Randy Helps Find The Perfect Dress For A Grieving Bride | Say Yes To The Dress

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Randy's on a mission to help a grieving bride who's lost her mum. With a difficult appointment ahead, he's determined to find her the perfect dress. Will she say yes to the dress without her mum by her side, or is it too soon? #SayYesToTheDress #SayYesToTheDress
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From Season 4 Episode 11
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[@mariaferreras4369]

Randy is the sweetest guy in the whole world. He is sensitive and very delicate about how he talks.

[@vs52217]

I love Randy!

[@suepall5425]

Randy is so kind. I hope he knows what a bright light in a dark world he is. Thanks Randy!

[@AliceInWonderland1990]

For the mommy bride, I don't know what she is looking at. She looks amazing after 6 months. I had to pause the video to take off my glasses and clean them to check. She looks fabulous. I don't see what she is seeing.

[@nancyhammons3594]

Having a baby is a wonderful experience, Miss Gabrielle needs to embrace the results of her baby. She's a beautiful bride. Randy is the best.

[@willcookmakeup]

Yeah like the baby is more important. Going 2 sizes down when you have no idea how you body is going to respond to giving birth on your first child, was a terrible idea.

[@melissaomalia9870]

Maybe get married first and then kid?

[@tamaramartin4015]

That baby is sooo cute, and Mama is being way too hard on herself.

[@dietotaku]

TITLE: "Randy helps find the perfect dress for a grieving bride" VIDEO: [bride leaves without a dress] do y'all understand what words mean?

[@marieslabbert6009]

Gabrielle should be proud of looking so well after recently having a baby. She is obviously a person who carries herself with pride and there is no reason for her to think she is not looking her best!! 💖💖💖

[@dietotaku]

yeah she looks FABULOUS for being only 6 months post-partum! if she thinks that's a gut, she should see my wedding photos! legit my belly was so big i looked like i was smuggling a monster truck tire under my dress 🙈

[@nancysmith4529]

I felt so bad for the first bride. She wasn’t ready to select a dress. Hopefully in the future she’ll be able to! I really feel she’ll feel her mothers presence when its the right dress!❤

[@karenglenn6707]

I am on the opposite side of this. My beautiful daughter was stillborn in august 1997. I will never have this with her. I would love more than anything to have her here and to have this opportunity to be there for her on this day. To the beautiful brides without their mums, I would happily stand in for your beloved mums, just to have this experience once in my life. I send you my love from a mum, your mothers are with you always, their love is too strong to ever be broken. ❤️

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Very sorry to hear that and I lost my mom and dad. My uncle and aunt offered to step in as my parents when I get married.

[@cherylownbey9573]

I'm sorry for your loss. Losing someone you love is so painful. It doesn't matter as to how long they were a part of your life. Your lovely statement of love is a tribute, as is your wish and offer to stand in as mom. You have so much to offer with all that love in your heart. I hope you share that love with other children. Your daughter is present in your heart and sole always. She needs to see you share that love with others. .

[@22casperlove]

My heart broke reading this. She is an angel

[@karenglenn6707]

@@cherylownbey9573 I have one living child, he is the love of my life. I also sadly had a stillborn son in 1999 and we did not try for anymore. It was too hard, he had spina bifida at the base of his brain and did not survive. The marriage suffered so badly that it ended, but many years later we are good friends and he rings me on their birthdays. Thank you so much for your lovely words. It is so kind of you to bother and I appreciate it so much. Much love to you from Australia

[@karenglenn6707]

@@22casperlove thank you so much. I lost my best friend 4 months before to cancer, she was just 34 and left two little girls. I know that she is looking after mine for me until I get there, that gives me some peace. ❤️

[@nikkijones5648]

My mom passed away in October of last year she always told me that she would be there when i get engaged and pick out wedding dresses knowing that when that time comes she wont be there will be filled with tears both me and my mom fell in love with one of randys dresses before she died getting the chance to try that dress one day and seeing if thats the one will be very emotional

[@jemmaj2919]

It's great that you know the one she liked, I hope when the time comes, it will be the one

[@--_-_-_-74..]

