Bride Is Worried The Dress Won't Satisfy Her Conservative Fiancé | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

[@amayah4598]

Her fiance sounds like a middle school dress code.

[@courts1436]

Girl you couldn't have said it better

[@extra_ice_girl]

Papaya_grl 619 hahahahaha 😂

[@carolynw8614]

LMFAO

[@cadencecorbett2379]

Girl don't do want your fiance wants do what you want it's your dress.

[@maggieheermann4124]

Agreed

[@sophy_lophy]

I feel like if Ron wants a sleeved, conservative dress so badly he should just wear the damn thing himself

[@welpthatsthat3060]

He’s *controlling*. Not all conservatives are like that.

[@jrheartslove]

Best comment! 😂

[@lei7417]

welp that’s that I think she means conservative relative to how much skin is showing not political affiliations or anything like that

[@xxan4716]

welp that’s that asdfghjkl the style of wedding dress is conservative. Google ‘conservative wedding dress’ and you’ll see tons of modest dresses. don’t make it all about you.

[@Firegirl483]

@@welpthatsthat3060 no one said anything about all conservatives being like that

[@riz3892]

Oh so Ron is the reason girls have to cover their shoulders in school dress codes. Throw the whole man away

[@nusaiba5667]

Louder please for the people in the back

[@circediaz2180]

Ron is also the same guy who is caught cheating on his conservative wife with a sex worker from down the alley.

[@pinkkx41]

Lol Ron should just become a priest and not procreate

[@boone8797]

Shoulders? We couldn’t even show collarbone! Toss him out 🗑

[@BookhoardingCat]

look how miserable she is with how controlling Ron is now, imagine how much worse it'll be when she marries him

[@Miss-Mako]

You know it’s bad when the SOUTHERN DAD is less worried about her being super “modest”

[@user-zm2df7ki1j]

Periodd

[@livewellwitheds6885]

basically

[@GameChanger597]

Something about this is not healthy. At all. She adopts his convictions bc she has none of her own, and she follows him around like a puppy instead of a confident grown woman. Not to mention, I think it's pretty obvious he's gay.

[@misslegas575]

Exactly what I was thinking if your dad says that you need to show more skin you know something is up lol

[@cauzie8281]

I’m a southern Christian and I am so confused like I dress fairly modestly but even I show more skin this dude feels off but I don’t know

[@sherylsmallwood-valdivia5375]

"I think we need to find the dress that Jessica likes, then we have to tell Ron" KING! Her Dad's got some fashion sense too!

[@squishylady6188]

Sheryl Smallwood it seems like dads don’t pay attention to that stuff but my dad would certainly know that I didn’t want some turtle neck dress, dads are kings

[@Cindy99765]

@@squishylady6188 Agreed!

[@leiia2589]

EXACTLY ITS ONLY 1 DAY😤😤

[@air.rin.e]

he dropped this 👑

[@ArmaghAAA]

Yes!!

[@kianacarter2434]

I’m sorry, but chicken boy can go cluck himself. He’s got no right to be that specific with HER dress.

[@hotbambi2010]

Ok this comment made me laugh really loudly and now people on the bus is looking at me like I’ve lost my mind but it’s so worth it lol your so funny

[@amandacopeland5345]

Or pluck himself even🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@holosexual6607]

I’m boutta throw up from cackling

[@user-wd1nq7tz5o]

“cluck himself” I’M DECEASED- 😭💀

[@alyssan.3006]

Lmaooo 🤣 you’re so cute like that was too funny

[@Savs649]

If my new surname is going to be “Chicken” then I’m going to wear whatever I want. I mean I’m already settling for Chicken what more do you want?

[@carolynw8614]

Exactly!!💯💯

[@priscilaantonio776]

and name my first son fried 😋😋

[@arnie3631]

Hahaha

[@lani41709]

TRUE!!!!😂😂😂

[@romulusthemainecoon3047]

@@priscilaantonio776 OMG come sit by me and we can watch this shit show *pats seat*

[@warlorty]

I like how she said “his name is just like the food.” Like a chicken isn’t an animal first 😂

[@momcat2223]

From a fellow Southerner - that's how you KNOW she's Southern.

[@warlorty]

@@momcat2223 lol I’d agree but I’m as southern as it gets and I still wouldn’t have said that. Lol

[@dimitragalanaki1098]

That is what I was thinking, too.

[@zionsgirl6456]

It's the south baby 🍗🍽

[@ascent8487]

It’s the south.

[@silviam.t9416]

Dad rolling his eyes while talking about the groom ... dad doesn't like the groom ahhahahahahaa

[@samanthawozniak8942]

Yeah that was one of the biggest red flags for me. My dad and I have a really great relationship and frankly I don't think I could marry someone that he didnt approve of. I know alot of people disagree with that but I know that my dad has my best in mind.

[@Cityweaver]

If a woman can have a relationship with her dad where he says babe I want you to look cute modern and beautiful on your wedding, then I envy that. Some of the dads on these shows have been the most encouraging and most supportive, unlocking their inner fashionista to see their baby girl look her best. (That being said, remember that this is a reality TV show so the producers caught on camera the dad rolling his eyes and edited it to be next to a clip of the girl talking about her fiance.)

[@risselove5635]

Silvia M.T I noticed that too.

[@quoteofhearts]

So happy my dad likes my fiancé

[@elenakufta3236]

Can’t say I blame him. Chicken sounds like an ass

[@hopeadams2010]

Can we just appreciate dad for a minute? He is the real MVP here.

[@arunimasharma9714]

Damn straight.

[@lisakarlsson2134]

MVP? Movie star planet?😂

[@arunimasharma9714]

Lisa Karlsson Most Valuable Player. It’s an NBA reference.

[@camelot123]

My dad could never

[@MsFemi20]

Dad has great taste!

[@graceramey4443]

Anyone else irritated by the fact that her fiancé’s opinions were haunting her in HER choice of a dress?

[@aadtie5633]

No, I felt happy because she was considering his choice as well and it's unusual in today's times.. she did try what he preferred instead of quashing the idea and in the end did what she liked.

[@loveyourself9410]

aaditi Thorat I like that idea that in a wedding day people can work together on what they both want. However I think in this party situation the problem is that Ron has WAY too many rules for this woman and makes her worried about her own body. It’s concerning that she seems scared to disobey those rules. I hope that helps to explain it😋

[@kasturicasinha]

@@loveyourself9410 yes! That groom has red flags all over!

[@vaneshapatel8320]

@@aadtie5633 theres a difference between having some opinions and full lace, cap sleeve, no skin.

[@aadtie5633]

@@vaneshapatel8320 All these together form an opinion. Details .. you see. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@mywhimsylifed.3055]

I speak from experience. My husband and I felt exactly like these parents. We were worried for her welfare and we prayed that the wedding would be called off. It wasn’t. The marriage was mentally abusive. She’s now divorced and has her eyes wide open.

[@roseydot]

That must really suck as a parent, I’m so sorry that happened.

[@mywhimsylifed.3055]

@@roseydot it did, but everything is good now.

[@priyachoudhary9896]

I am so sorry you and your husband went through that. Even the idea of seeing your child getting together with an abuser knowing full well they aren't meant to be is jarring. I am so glad she's doing fine now. I wish you and your family much happiness to come.

[@mikivanduyn9630]

@@priyachoudhary9896 its even worse for the daughter...she had to go true the abuse.... glad her parents did support her.

[@ilincabogza]

I'm so happy she is good and healthy now and that you always stood by her! Your love is endless and i thank you for being great parents, that will protect and help their child no matter what! I hope for great things in your's and your daughter's future!💗❤

[@biyyakhan5857]

Love her dad. He was clearly annoyed by her fiance's views

[@t.matthies3049]

Yeah, he's great. Hopefully the fiance isn't as controlling as it looks from this (things aren't always the way they seem on television), but if he is, Dad will have her back when she needs it.

