Recent Divorce Makes Mother Feel Left Out Of Daughters Dress Shopping | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

[@KaitlynOxfordTV]

Mom did NOT ruin the moment. She felt left out. Like she said, she left the dad, no her daughter. Her daughter was butthurt about the separation and shut her mom out.

[@dietotaku]

not at all how i see it, not at all how it happened in my case either. mom will say shit like "i left your dad, not you" but doesn't actually DO anything to back that up. no shit daughter got sick of it and turned to her new family for the support she should've been getting from mom all along.

[@diamondcrystal9308]

Exactly, why can't ppl understand that, and the fact that the mom was trying to brush it off as nothing clearly shows just how much love she has for her daughter and MIL should have respect if she wants it

[@poponachtschnecke]

Yeah, it really hurt to hear the consultant say that. Terrible script/editing of that part of this episode.

[@muhammadmota6141]

@@dietotaku She said that she tried to call her daughter and keep in touch but her daughter kept pushing her away so your point isn’t that credible.

[@paulinawinter8188]

@@dietotaku this weeb again???

[@SoMJenn]

Not gonna lie, I feel kind of bad for mom.

[@kaynovo8043]

Me too

[@jewelysimmons8451]

Same here I almost cried

[@angrydonutface7420]

It seems like they have a complicated backstory. Maybe the daughter has good reasons for not involving her mom more, but I also felt for the mother. At least she came around in the end.

[@AFAskygoddess]

Having had a mother from he11, I think that there's probably a really good reason the bride has turned to her future mil for support.

[@jemma-joon]

@@AFAskygoddess or maybe the girl is childish and doesnt want to accept her mum's choice of separation and wants a way to get back at her. Her behaviour and smirky smile in this video when the mum was hurt was really condescending,

[@Lidyyboo]

No. The mom didn't ruin anything. She had every right to be hurt. Both the daughter and the step mom were the ones in the wrong. My heart shattered for her 💔

[@fizayufauzi7442]

I completely agree. The daughter just replaced her bio mom with her step mom. The feeling of just kicking your real mom, who raised you, it really is a slap in the face.

[@tejaswinipeeta294]

She's not step mom she's future mother in law

[@Babydux]

@@tejaswinipeeta294 Even worse.

[@mariesmith1616]

The girl is closer to her father and even her future mother in law. Mom has not even been in the bride’s life or help her to plan the wedding. Just because she has the title of mother doesn’t mean the poor bride has to chose her choice.

[@kecym.4808]

"that's not her okay face" "what's wrong?" *you broke her heart*

[@TheDennyWoman]

Daughter is waaaaaay too immature to be married.

[@cosmosadorabilis7677]

How though? She has every right to not like the dress, it's not about her, it's about her daughter.

[@killjoyer]

@@cosmosadorabilis7677 it’s not that she doesn’t like the dress, she doesn’t like the feeling of being snubbed by her own daughter in her big moment.

[@cosmosadorabilis7677]

@@killjoyer I don't believe the child was snubbing her. I feel the mother was making it all about her own feelings.

[@Emiko-x8s]

@@cosmosadorabilis7677 No

[@foodie7146]

"I'm your mom, that should be our moment" that is just so sad. They shouldn't have invited her in the first place if they're not going to respect her opinion.

[@dietotaku]

then she should have made even the slightest effort to understand her daughter's taste in dresses.

[@poponachtschnecke]

@@dietotaku You certainly seem to have an axe to grind. Is this your family? The bride seemed to make comments that were unnecessarily hurtful to the mom. From my own personal history, this reminds me of a situation of grooming before abuse. This bride is coming from a broken home, and the MIL is love bombing her, and also being catty and rude to the mother to further distance the bride from her family. I would not be surprised if the husband turned out to be an abuser in this situation.

[@TinaShmina]

“I don’t even know why I’m here.” That hurt too

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@@TinaShmina yup

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@Truth Seeker I wearing a jumpsuit I made on my own

[@pamelak.8064]

As a mother of a recent bride, I was so offended by the way this mother was so disrespected and shut out of such a timeless tradition of for mothers and daughters. Dad shouldn't even have been there. Mother-in-law is a manipulative witch.

[@nikkidodd2305]

Amen, very well said!!

[@jenniferbond7073]

If you read between the lines, the daughter lives with her day and close. The bride says that she had not been involved with the wedding till this appointment. The MIL had been helping the bride and knew what dresses she liked. I think the MIL is getting a bad wrap. This is coming from a daughter with a mother mother that was a complete narcissistic.

[@proudpatriot6567]

I'm pissed they are saying mom ruined the moment. She didn't ruin anything, she tried to be there for her daughter she kept quiet so her daughter could have her moment. The mother tried and everyone ostracized her.

[@Lulbaby.b1]

I can agree on this

[@rebeckahcamden4461]

100% agree

[@legacypeterson1808]

Absolutely.

[@hedagabriel5935]

yes exactly what im saying.That makes mom sound bitter when its not the case.the daughter was mad at mum for leaving dad and so she purposely chose her dress with new stepmom knowing mum would be upset..all to get a reaction and her attention.bottom line is,it wasnt really about the dress..they were upset at each other..still unresolved issues.im glad they working through it though.

[@hedagabriel5935]

🤔This comment has 972 likes; well atleast some of us are openminded enough and can see things for what they truely are...we are wise enough to know that in life things are not always what they appear!🤷🏽‍♀️💯😉

[@shalomjackie192]

The mum wasn’t causing drama she clearly didn’t want to say anything but the daughter pressured her into having to say why she looked sad

[@mamasheloves]

that is the very basic of it ...you have a lot to learn in emotional dynamics...the mum was in an impossible position as th ML was immature and should have supported the daughter and for he not to take the mothers role in such a silly childish manner....was the mother to see this and not have feelings she needed some time to speak with her daughter and then the TV crew went in an said she ruined it THIS IS TERRIBLE!!!

[@torchjenkins6158]

Omg….right!!!! She tried to say nothing was wrong but they kept asking her and asking her.

[@brookemahan8063]

How are they going to all repeatedly ask the mom what’s wrong, even after she said “nothing” and she was fine, and then accuse her of “ruining the moment” wtf. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@megangibeau4290]

The biggest comment was "I left your Dad, I didn't leave you" Seems the daughter living in the Dad's house has influenced her, whether she wants to admit that or not.

[@leedle2ly555]

Or or the mom is actually a toxic person and we don’t know what goes on behind close doors?