She sees all you do ! Trust yourself. ❤

[@nikkijones5648]

@@jemmaj2919 we both fell in love with his Anastasia dress my mom had a stroke in December 2020 that left her half paralyzed I showed her a video of it from his KZbin channel while she was in the hospital I kept showing it to her and talked about how much I loved every detail about it when she came home it had everything we both wanted equally on one dress I can't even imagine the way imma feel if I can get to klenfield and find it I don't plan on getting married for a while as I am 24 I'm hoping that it's not discontinued when I do get engaged

[@kgrant3184]

I am sorry for your loss, Nikki. Losing a such a close loved-one is very hard. This might sound cray-cray, but maybe, take your Mom's photo with you when you go shopping for your dress - put the photo on a chair, looking out at where you will model the dress. ASK for your Mom's opinion and signs of her approval (and ONLY from your Mom, to be sure). Look to see if extra light is coming out from around the photo, when you think you have the right dress. Even though this will sound absolutely crazy, I noticed, a long time ago, the first Christmas after our maternal grandmother had just passed-on, that there was a whole bunch of light around her smiling pic that sat on a table in the sitting area. My mom noticed it, too - Gramma (my Mom's Mom) was there WITH us in spirit, which brought us joy, through the tears of grief. Ask for spiritual protection and help, to feel safer, and then... see what happens. I expect that your Mom will show her approval. Best Wishes!!

[@lilak3010]

I'm sorry for the loss of your mom. My mom also passed in October. God bless you. My condolences. My mom told me she'd always be with me, "my angel on my shoulder." I love Randy.

[@welshwitch2126]

I feel for the first bride. I lost my mom when I was 26 and I’d only been married a little over a year when she was diagnosed with cancer and she was gone in 6 months. I was lucky to have had her with me at my wedding. I wish she had lived to see my babies, which she told me before she died, was her only regret in life. She’s been gone 42 years, and that haunts me to this day. I wish my children could have known her. She would have adored them!

[@ACCrafter]

@welshwitch2126 I believe your mum had time with your children before they were born and she sent them to you ❤

[@gaeazimmer9477]

@@ACCrafter Perfectly said. I came to say same. 💝

[@barnesCh430]

Gabrielle's baby is absolutely adorable.

[@karenstieglitz3443]

She looked gorg before the weight loss. She also looked gorg after the weight loss. But in the end, SHE has to feel gorg. Well, done Gabrielle!! And Randy, thank you so very much for being a friend to everyone!! ❤

[@helenoftroy5130]

Randy does know just the right thing to say. That was awesome what he said to the second bride. For the first bride I just felt sad and wish her the best. Hopefully she will feel differently on her next time out looking at dresses.

[@9094nancyj]

Love how her sister "dude"! BTW she looked fabulous in her wedding gown!

[@csandford6011]

The mommy bride looks fantastic I love that type of dress. Have a wonderful wedding day.

[@Dani88808]

Randy is just perfect for this job. He knows the right things to say and when to say it. Bride number 2 looks amazing in that dress! What’s lacking in that dress was her confidence. I hope she felt better on her wedding day ❤

[@raindropsandfeathers2245]

Randy is such a sweet soul

[@1tommyday]

Mommy bride looks better than she thinks. She had a baby! She should be proud of her figure.

[@CaraStrong13]

Oh definitely. Many women do not have that sort of figure 6 months postpartum. I certainly didn’t and almost 4 years later still don’t. 😂 She looks fabulous.

[@kaitlin2150]

I think the second bride looked just fine at her first fitting. I'm sure though that it must have been hard for her to see that she was beautiful because there is a lot of pressure on new moms to "bounce back" to pre pregnancy weight or even thinner. Plus the changes in your body are so rapid during pregnancy and post partum that it is hard to adjust or feel beautiful at times. She didn't need to loose the weight to look beautiful in that dress but good for her in putting in the work. She needed that confidence boost and she did it for her.

[@Joy-gt3hu]

That dress looks FABULOUS ON HER!!!!!!

[@johnlogan3908]

Bride. Number 2 you looked lovely at the first fitting but you looked like a happy bride to be at 2nd fitting. P.s. baby is a cutee!

[@Muppetfanforevah]

Awww. I hope we get to see the girl who lost her mom, come back.

[@mtspp5801]

Gabrielle looks terrific.

[@allisonfrederickharteis7525]

First bride kept saying that the dresses were too plain, so then the consultant and Randy kept bringing out plain dresses. Maybe she wouldn’t have found anything , it being too soon, but they weren’t listening to what she wanted and were chalking it up to her grieving.

[@mariesmith1616]

I agree with this comment.

[@leah__gail]

Spanx!! 😂 A girls best friend!

[@hannahmyers23]

I lost my mom a year ago and got married 5 months after she passed. The sad part for me was that while I managed to avoid having to go shopping for a dress because I got mine custom made, my mom still never got to see me in it, wasn't there for the fittings, nothing. And that hurt my heart so much because I always thought she would be there for all of it.

[@jennifergimbel9902]

Why does no one notice that beautiful dress in the room where they are interviewed? Try that on!

[@fluffysheepfallingasleep609]

It's probably too expensive or something

[@user-oc4yt7zb9t]

I was thinking the same thing. Probably not in her price range.

