The Awesome Power Of Assumed Attraction

Do you regularly ask yourself how you can make a particular woman like you? Did you know that this question almost guarantees you won't get good results?
How can this be? This question seems the most fundamental of all attraction conundrums.
But actually focussing on trying to make women like you is the completely wrong way to meet and attract women.
So what is the real secret to successfully picking up women? Assumed Attraction - and in today's video, I'm going to explain not just how it works, but how to build this dating superpower for yourself.
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[@zachfriedman92]

This is like an explanation of what "be confident" actually means. (Assume that she is interested in you!)

[@ryanbarker3978]

Re: Opener - Frame is everything. When you become obsessed with trying to make someone like you, you put yourself in the mental position where you have to. Assuming people like you because you're an interesting person that treats them well will yield far better results. The other way this sabotages you is that it guarantees outcome dependence, which is a terrible state of mind to be in matters surrounding other people. Oh, and you don't have to play any games with romantic interest either. Trust me as someone who took way too long to actually learn this and even longer to really put it into practice - If you have genuine interest in someone, just tell them.

[@OnyxStudiosInteractive]

That is really great advice. You definitely have to develop a style that women enjoy and learn how to use different social situations to your advantage. Learning how to introduce yourself in different ways is also a great skill to have.

[@samjohns2642]

Highly recommend the personality test above! Bang on

[@BeOutstanding]

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[@j-star1]

Awesome video! Truly can say this is 100%, a real relaxed mindset and extreme confidence can be feel by everyone around you! Btw can you make a video studying the female psychology/mindset behind the attraction of 365 days/50 shades of Gray? Thanks.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Not a bad idea Jamil - I'll add that to my list

[@gsg6667]

haha totally works told a girl to refrain from calling me outside booty call hours recently , she's still around

[@Cloxxki]

Just might be your best video. Slightly different, in my darkest hour as a teen at the end of a mid week away with classes our age (16 or so), I teased a hot girl I only knew the name of and started chatting. Her bestie noticed she as taking to a new boy and got in on it. At diner they made sure to sit across from me and were cracking up over my jokes all the time. This is not something that happens, ever, with me. Guys from my class were looking on in utter amazement, where did that come from with him to be totally playing the other class's hotting like a friggin' Stradevarius? I didn't have the skills to make anything from that, but it sure was eye opening. That time I didn't care and the second friend assumed I was cool because bestie was talking with me. Similar psychologies going on. Similarly, when I find myself on a kind of date with someone I am definitely not into (too chubby for me), she seems more likely to really take to me and eat from my hand, given the chance. I'm going to try treating the next hottie like my bestie. But not for too long :-)

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Thanks Cloxxki!

[@dgj91]

'Ashium'

[@diegol6020]

Hi Damien, new subscriber here. First of all congratulations for your great videos! I wanted to ask you if I need to reset my Tinder account to put in practice the lessons I've learned from your videos. I haven't got matches in weeks so I assume my Tinder score is below zero. And I don't know if I can climb out of the hole or it would be better to reset my account.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Yeah definitely delete your entire account, and creat a brand new profile that's a better version of you :)

[@diegol6020]

@@SchoolOfAttraction all right thanks for the advice!!

[@chrisobrienweb]

The quiz link on the website is not working :(

[@yetti7310]

How can I assume that she already likes me, if I don't believe in it on a deep level? I mean I can tell myself that she likes me, but on emotional level I don't really feel it. It's like something deep inside me has serious doubts about it.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

So the most important thing is to be ACTING like you do when a girl already likes you - maybe that's a better way to say it. You don't have to believe it on a deep level (I don't - becuse on a deep level I know plenty of women won't like me - but enough will, to make it all worth while) - but I still treat every woman as though I know she already likes me.

[@thejaebeing]

This was back in 2009... After listening an audio by Ross Jeffries back in the game days, he said the secret to getting girls is to say "I am sexy, powerful, and irresistable" in your sexiest voice over and over again. I've been doing that for 11 years now since I was 26 years old. I am now 37... Still an incel... But still doing it like it is still going to work. When do I call it just insanity and say it is not working? I assume all the girls like me, but have such vast difference in realities vs what gurus say. For e.g.to me, race, age, weight and whether girl js single mom matters more to me than whether the girl has a stronger frame that she is higher sexual market value. Not everything is about frames.... I actually think a more useful advice is that water seeks it's own levels and if you are inherently a 2 or 3, there is just no way people will buy your frame that you are 9 or 10.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Hey Jaesung - I tihnk it's important to note a radical difference between what Ross Jeffries told you to do and what I'm suggesting here... I don't believe in daily mantras like you mentioned above. Also I'm definitely not a fan of Ross Jeffries at all - he's an extremly unbalanced and odd individual at the best of times.

[@kezicss]

0:9 "cute girl" proceeds to show anorexia meetup

[@DreamBeatsBakery]

"if I didn't have a boyfriend I would've given you my number" is such a bs statement lol actions speak louder than words, If she REALLY felt you were that awesome she would've given you the number. This isn't a shot towards you but for guys in general.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Well now that's an easy thing for you to say - but when you've been around as many women as I have in my life - you see the difference between a woman who really likes you, and a woman who invents a fake boyfriend. The world is full of women who just enjoy feeling sexy and desired by a man because they don't get to feel that so often being in a relationship - if it's a man they find desireable back - that doesn't mean they want to leave their partner necessarily - what if it's a happy relationship? Both men and women in happy relationships still get attracted to other people you know. When all her body language clearly indicates that she's really into me - and the boyfriend thing comes up - But I can see she's really torn - Back when I was much younger, I used to see that as an opening for me to push her to cheat - but I haven't done that in a long time.