Saying "I love you" too soon is one of the red flags.|Jay Shetty

Saying "I love you" too soon is one of the red flags. |Jay Shetty
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[@gamestar70]

Moral of the Story: Never go with Heart alone, always involve your Brain.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Dreams are not meant to be achieved. |Mel Robbins kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@yuliiabasova1893]

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[@Jha9124]

Or just use your brain....

[@gamestar70]

@@Jha9124 you can never be 100% Emotionless but you can be 100% Logicless. Thats the main difference

[@positivesoul.9490]

ALWAYS!!!

[@Justdoinok]

Both my husbands told me within 3 days. Both were abusive narcissists.

[@Ljounieh]

That's called lovebombing, indeed they do that

[@Dulcess]

Depends on the person, my parents dated for one month and got married 30+ years and had seven kids with me being the youngest.

[@gingerbreadmangangafarmer2251]

@@Dulcess He is talking about the majority

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@itsmayaiman]

😂😂😂

[@jasminemariedarling]

I told my husband i loved him almost immediately after meeting him. A few weeks in. We've been together 15+ years and are very in love! I just knew.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@zeridahnabaggala1938]

Me too😊

[@asadzeethree2726]

👍💯🌟💞

[@dearmysoul6706]

😍😍❤💗🤩 i agree❤

[@choose2bekindd]

“The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” ‭‭2 Peter‬ ‭3:9‬ ‭NIV‬ ROMANS 10:9-11 “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved. As Scripture says, “Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame” Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” “For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.”” ‭‭Luke‬ ‭19:10‬ ‭ God wants us to believe in His One and Only Son, Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, who died for our sins :D When we truly believe in our hearts that Jesus is the Son of God, who died for our sins so we could have eternal life with God, we are saved from the eternal fire and have eternal life in Christ Jesus in His Kingdom!! 💖 May God bless you all! 🕊💕

[@teresafraser3049]

By the responses in the comment section its lovely to see how many disagree with saying I love you too soon.....it's a personal soul connection that nobody should ever judge when the RIGHT TIMING IS!!!

[@nic3715]

Yes 🙌

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@PS-oy1el]

Exactly!

[@lauravsthepage]

If we have only been going out for a month or two and someone thinks they know me well enough to say they LOVE me… I know I am not being loved for my authentic self but instead an imagined fantasy version that they can’t distinguish from reality. You can’t compete with a fantasy and when the illusion is broken what will happen then?

[@The0nlyMrsBeets]

My husband said it about a month in and we were married 2 months later. It’s not always a red flag.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

The things that we're most afraid of are FAILURE and SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@Dulcess]

Same with my parents and they last over 30+ years before she passed away, I'm the youngest of seven kids.

[@nadineibarra8279]

My dad proposed two months from their first date. They married 4 months later. My mom passed 4 months before their 40th wedding anniversary.

[@miapenttinen6406]

Well... How often do that happen actually...

[@Aliciae411]

It can work out if you coincidentally end up being compatible but truthfully you cannot know a person that soon so it’s impossible to be in love with them, it’s just infatuation. Sometimes that’ll workout and develop into love sometimes it won’t but it’s a huge risk to jump into big decisions so soon. If someone says that to you straight away then you should be cautious.. they are just loving how you make them feel and are really attracted to you but not in love with you OR they’re love bombing and manipulating you into a relationship with them. If someone told me they love me after a month it would make me seriously question their motives and intelligence, I probably wouldn’t be able to continue seeing them.

