How to Stop Caring About Someone Who Hurt You! 🚫❤️😔

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[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

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[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

True words have pain in it as same Medicine in but it's better for your health

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

All boundaries mine

[@kateoloughlin8774]

Thank you for your Time, Effort, Commitment and Heartfelt Honesty you invested in making this video. You are going to help so many people world wide of all ages and nations. That is some achievement with your 4 steps. Continued Success. Much Respect. Kate. 👱‍♀️💕💕

[@chaphechiyesu9746]

Thanks a lot. You are so inspiring

[@garycordle5295]

You will never be good enough to the wrong person, when someone won't make you a priority in their life don't make them one in yours.

[@Fatman-ze9dv]

Amen brother

[@catlady6938]

True

[@sunshine-sm6nf]

yes, wasting our life on the wrong person

[@garycordle5295]

@@sunshine-sm6nf exactly 👍

[@kerryannstewart747]

On point

[@mentalwarriorshow1458]

Our break up was so cold and brutal. and it was after a year of an amazing relationship. I couldn’t function for weeks. Didn’t sleep. Stalked social media. Texted when I knew I shouldn’t. Almost lost my business. But one day It, it felt lighter. I started training my body, pursuing Jiu Jitsu. I worked on my business. I started going back out to places we would go to, by myself, to enjoy it for me like I used to. I haven’t heard from her in weeks, and finally, that fire has stopped consuming me, and has become an inner fire, fueling me instead of consuming me. I’m not ready for any kind of dating yet, but for the first time in over a year since we met, I care about being the best me, for me again.

[@ruthbalajadia6723]

A break up is always a devastating experience... I absolutely can relate to this..

[@suetaniaemmanuel8107]

Great job

[@jennyllontop6809]

Thank you for sharing

[@alpineshine2549]

I hope you're okay man. I hate to say this, but the fact you commented on this still implies you still didn't forget. We're all here for the same reason & I'm just attempting to calm thoughts until I move back to California from the midwest in a month. I wish you well on your journey, and always be aware of the red flags because they'll show themselves in a few ways before the heartbreak & don't allow lust to cloud judgment.

[@Godsanointed08]

That’s beautiful

[@michelepascoe6068]

1. They don't care about you. 2. Turn your pain into your pleasure. Pursue healthy interests. 3. They are wrong for you - what they've done is not what you need. Associate with people who accept and appreciate you; who reciprocate your love. 4. Use next 21 days to practice moving on. Stop talking about them. Embrace a passion project. Do things you enjoy. Eliminate toxic habits. Associate with good people.

[@GQSmooth410]

Thank you for this

[@bossblake5124]

Already

[@Nika-sq7gd]

I've been trying to move on for so long but it's sometimes so difficult when the pain comes up at any random moment :(

[@michelepascoe6068]

@@Nika-sq7gd Yes, it's hard. If you're still traumatised, it's consuming. Dr Les Carter's KZbin channel has been most helpful to me. Also Dr Lundy Bancroft's book Why Does He Do That? for understanding the abusive mindset. Understanding that abuse is not about the victim is key. It's not your fault that you were bullied/manipulated/mistreated. I hope you can practice self care, self compassion, and spend time with people who love you. If you don't know Jesus/Yeshua, try the Alpha course. He loves you and knows what happened. Courage and peace to you. You are Someone worth loving, not no-one.

[@jacquelinemai5474]

Thanks sooo much

[@miriamchalmovianska863]

We hurt ourselves... by not loving ourselves, and letting people treat us poorly.

[@rhondaduncan7228]

Isn't that the truth?! It's sad. I can't bear to hurt someone that badly. I am shocked by the depravity of mankind at times. The responses here show that there are still like-minded people still out there!! Thank you!

[@rhondaduncan7228]

Wow!! This is so true! As previously stated a needed slap in the face!! Redirect the energy to be good to yourself!!

[@JimTheSk8teR]

I stopped caring about people who hurt me, I'm learning how to forgive myself and let go of the past. Give yourself time to heal is also very important.

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@passionate_singer1512]

V. Powerful n perfect comment, more than the video I found

[@fernandocabanillas8133]

How’s it going brother? I’ve been trying to learn how to heal and forgive myself for the past 35 years and still haven’t learned how. My inner demons cost me my marriage of 20+ years and I miss my wife so bad. Just curious as to whether or not you’ve mastered how to learn to forgive yourself and let go and if so any tips?