[@biyyakhan5857]

@@t.matthies3049 she seems a really nice girl while the fiance looks like a difficult person. I guess they are going to live in beauty and the beast sort of relationship.

[@Hikarahime]

biyya khan Have you seen the fiancé? That’s a pretty thorough assessment. Maybe he just voiced that he had a preference, and the bride really values his opinion and wanted to please him. Or maybe he is controlling and demanding. We can guess, but we can’t possibly know just based on this video.

[@lumiere7216]

Ron say this... Ron says that... My Fiancee would say... But They both are in seminary school studying to be ministers so I kinda get it but as long as it's not inappropriate or overly sexy and it looks nice and elegant ... then let the congregation say AMEN

[@Nicole-ov3gw]

@@Hikarahime he LOOKS that way, doesn't mean he is. He just appears to be, with what limited knowledge we have. Ofc we hope thats not the case.

[@aliinwonderland5451]

She doing the most for a dude named “Ron chicken” 🙄

[@reader596]

I feel bad for laoughing

[@jazmine9385]

Vani Malfoy same lmao

[@moonpower8]

How does one come to possess that surname?? I'm genuinely curious 🤔🤔

[@natashaswan4646]

😂😂😂

[@mochalatae7186]

I really hope she doesn't change her last name 😂😂😂😂

[@sineadcorbett5402]

I LOVE that her dad was empowering her as a female. He was pushing her to make choices for herself instead of for a man. That’s amazing

[@farcrazy99]

Shame that’s seen as amazing and not THE NORM

[@schreingeiss]

To some degree, but he was also opinionated and from the beginning he came in saying he wanted a form fitting strapless dress. So he was yet another man trying to influence her choices to his own preferences. He didn't start off saying I want whatever she wants.

[@jasmoras3746]

you are absolutely gorgeous

[@raenfairy]

@@schreingeiss Yes he did. He said we should get her in a dress she wants & tell Ron after. There's a difference between this is what I like & I won't be happy if you're in something I don't like.

[@schreingeiss]

@@raenfairy Well we never saw that because she chose something her dad liked. All I'm saying is he started out with his own preferences too.

[@adrianbabst6749]

Props to the dad. He knows what's up. The fact that her fiance is already so controlling is concerning

[@francesfehrman741]

Yes dress 3

[@leaflover9625]

I really like her father. He is encouraging her to think for herself.

[@AlextheENTP]

Well, that's all over soon. I wish I could see a follow-up to see how he reacted to her choosing the exact opposite of what he instructed her to get.

[@Cindy99765]

@@AlextheENTP im enfp!

[@kanikagaral7637]

He would have encouraged her to dump the guy. She maybe an adult but he Iss till her father and he should not stop watching out for his baby girl. Sit her down and have an intervention she is clearly marrying a narcissistic asshole.

[@M.A.Y.Y]

i dont think they've ever been happier for the father to have an opinion and push his head in and say 'im paying and having an opinion' best dad ever because he knows whats good for her

[@laurieross8157]

She should take into consideration what Ron likes, but when all is said and done, she should wear the dress she is comfortable in. If Ron truly thinks she is a spiritual woman, then he should trust that her judgment. I am a conservative Christian woman and I think the dress I absolutely gorgeous on her. So elegant!

[@skrrskrr6464]

Mr. Chicken the reason why American schools find shoulders “distracting”

[@skrrskrr6464]

God forbid she shows her heels!!!!!

[@soundskindagay2709]

"Oh no she's wearing a skirt!"

[@MrWereWolfGirl]

@@soundskindagay2709 Ankles and shoulders- the biggest turn ons according to American's schools xD

[@makaylairish6125]

Straight facts

[@skrrskrr6464]

Loli Baby *clutching my pearls*

[@QuEEn88Cruella]

The fact that she's willing to be Mrs. Chicken is suffering enough. If Ron wants a conservative dress, he should wear one.

[@vee-bz7pz]

preach!! 🥱✋🏻

[@amaditaa3481]

THAT PART

[@gemma5632]

She’s gonna be seriously hen-pecked

[@MissCathexis]

Seriously spit out my drink. 🤣

[@babylor1]

Janelle, you could not be more right! Also, you made me snort laugh (which is never attractive) so loud my son jumped out his seat 😂. Perfect!

[@kibblenbits]

It's heartbreaking to see a young woman with such low self esteem. The fiance' zeroed in on her for just that reason, as he knows he can control her and she's mistaking control for love. She's walking into a life of hell, willingly. The old saying that decent into real hell comes on gradually, is true. The next step will be to move her physically away from her family, once they're married. A controller usually does this, to remove the victim's support system and to further break them down, making them even more dependent.

[@HeronCoyote1234]

@Darkrosewine how is she doing? I really hope she’s ok.

[@slsmith5267]

Exactly.

[@eatmeatandliftweights5754]

💯

[@deedranicolehooks]

If Ron Chicken wants a dress with a key hole back so badly, he needs to just wear one himself.

[@jujuut8588]

😭😭😭

[@MythicaIl]

Oh gosh 😂😂😂 fr tho

[@MyLifeAsMakayla01]

nice copy and paste skills

[@littlebird7590]

Hahaah this sent me wheezing

[@deedranicolehooks]

@@MyLifeAsMakayla01 I didn't copy and paste anything??

[@autumnshingledecker6740]

"why are you tearing up?" Because she's probably afraid of how chicken is gonna react. Manipulative af

[@youseralrubaiey6576]

hahaha chicken is probably gonna be really puffed up about it.

[@lunanoel145]

Honestly true. A beautiful girl like her should be able to show off a little curve if she wants to. A guy that tells her how to dress or mocking other styles is just manipulative and mean.

[@quackerss_.]

Toxic really

[@cherylannemason]

That was about what I thought at first--that wasn't the sort of tears you typically see from somebody who knows that this is her dress.

[@stupidusername84]

Ick. This poor girl needs some therapy. She is literally breaking down just trying to have a thought of her own.

[@Amy-nl7sf]

Ron needs therapy too tbh

[@MythicaIl]

To be honest they should never get married he's too controlling

[@WinterM-hr3xv]

Right like imagine there future daughters. I’ve Catholic so very conservative myself but even the priest would be ok with those dresses. This Ron guy is too extreme

[@nektariak4212]

“there’s not much to be left in the imagination” what a misogynistic thing to say. You don’t marry someone just to take off their clothes afterwards and if they have shown you their BACK suddenly it’s not worth it to marry them anymore because the mystery is gone. Wtf. Marriage is about love and partnership and not about controlling someone’s behavior and body. He has brainwashed her to the point that she thinks showing her arms is “provocative”. She’s gotten herself into a dangerous situation with this marriage.

[@Kat-mu8wq]

I'm sure there's someone out there who has a shoulder blade fetish but still.. Lets be reasonable, the average person doesn't find the human back to be overly attractive.

[@TightyWhiteyTrash]

Very spot on comment 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Blusheoom]

@@Kat-mu8wq It wouldn’t even matter because it’s not about them.

[@nataliearsenault2486]

I know this comment is old but I just have to add, who are these people inviting to their wedding that’s gonna be eyeing them up and sexualizing them in the first place?????? Maybe the fault should lie in those people and not how much skin the dress shows FFS

[@annmariedemirtas5736]

Sounds like she's getting married to a bully.

[@Raesling1]

Hopefully he doesn't become abusive. Most abuse is about having control.

[@user-jy1bc3gw2q]

@@Raesling1 I mean, telling someone what they can and cannot wear is already emotional abuse, just like telling someone who they can or cannot talk to. Being controlling is emotional abuse. My guess is that it's already happening, but it's in the name of god so anything goes!

[@isabelv483]

like people already kind of pointed out-- the way she couldn't even bear to think for herself worries me-- if he can control her for that, just imagine where this relationship is going to go {abuse?}

[@tumiletsae3166]

Why is she so afraid........ Something about Ron

[@joannflores0623]

No not a bully but a Priest maybe...🤭 sorry Father

[@BBBros87]

"I'm marrying Ron Chicken... His last name is just like the food." I was expecting "just like the animal", why does this bother me..? Also Mr. Chicken seems like a real turkey.