[@threearrows2248]

I'd rather someone express their feelings than pretend forever that we're just "talking" and it's no big deal.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to REPEAT or AVOID our CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@itsnotme2575]

He didn't say you dont have to express your feelings, he said that most of the times when people say I Love You too early in the relationship, they don't even mean it. They're not even being fake, most of the times they themselves don't know that they don't mean it cuz they're so overwhelmed/infatuated. Love is when you're ready to kill and sacrifice it all for the other. Something u and parents would have. All that can't happen in a month or 2

[@svetlanaantonio]

Nope - just because someone has a good job I don’t believe they are automatically a “good person “ . You have to get to know them to determine that

[@svetlanaantonio]

Exactly

[@Freespiritedqueen]

​@@svetlanaantonio yep 👍🏽

[@aprilbrown2735]

Told each other I love you after about a week. We've been married for 24 yrs.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship: Advice DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner! JAY SHETTY 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@dearmysoul6706]

Woow 😍😘

[@sedi_dina2623]

Really?

[@sugahoney89]

Yes, back in the day that happened. We are in the 21st century now. There's piss in the dating pool. This is not about back then

[@buffalosolider206]

This man is a ge Titus

[@Wishfulthinker24]

I think it makes people feel good to know that there’s some sort of science to love. There isn’t. Everyone has a different story, embrace the uncertainty that is life ❣️

[@Ljounieh]

Right?

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@shantalbarbot5801]

Right!

[@FX_Motivationz]

True words!!!

[@YasminMahnaz]

There is science to it along with psychological research.....luck, timing great genetics, who tf you choose also and how you were brought up what you're attracted too... so ya there is a science. You haven't found any one or sht choices. Not complicated. Also reflection on the chances you had or guys you denied if you were a love interest.. has a lot to do with. If you were raised Mormon..ur only looking one way. However if ur e.g jewish muslim.and only look at one race of ppl...cz ur families say so..has an effect

[@G-ForceJoJo]

When you see and love their soul, time doesn't matter

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Dreams are not meant to be achieved. |Mel Robbins kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@dsstudio76]

True

[@t.h.1784]

My husband asked me to married him after 2 weeks. 14 years later still happy together.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@ForeverTogether219]

So happy 4 you both

[@lasttofirst3335]

Well you were one of the exception 😅

[@supunmadushanka94]

period 💅. so happy for you

[@alexanderm3777]

Very beautiful and happy for you ❤️

[@psi1378]

My husband said it the first day we met! We have been inseparable since (6 years,now)

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@charlottetaylor5859]

Myself and my husband both felt it and said it a few weeks in, 10 years, 2 kids later, still strong as ever !!!

[@masadi05]

Sometimes there is instant soul connection with a person when you look in their eyes or talk to them. There is also a thing called Love at first sight. It’s never too early to say I Love you if you really feel it. It is natural and not calculative.

[@SKOLAH]

No. Are you a teenager?

[@itsnotme2575]

There is no such thing as 'love at first sight' its called being 'obsessed at first sight' 💀 its not practically possible to fall in love with someone you barely know. Yeah sure there can be a strong liking but you need to stop confusing it with love. Love is what you and your parents have, when you're ready to die for someone. Thats love and that doesn't happen in 2 days/first sight.

[@thatcreativenova9985]

I can see your point but is not that easy is Called risk-taking love, like u both feel the same way and take a chance but there is a high risk of being abusive or being happy ever after. That is why taking the slow way is higher chance of a happy ending but ofc having to have realistic goals. I love romaner and love but is very unrealistic unless you are sure it is trustworthy

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@katkanegyke177]

This is lust not love…

[@sharon6981]

My husband said it to me after one week of dating. I said it back, and meant it. We had shortly dated in high school 10 years prior, but never loved each other. We have now been married for 3 years and are very much in a happy, healthy marriage.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@Knowledge_not_nonsense]

The world needs more love!! You should love them for simply spending time with them!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@nitikasheoran9861]

I said it on the 2nd day . And we are both happy so trust your instincts and remember you can't control the out so just relax and live your life

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

The things that we're most afraid of are FAILURE and SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@misslanapaulford]

The key is that is Mutual. Not one saying everytime and the other never ever saying it.

[@cosmicvixxonalice6795]

You are the exception not the rule.

[@flomar111]

Good point.