[@maryt7959]

Because she didn’t really loved you , but she made you think she did . These people are narcissistic for sure !

[@useryu99]

Exact situation about my marriage , it was a love marriage before now she says it's an arranged marriage when things are not in her way , we spent one year b4 marriage visiting places , gift , sex , love etc but after marriage my parents only chose u , she talks to me very rudely ... I'm always heartbroken ...I can't believe she has turned like this ....even her parents are trying to make her understand , this is marriage not a joke , everyone has to compromise , we only spent one month of marriage , then she went home 😭😭😭😭😭, I'm so broken , I love and care for her like crazy 😭😭😭😭

[@useryu99]

@Get Skilled Or Die Trying you are so right , I know it was me , love makes us do all sort of stupid things . 😭

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

I really great ful for her if understand mine and my point of views

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

All things know God he what is in our heart and what's in action

[@MeowMeow-cd9oc]

Ahh yeah that is painful

[@cactusjackthedesertrat5601]

Broken hearts make bodybuilders

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Thanks for Watching!

[@sjasminchristensen.single]

🤔🙂

[@ashk504]

CANNOT agree more lol!! I started up again my lifting and training, its better than any alcohol!!

[@cactusjackthedesertrat5601]

@@ashk504 keep it up I feel good and look good : )

[@ganeshravindran3875]

Truee

[@Ladyjojo695]

I’ve cut so many people out my life like this I’m practically a hermit. I’m sick of being hurt when I do nothing but good by others. And honestly I can’t find like minded people anymore 🙁 Great video. Ty. X

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Thanks for Watching!

[@blkvettez0630]

There are like-minded people out there so don’t give up! 😉

[@aliciabee2781]

You and me both good message.

[@ronaldcaliva5004]

You must be a giver and always craving for love and attention from time to time..try not to give him much attention once in a while you'll surely be amazed of your action coz men love girls who are hard to get like digging out a gold

[@suzyloved3365]

Me too dearest. All friends I valued were fake

[@zachariah7021]

Stop caring about those who have hurt you. Turn pain into Self improvement.

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Thanks for Watching!

[@zachariah7021]

@@SCGSHOW Thank you for kindly sharing

[@aharowna3539]

Zachariah Baker • Not as easily done if you've been the target of a Narcissist Abuser Zach. It's another world altogether & breaking free & healing can truly take years in most cases. Well known fact, only those who have experienced will truly understand. No disrespect intended.

[@petralee574]

The breakup after a 15 year marriage was brutal, cheated on and discarded - it hurt so much. But I did what you did: started to go to the gym, started eating better and lost 50 lbs. My daughter told me: Mom, go and make that pain your bi*ch - I did. It took 18 months of grieving and improving myself. I emerged a stronger, healthier person .. emotionally and physically. My finances have improved drastically, allowing me to travel and for the first time purchase a car I liked … This shows that healing and start living the life you truly want, is possible at any age …

[@MattMussett]

💯

[@jerzire]

You inspire me❤️

[@joslynhughes5658]

Inspired! My 14 yr. Relationship is ending…I am currently lost. Thank you for sharing

[@curtistinemiller4646]

You will never be Good enough for the "Wrong " person..

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Thanks for Watching

[@mswong6874]

1. Realize they don't care about you. 2. Turn your pain to pleasure. Channel it into the best version of yourself. 3. You will never be good enough for the wrong person. 4. For next 21 days to eliminate and thought or habit about this person. Create a new high vibrational habit.

[@VamosGlobalTV]

I have seen many videos but this one got through. Would you hurt someone you loved? Absolutely not. So if they hurt you, they never loved you. They use you and when you are no longer of use, they will discard you like a piece of trash. They have no conscience nor feelings. Thank you for this ❤️🙏

[@ITR1329]

The sign of a true narcissist these types of ppl

[@sarahhowell6660]

They may have hurt you. But you cannot assume they are happy. Or doing better. Or living their best life. People hurt you, sometimes unintentionally. And because they are going through shit themselves, that they cant address and you end up getting hurt/heartbroken. You wont know that they may cry at night for what they did to you. Or feel remorse/regret. You may never know. Just because when you see them, they look happy IN THAT MOMENT, its just a moment. We also all move on at different times. Being the "dumped" you will always be a few steps behind the "dumper". Expect it. But you're time will come. Its misleading to believe the one that hurt you is ontop of the world. Nobody knows what other people are thinking behind closed doors. We can all put on our game face! Xxx

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Thanks for Watching!