[@jhoxcelysg]

@@leedle2ly555 this. We don't know. From everybody's comments I thought she insulted her mom or something. She just didn't like her pick cause it was nothing like what she said she wanted. And the mom acted as if her daughter liking someone else's pick (cause they actually listened to what she was looking for), was a direct attack against her

[@xxfiredragonxx7771]

@@jhoxcelysg not necessarily, she felt like she was getting replaced by a woman that isn’t even her mom. Personally I believe that was a bitchy move from the daughter

[@Relvoided]

@@jhoxcelysg I’m pretty sure she didn’t like it because it was chosen by her daughter and MIL instead of her and her daughter so she feels left out but idk

[@carolyncoulter4116]

It was the place of Mother in law to shut up and back off. She should have talked with the Mom.

[@Sesshomaus1fangirl]

I absolutely hated how they tried to make the mother seem as if she was in the wrong. The mother didn't even say anything it was the CONSULTANT you brought up her face looking upset, and even then the mother still tired to deflect and say "I'm fine, nothing is wrong, I'm okay". The mother didn't say anything negative at ALL, if anything, everyone else was being negative to her and dismissive of her feelings ESPECIALLY the daughter

[@vaishnavik121]

Chill guys .. its a scripted show ... n btw how can they have a private moment with cameras in a dressing room

[@diamondcrystal9308]

Exactly it was bad

[@MilA-eh3gf]

@FAKOKTA Exactly, I was internally screaming "she said nothing is wrong she's supporting your choice even though it's tough for her, so leave her alone why keep pushing???" As for why she kept pushing... I thought the *best* case scenario is that she just has/had low emotional intelligence to not being able to pick up on her mum's reason of frustration and wanted everything to be spelt out for her. She was only 19! Gosh.

[@nivedNnethan]

True!! I was like WT if my daughter do this to me.. can I live with it...

[@kimdaniel5511]

Exactly. You can tell she is a daddy’s girl and mad at her mom for leaving him, but she needs to understand her mom is not obligated to be with a man she doesn’t love anymore. And like her mom said I left him not you. I feel like she wanted to punish her mom. Smh

[@lauriedengel7988]

I really feel for this mum. Compared to how poorly some of the other mums have behaved on this show, she was the epiotmy of dignity and grace. If the daughter knew her well enough to recognise that wasn't 'her ok face', she should have known that when mum said 'I'm ok', drop it kid and back off. The look on the daughters face while she was pushing for an answer was unbelievable, that child knew exactly what she was doing.

[@onan.o2308]

im so sorry that the mom did not feel included, she already is going through the divorce and that's tough but she still wanted her daughter to get the family moment and she came along, I respect that.

[@diamondcrystal9308]

Yes that is something to respect her for

[@cherryriley5014]

Exactly but mom told her the situation she didn't left her and go just so it's just a few months and the mother in law take because of what the daughter said to them shame on her if it was me I would not go to see her in the dress or married it look like the mother in law have alot in her life which should not happen 75 /25

[@Yasin_2312]

When the mum said “I’m ok” in such a broken tone, it actually hit me.

[@laceyrodriguez7269]

Me too. I wanted to give her a hug :(

[@monal3544]

True, she crearly didn't want to talk about how hurt she is in front of everyone...and the daughter just smiles and told her like 5 times "Tell me, tell me" 🙄🙄

[@smritisings97]

@@monal3544 That's how I knew that this teenager isn't ready to get married.

[@snowbird1381]

Ugh I hope this is fake and they’re just reaching for drama.

[@sunriselove5421]

@@smritisings97 Amen!

[@partywithkrissy]

The mother in law instigated that and she was proud of it. I’m team mom here.

[@colleennikstenas4921]

Mom didn't ruin it. Why did they invite her if they were going to leave her out of the process except to mock her choice?

[@austinuttilie5328]

Thank you! Why invite her if you're going to make her feel invisible and treat her like she doesn't matter. The bride and the MIL literally came in with photos but they didnt communicate with the Mom what they were looking at or what they were looking for? If the mother daughter relationship is that strained why bring your mom along?

[@BasicYTHandle]

@@austinuttilie5328 Why wasn't Mom included in advance. She could have been with the bride & MIL while looking online - even remotely, if they don't live close to one another.

[@PunkRockDiva1979]

i agree 100%

[@dietotaku]

if she's anything like my mom, she would have been even more insulted to be left at home and thrown an even bigger tantrum. i left my mom out of a lot of the decision-making in my wedding because when i tried to include her, she just wanted me to follow her orders and made fun of MY choices - at one point she asked if she should come to the wedding in a costume because i picked a date 3 days from halloween (due to my preferred date being unavailable). i had already decided on a dress when i took her with me to try it on so there wasn't anything for her to say about it, but you can bet your ass i would have heard no end to it if i'd gone alone (or, god forbid, actually taken my fiance with me). as far as mocking the mom's choice, there wouldn't have been anything to mock if she knew the slightest thing about what her daughter liked. mom failed to keep the lines of communication open, failed to make her daughter feel like she was a safe place to come to for input, and then blamed the daughter for getting that support somewhere else.

[@pippiecarr9378]

Because she wanted to hurt her.

[@dancintoessbbygirl]

"The dress has nothing to do with me, I don't even know why I am here"... that broke me, she felt so completely left out 😥

[@gugurama9777]

In that age and as the mother of a 19 yo bride and in such an occasion, to have this perception&stance tells the mom has some poblems with her self.. she cannot drive herself it seems, which is one of the basic problems in human relations..

[@5footrunt]

It seemed to me that the girl knew she was hurting her mother. She looked gleeful when asking her mother whats wrong. She would know what her face would look like after living with her all her life. She humiliated her mother and that is so low on so many levels.

[@milliejay1451]

Her mother looks like she’s going to burst into tears. I feel so sorry for her.

[@ilovejadenyuki]

I agree. The part in the dressing room with Joshula was disgusting. She’s trying to explain how she feels and the bride’s so rude

[@kimberlythermond7993]

She really does.

[@kimberlythermond7993]

@@ilovejadenyuki Her daughter seems angry with her mother for leaving her father. She's childish.

[@babyvietlove]

It frustrated me how the bride invited her mom to go dress shopping but didn’t communicate what she even wanted in a dress? And when her mom picked a dress, she basically ridiculed it and complained that her mom didn’t even pick a dress with lace... but it’s like?? Did you even tell her you wanted lace? From the video, it didn’t feel like she was being fair to her mom and didn’t really try to include her beyond just inviting her. I’m not surprised the mom felt upset if she was being isolated the whole appointment.

[@dietotaku]

i'm sure she would have if mom had actually been willing to listen. from my experience with a mom like that, though, she didn't want to hear what her daughter wanted unless it was "yes mommy whatever you say, you know best." so big surprise, daughter gave up and turned to FMIL for support instead.