[@TheLastEgg08]

That is until you fall into the arms of a toxic person or a narcissist and regret the day you even engaged in anything with them.

[@janeymay2826]

My partner and I both knew within days we loved eachother...fast forward 3 years and we are still deeply in love and strong as ever

[@Awen_newA]

Makes sense, walking out of a horror film. I feel like I'm being watched and that there's something luring in the bushes 😅

[@themindhelp9584]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@FitP.I.M.P]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@pasekamlotshwa2540]

Exactly 😂😂

[@rachael7060]

😂😂

[@neomathabatha]

Also the HORN effect, opposite of HALO effect. Where you judge someone negatively because of one thing in their past like bad upbringing, bad school, etc.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship: Advice DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner! JAY SHETTY 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Thank you for the information

[@marimarie3877]

Yes being told "I love you" so soon made me uncomfortable It was another red flag.... eventually, I had to get a restraining order.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship: Advice DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner! JAY SHETTY 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@valentinethompson2449]

Choose wisely! Maybe you got what you attracted.

[@psfehr]

My husband of 19 years now, told me he loved me after 3 weeks of getting to know him, and we’re still going strong, I’m not sure where that logic comes from but, maybe I was just easily persuaded, nevertheless, I’m thankful he said those words, every relationship is it’s own,

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@stayathomemess]

Same. 10 years of marriage and 4 kids in, super happy. He said it after 3 weeks, too. Engaged after 4 months.

[@katkanegyke177]

Things and dating were different 15-20 years ago. You’d be surprised how many people use lovebombing to manipulate others that’s why it’s important for people who date nowadays to be careful and cautious. That’s all.

[@tericollier8232]

People can also truly fall in love with someone who is located in a completely different country before going onto the first official date. True love has no boundaries.

[@Ljounieh]

Yup that's me

[@angeazze6667]

Is it love or the idea of love. Is it feeling lonely or longing to be loved. Could be limerence. Sound questionable to me

[@tericollier8232]

@@angeazze6667 When I fell in love with this person, it took me by surprise well over a year ago. I wasn't looking for it when it happened. I think of this person every day and I calculate the time difference every day to figure out what part of the day that they are experiencing at that moment. I genuinely want and hope only for the best for this person. If this person had told me that they were happy with someone, then I would have congratulated them and I would of genuinely of backed off just so that he could be happy. Love is not controlling or demanding of another person. I love him so much that supporting him in what makes him happy means more. I do my best to try to be a better version of myself, not because it's what I believe a person should do, but because the way he makes me feel, makes me want to willingly be better even more. He makes me feel a calmness that I have never felt before in any relationship. In fact, I actually had to look it up online to help me realize what I was feeling. I'm so head over heels in love with this man. I could never of truly understood the depth of someone being in love before this happened. More than anything, I want to live life with him. I want to do my best to help him and his son. I have this deep appreciation for everything that he is and everything that he does. He is going to be fully in my heart forever and I wouldn't want it any other way. When I read the text messages that he sends, I find myself getting a big grin on my face. He truly makes me happy. He makes me laugh. He reminds me of my roots. I honestly couldn't imagine any one better than him. I feel inspired by his actions. I feel truly loved, respected, cherished and safe with him. It's true that I did feel lonely at times when I allowed myself to feel it before him and I ever started talking with each other, but I already understand not to jump at something out of convenience because it's not the way any relationship should start. It's your prerogative to question anything. I welcome you to it. True faith is built by asking questions and analyzing how one feels as much as what is being said and done. I will gladly be in love with this man for the rest of my life, no matter what happens in life. I have no regrets for falling in love with him. I feel beyond lucky. 😊❤ I hope that you have a great day, no matter where you are or who you are with.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@pessimist6366]

​@@tericollier8232 Beautifully explained. May God bless you !