[@86sineadw]

Well said 👏

[@dity9442]

That is very true.

[@Seren2010kinder]

Sometimes they just just got to do what’s best for them and not you Would you want them to stay with you and be unhappy and then argue and you both gate each h other in the end? No of course not! Sometimes you have to let them go so they can be happy even though it’s without you You will find happiness in the end If you done all you can and it didn’t work Hold your head high knowing you tried Love yourself and someone will see who you are and want to be apart of your life

[@annd1411]

@@Seren2010kinder or they could simply be toxic, unhappy people and no one will do unless they find someone equally as unhappy or can be a doormat. Some dark mental conditions are tough for anyone to deal with.

[@marywolfe6598]

They say that rejection is Gods protection! I prayed for God to remove all people who aren't meant to be in my life and it happened with little effort on my part.

[@serpico7308]

Wow I am almost 50. This video is dead on the money. Please listen . Every time I went outside of myself for happiness. It is not there.

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for watching

[@cherrybacon3319]

I'm 56 and am only just learning how to start putting myself first in my life and caring about the right people. 🍒

[@sandrakissack1332]

@@cherrybacon3319 yes, from a young girl, put others first...just waking up to the fact that I deserve to put ME first now !!.and its not selfish!!..🙂❤

[@lorrainewest7408]

@@sandrakissack1332 Females from my experience are taught that of a Cinderella complex, or sugar & spice & all things Nice, that is what they are made of. Not a lot of people go by this nowadays. Too many "attack dogs" in society. To me it is OK to not be selfish, but not taken advantage of.

[@audrey-vf9ef]

So true ! Red flags were everywhere everytime. What a waste of time

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Thanks for Watching!

[@charmee4045]

The right man, won't want to make the wrong move.......

[@jericvillareal3088]

This is video is for healing a broken heart and a realization at the same time.❤💔

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for watching

[@salmanakber6368]

Well said brotha

[@marywolfe6598]

They say hurt people, hurt people. I just never expected it from friends of 20 years! The bible says to guard your heart with ALL diligence for out of it flows ALL the issues of life! God is never wrong! God help these abusers, nasty people. Worse yet, they blame their victims.

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

thanks you appreciated but I say myself nothing all glorious to his precious name to

[@annabee922]

Thank you for this video. I'm definitely guilty of wanting to see the best in others to a fault. My naivety created the perfect environment for people to use and abuse me. It wasn't until I decided to take full responsibility for teaching them how to treat me that I was able to start healing. I still care and it still hurts because some of these people are my own parents and siblings that I had to cut out of my life to protect myself while I heal. I care enough to let them go with compassion and release the anger. But I choose to care more about my own well-being to wish them the best from a distance. It's such a painful journey and wish anyone who's on this same journey all the love and healing that they deserve ❤️

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Thanks for Watching!

[@timotahowhitehawk3756]

#1. They do not care about you! They do not think about you... She acted as if you never existed. #2. Turn your pain into Pleasure. Use the pain to motivate your to change and personal Improvement. #3. You will never be good enough for the wrong person. They will abuse you and take liberties with you, due to lack of respect. They will not Love you. #4. Take the next 21 days very seriously; it takes 21 days to start a new habit. So make the change, throw yourself into a new Project...that takes your mind off the person. Keep yourself up.

[@miguelolmeda4415]

My family verbally abused me to the point that I started to believe that it was true.

[@kvetinkakvetinka3977]

I am moving back to my Flat and renovating it all by myself. That is my project.

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching

[@kvetinkakvetinka3977]

Thanks for great content 🤗

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

Thank you looked over here do your important work first

[@jenniferculpepper856]

My husband has hurt me so much in the past. He has put other peoples needs and feelings over mine including overstepping my boundaries for their convenience.

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Thanks for Watching!

[@johnelwell1707]

Telling me not to care is like telling me to fly. I literally just don't have the ability to. And I don't understand how the other person don't care. We have a child. Empathy is a real ass kicker

[@bigjohn8407]

It's best to ignore them. Those psychic vampires will hurt themselves when they have no one to hurt.

[@katereggasuzan2661]

Very true

[@Unveil252]

I'm done, I walked away not because I am selfish nor narcissistic, I walked away because Im done being used, played and I dont know why does he always told me I am just a friend to him even tho I already told him my feelings. So I just let myself go because I was hurt. he wanted me to stay but I already recognize my worth.

