Randy Agrees With Mum Who HATES The Dress | Say Yes To The Dress

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Carla immediately falls in love with a Pnina dress, the problem is the mum hates it, and Randy agrees with her.
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[@truthbom]

This is an example of the dress is wearing her instead of her wearing the dress. Sometimes you gotta listen to your mother! :)

[@Sophesi]

That is whole lotta dress! Her mom knows best in this case! Years later I tried my size two wedding dress on it had big ruffles on the back with a bow. I fell down laughing and my two sisters laughed with me! It was a young & dumb choice for sure

[@stonew1927]

No, you gotta listen to your heart no matter what anyone else says, including your mother! That means, even if everyone else thinks you have poor taste LOL

[@ElizabethCoon-wn3mi]

I agree, but I think that's the look she wanted.

[@janettewebster2151]

Prina designs for the financially wealthy, but tastefully poor...

[@widow237]

Couldn’t agree more!! 👏👏👏👏

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Even if I were wealthy, I wouldn’t get anything Pnina. They are so ugly!

[@kalishadee8925]

I haven't read a more accurate description 😂😂

[@saradecapua3264]

Exactly. They tend to be on the trashy-looking side.

[@janettewebster2151]

@@saradecapua3264 Yes, she has actually been quite "smart" in finding her "niche market" that guarantees her maximum, long-term profits. I'm a qualified Counsellor & personally, I wouldn't trust her opinion, or want her as a friend myself. I see & get some very unsettling "vibes" from her. Watch her eyes (the mirrors of the soul) when she "interacts" with would be, or actual clients...

[@BoiseShan]

Pnina Tornai might be the worst thing that ever happened to wedding dresses

[@ladyjustice1474]

👏👏👏

[@juliep9156]

They were once tasteful but now they are downright trashy with sparkles IMO....

[@marinam.2293]

I was just going to say that. Did Pnina's sense of style deteriorate over time? Or is she, possibly, just supplying the kind of dresses that are in demand? I would never have worn a dress with so much bling, and I'm delighted that my daughter chose a dress with zero bling.

[@katrinapandya8369]

I miss Hayley Paige dresses.

[@dawnsalois]

yeah the see through panels that some of her styles have make me think of strippers

[@timeforchange6818]

The mother was right, and it's nice she can handle the dress the daughter will wear. I'm shocked someone would even design such a dress.

[@BearTeamRealEstate]

Heinous

[@christinerussell138]

Gypsy wedding taste.

[@dietotaku]

that's honestly pretty tame by pnina standards.

[@karenacton3854]

I agree with you, they have to stop with those gawdy pickups, they look trashy.

[@fernviking7909]

Designers create such dresses specifically for people like this bride. It over the top & that’s what they want. People can disagree but it’s just their opinion of what they don’t want to wear. If the bride loves it feels it makes her look pretty, why would anyone even a family member try to enforce their opinion?! That’s ludicrous!

[@celissewillis9399]

"I want it to be classy, but that's not her, that's not my daughter"... probably the most respectful way you could say that you think your daughter usually dresses like trash, lol

[@harlomints7727]

not necessarily classy doesnt mean its trash. theres a lot of styles that may be considered "unclassy" for being too revealing or unconventional that are still considered super cute when styled well. (japanese gyaru is a good example)

[@ToLoveIsToLive89]

Pnina’s dresses always look like they belong on a Vegas show girl. 😬🤦🏻‍♀️ The second dress was the best.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

They look like lingerie too.

[@hannah1948]

I know, I don't know why anyone wears her dresses.

[@taiyabazaheer9492]

The dress Randy picked has an ethereal feel. Reminds me of the 19th century dresses worn by British aristocracy I saw in my history books. The bride is stubborn and unclassy. She just has bad taste and doesn't listen to honest opinions.

[@somebody7070]

You mean luxury Vegas STRIPPER

[@ChrisAndCats]

The second dress gave her chest an odd concave flat look.

[@bhquilter]

I know the dress is not cheap price wise but it sure has a cheap look. She is a beautiful young woman and her mother is trying to guide her to a more classy, glamorous style. In this case, I agree with Mom!

[@pinningformichigan8120]

20years from now, she is going to be asking her mother, "How could you let me get such a dress?" lol

[@Linda-kn2jn]

I chose the dress my mom picked and after 60 years ,looking at my album, I still hate the dress.Sad.

