scorpios: managing fear of betrayal in relationships

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@guilejustguile1647 9 ай бұрын

Awsome video man. I’m a cancer and I often struggle with the same. I’ve found that sitting in a quiet room by myself and taking deep breaths helps. I play what I like to call the “true/false” game, where I make a statement and focus on whether it’s true or not. Just because I feel a certain way or think something is happening doesn’t make it true. I’ll think, “They don’t like me because x,y,z.” Then I’ll pause and analyze. Well, it’s not true because just yesterday they did this and this for me. 9/10 my preoccupations are nothing to worry about tbh. Also, the more negativity you focus on, the more you attract it. I choose to focus on the positive. As a result of this, I’ve progressed a lot with a person I’m seeing.

@theastrologybro 9 ай бұрын

Thank you, yes it’s obviously not limited to Scorpios, but anyone that can struggle with fear and trust in relationships. Often water sign heavy people. I love your “mindfulness” game to bring you back

@EmmaRose-c6z 9 ай бұрын

Thank you, it’s taken many years to come to these conclusions as a Scorpio. I’ve realised I don’t enjoy living in the jealous side of myself, I breathe, walk, practice critical thinking and allow for the fact the other person has free will when jealousy arises. I also look at my past wounds, how much am I projecting?. I told my person at the beginning of our relationship “ I am amazing, this is for you to lose if you choose to do so “. In that moment I realised it to be true, I surrendered control around their actions and my response to them. It allowed me to step down the vigilance that is so Scorpio. I have also acknowledged that I am in a place where nothing is guaranteed, I would rather experience love and the potential risk for heart break than miss the experience all together. Scorpios are amazing partners, our intensity is not for the faint of heart lol

@heureuse8568 9 ай бұрын

I'm Gemini, but one of the best relationships I had was with a Scorpio. And the sex was just amazing. Not kinky as many might think (not that I mind it), but slow and sensual. I felt so good, and I was very relaxed. In fact, these two zodiac are a disaster when it comes to relationship compatibility, but one of the best (if not the best) when it comes to sex. But I think the reason why I get along with Scorpios is because I'm a INFJ, which is the MBTI counterpart of a Scorpio (Gemini is ENFP).

@iris_143 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much....As a scorpion who is dealing with Sagittarius he says he loves me and after 2 weeks he said that i am just confused and said that i dont feel anything towards you. My heart broken and it physically hurts buz i trust him and i cant even get mad about it because he is a good guy and i know it. He said that he don't wanna talk with me anymore and he cut the call.. and you are right scorpion always want that control and i lost the control and i felt like i am dust and a nobody ....i just realised it after watching your video. I will definitely not let me down by this situation,i will work harder tham anything, i will win this race no matter what ...i will make my own success story

@Ifasiah 5 ай бұрын

You scorpios need to Stop controlling others yall ruin relationships doing that.

@Ifasiah 5 ай бұрын

Yall Scorpios need to stop controlling people yall ruin relationships doing that.

@embraceyourdragon 5 ай бұрын

He is not a good guy if he misled you about his feeling and was not responsible for what he've done. It was your love that made you see him as a good one. It is not about your control, you wanted to trust a person (and his words) to feel secure with him. I believe you feel much better now and living your best life without unresponsive blah blah man