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@@dietotaku OK what's your problem, I've seen all your comments so far and its total bs the mom is the victim here not the bride or anyone else she wasn't included and was getting bashed in the wall for her choice to divorce, like are you blind or just heartless tell me like really tell me now?

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@Leonie thanks I just got tired of reading those bs comments uk

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@Leonie Sometimes the mom knows what's best and she just wants to protect you, some kids just too emotional and don't want to grow up, if anything fathers are worst

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@Leonie not like that, and most fathersake the moms do things or the moms do things to protect you from the father, my dad is just another level of on need of help but not all fathers just some

[@destineewiles5439]

Coming from a young girl who lost her mom at 9 from cancer, the way she treated her mom breaks my heart. I would give anything to have that time with my mom no matter what.

[@kellylyncottrell6191]

I feel you. I lost my mom 6 years ago and my dad 4 months ago. I would give anything for them to be at my bridal appointment in a few days.

[@disaffectednarcmagnet2305]

So no one is going to comment on mother in laws tone or tactlessness? She smug as 😒

[@diamondcrystal9308]

To me it seems she is the one who started the drama caz she seems to know something

[@mamasheloves]

yep

[@christinerenney4657]

@FAKOKTA which one?

[@laloochie4783]

Exactly! For her to say “that was a bad pick” to the mother’s dress that she picked was a bitchy catty thing to say! I deal with this shit a lot with my daughter and stepmom!

[@kaitlynbentley7623]

Mom did NOT ruin her moment! The bride and mother in law are low key acting like catty high school girls toward the mom and I feel so bad for her

[@fridaytax]

Agree, the correct description would be the “orchestrated daughter/MIL mean girl slap down on the mother of the bride” ruined the moment. Daughter could not resist punishing her mother as part of the dress buying.

[@munaomari5490]

Yeah exactly

[@samaeldeul572]

Yup

[@sunshinem.7741]

Part of it could be that the bride is barely out of high school. She might not even understand what she was doing and her parents split had made her resentful. I seriously don't agree with young marriages like this for many reasons, including lack of emotional maturity. This doesn't even account for crappy timing. If she and her fiance are confident in their relationship, someone could have said "listen, it's a hard time for the family so let's put a pin in wedding planning for now" but of course neither of them thought to do that because they're barely adults..

[@lianaburless1835]

Agree

[@amm6569]

Out of the (hundreds) of SYTTD episodes I've seen, this was hands down the most heartbreaking one. Forget squabbling bridesmaids and explosive fiancés, this is truly the saddest episode ever. It's clear mom is hurting, and the MIL is not only not respecting the relationship between mom and bride, but acting like a childish junior high kid excited that she's replaced the "best friend." Mom really tried to rein her emotions in when her daughter kept asking her what was wrong, so I find it totally rude, unacceptable, and unfair for Flo to tell Monte & Lori that mom "ruined her moment" - no she didn't - she only broke down once they were pulled aside privately. If the parents have only "recently" separated and dad already has a new wife, I imagine that MIL has been around longer than when they got separated, and is possibly the one he left the mom for. A truly tragic moment for mom, not made easier by her immature daughter who has a total lack of understanding & empathy for what mom's going through.

[@barbaral743]

She's the groom's mother, not Dad's new wife

[@SarahKDB]

She could be both?

[@susankraft77]

It's obvious that the relationships in that family are fractured. I don't know what's happened between the mother and daughter, but this whole thing felt like an attack on the mom. The MIL was eating it up, too. Ugh.

[@ElenaV.1314]

Yes. I'm glad I'm not the only one that thought that about the MIL. I got the feeling that if it had been the MIL and SIL in that same situation, the MIL would have caused way more drama than they had. I feel like maybe the MIL's influence goes way beyond the dress. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@dietotaku]

man y'all are projecting hard on MIL. i don't see anything but a self-absorbed mom gaslighting and DARVOing all over the place and MIL doing her best to stand in as the bride's support system.

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@@ElenaV.1314 Yes I agree with that man, she should have thought of how the mom felt and how she would feel to be in that situation I mean she has a daughter too

[@dipitickner1927]

@@dietotaku I am so glad you are not my daughter.

[@kitty62862]

That was the strange part. I had to remind myself that she’s the Groom’s mom, when she was acting spiteful, as if she was Daddy’s girlfriend.

[@misjuiceefroot]

“The last 2 months you haven’t been here...” Seriously, she raised you your entire life. 2 months. The daughter is too old to be this immature.

[@zohabaig6426]

It’s not about being old. Based on the way her mom said “I left your daddy I didn’t leave you” she very obviously feels like mom instigated the divorce. Divorce is really painful on the kids and it’s that pain that’s making her lash out like this. I hope she apologized later for her poor behavior

[@byamu8040]

She’s 19 💀

[@janshe3597]

@@zohabaig6426 oh I’m pretty, sure she is not, going to apologize to her Mother. Her overbearing, disgusting, mother in law will see to it. Unbelievable behaviour coming from these two people who are supposed to be a adults, smh…🤮.

[@ginay4878]

And MIL is all to happy to step in too quickly

[@Firehairfam]

True that! Two months is nothing

[@bangtanaddict4145]

For the mother to try and put on a brave face, and sit there telling everyone she was okay when clearly she was holding back tears. She didn’t want to steal the moment from her daughter by rambling on about her own feelings. She wasn’t mad, she was hurt, left out. And that feeling sucks, it’s pulling at ones heart-strings, and I feel bad for the mom. I really do.

[@jemma-joon]

Something about MIL not giving off a good vibe. Feels like she's there to act like 'im the better one'... should've stayed at home

[@betylovesmay]

i dont think so... the mother-in-law seem to be nice... se wasn't rude to anybody... we don't know what is going on in the mother-daughter relationship... in my point of view, i think that the mother-in-law was more mother for the girl then her biological mother... who knows if she was really interested in spending some time with her daughter when she got divorced...

[@austinuttilie5328]

She literally told the mom that her pick was horrible. The MIL definitely wants to be better and take the mom's place.

[@YouTubeReady]

@@austinuttilie5328 cuz it was...

[@dietotaku]

MIL's there to actually support the bride, she's basically had to be the bride's surrogate mom while mom was off getting spray tans and doing crossfit or whatever the hell. i could see MIL didn't want to bring up the fact that she had picked out that dress because it was just going to rub it in that she knew her DIL's tastes and had a better relationship than mom did, but mom wasn't gonna let it drop.

[@sha9392]

@@dietotaku you don’t know anything about her mother. And your judging her by her stay tan?