[@gingerengels3659]

She's rather petite so the dress was too much for her frame. But, it's the bride who has to wear it. One day she may look back and say "what was I thinking?!"

[@JustMeVanessa]

This comment is spot on!

[@deborahwilson8482]

I think the bride fills the dress out beautifully! She's no shrinking violet, she shines with confidence, a woman who knows what makes her heart happy. She picked the right dress!

[@MsLovestory01]

She didn't, the second dress was the right choice. The dress was wearing her in this case, it wasn't her wearing the dress. @@deborahwilson8482

[@gabbycraft7035]

Not necessarily. Everyone’s different. Maybe if she got a more simpler one she’d look at it in the future and regret picking something “so plain”.

[@kateyare4708]

I don't agree. She loves this dress with no reservations, and I think she would regret not getting this dress. I loved how she stood up to her mother without getting nasty or mean. Despite their disagreement, the bride and her mother show a great deal of respect and love for each other.

[@corinreid3301]

I thought it was sweet how the mother came to terms with accepting her daughter's choice. But, I still do side with Randy and the bride's mother. The first dress looked like a amalgamation of nothing but different fabrics, including a piece dangling in front. Don't know what the designer had in mind for the concept of the first dress. Either or, as long as the bride is happy, that is what matters.

[@corinreid3301]

@FAKOKTA It is definitely possible.

[@MsLovestory01]

That is Pnina for you, she throws some fabric together, adds bling and charges an astronomical amount.

[@taiyabazaheer9492]

The dress Randy picked has an ethereal feel. Reminds me of the 19th century dresses worn by British aristocracy I saw in my history books. The bride is stubborn and unclassy. She just has bad taste and doesn't listen to honest opinions.

[@OnePoetWanderer]

That piece dangling in front bothered me SO much.

[@vern0018]

I'm sure there are other dramatic beautiful dresses too.

[@goodvibesstation7835]

It kind of looks like 4 dresses got thrown into a blender lol

[@ravynbishop6131]

wedding smoothie... how... gross!

[@bev9708]

Every bride deserves to wear exactly what she wants... SHE loves it, and she can afford it, so I'm so happy for her!!

[@bhquilter]

She wants to look cheap in an expensive dress! I feel bad for the mother... 😢

[@nicolaablett7790]

Its horrendous

[@gabbycraft7035]

@@bhquilterwhy feel bad for her? She should prefer the bride to pick a dress she likes, not one everyone else likes.

[@ravynbishop6131]

@@gabbycraft7035 I feel bad that she's going to look back on the wedding photos and go.. oh..

[@rochellemurrell4146]

Bless her heart but that dress was tacky with a capital “T”.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly and it is a Pnina so I am not shocked.

[@ravynbishop6131]

capital and bold "T"

[@MarlaJMatney]

That bride could pull that dress off!

[@ellenko2684]

Mom is definitely right in this case. The first dress was horrendous.

[@cmwHisArtist]

As a wedding manager, I always thought the really beautiful brides presented better in simple graceful styles that brought attention to themselves rather than the dress.

[@melaniekendall4903]

Bit rude to go and ask Randy when they already have a consultant

[@jeswainston]

That first dress was too much for her, it over powered her

[@rosallumetta2864]

Totally agree with the mom!

[@leahshaw1447]

I've already voiced my negative opinion about Pnina designs. Who the heck decides who is an elite designer? Big prices don't mean good taste. But you have to go with what the bride wants. It's their day.

[@kenazfehu7176]

I didn’t like any of them. Good thing I’m not involved!

[@jeswainston]

Daughter was a Carnival dress and Mom wants a normal dress.

[@juliannawellington5775]

Totally agree with mom on this one.

[@noxaccio4988]

that dress is hideous

[@MrsBrit1]

Most Pnina dresses are....ugly, gaudy, tacky, and overpriced.

[@ToLoveIsToLive89]

Pnina’s dresses always look like they belong on a Vegas show girl.

[@ladyjustice1474]

​@@ToLoveIsToLive89 Vegas show girls generally have better taste.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@MrsBrit1I was about to say that!

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@ToLoveIsToLive89Yup and a number of them look like nightgowns and lingeries.

[@peggyjoek]

The mother was right 🙈

[@joralemonvirgincreche]

I respect the mother for sticking to her guns. She's allowed to have an opinion and a taste. She got overruled but she was gracious about being overruled.

[@mariamartinusz9699]

Can we just stop for a second and appreciate the beauty and class of the 2nd dress?