[@AirFire18]

PeleeT Chicken isn’t actually the animal . Hen and Rooster is the animal. People tend to make that mistake haha

[@zarzee8925]

@@AirFire18 the hell? That's like saying theres no such thing as cattle, only cows and bulls.

[@AlextheENTP]

Because chickens are animals first, then get used as food later. If we don't eat them, they're still chickens doing their chicken thing.

[@katesierra6238]

@@AirFire18 chickens are the animal hens are the female name for chicken and rooster is the male name😂 u are wrong

[@emilymoore2162]

Also its the South, what else do you expect? (don't come for me, I was born and raised Southern.)

[@miasasmrandsinging5426]

You can tell how much her father is having to bite his tongue not to say what he really thinks about his future son in law. Definitely some controlling red flags going on here sadly.

[@jamiedallas6968]

And yet she is still choosing it. You make your bed and now lie in it. Hopefully she doesn't procreate and then divorce. How horrible for the true victims.

[@styxman5o783]

@@jamiedallas6968 As someone who was groomed by a 23yo when she was 17yo, I can honestly say she likely did NOT make the bed. You feel trapped. You're scared. They cover the way out and only talk about your future together. There's gaslighting and fear and aggression. They say leaving is the most dangerous part. It's true.

[@jamiedallas6968]

@@styxman5o783 still a choice. It is a weak person to fall into a mental trap. I do not see her as weak. She still chose the dress she wanted. Tada! She made a choice and it was HER CHOICE. I am glad that you matured enough to get out of your trap. I met (18) and married my husband at 20...he also is 6 years older than me. I also knew the guy who I was courting to be married to wasn't for me (before my husband) even though I loved him. I walked away from that relationship even though it killed me. But the second he laid a hand on me I walked away. I knew better. We all should know better. Thank God you figured it out. But we all need to take ownership of our choices. I am fat. Because I choose to put food into my body that isn't good for me. It's no one's fault but my own. I am not a victim. Is it hard to eat right? Yep. Is it hard to be fat? Yep. Still it's a choice I make. There is power with taking your power back. But to truly do that you have to change the choices that put you there in the first place. And own it.

[@styxman5o783]

@@jamiedallas6968 That's your belief. I have mine. Thank you for sharing.

[@harleytodd858]

@@jamiedallas6968 mega oofs here. The amount of victim blaming in this comment is appalling. I was 13 years old when the woman I used to babysit for manipulated me into dating one her 19 yo friends. I was 13 years old when he gaslighted me into losing my virginity. I was 14 years old when he manipulated me into a drug problem, at 15 I was in the hospital. These were my choices yes but I didn't get to make them, why? Because someone older than me who knew better told me it was okay and I believed them. You gonna tell me I need to lie in my bed because I made it? Yes we all should know that we deserve better than to be lied to, gaslit, manipulated and beaten but guess fucking what? That's the problem with abuse! You get stuck into it and they get into your brain and make you believe that you deserve this. That you fucked up so you deserve to be punished for it. They get so deep into your mind that you start telling YOURSELF that you deserve these things. You said you were a survivor yourself but your comment was some of the most abusive shit I've read since I left that relationship. You literally gaslit so many actual survivors right there it's not even funny.

[@tracypolselli1464]

When dad is cooler than your future husband, somethings way off.

[@FinickyFelix]

"Ron wants straps and a keyhole back" well then Ron should get himself a dress with straps and a keyhole back.

[@MythicaIl]

Right if he wants one so bad let him wear one let her pick what she wants

[@reader596]

YESS

[@gotthecheese9073]

Also he’s not paying for it either so he can take several seats lmaooo

[@heatherstickney9384]

Preach it!

[@killerk879]

This is an underrated comment.

[@paulinhamedice]

I feel really bad for this lady who is marrying a man named CHICKEN who won’t let her pick her own dress

[@stilljustneo]

@@f.k.a1010 It is very clear you have no idea what it’s like to be in a controlling or abusive relationship.

[@stilljustneo]

@@f.k.a1010 It’s because she loves him N, when you love someone you can’t really see how they’re hurting you until you’ve either left the relationship or have someone from the outside of the relationship tell you, the brain doesn’t simply go “I am being controlled, I should leave”. It makes up excuses for your partners because your feelings take over the way you see someone no matter who they really are But judging by how you talk and the fact you spend your time online telling women to get over themselves I’m sure you don’t much experience in being in love either so I understand-

[@Whatadreamfr]

@@f.k.a1010 It's clear that you have never been truly in love or in an abusive, controlling, or manipulative relationship. Don't speak in situations you can't comprehend. No one is making excuses, we are just more educated on the topic of controlling relationships than you are. Even adults can be controlled until the point of depression.

[@stilljustneo]

@@f.k.a1010 It takes two people to manipulate themselves? You sure about that?

[@stilljustneo]

@@f.k.a1010 I’m sorry but you don’t “allow” yourself to be manipulated. You don’t even know it’s happening, that’s literally what the definition of manipulation is, to control someone without them even realizing, everyone has been or will be manipulated to some degree at some point in their life, no exceptions, so the fact that you’ve never “allowed yourself to be manipulated” is just strait up wrong Do you really even know what manipulation is? Because your responses tell me otherwise

[@ilovebunniessparks5121]

I feel like he’s throwing major shade every time he says “Mr. chicken” lol. Love it .

[@petralopez3331]

Lol oh yes

[@natashaswan4646]

Mr & Mrs Chicken 😂😂😂

[@Cherblue3]

Her dad HATES him prolly.....I don't know him and I don't like him either....

[@cristinariboldi8481]

@@petralopez3331 222a2222222222( aa2) ma ora sta bene anche se non si sa mai che il cinghiale sia un animale domestico che non si sa mai che sia tutto il giorno con la sua perdita di vita di Norman e di un motore di acqua di acqua di ACQUA DI ACQUA DI ACQUA DI ACQUA DI ACQUA DI UN MOTORE DI OSSIGENO PER LA GIOIA DELLA NOSTRA VITA DI NORMAN E DI ALTRI DUE ANNI DI MATRIMONIO E DI UN MOTORE DI ENERGIA CHE NON SI sa MAI che Sia TUTTO in Casa Da BENEDETTA MADRE DI Hitler e di un MOTORE DI ENERGIA CHE non SI È MAI PIÙ di TEMPO e DI UN Motore di ENERGIA CHE NON si sa MAI che SIA tutto in casa da benedetta MADRE e NON SI SA MAI CHE SIA TUTTO IN casa da Benedetta MADRE e CHE NON SI SA MAI CHE SIA TUTTO IN CASA DA BENEDETTA

[@Sonia1474]

Ughhh YES

[@deftlefthand9964]

I'm worried about this bride. I see a lovely young woman who is missing a lot of red flags.

[@yenneferuk3743]

If the fiancé is not paying for the dress he can sit down and shut up.

[@Natttttttttt]

Exactly, hate men like this who think they own everything about their partner, pay for it yourself if you’re so adamant

[@lisasim]

But then later when he will pay for things, he will be able to decide on everything and veto her decisions?

[@EveryonesHiro88]

For real! "well ron wants a modest dress with a key hole back and sleeves." Okay when Ron comes and picks out his dress he's gonna wear to the wedding then it can have all those things but this is YOUR dress. What do YOU want?

[@kritikamainali1764]

@@lisasim not the dress. It’s something personal to the bride.

[@bark_bark-woof-woof]

That’s on period

[@francheska3128]

The fact she cried bc she couldn’t find something to satisfy her husband is sad and scary

[@alchemyofcolorandstyle]

The panicked look at that strapless, my God, this woman is in danger. She was in tears!

[@winter2625]

Seriously!