[@alexandrasellsseashells]

I hope the girl in this episode sees these comments and realizes how awful she treated her mother during this appointment. Her mom takes a break from the stressors of life for 2 months, communicates as often as she can allow herself, out of who knows how many years of her life, after getting a divorce and she acts like her mother abandoned her in one of her mother’s greatest times of need? Get a grip. That woman felt embarrassment and was very clearly hurting. All I wanted to do was give her a hug the entire time. 🥺🥺🥺

[@mimib8032]

Same. I felt so bad for the mom, because the other three were simply awful.

[@jenson8432]

Absolutely.

[@naomireid3429]

Gosh glad you said that as they way they are behaving is like the mom left her as a baby and she was raised by her dad!!! Shes a grown girl, 2 months is hardly anything in the grand scheme of things to an adult.

[@danikaesquivel6369]

Same here!

[@laceyrodriguez7269]

Same! My heart broke for her! 💔😭

[@amberwilliams8149]

She should absolutely feel guilty for mistreating her mother. She left her dad, not her!!!!

[@emilytrace3670]

It is unfair of the consultant to say say the mom "ruined" the bride's moment. She was clearly trying her hardest to keep her face neutral with understandable feelings inside. Divorce is very hard; we don't know why the mother needed to take that space. I hope they can repair their relationship as the years go on.

[@tracykimulettesabb902]

I hope Monty and Laura looks back at this video and see that flow was not encouraging at all and realize Flo was in the wrong for stating the fact that the mom ruined this girl's day and it's clearly not the mother who ruined the day the daughter her father and her mother-in-law are the Three Musketeers in this situation I believe she invited her mother to intentionally humiliate her

[@kalonmontgomery8213]

Flo was definitely in the wrong for saying mom "ruined" the moment. Don't involve mom and then say she ruined a moment. She's been ostricized by her daughter for two months.

[@nikkidodd2305]

Yeah, flo should be publicly humiliated AND fired!!

[@Nur-dh1ju]

Mum ruined her moment ? So the mothers feeling don’t matter Her daughter won’t know how her mother felt till one day she has a daughter. The Mother-in-law should of let the mother and daughter have their moment.

[@cassidy435]

If it was that the mum hated the dress maybe her feelings count but when it's based on who picked it. It's obvious there's something deeper going on there but the mum made it about her in a moment that should have been about the daughter.

[@Nur-dh1ju]

@@cassidy435 her mother from the time her daughter was born most probably dreamt of the moment of picking a wedding dress, you can understand why she wanted it to be between them both instead of her mother-in-law

[@Allymallymals]

She said her mom hasn't been involved in the planning til now. If she's not close with her mom she's not close with her mom. Not everyone has a good relationship with their mom.

[@aishagharib8886]

True true true true 100%

[@naystergirl247]

The daughter is old enough and clearly it showed that her daughter picked her father over her and didn’t consider her at all the daughter should of made an attempt to get her mother involved. The poor mother wasn’t valued at all and was dropped into something she was never even apart of which was clearly out of guilt for not including her but still hasn’t included her properly

[@amenevaeh]

mom didn’t ruin the moment she basically laughed in her mom face while she was crying her heart out explaining what’s wrong with her and she sat their and smiled , and why would you pick a dress out with your mother in law and show it to your mom thinking she wasn’t gonna feel left out , her mom was their … she didn’t call her mom or anything so she can’t say that !

[@tutorjulslee2357]

A real MIL would encourage a respectful relationship with her mother instead of acting like a jr high friend who is excited that she made the best friend spot.

[@dunniadanisher5017]

Completely my thoughts

[@irmarodriguez1390]

Exactly, the MIL loved to let the mother know how the daughter Preferred her instead of her own mother.

[@GameChanger597]

My thoughts exactly. You could literally see her gloating and rubbing it in! She was so catty and immature. Very disrespectful of her.

[@ModeneGunch1]

Exactly! MIL is immature, daughter is immature, and I'm going to guess that the groom is immature as well.

[@agathixyda9590]

true

[@shrgh1876]

So your mom leaves, you immediately replace her? How about giving your parents some time and space to heal from the split before asking them to jump in happily with your wedding plans.. bride comes across as selfish and childish

[@BarelyNoticeable]

She’s still 19, I can’t say I’m surprised

[@holbrookski]

I feel so bad for her mom. Bride and MIL truly treated her badly. I agree 100% with mom. I was thinking the same thing - why was she even there. Bride and MIL already picked out a dress.

[@Ms.Crazy0815]

When the mother said that she left her father but not her, look how silent the bride became. She really is pushing her out eventhough the mother is trying.

[@angelstar7656]

Flo contributed to the problems by calling out the Mom looking sad, and then blaming her for ruining her daughter's moment. That Mom did nothing wrong. That MIL seems like a snake and that girl is so immature, she has no business getting married low. And, Flo was totally off the mark.

[@jenniferjohnson8578]

Yea Flo has done several things in other episodes that has pissed me off..

[@diannasmith5297]

Flo usually does good but this time she goofed. The daughter is a beast brat same with the mother in law. Very disrespectful

[@smritisings97]

MIL is such a snake

[@GameChanger597]

In all honesty, the daughter's appointment is not the best time to hash things out so the mom could have waited but I agree the daughter egged her on and MIL is just as immature as the daughter.

[@tracykimulettesabb902]

I wholeheartedly agree with you slow contributed to the problem if I was Laura or Monty flow would have been pulled aside and flow would have been reprimanded

[@rachermione]

My heart goes out to her mom so much ❤ she was so respectful even when she was hurting

[@plainjane1897]

They're literally bullying the mom...why would they bring her there to bully her out of the appointment?...it's obvious that the daughter has some resentment towards her mom leaving her dad.

[@maryroberts9233]

The mil and the daughter were horrible . I think the girl only invited her Mom to make her miserable. If the mil is like that now, the bride end up paying for it later. The Mom shouldnt bother to go to the wedding. They will only use it as another opportunity to humiliate her. The assistant was totally unprofessional. When you see a bad situation, you shouldnt make it worse. The bride was just cruel.

[@kirish43]

The mother in the law needed to step back..she was flouting that it was her pick

[@tbaby0307]

You can tell that the bride is a Daddy’s Girl that is mad at her mother for leaving him. You actively involved the MIL and actively left your mother out. It’s fine to estrange yourself from a parent, but don’t play this childish game of “you left 2 months ago, I’m mad and want to punish/humiliate you”. And dad sitting there puffing his chest out and smirking as the mother is going through this shows why she left.

[@nailahvaughn3195]

This girl was so disrespectful I just feel bad

[@GatewayAreaParanormal]

That GIRL, and she IS a girl, is being mean to her mother intentionally. She’s taken sides in her parents split or she’s being pit against her mother by her father. Not right.

[@essiethehippiechild]

I get a feeling the mother-in-law has something to do with that too not just the father.