[@creepycrawlers6950]

yes it was classy and gorgeous!

[@shawnianzano5113]

NO!!! 😳🤯

[@eeriecraft1797]

honestly, all the dresses were kind of ugly, but the bride liked the first one.

[@hannah1948]

I thought the second dress was really boring.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@eeriecraft1797I thought they were all ugly.

[@Nympho4Hire]

"Everyone will look at her and say "my goodness Bernadette has such elegant and good taste, and you know, look at her daughter."" Nice motivation right there. Even if that's the way you really feel, one could attempt to frame it in a manner that's not dripping with narcissism.

[@graphiquejack]

lol.. the pom poms on the front. Seriously? Not to mention the duvet wrapped around her waist.

[@catzenhouse]

Like a '57 Chevy. Pom Poms?

[@niman00]

I have to admit i don't like the dress, but, it's her day... congrats.

[@figmo397]

I'm glad the bride stood up to her mother. You could see the difference in her face and body language when she wore the more understated dresses. She'd have forever regretted it if she'd worn her mother's choice of gown.

[@maryannfelice148]

Though it isn't my preference in bridal gowns, it the right dress for this bride. When we look at some of the gowns Pnina makes, as well as some other designers, with a lot of skin showing, Mom should be glad her daughter wasn't attracted to them! Grandma was right.

[@bunnyslippers191]

That's a good point. At least the dress isn't see through like so many Pnina dresses. As for "plain and boring," that second dress seemed pretty "complicated" to me and the dress she chose would be my nightmare. It has so many different elements it's like noise to the ears, but for the eyes. It's overwhelming, but that's me. To her it's perfect and it's her wedding.

[@gabygaby5701]

Not really… you could barely see the bride in all that fabric

[@moniqueengleman873]

That is why I loved Paris Hilton dress. It was so classy

[@l.alexandra5871]

I’m shocked that the daughter thought the second gown was plain and boring. It was gorgeous. He had enough bling, it was a gorgeous silk/satin and the pick-ups were done really well. The first gown is a monstrosity.

[@mariesmith1616]

But it’s up to the brides taste.

[@metime4325]

She brought them there for their opinion. And she's complaining that they are giving her opinions. She just want them to pay.

[@equalityforall5620]

Randy has such good communication skills. I wish I could be like that. He is so good at saying what is true for him, while understanding where other people are coming from and being able to express it.

[@staceyadair5758]

As the mother of a gen-z young lady, all I want is for her to be incredibly loved, cared for, supported and protected by her man. The dress is a thing worn in a moment of life. The marriage is the most important part of the wedding

[@jeswainston]

Still not the right dress with #3, I don’t think any of the dresses suit her.

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

Yeah, it was getting closer as they went, but still not spectacular. I would have put her in something more form fitting to flatter her petite frame. A simple silhouette to please mom, but the fabric could be a beaded lace to please the bride. Idk, I guess the consultants mainly just want that commission, if a bride is ready to drop almost $8k on a Pnina dress, they won't stop her no matter how bad it looks.

[@lisas8080]

As soon as heard ‘Pnina’, I knew it was going to be a doozy. Her prices are Saks, design and quality is SHEIN.

[@chocoalmondfudge]

Quality is SHEIN lol

[@MauiBodyworker]

😂

[@kateyare4708]

The bride is an over-the-top and in-your-face type of personality, and that dress suits her personality to a tee. She won't change her personality and she will still love that dress on her 25th wedding anniversary.

[@suzannek3493]

RIGHT ON !!

[@MauiBodyworker]

Yep.

[@jeswainston]

that dress that she chose … well, I’m not a PT fan, her dresses are far too over the top and I just don’t get it. If I wanted a costume, I’d have a costume designer do it.

[@Nina01.]

Not a PT fan, but just to point out that you are not her target client 😮

[@jeswainston]

@@Nina01. so? What’s your point? To argue with me? Bye!

[@angeltears2586]

I fall in love with the dresses that's behind the people speaking everytime!! They're só beautiful!! 🤍🪽

[@angelacohen4531]

As soon as they put a veil on, the dress is magically perfect lol

[@BruinPhD2009]

The power of the veil compels you!

[@Jerseygal30]

It was a horrible veil, though. I prefer Cathedral veils.

[@kateyare4708]

And she will be wearing the veil when she wears the overskirt, so it works for everybody.