[@melindaunknown6411]

A divorce in the making. Or at least a very unhappy wife in the future.

[@deseuryderia]

that’s going to happen many more times in the marriage

[@cmbarrineau1]

She wanted the same thing. Relax

[@amb3rmous3]

Ron sounds sexist and controlling. How she ended up with a man like that being raised by a father who seems to be trying to empower her is beyond me...

[@NickieMonee]

Dad probably wasn’t always empowering. He probably controlled what she wore when she was younger but realized how shitty it was when he saw Ron doing it.

[@alexoula]

​@@NickieMonee Don't make assumptions like that. You definitely don't neeed to have controlling parents to end up making this mistake.

[@kittycat4746]

@@NickieMonee That's a possibility actually. Maybe he's just doing it for the camera.

[@dlldll9754]

Her daddy knows he's bad news.

[@beckysimeone4882]

Ron wasn't even there, which is a pretty weak move for a sexist, controlling man. Why was Daddy there? Who needs their Daddy's opinion for their wedding dress? Who was being controlling?

[@Jessica_Beee]

Dad wasn't feeling how controlling Ron was being even while absent 😂👏🏽👏🏽 You're a great Dad sir

[@crystalm.223]

She is CRYING about disagreeing with her husband... I feel like that’s NOT supposed to happen.

[@jenniferlawrence9473]

It's obvious her husband is more worried about what other people 'think' and portraying some kind of holier than thou image. I think being a Christian is supposed to be about what's in your heart, not if you wear straps or not, smh.

[@fi4367]

@@jenniferlawrence9473 thats sooooo right :)

[@miekekuppen9275]

I hope she didn´t get beat up when her husband saw the show.

[@aleshanew7727]

Its not... she in love. But the fact that she choice without straps says she will not go with his thought in 5 to 10 years.

[@rondaspencer9133]

That has all the red flags of either a mentally or physically abusive relationship and that is speaking from experience.

[@RedrosePhoenixSophiaFLi]

The groom sounds like a bit of a control freak....red flags much? Like, he wants to put her in a turtleneck? Seriously?

[@LittleFugueFlute]

Unfortunately, in the kind of Evangelical Christian perspective that is so wrapped up in purity culture that Mr. Chicken thinks it's inappropriate for a woman to be sleeveless, the word of the "man of the house" (especially so given his ministry background!) serves as the official interpretation of the word of God.

[@indigo_blue_s2830]

@@LittleFugueFlute oh this is just so sad to me. I love her dad tho 💛

[@hannahmitchell8683]

It seems to me that her fiancé is just getting a little too caught up in what other people think. She kept saying it was because they’re going into ministry, so maybe he just didn’t want people to judge her. But she looked beautiful, and I don’t know anyone who would object to that dress

[@mizuhomuhaimin9395]

Her fiance try to make this bride to be a "turtle" while he is a "chicken".

[@anajsahid]

@@mizuhomuhaimin9395 LMAO

[@pancon9947]

She's literally crying because of him hes so bad how can she seriously not realize how controling and bad for her he is.

[@linneawestberg6435]

shes just too good with a heart of gold, wanting to please the person that means the most to her. she cried and was then fine with it:) i would do the same:P as long as he doesnt throw a fit over it later, theyre fine in this matter:)

[@pancon9947]

@@linneawestberg6435 i really feel like the power dynamic is all off with their relationship he does seem very controlling over her.

[@AvaMarie-ij4jl]

Pan!c on he does seem controlling, but I think the fact that they are studying to be ministers in the south doesn’t help. Both the Christian religion and southern culture traditionally put emphasis on being more conservative-especially for women. It also seemed like they both agreed this was the style they wanted. I think the crying part was, as the bride said, her realizing she was going to have to let go of her dream and what she’d always envisioned. I agree though that if my fiancé had told me specifically what to wear and I did not feel comfortable with it, I wouldn’t want to be with them, but I think this situation was a bit different. Also, who knows, it could’ve been him pushing and the bride giving in, THINKING that it was what she wanted when in fact it wasn’t (in which case his relationship with her would be very manipulative), but it’s hard to tell.

[@xhappyponyxwasmyoldname1395]

You don’t know either of them, you can’t judge their relationship. If he were really that bad, she probably would’ve been too scared to go with strapless in the end like she did. She said for herself that she was frustrated because she had envisioned a sleeved dress for herself and was stressed out about her vision possibly being wrong after all

[@Mariemarie-uw7id]

Ava . Marie the south are deeply conservative my fiance his family are exactly like this while my husband to be says its our wedding put on what makes YOU happy. He is very conservative guy, this guy is just scary and controlling

[@jenniferscott375]

The father rolling his eyes at the mention of the grooms requests! Hahaha!

[@camillebavaro7837]

Even though he’s not there mr chicken didn’t pass the vibe check but her dad definitely did

[@PortalJay]

Agreed

[@sonyakim4403]

Daddy did good!!!

[@snoox27]

"NOT A VIBE!!"

[@sanjanasabu]

I agree here but I also want to add, I struggle to describe my boyfriend so much. I end up making jokes and portraying things he doesn't like about me instead of what he likes. 😜 Honestly it's just a mess to explain to anyone but we're perfectly fine talking to each other 🥰

[@coco-no6ob]

why is no one talking about how she said chicken like the food and not the animal

[@noneofyourbusiness273]

I was totally looking for this comment

[@squeakymilichen3183]

I was thinking that too!

[@feelinit213]

😂😂😂

[@feelinit213]

Thought about the same thing. Why didn't she say chicken the bird

[@user-xj5jz8lf3b]

As a vegetarian I was like that’s offensive

[@jinx144]

“I don’t think Ron-“ “Ron couldn’t-“ “Ron wants-“ Girl... those are what I call RED FLAGS, she’s so worried about Ron and what he wants that she’s completely forgotten what she really wanted, if it were me, I would have told “Mr. Chicken” to shove it up his and left that toxicity. Sad

[@devegas4910]

Exactly. If he’s done all of this over a dress and we haven’t even seen him yet, then that’s just the tip of the iceberg. Her dad is right. She needs to follow her heart. She’ll still find a good Christian man. It ain’t like they don’t exost

[@mxxz3900]

If a man does it he's a gentleman but if a woman does then the man is abusive and toxic. Ya'll really be judging a whole mans character without even seeing him for 1 second in this video, how pathetic and childish.

[@lakshyas_library]

@@mxxz3900 No, if the genders were reversed those red flags would still be red flags and we would tell the guy to get out of the relationship.

[@achanwahn]

That’s not necessarily a red flag about her fiancé. That’s honestly a personality problem on her part. She doesn’t seem to have any identity outside of her relationship & doesn’t know how to balance making her partner happy and herself.

[@suzannebrady6201]

Totally agree!

[@reginafromtexas2314]

Her wedding photos on FB looked beautiful and they are still married and have a baby daughter. They look so happy and apparently he got over the "conservative" outlook because she's wearing revealing clothes in some of the other photos taken over the years and he's grinning ear-to-ear. He doesn't look to be controlling in the least.

[@mariesmith1616]

Thank you for the info. Those were exactly my thoughts. That both of them we’re trying to choose a dress fitting with their conservative beliefs.

[@taniyamelvin8389]

Based on all of the other comments and the video itself, this is quite a relief to hear.

[@morganablackwater2017]

Yeah cause there is no happy photos in abusive relationships... Oh wait

[@xthefordx]

Well, that doesn't say anything but let's hope it was just a question of religion smh

[@BernadetteSwemmer-jz7yl]

Tx....I really hope so!🎉

[@hadiyapinky9091]

"Ron doesnt want strapless" Well I guess he SHOULDN'T wear strapless

[@michellestella7477]

😂😂😂

[@SwimmingGoddess]

Hadiya pinky Best comment

[@FightingTheNoodles]

lmao i feel like that is totally what her dad is thinking. "Cool, get a suit that isn't strapless - should be easy"

[@Iennaish]

That was a good one!