[@user-zk8uu7os3i]

46 years old!!! she looks so young❤

[@christyhull4214]

For me it's the opposite I will never get to see my baby girl in a wedding dress or a graduation gown. I think about that everytime I watch this show. I lost my baby last year I also lost a baby boy in 2011. Knowing I won't get to see them getting married makes me cry but I know one day I'll see them in Heaven with Jesus in their beautiful heavenly gowns. I really feel for this bride just remember your mom is with u in your heart always.❤️

[@1tommyday]

First bride teally had no idea what she wanted. She really should push up her wedding so she has more time with her grieving process.

[@mariesmith1616]

It’s wise not to take important decisions within the first year of grieving. And she just lost her mom 6 months ago and got engaged. Wishing her the best.

[@TheJudiBambiPurrsParadox]

Maybe the first bride needs to try on a few dresses she knows her mom would have loved..even if she herself wouldn't pick them for herself. I think she's missing her mom's input and she doesn't realize it. She knows what her mom liked on her I'm sure...so if the considers that into her dress trying, it might help.

[@Sejalpawar-ft3sy]

Am I the only one who's stuck on fact that first bride's dad already married someone when his wife passed away like 6 months ago like idk but it's just

[@reyleshacyrus6436]

You're mixing up the death of her mom with the assumption that her mom and dad were still married at the time of her death.

[@faolagrant221]

The mom & dad might have been divorced and then dad got remarried.

[@cheribyrd94]

Randy is wonderful.he cares and tries to please everyone.he has great taste. I adore randy

[@TK-ij2xi]

I never knew until this show really, that moms are supposed to go for the dress shopping. 🤷🏻‍♀️ My best friend went shopping and told me her mom was mad she wasn't included - i had NO IDEA it was a thing even back then in 2000. I didn't bring my mom (we weren't close and she wouldn't have had my best interests in mind) , i brought my 6 year old daughter. And i literally bought the first one i tried. Now, when my daughter gets married i would be there if she wants that but truly, her dress is her choice - me being there is just to support what she wants.

[@kathryngal3]

This girl looks phenomenal in that gown-- I get how she feels about herself because I do the same- but she is rocking it!

[@margaretmathis4775]

Gabrielle looks great in that dress❣️

[@meowsthree]

The second bride feels that her tummy is too obvious, so why not wear shape wear? I think she looks gorgeous.

[@gabygaby5701]

Love the baby, super chubby!!!

[@AzurasLunarEclipse]

Yall just cuz ur loving parent passed be4 u get married or find da right dress dont worry on it...ur with da person of ur dreams and ppl who care about u...its ur day now and slay it away ❤❤❤❤

[@brendagibbs2665]

Gabrielle looked fabulous in her before she lost weight .

[@chandraprabhasolanki1349]

The first bride wasn't offered much flattering choices too

[@elizabethkennedy9623]

Wow! 500 guests!!!!

[@80sbabylove86]

That girl looked exactly the same and thats gorgeous. That new mommy weight will play tricks on ur eyes thank God her family and Randy were there

[@heididepotter8136]

I love Gabrielles dress, vava voom!!! A body changes after giving birth. Give your body time to heal and be proud of it. It gave you the most presious thing in life, Children.

[@kareneley-ix6lu]

Amen

[@Me-fo1kk]

Randy. You 😇

[@jeswainston]

I’m so sorry for this bride.

[@jeswainston]

Dress #2, the neckline is lovely but over all it doesn’t seem quite right.

[@jeswainston]

Dress #3 was really lovely

[@jeswainston]

Dress #4 again, the top is great…

[@bevturquoise4651]

I didn't even know Moms went with their daughters to pick out wedding dresses. My Mom would not have come with me. My first marriage was at age 60.

[@sharpay33]

My mom died 3 months before my wedding

[@chandraprabhasolanki1349]

I wanna work with Randy He's a fun guy at a fun job

[@readMEinkbooks]

The first bride would have looked fabulous in the dress on the dummy behind her in the interview room.

[@babycherrypie87]

That's so sad that Gabrielle felt compelled in her gown to lose weight - just 6 months after having a baby! She looks stunning either way, but just as Randy said, she is getting married and her fiancee loves her as is.

[@user-oc4yt7zb9t]

Grieving bride already has a stepmom?

[@mariesmith1616]

Most likely parents were divorced long time ago. Otherwise, the bride wouldn’t have a close relationship with stepmom as to invite her to go wedding dress shopping.

[@samanthavickrey2154]

Gabrielle lost that baby weight so fast & she looked amazing the first fitting.