[@BeeRejuvenatedStudio]

A lot of these success stories of I love you said within a month and proposal within a couple of months happened with couples of one and two generations ago when people were different, more mature at a younger age and more serious about their roles as a man/ woman, spouse etc.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

DREAMS are NOT MEANT TO BE ACHIEVED. |Mel Robbins 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@elizabethunger9190]

This definitely not always the case lol. My dad told my mom he loved her first, after 2 weeks. She waited two more weeks to tell him back. They’ve been married 30+ years now with 4 kids and 5 grandchildren. My husband told me after 3 weeks, I knew after 2 weeks and told him back after he said it. We were engaged we months later, married 8 months after that. We’ve been married 4 years with 2 beautiful babies and he’s my best friend. My sister and her husband were engaged 2 months after they met and married 3 months after. After going on 7 years of marriage they’re expecting their 3rd child and very happy. So this is absolutely not a read flag in some cases.

[@jnfqt]

yay ! xo

[@tshimodireko8819]

Damn, is your family just blessed with love😭😭How do you all find the one so fast?

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@remembertosmile1582]

So, nobody's gonna talk about the 'Halo effect'. I feel what he said about that was so true.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship: Advice DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner! JAY SHETTY 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@cyrillesayak1799]

It always amazed me how people talk about love as they really know what it is. There's no problem saying "i Love u" to someone. What's the most important 'bout saying "i love u" it' s the meaning, you who says that, give to it. Someone can say i love you the first day meeting each other and last with you forever. As much as saying it later doesn't guarantee you an everlasting love.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@cyrillesayak1799]

@@DailyInspirationalWords sorry but I am not gonna Watch it. Those people been saying lot of bullshit lately. Y'all better read.

[@fariamfatie]

I said it to him earlier but i really meant it,and i still love him,loving doesn't have a specific time,its a matter of heart

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice:DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@shaye9330]

I think the person saying they love you really depends on how well they know you and not how long - like it you have a lot of deep meaningful conversations that others don’t even have 6 months in for example , you talk about about areas of compatibility and determine you guys share a lot of the same values , views etc . You can fall in love faster. If you guys barely know each other - then yes, it’s strange

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Watch this 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/iF7Lq6Gog9p-iaM

[@onopuni7864]

This is so sad😢 when I am attracted to someone enough to go out with them, they already possess qualities that I love 💕 I may feel moved to express this love rather spontaneously, our word “love” is just to puny to hold all of the many things that it holds, Blessings and Love 🙏💕🙏

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

3 Date rules by Jay Shetty. Ask yourself this during your FIRST DATE 👇. kzbin.info/www/bejne/iF7Lq6Gog9p-iaM

[@rubihussain881]

Stupid,,my dad said “I love you” to my mum within 2 weeks,they were in a relationship for 3 months and got married and they are the best couple I have ever known ,they have been married for 35 years.Everyone who meets them says they are like newly in love.Also my man proposed to me on the 6th day of knowing me,we were committed for 7 years and married since 8 years.He is the best husband anyone can ever ask for.I am truly blessed so all these are stupid af things.Because I have seen ppl falling in love after knowing each other for decades and still divorcing within months.Sometimes you just feel that divine connection instantly and that is just so pure❤

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@itsnotme2575]

A lot of people are missing the point here. Many of you saying he/she said ILY in the 1st week and we're now happily married. They probably were too excited and infatuated but didn't really love you. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad it worked out for you but that early on it still wasn't love. Love is when you're ready to kill for someone like you would for your parents/family, sacrifice for them. And its just humanly not possible that you were ready to do all that for each other that early. So what happened was, you both were extremely compatible, got married and from there gradually built undying love, which is great! :)

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@tomaradoss3420]

Yes

[@nwodotony7513]

exactly

[@captainbarbosa6567]

Lol an expert here

[@milkymatcha8307]

@Isha nad dude, you're so wrong. Love isn't the problem you are. You are too much of a emotional mess to be with someone that actually Loves you. Keep on praying.