[@abirmef9510]

Omg 🤣🤣

[@kariswimbish9004]

“I feel like we should just find a dress that Jessica likes and then just tell Ron”. The kind of dad energy I didn’t know I needed today. 😂

[@ashleytaylor1538]

God Bless this father

[@GameChanger597]

It's clear he's less than impressed with his future son-in-law. You can tell he's angry at him for what he's doing to his daughter. And is it just me or is it obvious Ron Chicken is hiding something in the closet.... 🦗 🦗 🦗

[@terellison]

@@GameChanger597 He's so far in that he's wandering around in Narnia.

[@rosecoward3292]

I couldn't disagree more, he's essentially telling his daughter to dishonor an agreement she made with her husband to be. That is not a great start to a marriage. There are 2 things that weren't considered one is that there are multitudes of dresses in that store that are stylish with sleeves or straps. They hardly tried, and the 2nd is if she still couldn't find a dress she wanted, she could talk with her H2B, tell him of her observations and come to a new agreement before making a dress purchase.

[@bettynolo23]

​@@rosecoward3292 the only person who should get a say in the dress is the person wearing it. If her future husband truly cared about her, he wouldn't have put so much pressure on her that she cried when she realised his dream dress didn't work for her. I've never known a man in a hetero couple to expect any kind of say, whatsoever, in what their future wife wears on their wedding day. If he wants a conservative dress, he can wear one. This all stinks of a religious man expecting his wife to obey.

[@wm2628]

Ron can wear his own conservative wedding dress since he wants it so much

[@ericstenopolis9297]

Riteeeeee

[@cherry_puffles]

Periodt

[@emileesnevets]

LMFAO 🤣

[@FoxxOutlaw]

IKRRRR Like let me wear the tux, YOU wear the dress 😂😂

[@sabeensatttar1695]

True i do not want boys who are too conservative. Ladies can wear what they want as long as they are happy

[@zachhaywood1564]

"She needs to get Mr. Chicken's voice out of her head." Why do I get the feeling that Monte was calling him that as an insult, and not because it's his real name?

[@litkid08]

"He is more traditional than me." Good luck in 2-5 years when you wake up one morning and realize that he doesn't see you as an equal. Poor woman.

[@ninjamode4462]

my husband is very traditional and religious but my husband respect my opinion and I can wear what I want, do what I want as long as not illegal. Being traditional and being manipulative and control freak is very different .

[@sonja9091]

@@ninjamode4462 your right, but her fiance is just controlling, everybody is allowed to live traditional if they want, as long as you don't control or force someone into it. I am truly happy that you and your husband are not like the girl and her fiance in the video, but there are a lot of toxic relationships like hers out there.

[@rockerprincessSteph]

It’s especially going to be hard considering her dad is the opposite. I know from experience that having a dad that viewed women as equals and treated me very well that it can create the impression that all men are like that. She has a really awesome dad. It’s too bad her kids won’t get that.

[@jessiegill8938]

The dads so nice ‘I think we should see what Jessica likes then tell ron’

[@sheenawinfrey3133]

Dad had her back all the way.... it's about her too not just Ron.

[@wassia3161]

The fact that the dad is paying as they said so the chicken shouldn't be filling her brain with all his likes and dislikes

[@Charlotte-nk8mh]

Dad can see that Ron controlling his daughter has got to stop from the get-go or his daughter will be silent and unhappy forever.

[@claindastuart6790]

Exactly!

[@imapandaperson]

This is the one time where I'm on the family's side --- it seems like her fiance is mentally abusive and controlling, this family actually seems healthy and rightfully concerned. I love that they're trying to empower her

[@LilliLamour]

Her dad needs to step in and help his daughter run away from a controlling chicken.

[@iqusamakun]

Maybe he tried but the daughter is brainwashed

[@leonamay8776]

I think he's maintaining a relationship and being there for her. That way her family will be able to step in and be her support network if she ever needs it.

[@justinee5446]

@@iqusamakun that’s what emotional abuse is :/

[@XXgenderloveXY]

A controlling chicken!! This made me lol

[@vickismith9852]

Let me guess, Southern Baptist??????

[@janiem5499]

Im a Christian, and that’s not being a Christian that’s being controlling, if my boyfriend ever said stuff like that he would be gone in a second. The fact that she is crying because she is scared of what he will think honestly hurts my heart. Plus the dresses that she put on were not even reveling.

[@animezinglife]

It's not Christian OR being "conservative." Somebody who clearly doesn't know much about either must've decided on the clickbaity title.

[@candylover1991]

Aren't Christians supposed to cover up tho? She can wear what she wants but just saying, aren't nuns like very devoted Christians and they cover up a lot. 🤔

[@Sam-rb1be]

@@candylover1991 from what I know, they are meant to be more modest with clothing, but I think that they meant that it isn't christian to be so controlling and toxic towards your significant other.

[@swegboii6447]

@@candylover1991 lmao where'd you get that assumption from. Also nuns are Catholics lmfao

[@oliviamartini9700]

Janie, then perhaps you should pray for her and Jesus will sort it out.

[@mei7495]

When she started crying, I can’t, sweetheart, baby, THATS TOXIC like if you need your mans validation that much that’s not ok

[@misscleo378]

Every bride wants her groom to think she looks beautiful. But I’ve never seen a man make a personal request on what the dress should look like, that’s usually for the woman to obsess about.

[@sheamorrey963]

And his name is CHICKEN! she deserves better.

[@alisbubu]

Am I the only one who tought that it's SHE that's too caring about her fiance's taste? And make all this tears for nothing? (I'm saying this because maybe I will react in the same way.. I want to look beautiful both for me and my fiancee on the wedding day, and it will be OUR day, and not only mine)

[@angelawilliams4239]

Agreed! Massive red flag right there!

[@anjanathangavelu744]

I am on the same situation🥺🥺

[@Aareid576]

“I think we find a dress that Jessica likes. Then we tell Ron” GO DAD!

[@miissmiser6927]

I would never marry a man who tells me what I can and can’t wear.

[@violet-mm4dm]

me too gurl

[@stephanieschinini7145]

Or last named Chicken

[@hamstuh1213]

especially on MY wedding day like bruh ur just wearing a tux mine is the one to shine

[@laguimago]

If she cares THAT much about what he "accepts", that woman is going to be dominated in every aspect and decision of her life next to Mr 🐔 marriage is not about being told what to do / wear, is about agreeing and communicating, without giving away your self esteem

[@rumplestilskin2197]

and imagine what's gonna happen to there children

[@Polo-rp9hk]

“You think Ron’s gonna like it?” “He better.” Yes, Queen

[@w.k.astrolabe280]

... she wore straps to the wedding

[@MaryBrown955]

@@w.k.astrolabe280 Oh really? How do you know?

[@w.k.astrolabe280]

@@MaryBrown955 Googled it

[@Hypegreene05]

@@w.k.astrolabe280 thats not her. I just Googled it. That's a couple in New Jersey.

[@hannahmariepoole4867]

As a conservative Christian in ministry - I dislike this man and the hold that he seems to have on his fiancé

[@redvinesron]

Agreed! As a follower of Jesus myself who attended a more culturally conservative Christian university, I think that man needs to chill. The first dress she tried on was showing even LESS cleave than the one she actually chose. She talked about it having a very low back, but it only showed like, less than half of her back? I could understand if it had a sheer top, was a deep v or u cut at the neck, but it wasn't. Nothing was out. She looked absolutely beautiful. And you know what? So what if a woman wears a mermaid dress. The point of them IS for people to notice her body and how good she looks. A wedding is really the only day a lot of women have to ever feel that dressed up and beautiful.

[@jamiedallas6968]

It is her choice to allow it. That's the difference. Yeah the fiancé sounds lame but she is choosing lame even though her father is warning her.