[@rachelwhitaker4081]

@@essiethehippiechild You're absolutely RIGHT!🎯💯💯😠😡😤🤔🙄😢😔🤦

[@rachelwhitaker4081]

🤔🙄Yep EXACTLY!!I agree!🎯💯💯💯😡😠😤🤦😔

[@denisepotter9611]

When it is all said and done she is going to need her mother when the mother-in-law get finished with her!! Cause she going to be all in their Marriage!!!

[@LA-fr4gp]

She's not being out against her mother by the father don't lie about that. She's being pit against her mother by the grooms mothers.

[@cheyannegarcia6040]

Yeah, two months is nothing. Mine was six and I was nasty to her as well. I was so wrong and now we are closer than ever! I learned that when I was much younger. She's just immature. When the momma teared up it made me think of how I made mine feel. It really hurt my soul. I hope she grew up.

[@syd7801]

I hope this little girl remembers that her MIL may not always be her bestie, especially if things don't go well with her son. But her mom is her mom forever.

[@emmyblue30]

Her mom is the ONLY person who will always have her back. That MIL is just a snotty brat like the bride.

[@joanneleddick4857]

She'll get what she DESERVES. Trust me I know from experience!

[@starzzzy22]

So, the bride and mother in law had looked at dresses online. How exactly was the mom supposed to know what the bride wanted if she hadn't seen any examples?

[@tejaswinipeeta294]

Being with her daughter for 18 years doesn't she have to know about her daughter's likes and dislikes??

[@AH-jk5cs]

My wedding dress taste at 16 years old was way different than my wedding dress taste while I was engaged 🤦‍♀️. And it’s not like the mom is ready to bust out some catalogues after going through a divorce, while the (evil) stepmom who just got married is all eager to show off the wedding photos. She has the most recent positive view of weddings, while the mom went through the reality check of marriage. Which imo is more important for newly engaged individuals to see

[@MOMOHEARTS]

@@tejaswinipeeta294 nope not everyone knows what their children is into hell I don't even know what I'm into half the time cause it changes. All my mom knows is I prefer certain colors when it comes to clothes and what type of shoes I like and that's it. The only time she learns more is when we actually go out together on shopping trips or just strolling through shopping centers.

[@Debbie32352]

This actually happened to me. A long story; my daughter lived in San Diego, us here in Northern Cal. She visited and we went dress shopping to look for bridesmaids dresses. There wasn't an appointment to look at dresses. We ended up going to 2 places; the latter was closing for a 3-day holiday. Bridesmaids were able to select their dresses at the first shop. She went back to SoCal only to find a dress with her mother-in-law. When I asked her about it she said, "we were just walking by the bridal shop and went in." I knew she she knew by now she needed an appointment when shopping for a bridal dress. I saw this video and shared it with her with comments of how I felt. She's been married 10+ years now...

[@pineappleonmars2187]

I usually really like Flo, but the “Mom completely ruined her moment” comment is completely unnecessary and will just escalate the situation further. The mom is clearly already upset because her daughter is replacing her - is it really the birth mom to blame here?

[@bettinaallen5782]

I haven't cared to watch Flo in this series. When I used to binge watch during the original seasons I saw her smile in brides faces then roll her eyes and complain about them behind their backs too many times.

[@cookiesaregoodtoeat6612]

She saw her commission walking away.

[@pineappleonmars2187]

@@bettinaallen5782 damn I didn’t know that

[@amandamarshall1485]

I hate to say it because I think she's the only POC consultant so I want to root for her, but she really gets on my nerves. She has unreasonable complaints about the brides and sometimes even says catty things to the whole group.

[@sachornabrissett2098]

Atleast someone gets what I'm saying and seeing.

[@jemma-joon]

Not clear whether the bride has grudges over the mum leaving, or the mum distanced herself from her daughter. The mum seems to really care for her daughter.

[@dietotaku]

narcissists are good at making it look like they care when they only really care about how it reflects on themselves.

[@diamondcrystal9308]

The daughter seemed to be very childish and butthurt over her parents split but her mom was trying, they even had a small convo and the daughter was just smiling while her mom was crying, bruh I'd cry if my mom cry thats one thing I hate

[@jemma-joon]

@@diamondcrystal9308 same, the moment i see her eyes getting red even because of a stupid show, i feel awful. There was nothing to smirk about with that lady

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@@jemma-joon and the MIL too ughhh like she has a daughter she wouldn't want someone to do that to her

[@nariaslitspace]

I think the daughter has a grudge for leaving.

[@forensicresearcher603]

The mom didn't ruin the moment for the bride to be. Divorce is extremely difficult without being emotionally punished by her daughter, the daughter's father, and the future mother in law. I truly hope that all of them will grow closer together and put the past behind them ~

[@kimberlyvinson9047]

She's too young to be marrying anyone right now. Maturity is not there, period.

[@somebody7070]

Exactly 👌 She still a spoiled brat How is she gonna handle arguments with her husband????

[@jaleciaconnell3100]

@@somebody7070 exactly he will make her want he mother in her life 24/7when reality starts to hit

[@somebody7070]

@@jaleciaconnell3100 yep yep yep I wish them a great life together but when and of she grows up she's gonna regret so much treating her mother like that but she won't be able to turn back time :/

[@jaleciaconnell3100]

@@somebody7070 I wish them the best too but God doesn't like when we disrespect our parents because she too will be a parent and that's the most trying some part of life and for her sake I hope the other woman stays by her side cause she has broken her mother's heart to the core that in its self is disrespectful

[@ModeneGunch1]

Completely agree.

[@JessicaRusu-d9d]

i feel so bad for the mum. the daughter completely disregarded her feelings. personally I see that behaviour as disgusting.

[@dietotaku]

maybe you should ask yourself why mom has earned herself a one-way ticket out of her daughter's life. there's nothing disgusting about refusing to let narcissists manipulate and abuse you.

[@diamondcrystal9308]

Same I can't even believe the never of those ppl, and the morther-in-law should have used her brain to think of how the mom would feel, I mean she has a daughter too

[@lindalester7878]

And so immature and hurtful

[@kimberley5592]

You don't know what truly is going on in this situation

[@cariepajat6142]

@@lindalester7878 definitely immature...after all she's only 19😬

[@physicalconfusion6715]

The mom deserved better she honestly did nothing wrong she ruined nothing her own daughter is like treating her disrespectfully I feel bad for her 😭🥺

[@Ghosting2024]

The mother in law knew what she was doing when she said is that the dress I picked out. She intentionally hurt her mom because she was the one to leave.

[@namratabose7199]

The MIL is giving major snake vibes.. she shud bridge the mother daughter gap not be a replacement momma!! I can never treat my mother that way🥺

[@ligasinica6109]

Exactly!! MIL could communicate with mother, give a hints, chose together, include her!!