[@sianwickenden8692]

"I've been waiting for this my whole life" She's 24 !! Calm down

[@b.walker5955]

Trusting she nixes the over skirt. The actual dress portion, looked great on her figure...not a fan that design either, but if you remove the fluff you can see an actual wedding dress shape. NIX THE OVER SKIRT. For MOM! Meet us all in the middle. *Use the skirt for the cake table tablecloth. WIN WIN save on catering expense.

[@EmuInDenial]

The mother reminds me of Fran Drescher now that she's older. The skin tone, the hair colour, the smile and even the voice. 😮

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

I really don't like Pnina Tornai dresses. So tasteless.

[@kathleenpapaleo253]

"But that's not my daughter!" 😊😊😊😊

[@JustMeVanessa]

I agree with the mum 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@betsydaly1284]

Fits her like a glove, though

[@saintjuice11]

Man to hear the comments at the wedding lol.

[@jamiestarpsh]

Im pretty sure this is an old episode 10+ years ago, I wonder what she feels about her wedding dress after looking back 🫣😀

[@TightyWhiteyTrash]

*I’m actually shocked Randy didn’t take the bride’s side* Even her Nona just wanted her granddaughter to be happy & let the bride wear what she wanted to wear 🙈

[@angelica8000]

Maybe it's because that dress is hideous

[@melrobertson2743]

Maybe he wants the focus on the bride and that dress would be all about the dress

[@sportsscience3]

Am I the only one that likes the dress she picked? I think it looks great on her and she's so happy in it!

[@suzannek3493]

ME TOO

[@mariesmith1616]

Me too.

[@jeniferclemente1252]

Mother knows best. The Pnina dresses are always costume-y and they tend to wear the bride rather than the other way around. The silhouette was nice on her but the design is like the glitter and flowers exploded onto the dress. A lot of unnecessary details thrown on it…like Pnina doesn’t know when to stop detailing her dresses. 🤦‍♀️

[@christinae5820]

It's always a matter of taste. Everybody likes different styles! I personally don't like many Pnina Tornai dresses, and even this one not in all parts. But I find it really special and made for this bride's beautiful figure. I'm really really she chose it despite of it all. She wears it beautifully, and am positive she will like her wedding photos even after many decades ⚜ The other two dresses were so dull.🤦‍♀️ I'm so glad she took the first one.

[@mariesmith1616]

Kudos to this beautiful bride that knew how she wanted to look on her day.

[@Rodmic-hd9pn]

It’s gaudy

[@mydearvalerie]

My daughters picked what they loved and I loved it with them.

[@alexr4151]

"I want it to look classy, but that's not her." Jesus, Mom, you just couldn't keep that nugget to yourself? 🤐

[@JC-xu1cz]

I like that her Grandma stepped in to remind her mother that it was the bride's dress.

[@MLMLW]

Exactly mom. It's not about you, it's about your daughter and what makes her feel the most beautiful despite what others think. Even though the overskirt is a bit much it's only going to be worn for the ceremony. She's taking the overskirt off for the reception and the dress underneath suits her well.

[@Crystal_Blue_Persuasion]

Im 68, but if I were to ever get married again, I would want to have Randy design the dress.

[@avacadotoast5492]

When I was a kid i would watch this show all the time and was convinced that someday I would want a Panina Tornay dress. But NOW as an adult i can't believe how tacky and cheap her dresses look. And the price is such a rip off.

[@carnationemerald]

@avacadotoast5492 Pinina Tornei is more about sexual dresses than dresses appropriate for weddings.

[@RoseTurner-lj5yc]

Everyone forgets it’s all about the bride, not them!

[@beesknees213]

Put the dress in storage after the wedding and work on staying married until DEATH do us part.

[@staceytoda2756]

The bride is the one wearing it, her opinion is the one that matters.

[@MrDoodlebug68018]

Wish we'd see more mom's realize that neither the dress their daughter's choose or the wedding day isn't about them it's their daughter's day not theirs!

[@brendafrazier811]

I don’t think she meant to take away from her daughter’s day. She just truly didn’t like the dress and didn’t think she looked her best in it. If the daughter didn’t want her opinion then she should have gone shopping by herself.

[@Marielysmarie]

I agree with the mother .... I didn't like the dress either... It didn't suit her 😢

[@maryearll3359]

I love Randy 😂❤

[@jeswainston]

Not a fan of dress #2 either…

[@rebeccaernette1749]

The bride likes it, it's her dress, she's wearing it. Grandma's right

[@vismaya3706]

I totally understand the bride, I am a person too who loves so much going on kinda dresses. i think it looks fabulous on her.😍

[@Myr25636]

Tornai was having a bad day or perhaps a hangover when she designed that dress.