[@tidela4714]

No kidding - none of those dresses were in any way actually provocative

[@Luvliixo]

For someone as a conservative Christian in ministry, you have 666 likes on this comment

[@kylieroberts1128]

Exactly...all those dresses were very classy and elegant. If her partner thought otherwise it says A LOT about him.

[@pinkcarrera123]

I feel for her Dad knowing that his daughter is about to make a huge mistake by entering a narcissistic, controlling marriage.

[@skyelockhart3211]

I love when her dad rolls his eyes at her fiancé . He’s my hero

[@JaneDoe-dg4pq]

Her fiancé sounds like a jerk. She needs to flee.

[@GameChanger597]

His holier-than-thou act is born out of fear. I recognize it from a mile away. This is not love and it's not normal either. It's obvious her father doesn't approve and the daughter is insecure. I think it's possible the groom might even be gay.

[@sewitaliano7423]

He already sees the writing on the wall..

[@thecreativemillenial]

He's like 'when is she going to learn to think for herself?'

[@cynthiadavid5282]

Too many red flags with this guy would not marry him at all shows he has issues already

[@goobertthewormonastring978]

i feel like ron’s last name is chicken because he’s too scared to let jessica have her own voice and opinion.

[@Amore.iinaaa]

This comment should have like 2 k likes !lol

[@shambhavichaturvedi4492]

This is by far the best comment😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@taiyabazaheer9492]

Yeah he CHICKENs out when he sees a strong, opinionated woman.

[@USMLE06151984]

Amen!

[@baileyhunter258]

😂😂😂😂 I’m dead

[@niaaaaa4322]

“The back is very low cut, there’s not much left to the imagination” Girl it’s your BACK!

[@daneilebrown1006]

I'm dyinggggggg. I was wondering the same thing

[@heshanigamage576]

they shouldn't be imagining in the fist place

[@Jamie-jf5uz]

Right, and it's showing less of her back, or roughly the same amount, as the keyhole back was???

[@nadiajurd-sneath7801]

Ii

[@spinchage]

She said that and I was like maam what are they imagining? Your bra strap? Like goddamn !

[@inthemagicxxx2242]

Her dads watched her go from independent and confident to being controlled by Ron and he hates it

[@hannahgilstad1622]

Okay she mentioned “Ron” way too much while shopping for HER dress. Ron can go wear the freaking turtle neck keyhole wedding dress🙄

[@sabinamuriithi1339]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@whatthepsych]

💀💀💀

[@theab3957]

If he's so damn concerned about how her dress is going to look, why didn't he go with her?

[@ThatGirlJD]

@@theab3957 He can't see the dress before the wedding.

[@longkumer_9629]

, 😂😂😂😂💦🙏

[@nerdburger234]

Wait till Her and her fiancé have kids and a neighbor is gonna be like “Look at all those Chickens!”

[@estersilva7804]

LOL

[@candicehoneycutt4318]

I read this in the voice of the little girl from that one Vine and I cannot stop giggling 😂

[@nupur9086]

I read that as the vine lmaoooo

[@debbiekelly2528]

Christina Singleton omg that’s just too funny!

[@auroracampos8244]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@rachelbircher6943]

She seems genuinely scared of what her fiance will say. Like she's realised that it's what she wants but doesn't want to take the risk in case he's mad with her....

[@HazelJuanitaMillanHoffman]

Then he's not the right man to marry

[@mrslautner89]

Doesn’t sound like the right guy for her

[@justjackie929]

allie ross he is not the right guy for anyone

[@user-jy1bc3gw2q]

That would be my final test for him. That's the kind of shit you wanna lean into and test him for before you walk down that aisle.

[@stephaniehowe0973]

Exactly wrong choice. If "they" are going into the ministry she has to be Strong

[@_river_2633]

Her dad’s face after she said “He BETTER” literally says “oh he do damn well better like like it or else..” 😂

[@janmcclure551]

I love her dad..I sure hope this young lady did not end up abused.

[@serahloeffelroberts9901]

Fiance should get a bit nervous if FIL has a room full of trophy heads, a pickup truck and a walk in gun safe. No way would I want to get on FILs bad side.

[@gisforhungry]

Her dad deadass picked a dress style he KNEW ron would hate. I’m living for this dad. It’s her WEDDING day and she’s worried about too much attention???? Girl you’re the one they’re there for if you were wearing a snow suit they’d still be focused on you. Honestly if I spent my whole life ignoring what my parents said about my clothes just to listen to my husband I would just drive off a cliff.

[@sarag15]

It seems like he’s subtly telling her “I’m here for you and will support you” through the dress and supporting her in picking the dress that is best for her, not her fiancé.

[@gisforhungry]

@@sarag15 seriously. Her dad seems amazing idk how she ended up with Mr Chicken.

[@unlimon6382]

If you really like your partner, you don't care what they wear THAT much.

[@Whatadreamfr]

@@unlimon6382 Mhm. It just shows insecurity and disgusting possessiveness. Honestly hope the bride is reading this comment section.

[@unlimon6382]

@@Whatadreamfr totally

[@dhementor]

Dad is paying so Chicken has no say. Should have no say. Why are women allowing men to manipulate and influence them?! Urgh!

[@Hello-bs4jn]

Unfortunately this is pretty common in southern evangelical communities many woman are taught to comply to their fathers and to their husbands but it doesn’t mean their is no underlying love their just both really indoctrinated

[@hilaryc3203]

Parents need to raise stronger daughters and better sons.

[@maryamnaveed994]

Not just women, men too. My brother loved his girlfriend more than anything in the world and in the end all she wanted was money from him. Even though he knew she was a gold digger, it took him soo long to let go of her.

[@Raevynwing]

Its really too bad.. Her father sure wants her to be happy and thinks the groom is being ridiculous. It's too bad others are so bent on control.

[@Raevynwing]

I'd say suck it up boy, not your body

[@liamstz1284]

She should be able to choose whatever she wants... sounds like the groom is extremely controlling.

[@BasicYTHandle]

She presents it as his strong preference, not his demand.

[@hejmonika1001]

Exactly. Sounds abusive to me and I would know. And to people saying “oh my god it’s reality tv” .. yes these things are generally lightly scripted, but the whole point is that the producers don’t have to create storylines because it’s all right there in real life. It’s pure laziness. I know that look on that bride’s face because I’ve been there.

[@alexispinkston750]

Everyone wants to please their spouse. Or should want to in some way. It doesn't always have to be " I wear what I want, their opinion doesn't matter". She may just be a little too concerned, but she's not being abused

[@NoliMeTangere1163]

@@Sunny-rk4vl if you are saying that, then you have NOT been around Evangelical men. I cannot count on my fingers how many of my girlfriends had to wear exactly what their future husbands told them to, down the aisle.

[@GovenorMcLovin]

@@Sunny-rk4vl woah. Who needs to get a grip?

[@Nyotakikora1]

Can I just say that her Father is amazing. And so supportive. And becoming a minister does not mean that you cannot show some skin. It also does not mean that you cannot still give up what you want.

[@Dr3aa__]

“It’s too revealing” literally nothing is showing 😂 tf she talking about.

[@chaysethebadger]

Oh no not unholy shoulders! 🤣

[@chloestedman8001]

@@chaysethebadger And..what is that! Her face!!!

[@icecreamlarry8622]

@@chloestedman8001 Ahahahaha

[@Starfire861]

Shoulders and collarbones! How scandalous!!!

[@mo-sl4bj]

imagine there are some people in this world who think of a woman and feel like anything short of a burka is showing too much. there's your answer

[@erinhaley6560]

That was exhausting. I've never met Ron but I am TIRED of him. Dad's eyerolls were the only thing giving me life.

[@maiarostved]

When women say “he’s very traditional” 9/10 times they mean “controlling” :// so sad to see. I hope she continued to be happy with her pick, cause she looked gorgeous.

[@noneofyourbusiness273]

The worst thing is they hide with religion. I'm a Christian myself and I would never be that scared, or nervous of my fiance's opinion on something I wear or do. (I'm actually engaged). So many red flags on this episode.