[@denisedixon9929]

You are so right about saying, " I love you too soon

[@thatompeke695]

I said I love you to my husband after a week of dating, we’re now married with a kid, sometimes you really just fall and it’s real, not always a red flag

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Watch this 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@carmencp470]

On the day I met the narc he said I love you. He love bombed me to the core and I knew it was not natural. It felt forced, fake and funky.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice:DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@stephaniewood7611]

Saying I love you isn’t the red flag. It’s all the behavior that surrounds it. Is someone telling you they love you but their actions show that they only want to use you and take from you? Or are they actually genuinely sincere and being incredibly vulnerable and authentic? And how soon are you suggesting is “too soon”? Is there a timeline on love that must be followed? Take your time when it comes to making life-altering commitments, yes. But just the act of telling someone you love them, that is not the red flag. We love our friends pretty quickly don’t we? We love our children and parents immediately. We love pets we meet on the street. We are actually capable of loving every single person and creature we interact with. No, saying I love you can never be “too soon” when it’s sincere. The red flags lie in all the behaviors and patterns that are incongruent with love.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@KingLiam19]

This right here is 💯 truth! The truth hurts sometimes, but if you use it to motivate you then their are no limits in life!

[@rochella]

My boyfriend asked me to tell him I love you the first time we met. And i responded jokingly I Love You. And we are now in our 5th year anniverssary.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice:DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@SakinahIman]

He’s so great at explaining deeper concepts and breaking them down in a palatable form. Love it! This all makes so much sense!

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@FAHAD-el6ic]

This is absolutely crazy. Men physcologically say it earlier than women. Women wanna hear it from men, like they want verbal affirmation. But the thing about red flag depends on experience level of each person and also on the culture of they come from.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@makethatchangelifecoaching4009]

I never even realized I told my soulmate I loved her as soon as I did, it wasn't preconceived it just rolled out and I never acted on it, I didn't think she felt the same, proves my intentions were pure.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@UhHi-ur5tk]

My parents got married after like, eight months of knowing eachother and they've been happily married for 21 years

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Watch this 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/iF7Lq6Gog9p-iaM

[@vuyokazikwitshana2780]

I like what he said , we start giving ppl qualities, mistakes that some of us has done.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

I hate the term, "fake it 'til you make it". kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@teresafraser3049]

When my husband and I met 35 years ago we BOTH said ...."I love you" ❤ the very same moment only after 2 weeks of dating. This is full proof that saying I love you too soon isn't a red flag in every relationship. We have two grown daughters together and just celebrated our anniversary with the same deep divine love for eachother as we did that magical day 35 years ago 🙏

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@adamreighard6773]

I have met people who within the first month or first few months said I love you. 20 years later they’re still together. But I’ve also met people who have said I love you within that same time and they are no longer together. So it’s honestly 50/50. You have to know what you’re looking for in a person

[@marjoriebarends5414]

We parents must teach our children to observe and choose your partner. Not just good looks and wealthy but character.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@Neson.Services]

In all of these, just use your head and be sincere when you're making your decision by not being emotional in saying yes even if the word 'I love you' comes after a long time of knowing them because some peoole are just slow and silent narcissists. And learn to let go of them if they disconnect being faithful and or start showing you the toxic side of which they are not willing to grow out of it and become a better and healthy partner

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@ellsellent1687]

It's not about the words. It's about the person. I don't count the months before I say it, I say it when i feel it, because I feel it and it's an extremely intense feeling.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

DREAMS are NOT MEANT TO BE ACHIEVED. |Mel Robbins 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@marytallon-heinz3639]

One of the reasons I fell in love with my husband was bc he waited for me to tell him I loved him first. He had known how tired I was of men mindlessly confessing their undying love for me with empty works that ye waited for me to feel his love first and fall for him. He had loved me months prior but that patience to wait for me was pivotal.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

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[@Dulcess]

Depends on the person my parents dated for one month married 30+ years, had seven kids with me being the youngest. You have to take it by the person and not lump everyone together.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@ohdear2275]

Great love story! Saying I love you and love itself don't determine the success or longevity of a relationship. Commitment does. I don't have a problem with someone saying I love you early. I just remember love is a feeling, not a fact, and it's not a predictor of the future or ultimate success of a relationship. Neither is "I love you" a promise.