[@elizatoponce9375]

It’s been four months since I broke up with a really toxic guy, and honestly he still hurts me to this day, we were in the same group of friends so it’s so hard to avoid him but I’m trying everything I can. Luckily I’m going to college in the fall and I’ll get a fresh start

[@virgomoons]

It's hard when the people that hurt you over and over are your mother and sister

[@edith324]

People come into my life for a reason to communicate not commute to get to educate not to be educated to achieve not to decieve to be loved and to love. Amen

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@starttakinnotez]

I got over a 2 year relationship with my BPD ex gf who had many covertly narcissistic traits in 1 month. All I had to do was look up narcissistic abuse and it literally hit all the checks. It hurt a lot at first trying to accept that she wasn't what I idealized her out to be....but it eventually made me feel better. I started taking care of myself. I started loving myself. I had a huge body transformation in a month because I quit drinking and smoking weed along with meal prepping. I downloaded bumble and started getting around 20-30 matches a day. I mingled and went on many dates. Now I'm seeing a woman who treats me the way I had to beg my ex to treat me. I often look back and I seriously wonder why I ever settled for less than I deserved. Know your worth people! No one else gets to determine your value besides you! ♥️🙂

[@starttakinnotez]

It's so fucking hilarious that I posted my comment before I watched this video and you ended up doing the same shit I did. GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE!!

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@catalina1518]

I'm really struggling need these messages everyday I'm fighting for my light back everyday

[@sistersister3166]

Keep fighting, you will have a breakthrough

[@sistersister3166]

I am learning I must protect my heart first before anything else.

[@sandyyoung-boling9336]

Me too

[@viewmodeimages350]

Feeding the squirrel 🐿 family at my nearest park has given me the biggest Zen after heartbreak. Those little guys are so cute, they trust me implicitly and give me many laughs with their antics. I hand feed them walnuts and they reward me with never ending cuteness 🥰 They healed me and put everything in to perspective. Go to nature people, its where humans belong. Stay away from the drama and go to nature 🌿

[@blossom7587]

This is so sweet, I love how you devote your time to animals. The squirrel family you talk about is so adorable 🐿️

[@lightbulb888]

So true! :)

[@efthimios]

Thanks for this my heart is broken when my wife and mother of my child had affair and destroyed me I even tried to save our marriage and she showed no remorse but blames me and said she didn’t do anything wrong. 20 years married provider , faithful , thoughtful feel for a divorced womanizer

[@anams1]

You will be fine! You don’t want to be with a skank who could do this to you. There’s so many hoes but find yourself a good religious girl now !!!

[@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves]

I think the reason why a lot of times people are really hurt is not only just because they thought that person was going to be the same as they were when they met them but it's also wasted time you can't get that time back you kind of feel stupid in a way for wasting your love on the wrong person so it is hurtful to know that you love someone that didn't love you back the same way it was all fake for their own selfish pleasure

[@satyawatishari]

Tears are pouring down my face as I hear this, that person is my husband, I'm just broken

[@marywolfe6598]

I say to myself...why would I want somebody who doesn't want me? Also, I pray to God to take people out of my life that dont belong there and to help me be aware of good people who come into my life. I look for patterns with people. But, in the end know God has my back. The bible says....if God is for you who can be against you! God is for us!!

[@Aman2111]

I am done with drugs,love,gambling,sadness...lets focus on my self....my worlrd my priorities my rules....OM NAMAH

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@sunshine-sm6nf]

yes quit caring about them because they dont care about you. I have a friend who lives nearby and we would walk together and I thought enjoyed each others company but then she stopped walking and start doing stuff with her sister and daughter so I have to let go but it does hurt so badly. Yes, I will never be good enough for the wrong person, time to find other friends. Finally realizing I deserve better. Going to search for like minded people, thank you. People who will bring you up rather than idiot who hurt you.

[@barkahn9314]

Even when you are in pain no one is allowed to get hurt but we learn from it we deal with it we grow we move on but first we need to forgive ourself so we can forgive them

[@laughingmoon5825]

Thank You. I am still trying to get over that person for 5 years now. She is happy while I am left with hate. I do wish her happiness but I also how she is treating the same way she treated me.