[@Nenezilla]

Agree. They use their religion as a cover to hide their controlling tendencies.

[@alysham519]

Omg yes! Traditional is too often code for CONTROLLING HUSBAND! it's one thing for your fiance to have an opinion about what you're wearing to the wedding. It's another thing to completely adhere to his opinion as if it's a rule you can't break 😔.

[@karimecolettadominguez]

None Of Your Business amen

[@Ewelina2501]

@@noneofyourbusiness273 exactly

[@sooticablue1664]

It’s the fact she refers to chicken as like the food! As opposed to the bird! Oh my god! 😂

[@taemoon4767]

“His name is chicken, just like the food.” You mean just like the animal??

[@kaciew.6202]

Yesss! I was so annoyed. I mean geez, chickens probably have more personality than her fiancée

[@codename495]

Chickens are food. Humans bred chickens as food. There are no wild chickens because we made them for food. Same with cows. Food.

[@emilygg7686]

@@codename495 u mean cooked chicken is food... unless you’re eating raw chicken, they are animals???

[@marymar5276]

@@longarmoftheOOHLALA BIRD! IT'S A DAMN BIRD!

[@susicasti4189]

@@codename495 chickens are birds, birds were here before humans , so you’re wrong af

[@tarashelton493]

I’m a southern Christian girl who loves my Lord Jesus, but no man is going to tell me what I can and cannot wear!! There’s nothing wrong with strapless!!

[@jamiedallas6968]

Not very Biblical but ok...

[@rayssa_crd]

@@jamiedallas6968 babes, what about showing your shoulders isn't Biblical?

[@jamiedallas6968]

Let me be clearer "but no man is going to tell me what I can and cannot wear" That is not Biblical

[@jamiedallas6968]

@@fina.friedel thats right! We are all given free will. But she clearly said she is a "Christian girl who loves the Lord". That is not a Biblical statement to then say "no man will tell me what to wear". That goes against some of what the Bible says about a wife. We are to submit to one another. So...if her "future husband" shows signs of request of what he prefers you are to submit to that if you are a Christian. It shows love and respect. Same goes with the wife. If your man grows a big bushy beard and you hate its look or it hurts to kiss him he too should submit to his wife and shave. That's why really getting to know someone and asking hard questions before you marry are important. Those things you don't like while dating are going to drive you nuts in marriage. Besides the Bible says to be modest...modesty is on everyone's own personal scale but still. We are to follow Christ's teachings as much as we are able as a "Christian girl who loves Lord Jesus"

[@januarybaby]

Haha the classic "I'm a christian girl" fake bs. Then followed up with a statement about how you can do whatever you want 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 dumb girl

[@moonwalker98787]

"More traditional then me" aka more controlling and misogynistic Her dad is a KING wanting his daughter to wear what SHE WANTS Modesty is a toxic concept of purity culture

[@johnnabuzby6103]

@Chelsea Kinsella There's nothing wrong with wanting to be modest, not trashy looking, especially for your wedding day...just saying.

[@Amy-nl7sf]

@@johnnabuzby6103 this girl in particular probably has to put in a lot of effort to be trashy tho.

[@callmewaves1160]

@@johnnabuzby6103 you can clearly see she doesn't want a "modest" dress. She is scared not to have a modest dress because of how he is probably going to react. That is a HUGE difference, and honestly quite sad.

[@juice4301]

Johnna Buzby shoulders are not trashy looking though

[@imnotsupposedtobehere2692]

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be modest, but there is a lot wrong with how controlling her groom was being. You can be modest and still feel like a million bucks, but she was being forced to find something to suit her fiancé’s tastes.

[@phifrom5]

Her father's heart must be breaking that his beloved daughter is letting some guy's preferences completely overtake her own :(

[@selincaka2088]

Mom, too. They see the path she's heading down.

[@justmedic9689]

I don't even know her but my heart is breaking for her.

[@Minabobina007]

Thing is, she thinks she is living by the Bible and putting her husband’s needs over her own. Smdh religion is such BS

[@charisamartin2152]

When she first mentioned her fiance, her dad eye rolled...and continued to. Don't blame him one bit.

[@lisamelroy2855]

But, in the end, she chose the dress that she loved. I think she just needed to see it.

[@rachetanarwal2399]

"Ron won't like this" "Ron would want a turtle neck" "Ron doesn't want a provocative dress" Listen to my advice sister, if a guy has so many preferences on what you should and should not wear at your goddamn wedding you're better off without him

[@eleanorcooke7136]

He doesn't have to wear it so he doesn't get to pick it

[@lemon9881]

Eleanor Cooke period

[@Manu7Uzui]

Exactly... Throw the chicken away

[@mmminno]

I seriously hope he hates the dress throws a fit and says no at the altar because she'd be way better off

[@ruinsane100]

Evangelical Christians believe the wife should be submissive and obedient. I think that's what's going on here. I personally find it disturbing.

[@nyxnecrodragon4256]

I love the way her father rolls his eyes every time she mentions Ron. And not being funny but her dad has great taste.

[@Kelli2582]

I looked her up online. She wore the dress, she looked fabulous and they had a baby so yay for your dress girl!

[@live4beauty1]

We need a follow up on their relationship. For her sake, I hope that she left Mr. Chicken and upgraded to Mr. Fox.

[@michellemarie988]

I googled their names and can’t find much.

[@joyamarie3542]

I found her on FB and she’s still with him and they have a baby

[@CarolaTesla]

@@joyamarie3542 whats her name?

[@JellyV93]

& he’s a lawyer

[@elissasmith5483]

Carola Tesla I assume it would be Jessica chicken 😂

[@marleymescudi]

Girl, his last name is Chicken. He better let you wear whatever you want if you're going to have that last name!

[@CarolaTesla]

its not her obligation to change her lastname...

[@marleymescudi]

@@CarolaTesla I never said it was...

[@ReplyGuy22345]

Carola Tesla he’s probably going to “strongly convince” her into changing it

[@leonamay8776]

@@CarolaTesla nah, it isn't. But I'm pretty sure he will expect her to. And she will comply....

[@CherryBlossomBlyue]

That is fact

[@jeald0003]

This whole wedding is hurting her Dad. He knows she's an adult, and she needs to make her own decisions, therefore he will support her in being her. Whilst clearly disliking that the man she is choosing to marry is proving to be controlling and dictating how she should be. He knows this will likely hurt her, but he'll do everything to support her independence and in his own way undermine Ron Chicken's control over his daughter.

[@Peachez_and_ThePits]

Yea I totally agree... my dad would NOT be a fan of a man like Mr. Chicken and would let me know it!!... I hope this girl is ok 😩

[@cindyc3183]

Yup. I agree. She should NOT be marrying this controlling person who will treat her badly for the rest of her married life.

[@justchill6652]

Can never hurt my dad to marry a man that does not vibe like my dad I swear to dump him, never marry the wrong man cuz marriage is a once in a lifetime thing

[@tamarmusic7851]

Nail on the head

[@rondaspencer9133]

Just shows how much of an amazing Dad this lady has.

[@lh4615]

Huge praise to this papa 🙌🏻 Supportive despite his obvious annoyance at his daughter’s fiancé and Mr. Chicken’s desire to dominate his daughter’s opinions. It must be so hard “giving her away” to someone he doesn’t respect…

[@giulianaescobar2395]

Honey, he wouldn't tell me what kind of dress to wear if my last name was going to be "Chicken" 🥺😭

[@mittalmehta3677]

Your comment is underrated

[@washurhands5079]

Olivia HENDERSON MR CHICKEN 🤣🤣🤣

[@Bettyish]

NAILED IT!!!!!!!!!! TOP COMMENT WINNER!!!!!!!

