanmartinflix]

Beautiful podcast. Enjoyed this conversation. I've been enjoying all of them so far but this one definitely a little more so even. As far as China I mean it's just governments ... Powerful people wanting more power. People are people. Much love.

[@niasadjarwo6889]

I don't know how many times have I said this in other comments across multiple platforms. But since the first time I watched your videos 5 years ago, one thing stood out the most for me. And it's not about how awesome the things that you do and how positively you've influenced your audience and following based, but it is your deep connection - your bond - to one another. There's not a word I can think of that can describe it, but I can feel it. Even when you don't say a word but just looking at each other, it's projected even in your videos. You can feel it. The kind of friendshihp, relationship, that only comes once in a lifetime if we ever get so lucky. I certainly dream to have one. What a blessing you have. Love you guys. Hope to get to meet you one day - all three of you 💙 Congratulations on the book, looking forward for my copy to arrive 🤍

[@bryantorres5559]

I finally got closure on that back flip 😮‍💨

[@Belleconstance]

Beautiful ☺

[@hulusisaglar9847]

I wonder if you guys considering getting Derin into Podcast? I am a Turkish guy who lives in Canada. I am really excited to hear the part of his side of the YES THEORY. :)

[@katjarep5452]

mine copy was bought for a month now

[@CelineBally23]

😭😭❤❤

[@MyBodyIsMyTemple]

No alcohol? Really? That’s my kind of party!! 🙌🙌🥳🤩🥰

[@danielleceleste4791]

NYT bestseller, baby!

[@poutine3371]

dying to know what is next for Matt

[@fromagedenoel]

Vacation time with his +1

[@melonmilkice2755]

Anyone has any idea where Tommy is?

[@madisoldmixon7166]

❤

[@danl8617]

Why am i tearing up even before hitting on play 😅😢

[@meililee9032]

I am inspired to create a yes theory for senior population

[@jordanchou]

I don't know if it's because I'm half Taiwanese, or because I studied abroad in China for four months, but I guess I did not realize the extent of Americans' fear or China. I mean obviously we don't get along in politics, but I had never realized how scary it was for Yes Theory to go there. They talk about it the same way they talk about their Syria or Afghanistan videos. 😅😂

[@shireens]

3 Mohammeds in 1 name😮 that's wild!!! I had no idea. Matty poo saying alhumdulillah was insane😀

[@tigswoods]

What happened to the podcast with Nathaniel?

[@marilois]

Please mention me back if you get to know!

[@fromagedenoel]

The one on this channel or the one in Nathaniel channel ?

[@tigswoods]

@@fromagedenoel the one on this channel He posted it and then deleted after a day or two

[@shireens]

Still waiting for yes theory to seek discomfort n come to pakistan 🇵🇰 comeee alreaddyyyy

[@bevlp561]

Matt, don't leave. For the sake of us who want to listen from your POVs, your wisdom, come on. . .

[@inislam7297]

جاء جبريل إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال: يامحمد عش ماشئت فإنك ميت واعمل ماشئت فإنك مجزى به وأحبب من شئت فإنك مفارقه وأعلم أن شرف المؤمن صلاته بالليل وعزه استغناؤه عن الناس

[@emmaridley_youtube]

They the cutest ❤😊 but also get a room 😂jks jks

[@alzdsz]

😅

[@captainwillygrimm338]

You guys are tryimg very hard to remain relevant while you are undergoing a self dismantling. It Is What It Is.

[@captainwillygrimm338]

Shall 'seek discomfort' lose it's determination. YES, they have already decided their comfort is more important.

[@ronichoudhury-qy9ti]

You guys 👦 are amazing good luck on your life journey 🎉🎉🎉🎉