[@monicabautista4583]

Thank you so much, my heart is still broken but this helped! Heart break is the worst feeling, being disappointed by someone you love, that constantly hurt you is very painful 💔

[@cyd2416]

She said that nobody truly cares about anyone. It wasn’t the first time she said it but this time it really hurt. I just told her it’s shit that nobody cares about her. When she said I was taking it in the wrong way, I asked her if she wanted to explain to which she just said “nah”. 🙂

[@phoenixrising8007]

Focus on the Positive and avoid the negative One positive person is better than 10 negative Do what lights you up, lifts your spirits and makes you feel peaceful, content & fulfilled Many Blessings 🙏❤️

[@SCGSHOW]

Well said!

[@kaypaton3263]

You make so much sense. I just got out of a 33 year relationship. I have finally accepted that I am worth so much more. His loss. I will watch this every time I am feeling low. Thanks from Australia

[@SCGSHOW]

You are so welcome

[@johncampbell5929]

Dayuuuum. Sorry man. Been 17 for me

[@amyo]

YOULL NEVER EVER BE GOOD ENOUGH FOR THE WRONG PERSON!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@clementinegordon9429]

This is so true. Going through a discard the now, feel like I've been thrown in the bin like a piece of trash..says he loves me but we are finished all because I confronted him about messages to another woman who he says they are just friends. He has been cruel and has broken my heart but my heart has been broken so many times..he has blocked me then unblocked but I feel he cannot let me go but has finished with me ! 🙄

[@sandygrays4066]

Run run run

[@b.d.olaivar3410]

Thanks for reminding me of my own self worth I am a good human being there is a lady out there who deserves me hopefully the one I deserve Thanks for reminding me BDO

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@CrazyJamaicanCook]

Thanks for this. I needed to hear this today. Yesterday I had a call from a former work colleague who had a blow out with another colleague who had hurt me deeply in the past. After that call I was tempted to reach out to my old friend and offer my support because it sounded like she was extremely short-staffed and her life was falling to pieces. Then I thought: « Why on earth would you want to help a person who backstabbed you to others, bullied and criticised you bitterly over nonsensical things, and the told you to your face that she had ignored you on your birthday-not because she forgot but just to spite you for making them ”depressed”? » I typed into KZbin Search “I want to help someone who hurt me” and your video was the only half-relevant thing that showed up. You’re right. I should not look back. She made her bed.

[@lyka8120]

He don't care about me He doesn't care what I feel He doesn't care anymore.. But I will fight for this battle.. 🙏

[@misfitstudios5117]

That was EPIC! ALL ROUND. Proud of you, and my relationship ended today, you just saved my life. Thank you

[@carolinekelly8481]

My ex went around like a broken man , made me the uncaring bad person ! Playing depression etc to everyone! He was playing around with his ex behind my back & said I was lucky to have him , found out it was my house he was after so boom I ghosted him , blanked him totally & never looked back! I had to protect me & yet I was made the baddie , remember ppl that 2 sides to every story

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@lisarobinson1241]

Best move, never looking back that is... You're my hero 💕

[@scarfaceakenz4980]

I am still in so much pain…still working on it..

[@filippa6839]

I’m watching this cause a guy I’ve been talking to since March left me on read, it might not seem like a big deal to a lot people but I’m a really high sensitive person so things like that can really affect me negatively for weeks or even months or years. I also have really low self esteem so I always blame everything on myself which has led to strong anxiety and stress which has led to Missophonia and Fatigue Syndrome so yes, getting left on read is a big deal to me. Unfortunately.

[@sarabrown4937]

My best friend! Hurt me so bad I thought she took my joy, my spirit an sense of humor?

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@sirennem.6890]

Thats life. Everyone have us when they need us, mostly, partners, friends. Move on. Find positive people, Put yourself first.

[@hankhill3417]

Don’t let someone live rent free in your mind

[@virglow]

Absolutely fantastic. I’ve been in a mental rut for almost a year. Great video. Thank you so much

[@SCGSHOW]

Glad to see you are turning a corner

[@gloriousaffliction4041]

This deserves more views

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for watching

[@gloriousaffliction4041]

@@SCGSHOW you have helped and inspired me and kinda helped me see a new light

[@baruc4258]

thank you so much man, you just turned my worst depressing day into a great one, learned a lot with you

[@brittanyparistx]

This is a great video! When I first discovered that I had been in abusive narc relationships my whole life, I quit drinking entirely and started working out and studying spirituality. I recently just escaped a narc boss and now I’m studying poker. It’s really true that turning your energy back to yourself will heal you and as you begin to see real changes in your life, you feel proud of yourself. You realize you can do anything you want - or at least try anything. You don’t need anyone’s approval. Then you start to GLOW. In a way, narcs ultimately gave me a much better life