[@Moomoo-oq8zk]

My jaw dropped when she said “ THT was a horrible pick!” While laughing

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@@Moomoo-oq8zk I'd have punched her yeah no one talks to my mom like that no matter what

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@@ligasinica6109 thats what I've been saying

[@Moomoo-oq8zk]

@@diamondcrystal9308 yeah exactly I would not have a good relationship with my MIL if she treated my own mom like that. She’s bitter about her mom leaving the house two months before but she’s super close with someone that hasn’t even been there for half her life

[@sabster79]

That conversation between mother and daughter should have been private. No dress consultant and definitely no cameras. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@sully2374]

She’s 19 she won’t know how much her mother will be a presence in her life until her mother in law takes her sons side when he’s in the wrong and she’s left alone. My mother passed away 5 years ago and I’ll have to go choose a dress without her it’s the most disheartening moment of my life that it hurts to think about and to see how much of a brat she’s being towards her mom hurts. You don’t appreciate your parents till they’re gone.

[@peacheskong2245]

ABSOLUTELY TRUE! That MIL is going to stab her in the back and she won't even know what hit her...

[@SI_Mariyama_Thomas]

I have a toxic parent and there isn't a moment were I wish I had the support and kindness her mom had given to her

[@crazyboy0826]

God bless you now, on your special day, and always sweetheart♡♡ I will go with you to find your perfect dress when the day comes!!

[@weltonvillegal6258]

Truth.

[@elizabethmcmahon161]

I agree..my mom died when I was 12. My aunt who was my only true connection to my mom died right before covid. My father's health is degrading rapidly. Now I'm 25 and getting married, I've cried so many times bc I can't do these things with my mom or dad and they can't be there to give me input/approval.

[@theluxuryoflife5076]

" mom completely ruin her moment " Unprofessional comment.

[@jennfritsche2300]

How dare the consultant blame the mother. I feel for her, especially when she said she left her dad, not the daughter. The consultant asking the mom if she was ok, was a bad move on productions part. They took that way too far

[@magdi7773]

Mother -in-law knew exactly what she was doing. Will prove herself a problem in the future!

[@rachelwhitaker4081]

EXACTLY!!I agree!!Smdh!🤦🤔🙄🎯💯💯😠😡😤Yeah!She going to regret this!

[@gab19guerin72]

Oh she gonna eat this decision. NO ONE has your back like your mother. That MIL will turn in her in a flash. Babygirl you are about to learn a life lesson. Both bride and MIL should have included mom in the online browsing.

[@sophiapierce2841]

Agreed

[@danikaesquivel6369]

If I was that MIL I would talk to her about including the mom and what the mom can be going through not sabotaging the appointment

[@felisatheiss6958]

She sure did and was way too happy while doing so. It was a nasty move, but the bride will see the true colors of her mother-in-law soon enough.

[@Somewhere-only-we-know]

For once I'm actually mad watching this. This mother did not ruin the moment, from the moment she walked into to the salon she just looked sad. My heart is breaking, how could she have ruined a moment when all she's done is try to be apart of the moment?? The consultants read her entirely wrong, I feel horrible for this poor woman who just wanted time with her daughter.

[@marysunshine2498]

Mom was treated terribly. She is a classy lady with dignity...... step -mom is a mean one.

[@eroslove1787]

It's mother in law actually But she's really immature and has a war mongering characteristic

[@bvnny1379]

I don't like how Flo said the mom ruined her moment. Here she is trying to express her feelings to her daughter, something they basically pushed her into doing and the daughter isn't even paying attention, instead putting all the blame on the mom like a CHILD. You are a grown woman. That is just so rude. Your mom should never feel left out. Both the bride and MIL disgust me. Edit: I also really didn't like how Flo kept putting the mom on the spot, chill out 😐

[@ninabobina2006]

I put a lot of the blame where I’d never expect to. Flo and Lori and Monte will usually pick up the reality in the situation and ease the tension. Mom didn’t want to make the decision for her daughter. She just wanted to feel that it mattered that she was there and not completely ostracized. Maybe they edited this video to death?

[@foreva4eva385]

I feel so bad for Mom. She didn't ruin her daughter's moment. That "I'm fine" ment "baby I love you and my feelings are hurt but I don't want to ruin this moment". 😥

[@dietotaku]

my god it's amazing how many people i see in the comments falling for mom's act! do you get duped by narc drama often? that "i'm fine" meant "please continue to fixate on my IRL vaguebooking and giving me the attention i crave because i lack the maturity to just say 'i'm sad that i don't know you as well as i thought i did but it's a beautiful dress and i just want you to be happy.'"

[@diamondcrystal9308]

Ikr I mean how can ppl be so blind and stupid to not see that

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@@dietotaku oh my God what's your problem like really? Who hurt you man stop making a fool out of yourself please

[@kirsteinbeck1622]

@@dietotaku yo shut up already and get some therapy done cause clearly you need it from all the harsh shit you've been commenting, go get some help with whatever anger you have boiling inside you dude.

[@kirsteinbeck1622]

Yes I felt like she was trying to hold it all together to not ruin it

[@TobileyP]

It just speaks to the immaturity of the bride-to-be that she dismissed her mother’s emotions. I didn’t like the way the future mother-in-law and bride-to-be almost conspired against her. The future mother-in-law should’ve had the maturity to step in and include the mother in the moment.

[@tehillab3212]

Imagine raising a daughter for 19 years and then she, her father, and future mother in law gang up against you on LIVE TV to bully, mock, and degrade you. All the mother wanted was to be a part of the most exciting time in her daughter's life. That girl is a rotten human being. How dare she treat her MOTHER like that ever, especially on live television!? If I were her fiance, I'd run far away from her as soon as this aired. I cant even watch this. I stopped halfway through.

[@ginay4878]

I hope the bride reads these comments so she knows what an ass she was

[@nimuehstorm]

Completely agree. This was uncomfortable to watch 😐

[@ModeneGunch1]

Agree 200%.

[@tracykimulettesabb902]

This little girls laughing now wait till she has a daughter and Karma comes back on her 10 times fold parents out there should know what I'm talking about however you treat your parents when you were growing up as how your children are going to treat you

[@tracykimulettesabb902]

I also hope as a wedding gift someone should give this video to her so she can see just how much of a butt-munch she is plus the fact that when her daughter treat her this way she'll realize why

[@Sunny-sy2xl]

That girl’s a spoiled brat. Hope she sees this. And hope she’s grown up and apologized BIG time to her REAL mom.