[@CrystalRuizEnriquez]

@@Sunny-rk4vl wait...I'm starting to think you're the groom or someone that likes him. He wasnt gonna tell her "I demand" anything because she would've left his ass a long time ago. Him saying "I'd like" a very specific dress is him trying to make sure she chooses something he would like. Also, he was specific with what he wanted her to wear, he didnt just say "something conservative".

[@Bettyish]

​@@Sunny-rk4vl Shhhhhhhh. No one cares what you think x x

[@myazz3078]

She is not marrying the right person.

[@nathanmalik1697]

Because he wants her to wear a dress with straps??? That's quite a reach.

[@idas5231]

@@nathanmalik1697 No, because he wants to control her and be what he wants her to be. Red lights!

[@nathanmalik1697]

@@idas5231 Well, this is an old video and a little digging on Facebook shows that they've been married since 2014. Every relationship is different and a few minutes of a KZbin video isn't enough to make such strong assumptions. P.S. She got married in the strapless dress. So apparently, Ron is a lot more flexible than this edited clip wants you to think.

[@glamam3914]

Ida S it’s not just her wedding it’s his wedding too. They should both get a say in everything.

[@nathanmalik1697]

@@glamam3914 Thank you. A man is allowed to have an opinion.

[@aliciamarroquin3911]

Her fiancé is the type of man that would see her at the alter in this dress and instead of saying how incredible she looks he’d say “I thought we agreed that you would wear straps?”

[@charissaclarice]

Omg I'd do a 180 and head back out the door!

[@agnes15101968]

Exactly.

[@BandlerChing]

Sunny and you know everything he said to her on the wedding day? People stay married to manipulative people literally all the time.

[@joyfuljaj]

she simpley stated what he had said he would like and the producers made that the plot device for this segment. It does not mean he is controlling. Plenty of brides change their minds about what they want after trying on dresses; a groom can change his opinion too. If you actually know the fiance, then you can make that kind of statement. Otherwise, this segment doesn't tell us that.

[@rakeshrai29]

Omg I was having the same thought...

[@rjtalk2264]

The moment they asked if her husbands gonna like the dress and she responded with "he better", gave me hope that she opens her eyes and dumps that man-child, it is your dress and you look gorgeous❤️

[@tyradaisy5967]

The dress her dad picked didn’t even show anything at all, no cleavage or anything, only her shoulders were out

[@enomfonasuquo5454]

I know! I feel bad for her.

[@ceciliagarrison9030]

Shoulders too scandalous 😂😂😂

[@anaizarg]

Same thought exactly, i respect that one would not want to reveal too much but not to the extreme that her shoulders are being seen as provocative. It's sad that a woman's body is viewed in this manner.

[@MaryVideoGames]

I think the dad’s pick was the least sexy out of all the dresses honestly!

[@tatianasolsrud9077]

She literally cried over straps because her future husband made her feel bad about exposing her body 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@iamtheaceupmysleeve1687]

Not just a red flag a RED FREAKING TAPESTRY

[@iamtheaceupmysleeve1687]

@@meghandoyle9877 Yh it’s her choice no one should make someone wear something they don’t feel comfortable in

[@gothicherie6691]

Like why would u marry someone who is like that……wedding is already so controlling only gonna go down hill from there

[@vernaereed1810]

@@meghandoyle9877 I wonder if he's going to want her to wear a scuba suit to bed?? So heartbreaking..

[@JaneDoe-dg4pq]

She would be better off running from this relationship than getting married.

[@casieatthe393]

Just the fact that her Dad rolled his eyes at her saying “he wants a turtleneck” .

[@shim0381]

He wants a turtleneck then he can wear a turtleneck

[@dlldll9754]

I loved him for that.

[@Jas13579]

I like the dad bc he was trying to get her to pick what she wants,not what Ron wants

[@macieholifield4312]

When the youth minister at my church and his wife got married she wore a strapless ballgown and everyone loved it he was balling crying seeing her in such an amazingly beautiful dress

[@pilotswife06]

Keep the dress. Ditch the fiancé.

[@chimereballard9609]

The way he keeps calling her fiancé “Mr.Chicken” 😂🤣

[@marissasifre9026]

That’s why we love Monte

[@courteneycampbell2547]

She shouldn’t be getting married to Ron if she can’t even make her own decisions without mentioning him every 2secs

[@MrWereWolfGirl]

I just... imagine what would happen if he was in a car crash or something and he died suddenly? She wouldn't be able to make decisions for herself at all, she would constantly question what he would do and approve of.

[@alisbubu]

Guys.. he's her husband! And she loves him! I really don't understand why are you so mean

[@juliamidori4103]

@@alisbubu you don't??? Hes a misogynist selfish control freak and you still don't see any problem??

[@alexandreamiller5927]

@@alisbubu its true that love can be blind. She may love him, but is clearly blind to his controlling behavior

[@RebeccaRaven]

She has no idea what she is going to have to sacrifice. Are they still married?

[@caitlin2649]

This poor girl is being psychologically and emotionally manipulated by this fiance of hers. This should be entirely her decision, and he should not be getting in her head and making her feel afraid of his disapproval, guilty for liking the dresses she likes, and paranoid that showing her body is going to bring shame and criticism. The toxic culture in conservative christian groups around oversexualizing women's bodies and shaming them into hating themselves and their bodies, not to mention their sexuality, is absolutely sickening. I'm fortunate enough to have escaped from the toxicity of purity culture but it scars you, man. I can't imagine marrying someone like that. What a controlling jerk

[@isobelx3262]

Caitlin sorry you had that experience but: LOUDER FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK

[@imnotsupposedtobehere2692]

My family used to be very into purity culture when I was little. And I can proudly say that we have all grown as people. By the time I got married, my dress had a plunging back that showed off a very not-Christian tattoo and my family only ever supported my choice and loved it. Even my conservative pastor grandfather was in love with it, even if he still doesn’t really like the tattoo, haha. He doesn’t even comment anymore on the fact that I’m a Goth and even likes to joke that I’ll hex him. He actually legit gets concerned when I show up to his house in anything other than straight black these days. People can change and grow, sometimes it just takes time and support. I’m so sorry that you went through something scarred you and had lasting negative effects. I hope that only helps you to grow as a better person than the people who put you down.

[@animezinglife]

Trust me, most Christian conservatives don't accept this either. At all. Especially the ones my age.

[@acecelia3262]

Ikrrr like its just fuckin collar bone and shoulders! These type of people are insane and i honestly hate them. My 'mother' was like this and i remember how shitty i felt when she first told me my shoulder were inappropriate to show, ugh

[@veranaika]

I see red flags. His controlling. Her father is empowering her. Don't let a guy control you girl. Find a guy like your father who would love you no matter what you wear. And accept what you want.

[@Wkindablue]

Daddy is controlling her and gets what he wants. Not very empowering to start your marriage showing total disrespect for your husband.

[@Boultbeeable]

@@Wkindablue found the incel

[@horanghaeng]

@@Wkindablue "disrespect for your husband" where? by wearing what I want at my wedding? having my own taste on clothes and an opinion formed on my own? having my own voice? if you think having all of that is disrespectful then I hope you never get married, or, if you do, I hope your partner isn't scared of having their own thoughts, tastes, interests, needs and have full respect for themselves, shutting you off every time you try to control them

[@Wkindablue]

I was married for over 48 years before my wonderful husbands passing. It worked because we had mutual respect for each other. I married to form a union/partnership, not to flaunt a fancy dress to wear one time for a few hours. If wearing what you want means having a voice, then simply choose a man who agrees with you, not a conservative one like this gal. A man has a right to be conservative and a woman does not have to marry a man to be happy. It is not Daddy's business and his influence was just as controlling as people have judged Ron to be. Clothing was not that important to me but good relationships were. I don't care if you both want to be nude at your wedding, just as long as that is what you BOTH want. To know what your lover wants and intentionally do something else is disrespect.

[@Wkindablue]

@@Boultbeeable The internet can easily deceive, for I am a woman and not the man you think you are cleverly disparaging. He was a very prolific lover. Why so many man haters on here?