[@jurynn]

You go girl!!💕

[@humanistology]

Way to go! Thanks for the motivation…wishing you greatness❤️‍🩹

[@farakhalemdar9862]

An excellent video no American waffling nonsense... Straight to the point

[@ontherocks23]

Gosh, I wish I had known about this 40+ years ago. It would have helped me bounce back from some betrayals, e.g., the first time I fell in love after we broke up, she confessed to having cheated on me with one of my "friends". I went into a downward spin and it took me several years to "get back on track".

[@cheryllyon1377]

Yes fake people wearing a real mask been with many narrasistic men..understanding all your videos resonates. 🙏Namaste 🦋

[@SCGSHOW]

✅

[@zed4643]

This video really spoke to me. My ex and I were together for 3 years. It was long distance but he would come here to nyc to visit me for a week or so. He would never compliment me, never say he loved me first unless I said it, would gaslight me, and he lied to me about loving me. He broke up with me 2 months ago and he told me that he’s already with someone else. He’s happy and I’m depressed and angry thinking about how he screwed me over. I didn’t realize it until after the breakup that he had been emotionally abusing me the whole time. He was emotionally distant and cold most of the time and I ignored every red flag. Makes me feel like such a fool.

[@clementinegordon9429]

I'm going through the same experience, I'm heart broken but dont want to be x

[@keith4239]

For me, it was 22 years. It took me four months afterwards to start to wake up to the fact that my partner was a hard narcissist.

[@annahurst3770]

@@keith4239 don’t beat yourself up It’s not your fault , sometimes we ignore the red flags because we want to believe that person is who they say they are and just want to think the good in people …. Listen to your gut that little voice telling you something isn’t right … I wish I had . Was love bombed then manipulated and finished off with breadcrumbs. As awful as the lockdown was it was that which helped me recognise I was being manipulated and controlled … soon as I realised I ended it . It’s been tough these last few months but I am learning to be my best self using meditation reading self help books to build self esteem got back into the gym and really started to love the person I always was … but just never really looked close enough in the mirror. The universe sends us so many tests usually when we are not in a good place . I had one thing after another happen boiler broke cooker broke shower . Some reversed into my car just go name a few seriously there’s more … Just think of them as blocks which fell down in front of us move past them one at a time . Love the beautiful person you are nourish yourself with good food friends and positive people nature … Always believe something beautiful will happen wishing every one that has experienced being mistreated much love strength and abundance…..stay strong …

[@keith4239]

@@annahurst3770Anna, Thanks for taking the time to write. It buoys my spirits. In my heart, I knew all along that she didn't really care. But the charade was enough and, as I still love her so deeply, I would probably do it all again.

[@zed4643]

@@annahurst3770 very beautifully said. I too did not want to believe who he really was for a long time. He even warned me that he feels heartless, that he had never really fallen in love with anyone and that I deserved better. I refused to accept it and kept trying to “fix” him. I kept thinking that maybe if I “loved” him harder or shower him with even more affection he would actually love me back. Kept thinking that when he would finally make the big move here to NYC and we would be together, it would all be different. Then he broke up with me here in person on the eve of us moving in together. Had to spend a week with him here after the breakup, saw him for who he really was, then he calls me a month later at 4:30 AM to tell me he’s with someone else. What a plot twist he was.

[@sandy7543]

Totally agree. The pain will always be with you but Hopefully you'll grow and find someone who will truly love you

[@KatherineM-hx4sb]

Not putting this person on a pedestal but seeing them for what they truly are towards me and walking away while seeing that I have stopped caring for them. But doing good things for myself and building up me and making better friends in life as I now have.

[@SCGSHOW]

💯💙

[@bartsimpson2500]

This has really helped me friends hurt me to the point I was so depressed but they were happy so I’m not gonna care about them either thank you 😊

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching

[@Mingchan]

Biggest call out of my life is when he said "while youre sobbing at home eating ice cream" ... I'm sobbing right now eating ice cream & hearing this just made me sob more.