[@susanscottfarrell3713]

Gawd... Make your own decision

[@martinitime3537]

The young woman is talking about how heartbroken she is over her mom’s passing and the consultant: so, what’s your price point?😩

[@annatryjesus9041]

I can take it in but not out

[@sherryrutledge8792]

Surprise! You look the same!😂

[@evelynmoreno531]

Always remember that you are not wearing the dress. And it is not your day!

[@trenae77]

Body dysmorphia with post partum ... she sees only the flaws while everyone else sees the entire person. Thankfully Randy points out to her the important connection - her fiancé loves her, and sees her as a beautiful woman regardless of how she feels.

[@lss74]

How does anyone know 500 people !!!??? Whaaaaaaaat??

[@christawarda7386]

I do think that Gabrielle looked beautiful in the dress the first time, and kudos to her for losing weight. But why on earth don't the consultants ever talk about wearing a body shaper??

[@marenm9392]

What I don’t understand is this girl lost her mom only 6 months ago and has a stepmom already?

[@wolfc8755]

Most likely her mom and dad divorced many years ago. Or she probably wouldn't have the kind of relationship with her stepmom to invite her to wedding dress shopping.

[@gailrodgers3079]

I never had the experience of dress hunting. I wore my cousins dress. I was just happy it fit. Gabrielle is having difficulty because because the cart was put ahead of the horse. I realize it isn't a popular opinion anymore but bringing your 6 month old to a dress fitting just seems really weird.

[@user-hb4og9hg5e]

What's going on with Joan's voice?! Is she ok?!

[@riennekoh3901]

That's because none of the dresses they brought out looks nice.

[@terrymoser47]

i THINK STRAPLESS WEDDING DRESSES NEED TO RETIRE.

[@filomenaguidone281]

CLARAFELIPE

[@user-ly8uj5ti2u]

They are bringing out ugly dresses

[@AlizMari23]

The second bride's attitude is 🤮 She looked absolutely perfect. I get feeling like you look like a dump truck after having a baby, because I've had 2 kids and nothing fits me the way it used to. But the way she was talking to the alterations lady was unnecessary.

[@IamTheWayIam]

She lost 10-12 pounds on two weeks? How?!?!?

[@Schulz1362]

Most likely by exercising and eating healthier food, or smaller portions.

[@mariesmith1616]

Gabrielle was annoying with all the whining about her gut. She looked about the same on her second appointment. She looked great at both appointments.

[@cerscil]

Gabrielle just needed some spanx andshe would have been fine. I thought she looked good without it, but it does make a difference.

[@carnationemerald]

What Gabrielle needs to realize that her wedding photos won't necessarily be from the side they'll mostly be front views and nobody is going to see her after pregnant gut. If she was so worried about her dress fitting she should've started exercising.

[@user-vj4wd9vd7f]

It looks good if you wanna lose that gut start doing Pilates I lost 6 inches in six weeks off of my gut, and I am way heavier than you

[@esthererasmus480]

I hate boob tube dresses

[@jb6712]

Utterly foolish of the first bride to go shopping for something so major when she wasn't at all ready for it. Her mother died only six months prior, and if she was anything as close to her mother as I was to mine, it's impossible to think clearly when such a wonderful mother dies.

[@jemmaj2919]

I get feeling lack of confidence, but worrying about other ppl talking about your stomach is bizarre.

[@spiercephotography]

Some families/relatives/people/cultures are that way. no holds barred if you look fat(ish) etc, they'll call it out and nail it in, repeatedly. Even on a wedding day

[@j.d.7569]

Maybe people need to stop and realize that the baby is supposed to come AFTER the wedding 🙃

[@leannecanty8821]

What a helpful comment! (Sarcasm)

[@dietotaku]

yeah no shit but sometimes life has other ideas. drag your ass back to the stone age where your beliefs came from.

[@mariesmith1616]

At least don’t be complaining

[@Melisasa9402]

I just know you're single and miserable lmfao

[@HGG381]

To much for me Looks like psychology session Stop this and start clothes selling session s please!

[@Madamchief]

No dress is gonna help Gabrielle's "gut". That's what she gets for having a baby 🤷‍♀️ she still looks lovely

[@PatriciaMartinez-kn6ud]

That's what she gets? Damn you make it sound like she deserved consequences

[@Madamchief]

@@PatriciaMartinez-kn6ud 😅 kinda but not her gut. Kid = consequences

[@PatriciaMartinez-kn6ud]

@@Madamchief No a kid is not a consequence unless your like a minor

[@Madamchief]

@@PatriciaMartinez-kn6ud babies are definitely a consequence of something 🤭

[@dietotaku]

what a horribly judgmental thing to say. first of all there are plenty of dresses to disguise a "gut"/baby belly/whatever you wanna call it. second, "that's what she gets for having a baby"? did she commit a crime?