[@TheHummingbird876]

May apply in some cases, not all. You have some people out there who try to play mind games with the other person by saying it early to kind of trap them and have them thinking that ok he/she loves me, while the person who said it early may just want to have someone to always go back to, someone they feed that energy to early on so the person doesn’t operate in unfaithful ways towards them. It does happen.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@belindarivetto4348]

Yes this is truth❤❤

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@ohdear2275]

Love is a feeling. Feelings come and go. Feelings are not facts. I have love inside of me so it's not hard to love another. The love inside of me has got to go somewhere, because it's too much to keep to myself. Saying I love you and love itself doesn't determine the success or longevity of even a good relationship based on shared goals, morals, ethics, values, and blendable lifestyles. Commitment determines the success, the longevity. I don't have a problem with someone saying I love you early. I just remember love is a feeling, not a fact, and it's not a predictor of the future or ultimate success of a relationship. Neither is it a promise.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Its an action. Smh no wonder divorce rates are so high

[@Elijah_Roman]

His eyes are so hypnotizing 😍😍

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice:DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@Alwystirednvrsleeps]

Omg 3 days for me, too! I knew it instantly. And years later, we're still going.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

I believe that DREAMS are NOT meant to be achieved. |Mel Robbins 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@MostPowerfulPMofIndia]

This guy always inspires me He reads minds He heals others

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

The things that we're most afraid of are FAILURE and SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@Ljounieh]

There's something so soothing about him

[@aquarianrevolutiont.vthene1878]

He is so absolutely right.I hv fallen for that in the past whr I saw one good thing n I assumed...Still regretting today after many years

[@journeywithme_erika1890]

My partner is lovable we have not said "I love you" but love is in the Air. I also believe love is something you carry within not a reward for who or how the person. Is.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@amistenson2535]

Men saying “I love you” at a month and women at three months was mind blowing for me.

[@theneanderthal69]

Ah thats why I am single! I should be attending weddings and watching romantic comedies at the cinema

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

3 Date rules by Jay Shetty. Ask yourself this during your FIRST DATE 👇. kzbin.info/www/bejne/iF7Lq6Gog9p-iaM

[@holt7088]

Hallmark 🍿📺 time 😆

[@buttersbunt]

Last point is very true - I watch so many murder mysteries, true crime docus, and horror that I regularly avoid people

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

I hate the term, "fake it 'til you make it". kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@pinkmadness3865]

My husband told me he loved me on our first date through a song he wrote. Played a guitar and sang it to me at a park. Told his family I was the last girlfriend he was bringing home in our first family introduction.❤

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice:DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@sweets3745]

This guy's eyes....❤

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@fridagonzalez9392]

I told my fiancée I loved him the day he asked me to be his girlfriend. We had known each other for 22 days but the connection was there from day one:)

[@moodsofkiwi9285]

My husband told me he loved me a week after we started dating. 12 years later we’re happily married parents!

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

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[@saba5741]

The context effect makes SO MUCH SENSE now that I look back

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@Eisvogelllpoem]

Disagree, I think we take the L-word way to serious these days, I tell my friends every day that I love them, why not tell my lover? There are different kind of loves, doesn’t mean you want them o marry them or a relationship, you can just appreciate them endlessly for how exactly they are. to love someone you don’t need to know them in and out, you love their soul, the light that shines through every single human being in this world. In fact we should aim to love everyone, and find things you love, in everyone you meet. I love u human 💚☘️🌈

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

The things that we're most afraid of are FAILURE and SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@faithbyrge484]

I love you too my kindred spirit

[@stephaniewood7611]

Completely agree. I don’t think the problem is ever loving too much or too soon - the problem is false “love” and narcissism masquerading as truly loving someone.