[@SCGSHOW]

💙 Stay strong

[@natashachiware4882]

Lord help me I’m going though a lot and it’s taking tone on my mental health. I’m not we’re I am in life and I feel like some one is mentally telling me I’m not good enough to do anything in life. So now I live with doubts and hearing other people’s voices. I would like to drive and get a permanent job. I would like more money and motivation to do this. My main problem that I do have is that I feel like people are watching me and I want them to stop. Feeling like this has been happening for years now. I have no cctv in my house but the way cctv works is how I feel in my house. I feel like people are watching me like I’m on cctv in my house and this needs to stop. If you don’t know what I mean I want you feel I feel and you will see what I mean.

[@lorrainewest7408]

To me this can be a complete build up of stresses in life, different sources. Overcoming can be a step at a time, support, communication with trusted person, telling yourself over & over you are Ok, feeding positive self talk, good messages, Doctor aid if need, and for endorphins, strength exercise is so good. I know basically because I kind of understand what is happening to you. Look after yourself, genuinely, relaxation, yoga whatever. If you can be in a group of support ..... like minded.

[@1010QUEEN7]

Read the bible you will be okay

[@sandradube4456]

I've been through this, please please seek Jesus. I got saved and was delivered and it all went away

[@marypetson]

There is help out there.

[@lightbulb888]

Sounds like a psychotic episode. I will see a doctor asap

[@davewelbylivinginhistinyti4796]

Care for all living beings, without feeling hurt. Each to their own, wish them well. In doing so your life could be so swell. Don't take life personal, there's nothing wrong. Just emotional experiences to make people stronge. For one who feels hurt from someone's decision, is waiting for someone else to make them feel better. Love yourself and know that you're emotionally clever. Love to all, and all to love 💛

[@SCGSHOW]

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[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

All creations of God

[@bilqis_abu]

💯

[@farahmahrinnivrita9948]

Recovering from a narcissistic marriage, this advices resonate with me! Thank you for the advices.

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@sandrakissack1332]

Totally understand what your saying 100percent!!!.. takes time to heal.!!!!😌❤

[@farahmahrinnivrita9948]

@@sandrakissack1332 Thank you for understanding ❤️

[@aharowna3539]

Farah Mahrin Nivrita • So sorry to hear you were married to one Farah & proud of you for getting out. I was involved with one for 6yrs (he lived with me at mine for 5yrs) & after an unusual but nice start things began to unravel with him. I can honestly say it was the most devastating, abusive, painful, confusing relationship & yet hardest to break free from of my whole life. I hope you are safe and doing well now! Sending much love 🤗😘💐

[@farahmahrinnivrita9948]

@@aharowna3539 I hope you are recovering well from it too. It's truly the most devastating, horrible things of your life. Sending my love to you & you are strong. 💐

[@relaxationchannel3615]

But it hurts so much that they don't give a damn about me.

[@LoveNeverFails1]

Channeling the pain into something good is very effective towards progress. My heart was broke about 8 to 9 years ago. I learned to spend a lot of time alone and enjoyed it. Many long hikes that turned to mma that turned into getting certified as a personal trainer. Didn't go anywhere with it but was in awesome shape. Life has come back around. Heartbreak is on the way once again. Relationship with a man I love has likely ended. I'm walking away. But it seems he is too. Either way, bring on the pain. Been needing some alone time and to renew my love of physical activity and long hikes in the woods. Thank you for the insight! ❤❤❤

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@tonimcdee7323]

I went through a tough divorce like ten years ago. She is a narcissist and hurt me really bad. I channeled that negative energy into learning to play acoustic guitar and sing. I no longer miss her and now make part of my living through music. I'm just grateful for the lessons learned! It seems that we are both on the right path with a positive frame of mind! Good job my friend!! 🤠

[@LoveNeverFails1]

@@tonimcdee7323 I'm two months out and it still hurts. It's as if I wrote this for myself. You prompted me though to pick up my aucustic again. Another thing I did years ago to get through the pain. ❤💚💜

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

Why we take some bitter medicine but we don't wanna its important for healing so take

[@abigailgaskell5687]

your so right . if I cudnt do it to any one .but I let some one treat me bad. you've made my night . thanks Abi xx

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@seemagayadin5199]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for your words, need to hear this right now!!!! Blessings for everyone

[@gamingprodigey7296]

Bro thank you so much, I needed this video.