[@katie4335]

The mom has kept her mouth shut and the daughter and her mother-in-law still have the nerve to act like a bunch of high school students. Your mother-in-law didn't raise you. Your real mom did that. It might be your special day but act your age and stop being a brat. I hope one day you will read our comments and realize how much you hurt your own mother.

[@wendyhardin5259]

ABSOLUTELY TRUE.

[@cheekygirl5480]

I agree

[@pigeonegg1429]

5:27 this was NOT the mom's fault. she was trying her best to be supportive and not get upset, literally INTENTIONALLY TRYING to NOT "ruin the moment". if flo didnt say anything. it wouldve been fine. she was feeling sad and tried to not show it, and they called her out on it! absolutely horrible decisions on the staffs part. not to mention the bride getting angry

[@cw-s3582]

I watched this a second time : Mom quietly tried to express herself and even withdrew from admitting the feelings she was experiencing but she was cornered repeatedly til she became emotional. MIL a little too proud of herself in this ... like it's a competition of moms she's winning. This was a sad episode very unbalanced against the Mom's position. The most compassion from the comments I'm reading are sympathetic towards the Mom... definitely left me feeling sad with this episode.

[@GameChanger597]

With the way the MIL was behaving, you could tell the daughter has been speaking poorly of her own mother to her and that's probably why the MIL is so cocky and firmly on the daughter's side. If you notice, MIL said "I'm here for when she doesn't have any other place to go." So obviously the daughter has been speaking to her about not having anywhere to go because her parents aren't involved which is probably a half-truth. Her parents just went through a separation and are probably emotionally distraught and don't have a lot of time to focus on her but they still love her and it seems she's acting like they don't. She's probably very spoiled. Most only children are.

[@tracykimulettesabb902]

So true and I don't think this episode should have been aired either this just goes to show how cruel someone can be and how much you want your ratings to go so high that you would are cruelty on live television like this I don't think this should be aired again because it's not going to do nothing but set off a firestorm of emotions between mothers and daughters mother-in-laws and daughter-in-laws just families all the way around this is a very emotional episode that doesn't need to be aired again

[@gerigrake5093]

It has only been two months since the parents split? I think the bride is mad at her mother. If this is how she behaves clearly to young to get married. 19 is very young and it shows in her behavior. The anger continues with the dad and MIL not stepping in to include mom. I would not want to be part of this hot mess! If she can't handle the parents separation how is she going to handle a crisis in her marriage?

[@alexbush714]

Married at 19? Horrible, horrible, horrible decision. Ugh.

[@Merryfrances]

The mother in law is yikes. The bride’s husband is going to get deployed and MIL is going to just smother her, especially if they have a baby. Good luck.

[@BlueDauntless]

No joke

[@CC-zf4yv]

Flo seemed to antagonize not defuse IMO. Asking the bride to rate the dress instead of just saying let’s go try something else and then she’s the one that said the mum doesn’t look ok when the mum was just being quiet

[@shahilllove]

I am so disappointed in the consultant saying the Mother ruined the moment. That was such a huge lie!!!!! It was the Mother - In - Law and daughter!!!!!

[@faithmallard8912]

when joshula’s mother suggested a poofy dress said she wasn’t gonna try on a poofy dress i wasn’t bothered because it is her choice , but when the mother in law suggested that she try it on and she said she would i’m sorry but that was really messed up 😒 .

[@Lili-sc5kr]

100% agreed. The girl was being a brat and playing the middle of her parents. At 19...I'm disappointed at her behavior

[@ang5798]

If you're too childish to understand your mother.. how are you gonna understand your husband

[@cariepajat6142]

Hehehe...true!!!!

[@TheKarakik]

Needs to gain empathy and relationship skills

[@diamondcrystal9308]

So true, this birde needs to grow up

[@michellemarie9526]

Interesting take, agreed

[@shrgh1876]

Well said

[@momD612]

"I left your daddy, not you!".... I feel that. 😪

[@Moomoo-oq8zk]

My heart broke for the mom when the daughter said no to trying on a poofy dress for her but said yes right away when the mother in law said it

[@GameChanger597]

I'm very sure it was edited to look that way.

[@tejaswinipeeta294]

That's because the mother doesn't know what her daughter likes while the mil knows about her dil

[@na-hedosywang-rf8es]

@@tejaswinipeeta294but she could've let her down easy she was completely disrespectful

[@elenaspector5008]

I kinda feel bad about the mom...After all she is a mother and at least she wasn't toxic with her behavior and Words......... Edit - OHH MYY GODD..... THIS MY FIRST 1K...... and I am really admiring all the opinions everybody has...

[@elenaspector5008]

@Leonie u r right....

[@lionelluva]

@Leonie I agree

[@jesswoody3452]

@Leonie agree 👏🏽👏🏽

[@dietotaku]

then you missed the red flags. that mom is a narcissist 100%, i saw all the signs. she cares more about her looks than her relationships. she cares more about her involvement with the dress than how the dress makes her daughter feel. she doesn't accept any blame for the fact that her daughter feels more comfortable dress-shopping online with her FMIL than with mom and she tries to guilt her out of a dress the bride loves because of it. no wonder her marriage is dissolving and she has no clue what her daughter's tastes are.

[@elenaspector5008]

Not every kid is perfect.... Maybe there is something wrong with the girl too..... Idk am just saying..... AND her mom is going through a divorce.......which hurts BTW plus WEDDING DRESS is a big thing....and everybody feels insecure it's just human tendency I've seen worse moms who literally spit real rude comments body shaming n all.... She didn't do that........ AT LAST..... EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN WAY OF THINKING GOOD DAY /NIGHT TO U 🤗

[@tiffanyt4005]

The first dress looks amazing.

[@aneezabilal4503]

I don't know the backstory, but it sounds like the bride is mad at her mom for leaving her dad, which might make sense for younger children, but for someone her age, not so much. I do wish the MiL hadn't tried to jump in at every opportunity as though she was trying to push the mother out and rubbing it in her face.

[@dietotaku]

i have basically been in this bride's shoes and trust me, it's not about the divorce. that mom has been sabotaging her relationship with her daughter for years and the only reason why they're just now getting divorced is that dad has finally had enough of mom's toxicity, and so has the daughter. and MIL wasn't trying to rub mom's face in anything, she was just doing the job the mom was SUPPOSED to be doing if the mom wasn't more focused on her looks than on her daughter.

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@@dietotaku OK stop projecting your family drama like bruh not everyone is like that and the mom didnt even want any attention like seriously grow up, you've made it very clear that you hate the mom we get it now move along oh my gosh

[@aneezabilal4503]

@@dietotaku From the video, it looks like the mom felt that she had to leave the dad, and not the other way around. All my assumptions are based on conversations from the video, and I'm not sure where you're getting your info from.