[@aayushiarya8028]

my whole life was a red flag... dayumn... just about the right time... thank Goodness.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

🙈

[@LightingLotusLove]

I feel like his interview is a red flag 🚩

[@mariamaier8537]

🤣😂🤣

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

The things that we're most afraid of are FAILURE and SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@nic3715]

So do I lol

[@tudojajula6059]

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@jeanelle2793]

It’s Jay Shetty, he’s literally taken quotes from others with out crediting them for his own content. Deangelo Wallace did a whole segment on him on KZbin and it confirmed how I just couldn’t trust a thing this man says

[@Notanglef]

Sounds like you’re going with hate before love to me. ❤️❤️❤️ I love you bud

[@roshinipariraj4687]

When we hear romantic songs we feel loving towards people around us..its true..

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Ask yourself this during first date. 3 Date rules. |Jay Shetty 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/iF7Lq6Gog9p-iaM

[@marianancychristinapatanao]

Heart is the only one that can move us to love.Counting the number of days when he said he loves you is never a question and does not even matter.Its what the heart says..the connection , maturity and how he shows how much he loves though his actions.😍

[@LouisWashington-dn1hy]

Honesty & Trust matter too,While many people think that honesty in a relationship should be a no-brainer, this is often taken for granted. ...

[@shivam4514]

I think you should also consider the vibes from that person, we could make mistakes and trust in someone's words or actions but the vibes doesn't lies

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

I believe that DREAMS are NOT meant to be achieved. |Mel Robbins 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@tracyscholtz6910]

❤I love all the beautiful souls on this platform...Greetings from South Africa.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to REPEAT or AVOID our CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@FitWithLuba]

My husband said I love you in one week and we’ve been married now for 8 years. It’s different for every one

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@TheAlreadytaken24]

They are pulling on your emotional cords.. to get you emotionally invested because they know once your emotionally invested.. they got you.. and it's hard to break that emotional attachment..

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

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[@yayayarelis]

My bf at the time said I love you within three months of dating. He is my husband now and we have been together for 18 years. It’s not always a red flag.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to REPEAT or AVOID our CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@kds9614]

I dated a guy where in a month he said I love you. Turned out to be a narcissist and emotionally abusive. Broke up with me on the train and I allowed him to put me in debt where I never got a penny back. He was my BIGGEST lesson.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice:DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@ambiecats6189]

I happen to agree with him. I had a fella tell me that. He was just looking for a mother for his kids. Love bombed the crap out of me also. Sending me love songs. Texting me I want you everyday. Yeah but then talked about all his lady friends and how if they'd text him he'd have to answer them. They're his friends. All he had were lady friends and told me I like attention. Lol

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@wquinonez1477]

You dodged a bullet with that one!😅

[@themindhelp9584]

Omggg run for yo life!!!😢😢 pleasee stay safe

[@kathgarciaduarte]

My ex told me ILY after a week based on "I never met anyone like you... I'm sure this is love" bla bla. We moved in together after 3 months and he was an abusive person mentally and physically. Be careful! Believe in the red flags!

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

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[@yulaisisvarela1087]

I love you early is not always a red flag

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@bettywhitelouie1868]

Ok,please keep teaching me😊

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

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[@FutureBillionaire1111]

It creeps me out because men use that to get what the want QUICKLY

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@ucheeze6026]

Very true

[@untold.destinations5658]

There's a greater argument to be made that women enjoy being sweet talked and lied to. PERIODTT

[@5000tries]

This guy is right!

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@iamcellular6650]

I remember I was 16 and a boy told me he had love for me within like two days of dating. I never broke up with someone so fast. 😂 my friend was dating his friend and they’ve been together for almost 3 years now but he has cheated on her so many times, and he also ran the same lines on her and told her he loved her within two weeks while also sleeping with her to keep her attached sad sad case.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship: Advice DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner! JAY SHETTY 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@qine6559]

I like his eyes! He must be smart!