[@FrankyboyFloyd]

I listened to hundreds of videos like this, but for some reason, I cannot get over it…. I feel so weak and miserable…

[@anaymousjohn5227]

I could be heartless cold hearted but when I care I am so compassionate its fire but I see things from a clear view we live learn

[@SolomonPrestige8888]

I met a woman, our meeting was like a script from a movie. Divine. Our similarities, like looking into a mirror, beautiful, intelligent, deep, and what a body. My twin flame 🔥🔥. One again, off again. Together, apart. 2 days ago, I decided, enough is enough. This channel , and knowing I'm not alone in my pain, motivates my to be better. Sometimes we meet the right people. And they simply show us that we have work to do. Do that work kings. Heal those traumas. Silence that inner child. Release the cause of emotional triggers. Spiritually grow. Embrace the feelings. Build yourself on the outside and inside. Accept the ups and downs, hope turns to fear, optimism to pain, and a roller coaster of emotions. Don't repeat the cycle. Heal before you even try again. Heal yourself purely and truly. Take full responsibility for your Part of the breakup.

[@defpikaleon2063]

When im hurt i disappeared,ghosting cut people off.I cared too much but im a ruthless person when people betrayed me🤨

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@harleyquinn5774]

I’m several years too late for listening to this message so it will help me, but I’m glad it exists for others out there who need it. 👍🏻

[@SCGSHOW]

Glad it was helpful!

[@warrenbrown2294]

It's not to late... Please know your lovable

[@sergiupetrosanu4475]

Thank you for your thoughts. It really helped me move on and improve me life.

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@wanguiteresia2508]

I’m a good, worthy and valuable person, all I want is peace, peace and and to be happy.

[@louisesantaniello593]

Exactly what I needed to hear! Thankyou 🥰

[@SCGSHOW]

So glad!

[@frankdavf4599]

Thank you man. This lift me up.

[@SCGSHOW]

Glad to hear it

[@SimplyMyLife509]

he lied to me, he emotionally abused me, he hurt me, it was so so toxic. Im now in therapy and trying to get over it but man...2 years is a long time. he's out with other girls now and I just hope karma serves

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[@southwest.air.luvflyer]

It all happened suddenly for me. I just voiced my opinion that I just feel like I'm not cared about when he says that he's so excited to see everyone but me. Next thing I know it's 4th period and he's pissed off at me. Telling me terrible things that resulted in me crying for hours. He knows he caused me pain as he saw me sprint to the bathroom crying and did nothing other than laugh. Hopefully this video helps

[@edgreen8140]

Glad i found your channel. I have put my boundaries down.

[@idenshi51]

I thank the narcissist that was in your life because if it wasn’t for her I wouldn’t have the chance to hear such great advice. Thank you SCG show.

[@SCGSHOW]

I totally agree!

[@reganaewinston]

The comment section always make me feel better and gain hope when I watch these videos 🙏🏾❤️

[@theascensionnetwork2493]

And I guess it showed. Show me a lesson and I’m raising my standards with people and realising that I need to be treated better I’m not to entertain people who don’t have my interests at heart Itza it’s an ongoing process and I’m sure in the end I will end up where I need to be with my life with who I meant to be with xxx

[@musicutube1111]

Learn to follow our head n leave ya feelings n heart out of it.I learned

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@jamiewilliams8107]

When you accept things the way they are you move on quickly.

[@rbs427]

Wow. So needed to hear that. Makes so much sense. I’m 6 months in but today (unfortunately) is day 1. I’m not talking about her anymore. I can’t fix it.

[@genasoriano559]

I really like your message I learned so much from it. Listening to it makes me feel stronger and knowing to stop caring the person who hurt me by staying focus with myself. Thank you for sharing it.

[@rabeccab.2666]

Absolutely loved your video🥰 thank you for the encouragement.

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@LPSKYWKR]

We dated 8 months and agreed to break up, she then kept asking for me back and I said getting back together wouldn't fix our issues...but then I realized I was being dumb and we could make it work with a counselor, so I took her to a restaurant and confessed and she was so happy (or so I thought) agreed then went cold the next week and said she was tired of me and didn't want to date, and it came out of left field I have serious trust issues now

[@alwaysattractinggreatthings]

Thank you for this video. 👌🏻Welk put together. 👏🏻 nice 👍🏻 😎 I just went through this just recently. And man ! it hurt ..! 😔 me so bad ! 🤦🏻‍♀️ But I did exactly like this video. Taking care of me and loving 🥰 on me . And boy does it feel good! 👍🏻🥰❤️

[@SCGSHOW]

Thanks for Watching!

[@annpippin6388]

Thanks. For. The video. It. Helps. Somehow.