[@kirsteinbeck1622]

@@diamondcrystal9308 I know this person is everywhere commenting the same thing 🙄

[@diamondcrystal9308]

@@kirsteinbeck1622 ikr 🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂its like they blind or something

[@sanduninawalage4879]

mann.. if i was the mother i would have left the store .. the way she said "i'm okay" hits so hard

[@GameChanger597]

And that would have made you in the wrong as a mom, not to mention immature. When you're an adult, you have to be the example to your kids as a parent- even when you don't feel like it or else you'll raise a brat and your adult kids will see it's okay to act immature even as an adult too. You don't want that.

[@unajaneeskew2168]

They don’t have to be cruel. No wonder she separated She tried and succeed in excluding her mother. Shameful

[@azzahrasyafik6823]

I just 19 but I can feel and relate the sadness of her mom, if she doesn't like the dress her mom picked atleast don't mock her choice just saying other things that not break her heart.

[@diamondcrystal9308]

Exactly I swear, some ppl just wanna watch this world burn and the bride and everyone else are in that group

[@b.j.loveislove9090]

Well said Azzahra

[@valerieosborne]

Azzahra Syafil You are more grown up than the spoilt daugter.

[@hainstol]

I agree, that little brat deserved a sharp slap for being such a snot about it. If she didn't like it, all she had to say was it wasnt what she had in mind

[@terrimyrick1530]

I'm proud of the mom, she sacrificed her moment with her daughter just so she would still be a happy Bride.

[@SzCa77]

Her mom was so obviously holding tears and the daugher kept asking her, what was wrong. In front of everyone. With a huge smile on her face. What an immature BRAT!!! That move litteraly pissed me. Poor mum.

[@cateia97]

That Monster-in-law is just waiting in the wings to take over this poor bride's entire life before the ink even dries on the license.

[@shrgh1876]

Ikr she's scary.. that smile is the stuff of nightmares

[@thefreedomsquad456]

My heart breaks for the way the bride’s mother was treated. That was wrong.

[@charredeggroll1967]

Every time she said that she wants her mom to be there for the dress and wants her to love the dress it made me so angry because the mom obviously isn't there for the dress, she's there for her daughter!

[@vilakuty]

I feel the bride made her mother to come for the dress shopping just to hurt the mother...why wanna invite someone that you resent??and she gets upset because her mother is upset...I feel the bride got major unresolved issues

[@castapellathewizard9118]

I think she invited her because even though they aren't talking or anything, she still want her mother to experience the moment where her child gets married. No parent especially mothers would wanna miss their daughters wow moment

[@shrgh1876]

Agree also seems like she's rushing into marriage to get away from her broken home.. and getting close to MIL to hurt her mom for leaving.. seems more like a child than a bride

[@bettinaallen5782]

"My mom left me feeling guilty..." okay, you should feel guilty. You don't ever, under any circumstances disrespect your parents, especially in front of your soon to be in-laws. Mother-in-law is eating it up so she can use it as ammunition later on. As soon as something happens and the bride is left to defend herself, the MIL will say to her son "see, that's what I was trying to tell you and you know how she treats her own mother...." And Flo: she's a snake for stirring up drama when mama was trying to keep peace. Mom didn't ruin the moment the bride, dad, mil, and shady consultant did. That was extremely uncalled for seeing how tense and uncomfortable the situation already was.

[@taslimaaktershathi7561]

I know right! My heart absolutely broke for the mother. She was so sweet and kind and she didn't even care about her own opinion, she cared about her daughter! She just wanted to be in her daughter's life. They always realize this when the person they've been pushing out of their lives, doesn't exist anymore....

[@anxietyoverload3087]

Agreed except for one thing.. it’s fine to disrespect your parents if they’re also assholes, let’s be honest.. they don’t automatically get respect just because they are family

[@maryroberts9233]

The mother in law and daughter are being deliberately evil and spiteful. It will come back on her one day. Wish we could see that footage on there. The daughter is just being hateful. Very sad episode

[@linaleverloppan.9752]

@@anxietyoverload3087 Thank you! I wanted to point that out too! Comments like this can be really unhelpful or misguiding for children from abusive and toxic households

[@rodlesgraham]

Yes Flo, badly done. 😢

[@samarahraffat9922]

What a kind and supportive father!

[@jackie3175]

who should have acted like a father and stepped in and had a discussion with his daughter about her behavior.

[@joanbroad3528]

That MIL is absolutely loving this, the daughter isn’t being much better! Like the Mum said ‘ why am I here?

[@saffrondougall2731]

She looks beautiful , just seems like a complicated and tense situation

[@benazirkhanam2913]

A perfect example of framing people and blaming them. Wtf is the daughter and the consultant think they are doing poking mom going through a divorce and lost the moment which was to be with her daughter. She tried to keep a straight face even if she was badly hurt. This girl made feel nauseated seriously one heck of manipulative and selfish personality.

[@milcaerasmus7135]

Mom, don't cry, ship her off with her new family, go enjoy life now...She's just 19...I would go crazy if my daughter would tell me she wants to get married so young...but she's an adult, let her go.

[@jaet.p9911]

Agreed❗❗

[@peanutsassyathena]

I agree too. Mom book a flight to a nice island somewhere and get the hell out of there. They are all mean, hateful people. Save yourself!

[@melrobertson2743]

And about 2 years later she's on reddit whining about how her MIL is trying control everything in her life and marriage.

[@kushbahbegum9497]

I'm not surprised

[@dumberthan2coconuts86]

Do you have the link?

[@assundamcdonagh9477]

Why are not surprised, do we know if the daughter still in contact with her Mom

[@sachornabrissett2098]

@Kyrstin Kinnaman lol

[@Malepical]

This comment made feel me all tingly inside 😌

[@yin4296]

“My mom left me feeling guilty” good lmfao, you deserve to feel guilty about it

[@shocomoco1867]

It's sad how she left her mother out. Your mother in law can never replace your mom. She is a priority!

[@marshhen]

Do not use a wedding to do microagressions to get back at a parent. Do not use it to do microagressions against exs or step parents or whatever. In doing so, you are undermining the principles of a wedding. That stepmother does not even respond to the mother when she asks if she had picked it. That is a subtle way of sidelining her and excluding her. Joshula asking about Mom's feeings is not sincere. The daughter is angry at her mother leaving, so should not have invited all of this group. It is just a mess. They are not communicating and need counselling: Mom and daughter.

[@Natalia-009]

The way she treats the mother.. like honey wipe the milk off your lip, you ain't grown yet.

[@bea8739]

This one was heartbreaking. It seems like Mom is being punished because she no longer wants to be with Dad. MIL seems like she purposely trying to replace the bio mom.