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

I hate the term, "FAKE IT 'TIL YOU MAKE IT". kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@lovelymarin3704]

My husband had said it the same night he asked me out. Granted, he's a Marine and was drunk at the time with his buddies and this was over the phone so I let it pass lmao 🤣 we got married a year later and in a week it will be 10 years married. ❤🎉💍

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

I BELIEVE THAT DREAMS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE ACHIEVED. |Mel Robbins 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJLScqKibs-XmMU

[@ms.crystal248]

He is GORGEOUS!!! Those eyes..

[@odessa8767]

You should see his wife they have the exact same eyes, they could pass for siblings ❤❤

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice:DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@colossalmusic1]

I said it within a month my wife and I are still married 17 years this don’t go for everyone

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

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[@MistresstheMediator]

I’m so grateful for the halo effect explanation I needed that one today its the most dangerous one of them all plays tricks with your mind

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@adityaakaul]

Come on. The number of rules that keep people apart is getting longer everyday. The list of these red flags is never ending. Use your best judgement. No 2 situations are the same.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice:DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@Rose-sn7lr]

Same here I said it within a month or two. He’s my husband 😂 I loved him than and I love him more than ever now

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@louiseerbslisbjerg7854]

Oh no! "I love you" is serious business... 1 month? 3 months? That is a CLEAR hard NO!

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@dearmysoul6706]

Saying i love you very soon means the persons is spontaneous and feel free about expressing her feelings or his feelings. It is normal, people love for different reason, we sometime love the soul or spirit of someone even when they are not talking or acting with us 🙂

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@zarakim5924]

Believe me it’s not a red flag when you know you know

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

We either try to repeat or avoid our childhood experiences. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKeYqp-KhZyLbNE

[@thtswutshesaid]

That is truly debatable. Lol

[@leroyfaka]

U only fell in love, u did not love.. Because like you said, if u know , u know

[@vernvilar6922]

Smart love advice

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

THE THINGS THAT WE'RE MOST AFRAID OF ARE FAILURE AND SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@ihateallyall]

my boyfriend was 36 at the time we met. he only had one serious relationship before me when he was 28, and she cheated on him. he hadn’t really been in any other serious relationships. good man too, so handsome, sexy car, own place own job own money, he just spent years taking care of his parents when they were dying from cancer and never really got around to dating, he’s shy and not an extrovert. we worked together for a while a year flirting and falling in love then fell step into a relationship. he told me “I love you” after 2 weeks! 2 weeks! we had known each other for a year, but we didn’t deeply know each other. but, both of us just kind of knew what we would become to each other. it took me another while before I realized I really loved him too. we just already felt it. 5 years later, we’re moving into a house, and plan to marry and possibly start a family.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice:DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@annmarietrupia6650]

FIVE YEARS LATER... F8ve years!?? .. And only "planning" to marry.. an d "possibly " start a family. 😢 yikes.

[@maseylin]

I don't think it's bad to say I love you too soon or whatever. I waited until the like 4th week to say it. I think saying "I love you" should be done more often..we need more love in this world

[@mariamaier8537]

♥️

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

The things that we're most afraid of are FAILURE and SUCCESS. Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/b2G6nJijapiSh80

[@samwelnjuguna-gz9eb]

If you have meet a girl and you tell her that you are really attracted with her beauty and you are so interested in knowing her much more better than a friend 🤗

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

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[@Talube101]

Saying "I Love you" depends on the person with those feelings. No one else can say otherwise.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship: Advice DON'T always WATCH TV with your partner! JAY SHETTY 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@Sageysager]

The context effect just blew my mind , no more rom coms then straight to talking to boys 😂😂

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

Best Relationship Advice: Don't watch TV with your partner always. |Jay Shetty 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJK0c5afqaufr68

[@vvhitepriest]

I gotta hang around movie theater exits more often.

[@DailyInspirationalWords]

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