[@serahloeffelroberts9901]

Everyone has an off day sometimes.

[@dy9278]

Lovely couple. You are correct dapper Randy!

[@lunabelletheinsane]

I gotta say, it doesn't happen often, but this was one of those times where I really disliked what the bride chose. That dress only looked good on her because she was beautiful already, but she wasn't wearing the dress - it was wearing her. I almost always have a "Wow" moment when they walk out in the one - and I didn't get that with any of the dresses she had on.

[@cremebrulee4759]

It's wonderful that her mother let her have the dress she wanted. Too many mothers think their opinion is more important than the bride's, and it isn't. It the bride's day. I agree that the dress looked cheap and was overwhelming for her petite frame.

[@SomewhereInTheMaidenverse]

That dress is awful!

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I agree and most of Pnina’s dresses are awful.

[@serahloeffelroberts9901]

At least this one doesn't have see through panels.

[@nickys855]

Awww I like it you can wear such a dress when you are a real beauty and young her face is glowing in it .... ♥its all about love ♥

[@rachelwarneck2443]

Randy bout to hire that grandma 😂

[@sharonrossow5423]

She looked beautiful in all the dresses.

[@ErinRogoff]

Whatever wedding dress my sweet baby sister would want, big sister will buy her! 💜

[@terrib627]

Oh, you poor people who think this Pnina dress is bad. This video is from YEARS AGO. Try searching for Pnina's 2024 collection and you'll have something to be shocked about. She's really not giving up on the wedding night as a wedding dress look + she's got some weird pointy shoulder pad thing going on now. It's ghastly.

[@natjaschon]

Believe it or not, fashion is not the same as "good taste". Two different concepts.

[@alanaw27]

I saw this episode years ago and it’s my favourite As a mother of two brides, I know the stress of dress buying and trying to be positive about the bride’s choices. I hope the wedding was fun for all and that the couple have a happy, over the top life.

[@mariesmith1616]

Great comment. That’s the way it should be.

[@mfb6310]

You did good Mom, and grandma loves both of you but also says Go For It!! Love so you can Live a Good Life!

[@elli2387]

SO ADORABLE BABY. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@denise5169]

Bride you are beautiful and its a beautiful dress. Have fun you only get to wear it one day. As for Randy, not many dresses stand the test of time or we’d all be wearing the same dresses. I loved my dress when I wore it but I wouldn’t choose it now. Its for who you are at this time in your life.

[@brendasunio4337]

I would of told my daughter it was ugly too! But! If that's what she wanted, then I would agree to it, its her day, she will be wearing the dress, and that makes her happy. I don't have to happy with the dress, just happy for her😊

[@sshms414]

I can imagine mum on the big day handing out a disclaimer saying she didnt like thee dress and its not her taste

[@CoffeeSandwich]

Sarah is a great consultant

[@harmonarmon]

As long as the bride picks out the perfect groom - the dress is - not important.

[@patriciamoreno5733]

Good choice it's a beautiful original dress.

[@Aliz56]

I love her dress on her!! ❤

[@1000secondhandrose]

mother was smiling even though she couldnt see without herglasses

[@wickandde]

That second dress was lovely, that first dress is hideous 😅

[@shawnianzano5113]

I can't believe everyone is slamming that dress!!! Especially that mother was SO rude and unkind to her and on national tv!!!! 👎 Does everyone just block out that she's only wearing the 'puffy' skirt for the ceremony!!! It's coming off after that, for the reception and or anytime she wants if she changes her mind!!! The actual dress is stunning and she looks amazing in it!!! 👍👏👏 Get a grip people!!!

[@sshms414]

Mother is too invested let her daughter choose

[@mariaking6384]

This video is from several years back. I hope the mother chose her own dress. Bet she got the compliments.

[@liznicolas272]

2:24 so we're not going to trust your consultant lol

[@graphiquejack]

She wants Pinina, the mother wants good taste. I can already tell they won’t agree on a dress. 🤣

[@wcrdcrows6191]

Why does everyone fawn over Pnina? She seems nice enough but maybe one of her designs is nice. The rest are simply hideous and beyond overpriced

[@lauraaustin1998]

I loved Grandma.

[@inavanniekerk1115]

Thanks!